Positive Impact with Andrew Schultz
By Andrew Schultz
Positive Impact with Andrew SchultzMay 30, 2020
#167: "Redefining Sobriety: The Pink 7 Official Revolution"
Title: "Redefining Sobriety: The Pink 7 Official Revolution"
Summary:
In the heart of the sober movement, Pink 7 Official emerges as a trailblazing lifestyle brand, championing a culture where sobriety isn't just accepted—it's celebrated.
Founders Madison and Brandon take us behind the scenes of their personal journey and the genesis of Pink 7 Official, a brand that’s more than its products—it's a community.
They share insights into the brand's mission to destigmatize sobriety and transform it into a lifestyle choice that's not only respected but regarded as cool.
Through their events, Madison and Brandon have created a sanctuary for those curious about sobriety and those who have embraced a sober life, fostering connections, support, and shared experiences.
The podcast delves deep into the transformative impact of Pink 7 Official's events and the ethos of the brand. It's a candid look at how a community can uplift individuals, providing a space for personal growth, self-acceptance, and a fulfilling life free from the influence of drugs and alcohol.
Madison and Brandon's stories are not just narratives of personal triumph but a call to action for anyone on the fence about sobriety, offering a fresh perspective on what it means to live sober.
Key Takeaways:
- 🌟 Leading the Sober Movement: Pink 7 Official is pioneering a lifestyle brand that's changing how society views sobriety.
- 💖 Community & Connection: At the core of sobriety is the power of community—Pink 7 Official's events are where connections are made and stories are shared.
- 🚀 Making Sobriety Cool: It's not just about being sober; it's about being proud of it. Pink 7 Official is on a mission to shift the stigma and make sobriety the new cool.
- ✨ Personal Growth & Fulfillment: Sobriety is a path to self-discovery, acceptance, and living a life rich with possibilities—sans alcohol and drugs.
- 📢 Join the Movement: Whether you're sober curious or have been sober for years, Pink 7 Official welcomes you to be a part of their inclusive community.
Dive into the podcast to hear the inspiring journey of Pink 7 Official and how it’s creating waves in the sober community. Join the movement and be part of the change!
https://pink7.com Discount: ANDREWSCHULTZ for 10% discount.
You can also follow @pink7offical on IG.
#166: How to Overcome Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
Are you one of the millions of people who struggle with the "winter blues?"
Do you want to better understand the physiological symptoms of SAD?
Most importantly, do you want to learn tools, practices, and habits to empower you to take responsibility for your health, wellness, and happiness during these winter months?
Then buckle up and listen in my friends!
Vitamin D Supplement referenced: Quicksilver Scientific D3K2
#165: Creating a Compelling Vision For 2024
If we keep doing what we've always done, we'll keep getting what we've always gotten.
Nothing changes if nothing changes.
In this episode, Andrew empowers you with self-reflection journaling prompts and deep questions to ask to help you create a compelling vision for 2024 and a life of maximum success, significance, and fulfillment.
I truly believe 2024 will be the best year ever!
I believe in you.
And I'm rooting for you!
To listen to full episode, or to schedule a 30-minute connection call with Andrew, click the link in bio or link below.
linktr.ee/PositiveImpactAndrew
#PositiveImpact #PositiveImpactPodcast #Vision2024 #Transformation #BeTheChange #SelfDiscovery
#164: I’m back, baby!
I haven't recorded a new episode in four months. And I take ownership and accountability for not following through.
The past four months have been very difficult. But not an excuse.
And here we are. 30 days left in 2023. And I have an awesome exercise to create positive momentum ending this year and into 2024.
Changing the conversation. Flipping the switch.
No more boring surface-level conversations during the holidays which lack depth.
Listen to the full episode to find out exactly how we're going to do it!
#163: Major Life Update
Sometimes in life we do what we need to do, not what we want to do.
And recently, I made the decision to move back to Omaha, Nebraska and help my brother run the family business - Host Coffee Service.
When I graduated from college, we had 10 employees and doing around $2 million in annual revenue.
Today, we have 50 employees and doing around $16 million to put it in context.
So I recently made the decision to move from Bend, Oregon to Omaha, Nebraska - A very hard decision.
And the opportunity to work in the family business, it's something I never thought I would do.
And needless to say, we are a rapidly growing company and myself - an owner of the company - with a responsibility to do everything possible to create a sustainable, profitable, empowering, and supportive business model. and a culture for our customers, employees, and our family.
This is not a decision that I wanted to make.
I'm gonna be really honest with everybody listening.
All of you, my audience over the last five years, I've always shared authentically, honestly, with vulnerability. and sharing with you this decision.
It's not a decision I wanted to make.
But it's a decision I needed to make.
You see, it would be much easier and less stressful to stay on the West Coast and continue teaching yoga and breath work and being a full-time transformational coach.
Running away from all the traumas and shadow part of my family dynamic - the generational trauma, addiction, shame, the unhealthy patterns, the resentments, the grief, the sadness.
My brother has never asked for my help until a few weeks ago.....
And I said yes.
And here's the best part, I still have the flexibility to continue my transformational coaching with all my clients.
My brother and I worked out an agreement where I'm going to be working Monday through Thursday for the family business, focusing on company culture, employee support and morale, strategy, sales and marketing.
And Fridays and Saturdays are allocated for my podcast, my retreats, my transformational coaching and clients that I work with one-on-one.
And to have that flexibility and support and being able to come back and do both was the reason I said yes.
Because without having two days dedicated to my passion and of helping support others and creating content to inspire hope and bring on guests for my podcasts to share their stories of the positive impacts they're having in the community.
The opportunity to serve my coaching clients one-on-one.
To empower others to create a life of maximum success, significance, and fulfillment.
If you want support and accountability, I'm here to serve you. Together, locking arms together, one day at a time!
#162: Brotherhood In Bend Men's Retreat
Men, do you want to spend four days off the grid, out of the matrix, disconnecting from the rat race and daily stresses of go, go, go, and do, do, do?
Do you want to reconnect to yourself, your highest good, nature and other like-minded heart-centered men?
Do you want to create lifelong memories, experiences, adventures, and friendships?
If you answered yes to any of these questions, I'm calling you forward for our Brotherhood and Bend Men's Retreat, September 21st through the 24th.
We still have a few spots left.
Of all the things that I do, this is my absolute favorite, to be a retreat facilitator and guide.
Bend, Oregon in September is amazing. The weather's gonna be perfect. We have an Airbnb outside of town, a private chef, whitewater rafting, epic hikes in nature. Sitting around the fire at night, telling stories, sharing meals together, doing deep self-development.
Creating deep, meaningful relationships. Men who have come to retreats of mine in the past have said, these retreats are some of the most life-changing experiences of their lives.
Friendships formed in these retreats are some of the most deep and meaningful friendships possible. These shared experiences that wouldn't be possible because it's so easy to get caught up in the obligations and responsibilities that we men have. And we've never had more responsibility as men in today's society
Being leaders of ourselves, our families, our communities, our companies, physical, mental, spiritual, emotional, financial responsibilities.
