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Soul Chat with Ebony M. Tutora

Soul Chat with Ebony M. Tutora

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Welcome to Soul Chat with Ebony M. Tutora from the spiritual wellness brand Queens Recognize Queens®️ delivering you the most authentic conversations for your Soul, and propelling you into your most divine self. Our guests will include powerful influencers, authors, and real people who have tackled their darkest moments to find their own true light. May you be inspired to know how immensely brilliant you are, and walk away with a deeper understanding of your own purpose, and the importance of owning your story. To get in touch, email us directly at hello@queensrecognizequeens.com
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Soul Chat with Ebony M. TutoraNov 01, 2018

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Episode 70- Unintentional Internalizing
Nov 26, 202313:21
Episode 69- What is Faith?

Episode 69- What is Faith?

Welcome to a thought-provoking episode of Soul Chat, where we explore the profound concept of having faith in what you cannot see and dive deep into the true meaning of faith. 🎤✨


In this intriguing conversation, drawn from our Clubhouse sessions, we unravel the essence of faith and its transformative power. Discover how having unwavering faith in the unseen can lead to extraordinary results and shape the course of your life.


Your support is the wind beneath our wings. We encourage you to subscribe to our podcast, ensuring that you never miss out on thought-provoking discussions like this one, filled with enlightening insights and wisdom.


Do you have burning questions or specific topics you'd like us to cover? Your input is valuable to us. Connect with us on social media and reach out at hello@queensrecognizequeens.com.


Thank you for being part of our vibrant community of growth and self-discovery. As you listen, consider leaving a review and sharing this podcast with a friend. Together, we can continue to explore the depths of faith and its remarkable potential.


Subscribe, connect, and share your thoughts with us – let's journey into the world of faith and the unseen with grace and understanding on Soul Chat. 🎧🚀💫

Nov 13, 202302:26:51
Episode 68- Honoring your most valuable assets; Attention & Intention

Episode 68- Honoring your most valuable assets; Attention & Intention

Welcome to another enlightening episode of Soul Chat, where we're delving deep into the art of focusing your attention and intentions to manifest the life you truly desire. 🎤✨


In this episode, we uncover the secrets to maximizing your results, enhancing your self-awareness, and achieving your goals with ease. Learn how to harness the power of intention to create the life you've always envisioned.


Your support and connection are what drive us forward. We invite you to subscribe to our podcast, making sure you never miss an episode packed with transformative insights and inspiration.


Would you like to explore specific topics or have burning questions you want us to address? We're here for you. Connect with us on social media and drop us a line at hello@queensrecognizequeens.com. Your input is valuable, and we'd love to hear from you.


Thank you for joining us on this journey of growth and self-discovery. As you listen, consider leaving a review and sharing this podcast with a friend. Together, we can manifest our dreams and make the extraordinary an everyday reality.


Subscribe, connect, and share your desires with us – let's navigate the path to manifesting what you truly want with wisdom and grace on Soul Chat. 🎧🚀💫

Nov 06, 202301:26:45
Episode 67- Healing into Abundance with Dawna Campbell

Episode 67- Healing into Abundance with Dawna Campbell

Welcome to a transformative episode of Soul Chat, where we are honored to host the extraordinary Dawna Campbell – internationally renowned as "The Mind Whisperer." 🎤✨

Join us in a profound discussion with Dawna as we explore the path to easy healing and the powerful connection between honoring money, sensuality, and sexuality on your journey to prosperity. Dawna's insights are sure to shift your perspective and empower your life.

Dawna Campbell is a force to be reckoned with. With an international private practice, she guides her clients in creating lives filled with happiness, prosperity, and love. As a professional speaker, she passionately shares her techniques with audiences around the world, and she's also a best-selling author, leaving her mark with her words.

But that's not all – you can get even closer to Dawna! Follow her on social media and visit her website to explore her incredible work:

🌐 Website: dawnacampbell.com
📱 Facebook: www.facebook.com/dawnacampbell811
🐦 Twitter: twitter.com/msdawnacampbell
🔗 LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in.dawnacampbell
📸 Instagram: www.instagram.com/DawnaCampbellOfficial/
📺 YouTube: youtube.com/dawnacampbell

And while you're at it, discover more about The Mentors Studio, a hub of knowledge and inspiration:

🌐 Website: thementorsstudio.net

Connect with us beyond this episode – subscribe, leave a review, and share the podcast with a friend to spread the wisdom and empowerment. Together, we'll embark on a journey of transformation and growth. Subscribe now to unlock the secrets to a more prosperous and fulfilling life with Soul Chat. 🎧🚀💫
Oct 30, 202347:08
Episode 66- Sticky Note Wisdom

Episode 66- Sticky Note Wisdom

Welcome to another soul-nourishing episode of Soul Chat, where I'm excited to share "Sticky Notes Wisdom" with you, a subtle reminder that I'm embracing in this season of growth. 🎤🌱

In this enlightening episode, we explore the wisdom that can be found in the smallest yet most impactful notes we leave for ourselves. These sticky notes are like gentle nudges guiding us on our journey to self-discovery and transformation.

We are incredibly grateful for your support on this path of growth. Your subscription to our podcast not only connects you to our vibrant community but also empowers us to keep delivering these inspiring messages.

Thank you for tuning in to Soul Chat. As you listen, I encourage you to leave a review and share this podcast with a friend. By doing so, you're not only enhancing your own journey but also helping others find their way. Together, we can navigate this season of growth with wisdom and grace. 🌟

Subscribe, support, and share the wisdom with a friend – let's continue to evolve and thrive together with Soul Chat. 🎧🚀💫
Oct 27, 202310:26
Episode 65- Do you give yourself the breadcrumbs?

Episode 65- Do you give yourself the breadcrumbs?

Welcome to a deeply introspective episode of Soul Chat, where we delve into a common yet profound theme: how we often put ourselves last, leading to spaces and places of unworthiness. 🎤💔

In this heartfelt conversation, I share insights and personal experiences that shed light on the significance of self-care and self-worth. It's a powerful reminder that we must prioritize ourselves to truly thrive in our lives.

