Points of Perspective

This episode is about the discussion about Self centered people. I speak on the definition of Self centeredness, the 7 ways people are self centered, and my personal take on how I feel about people who have this habit. I do express that we all have a little bit of self centeredness a little bit depending on the situation, so I refer to people who are this way ALL the time. 

I'm basically letting you know that I am coming back to Podcasting! I'll slowly be making my return, but what I plan on discussing in the future will be sociology type of topics. "the relationship between culture and society, examining social movements, or researching how communication affects human behavior" I've expressed that discussions will be about friendships, relationships, social norms and extremes (Not verbatim) but I'd also like to include that there will also be topics about the mental health aspect, trending situations we could take examples from, and how things may not work in our favor if we're too biased towards situations. 

On this episode, I'm giving people my opinion on why I feel people shouldn't be perfect, or people pleasers. 

This episode is influenced based off a video I've ran across on facebook of a video I've seen of a man breaking up with his girlfriend over her lying to him about the reason why she took a trip to Atlanta. I'm giving my take if his action is based off of him breaking up with her off of his insecurities, or his morals and principles. 

Many people lately have been making blogs and videos explaining that the friend zone doesn't exist, which is confusing to me when we can define what the friend zone is, and many of us have experienced it, and seen other people go through it. In this episode, I speak on my perspective on what I feel the friend zone is, the examples, and how I feel it is confusing for some to think that it doesn't exist, but yet can define what it is.

It's all in the title. I'm also mentioning a little bit of the stress people can have by walking on egg shells by choosing to not be able to express themselves.

I've been gone for too long (since 2019), and now the long break is over! I'm getting my feet wet! So I'm basically releasing this small episode of just a brief talk on why I've been gone, and how I want to come back to Podcasting. I've told myself that once April hits, I'll make an episode no matter what, and start from there, and once I again, I want to remain consistent. 

Hello Everyone! I want my listeners to know that in this episode, my nephew and I was just chilling and talking. We did this episode off of a whim.  It's more laid back, and excuse Kahj for being under the weather, but we wanted to bond by just talking about whatever came up.

I'm discussing how I'm upset at the fact that there's an abortion ban in the state of alabama, and that they're trying to outlaw abortions over all. My thoughts go out towards the people whom are victims of sexual assaults, and ends up pregnant out of it. I pray and hope that this isn't the case for the victims, but I don't see any information stating otherwise. So I'm expressing my thoughts of the subject as Alex Magee. I am about pro choice, and pro life. Pro choice of people living their best life, stress and depression free, and my definition of Pro life is living also living their best life that they can live, with the choices that people want to live that doesn't cause harm to anyone else.

Simply put, there's too many people that feels as if they don't have to match the energy they want from others. To some, life is a one way street. In this episode, I'm discussing the flaws of how treating others like crap, doesn't give most people good outcomes. 

My whole moral of this topic, is to show that there are a few ways to approach this subject. Not one way is the right way, or the best way. It depends on who you are, and it depends on what you want to accept, or not accept. Your over all boundaries. This episode, I'm speaking about the different perspectives when it comes to having a best friend of the opposite sex, and how some people find conflictions with it, and those who don't... and even people who are in between.  I also speak about how we shouldn't be too harsh on a person's opinions when it comes to how they feel about their significant other having a BFF of the opposite sex. 

In this episode, I'm expressing my perspectives on how some people gender blame when it comes to relationships, and using examples. When it comes to Memes, online discussions, and even among friends at an outing, We're used to hearing a lot of men saying, "women are all...." fill in the blank... and women say, "All men ain't S%@%", and it's usually over 1 terrible experiences, possibly more. I'm attempted to break that barrier down by announcing that gender blaming is bad, and at times even toxic... and at the same time, we need to open our eyes a little cause there are three cases. One, a person definitely do wrong, but blame the individual, and not their sex. Two, maybe there's wasn't compatibility. Three, maybe the issue wasn't the person you was with. Sometimes we don't reflect, and we could be the issue. Sometimes, we're just biased. I want to spread this message because gender blaming is ultimately toxic, and it can lower the potential of us finding happiness when it comes to companionship.... cause no one wants a negative nancy. 

In this episode, I'm expressing how important it is to understand how "like attracts like" exist. It's the reason why friendships are formed. I also express my huge point of views of the pro and cons of the quote, "birds of a feather flock together", and how we need to understand that it isn't the case for every single person, group/crew... but people are connected by having, or doing things in common with each other. We just need to understand why, instead of making the quick assumptions of people sharing bad habits and/or flaws, but i also pointed out on why I understand how a few people come up with the assumption, especially if some habits are knowingly condoned. 