It's never been greater. And it's so easy to be burdened and weighed down by these responsibilities as men. And that's why I facilitate and host these retreats.
So if this is you, I'm calling you forward. This is your invitation to join us, Brotherhood and Bend, Thursday, September 21st through Sunday, September 24th.
The investment is $1,625. Covers everything except for your flight into and out of Redmond, Oregon, which is right outside Bend. Everything else is covered.
I wanna see you there. I wanna share this experience with you. Together, empowering you, supporting you, serving you to be the most effective and best leader for yourself, your family, your loved ones, your community, and your company.
If you have any questions, reach out to me. You can contact me at the link below.
I look forward to talking soon.
#161: NOA/AON - A Journey of Self-Transformation
In this episode, we dive into the fascinating world of self-transformation with our special guest, NOA/AON.
In this insightful discussion, we explore one of NOA's most notable experiences, spending 10 days in darkness with no food living with breatharians in Thailand. From this experience, NOA|AON has brought back some of the most effective teachings and created a movement with #noamovement, which aims to bring people back to unity, love, and joy.
Discover the importance of his teachings which integrate ancient wisdom with modern science and technology to provide simple daily routines that can help you achieve unity, love, and joy in your life.
Learn valuable insights and practical tips from NOA's 15 years of experience traveling the world and immersing himself in some of the most rigorous teachings helping him become an expert in transformation, self-realization and harmonious living.
Whether you're struggling with personal challenges or seeking to unlock your full potential in relationships, career, or just questioning that there must be "more," this conversation will provide you with the inspiration, insight, and practical tools you need to navigate your own journey, "From Darkness to Light."
As an international conscious DJ/producer, serial impact 7 figure entrepreneur and investor, certified Ambassador of Peace, and Wim Hof instructor, NOA has a unique and diverse set of skills that he brings to his workshops, immersive experiences, retreats, and lectures.
You can follow him:
https://www.instagram.com/noaaonofficial/
https://www.facebook.com/noaaonofficial
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P.S. Don't forget to book your free 30-minute connection call with me today. As a transformational coach, I've helped hundreds of clients from all walks of life create maximum success, significance, and fulfillment. Click on link calendly.com/andrew-1592
#160: Kimberly Hill - Building Healthy Relationships
Welcome back to Positive Impact! In this episode, join us as we dive into the fascinating world of healthy loving relationships with our special guest, Kimberly Hill. Kimberly is a certified dating and relationship coach and master neuro-linguistic practitioner, dedicated to helping men attract and maintain fulfilling relationships.
In this insightful discussion, we explore the misconceptions around traditional relationship dynamics and how they have evolved in today's society. Discover the importance of open communication, emotional intelligence, and vulnerability in building successful long-term partnerships.
Learn valuable insights and practical tips from Kimberly's vast experience as she shares her expertise on cultivating joy, love, and happiness within yourself and bringing it to your relationships. Discover why the notion of "happy wife, happy life" may not hold true and why a more balanced approach is essential for both partners' fulfillment.
Join us in celebrating Men's Health Awareness month and understand why Kimberly's work is crucial in supporting men's intimacy and relationship journeys. Don't miss out on this enlightening conversation that will empower you to create healthier, more meaningful connections.
Like, comment, and subscribe to our channel for more impactful discussions and expert advice on personal growth, relationships, and self-discovery.
You can follow Kimberly at: www.kimberlyninahill.com @kimberlyninahill
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Don't forget to schedule your free connection call with me. I've helped hundreds of clients from all walks of life create maximum success, significance, and fulfillment. And I want to help you. Click on this link: calendly.com/andrew-1592
#159: Phil Levasseur - Biohacking For Optimal Health
"Being able to work out in the gym and express myself to my fullest means that outside the gym I get to play and explore a little more." -Phil Levasseur
Water, Sleep, Sunlight, Food, Movement, Bloodwork, and Ice baths....There are many different ways to biohack your life.
In today's episode, Phil & I dissect a few practical ways you can start improving your life.
Phil Levasseur is the founder of Biohacking Bend & Pronoia Wellness Studio. He is an expert on all things biohacking. He is a trusted friend and my go-to person for making incremental positive changes in my life. And in lives of so many others. He is a community activator creating positive impact ripples in the community.
The products we reference in this episode:
https://www.quicksilverscientific.com/
https://dminder.ontometrics.com/
To follow Phil, go to @biohackingbend & livepronoia.com
To schedule a free 30-minute connection call with me, please go to IG @Positive_Impact_Andrew or calendly.com/andrew-1592
#158: My Plant Medicine Journey
This is not hyperbole when I say this - I don't know if I would be here today if it wasn't for plant medicine. Listen to the full episode to hear why.
How many people who have died could have been saved if they had awareness and access to healing properties of plant medicine?
How can I look myself in the mirror and sleep at night knowing I had information, knowledge, and 1st-hand experience of plant medicine that has helped transform my own life?
How can I sit on the sidelines of life and not share my truth?
I strongly recommend you also listen to Andrew Huberman's podcast on how psilocybin can rewire our brain. Link is below.
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/huberman-lab/id1545953110?i=1000612139039
If you have questions, comments, or want to hear more about my plant medicine journey, please reach out.
#157: Ryan Meeks - From Ordained Minister to Plant Medicine Chaplain
"Life is a gift. Love is the point." -Ryan Meeks
Ryan Meeks is the real deal! His commitment to truth is inspiring. His story of overcoming great adversity is admirable.
His journey of running a megachurch, falling out of christianity, getting cancer, to serving others through plant medicine is one you don't want to miss.
This was top 3 most powerful episodes I've ever recorded with a guest! Once you listen, you will see why!
Ryan is a relationship mentor, holistic coach focusing on spiritual direction, plant medicine integration guide, and helps others make meaning in the mystery.
You can find Ryan at loveisthepoint.com & @RyanTMeeks
If you want to schedule a coaching call with me, please click on link below. Together we will create maximum success, significance, and IMPACT!
#156: Generating Empowerment Meditation
May is "Mental Health Awareness" month.
And one of the best ways to improve our mental health is through meditation. And this meditation from Dr. Joe Dispenza is one of my favorites. I share this with all my coaching clients. And my invitation is for you to use this mediation for the next weeks first thing every morning. Then afterwards take five minutes to reflect on what came up during the meditation. An opportunity to transmute the energy into creativity, inspiration, and alignment.
If you want more support and accountability, please click on link below, to schedule a free 30-minute connection call today. I have helped hundreds of clients from all walks of life create maximum success, significance, and fulfillment through my 90-day Positive Impact Transformational coaching program.
You can also find my daily inspiration on Instagram: @Positive_Impact_Andrew
My mission is to empower, support, serve, and inspire so others know they're not alone!