Your support means the world to us. We invite you to subscribe to our podcast for exclusive episodes that delve even deeper into the realms of self-discovery, healing, and empowerment. Your subscription not only fuels our mission but keeps this platform thriving.

Thank you for listening to Soul Chat. If you find value in our conversations, we kindly ask you to leave a review and share this podcast with a friend. Your actions help us reach and impact more lives. Together, we can continue on this transformative journey. 🙏

Subscribe, support, and share the wisdom with a friend – it's a small gesture that can spark significant change in your life and those around you. Join us, and let's evolve together with Soul Chat. 🎧🚀💫
Oct 25, 202313:31
Episode 64- Using our words to manifest what we REALLY want

Episode 64- Using our words to manifest what we REALLY want

Welcome to another riveting episode of Soul Chat. I am your host, Ebony Tutora, and I'm genuinely excited to bring you a profound Clubhouse dialogue that you won't want to miss! In this exclusive recorded session, we delve deep into the world of word use and its incredible impact on our healing and manifestation journey. 🎤✨


Join us as we explore the masterclass led by Ebony Tutora, where she unveils the secrets of words and their direct influence on our lives. Discover how you can transform your reality by making conscious choices about the words you use. It's a transformative journey you'll want to be part of!


But we don't stop there – we've invited some remarkable minds to share their perspectives on the words we can eliminate and those we can replace within our vocabulary, ensuring we manifest our true desires. It's an enlightening discussion you won't find anywhere else.


And remember, the conversation doesn't end here; we invite you to connect with us directly! Whether you aspire to be a guest on our show, share your valuable feedback, or even join our family of sponsors, we welcome you with open arms. 🤗


Subscribe now to join our community, and let your soul flourish with Soul Chat. Get ready to gain insights, connect with a like-minded audience, and grow on this amazing journey of self-discovery. 🎧🚀💫

Oct 24, 202301:46:49
Episode 63- Being in alignment with a mind of abundacne with the Mello Will

Episode 63- Being in alignment with a mind of abundacne with the Mello Will

Welcome to another exhilarating episode of Soul Chat, hosted by yours truly, Ebony Tutora. It's an absolute pleasure to have you here, connecting with the radiant soul we're featuring today! Get ready to be inspired as we dive deep into the world of affirmations with the incredible artist, ​⁠⁠@IAmMelloWill⁠. 🌟


In this captivating episode, you'll discover what propels this remarkable soul to reach soaring heights, manifesting abundance, and embracing alignment with their truest self. Mello Will's journey is a testament to the power of positivity and self-belief.


But that's not all – we're not just a podcast; we're a community. We invite you to connect with us directly! Whether you aspire to be a guest on our show, share your feedback, or even join our family of sponsors, we welcome you with open arms. 🤝


Follow the journey and stay connected with @IAmMelloWill:

🔗 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/IAmMelloWill?mibextid=LQQJ4d

📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/iammellowill?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==


Join us on this transformative voyage, and let's together manifest growth, inspiration, and community. Subscribe now, and let your soul thrive with Soul Chat! 🎧🚀💫

Oct 16, 202346:02
Episode 62- How I am Being with Ebony Tutora

Episode 62- How I am Being with Ebony Tutora

Welcome to another episode of Soul Chat, I am your host Ebony Tutora. I am so excited to tap in with you on how I am being. Ways I am evolving, growing, and honoring who I be in this season. I pray you hear some areas of resonance. Support more content by subscribing to the podcast, sharing it with a friend, and leaving a review! You matter to me!
Sep 10, 202313:50
Episode 61- Healing the Mother Wound- LIVE Clubhouse Discussion
Jun 01, 202302:56:58
Episode 60- Naviating Shame with Ebony Tutora

Episode 60- Naviating Shame with Ebony Tutora

Welcome to Soul Chat the conversation with your soul. I’m your host Ebony Tutora, and I’m so honored to share this episode with you. I got to thinking about the things, emotions, and experiences that hold us back, and what came to me was shame. Shame is an emotion that Louise Hayes describes as “fear turned inwards.” Shame often holds us back from pleasure, abundance, healthy relationships, and more importantly, our ability to honor our emotions. When we navigate shame with grace, understanding, and love, we move mountains for ourselves. This episode is sponsored by 7 days of clarity. My energy mastery program for clearing out old energy & limiting beliefs. Visit 7daysofclarity.com to view more about it.
May 18, 202312:20
Episode 59- Intuituve Living with Tracy Neely

Episode 59- Intuituve Living with Tracy Neely

Welcome to another amazing episode of Soul Chat, the conversation that dives deeper than the surface and into your soul. I am your host Ebony Tutora. I had the honor of interviewing intuitive coach Tracy Neely on Intuitive living. Most times it is challenging for us to remember to use our intuition over being so logical all the time. We forget that we are always being lead. Join this conversation for deeper clarity, and on getting clear about who you are, and how your intuition is always guiding you back to self. More about Tracy: Credentials Certified Life Coach • Certified Natural Health Professional • Energy Editor Practitioner • Initiated Priestess • Usui Reiki 1,2, 3 and Master Teacher • Bachelor of Science in Marketing • Bachelor of Science in Nutrition Formal Training I am a lifelong learner and experiencing personal growth while continuing to learn and grow is very important to me. Here are some of the practices that I work with my clients through. Energy Medicine • Sound Healing • Breath work • Meditation • Crystal Healing • Muscle Testing • Deep Inquiry Into The Mind (Mindset Work) Connect with Tracy on ⁠Instagram & Message her for your Clarity Call!
May 11, 202351:11
Episode 58- Total health is wealth with Dr. Jo Dee Baer

Episode 58- Total health is wealth with Dr. Jo Dee Baer

Welcome to another amazing episode of Soul Chat, the conversation that dives deeper than the surface and into your soul. I am your host Ebony Tutora. I am so excited to bring to you America's Top Foundational Health Coach and Holistic Nutritionist:  Focusing on Foundations of Health; Foundations of Living; and Foundations of H.O.P.E. As an Alternative Healing pioneer of 42 years creating energy, vitality, and longevity.  Dr. Jo Dee has empowered clients to lose in excess of 1,000,000+ lbs of toxic fat  and over 3000 clients to reclaim their health during this COVID Era.

