Positive Parenting Pep Talks

On today's Positive Parenting Pep Talk Podcast, you will learn to create logical consequences when your child does not keep the screen time agreement.

In this Positive Parenting pep Talks Podcast, I suggest an idea to prevent conflicts with your child. How many times does a situation escalate out of control before we even know what happened? To prevent the conflict, try stopping everything and just listening to your child and see what happens.

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In this episode of the Positive Parenting Pep Talks Podcast, I help a mom manage a conflict in her family.

This mom has taken the class and been practicing Positive Parenting for a couple years, and still sometime the answers don't come right away.

We brainstorm ways to understand and facilitate mom getting her self care time within the constrains of her family dynamic.

In this episode of the Positive Parenting Pep Talks Podcast, I help a mom brainstorm solutions to a revenge cycle.

This mom has taken the class and been practicing Positive Parenting for a couple years, and still sometime the answers don't come right away.

We brainstorm ways to deal with discipline when the power struggle turns into revenge.

In this episode of the Positive Parenting Pep Talks Podcast, I help a mom brainstorm solutions to a power struggle.

This mom has taken the class and been practicing Positive Parenting for a couple years, and still sometime the answers don't come right away.

We brainstorm ways to more firmly handle power struggles when the talking, negotiating and flexibility aren't working.

Today's Positive Parenting Pep Talks Podcast is a recording of and interview I gave many years ago on the Happier Kids Now Online Expo. I wanted to share it with you because I was able to provide so many ideas for helping you to help your kids behave better.

In today's Positive Parenting Pep Talks podcast, 2 parents share their success stories from the class. The first is a dad who is doing his best to maintain his progress with the class on not fall back into old habits. The second is a mom that came up with an I-message and logical consequence when her 5 year old forgets to use the washroom and has an accident.

If you would like to receive free coaching and be a guest on the Positive Parenting Pep Talks Podcast, please email me at debbie@positiveparenting.com

In this episode of the Positive Parenting Pep Talks Podcast, you will continue to learn about the systematic approach to discipline and behavior that I use in Positive Parenting. By understanding why your child is acting up, and identifying their mistaken goal, you can then have specific ways to discipline. You will learn about how to use a tool I created called, "Dial-A-Discipline."

In this episode, you will learn exactly what to do to discipline your child when he or she is whining or saying, "I can't!" In this mistaken goal, there are several simple ways to discipline, including breaking the task up into smaller steps and celebrating success and distracting them.

In this episode of the Positive Parenting Pep Talks Podcast, you will continue to learn about the systematic approach to discipline and behavior that I use in Positive Parenting. By understanding why your child is acting up, and identifying their mistaken goal, you can then have specific ways to discipline. You will learn about how to use a tool I created called, "Dial-A-Discipline."

In this episode, you will learn exactly what to do to discipline your child when he or she is being hurtful, hateful or mean. The goal of revenge happens hen a child feels hurt and is taking it out on others around him.

You will learn important tools to use when navigating this goal, and also a few of my personal stories experiencing this goal with my children.

In this episode of the Positive Parenting Pep Talks Podcast, you will continue to learn about the systematic approach to discipline and behavior that I use in Positive Parenting. By understanding why your child is acting up, and identifying their mistaken goal, you can then have specific ways to discipline. You will learn about how to use a tool I created called, "Dial-A-Discipline."

In this episode, you will learn exactly what to do to discipline your child when he or she is defying you or not listening to you. Power struggles happen every day in the home, and learning to discipline them effectively will create a much calmer, happier family home.

You will learn 2 key ideas to keep in mind before you discipline and then several ways to get out of power struggles.

In this episode of the Positive Parenting Pep Talks Podcast, you will continue to learn about the systematic approach to discipline and behavior that I use in Positive Parenting. By understanding why your child is acting up, and identifying their mistaken goal, you can then have specific ways to discipline. You will learn about how to use a tool I created called, "Dial-A-Discipline."

In this episode, you will learn exactly what to do to discipline your child when he or she is interrupting you or annoying you (in an inappropriate way). I will teach you the 4 steps to follow when you get into these situations that are so frustrating. I also share a story about my (failed) effort to correct this behavior, and why it didn't work in that situation.

