Wedding Planning Collective

If you're engaged, you've likely had the thought that you're forgetting something when it comes to the wedding. It's a common feeling, I refer to it as FOWO (Fear of Wedding Oversight)

Today I’m sharing my conversation with Juls Delmar, a Wedding Content Creator and founder of Day Of by Juls.  I really think that we’re going to see more and more content creators, and thought this would be the perfect opportunity for us to discuss what it is, and certain things you need to look for when hiring a content creator for your wedding. 

I'm excited to share that we'll be adding a second weekly podcast episode, because there's never too much wedding talk!

Today I'm sharing my conversation with Bridal Personal Trainer Stephanie Thomas. Stephanie offers online fitness programs to help brides feel confident in themselves by offering premium wedding fitness, bride training and nutrition coaching programs so you can eliminate self-doubt and insecurity. 

We discuss some of the most common mistakes brides make when when it comes to creating a fitness plan, and of course, some of her best tips for longterm success! Let’s get right to it!

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Not to be dramatic, but one of the most important components to a successful wedding day is having a REALISTIC timeline in place.  You’ve likely been to a wedding, or maybe even been in the wedding party, for a wedding where everything was running behind from the very beginning.  Or worse yet, got up at 5am for hair and makeup, just to sit around for hours waiting for everything to get started.  

Check out today's episode on the 7 Common Wedding Timeline Mistakes couples make, and sleep peacefully again knowing you're not going to make them!

On April 2nd, I’m hosting workshop on creating your wedding timeline, and I would LOVE for you to join!  We’ll start with going over the main questions that you need answers to before creating your timeline, and then I’ll walk you through the exact timeline process that I’ve perfected over the last 20 years.  I’ll also be answering your specific questions live, so we can discuss any unique details for your timeline, and answer any questions you might have. 

In today's episode, I'm going to give my take on the Day Of Coordination debate!

Not sure what I'm talking about? Take a listen and find out :)

Most couples will have the conversation about whether or not to do a "first look" on their wedding day or not.  In today's episode I chat about what a first look is, and why I think they are the best! :) 

In today's episode we're talking about engagement photos!  Do you need to take engagement photos?  Who takes engagement photo? And outside of having the photos to use for save the dates, what's the hidden reason I highly recommend you have an engagement photo session! 

What's the general timeline for planning a wedding, and how long do you need anyway?  In today's episode, I'll answer those questions, and breakdown how you make those 12 month planning checklists work for your timeframe!

The wedding budget can be one of the most stressful components of wedding planning, and there are several common mistakes that many couples make. Listen to today's episode to learn more about the 15 most common budget mistakes, so you make sure you don't make them!

Welcome to the Wedding Planning Collective Podcast! In today's episode, we're diving deep into the world of backyard weddings, exploring the ins and outs of planning an intimate celebration that's as unique as you are.

Many couples struggle with the idea of creating their wedding design. In today's episode, I'm going to discuss how you figure out what your wedding style or inspiration is, and how it all comes together.

Discover your wedding venue priorities and avoid common mistakes. Learn how to choose between traditional banquet halls, unique venues, or backyard weddings.

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Do you know the major mistakes many couples make while planning their weddings that is costing them a fortune?  Today we're going through them to make sure that you don't fall victim to them!

Engagement season is here, which means lots of newly engaged couples trying to figure out how TF you actually plan a wedding!

If you are newly engaged and just finding the podcast, CONGRATULATIONS!  It’s such an exciting time, and likely something you’ve been looking forward to for a long time. 

Most couples have at least one or two wedding planning boards on Pinterest, but it can be very overwhelming! In today's episode, I'm going to outline the important things you need to know about searching for wedding inspiration on Pinterest!

No matter how much time, money, and effort you put into your wedding day, it's inevitable that something will go off plan. In this episode, we'll talk about ways to handle the wedding day curveballs, so the unexpected doesn't ruin your day.

Planning your honeymoon or destination wedding can be one of the most fun parts of wedding planning, but where do you even begin? In today's episode, I share with you the first steps in honeymoon planning, some of my favorite Caribbean options, and tips if you're thinking of having a destination wedding.

For some couples, deciding on who will be in your wedding party is straightforward, but for others, it's a harder task to tackle. In today's episode, I go over six things to consider before formally asking your wedding party to be a part of your day.

When it comes to planning a wedding, is there really such a thing as overthinking? Maybe not, but it can really make the planning process more stressful than necessary. In today's episode, I'm going to share the six common areas I see couples getting stuck in the overthinking hamster wheel, so you can avoid the trap.

Welcome back to another episode of the Wedding Planning Collective Podcast! While most of our episodes dive into the details of wedding planning, today's topic is something that often gets overlooked: the post-wedding blues.

Episode Highlights:

• Defining the Post Wedding Blues: The weeks following the wedding can bring about unexpected feelings of sadness, anxiety, and disappointment. It's a natural response given the intense focus on wedding preparations.
• From Highs to Lows: Couples often experience a dramatic drop in dopamine levels after the wedding, which can lead to feelings of loneliness and anxiety.
• Separating Emotions: It's crucial to differentiate between these post-wedding emotions and potential unhappiness with the marriage itself.