Dr. Jo Dee is a 2 time International Best Seller. Her unique simple effective and sustainable solutions are achieved through Pristine Clean  daily systems; programmatic detoxing and cleansing-- for “Health isn't something you do, It's what’s you become along life's journey.”TM

I was so excited to sit down with her for a deep conversation on health, wealth, faith, and the pillars of living a healthy life that Jo Dee has been teaching for over 40 years! As a pioneer of holistic health, it was a amazing to gain immense gems from Jo Dee, and lots of laughs! Make sure you pull up with a pen, paper, and your favorite drink! 


To pre-order Jo Dee's book go here

To Join her "Give me Five," 5 day mind, body, soul, cleansing program beginning January 5th, go here

Follow Jo Dee on Instagram


This episode was sponsored by 7 Days of clarity, our transformational healing program created to re-align you with your mind, body, and soul connection to maximize your purpose! To learn more about it visit 7daysofclarity.com or book a clarity call.  

To be featured on our podcast or become a podcast sponsor email us at hello@queensrecognizequeens.com

Jan 01, 202344:26
Episode 57- if you’re struggling… with Ebony Tutora
Dec 24, 202216:38
Episode 56- Manifestation Mediation, Visualize and it will come with Ebony Tutora

Episode 56- Manifestation Mediation, Visualize and it will come with Ebony Tutora

Welcome to a special episode of Soul Chat where I will be walking you through a masterful visualization meditation and journaling experience. I am your host Ebony Tutora, and it is my honor and pleasure to continue to provide you with spaces where you can tap into your inner peace, power, and clarity. Finally release old wounds, and emotional trauma (for good). Fly by, owning your value and charging or getting paid your worth. Use this meditation to hold tight to the powerful vision you will see and create with this meditation. 

To work with me directly on your healing journey & your vision, email me directly at hello@queensrecognizequeens.com with "Clarity," as the subject line. 

Dec 23, 202226:08
Episode 55- Healing tools for in the now with Lottie Cooper
Dec 18, 202250:51
Episode 54- “The death of the “adult ego” to rescue the inner-child with Ebony Tutora

Episode 54- “The death of the “adult ego” to rescue the inner-child with Ebony Tutora

Welcome to another amazing episode of Soul Chat, the conversation deeper than the surface. I am your host Ebony Tutora, and this message was on my heart as I too have (and still) navigate this parenting journey. The greatest gifts we have are our children, as I have learned that they are our teachers, and we are their guides. A beautiful dance of inner-child healing, love, patience, understanding, and ultimately growth. Wanna begin stopping the perpetual cycle of trauma? Tap into the podcast as I discuss how the death of the “adult ego,” must die to rescue not only our own inner-child, but the star seeds we are raising. To work with me email me at hello@queensrecognizequeens.com, I’m here to help you heal so you can:
🌱Step into your inner peace, power, and clarity.
🌱Release old wounds, and emotional trauma.
🌱Own your value and charge (or get paid) your worth.
Dec 16, 202219:46
Episode 53- Master Your Mind & Think What You Want to Think with Jay Noland

Episode 53- Master Your Mind & Think What You Want to Think with Jay Noland

Welcome to another amazing episode of Soul Chat featuring subconscious  mind mastery expert Jay Noland. In this 15 Minutes of Fame series we connected with powerful change agents to hone in on some deep wisdom tips in 15 minutes. Jay  leaves us with powerful tools, and  a powerful question we'd like to  ask you, "Are you happy?"  A question that if you asked most people, they couldn't give you a straight answer, or the answer in truth is, "No." However not only is Jay an expert in confidence, as well as mastering your subconscious mind, the portal to your BEST life. You may want to share this amazing episode with a friend! As always, thank you for listening! Tap into this powerful episode, and if you're ready to be in the  building with us December 10th and 11th, get your ticket NOW! Less than  10 left!    Grab the powerful MYB Publishing edited version of the book, "The  Science of Getting Rich,"  `   https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/1955504024?psc=1&ref=ppx_pop_mob_b_asin_title   Follow Jay on Intagram: Follow Jay on Clubhouse & YT  @JayNoland      More about Jay: Jay Noland is an accomplished entrepreneur and coach who  has dedicated his life to helping others become successful in life and  grow their business.Over the years, he has trained hundreds of thousands  of people worldwide to develop supreme confidence and self-esteem. As a  former professional baseball player, he naturally injects extreme  discipline and focus, leading his clients to their success.Jay Noland is  also a loving husband, father, and philanthropist supporting  organizations that help women who have been victims of domestic abuse or  trafficking and orphans in Kenya, Africa.
Dec 04, 202228:32
Episode 52- “You are already THAT person now," with Mary Massey

Episode 52- “You are already THAT person now," with Mary Massey

Welcome to another amazing episode of Soul Chat, I am your host Ebony Tutora. Today I have the pleasure of introducing you to a phenomenal woman who left us with some amazing gems about personal development, overcoming adversity, and understanding that you are already THAT person. Mary Massey is a Lifestyle Coach specializing in mindset, nutrition and fitness. Having learned from Tony Robins’ team and currently undergoing Neueorchange Programming and NLP certification training, Mary combines her experiences in fitness and coaching to bring her unique approach to her classes and client conversations. As an entrepreneur, mother, fitness professional and coach, Mary has learned what it takes to truly balance it all while living a fulfilled life. This retreat is the beginning of her new journey as she continues to develop and nurture a community of like-minded people who are a light to each other and those around them.