#155: Weston McWhorter - Transforming Your "Mess" Into Your Message
This episode is a replay of me being a guest on Weston's podcast, "This Life Without Limits."
In this episode, we get into the power of a good walk-up song, the turbulence being experienced in some areas of the "manosphere" right now, and most importantly, we discuss some strategies for turning your mess into your message.
You can find Weston at: westonmcwhorter.com and @westonmcwhorter
To schedule a 30-minute coaching call with me, please use the link below, and let's get your Positive Impact Transformation journey started today!
#154: Eleni Mitas - Limiting Beliefs and Maximizing Our Full Potential
"What do I want? Why can't I have it? Is it true?" -Eleni Mitas
Eleni Mitas is an Author, International Speaker, Founder of Hypnofit® – the world’s only global hypnotherapy clinic, Award Winning Hypnotherapist, Certified Speaking Professional, & Heart Leader. She has an unwavering determination to help you drop your limits and powerfully embrace your mission during this magical time of our evolution.
In this episode we discussed how plant medicine can help us unleash our potential, limiting beliefs which keep us playing small and how to self identify, completely letting go of old identities which no longer serve us, and how to lead from the heart vs. ego.
You can find Eleni at:
https://www.youtube.com/@EleniMitas
https://www.youtube.com/c/HelenMitas
https://www.youtube.com/@soulsisters.getreal
Also, if you want to schedule a free 30-minute connection call with me, please click on link below. As a transformational life coach, I've helped hundreds of clients from all walks of life create a life of maximum success, significance, and fulfillment. My mission is to empower, support, serve, and inspire so others know they're not alone.
#153: David Romero - Plant Medicine & The Future of Mental Health
The truth will set you free.
In this episode, David & I debunk the myths of plant medicine. We shine the light of awareness on the healing properties and medical therepeutic benefits of plant medicine for treatment-resistant depression, anxiety, PTSD, and end of life distress. Both David & I share our first-hand experience using plant medicine to create transformation in our own lives. In fact, my plant medicine journey was one the top three most transformational life experiences I've ever had. I was able to work though my trauma that was getting in the way of the one thing I wanted most in life - Deep and intimate connection with a woman.
You can reach David: @theyogidr & @illuminatingyourlife & www.luminositylife.org
Also, to schedule a 30-minute connection call with me, please click on the link below. As a Transformational Coach, I've helped hundreds of clients from all walks of life create a life of maximum success, significance, and fulfillment.
You can also follow me on Instagram: @Positive_Impact_Andrew
Some great resources on plant medicine include: @hubermanlab & maps.org
Disclaimer: David and I are not medical doctors. We are not giving medical advice. I recommend doing your own research and consult your primary care physician with questions.
#152: How to Overcome Fear Like Ted
FEAR - False Evidence Appearing Real!
I want you to meet Ted, my Coaching Client, a real hero, a loving father, hard-working, real estate agent, servant leader, in the community, who came to this country as a young boy from Russia, and has literally worked his way up in life to create the American dream.
When Ted came to me to start working together, he told me about his fear of driving on the freeways. And living in San Diego as a real estate agent, one of the largest counties in the country, I realized the amount of precious time he was losing every day, literally, by driving on back roads getting from appointment to appointment, from one side of town to the other, taking two hours in transit, for what? Otherwise would have been a 20 minute commute. All day. Every day. He was literally letting fear ruin his life and get in the way of what he loved - spending time with his daughter and friends. Ted was stuck in his car, wasting time, money, energy, and resources. I fear that was keeping him playing small, stuck, overwhelmed, without agency or freedom in his life.
Ted and I started to work through, not around, his fear of driving on freeways. We faced it head on. We uncovered the false evidence appearing real. I would literally be in the car with him, every week, as we broke through this limiting belief that was ruining his life, family, job, and everything he had worked so hard to build. He’s slowly gained more confidence, self-esteem, and empowerment which translated into every other area of his life. Together we created a plan that allowed Ted to be the hero of his own story and overcame his biggest fear. Gradually the fear lost its power, and Ted was able to create a new story around, driving on the freeways. A new truth that aligned with his values and highest good. A story in truth that serves, supports, and empowers his goals and vision of the future to be his best self.
Ted now enjoys a new freedom, a new happiness, a new life perspective, a new possibility for what Ted can create in his life – one of maximum success, significance, and fulfillment. Maximizing his true and full potential. Saving tons of money in gas, saving tons of time he now uses with family, friends, new work, projects, and travel.
In fact, Ted started taking road trips up and down the coast of California with his daughter visiting places that before were not accessible. He also started flying on airplanes around the world. This is relevant, because Ted also had a fear of flying before we started working together. In fact, he hadn’t been on an airplane in many many years. And because of his work, overcoming his fear of driving on freeways, Ted had the courage and confidence and empowerment to overcome his fear of flying. It’s all connected. Ted’s love of world travel has taken him to countries he thought wasn’t possible because of his fear. not anymore. Ted got his life back. His freedom. Because he had the courage to face is fear head on and ask for help.
My question to you, what is your greatest fear, and how is it holding you back from living the life you were meant to live. A life of abundance, health, prosperity, wealth, freedom, and wholeness. You were meant to not just survive, but thrive!
You get to create your own story as the hero just like Ted.
If you want more support in overcoming your fear, click on link below, to schedule a free 30-minute connection call today.
You can also follow me on Instagram to get daily support and inspiration: @Positive_Impact_Andrew
#150: Top 5 Ways to Improve Intimacy With Your Partner
Are you feeling disconnected or unfulfilled in your intimacy with your partner?
Are you giving up hope the relationship will work out?
If so, try these “Top 5 Ways to Improve Intimacy With Your Partner.”
Trust me, they work.
I only ask of others what I first ask of myself!
These 5 things have been game-changers in my own life and taken my intimate relationship over the past 18 months to a whole new level.
If you want more support and accountability in leveling up your intimate relationships, click on link below, to schedule a 30-minute connection call today.
We all deserve to deepen our capacity to love and be loved.
And our intimate relationships are the fertile ground we get to create new ways of being.
You can also follow me on Instagram for daily inspiration @Positive_Impact_Andrew
#149: Transformational Breathwork Masterclass
"The first thing we do when we come into the world as newborns is inhale - our first breath. The last thing we do before we die is exhale - our last breath. Yet some many of us don't have a relationship with the one thing that gives us and sustains our life. The breath!"
In this episode, Andrew tells a story of working in the corporate world 10 years ago and numbing out trying to deal with the high-stresses of his job. And hitting rock-bottom and finding his way into a drug and alcohol detox center. And on day #1 of his new sobriety feeling so overwhelmed, anxious, and not having alcohol or drugs to turn to like he had done every day to help cope with life. And forcing him to focus instead of his breath. "Fucking breath Andrew" he had to tell himself.