In this episode of the Positive Parenting Pep Talks Podcast, you will continue to learn about the systematic approach to discipline and behavior that I use in Positive Parenting. By understanding why your child is acting up, and identifying their mistaken goal, you can then have specific ways to discipline. You will learn about how to use a tool I created called, "Dial-A-Discipline."

In this episode, I cover general pointers to keep in mind about identifying the 4 mistaken goals:

• Attention
• Power
• Revenge
• Inadequacy

In this episode of the Positive Parenting Pep Talks Podcast, you will learn about the systematic approach to discipline and behavior that I use in Positive Parenting. By understanding why your child is acting up, and identifying their mistaken goal, you can then have specific ways to discipline. You will learn about how to use a tool I created called, "Dial-A-Discipline."

In this episode, I have my friend, Stephanie, demonstrate each of the four goals by being my mother when I won't pick up my toys. In this way, you can experience the situation that most resonates with what your child does in similar circumstances.

In this episode of the Positive Parenting Pep Talks Podcast, a mom shares her concern about not spanking for an important discipline challenge. I found our conversation to be fascinating and enlightening as this mom processed her reasons for spanking and then looked at alternatives to get a better result.

A couple discusses the way they can handle conflicts with the children.  Sometimes one parent can be a mediator and sometimes it’s better to simply support the other parent’s efforts.

In this Positive Parenting Pep Talk a dad talks about his process for learning to parent differently.  Slow and consistent progress can be made with diligent effort and application.  Communication is so important for all our relationships.

What do you do when a child is really hard on herself?  Whenever you need to give this child direction or discipline and she falls apart.  Help her feel better about herself so she can receive direction without falling apart.

Get your kids to respect your "no”.

How do you get your kids to respect you when you say no?  If your child continues to pester you when you’ve set a limit, then you need to look more deeply at what the behavior is communicating.  Handling feelings can help kids learn to handle disappointments in their life.

In this Positive Parenting Pep Talk, a mom asks about if her child can choose regarding a medical decision. The short answer is "no".

In this Positive Parenting Pep Talk, a mom has a question about getting her teen out and doing things other than staying home alone on the computer.

In this Positive Parenting Pep Talk, parents are concerned about their daughter staying up too late and constantly pushing the bedtime later and later.

In this Positive Parenting Pep Talk, a mom talks about the way her son pitched a fit when he didn't get what he wanted. We talked about ways to help him feel seen heard and understood before helping him solve the problem.

In this Positive Parenting pep Talk, I help a mom with ideas for what to do when one sibling starts punching the other. We discussed some ideas for how and when to intervene.  We also covered teaching children to do a make-up when they have hurt their sibling.

In this Positive Parenting Pep Talk, a mom asks about motivating her child with bribes. We discuss the downfall of using rewards or brining, and also the appropriate time and manner in which to use rewards. We also discuss a tool to change a stressful time of day.

In this Positive Parenting Pep Talk, a mom asks for help getting her 7 year olds off the screen. It's no an easy task, but it's doable!

In this Positive Parenting Pep Talk, I answer an email question about a child's destructive behavior.

In this Positive Parenting Pep Talk, a mom is struggling with what to do with her 6th grade son who is not putting effort into his schoolwork.

In this Positive Parenting Pep Talk, I help a mom with a new plan for quiet time at Grandma's house.

In this episode of the Positive Parenting Pep Talks, you will learn how to know when to give your child attention and when to set limits on the attention seeking behavior.  Learn specifically the best manner in which to set the limit on behavior.

In this Positive Parenting Pep Talk, I begin by providing why GEMS and Taking care of yourself are two of the most important concepts in Positive Parenting.

We then transition to a mom's question about what to do when you want to spank your kids. You will benefit and gain insight through this discussion with a mom about why spanking for siblings hitting each other is so ineffective and what to do instead. How could you get excited about helping your kids resolved their conflicts and stop fighting? This episode is longer than usual and it's worthwhile to listen to the end.

In this episode of Positive Parenting Pep Talks, a mom shares her frustration with her three year old having melt-downs.  We talk about the causes of the escalation and the various points where an intervention could work to prevent the full blown tantrum.  Other parents chime in with helpful suggestions.

In this Positive Parenting Pep Talk, we discuss when one child interrupts and dominates a conversation.  This question stumped me a first, but as we discussed the dynamics, it led to insight and ideas about what to do.