Mary gave us some amazing talking points to think about, and transformational thoughts to help us all move into the new year with grace, love, and above all worthiness. Tap into this amazing episode as well as make sure you follow Mary for continued motivation, and to tap into her community!
Visit her site by going here.
Follow her on Instagram

If you loved this episode, share it! Leave us a written review, and tell us how we're doing!
Nov 12, 202201:00:13
Episode 51- Turning your pain into POWER with Morris The Connector

Episode 51- Turning your pain into POWER with Morris The Connector

Welcome to another episode of Soul Chat! I am your host Ebony Tutora, also known as Ebony the Goddess. It is an honor to bring to you this divine King. Morris Lothian, also known as Morris The Connector. Morris has a beautiful story of overcoming being told he would be nothing as a young boy, which lead him to drop out of school, and begin selling drugs. After losing his 18-month old son, Morris tells about how that alone changed his life. But, his story wasn't over yet. He has a deep-felt history of loss within a short period of time from losing his sister, his mom, dad, wife, and later on another son. However, Morris speaks of the strength that always carried him through, and shares that with us. Morris went on in life to launch a successful chaffeur company to the stars, which he still owns, but now he knows his purpose is a speaker, and to share his pain with others to give them power. Morris drops so many nuggets in this podcast, you are SURE to get out of your own way, and do the same for yourself- Turn your pain into POWER.
To learn more about Morris, visit his website.
To Attend the November 26th event, register here.
To donate to Morris's charity helping to get kids basic school supplies in Ethiopia, and to support Morris speaking to the youth, go Here.
Nov 06, 202251:08
Episode 50- The 8 lessons I learned in 2022 (even though it's not over yet)

Episode 50- The 8 lessons I learned in 2022 (even though it's not over yet)

Welcome to another episode of Soul Chat! I am your host Ebony Tutora, also known as Ebony the Goddess. As a spiritual advisor, and inner-child mastery coach, it is always my desire to look at what I'm growing through to learn, heal, and thrive. To me, that's the only way through life with ease- the beautiful question of, "What is this teaching ME?" Everyone else in your story is simply a messenger, but not the focal point of the lesson. Ya know? I pray this message resonates with you, as I know that ALL of us grow through similar things at similar times. PLUS! I always love to hear your feedback, so feel free to DM me on Instagram anytime and share. This episode is sponsored by 7daysofclarity.com, my healing mastery program to help you reprogram your negative beliefs, and create a mindset of healing! Let me show you that healing IS simple with the RIGHT tools. Thanks for listening!

Ebony The Goddess
Oct 29, 202232:16
Episode 49- The truth about sacred S.E.X. with Madame Kay Jones
Feb 26, 202201:22:46
Episode 48- Divine Love and Tapping into Alignment with Ebony and her King

Episode 48- Divine Love and Tapping into Alignment with Ebony and her King

Welcome to another episode of Soul Chat! I am your host Ebony Tutora, also known as Ebony the Goddess. It is an honor to bring to you my love, and my divine partner, my King. 

I was a little hesitant to release this episode, as there are some things that I like to keep to myself. However, I really wanted to share some love, and hope for those out there seeking divine love. We begin this episode with answering some questions from the "We are not really strangers," deck, and then dive into a bit of our story, and what we both think love is. 


Join us for an episode filled with love, laughter, and the essence of divine alignment. 

Feb 14, 202218:32
Episode 47- The Authentic Journey of Parenthood with Yasmin Van

Episode 47- The Authentic Journey of Parenthood with Yasmin Van

Hello beautiful soul! Welcome to another amazing episode of Soul Chat with Ebony the Goddess. Today's guest is a friend, educator, and fellow mental health advocate, Yasmin Van. She is a brilliant soul who offers insight, healing, and perspective on the authentic journey of parenting. In this episode we discuss the taboo beliefs about being a parent, and how to cope and navigate REAL feelings, while raising "good humans." Per usual, pull up a chair, and grab your notebook and pen. This episode is sure to inspire you!


More about Yasmin: 

Yasmin Van is a licensed social worker with 24 years of personal and professional experience living and working with individuals with a variety of special needs including mental illness.

Her interest in supporting families of special needs children began when she was trying to find support while caring for her own child with special needs. She began her career working with children and families as an aide in the Crossroads program at B-T BOCES. She went on to work in the Binghamton City School District as a Community Schools Coordinator for 3 years.

In this position, she developed an after school program and an alternative space called the Peace Room where kids received social-emotional support. She currently works with families and direct support professionals to address behavioral concerns at home and in the community. Her approach centers on supporting individuals using a bio, psycho, social and spiritual model through a lens of anti- oppression and liberation work.

Follow Yasmin here: https://www.instagram.com/divinelyguidedcoaching/

If you're a parent who is looking to rediscover yourself outside of being mom, email her directly at: divinelyguidedcoachingbiz@gmail.com

Jan 23, 202251:39
Episode 46- Creating a Life You Love with your Authentic Truth with Carla Love

Episode 46- Creating a Life You Love with your Authentic Truth with Carla Love

Welcome to another episode of Soul Chat with your host Ebony Tutora from Queens Recognize Queens®. In this episode we discuss how to learn to love, accept, and own your story as your journey to not only your best life, but your most authentic self. Carla Love is a groundbreaking coach who works privately and in the corporate sphere sharing her wisdom, light, and love. She is known to be a catalyst of change no matter where she goes, and has the life experiences and skillset to help others discover their worth, passion, and purpose. Carla is someone to look out for as she too, steps into a greater calling. I hope you have a pen and notebook ready for this amazing conversation. 


More about Carla in her own words: 

My Purpose : To BE my Best Self

My Passion :  To connect others with their Best Self!

I'm a Mindset Mechanic, Thought Trainer, Systems Creator, Organizational Freak and Life Hacker!  I'm a Healer at heart and believe that the only way to DO better is to BE better!  One of the things we all have in common is that we want to DO our best and BE our best!  There's nothing that brings me more joy than being a part of one's journey in being their Best Self!