Andrew walks you through and demonstrates three different types of breathwork, along with the physiological benefits of each, including box-breathing, physiological sighing, and holotropic (Wim Hof). Andrew shares the positive impact breathwork has has on his own life and how Andrew empowers all his coaching clients with the same tools to create breakthroughs and transformation.
You will walk away from this episode with tools to help you consciously respond to life's events vs. unconsciously react. Tools which create emotional resilience, mental strength, and nervous system regulation. Tools which help you live longer, sleep better, and live with more fulfillment and significance.
To schedule a free 30-minute connection call with Andrew click on link below.
#148: Lisa Chastain - From Money Avoidance to Money Confidence
"So I had to learn how to invest in myself. Is it scary, yeah. And is it worth it, absolutely. Because I get to live my dreams." -Lisa Chastain
This podcast epsidose was absolute fire! A conversation I've been looking forward to ever since Lisa & I started working together.
Lisa is a professional money coach dedicated to empowering professionals to improve their finances and live their best life. She is the author of "Girl, Get Your $hit Together", and podcast host of Real Money.
In this episode, Lisa & I discuss: the different money personality types and why it's important to know, how to create a new perspective and relationship with money, importance of community and mentors, rites of passage for young men and why finances should be included, and the Positive Impact Lisa has had on my personal life and professional career.
You can follow Lisa at lisachastain.com
You can also follow me on IG: @Positive_Impact_Andrew - As a Transformational Life Coach, I specialize in behavior change, and have personally helped hundreds of clients from all walks of life overcome stress, anxiety, fear, and resentments to create maximum success, significance, and fulfillment.
To schedule a free 30-minute connection and get your Positive Impact transformation started today, click on the link below
https://calendly.com/andrew-1592/30min
#147: Q Williams - Helping Men Find Purpose & Fulfillment
"You hear of all these stories of guys taking on their life in a new way, really confronting their ego, confronting their shadow, talking about them openly. What a super power that is. To make an impact with other men." - Q Williams
This was a conversation I've been looking forward to since I met him a few months ago. And it did NOT disappoint! We talked about the critical nature of mens work, transitional trauma for athletes and ways to support them, importance of mentors, and cool story of Q literally growing up and being in Mr. Roger's neighborhood.
The enthusiasm and zest for life this man has is infectious!
Shoutout to Dan Doty and his "Ring of Fire" Mastermind where I met Q. An amazing group of servant leaders and men's coaches doing remarkable work in transformational coaching space.
You can find Q at: mensmeetup.com & qwilliams__ on IG
His walkup song he references: Kirk Franklin "If you've been delivered."
#146: Jason Stauffer: The Man Behind the Ferrari of Cold Tubs
"We tie different responses to stimulus with stoicism and grace." -Jason Stauffer
Jason Stauffer is President & CEO of Morozko Forge, a leader in the ice bath manufacturing space.
In this episode, Jason & I discuss his new sobriety and relationship with alcohol, the amazing story of how Morozko Forge was created and meaning behind the name, importance of hormetic stress and why we need it to evolve and adapt, and the books that have inspired Jason on his journey.
Books Jason referenced: Antifragile, Tribe: On Homecoming and Belonging, The Comfort Crisis
For more information on Morozko Forge: morozkoforge.com
#145: The Best Investment is the One in Ourself
#144: Benefits of Physiological Sighing
New research from Andrew Huberman (@HubermanLab) shows the dynamic benefits of physiological sighing - More effective than box-breathing and mediation!
This form go physiological sighing improved mood and autonomic regulation and lowers stress. It assists in better sleep, improves heart rate variability, and various aspects of physiological arousal around the clock.
The technique: two inhales through the nose to lungs full, followed by a full exhale out through the mouth to lungs empty.
Try this practice for five minutes/day as part of your morning routine for the next two weeks.
Win the morning, Win the day!
Also, if you want more support, let's schedule a free 30-minute connection call to get your Positive Impact Transformation journey started today. As a certified Transformational Life Coach, I've helped hundreds of clients from all walks of life create more progress, confidence, productivity and success.
My mission is to help as many people as possible create maximum success, significance, and fulfillment!
You can reach me on IG @Positive_Impact_Andrew or TheAndrewSchultz.com
#143: How to Create Desired Outcomes for 2023
In this episode, I walk you through, step-by-step, how to set goals and desired outcomes for 2023 for inevitable success. This is the same exact formula I use for all my private 1-on-1 coaching clients in my 12-week Positive Impact Transformational coaching program.
I empower you to create specific, measurable, and achievable 90-day outcomes to transform your life and create breakthroughs in most important areas of your life.
This is your opportunity to take off the limits, take responsibility, and create new possibilities to become your best self and highest good.
Because you're worth it. And you deserve it!
As a certified transformational life coach, I've helped hundreds of clients from all walks of life create maximum success, fulfillment, and significance. If you want more support and accountability, click on the link below to schedule a free 30-minute connection call to get your Positive Impact transformation journey started today,
https://linktr.ee/PositiveImpactAndrew
#142: DTO - Award-Winning Music Producer, Designing Music That Raises The Vibrations of the Planet
"I would love for people to recognize their own empowerment around being creative. And how creativity can be an awesome way to live." -DTO
In this episode, we discuss DTO hitting two million streams for his hit song, "Breath", his psychedelic journey which inspired the name DTO, his creative process and ways to get into flow-state, and his journey growing up in the midwest to living in Costa Rica.
DTO is an award-winning music producer, designing inspirational music that raises the vibrations of the planet. DTO kicked off his career with a spark with his remix of “Love Me” by Grammy-nominated producer, StoneBridge. DTO followed up with Nameless Energy, a yoga soundtrack recognized by Deepak Chopra for the kirtan project “Jai Ram” ft. Tara Devi. Nameless Energy is a music playlist guiding yoga instructors and students through a 60-minute yoga class. This album has integrated into the yoga world as an inspiring, healing, and transformational musical journey.
Find, play, and share DTO’s breathtaking and awe-inspiring music on Spotify, iTunes, Soundcloud, and Bandcamp. Fans may follow DTO on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, YouTube, Pinterest, and LinkedIn.
For more information, visit DTOmusic.com or EmbodyCostaRica.com
#141: Randy Grimes - Tackling the Stigma of Addiction and Mental Illness
"I want everyone to know it's okay to not be okay. But you've got to raise your hand and ask for help." -Randy Grimes
WOW! An epic interview with Randy Grimes talking about his journey from NFL "Man of the Year" to living in an abandoned house with no utilities. We discuss his intention for writing his book. As well as importance of a supportive family and friends to help addicts overcome the disease of addiction and mental illness. And how to facilitate, prepare, and lay the groundwork for a successful intervention.
Randy is a ten-year veteran of the NFL, an addiction interventionist, and founder of Professional Athletes in Recovery. He is the author of the book, "Off Center - A Memoir of Addiction, Recovery, and Redemption in Professional Football."