In this Positive Parenting Pep Talks Podcast, parents asked about how to know when to intervene in kids fighting.

This discussion includes ideas for when to intervene, as well as how to encourage cooperation and discourage fighting.

In this Positive Parenting Pep Talk, a couple voices their concerns over getting the children to school on time.  When we (the parents) ned to be at work, our stress can often give the children a reason to drag their heelps about getting ready.  In this episode, we discuss ideas for shifting the responsibility for getting out the door on time to the children.

A mom wanted to be ready for the future, so we had a talk.  In this Positive Parenting Pep Talk, i share some of my experiences raising teenagers.

In this Positive Parenting Pep Talk, a mom expresses her horror when her 4 year old repeats a word mom had said.  We discuss the state of the situation and all the possibilities moving forward.

This Positive Parenting Pep Talk is a continuation of yesterday's episode.  Today, we look at this same issue from the perspective of the step-parent.  It's not easy when there are 2 vastly different perspectives and I think that we navigate the delicate issues involved in a grace filled way.

In this Positive Parenting Pep Talk, we discuss how to encourage kids to get outside and be more active.  It's much easier said than done!  And the moms in this discussion give many great ideas for helping you if you want to encourage more physical activity in your children.

In this Positive Parenting Pep Talk, I help a mom get her kids to listen better.

In this Positive Parenting Pep Talk, I help a mom navigave how to teach her child to say "please" and "thank you."  It's not always easy and we talk about the advantages and pitfalls to our different attempts to teach our children manners.

This is my favorite 3-prong appraoch to getting my kids to listen in any situation.

In this Positive Parenting Pep Talk, we look at each child’s unique personality to understand what they need. Using their unique nature and different learning styles to create harmony in the family.

This Positive Parenting Pep Talk describes you can use Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs to provide the appropriate discipline for your children.. A child must get their survival needs met before they can move up the hierarchy and interaction in a socially appropriate manner.

This Positive Parenting Pep Talk will describe the qualities of attachment when it occurs.

Attachment is such an important part of our job as parents, especially in the first two years of life.

This is the next in a series of Positive Parenting Pep Talks from Dreikur's book, "The Challenge of Parenthood."

In this series, I am using ideas from the book, written in 1948, and putting a modern day perspective to the topic.

Nagging and fault finding rarely held the child.

They will usually tune us out and won't learn from the natural consequences of their behavior.

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This is the next in a series of Positive Parenting Pep Talks from Dreikur's book, "The Challenge of Parenthood."

In this series, I am using ideas from the book, written in 1948, and putting a modern day perspective to the topic.

Asking as child for blind obedience is usually rooted in our belief that we must maintain our parental authority at all cost.

Unfortunately, it doesn't usually work in the short term or long term.

Thank you for listening and subscribing to the Positive Parenting Pep Talks podcast.

I would deeply  appreciate your support by leaving us a review today.

This is the next in a series of Positive Parenting Pep Talks from Dreikur's book, "The Challenge of Parenthood."  

In this series, I am using ideas from the book, written in 1948, and putting a modern day perspective to the topic.

Using punishment and rewards nearly always backfires.  

One reason is that children feel themselves equal and therefore will rebel against and even respond in kind.

Thank you for listening and subscribing to the Positive Parenting Pep Talks podcast.

I would deeply  appreciate your support by leaving us a review today.

This is the next in a series of Positive Parenting Pep Talks from Dreikur's book, "The Challenge of Parenthood."

In this series, I am using ideas from the book, written in 1948, and putting a modern day perspective to the topic.

When we tell our child to pull himself together, it actually makes them feel weaker, rather than making them stronger.

Thank you for listening and subscribing to the Positive Parenting Pep Talks podcast.

I would deeply  appreciate your support by leaving us a review today.

This is the next in a series of Positive Parenting Pep Talks from Dreikur's book, "The Challenge of Parenthood."  

In this series, I am using ideas from the book, written in 1948, and putting a modern day perspective to the topic.

Extracting promises should be avoided.  

It doesn't work for the result we have in mind and can even cause children to behave worse, rather than better.

Thank you for listening and subscribing to the Positive Parenting Pep Talks podcast.

I would deeply  appreciate your support by leaving us a review today.