Other stuff I've accomplished:

  • M.A. in Business/Public Administration
  • B.A. in Psychology
  • Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) and Life Coach Certifications
  • Strong analytical, data-driven mindset that translates into highly effective operational and leadership skills
  • Knowledge of operational procedures at organizations including:
    Leadership positions with: Amazon, Target, Starbucks and Old Navy
    Judge’s Assistant at the Superior Court of California
    Paralegal for the US Army
    Director of Events at Motivating The Masses
    Whole-istic Coach/Consultant for small businesses
Dec 31, 202148:08
Episode 45- Learning to accept love with Shade Ashani

Episode 45- Learning to accept love with Shade Ashani

Welcome to another episode of Soul Chat with your host Ebony Tutora from Queens Recognize Queens®. In this episode we discuss her research of women without fathers, and how that affects how they show up in the world- specifically in love. We discuss how accepting love that is easy can be challenging when we've learned that love is hard. There's so many amazing talking points you definitely want to have out your pen and notebook. 


More about Shade: 

Shadé is a breakthrough coach and New Earth teacher, dedicated to healing ancestral wounding. Many of you have been doing the work, going to yoga class, reading all the right books, but are still stuck. She spent 10 years working towards her own freedom and created her offerings to streamline that process for you. You can shift now.

Before becoming a breakthrough coach, Shadé graduated from Columbia University and earned her Masters in Public Health from Tulane University. She interviewed hundreds of women ages 18-75 and found an absolute difference between girls who grew up with and without their fathers. She gained a profound understanding of the different ways women are wounded by their fathers and then go on to live as if those wounds are the truth. Shadé wrote a book called In Search of My Father about how healing her relationship with her father set her free to experience healthy love and wealth. She toured the country for four years keynote speaking at conferences, high schools and colleges so she could get her arms around as many women as she could and tell them that they are worthy of love. This is her life's devotion: to bring an end to the unnecessary suffering caused by unworthiness.

Shadé is an active philanthropist and has raised half a million dollars for her nonprofit, Kids International, in hopes of making a difference in the lives of orphaned children around the world. Shade was honored by Congress for her work and is a Goodwill Ambassador to The Gambia in West Africa. She wakes up every day, trying to be more like Yahweh. In her spare time, Shadé loves to read, talk about health and wellness, teach and practice yoga, and travel; she's been to every continent... except Antartica.

Shadé currently lives in Hawaii where she spends most days hiking with Savannah strapped to her back and helping people around the world get free through her coaching programs.


Follow her on IG & Facebook @ Shade Ashani

Dec 03, 202101:01:11
Episode 44- How to manifest your best life with Josh Massey

Episode 44- How to manifest your best life with Josh Massey

Welcome to another episode of Soul Chat with your host Ebony Tutora from Queens Recognize Queens®. In this episode we interview the amazing Josh Massey CEO of The Loving Leaders. A little more about Josh, the loving leaders and his philosophy for coaching. 

In his words: I'm very excited to share with you what I've learned over the last two years of coaching hundreds of coaches to get their business off the ground by instilling new habits and shifting their belief system.

The number one thing I see blocking coaches from having everything they've ever dreamed of in their business? They don't believe they're worthy of having "all the things".

And this is usually covered up by a more of surface-level problem of what we "think" it is. After all, as a coach, we should be able to coach ourselves, right?

I find it quite the opposite. Because we "think" we should know all the answers, we block ourselves from "not knowing" them. And as a coach, we all know that stepping into the unknown is where all the answers really are.

If you landed on this page chances are you're a heart-centered coach who loves to serve their clients and is curious as to how you might be able to attract them more effectively.

I have one question for you...

What if it was easy?

This is the coaching that has helped me to hit my first 10k month, attract dream clients, opportunities, and the love of my life! We discuss the many shifts I have had in my life to create an amazing year! I'm sharing my secret weapon with you all, and the level of awareness that has shifted my entire life! Get your notebooks and pens ready for another amazing episode!

Nov 19, 202147:57
Episode 43 with Eb Tutora- Stop trying to skip steps!

Episode 43 with Eb Tutora- Stop trying to skip steps!

Welcome to another episode of Soul Chat! I am your host Eb Tutora, and today I wanted to highlight what I hear when working with clients, or simply those around me. Many of us want love, success, and peace, but oftentimes we are skipping the steps it takes to get there. Can you still manifest things by skipping steps? Hell yes! But, I believe that they’ll always be what we KINDA wanted, and not the exact thing. Making sure we cover ALL bases, allows us time to grow, gain wisdom, and ENJOY the process. There’s so much sauce in this podcast, so dive in and get ready for a conversation deeper than the surface. Love it? Share it with 3-5 people that you know!
Apr 25, 202130:49
Episode 42- Finding Pleasure with ShaVaughn Elle

Episode 42- Finding Pleasure with ShaVaughn Elle

Welcome to Soul Chat with your host Ebony M. Tutora. A podcast dedicated to diving beneath the surface level conversations... and going into the depths of the soul. Today I had the honor of interviewing the amazing ShaVaughn Elle, a writer/poet, holistic practitioner, spiritualist, and sex/pleasure specialist. THIS conversation was everything. We discussed the meaning of sex, and how society has blurred our vision on the sacredness of it. We've been shamed into denying ourselves the right to feel pleasure. ShaVaughn touches on the many forms of femininity so women can stop shaming other women for their unique expression of their sex. We also covered all things taboo, and the powerful way to tap into pleasure at ANY moment. 


This conversation is bigger than sex, as it is a re-education of what know to be true. It is an inquiry into age-old beliefs that may be rooted in fear, lies, and a need to control a specific narrative. Obviously, since numbers don't lie... we know that porno is extremely popular, as well as other things that allow us to freely express our sex or to experience pleasure. This conversation takes the veil off of it, and gives us a safe space to explore the dynamic of what we have learned about sex vs what is REALLY true. 


More about the Goddess:

I transmuted my pseudonym into my greatest passion

My entry into eroticism started with my written work as L.T. Robinson and evolved into intimacy and sex education. I created Say It With Sex as a medium to better understand the nuances and synchronicity of sex and spirituality. While embodying my own path of sexual self-expression, I uncovered how this energy and perspective effects, as well as translates across every aspect of our lives.