You can follow Randy at: ProAthletesInRecovery.org OffCenterTheBook.com @SoberCenter60
#140: Dr. Andrew Seefeld - Emotional Sobriety & The Science of Addiction
"Who do I need to be to effect the adaptive changes I want to see." -Dr. Seefeld
Dr. Seefeld is the Medical Director, Emergency, Department, at Speare Memorial Hospital in New Hampshire. He is uniquely qualified as leader in the addiction field considering his own personal experience battling addiction.
WOW! One of the most powerful and value-added podcast episodes we've ever done. Whether you're sober-curios, struggling with addiction. thriving in recovery, or a parent of a child with an unhealthy relationship with social media and their cell phone, this episode is for you.
We break-down the difference between thought addictions, emotional addictions, and behavior addictions. And the impact ACE (Adverse Childhood Experiences) has on our addictive thoughts, emotions, and behaviors - more so than genetics, brain circuitry, and environment. We are not our thoughts and emotions. And we always have control over our behaviors. So instead of focusing on the symptoms of alcohol, drugs, gaming, sex, eating/not eating, we can instead focus on changing our behaviors, which alter our neural pathways and neuroplasticity, by practicing new ways of being. Then through more repetition and practice we strengthen and create new habits to replace the unhealthy habits with negative consequences.
You can follow Dr. Seefeld at Twitter @Globaldoc77
If you want more help and support creating new habits, behaviors, and ways of being, please send me a message to schedule a 30-minute connection call.
Together, we uncover the behaviors which are blocking you from becoming your best self, discover the negative consequences those behaviors are having in your life, as well as lives of those around you, and discarding the old ways of being to create new and healthy behaviors.
As a certified transformational life coach, I specialize in behavior change. And I look forward to the opportunity to support, serve, and empower you.
Reach me at: Positive_Impact_Andrew at IG. TheAndrewSchultz.com
#139: Choosing Our "Word of The Year" For 2023
Some simple questions to ask when reflecting and choosing your "Word of the Year":
- This word is meant to make you take action in the direction of the person you deserve and want to be
- This word gives you a feeling that you love and inspires you to be a better version of yourself
- This word should trigger a positive and enthusiastic response in your entire body, viscerally
- This word should be an activation word that inspires decisive action towards the best version of yourself
- This word should align w/your intentions, values, thoughts, words, and actions and the highest good
- What emotions do you connect with this word?
- How do you feel when you think about this word?
AND, it's important we release and let go of 2022 before we create our word, intentions, and goals for 2023.
In this episode, I lead you through a powerful visualization to, both literally and figuratively, let go and release the constraints of the past year and everything that you associate with it.
If you want more tools, support, and accountability - a proven system that has helped hundreds of people from all walks of life - to transform your habits, rituals, and behaviors, please send me a message to schedule a 30-minute connection call. As a certified transformational life coach, I would love to be your coach for 2023 and create a Positive Impact Transformation together!
Sending you Big Love my friends!
#138: Checking-In vs. Checking-Out During the Holidays
One of the most common symptoms of both pain and anxiety is shortness of breath, or hyperventilation. On the other hand, slow, deep breathing can reduce pain and distress.
In this episode, I'll guide you through a deliberate and intentional breathing practice to help you not just survive, but thrive, during this holiday season. This breathing pattern will help you:
- Increase focus
- Decrease negative effects of stress, anxiety, and inflammation
- Improve quality of sleep
- Live longer and healthier life
- Get grounded and centered
- Decrease blood pressure
- Slow your heart rate
- Strengthen connection of mind, body, and spirit
- Create perfect coherence of internal systems including nervous system, immune system, heart, brain, and body
This is the way of the warrior. So you can show up as your best self during the holidays and stand grounded and centered in your truth. If you want more empowering tools and support to up-level your life, send me a DM to schedule a 30-minute connection call.
It's my mission and purpose to empower, support, serve, and have a Positive Impact on as many people as possible.
Big Love,
Andrew
#137: Eric Bettencourt - Hands of God, Humble Servant, & Wisdom Purveyor
"We want to be this macho man and suppress our feelings and we don't want to cry, that's where society is all wrong. It's ok to cry. It's ok to get in touch with your inner self, your heart, your feminine energy, it's part of the healing process." -Eric Bettencourt
Mentor, reiki master, bodyworker, energy healer, and trusted friend....Stoked to share this podcast episode with my guy, Eric Bettencourt! If you're in southern CA, you need to book an appointment with Eric.
In the episode, we discuss the Positive Impact Eric has had on my life since we started working together 9 months ago. We also discuss what healthy and conscious masculinity looks like in today's society obsessed with financial wealth. Even though it's at the expense of our physical health.
And listen to what Eric's definition of success is.
You can find him on IG: @casadewarrior
Finally, if you need a mentor in your life, or the life of a loved one, please send me a message to schedule a 30-minute connection call. TheAndrewSchultz.com or @Positive_Impact_Andrew on IG. Together, We will uncover the things getting in the way of becoming your highest good, discover the negative consequences those actions are having on your life, and the lives of those around you, and discarding the old ways of being to create new, healthy, and positive ways of being to experience Positive Impact Transformation.
#136: 10 Steps to Build Your Confidence
Inspired by John Maxwell's book, "The 15 Invaluable Laws of Growth."
- Guard Your Self-Talk
- Stop Comparing Yourself to Others
- Move Beyond Your Limiting Beliefs
- Add Value to Others
- Do the Right Thing, Even if it's the Hard Thing
- Practice a Small Discipline Daily in a Specific Area of Your Life
- Celebrate Small Victories
- Embrace a Positive Vision for Your Life Based on What You Value
- Practice the One-Word Strategy
- Take Responsibility For Your Life
"I wish I could sit down with you, hear your story, and encourage you specifically in your journey. If you've had a difficult time and you don't feel good about yourself, I want to tell you that you do have value. You matter. Your life can change, and you can make a difference-no matter what kind of background you have or where you came from. No matter what traumas or mistakes you've made, you can learn and grow. You can become the person you have the potential to be. You just need to believe in yourself to get started. And every time you take a step, think a positive thought, make a good choice, practice a small discipline, you're moving one step closer. Just keep moving forward, and keep believing."
#135: "The Sh!t No One Wants To Hear" - Author, Steve Safranek
That was the question Steve posed to our audience in today's podcast episode.
Most of us think of death as negative and too morbid. On the contrary! Steve and I discuss how this question is critical to living a deep, meaningful, and fulfilling life.
Did we live? Did we love? Did we matter?
From Frito-Lay, to full wheel pose, Steve takes us on a ride of how his book came to fruition - including the journey from football field, to the corporate world, to personal training and the yoga mat. Steve is embodying the mature masculinity and giving us other men permission to forego the 9-5, cush corporate job, salary, benefits, 401(k), bonus, ultra-competitive, zero-sum "I win-you lose", and keeping up with the Jones's mentality into something much greater....
In this episode, we also discuss the importance of therapy, mental wellness, and different ways to investing in our health - our greatest wealth.
We chat about nutrition, movement, meditation, breath work, and other self care modalities to help level-up.
We also cover the benefits of being well-read and how much we can learn simply by reading.
Highly recommend you buying Steve's book, ""The Sh!t No One Wants To Hear", on amazon today.
And if you want to connect directly with me, send me a DM, @Positive_Impact_Andrew on IG.
#134: The Journey of Healing from Trauma & Addiction - Replay of University of Adversity Podcast
This is a replay of a recent episode I did as a guest on the University of Adversity podcast with my buddy, Lance Essihos. I highly recommend you follow and subscribe to his podcast (as well as mine). He has amazing guests and conversations with thought leaders who I greatly admire and respect. I hope you enjoy this episode.
Andrew Schultz is an international speaker, facilitator, coach, podcaster, and mentor. His teachings and vulnerable online offerings are enjoyed daily by 23,000+ readers on Instagram and his weekly podcast is downloaded in over 85 countries worldwide. Andrew's favorite coaching mantra, "Be the change you want to see in the world" is a foundation of all his offerings.
On today's episode, Andrew shares his journey from addiction and rock bottom in 2015 and losing the will to love, to thriving in recovery celebrating over seven years of sobriety today. He now leads with an open heart and vulnerability that has become his Super-Power. Andrew opened up about how his past unresolved issues affected his relationships and how he overcame them. He also shared some valuable tips on how to incorporate healthy habits into our daily lives and ways to heal from our traumas.
What advice do you have for someone who is struggling with adversity right now?
"We must understand that trauma is not our responsibility, but our healing is. We need to have the willingness to seek help and surround ourselves with people who can help us."
#133: Inside the Mastermind - Why I Started This Podcast
Reminder: If you, or someone you know, is struggling, wants to level-up their life, and become the healthiest, highest, and best version of themselves, I would LOVE to work with you! My Positive Impact Transformation 90-day coaching program is how I serve, support, and empower people to create new possibilities in their life.
Please send me a message on IG @Positive_Impact_Andrew to schedule a free 30-minute connection call to get started.
Big Love,
Andrew
#132: Celebrating My One Year Relationship
What did I do different in this relationship than other relationships…Everything!
➡️Picking up the phone and talking versus hiding behind text messages.
➡️Making the effort to drive to see her versus expecting her to come to me.
➡️FaceTime every night before bed.
➡️Text messages in the morning letting her know I’m thinking about her.
➡️Investing in a money coach to talk openly about our finances and feel safe to have honest conversations about our expectations about $ and who pays for what.
➡️Investing in a therapist to better understand our attachment styles and learning language and tools to work through conflict while feeling safe.
➡️Investing in my own healing journey with plant medicine to heal unresolved trauma from the past which blocked me from intimacy.
➡️Invest in vacations every three months and making adventure an integral part of our relationship with Epic trips to Bend, Yosemite, and Big Sur.
➡️Leaning in, having difficult conversations, and working through conflict with language to repair and overcome versus avoiding which I did in the last.
Nothing changes if nothing changes.
I’m committed to continue taking new actions to create new experiences and possibilities in my most important relationship.
And I truly believe the best is yet to come!
Men, this is what’s possible when we do the work. To go from selfishness, fear, and immature boy psychology to stepping into our King, Warrior Spirit and power - our healthy masculinity - to make sure she feels safe knowing we got her!
I am truly grateful for the deep level of love, connection, and intimacy with Melissa that I didn’t think was possible because I seriously thought I was broken.
I’m not broken.
And neither are you!
#131: How to Resolve Inner Conflict
By speaking up, telling the truth, and embracing conflict!
In his book, "Getting To Zero", Jayson Gaddis gives us a playbook on how to start embodying our True Self and resolving our inner conflict that affects each and every one of us.
For example, my Strategic Self might value what you, and others, think of me. And my True Self values me being true to myself, even if it means you reject me. If you're a conflict avoider, you probably value keeping the peace and not expressing yourself in certain scenarios. But this strategy keeps you disconnected from your True Self and over time affects what you value; surprisingly, it impacts the direction you go in life as well as how you show up in your high-stakes relationships.
This episode will help you get started on embodying more of your True Self.
And if you want more support, coaching, or mentorship, please send me a message to schedule a free 30-minute discovery call together.
I empower others to take responsibility and create new possibilities in their life with vulnerability and connection. I help people step into their power, maximize their human potential, and optimize their health and wellness.
If you're ready to become your True Self, I'm ready to be your coach!
@Positive_Impact_Andrew
www.TheAndrewSchultz.com
#130: The Power of Breath
Did you know, in a single breath, more molecules pass through your nose than all the grains of sand on all the world's beaches!
25 sextillion molecules! That's 250 with 20 zeros after it.
The first thing we do when we enter the world as newborns is inhale with our 1st breath, and the last thing we do before we die is exhale with our last breath, yet so many of us don't have a relationship with the one thing that gives us and sustains our life, our breath!
In this episode, learn why nose breathing will help you live a longer and healthier life. Learn about the health ramifications of mouth breathing. Hear why lung capacity is the greatest indicator of life span. Learn the optimal breathing rhythm and positive impact it will have in you life. Understand why breath work is so important, and respective physiological benefits impacting the sympathetic and parasympathetic nervous system.
If you want to schedule a private breath work session with me, either in-person, or virtual, please contact me www.TheAndrewSchultz.com
And if you're interested in my 90-day 1-on-1 Positive Impact coaching program, please contact me to schedule a free 30-minute discovery call.
The quality of our life is directionally proportional to the quality of our breath!
#129: Obesity - The Real Epidemic
Are you kidding me! That’s almost 1 out of every 2 adults!
Obesity kills around 500,000 people every year in the U.S and kills more Americans than smoking.
Obesity isn’t just killing millions of people. It’s also giving lots of them Alzheimer’s first.
Obesity-related conditions include heart disease, stroke, type 2 diabetes, cancer, and Alzheimer’s.
Meaning some of the leading causes of preventable and premature death are all caused by obesity.
Obesity wipes 15 years off your life.
And it’s all preventable!
So, naturally, I ask myself, what am I doing about? How am I being being the change I want to see in the world?
I am now providing a customized nutritional program for all my “Positive Impact” 1-on-1 private coaching clients that included daily recipes, shopping guides, and how to’s for the entire 90 days of our working together.
3 meals every day. Done for you!
Including all the macronutrients and nutritional info for each meal including calories, fat, carbs, protein, fiber, sugar, cholesterol, sodium, potassium, vitamin a/b12/c/d, calcium, iron, magnesium, zinc, selenium….all done for you!
This nutritional program will help empower you to make healthy food choices which align with your core values and highest good.
When we know better, we do better. And I’m more committed than ever to help support you in becoming your healthiest and best version of yourself possible.
You’re worth it. And you deserve!
If you’re ready to go “All In”, take radical responsibility for your life, and create new possibilities through disciplined action, Send me a DM and let’s get started working together.
