Pour Life Decision
By Pour Life Decision
Pour Life DecisionDec 02, 2022
Holiday Blues (Beating the Holiday Blues)
Krys has a Crown Royal Peach Tea, Doyin has a Brown Estate Chardonnay. This week, we discuss Netflix not minding their business (again), Da Baby's Cheesecake Factory ticket rumors, the AMA awards and more. For our someone/something, we celebrate Karen Bass, the first black woman mayor of LA. And for our Pour Life Decision, we share 9 ways to beat the holiday blues. Pour up and tune in!
Episode Notes:
Dealing with holiday blues - https://www.healthline.com/health/depression/holiday-blues
Drink recipe - https://www.geostablephl.com/blog/2020/holiday-blues-Prosecco-cocktail
Credits:
open: @THADDBOII
close: Shabooya - Hitkidd, Gloss Up, K Carbon, Slimeroni, Aleza
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The Upside Down (Stranger Things x PTSD)
Krys has a Bols Red Light Negroni, Doyin has a Hahn Chardonnay. This episode, special guest M.Foss (of podcast TV Doctor) joins us for a discussion about Stranger Things, particularly season 4 and Vecna and the imagery of PTSD/trauma. Pour up and tune in!
Trigger warning: PTSD/Trauma
Spoiler warning: Stranger Things, Houss of the Dragon, Pose, and Grey’s Anatomy
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open: @_obeythebri2
close: Shirt - SZA
sound byte: @hbomax
Carolina Vagina (Vagina Wellness)
Krys has a water, Doyin has a Bridal. This week, we. discuss 2Chainz new gig as creative director, the So So Def & Bad Boy versus and Joe Biden's federal pardon of simple marijuana possession. For our someone/something, we settle the debate on outside clothes and the bed. And for our Pour Life Decision, we share ways to love your vagina the way it is. Pour up and tune in
Episode Notes:
Love Your Vagina - https://www.xonecole.com/10-things-your-vagina-wishes-you-would-do-more-often/?rebelltitem=10#rebelltitem10
Drink recipe - https://www.cocktailbuilder.com/recipe/carolina-vagina
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Credits:
open: @lovesexandla
close: Let’s Get Married - Jagged Edge ft Run
other music/audio in episode: Single Ladies - Beyonce
@Plies
Rump Shaker - Wreckx-n-Effect
Resting Garden Margarita (Types of Rest II)
Krys has a On the Rocks Jalapeño Pineapple Margarita, Doyin has a XXX. This week, we discuss Trevor Noah's butt (and Daily Show exit announcement), the FBI file on Aretha Franklin, sex toys on the highway and more. For our Someone/Something, we celebrate Ketanji Brown's first day of work. And for our Pour Life Decision, we discuss the seven types of rest that every person needs. Pour up and tune in!
Episode notes:
7 types of rest everyone needs - https://ideas.ted.com/the-7-types-of-rest-that-every-person-needs/
Credits:
open: @kissmytisha
close: Tomorrow 2 - GloRilla ft Cardi B
Drink recipe: https://www.patrontequila.com/cocktails/patron-reposado/resting-garden.html
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The Green Gossip (People Talking About You)
Krys has Bota Box Chardonnay, Doyin has a Lavender Old Fashioned. This we discuss Fenty x Super Bowl, another black Big Brother first, a man with a 48-year grudge and more. For our someone/something, we celebrate black women making their mark in the spirit industry. And for our Pour Life Decision, we discuss 11 reasons people talk about their back and what to do about it. Pour up and tune in!
Episode Notes:
11 Top Reasons People Talk Behind Your Back and What to Do about It - https://liveboldandbloom.com/10/relationships/people-talk-behind-back
Credit:
open- @obiojones
close- Gossip Folks - Missy Elliott ft Ludacris
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The Break Up Diet (Breaking Up with Your Therapist)
Episode Notes:
Breaking up with your therapist - www.self.com/story/how-to-break-up-with-therapist
Drink recipe - app.ckbk.com/recipe/thin50482c02s001r001/the-breakup-diet
Credits:
open: @not.jayswift
close: Wait For U - Future ft. Drake and Tems
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Suffering Bastard II (High Functioning Depression)
Krys has a Bud Light hard cherry soda, Doyin has a canned French 75. This week, we discuss Scotland being the first country to offer free pads and tampons, OnlyFans modeling careers, getting carjacked while naked and more. For our someone/something, we share our favorite restaurant red flags. And for our Pour Life Decision, we discuss the signs and symptoms of high functioning depression. Pour up and tune in!