I desire to live a pleasure-filled life and want to help others do the same. My efforts are placed towards Black and Brown persons with vulvas and those who identify as feminine because I am she and fully understand the difficulty with embracing and standing firm in your sexual preference, expression, values, and beliefs. Our bodies are viewed as sex objects and resources of emulation, not conduits of sex energy. I seek to connect with the collective to de-stigmatize and redefine what sexual liberation looks like for us.


It isn't always a nip-slip.


As a creative healer, I use these gifts as instruments to unpack our distorted sexual lens. Through content, a strong spiritual foundation, and other educational tools, together as a community,  we peel back the layers and learn our erotic language to better understand who we are in pleasure.


Connect with her at sayitwithsex.com or on Instagram at: https://www.instagram.com/sayitwithsx/





Mar 22, 202101:18:55
Episode 41- Herdyne Mercier and Redefining Grief

Episode 41- Herdyne Mercier and Redefining Grief

Welcome to Soul Chat with your host Ebony M. Tutora. A podcast dedicated to diving beneath the surface level conversations... and going into the depths of the soul. Today I had the honor of interviewing the amazing Chief Grief Crusader, Herdyne Mercier. In this episode we speak about grief, and how many times we may not even recognize that we are experiencing grief. It may be grief induced by the loss of a job, a lifestyle, a child, a partner, and so many other ways. Herdyne truly shows up in her power, and knowing of redefining the way we processing emotions. Intellectual intelligence is one thing, but your emotional intelligence is everything. 


More about her: I believe that happiness and sadness exist in a delicate balance. The goal is to not allow our unhappiness to overtake the good times, the successes and the laughter and joys in order to maintain our emotional well-being.

Dealing with grief has piqued my interest since I was a little girl. I remember attending funerals with my father and wondering, “why do people die?” “why do people cry?” “How can we overcome death?” existential questions that my six-year-old self could not answer. As an adult, however, it dawned on me one day that there is a way to defeat death. It is by living life: fully and intentionally. It is by recognizing that every moment we have breath in our lungs is a gift from God. It is by preparing for tomorrow without fearing any curveballs that may be thrown our way.


Herdyne Mercier is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Certified Grief Coach, retreat facilitator, and transformational speaker. She is also the host of the “Redefining Grief” podcast. Herdyne’s life calling is to create non-judgmental spaces for broken hearts to heal and purposeful living restored.
Alongside her husband and best friend, Dr. Jameson Mercier, they own and operate Mercier Wellness and Consulting. They use their expertise and experience to help individuals, couples, and families deal with the heartbreak and unresolved grief that lead to unhealthy coping skills.


Find her website here: https://herdynemercier.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/herdynemercier/

Mar 07, 202101:04:45
Episode 40- Chad Black & The Power of Being Alone

Episode 40- Chad Black & The Power of Being Alone

Feb 20, 202101:09:25
Episode 39- Gaining Clarity in 5 seconds or less
Jan 13, 202117:18
Episode 38- 2020 was a blessing if you took away these things...

Episode 38- 2020 was a blessing if you took away these things...

Welcome to Soul Chat- the conversation with your soul!  I am your host, Ebony M. Tutora. This is the last episode of 2020, and WHEW! it's been a year! Unlike many, it is my goal to think in terms of, "I am a spirit having a human experience," A foundation I have never had to stand on stronger than this year. With so many obstacles, it's so easy to forget your power, Gods goodness, grace, and ordaining of EVERYTHING- yes! Even the "bad." In this episode, I am discussing some powerful lessons I plan to take with me to 2021, and BEYOND! I'd love to know what you learned and took away from a year that was truly, my BEST year ever!! 



Dec 31, 202021:04
Episode 37- Dr. Estacy Porter on real female empowerment, trust, faith. how to create a mindset built off of the foundation of God

Episode 37- Dr. Estacy Porter on real female empowerment, trust, faith. how to create a mindset built off of the foundation of God

Welcome to Soul Chat- the conversation with your soul! Today's guest is very special to us as we've personally  collaborated with her, prayed with her, and built a beautiful friendship with. She is beyond amazing, and truly represents excellence, which to us is being who you say you were... CONSISTENTLY.  We being with chatting about the topic of female empowerment, things we see, and how women can move past jealousy and insecurity with other females.  With 2020 being so tumultuous for many, we also discussed what building a strong mental foundation could look like. Even some of the strongest people were tested this year, and it taught all of us about ourselves on a deeper level. Estacy leaves us with the most beautiful piece of advice and wisdom. She speaks from a place of assurance and having done the work. Make sure you follow her on Instagram and Facebook, and add to a must-follow as a strong friend! Check out her inspirational business card deck on her website Estacyporter.com


More about her here!

Dr. Estacy Porter, is a Doctor of Nursing Practice who is licensed as a Community Health Primary Care NP and Board certified as a nurse in public health. She is an award-winning, Army Veteran with over 22 years of leadership experience who served abroad and locally. Retiring as Chief, Preventive Medicine and Public Health Emergency Officer. Prior to becoming a nurse, she was a Senior instructor with the Department of Defense Chemical Defense toxic agent facility. Dr. Porter has devoted her career to helping others reach their highest potential in their personal and professional lives. She is the President and Chief Executive Officer of non for profit Jewel in His Eyes Inc. where she works to empower girls, women, nurses and strengthen communities through public health leadership and mentorship development, coaching and consulting with a purpose to equip others to lead and be the healthiest versions of themselves. In 2015, Jewel in His Eyes was recognized by the White House as a change-maker during the inaugural United State of Women Summit. Dr. Porter (CPT) is also the creator of Garifuna Nurses United, Wholistic Wellness Concierge & Consulting Solutions and Editor-in-Chief of Voices of Virtuous Veterans. She’s been featured as the 2012 Ebony Military Mom, Essence, Todays purpose Women,For Nurses by Nurses and many more. She’s a sought out speaker, recipient of numerous awards, author of Jewels of Wisdom and co-author of Wholistic Women Win. Dr. Porter is married, has 4 children and enjoys reading, traveling, writing, humanitarian missions and spending time with family and friends.