"Don't judge another person just because they sin differently than you do". I'm speaking about how we should calm down as people, judging people openly and how we should be more humble. The results are night and day. Being more humble gives us more positive feedback, while being Judgemental openly, can be more negative.

Jealousy is a little healthy... and some people can use it for motivation, but we have to be careful to not have too much jealousy. Don't confuse it with Envy. Envy is the drunken, toxic sibling of jealousy. In this episode, I'm discussing jealousy we can have with friends or strangers... and then jealousy we can have in a relationship. Possessiveness, can be toxic. Especially if it's one-sided, and not being met with mutual actions. 

This episode is me talking about Shame, and a couple of different types. Shame when it comes to ourselves, and people who tries to place blame on us. It's very hard for us to recover from shame, and it effects us very deeply. We feel regret, dishonor, embarrassed.. ect. We can even have shame in my hearts even due to guilt. So I'm expressing how it effects us, the possibilities, and even how it can effect our Limbic section of our brain... the Amygdala. 

I'm speaking a whole lot about dealing with people who uses Fabrications, and fictions in discussions to prove points. Speaking about things they're unsure of, and inserting other things they're unsure of into the topic, but then telling you to do research, or trying to correct what you've learned from research. I used Dr. Sebi's (R.I.P) teachings for an example, how many will only project what they know from Memes, instead of taking their time in learning. Plus more examples. 

About me, how my perspectives should be projected... basically tired of dubbing myself down to please others. 

In this episode, I talk about dealing with fake love with friends, and fake love while in a relationship. How both of them can be a burden. Dealing with fake friends, or being a fake friend, can be such a burden and drain us from our energy. It's always best to just find people we can be compatible with. So I'm expressing some of my past experiences when it comes to fake love. With the fake relationship, I even get deep into one of my past relationships which caused me the curiosity to... uh oh... snoop! I want my listeners to connect with me more on a personal level with this subject, so i'm giving my perspectives on a personal level, and not an observational one.

I'm speaking about people selectively being aware of things. Hearing the same thing from two different people, but may favor hearing it from a stranger (Or celebrity figure), than a friend. Then I close on why I disagree so strongly with the term woke, in detail, and stating that it'll be my last time addressing it during a solo episode.

I'm explaining what Ad Hominem is, and giving examples. Verbally attacking people during a discussion, instead of their ideas. 

I speak a tiny bit about the recent uproar of Kodack Black's comment towards Lauren, and then I get into the topic of speaking about thirsty people when it comes to them constantly.... unleashing their whole clip, instead of just shooting their shot. Don't just accept anyone's friendrequest! 

In this episode, I'm discussing the topic of trust again! When it comes to friends, relationships, and how it shouldn't be an automatic thing. I'm also speaking about how we shouldn't trust everything we read from the media, and how we should learn on how to do a little research, other than he say... and use Empire's Jussie Smollett's as an example. Then I'm speaking about loyalty, what people may expect from it, and how it can be viewed differently based on someone's persona. Then the last topic, is about me speaking about people changing definition of words to support their view. You gotta listen to hear my example.

This episode is partly about my transition from thoughts to mic, over to Points of Perspective. I get into a point of how i was sounding a certain way, and now I want to sound more like myself, along with still expressing creativity, but being laid back at the same time. Conversing with you all, though it is more one sided since it's just me talking. I also speak about having the anchor app on your cellphones to be able to podcast too, and to be able to directly send me messages if you ever wanted to be on an episode with me.  I speak of how Podcasting can be a huge range of what a show, or episode are about.

Then I start speaking about different social media characters: People who only express themselves with memes, some people who speak about all their business but are quick to tell others, "you don't know me",  some people who contradict (Doing what they say people shouldn't do), and people who are huge Conspiracy theorist and having no logical reason why they have that theory. At the end, I have a long segment with the intent of motivating people to do their own Podcasting, and how easy it can be to do it just using an app on their cellphone.

In this episode, I'm expressing the good qualities about having positivity in our lives, and the bad ones if we don't have any positivity. I even touch a little bit on my spirituality, and how positivity is something that I aim for. 

Testing to see how this short episode comes out by doing it solely on the Anchor website.

During this episode, i speak about my experiences with Diabetes, ketoacidosis, and what I've done to overcome the disease... weight loss surgery. 

On this episode, I really try to express myself on my definition of dehumanization. How it can effect people, my personal experience, and how social media self help "gurus", can accidentally, or purposely uses it to uplift people, and how it can be looked at as a negative.