Episode Notes:
Restaurant Red Flags - https://apple.news/AhDszfYJhTE6rSED2NZ5IsQ
High Function Depression Signs & Symptoms - https://www.bridgestorecovery.com/high-functioning-depression/signs-symptoms-high-functioning-depression/
Credits:
open - @naijaprincess94_
close - Seduce & Scheme - original music from HBO Max’s Rap Sh!t
Drink Recipe: https://www.liquor.com/recipes/suffering-bastard/
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Microdose (Microanxiety)
Let Sleepy Hounds Life (Tiredness)
Krys has a LIQs box Mojito, Doyin has a lavender limoncello. This week, we discuss Angela Yee's Breakfast Club breakup, Alex Jones getting a slice of what he deserves, Florida Woman doing the right thing and more. For our someone/something, we discuss Serena's vulnerable article about why she is retiring from tennis. And for our Pour Life Decision, we talk about five types of tiredness and what we can do about it. Pour up and tune in!
Episode Notes:
Five types of tiredness - https://www.selfcareinstitute.com/types-of-tiredness/
Drink recipe - Let Sleepy Hounds Lie
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Credits:
open: @zzzachariah
close: Dont Kno - Glorilla Mo
Renaissance (Self Actualization)
Breath of Fresh Air (Breathing)
Krys has a 19 Crimes Martha Stewart Chardonnay and Doyin has a Rose G&T. This week, we discuss Misty Copeland's new little one, the Desus and Mero split, drinking coffee for wellness, and more. For our someone/something, we discuss top beauty products to try in July for under $80. And for our Pour Life Decision, we discuss the benefits of breathing. Pour up and tune in!
Episode Notes:
Are you breathing properly? https://www.vice.com/en/article/qjbqkd/are-you-breathing-properly-exercises-anxiety-meditation
Drink recipe -
Credits -
open: @saltysugar.r
close: Rabbit Hole - Qveen Herby
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Absolute Stress (Body Tension)
Welcome to Season 2!! Krys has a Hurricane, Doyin has a Cartel 75. This week, we chat J.Lo/Ben Affleck's wedding, black Emmy nominations, sketchy Florida toilets and more. For our someone/something, we celebrate Jenifer Lewis' new Hollywood Star. And for our Pour Life Decision, we discuss body tension and emotional help. Pour up and tune in!
Episode notes:
Where your body stores tension and emotional health - https://www.organicauthority.com/energetic-health/where-your-body-stores-tension-says-a-lot-about-your-emotional-health
Drink recipe - https://www.allrecipes.com/recipe/18917/absolute-stress/
Credits:
open: @look_its_britt
close: Break My Soul - Beyonce
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Bee Positive (Gaslighting Yourself)
Krys has a Black Russian*, Doyin has a Manhattan. This week, we discuss Kierra Sheard's stance on friendgirl housing arrangements, Jim Jones getting profiled at a Gucci store, Florida couple's OnlyFans vid in a police car and more. For our someone/something, we discuss simple habits for a healthy heart. And for our Pour Life Decision, we go through five ways you could be gaslighting yourself. Pour up and tune in!
*This episode was recorded before fuck ass Russia decided to choose violence. Our hearts are with the refugees of Ukraine.
Episode Notes:
Get heart smart! - https://twitter.com/applenews/status/1483803685750816775?s=12
5 Signs You're Gaslighting Yourself - https://medium.com/change-your-mind/five-signs-youre-gaslighting-yourself-a37ca4e1138c
Drink recipe - https://www.patrontequila.com/cocktails/patron-anejo/bee-positive.html
Credits:
open - @chriscruz7792
close - Amazing - Mary J Blige ft DJ Khaled
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Dream Team Martini (Sleep and Anxiety)
Krys has a Mixed Berry Truly, Doyis has a (Partial) Death in Oaxaca. This week, we discuss Cardi B's win of the defamation suit against Tasha K., America's largest pot brownie and Florida man turned dog warrior. For our Someone/Something, we celebrate Spike Lee's honor as Lifetime Achievement Award from Directors' Guild of America. And for Pour Life Decision, we discuss coping with sleep and anxiety. Pour up and tune in!