A healthier, stronger, confident, and more courageous you is on the other side waiting to be unleashed!
#128: Replay of Me as a Guest on The Human Potential Podcast
#127: My Interview w/Canvas Rebel
I don't get interviewed very often. But when I do, it's a great opportunity to share my journey and inspire hope for others.
If you're struggling, please listen. If you know someone else who is struggling, please share this episode with them.
My mess is now my Message. Our greatest life challenges become our greatest asset and Super Power to help others.
Thanks to the good folks at Canvas Rebel for the interview and article.
Enjoy!
#126: Abundance Meditation w/Dr. Joe Dispenza
I've been doing this for the last 21 days and I'm blown away by all the new connections, opportunities, and possibilities that are flowing into my life.
Which is why I wanted to share this meditation and mindfulness journaling prompt with all of you.
Please let me know your results after the 21 days.
I'm rooting for you!
@Positive_Impact_Andrew
www.TheAndrewSchultz.com
andrew@theandrewschultz.com
#125: How To Stop The War With Yourself
“I haven’t been able to look at myself in the mirror for the last five years, and today I like what I see.”
Most of my clients are at war with themselves. This is how I help them.
This was an actual quote from one of my coaching clients. The majority of my clients have one thing in common: They are at war with themselves. They’re dominated by negative self-talk, limiting beliefs, stress, and fear.
So the first thing I do with all my coaching clients is uncover what is getting in the way of them becoming their highest selves and maximizing their potential: those limiting beliefs, the old stories we bring to the present, the unhealthy patterns, and overwhelming stress, fear, and anxiety.
“Uncover, discover, and discard.”
The second thing we do is discover the negative impact that these things are causing on my clients’ lives and the lives around them.
Finally, we discard. We let go of the past, the negative beliefs, and the worn-out stories. After that, we create new ways of being, positive habits to replace the old ones.
Uncover, discover, and discard.
With that framework, I empower my clients to find new possibilities in their lives. You can get what Paul got, a loving and compassionate relationship with yourself. You deserve it.
Click on the link below to schedule a 30-minute discovery call, so we can talk about your possibilities and how I can help you reach them.
https://www.theandrewschultz.com/contact/
#124: Breaking the Shame Cycle
Guilt - "I did something bad."
Shame - "I am bad."
Shame is a feeling that many of us deal with. It can be paralyzing because it’s not something we talk about openly and it has the power to cause deep shame in those that experience it. The cycle of shame can be a vicious one, where feelings that stem from shame lead to more shame until the victim becomes isolated and starts believing they’re unworthy.
The shame cycle might look like this:
Engage in destructive behavior
Feel shame, guilt, and deep regret
Ruminate on the destructive behavior which deepens the feeling of shame even more
Try to comfort yourself by give into same bad habits, addiction, and destructive behavior
Three things that shame needs to grow:
secrecy
silence
judgement
Three steps to break the cycle of shame:
Talk to yourself like you talk to someone you love
Reach out to someone you trust
Tell your story. Shame cannot survive being spoken
Shame can be a paralyzing feeling because it’s not something we talk about openly and it has the power to cause deep shame in those that experience it. The cycle of shame can be a vicious one, where feelings that stem from shame lead to more shame until the victim becomes isolated and starts believing they’re unworthy.
The good news is that we can break the cycle of shame and start to feel better about ourselves again. It takes time, patience, and effort, but it’s definitely possible. Remember that you’re not alone in this and there are people who care about you and want to help.
If you’re feeling lost or don’t know where to start, please don’t hesitate to reach out for help. You’re worth it.
@Positive_Impact_Andrew
www.TheAndrewSchultz.com
Andrew@TheAndrewSchultz.com
#123: Father's Day 30 Questions
Happy Father's Day to all the Father's out there!
I highly recommend googling, "Brendon Burchard 30 questions." These questions inspired to ask our parents before they die. An opportunity to create deep connection and conversation with our loved ones about things we may have never known.
Getting the chance to talk with my Dad, via facetime, and ask him these same 30 questions was awesome! I learned about the time in 7th grade when my Dad got slapped by a nun for sharpening his pencil in middle of class. Which in turn, he grabbed the nuns arm, put it behind her back, and pinned her up against the wall. Fortunately the bishop didn't kick him out. But it was the 1st time I heard that story and we had a great laugh together. These are the moments that matter most!
Even if you don't have parents who are alive, or kids, I still encourage you to share your 30 questions with a trusted friend or partner. I promise you it will bring you closer together and you'll learn something new about someone you love.
Acknowledging and celebrating all the Father's out there today. Many of my coaching clients are father's, and there is more societal pressure on us men than ever before. Financial responsibility to support families, overwhelm of stress, anxiety, and fear. Not having the tools to deal with unresolved trauma and unhealthy coping mechanisms we've used to numb out - like alcohol, drugs, porn, work, exercise, gambling - make it even more difficult in today's culture of toxic masculinity.
I know because I was there....And there is a better way!
ON THE OTHER SIDE IS FREEDOM.
This has been my way to healing, living a connected life in recovery, and working toward healthy habits, deep and meaningful relationships, honesty, truth, authenticity, purpose, passion, intimate connection with others….and true love (the real thing!) - all the things I really wanted in the first place!
I learned how to thrive - and not just SURVIVE - in my life. And I want that for you!
Brother, there is a new path, and here’s what that looks like:
Vulnerability
Asking for Help
Not pretending that everything is ok
Getting really honest about your own bag of emotional shit
Letting go of the fear, resentment, shame and guilt - instead of numbing out - working through, not around, that emotional bag of shit with someone who is trained to support and empower you.
THE ONLY WAY OUT IS THROUGH.
You can’t just numb out the rest of your life, and if you aren’t ready to throw in the towel now, I promise you that day is coming if you don’t find another way!
If this is you, and you are ready for a new life - you want out - you want to be FREE and on the other side of numbing out, addiction, pain, anxiety and stress….whatever it is you’re going through - I want to talk to you - I want to support you, I want to empower you, and I want show you a new way.
Let’s talk,
Andrew
#122: Comparison is the Death of Joy
"Comparison is the death of joy." - Mark Twain
As creators, artists, leaders, healers, connectors, and influencers there is one thing that kills our creativity and joy more than anything....comparison! Comparing ourselves to others and thinking, "Why them? Why not me?"
This zero-sum "I win you lose, you win I lose" mentality kills more dreams and desires than anything else. Comparison makes us feel inadequate, deflated, and leads to low self-esteem.
I know because I'm in it, and have been in it! And there is a better way.
By shifting our perspective to, "If they can do it, why can't I?"
In fact, other people give us permission and show us what's possible, which we can use for inspiration. This win-win mentality and abundance mindset is so much healthier and more productive.
I think of Roger Bannister running the 1st sub-4-minute mile in 1954 when experts said it couldn't be done. Since that feat, 1,497 others have also run a mile in under 4 minutes. Roger gave all these people permission, showed them what's possible, and inspired each one to accomplish their own dreams and desires.
We get to make the choice every day. "Why them? Why not me?"
OR
"If they can do it, why can't I?"
One attitude will propel you onward and upward.
The other will drive you to bitterness and despair.
#121: Conscious Conversations For Men
In-person even we created last month for me to come together to support, empower, and acknowledge one another. A sacred space to take off the mask of masculinity and remove the armor which blocks us from the one thing we want most in life -- Deep and intimate connection! A safe container for men to share what's most alive and permission to share their truth.
Why now?
Us men are literally killing ourselves and those we love most. We don't ask for help. We try and do everything on our own. We say we're doing "fine," when in fact, we're struggling and suffering.
We turn to drugs, alcohol, sex, pornography, gambling, and food to "numb out" as a coping mechanism to try and deal overwhelm of stress and anxiety, unresolved traumas, and unprocessed emotions.
And the question I asked myself was, "What am I doing about it? How am I being the change I want to see in the world?"
Who is it for?
Any man who desires more connection with other men and community of like-minded people coming together to support, empower, and acknowledge one another.
Men who want more...vulnerability
Men who want more...truth
Men who want more...open hearts
Men who want more...intimate connection
Men who want more...healthy, mature, and conscious masculinity
Men who want to become better leaders for their family and community.
Men who want more effective tools to create emotional resilience and mental health strength.
When?
Every month in-person in San Diego with a vision of larger men's virtual groups and retreats.
If this is you or someone you know, please reach out to me:
Instagram: @Positive_Impact_Andrew
Email: Andrew@TheAndrewSchultz.com
Website: www.TheAndrewSchultz.com
#120: Spiritual 7 Morning Routine
It’s okay to not be okay. May is mental health awareness month, so I want to shine some light on mental health and the stigma that surrounds it.
I create a morning routine with all my clients so they can start each day with structure and discipline. Our body loves routine. I’ve created a spiritual seven that I include in my and my clients’ morning routines to help with mental health. It’s really simple:
1. Pray. The first thing I do is say a simple prayer: “God, Higher Power, Universe, Spirit, help me be in the right place at the right time, doing the right things with the right people for the right reasons.”
2. Meditate. The simplest form of meditation is conscious breathing. Inhale through your nose for four seconds, hold your breath for a second, and exhale through your nose for four seconds. Repeat this for two to five minutes.
3. Read daily devotions. I read two daily devotions to get my mind in the right place. These are positive, uplifting devotionals. Two of my favorite books filled with these devotions are “The Daily Stoic” by Ryan Holiday and “A Year of Miracles” by Marianne Williamson.
4. Make a gratitude list. Where our attention goes, our energy flows. What we focus on gets stronger. When I look for things to be grateful for, I draw more gratitude into my life. Starting my day with this practice creates positive momentum and helps me see more things to be grateful for throughout the day.
5. Make my bed. Having less physical clutter creates less spiritual and emotional clutter in your head. It also fosters self-esteem and self-confidence
6. Have a mirror moment. I look at myself in the mirror, say, “I love you,” and give myself a high five. It changes the feel-good part of our brain; you can’t be pissed off and give yourself a high five in the mirror.
7. Do mindful movement. This is some kind of physical exercise. That includes yoga, stretching, breath work, or even walking outside.
All seven parts of this routine form a mind, body, and spirit transformation. Over time, these activities create a positive snowball of momentum. Small habits repeated over and over create big transformations.
I never ask others to do what I’m not comfortable doing myself. I’ve been doing these seven things for years, and I know they work. Try it yourself, and know that I am here as a resource if you need it. You have trusted coaches, mentors, and friends to lean on for your mental health.
I’m rooting for you, and if you need any support, feel free to call or email me. I would love to help.
#119: From Addiction to Abundance - Celebrating 7 Years of Sobriety
Seven years ago, I was at rock bottom. Now it’s my turn to help others.
Today I want to share my journey with you. Now I am happy, healthy, and looking forward to my future. However, this wasn’t always the case.
Seven years ago, I was in so much pain and suffering that I would take too many sleeping pills, hoping I wouldn’t wake up. Alcohol and drugs brought me to rock bottom, and I was struggling to find the will to live. I don’t wish the amount of pain I was in on anybody.
Fortunately, by the grace of God and the love of my family, I had an intervention and was checked into a treatment facility. I remember on day one someone asked me, “Do you want the good news or the bad news first?” Of course, I wanted the good. They told me I only needed to change one thing to fix my life; the bad news is that it was everything.
"I want to use my experiences and what I’ve learned to help you."
One breath at a time, I achieved seven years of sobriety on April 30, 2022. The token I received to commemorate the date is a representation of all the work I put in and all the people who helped me along the way.
My intention over the next several weeks and months is to empower you with the same tools used to change my life. Being of service is one of my core values, and I want to use my experiences and what I’ve learned to help you. Maybe your struggle isn’t related to drugs or alcohol. Instead, you could be having trouble with relationships, spirituality, work, finances, purpose, health, or anything else. Whatever it may be, I want to use what I’ve learned to help you create new possibilities in your life.
I got a second chance, and I’m taking advantage of it. You deserve to overcome your struggles, but it won’t happen by itself. I see you, I acknowledge you, and I want to help you.
If you are ready to overcome whatever challenges you face, please call or email me. I look forward to hearing from you.
#118: Happy Mother's Day
Acknowledging and celebrating all the Mom's out there on this special weekend. You are the real Super Heroes! Especially My Mom - The absolute best mom in the world!
My Mom has been there for me since I can remember. Driving me to all my football, baseball, and basketball practices and games. Driving me and my friends to school every morning. Making my lunch every day from K-12! Yep, PB&J, Doritos, and Sliced Apples. The hand-written note she put in my lunch my senior year telling me how proud she was to be my Mom. Supporting my decision to move to San Diego after graduating college. And doing the intervention that saved my life in 2015 from my downward-spiral of addiction and rock-bottom where I lost the will to live.
Through it all, she has been there EVERY STEP OF THE WAY! Showing me unconditional love.
Thank you, Mom, for everything. I'm truly grateful for you. And I love you with all my heart!
And to all the Mom's out there, Happy Mother's Day! I see you. I acknowledge you. I celebrate you!
#117: Trafficking with Elona Gaball & Mary Petteway
Trafficking is an $810 Million industry affecting up to 8,000 women in San Diego alone every year.
Mary Petteway is a victim of trafficking who courageously shares her story. Through her healing journey and recovery she met Elona Gaball, who helped restore her smile and volunteered her amazing dentistry skills to ensure Mary's beautiful smile matched her loving heart.
Two beautiful souls coming together on Good Friday to celebrate God's love, grace, and glory.
A story of resurrection, compassion, and healing on this Easter weekend.
To help support and contribute to victims of trafficking, please go to www.alabasterjarproject.org