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Dec 04, 202049:06
Episode 36- Lotus LaLoba on Mental Wealth, Black Luxury, and having a mindset of Soul-Care

Episode 36- Lotus LaLoba on Mental Wealth, Black Luxury, and having a mindset of Soul-Care

Tune into another episode with Ebony Tutora from Queens Recognize Queens® featuring a special guest Lotus Laloba. In this episode we Black Luxury, Soul Care, and the importance of mental health and wellness. We dive into each topic, and discuss how we can over complicate a lot of things in life, whether that's relationships, growth, healing, and mindset. Lotus is an amazing health practitioner that shares in authenticity, transparency, and realness. 

More about Lotus: Lotus LaLoba is a Mystic Practitioner who inspires Black Women to honor their Personal Magic by accepting & embracing their limitless power within.   LobaLand holds space for Black women to eradicate generational trauma & create a new legacy of limitless self love & unshakable Self Worth.   With 10+ years of spiritual exploration, Lotus utilizes meditation, reiki, hypnotherapy, NLP + EFT, movement & Beauty as tools of impact.   Lotus infuses spiritual wellness into her curated events, speaking engagements, podcast ‘LobaLand’ & Spiritual Self Care product line ‘LobaLand Beauty’ to cultivate Global communities through the multi level exploration of Black Women Wellness.

Visit her on IG at: Instagram.com/lotuslaloba


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Oct 31, 202001:37:19
Episode 35 with Neko Cheri on the state of the Black Dollar and breaking the generational curse of poverty

Episode 35 with Neko Cheri on the state of the Black Dollar and breaking the generational curse of poverty

Tune into another episode with Ebony Tutora from Queens Recognize Queens® and a special guest Neko Cheri. In this episode we talk about her powerful story, her role models that shaped her into the financial powerhouse that she is today, as well as breaking generational poverty with her Invest Gary real estate investment training. 

More about Neko: 

Neko Cheri, is an accomplished author, financial literacy advocate, former realtor, entrepreneur, and entrepreneurial strategist. For the last 13 years she has assisted hundreds of families on the road to building wealth and leveraging debt.

After dedicating over a decade to the real estate industry, Neko realized that there was huge knowledge gap within the Middle Class between having credit and understanding how to manage debt. Taking on a challenge as an opportunity, Neko developed a credit enhancement program called Credit Matters: Understanding Your Credit to help close that gap. She has also undertaken a personal mandate to educate people on how to better position themselves for wealth creation by leveraging their business and personal credit to achieve their long term goals.

Neko is passionate about empowering families to win financially, because she witnessed firsthand how many Black Americans are unaware that they are being targeted systematically by the credit bureaus for subprime loans, higher interest rates, and inaccurate data that can cripple the pursuit of the American Dream. She believes It is critical that Blacks understand how to play to win, or we will lose within the complex yet simple game of money. Having an intimate knowledge of the myriad landmines along the path to financial success has positioned her as a master tour guide along the fast track to establishing and building generational wealth.

Neko spends much of her time helping others by video blogging, hosting free credit webinars, teaching money management for youth, and sharing market trend insights.


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Aug 07, 202001:08:30
Episode 34- The Masks We Wear with Eb Tutora
Jul 24, 202022:46
Episode 33- Fearlessly faithful with Tommi Billingsley

Episode 33- Fearlessly faithful with Tommi Billingsley

Welcome to another episode of soul chat with Ebony Tutora from QueensRecognizeQueens®️ for another conversation with your soul. Today’s guy est is the phenomenal Tommi Billingsley, and we discuss her story, surviving cancer, and how we can continue to fearlessly believe in God. More about her: Tommi Billingsley is redefining the term women's empowerment. She’s a trailblazing entrepreneur, lover of all-things positive and Godly, womens advocate, and a community builder teaching self- love. Whether through her highly anticipated events or live video messages, it only takes a few minutes of connecting with her to understand why she was chosen to lead. Tommi has a unique way of reaching people with her down to earth and Cardi B mixed personality, style, and relatable history of growing up in an impoverished community. After battling and surviving pancreatic cancer, this might woman discovered her call to duty in this lifetime as a personal life coach. It was her rebirth, now she's here to change the game.
Tommi has received many honors, including receiving the New York State Commendation Award by Senator Rachel May. She's hosted several successful events through her non-profit organization, Fearless Queens, with special guest appearances by Yandy Smith and Juju from Love and Hip Hop. A naturally gifted scholar, Tommi received a degree in Management and Leadership.
Jun 03, 202053:43
Episode 32- Stepha LaFond on Mama, Slay life

Episode 32- Stepha LaFond on Mama, Slay life

Join us for another amazing episode of soul chat with Ebony Tutora from QueensRecognizeQueens®️ featuring our special guest Stepha LaFond. In this episode we discuss parenting, relationships, and spirituality. With so many lines being blurred these topics were meant to create clarity, inspire hope, and give others sound advice to lean into. More about Stepha: Stepha is a motherhood transition coach who is dedicated to helping moms navigate the delicate space between who they were and who they are still becoming. Her services and programs infuse personal development and spirituality and are designed to help moms reclaim their personal power so they can do life and motherhood on their own terms. Follow her on Instagram at Instagram/com/mamaslaylife
May 22, 202001:17:36
Episode 31- Gain wisdom with Eb's grandparents in Legacy Dialogue

Episode 31- Gain wisdom with Eb's grandparents in Legacy Dialogue

Welcome to another amazing episode of Soul Chat with your host Ebony Tutora from Queens Recognize Queens®. Today's episode is extremely special as we share a piece of our heart with you... OUR grandparents. 


We recognize that many did not have the guidance of their ancestors, and may have been passed down some misinformation, fear, and trauma. We wanted to share with you WHY we are the way we are, and the wisdom that can be shared from wise and amazing grandparents. In this episode we discuss relationships, life lessons, racism,  and wisdom gained from pain and trauma. Join Ebony and her Grandparents "Nona and T-pop," who bring years of valuable experiences, and insight to last for generations to come. 