Episode Notes:
Coping with Sleep and Anxiety - https://www.teenvogue.com/story/sleep-anxiety
Drink Recipe - https://highheelstohotwheels.com/2013/10/dream-team-martini/
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Credits:
open - @thechristishow
close - Abowww - DJ Bit
Clear Intentions (Reoccurring Acne)
Krys has a Peach Delight, Doyin has a Spiced Maple Gimlet. This week, we discuss Netflix raising prices, Cardi B's testimony on Tasha K's allegations, Florida Women making a new meaning to glitter bombing and more. For our someone/something, we swoon at the three-year-old spider girl's viral photoshoot. And for our Pour Life Decision, we cover major reasons behind reoccurring acne. Pour up and tune in!
Episode Notes:
Power Puffs - https://www.becauseofthemwecan.com/blogs/the-feels/three-year-old-poses-as-spider-girl-in-viral-birthday-photoshoot
Reoccurring acne - https://www.vogue.in/beauty/content/this-is-why-you-get-recurrent-pimples-on-the-same-spot-on-your-face/amp
Drink recipe - https://kindredcocktails.com/cocktail/clear-intentions
Credits -
open: @mr.cryyinsobad
close: Lick - Shenseea ft Megan Thee Stallion
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Yes! (Saying Yes to Yourself)
Krys has a Dark and Stormy, Doyin has Sunshine Bay Sauvingnon Blanc. This week, we chat the pope's stance on having kids, Blue Ivy getting grown, Sesame Street battling with rocks and more. For our someone/something, we celebrate the life and legacy of Sidney Poitier. And for our Pour Life Decision, we discuss seven ways to say yes to yourself. Pour up and tune in!
Episode Notes:
7 ways to say yes to yourself - https://thriveglobal.com/stories/7-ways-to-say-yes-to-yourself/
Drink recipe - https://www.crystalmixer.com/yes-recipe/
Credits - open: @brokeassgirltravel
close: Rodeo - City Girls
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The Crowd Pleaser (People Pleasing)
Krys has a Water Bird Tequila Margarita, Doyin as a gin toddy. This week, we chat about the cry to end Grey's Anatomy (please!), trouble on De Bleck Penthe set, Florida woman's "lemonade" and more. For our someone/something, Dayvon Johnson, the heroic sixth-grader who saved a choking classmate and elderly woman in a house fire on the same day. And for our Pour Life Decision, we share tips on how to stop people-pleasing. Pour up and tune in!
Episode Notes:
How to stop people-pleasing
https://www.xonecole.com/how-to-stop-being-such-a-people-pleaser/
Drink recipe - https://advancedmixology.com/blogs/art-of-mixology/the-crowd-pleaser-cocktail-recipe
Credits -
open: @_obeythebri2
close: Knife Talk - Drake ft. 21 Savage & Project Pat
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Money Maker (Personal Finance)
Krys has a Southern mule, Doyin has The Grinch. This week, we discuss Mariah Carey's dress men, reproducing robots and celebrate some of our favorite celebs, Janelle Monae, Rihanna and Natasha Rothwell. For our someone something, we chat about the upcoming Reframed documentary Fannie Lou Hamer's America. And for our Pour Life Decision, we chat finances with Alieshia Nunnally of Millennial Thoughts. Pour up and tune in!
Episode Notes:
Special guest -
Podcast: www.podpage.com/millennial-thoughts/
Social Media: IG - millennialthoughtspod
Drink Recipe - https://www.foodnetwork.com/recipes/the-money-maker-recipe-2107473
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Old Friend (Being Supportive)
Krys has a 135 degrees East Hyogo gin and tonic, Doyin has a Finnish Long Drink. This week we discuss daughters breaking their mom out of prison, Steebie and Faith somersaulting, the Sould Train Awards and more. For our someone/something, we discuss Apple's decision to sell parts for customers to make their own repairs. And for our Pour Life Decision, we share ways to be a supportive friend when you're going through yourself. Pour up and tune in!
Episode Notes:
How to be a supportive friend
https://www.wellandgood.com/how-support-someone/
Drink recipe
https://www.diffordsguide.com/cocktails/recipe/4258/old-friend
Credit:
open - @elysemyers
close - Bitch From Da Souf - Latto ft Trina
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Bad Name (Redirecting Thoughts)
Krys has a Red Eye Louie, Doyin has spiked eggnog. This week, we discuss Chloe Bailey's new music preview, Levar Burton's new game show gig and Florida woman blaming her erratic driving on an eggroll. For our someone/something, celebrate the Datcher family who has owned their Alabama farm since the 1800s. And for our Pour Life Decision, we share tactical advice on how to redirect negative thoughts. Pour up and tune in!