10 Ways to Combat the Post Wedding Blues:

1. Embrace the Moment: Amidst the whirlwind, take moments to pause and savor the day's happiness and love.
2. Let Go of Perfection: Minor hiccups are inevitable; don't let them overshadow the overall joy of the day.
3. Adapting to Changes: Unexpected events like weather disruptions can become unique memories if approached with flexibility.
4. Delayed Honeymoon: Consider a "mini-moon" immediately after the wedding and save the major trip for later; this anticipation offsets post-wedding blues.
5. Guest-Shared Memories: Encourage guests to share their photos, providing visual memories while waiting for professional pictures.
6. Create New Routines: Use newfound time and resources to explore shared hobbies, classes, or local activities.
7. Pursue New Goals: Leverage the wedding's planning experience to tackle personal ambitions or projects you've been postponing.
8. Stay Involved: Continue engaging with wedding planning communities or even explore assisting local wedding planners.
9. Open Communication: Don't hide post-wedding blues from your spouse; discussing these emotions together fosters understanding and support.
10. Prioritize Mental Health: If anxiety or depression are concerns, seek therapy beforehand; established support systems ease the transition.

Conclusion: Remember, the post-wedding blues are a common and valid experience. By acknowledging and addressing these feelings together, you and your partner can strengthen your bond during this transitional phase.

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Every couple needs to have a wedding day emergency kit on hand for those unpredictable things that come up. In today's episode, I'm going to share with you what items we keep stocked in FatMax, our emergency kit, as well as what must have items you need to have with you. And you can find the full list referenced at PlanningCollective.com/emergencykit

When it comes to your wedding cake, I’d bet most of your thought has gone into the design and flavors, right?  But there are some other logistical details you’ll need to keep in mind when it comes to the wedding cake, and I’m guessing you haven’t thought of them yet.  Get the info you need in this episode! 

It's prime wedding season, so I wanted to take the opportunity to revisit a question that gets asked all the time. As the wedding day approaches, you'll likely wonder if you need to plan on tipping any of your vendors. In this episode, I'm going to break it down for you, including how much you should tip your wedding vendors, and alternatives to cash tips.  

While every couple dreams of an unlimited wedding budget, it's unfortunately not a reality for most. So how do you talk about how much your family is able to contribute to the wedding budget? I share my tips for you in this episode!

Amazon Prime Day is coming on July 11 & 12, and I wanted to share with you the wedding items I think you should be looking to grab while on sale!

There's not doubt that planning a wedding can be stressful, but how do you knock that stress level down as the wedding date gets closer?

In today's episode, I share 10 tips to help keep the stress in check on your wedding day.

AI technology has been changing how we do things, and it's no different for the wedding industry. In today's episode, I'm going to share the newest tool available that uses the AI technology combined with true wedding planning experience and advice.

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Have you been wondering what you need to include on your wedding website? Or maybe how you can ask for cash instead of other gifts for your wedding? Today's podcast episode is going to cover all the wedding website and wedding registry questions you have.

Are you trying to decide if you should have favors at your wedding? In todays episode of the Wedding Planning Collective Podcast, I share tips on what items make the best wedding favors, some things to avoid, and other tricks to make the most of your favor budget!

No one goes unscathed when it comes to wedding anxiety, and in today's episode we're diving in to ways to keep the anxiety in check as you're planning the wedding and on the big day itself.  Don't let it become a runaway train, it's so easy to do! 

Some wedding traditions are great, but there are others that you can skip when it comes to your wedding.  Today's episode covers 5 (and a half) traditions you can skip, and still have your dream wedding! 

Just about every couple is looking for ways to save money while planning their weddings.  In this episode, I share six quick things you can do, for skip doing, to help save your wedding budget.  

In today's episode I share the details you need to know about hotel blocks for your wedding!  You'll also get tips on what to look for in your contracts, and common mistakes you don't want to make! 

In today's episode, we cover some of the top wedding planning questions I see asked in Facebook groups and other wedding planning forums.  Topics include: 

• How to choose your wedding date? 
• When do you send out save the dates? 
• Do you need wedding hotel blocks? 
• Do we need a wedding hashtag? 
• What's the best source for your wedding website and checklists?

Today's episode it all about saving you some money this holiday season!  If you haven't started your Black Friday shopping list for your wedding yet, this is your reminder to start!  Grab a pen and paper or your notes app, and let's go over some of the best Black Friday deals for your wedding! 

Have you been thinking of taking advantage of a long holiday weekend for your wedding?  It can be a great idea, but there are some things to keep in mind before booking the date.  Take a listen to today's episode to learn more about the pros and cons of having a holiday wedding! 

In today's episode, we're discussing the very first step in wedding planning, and that's the proposal!  If you're planning on proposing over the holiday's, or maybe your partner needs some tips, this is the episode for you!  

Many couples opt for a backyard wedding thinking that it will be easier and cheaper than a more traditional venue.  While it certainly can be cheaper, it typically requires a lot more work on your end to pull it all together.

In todays episode I go over the unique things that you need to consider when planning a backyard wedding, or a wedding at a space in which you need to bring in all the set up details.

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In today's episode, I outline the 5 main categories to look for in your vendor contracts, as well as some other helpful tips to save you stress as the wedding day gets closer! 

Today’s episode is going to be a bit of rewind, but I know you’re going to love it. When looking into topics for this new season of the podcast, I kept coming back to how important the concept I discuss here is, and I wanted to make sure it doesn’t get lost with the new episodes coming.

Originally titled “Don’t Plan Your Wedding Backwards”, I discuss a super common question that couples ask that can seriously increase their wedding budget, and I’m betting it’s something you’ve asked in the past yourself. So please take a listen, and make sure to share this episode every time you see someone ask this question in the future!