Because they both chose to walk in their power, they too passed that down generations. Listen with an open heart, and take our grandparents as your own or the wisdom you may have never gained. They both have amazing stories including bold decisions many of us can relate to TODAY. 


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May 06, 202001:14:37
Episode 30- “I prayed for you”

Episode 30- “I prayed for you”

Welcome to another episode of soul chat with your host Ebony Tutora from QueensRecognizeQueens. In a moment of deep reflection, as I sat praying for myself, I decided to pray for you. This season is calling me closer to God, and removing the distractions the deter me away from my grandeur. Is the same true for you? I prayed for you. If you love these episodes Consider subscribing as a monthly supporter right on anchor, or cash app us at $healandthrive ! Thank you!
May 03, 202010:38
Episode 29- Female Toxicity with Eb Tutora

Episode 29- Female Toxicity with Eb Tutora

Tune into another episode of Soul Chat with Ebony Tutora from Queens Recognize Queens® discussing female toxicity. Too often we see circulating posts on how toxic men can be, but how many times are we discussing women. This message comes from love, and experience, as well as some interesting Facebook Discussions that have lead to deep insight, and revelations.
In order for us to grow we must admit that we actually have a problem, that like men.. we need to learn and grow too. So many women will be quick to say there are no good men, but in the same breath due to the law of attraction.. you attract what you are. So if he is dusty... you must be dusty too. (LOL)
I pray that after listening to this you can see your own shortcomings, and try your best to mend yourself, heal, and align with a man who is GOOD for you, and you for him.

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Apr 29, 202038:15
Episode 28- What (ALPHA) men want- Man Code 101

Episode 28- What (ALPHA) men want- Man Code 101

Join host Ebony Tutora from Queens Recognize Queens®️ with special guest Iyron Davis, relationship expert, media mogul, and overall cool guy. More about Iyron: Successful media mogul, business investor and relationship expert Iyron Davis is on a mission to help men (and women) lead happier more powerful lives by teaching them about themselves and how to truly understanding and decode the women in their lives. His upcoming debut book “The Complete Guide to Understanding & Decoding Women” is a transformational self-help manual and weekly podcast series "Midnight Therapy" on YouTube, Spotify and Podcast -- both platforms cover an array of modern dating topics from finding the right woman and man, understanding the difference between alpha and beta males, connections vs. attachments and the pursuit of a deeply conscious and empowering long-term relationship. As he shares the man code of what alpha men want, and the difference between an alpha & beta male. This conversation was enlightening and revealing in knowing if your man may be beta, and how to overall understand men so we can heal and thrive TOGETHER. You can connect with Iyron via his podcast Midnight Therapy on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC2LpznPF4lXOL8mTafU0ySw
Apr 22, 202034:52
Episode 27- How you can #HealandThrive by letting go with Ebony M. Tutora

Episode 27- How you can #HealandThrive by letting go with Ebony M. Tutora

Join us for another episode of Soul Chat with Ebony Tutora of Queens Recognize Queens. Ebony opens up about a personal choice she made, and hasn't looked back since. This episode focuses on the tough decisions we must make to allow space for the good to enter. Ebony shares how she was able to realize and awaken to her own fears that kept her in certain spaces for longer than she should have been. Through this experience it sparked deeper healing and growth for Ebony. 


We are never too old to say "YES," to ourselves. May we all continue to heal and THRIVE. 

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Apr 15, 202019:29
Episode 26 What can we learn from Black History? 👊🏽 #Signs

Episode 26 What can we learn from Black History? 👊🏽 #Signs

Welcome to another episode of Soul Chat with Ebony Tutora of Queens Recognize Queens. Today we want to wish you a Happy Valentines Day & encourage you to love yourself a little more with the wisdom we share from this episode. There’s something special about the challenges of being black/brown, and we wanted to make this one special by sharing that lesson with you! Make sure you let us know how we’re doing by rating & reviewing. Also! Follow us on Instagram | Facebook @QueensRecognizeQueens
Feb 14, 202013:34
Episode 25- The #signs around us 💎

Episode 25- The #signs around us 💎

Welcome to Soul Chat with your host Ebony Tutora from Queens Recognize Queens®️ for another episode sharing insightful wisdom about life, and how you can live up to the Queen in you. In this solo episode Ebony shares the lessons we can learn from a diamond. 💎
Feb 01, 202008:01
Episode 24- No one is immune to struggle

Episode 24- No one is immune to struggle

Welcome to Soul Chat with Eb Tutora from Queens Recognize Queens®️ as she shares a motivational message on winning in 2020! If you’ve never failed, are you really testing the limits of who you CAN be? Make sure you follow us on Instagram & Facebook @QueensRecognizeQueens, and follow Eb on Facebook at Eb Tutora.
Jan 28, 202011:39
Episode 23- How to Acknowledge Your own Jealousy
Nov 22, 201909:43
Episode 22- Powerful Questions to Heal Now
Nov 15, 201916:44
Episode 21 with mindset bestie Trishston Pogue- Mindsdet, Mindfulness, and Finding Flow

Episode 21 with mindset bestie Trishston Pogue- Mindsdet, Mindfulness, and Finding Flow

Join the next episode of Queens Recognize Queens® with our mindset bestie Trishston Pogue on mindfulness, self-love, and finding flow in your in your life through meditation. We discuss the transition of life, and how being able to tune into ourselves offers so much value for expanding who we are. Gain the valuable perspective of why these tools are essential to your toolbox for happiness and growth.  More about Trishston Pogue in her own words: I've always found inspiration in the Woman who makes Her own path, the type of Woman that excites Herself with new ways to feel sexy and confident! She is fearless! She’s got that vibrant, unstoppable aura. She’s comfortable in her own skin and has the boldness to flaunt it. That unapologetic authenticity brought me to Trish Atelier. It's about being comfortable with who you are in your own skin, believing in your definition of sexy and being unapologetic about it. