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Ponderings across the Pond

Ponderings across the Pond

By James and Christelle

A conversation with James and Christelle, on healing, humour, faith and growth
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Ponderings across the Pond Episode 1

Ponderings across the PondFeb 08, 2021

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What is fun? Episode 19

What is fun? Episode 19

What is fun? and what is the most fun thing you have ever done? 

In this fun episode: James and Christelle talk about their experiences of fun, why can sometimes feel difficult to have it! 

Thank you for listening! 

Aug 15, 202125:00
Can your Enneagram Number change? Episode 18

Can your Enneagram Number change? Episode 18

After a revelation that her Enneagram number changed recently James and Christelle talk about how the Enneagram has been a useful tool for them in their self awareness journey. 

A short one this week after last weeks interview with Christina - 

Thank you for listening! 

Do send us comments and subscribe - thank you 

Aug 04, 202115:48
The Shame of leaving Domestic Violence; An Interview with Christina Ann; Episode 17

The Shame of leaving Domestic Violence; An Interview with Christina Ann; Episode 17

For the first time telling with James and Christelle, mother of 3 boys and successful business woman Christina Ann shares her story of fleeing Domestic Violence. 

We discuss Shame, Fear and Guilt, about the anxiety of sharing our stories of abuse and the steps taken to heal. 

Please do subscribe for more episodes and support our work via KO-FI at Ko-fi.com/Jamesballantyne Thank you


Jul 30, 202144:10
'What do people Want and Need?' Episode 16

'What do people Want and Need?' Episode 16

In this Episode James and Christelle have a conversation about 'What do people need?' and how this is an important question for individuals, couples and also for organisations and charities working in communities. 

Jul 21, 202127:19
Messy Healing: An interview with April Kling Meyer: Episode 15

Messy Healing: An interview with April Kling Meyer: Episode 15

In this episode James and Christelle reflect on their recent interview with April Kling Meyer, which can be viewed in full on you tube here: https://youtu.be/YCWsCReJnWg

We talk perfectionism and creativity as well as developing safe space for the inner child. 

Please do support our work on Ko-FI: https://ko-fi.com/jamesballantyne

April can be contacted and please do support her here: https://www.patreon.com/aprilklingmeyer

Jun 28, 202140:52
CREATIVITY HEALS : Episode 14

CREATIVITY HEALS : Episode 14

How might reconnecting with our creative side aid us in healing from Trauma?  

In Episode 14 of Ponderings across the pond, James and Christelle share how creativity, art, painting and drawing has enabled them to heal, and reveal to them areas of their lives to heal from.  

Recovery of your Inner child is here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Recovery-Your-Inner-Child-Liberating/dp/0671701355/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=capacchione&qid=1621187409&sr=8-1  

Supernatural creativity is here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Supernatural-Creativity-Creating-Restorative-Impact/dp/1733724818/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=supernatural+creativity&qid=1621187454&sr=8-1 


#healing #trauma #creativity

May 16, 202132:17
Episode 13: Announcement from the Ponderers

Episode 13: Announcement from the Ponderers

James and Christelle have an announcement!  

Do have a listen to discover, here's a short update from them  

We just wanted to thank you for watching and sharing the 12 Episodes so far!   

Please do LIKE and SUBSCRIBE  

Blogs we mention are:  www.christellelerryn.com  www.appropriateacting.wordpress.com   

YOU CAN NOW FOLLOW US ON  INSTAGRAM: instagram.com/ponderingsacrosspond FB; fb.com/ponderingsacrossthepond  Support us on Ko-FI : Ko-fi.com/Jamesballantyne  Thank you!  (oh yes and like if you like sprouts!, share if you hate them..)

(Episode 12 was on youtube only.. we know we skipped one!)

Apr 26, 202112:19
Episode 11: James' Healing Story

Episode 11: James' Healing Story

In his first public interview, James shares some of his healing journey, from the first steps of self awareness, to recognising the emotional abuse he experienced in childhood. He talks about the recover of his inner child, and what he needed to hear to heal.   

