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Pj Alpha Music Podcast

Pj Alpha Music Podcast

By Pablo J. Ruiz Vargas

My name is Pablo J. Ruiz Vargas and I am a pianist, composer, and entrepreneur. This podcast focused on the life of artists, musicians, comedians, life coach,es and personal development experiences. The language has no limit, what you hear is what you get.

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Episode #150 How to be a man from boy

Pj Alpha Music PodcastDec 07, 2021

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Episode #150 How to be a man from boy

Episode #150 How to be a man from boy

I will discuss some of the transitory actions that will make or transform you from a boy to a man. In my opinion, these conversations and inner understanding of the "journey" has continuously ended on this important hypothesis.


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Dec 07, 202116:30
Episode #149 Check your ego at the door

Episode #149 Check your ego at the door

"If someone tells you, "check your ego at the door," that means you should metaphorically leave your ego (your obsession with yourself and your own interests) as soon as you enter this building, in just the same way you might check a hat or an umbrella in the foyer."

To hear my opinion listen to this episode:

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Dec 06, 202113:27
Episode #148 How to gain complete control of your mind

Episode #148 How to gain complete control of your mind

Controlling your thought will always be a challenge. I have gotten through some exercises that helped me a long the way and I want to share with you. Hear the episode let me know what you think.


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Dec 05, 202114:51
Episode #147 Keeping things organized

Episode #147 Keeping things organized

There are great benefits to keeping things organized. The military practice these traits to keep their soldier well-disciplined and clean to receive orders. Here is my opinion on the topic and let me know.


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Dec 04, 202111:27
Episode #146 Stop being a kid as an Adult

Episode #146 Stop being a kid as an Adult

I am going to talk about the importance of moving on and getting to the new step in life. I mentioned some behaviors that might keep us as kids and stop us from becoming an Adult. Let me know what you think.


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Dec 02, 202114:53
Episode #145 The importance of working out

Episode #145 The importance of working out

I love to work out every week. Is one of my favorite hobbies and has contributed a lot to my life. I will discuss some of the benefits that has brought me to my life and why it is important to do so.


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Dec 01, 202113:39
Episode #144 The Beauty of faith
Nov 30, 202113:44
Episode #143 Leave it if you cannot control it

Episode #143 Leave it if you cannot control it

It is important for us to recognize when things are in our range. Sometimes we can be too hard in ourselves thinking that things matter more than we think, but in reality, the truth is otherwise. We tend to hold too much baggage on things that are not important or focus on the thing that has zero value in our lives, but we want to hold them like is the last bottle of water in a desert. hear my opinion and let me know what you think.


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Nov 29, 202114:05
Episode #142 Keep pushing forward

Episode #142 Keep pushing forward

Life is hard and we all know it. We can have bad circumstances and motion can be compromised and become static. It is important for us to recognize how to keep pushing forward and identify those metrics. Hear my opinion and let me know what you think.


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Nov 28, 202112:42
Episode #141 The importance of Culture

Episode #141 The importance of Culture

First, I want to say happy Thanksgiving to everyone. I want to share some of my thoughts on the importance of culture and where does it really make a difference. Hear my opinion on this topic.


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Nov 26, 202113:13
Episode #140 The shiny object syndrome

Episode #140 The shiny object syndrome

"Shiny object syndrome, also called "SOS" is a pop-cultural, psychological concept where people focus on a shiny, new object, in other words, whatever is most current, trendy, or the latest concept, regardless of how valuable or helpful it may ultimately be." Wikipedia


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Nov 25, 202114:06
Episode #139 Dealing with stress and anxiety

Episode #139 Dealing with stress and anxiety

We all have those moments when it seems like the world is going to collapse and we do not know what to do. I have been there, it is frightening and very uncomfortable. But there are always good things to learn from stress and anxiety that can help us see things differently. Hear my opinion and tell me what you think.


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Nov 24, 202114:42
Episode #138 Practicing piano late at night

Episode #138 Practicing piano late at night

I share my opinion of my late piano practice sessions. Also, what kind of repertoire I have been working on during these last couple of weeks.

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Nov 23, 202110:20
Episode #137 When there is no enemy within, the enemy outside can do you no harm

Episode #137 When there is no enemy within, the enemy outside can do you no harm

This is one of my favorite proverbs ever. Going back to my post-grad days remember listening to Les Brown Dropping geat nuggets, and one of those biggest was this one. "There is an African proverb that reads: “When there is no enemy within, the enemy outside can do you no harm.” When you refuse to allow any doubts in your own mind, then no doubts from others will ever cloud your judgment."


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Nov 22, 202115:03
Episode #136 Focusing is always a challenge

Episode #136 Focusing is always a challenge

I do not know guys but focusing has been one of my greatest struggles. Trying to finish tasks and other things always make my life full of challenges. Procrastination, laziness, and other variants are traits that I am continuously battling. Hear my opinion and tell me what you think.


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Nov 21, 202113:06
Episode #135 Rambling about stuff

Episode #135 Rambling about stuff

Since I had my baby with me in this podcast I needed to improvise. So I decided to Ramble through this one and see where the rabbit hole would take me.


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Nov 20, 202113:05
Episode #134 Knowing you Why

Episode #134 Knowing you Why

"Knowing your purpose in life helps you live life with integrity. People who know their purpose in life know who they are, what they are, and why they are. And when you know yourself, it becomes easier to live a life that's true to your core values." Quora


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Nov 19, 202114:33
Episode #133 Be the hero of your own movie

Episode #133 Be the hero of your own movie

The hero's journey, or the monomyth, is the common template of stories that involve a hero who goes on an adventure, is victorious in a decisive crisis and comes home changed or transformed. Listen to my opinion on the topic.


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Nov 18, 202114:18
Episode #132 Struggles never end

Episode #132 Struggles never end

Struggles are something that is part of us. No matter whether is addiction, trauma, bad experience we all go through some events that make us who we are. But can we win against the struggle? Listen to my opinion and see if you agree with me.


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Nov 17, 202114:30
Keep your chin up and move forward

Keep your chin up and move forward

Just giving some thoughts. Keep your chin up and move forward!

Nov 16, 202103:03
Episode #131 Educate yourself

Episode #131 Educate yourself

I am a huge fan of self-education. We are moving toward a new wave of coming back to the renaissance man and the hunger to learn new abilities. It is important to always grab a book and become a new person with new experiences. Here is my opinion on this podcast.


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Nov 15, 202115:08
Episode #130 Accountability is kryptonite

Episode #130 Accountability is kryptonite

Let's define what is  "Accountability, in terms of ethics and governance, is equated with answerability, blameworthiness, liability, and the expectation of account-giving. As in an aspect of governance, it has been central to discussions related to problems in the public sector, nonprofit and private and individual contexts." Wikipedia.

Accountability is very difficult to own. It requires a lot of self-study and understanding. More importantly when we have to admit our own imperfections.

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Nov 14, 202114:42
Episode #129 Peter pan syndrome relationships

Episode #129 Peter pan syndrome relationships


"If your partner has Peter Pan syndrome, you might get the impression they'd have a hard time making it in the world alone. Their dishes might pile up in the sink. They might avoid doing laundry until they have nothing clean to wear" Healthline.com


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Nov 13, 202117:38
Episode #128 Solve problems and stop talking about them

Episode #128 Solve problems and stop talking about them

Talking about problems is as easy to walk every day. We need solutions and more proactive action to solve the problems in our life. “I suppose it is tempting, if the only tool you have is a hammer, to treat everything as if it were a nail.”
Abraham Maslow, 


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Nov 12, 202114:31
Episode #127 The result of weak people

Episode #127 The result of weak people

Societies had collapsed because many reasons. Some people say it is because of laziness, economics, or even resources. but in reality, is it simpler than that. Weak people are one of the reasons society collapsed in every empire.  The result of weak people is a path to demise.