Episode Notes:
https://www.uhhospitals.org/Healthy-at-UH/articles/2020/04/strategies-to-redirect-your-thoughts-and-distract-your-mind
Drink recipe - https://www.diffordsguide.com/cocktails/recipe/4728/bad-name
Credits -
open: @lisabexperience
close: She Bad - Rapsody
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Welcome Home (Cooking at Home)
Krys has a Rye mule, Doyin has a lavender gin and tonic. This week, we discuss Nick Cannon shooting his fertile shot, raisin mac and cheese, and the I-N-D-E-P-E-N-D-E-N-T California condors. For our someone something, we celebrate 12-year-old Nyla Hayes, TIME's first artist in residence and NFT queen. And for our Pour Life Decision, friend of the pod Shunda reminds us we have food at home and what to do with it. Pour up and tune in!
Episode Notes:
Connect with Shunda
Drink recipe - https://wholefully.com/the-welcome-home-cocktail/
Credits -
open: @crazymarolive
close: Smokin Out The Window - Silk Sonic
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Skyward Bound (ADHD in Black Women)
Krys has an Irish Mule, Doyin has a Makers Mark with Sprite. This week, we discuss Pop Tart being sued for not having enough strawberries, Young Thug gifting Drake diamonds, Sandra Mason as Barbados' first president and more. For our someone something, we celebrate the Shreveport dad patrol working to reduce school violence. And for our Pour Life Decision, we chat with special guest Torrian Timms about her journey with adult-diagnosed ADHD and how you can advocate for yourself as a patient. Pour up and tune in!
Episode Notes:
Drink recipe - https://inthecloudsevents.com/dreamy-cloud-inspired-cocktails/
Connect with Torrian:
Instagram: @torrianisallthings and @sistaswithadhd
Twitter: @thetorriantimms
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Acceptance Peach Champagne (Radical Acceptance)
Krys has a Carlo Rossi Watermelon Sangria, Doyin has a Maple Old Fashioned. This week, we discuss rice cooker divorces, the awesome dad that is campaigning to have period pain as a legitimate school absence reason and more. For our someone/something, we learn about winter vagina and ways to combat it. And for our Pour Life Decision, we discuss 10 ways to use radical acceptance to cope with uncertainty. Pour up and tune in!
Episode Notes:
Winter Vagina - https://www.xonecole.com/wtf-is-winter-vagina/
Radical Acceptance - https://hopeway.org/blog/radical-acceptance
Drink recipe - https://www.adorechampagne.com/cocktails/acceptance-peach-931
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Credits:
open - @khaenotbae
close - Strub Tha Ground - Quavo & Yung Miami
sound byte credit: Succession Title Theme - Nicholas Britell
Lavender French 75 (Work Stress)
Boston Burn Out (Burnout Coping Strategies)
Krys has a Barefoot Sangria, Doyin has a whiskey and date syrup. We discuss Cardi B's fashions, the great RHOA Shakeup, freaky gorillas and more. For our someone/something, we discuss spiritual bathing in the black community. And for our Pour Life Decision, we talk about how to cope with burnout in five minutes or less. Pour up and tune in!
Episode notes:
Bath time
https://www.allure.com/story/spiritual-bathing-black-community
Burn out coping strategies
https://www.vice.com/en/article/7kv8vq/burnout-coping-strategies-that-take-five-minutes-or-less
Drink recipe - https://www.cocktailbuilder.com/recipe/boston-burn-out
Credits:
open - Issa Rae
close - Meet Me At Our Spot - The Anxiety, Willow Smith, & Tyler Cole
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Mudslide (Pandemic Weight Gain)
Episode Notes
Surviving the Metrograde - thechilltimes.com/8-tips-for-surviving-and-thriving-during-mercury-retrograde/
Pandemic weight gain - health.clevelandclinic.org/how-to-shake-pandemic-weight-gain-and-get-your-health-back-on-track/
Credits
open: @itskeyonn
close: Way 2 Sexy - Drake ft. Future and Young Thug
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Dirty Shirley (Setting Boundaries with Parents)
Kansas City Water (Drinking Water)
Krys has a hot toddy, Doyin has a LVE Chardonnay. This week, we discuss the return of Regé-Jean Page in The Saint, Elton John schooling Da Baby, Florida woman finding $1 bil in the bank and more. For our someone/something, we celebrate Simone Biles and her continuous focus on mental health. And for our Pour Life Decision, we discuss the right and wrong ways to drink water. Pour up and tune in!
Episode Notes:
Drink Water - https://www.xonecole.com/drinking-water-wrong/
Drink recipe - https://www.allrecipes.com/recipe/51923/kansas-city-ice-water/
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Credits:
open: @errinnwhitney
close: Have Mercy - Chloe
Woodson's Confidence (Self Confidence)
Krys has a "Rosey Baby" (rose-infused gin and tonic), Doyin has a "Pour Life Decision" (port and zinfandel). We discuss Nikole Hannah-Jones' new role at Howard (and racism in academia, ofc), bobcats adopting a yard, Olympic beds, and more. For our someone/something, we celebrate Zaila Avant-garde, black dribbling, spelling, and whatever else she wants to do excellence personified. And for our Pour Life Decision, we talk about how to build confidence when you're down. Pour up and tune in!
Episode Notes:
How to Build Your Self-confidence When You’re Down On Yourself -
https://thriveglobal.com/stories/how-to-build-confidence-boost-your-self-esteem-tips/
Drink recipe - https://www.thespruceeats.com/woodson-confidence-cocktale-5113657
Credit -
open: @joshomz
close: Whole Lotta Money remix - BIA ft Nicki Minaj
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Windex (Recovering from Social Media Trauma)
Krys has a Barefoot Merlot, Doyin has a gin and tonic. This week, we discuss Lori Harvey, pervert cops, and flight attendants protecting the plane from hijackers and more. For our someone something, we celebrate Debra M. Brown, Mississippi's first Black female chief federal judge. And for our Pour Life Decision, we discuss how to power-wash your brain after seeing graphic content online. Pour up and tune in!
Episode Notes:
How to power wash your brain - https://www.vice.com/en/article/dyvgjj/how-to-power-wash-your-brain-after-seeing-graphic-content-online
Drink recipe - https://www.epicurus.com/beverages/windex/4901/
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Credits:
open - @thekrissychula
close - Ski - Young Stoner Life, Young Thug, & Gunna
Vermouth the Bell Tolls (Journaling)
Krys has a grapefruit Firefly vodka and soda, Doyin has a white wine she forgot to get the name of. This week we discuss Zendaya as Lola Bunny in Space Jam, Mrs. Tina setting the record straight on Beyonce, the royal American baby and more. For our someone/something, we celebrate Margaret Nyamumbo, the first black woman to get a deal to sell coffee at Trader Joe's. And for our someone something, we discuss how journaling can help you in hard times. Pour up and tune in!
Episode Notes:
How journaling can help you in hard times - https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/how_journaling_can_help_you_in_hard_times
Drink recipe- https://www.eatyourbooks.com/library/recipes/1097253/vermouth-of-the-bell-tolls
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Credits:
open - @reyofsunshine76
close - Maybach - 42 Dugg ft. Future
Spiked London Fog (Covid Brain Fog)
Episode Notes:
Pandemic fog - www.huffpost.com/entry/covid-brain-fog-causes_l_60992d92e4b0ae3c68811327
Drink recipe - www.sobeys.com/en/recipes/spiked-london-fog/
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Credits:
open - @ramalauw
close - Kiss Me More- Doja Cat ft. SZA
Black Velvet (Black Women and PTSD)
Krys has a tequila and cranberry, Doyin has a lavender gin fizz. This week, we discuss exploding vagina candles, Naomi's newborn daught, Kaavia's new book and more. For our someone/something, we celebrate "In Our Mothers' Gardens", a documentary on Netflix that creates space for black women. And for our Someone/Something, we talk about PTSD, how it affects black women and how to relieve anxiety associated with PTSD. Pour up and tune in!
Episode Notes:
In Our Mothers' Gardens - https://www.nytimes.com/2021/05/06/movies/in-our-mothers-gardens-review.html
Black women and PTSD - https://bwhi.org/2017/07/31/black-women-ptsd-know-ptsd/
9 healthy coping tips for PTSD - https://www.verywellmind.com/ways-of-coping-with-anxiety-2797619
Drink recipe - https://www.liquor.com/recipes/black-velvet/
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Credits:
open - @featuringchichi
close - Time Today - Moneybagg Yo
Arbitrary Nature of Time (Time Blindness)
Krys has an adult caprisun, Doyin has an arbitrary mix (whiskey, hibiscus tea and sprite.) This week, we discuss Las Vegas woman killing her husband on a video call, Italian man "skipping" work for 15 years, Florida man's prosthetic leg full of drugs and more. For our someone/something, we celebrate Troia Butcher and her gifts to frontline workers. And for our Pour Life Decision, we discuss time blindness and how to cope. Pour up and tune in!
Episode Notes:
Troia Butcher - https://madamenoire.com/1221336/troia-butcher-healing-kit/
Time blindness
https://www.thecut.com/2020/04/coronavirus-self-isolation-time-blindness.html
https://blackgirllostkeys.com/adhd/time-blindness-timely-advice/
Drink recipe - https://theeducatedbarfly.com/arbitrary-nature-of-time/
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Credits:
open - reposted by @craigthewriterstewart
close - Itty Bitty Piggy - Nicki Minaj
Hypnotiq (Emotional Healing)
Welcome to our "April Fools" yearly episode! This year's drink was our old college faithful, Hypnotiq: Krys has a Hypnotiq Martini, Doyin has a Hulk 75.
This week, we discuss:
- The Oscars - our fashion faves and black winners
- Jaleel White's new cannabis strain, Purple Urkel
- Matthew McCoughnahey polling strongly for Texas governor
- Mike Epps falling for karma
- Lizzo sliding in Chris Evan's DMs (Queen!)
- Florida woman's probably baby dinosaur in her back yard.
For our someone/something, we discuss five black women of note in the cannabis industry.
And for our Pour Life Decision, we share five emotional healing techniques.
Article links:
Cannabis Cueens - https://www.healthline.com/health/5-women-of-color-taking-back-the-cannabis-industry
5 emotional self healing techniques - https://www.mind-mastery.com/article/421/5-Emotional-Self-Healing-Techniques
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Credits:
open: @jaciejays
close: I Get Around - Tupac ft Digital Underground
Toxic Tonic (Digital Peace)
Krys has a Cali Rosé, Doyin has a Hendricks Lunar gin and tonic. This week, we discuss Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson's potential Presidential run, 10-year-olds stealing minivans for plain Cheerios, bullets in flaming hot Cheetos and more. For our Someone/Something, we celebrate NFL Titan Star Eddie George picking up an HBCU coaching job at Tennesee State. And for our Pour Life Decision, we discuss digital boundaries and protecting your peace.
Episode Notes:
Eddie George - https://www.espn.com/college-football/story/_/id/31237538/sources-former-tennessee-titans-star-eddie-george-named-coach-tennessee-state-tigers
Digital Peace - https://therapyforblackgirls.com/2021/03/18/digital-boundaries-and-protecting-your-peace/
Drink recipe - https://www.mantitlement.com/toxic-tonic/
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Credits:
open - DMX
close - How It’s Goin’ Down - DMX
Fog Cutter (Productivity with ADHD)
Krys has a Wonderbird Spirits gin/soda, Doyin has a Kentucky Libre (whiskey and coke.) This week, we discuss the #Verzuz with Earth Wind and Fire/the Isley Brothers, Megan thee Stallion flirting with Yung Miami on Twitter, Florida man stealing a police car while handcuffed and more. For our someone/something, we discuss All American Homecoming - the HBCU spinoff of CW's All American. And for our Pour Life Decision, we share productivity tips for the ADHD brain. Pour up and tune in!
Episode Notes:
Productivity Tips for the ADHD Brain - https://www.additudemag.com/slideshows/productivity-tips/
Drink recipe - https://www.thrillist.com/recipe/fog-cutter-recipe
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Credits:
open - @that_cripple
close - Streets - Doja Cat
Chamomile-Honey Hot Toddy
Krys has a French 77, Doyin has a jalapeno blood orange margarita. This week, we discuss Netflix needing to chill, Beyonce's storage units getting robbed, a Southwest Pilot cussin on mic and more. For our someone/something, we celebrate Issa Rae's new deal with Warner Media. And for our Pour Life Decision, we talk about sleep deprivation and mental health. Pour up and tune in!
Episode Notes:
Sleep Deprivation - https://www.talkspace.com/blog/sleep-deprivation-hurts-mental-health/
Drink recipe - https://www.simplyrecipes.com/recipes/chamomile_honey_hot_toddy/
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Credits -
open: @headoftheehoochies
close: Twerkulator - City Girls
Painkiller (Health Self-Advocacy)
Krys has a Roku gin and soda, Doyin has a Hendrick's Lunar gin and tonic. This week, we discuss Saweetie's split with Quavo, Travis Scott giving his friend a Maybach SUV, Rudy Guliani being whiny and more. For our someone/something, we share tips for mastering the art of the thirst trap. And for our Pour Life Decision, we discuss how to be an advocate for your health. Pour up and tune in!
Episode Notes:
The art of the thirst trap - https://www.xonecole.com/master-the-art-of-the-thirst-traps-with-these-pro-tips/?rebelltitem=4#rebelltitem4
How to talk to your doctor and get the healthcare you need - https://avivaromm.com/speaking-up-to-your-doctor/
Drink recipe: https://www.thespruceeats.com/painkiller-cocktail-recipe-760473
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Credits -
open: @hotdaddyissues
close: For the Streets - Rubi Rose
Good Thyme (Therapy)
Krys has a 19 Crimes Cali Red, Doyin has a New York Sour. This week, we discuss Megan thee Philanthropist, new Fenty Hair products, the leaked Kirk Franklin phone call, and more. We celebrate Tyler Perry's efforts to support black people. And for our Pour Life Decision, we discuss 8 reasons you should go to therapy (if you haven't considered it before.)
Episode Notes:
Tyler Perry -
https://www.essence.com/celebrity/times-tyler-perry-helped-supported-black-women/
8 reasons for therapy -
https://www.therapyden.com/blog/eight-reasons-you-should-go-to-therapy-that-you-havent-considered-before
Drink recipe - https://blog.gardenuity.com/thyme-out-cocktail/
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Credits -
open: @monaswain
close: Pretty Bitch Freestyle - Saweetie
Martini Royale (Radical Self-Care)
Krys has a Gin Sour, Doyin has a 19Crimes Cali Rosé. This week, we discuss the Meg/Harry interview, Burger King fumbling the tweet, a new black woman HGTV show, and more. For our someone/something, we discuss 9 things black women need to add to their radical self-care regiment. And for our Pour Life Decision, we take a dive into radical self-care. Pour up and tune in!
Episode Notes:
9 things black women need to add to their radical self-care regimen - https://www.xonecole.com/radical-self-care-routine/?rebelltitem=1#rebelltitem1
Radical self-care - https://avivaromm.com/radical-self-care/
Drink recipe - https://www.jamieoliver.com/drinks-tube/recipe/martini-royale/
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open: @longlegzk
Good Humor (Laughter as Coping)
Krys has a Budweiser seltzer, Doyin has a french 95. This week, we discuss gender reveals gone lethal, Popeyes getting rid of cajun rice, Matthew Knowles "retirement" from the music industry and more. For our someone/something, we celebrate the digital resurgence of Ebony Magazine. And for our Pour Life Decision, we discuss humor as a pandemic coping skill. Pour up and tune in!
Episode Notes:
Humor during pandemic - https://www.talkspace.com/blog/coronavirus-humor-coping-skill/
Drink recipe - https://kindredcocktails.com/cocktail/good-humor
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Credits -
open: @noahshacc
close: Levitating - Dua Lipa ft. DaBaby
Brand New World (Focus)
Krys has a Mexican 75, Doyin has a margarita. This week, we discuss jarcuteries, the end of the Dave Chapelle show boycott, a very resourceful Florida man and more. To round out Black History month, we discuss facts about the Black Panther party for our someone/something. And for our Pour Life Decision, we discuss how to focus. Pour up and tune in!
Episode Notes:
Facts about the Black Panther - https://www.huffpost.com/entry/27-important-facts-everyone-should-know-about-the-black-panthers_n_56c4d853e4b08ffac1276462
A Brief Guide on How to Focus - https://jamesclear.com/focus
Drink recipe - https://www.thedrinksbusiness.com/2014/09/top-10-tequila-mockingbird-cocktails/3/
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Credits:
open: Bobby Brown and Whitney Houston
close: Focus - H.E.R.
Cocktail Therapy (Alternatives to Therapy)
Krys has a gin and soda, Doyin has a Wakanda Forever (Empress 1908 gin and elderflower tonic.) This week, we discuss Subway's faux tuna, Bridgerton season getting renewed, Halle clapping back and more. For our someone/something, we celebrate the life and legacy of Cicely Tyson. And for our Pour Life Decision, we discuss mental health alternatives to therapy (but Krys says I still have to go.) Pour up and tune in!