To read more of his story it is available on his blog www.appropriateacting.wordpress.com  

#narcissism #therapy #healing #parentalabuse #emotionalabuse

Apr 15, 202136:41
Episode 10: Our LDR - An Introduction

Episode 10: Our LDR - An Introduction

In this Episode James and Christelle respond to 5 frequently asked questions about their Long Distance Relationship

Thank you for listening! 

#LDR #Covid #travel



Apr 09, 202125:13
Episode 9; A Guest Interview with Podcaster and Author Jenni Osborn

Episode 9; A Guest Interview with Podcaster and Author Jenni Osborn

Jenni shares with James and Christelle her writing journey, life during Covid and also details of an upcoming project to help young people respond emotionally to the pandemic. #covidcatharsis

For more details of the project go to jenniosborn.org or qawah.co.uk - especially if you are a youth worker and want to get involved. 

Mar 31, 202137:41
IS GENERATION X HEALING FROM BABY BOOMER PARENTS? ; Episode 8, Ponderings From Across the Pond

IS GENERATION X HEALING FROM BABY BOOMER PARENTS? ; Episode 8, Ponderings From Across the Pond

Are Generation X adults undergoing a collective healing from Baby Boomer parents?   

Open question..What are your thoughts?  

Being part of this conversation may help us realise that we're not alone.   

Do also check out resources on this issue, and a blog at https://wp.me/P3f615-H 

#abuse #generationX #domesticviolence #trauma #mentalhealth #narcissism #therapy

Mar 18, 202112:20
Happiness: Is it possible? Ponderings Across the Pond: Episode 7

Happiness: Is it possible? Ponderings Across the Pond: Episode 7

Might Happiness be a counter cultural revolution?   Why are we more comfortable talking about pain than joy?  We don't have the answer, but we're willing to encourage the conversation.  

This Episode is inspired by the latest video from YES THEORY, you can find the link here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TWRlPKMAkRk   

To contact Christelle go to www.christellelerryn.com 

To contact James go to www.appropriateacting.wordpress.com

Mar 12, 202123:46
Episode 6: Christelle and ADHD (Part 2)

Episode 6: Christelle and ADHD (Part 2)

Christelle was diagnosed with ADHD as an adult. In this episode she shares part 2 of her story where we discuss time, medication, misconceptions and perhaps a nod to LOTRs :)


Mar 09, 202121:47
Ep 5: Adult diagnosed ADHD, Christelle shares her story (part 1)
Mar 05, 202119:12
UK vs USA Who says it best?

UK vs USA Who says it best?

In a lighter episode than previous, James and Christelle explore some of the differences between UK and USA in regard to language, specifically regarding food... 

Feb 27, 202124:40
Ponderings from across the Pond Ep 3: The fight for our feelings (Part 2)
Feb 21, 202129:08
Ponderings across the Pond 2: The Fight for our feelings

Ponderings across the Pond 2: The Fight for our feelings

In this Episode, James and Christelle actually try and answer the question they didn't answer in episode 1 ; Who are you? , In a long conversation in which they kept the video running, they discuss feelings, emotions and who we are as humans.   We would love to hear comments and do suggest questions and themes for future episodes  Thank you for watching!  For more on the themes we talk about, do have look at our blogs : www.christellelerryn.com or www.appropriateacting.wordpress.com (James)

Feb 15, 202134:12
Ponderings across the Pond Episode 1

Ponderings across the Pond Episode 1

James is from Hartlepool, UK, Christelle is from San Diego, they invite you on their journey through conversations on humour, depth, growth and healing. 

In this first episode James and Christelle introduce themselves and what to expect in future episodes

You can find us on You Tube : https://youtu.be/Sa4NKG4fYS0

And blogs Christelle : www.christellelerryn.com and James at www.appropriateacting.wordpress.com 

Feb 08, 202114:59