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Nov 11, 202114:15
Episode #126 Integrity really matters

Episode #126 Integrity really matters

Integrity is one of the traits of a great person that I try to implement every day. Not only on my action but in anything I get influenced by such as books, video, and audio.  Stay tuned and hear what I have to say about whether Integrity really matters in today's world.


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Nov 10, 202115:13
Sharing some thoughts

Sharing some thoughts

Just sharing some thoughts for those out here!

Nov 09, 202106:07
Episode #125 When does the inner conflict end?

Episode #125 When does the inner conflict end?

When does the inner conflict end? You may ask or wonder when my inner demons are going to stop controlling me or manipulate my thoughts. This is a question that we all ask and even myself struggle to understand. Listen to my opinion about this question and tell me if you agree.


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Nov 08, 202115:52
Episode #124 Do not lie

Episode #124 Do not lie

The worst trait of a human is a lie. This can destroy relationships, families, and worst yourself. It could become an addiction that can create an imaginary world that one can only see. 


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Nov 07, 202115:50
Episode #123 Be a renaissance man
Nov 06, 202113:45
Episode #122 Why congruence behavior is important

Episode #122 Why congruence behavior is important

Behavior matter and authenticity matter more. Did you wonder sometimes why people that do not follow their own advice enjoy giving the most devices? Crazy, right? People like to act in a such way that they do not need to work on themself. Their behaviors and manner do not match what they do or think. I will talk about Why congruence behavior is important.


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Nov 05, 202115:33
Episode #121 Learn to force yourself to move forward

Episode #121 Learn to force yourself to move forward

 I was listening to Joe Rogan and the topic of forcing yourself to do things came up. I think He was talking about David Goggin about his approach to things connected to the mind. The topic was brought up and I wanted to put my 2 senses. 


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Nov 04, 202116:11
Episode #120 Do not be yourself, become yourself
Nov 03, 202113:09
Episode #119 Become courageous and fearless

Episode #119 Become courageous and fearless


I know, it does feel scary when you think about it.  Becoming courageous and fearless is a sacrifice that we must do to undo our bad decisions and the Matrix that we have been told.  The pain that comes from it will be a short pain but not for the long run.


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Nov 02, 202118:03
Quick Anouncement!

Quick Anouncement!

Happy Holloween! I am going to discuss a quick overview of the future of the Pjalphamusic brand.

Nov 01, 202103:03
Episode #118 The inner game

Episode #118 The inner game

Inner game is basically the cornerstone of your mindset. You don't achieve your goals in life by sitting on the sidelines and just enough to get by. This is will end up in total failure. Success is the result of continuous effort and hard work. I believe that a successful life is available to everyone.


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Oct 31, 202118:19
Episode #117 Love by truth and not emotions
Oct 30, 202115:26
Episode #116 You must endure hardship

Episode #116 You must endure hardship

One of the hardest things to endure is a hardship. It is painful, uncomfortable, and disgusting if you ask me about it, but is it? It is all how you perceive it at the end of each experience, but we all agree that you must endure each of those experiences. Life is hard by itself and we need to become tough to get through it.


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Oct 29, 202119:25
Episode #115 Control what you can control now

Episode #115 Control what you can control now

We might do things that drain our emotional state by activities that are out of our reach. The world seems loaded with huge, way-of-life-altering events and power struggles that have one thing in common — they seem hopelessly, emphatically out of our control. But it could start from what we focus on and how close we can control it.


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Oct 28, 202118:49
Episode #114 Pleasing is not a good thing

Episode #114 Pleasing is not a good thing

Have you ever thought about why people are not respecting you? Why nobody is taking you seriously? Or even not being in their first set of priorities?

Pleasing is a very weak thing to do in your daily life. You will be surprised how much pleaser behavior you have you and it might affect how you interact with people.


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Oct 27, 202119:24
Episode #113 Handling Negative Employees

Episode #113 Handling Negative Employees

Negative people are everywhere. I know the place that you work in can be very negative and bad. You are not the only one and even if you are the employer you still have to deal with bad employees. 

Negative people are a natural behavior in us as humans and we need to acknowledge them as such thing. Here are some ways you can deal with people like this.

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Oct 26, 202120:07
Episode #112 Cultivating humility

Episode #112 Cultivating humility

Humility is a wonderful thing. A great way to check ourselves and behaviors when we interact with friends, family, and new people every day. Humility sound like a very negative quality. It could be practiced by great religious leaders and famous succesful individuals. But again, do not get caught up in being too nice.


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Oct 25, 202119:52
Episodes #111 Stop doubting yourself and make it happen

Episodes #111 Stop doubting yourself and make it happen

It is time to get that inner will and make things happen. Close your monkey voices in your mind and do not let them determine your daily decisions. This is one life and one life only to make it happen!


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Oct 24, 202119:56
Episode #110 Mistakes are good for learning

Episode #110 Mistakes are good for learning

Mistakes are important for our daily lives. They teach the great opportunities to learn and improve our lives. Compared to a mistake like your walking teacher where feedbacks are constant, but never ends. I know, that sounds kind of weird and anxious, but it is the best explanation as a metaphor I can think of. When learning something new, there are instances where trial and error helps rather than hinders, and that mistakes are.


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Oct 23, 202118:37
Episode #109 What is enlightenment definition

Episode #109 What is enlightenment definition

Enlightenment is a European intellectual movement of the late 17th and 18th centuries emphasizing reason and individualism rather than tradition. It was heavily influenced by 17th-century philosophers such as Descartes, Locke, and Newton, and its prominent exponents include Kant, Goethe, Voltaire, Rousseau, and Adam Smith. 

But in today's episode, we are going to focus on how it has changed from his original definition.


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Oct 22, 202119:09
Episode #108 what is truth?

Episode #108 what is truth?

Truth is not subjective and not negotiable. It could be a task that will require courage but it is worth it. As you know the truth, freedom will come.

John 19 For this cause I was born, and for this, cause I have come into the world, that I should bear witness to the truth. Everyone who is of the truth hears My voice.” 


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Oct 21, 202119:19
Episode #107 life is about making choices

Episode #107 life is about making choices

Life starts and ends with choices. From the moment you wake up to the time you go back to bed, choices are been selected in other to go through your day. "A choice is the range of different things from which a being can choose. The arrival at a choice may incorporate motivators and models. For example, a traveler might choose a route for a journey based on the preference of arriving at a given destination at a specified time." Wikipedia


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Oct 20, 202118:08
Episode #106 leading by example and not fear

Episode #106 leading by example and not fear

Leading is a concept that has been around for centuries. It's hardwired in our brain to be followers and end up being a leader in the end. But we a great power comes great responsibility, though. You can be either a leader with courage or one that leads with fear.


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Oct 19, 202118:49
Episode #105 Should you keep your word

Episode #105 Should you keep your word

I have been thinking about new ways to understand confidence and great ways to improve myself.  Even when people are not looking at me, can I keep my word? Here are some thoughts from google:

"Failing to keep our word communicates our values and standards. It also communicates if we value others. Every time we don't keep our word, it affects us and also affects how others perceive us. If we want to improve our self-image and self-esteem, becoming a person who keeps their word is essential."


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Oct 18, 202119:15
Episode #104 The Peter Pan effect

Episode #104 The Peter Pan effect

A new phenomenon is being poping arround the western world, the adult kids. Here a definition of  "the peter pan effect or syndrome", 

Wikipedia Peter Pan syndrome is a metaphor, based on the concept of not growing up, and being trapped in childhood. It is not a recognized mental health illness. The phrase has also been used to describe companies that avoid progressive technologies and remain small.


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Oct 17, 202119:46