Episode Notes:
Cicely Tyson
https://www.biography.com/actor/cicely-tyson
Therapy Alternatives
https://therapyforblackgirls.com/2020/12/14/mental-health-alternatives-to-therapy/
Drink recipe -
https://www.food.com/recipe/cocktail-therapy-i-e-berry-smoothie-for-adults-317119
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Credits -
Intro: @iamcleotrapa
close: Up - Cardi B
The Good Word (Making Good Habits)
Krys has a bourbon root beer, Doyin has a blood orange whiskey sour. This week, we discuss Bow Wow's concert, Michelle schoolin the chirren on IG, Florida man stealing horses and more. We celebrate UCLA gymnastics QUEEN Nia Dennis. And for our Pour Life Decision, we discuss the 3 lists you need to make good habits. Pour up and tune in!
Episode Notes:
Making good habits - https://advice.theshineapp.com/articles/jen-sincero-badass-habits/
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open: @durandbernarr
close: Best Friend - Saweetie ft Doja Cat
A Grog's Purpose (Purpose)
Krys has a Mezcalita, Doyin has a gin and tonic. This week, we chat the impending of Insecure, Azaelia cooking cats, the inauguration playlist and more. For our someone/something, we rate meal delivery kits. And for our Pour Life Decision, we invite Atoya Follins, author of Girl You Have Purpose, to discuss our life purpose. Pour up and tune in!
Episode Notes:
Meal Delivery Kits
https://www.xonecole.com/best-meal-kit-delivery-services-2020/
Contact Atoya Follins -
http://www.girlyouhavepurpose.com
IG @atoyafollins for coaching info
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Drink recipe - https://www.goodtaste.tv/recipe/a-grogs-purpose/
Credits:
open: @joethomascarter
close: Just Fine - Mary J Blige
Dark and Moody (Emotional Burnout)
Episode Notes:
Burnout as a black woman - www.xonecole.com/black-women-should-never-ignore-burnout/
Coping with Emotional burnout - www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-upside-things/201908/how-deal-emotional-burnout
Drink recipe - www.iconiccocktail.com/blogs/news/a-dark-and-moody-autumn-elixir-perfect-for-halloween
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Credits:
open: @awkwardpuppets
close: Bodies - Jazmine Sullivan
Trash Cocktail (Emotional Hoarding)
Episode Notes:
Ways to tell if you’re an emotional hoarder - www.xonecole.com/emotional-hoarder/
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Drink recipe: www.nytimes.com/interactive/2020/06/26/burst/trash-cocktail.html
Credits -
open: @kamtunechi
close: Peng Black Girls remix - ENNY ft Jorja Smith
Stinger (Social Media Envy)
Krys has an Uncle Val's gin and tonic, Doyin has a Japanese whiskey and ginger. This week, we discuss Japanese traffic from hell, Coming America 2, Tyler Perry's thirst traps and more. For our someone/something, we share common myths around the COVID vaccine. And for our Pour Life Decision, we discuss how to approach social media envy. Pour up and tune in!
Episode Notes:
Vaccine Facts - https://www.cdc.gov/coronavirus/2019-ncov/vaccines/vaccine-benefits/facts.html
Social Media Envy - https://www.inc.com/rhett-power/9-ways-to-combat-social-media-envy.html
Drink recipe - https://www.epicurious.com/archive/blogs/editor/2013/12/tom-bullock-first-african-american-cocktail-book-author.html
Credits:
open: @arleisham
close: St. Brick - Gucci Mane
Hot Chai Toddy (Rest Pt. 2)
Krys has a Jammy Red Roo, Doyin has a Tennessee tea. This week, we discuss our lost legends Natalie Desselle Reid and Tommy Lister, the great black December 21 glow up and more. For our someone/something, we talk about the best eyeliners. And for our Pour Life Decision, we take a rest quiz to find out what areas we need to re-up on. Pour up and tune in!
Episode Notes:
Best eyeliners
https://www.elle.com/beauty/makeup-skin-care/g28789319/best-eyeliner/
Rest Part 2
https://www.restquiz.com/quiz/rest-quiz-test/
Drink recipe- https://www.epicurious.com/recipes/food/views/chai-spiced-hot-toddy
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Credits:
Open: Real Housewives of Potomac
Close: On Me - Lil Baby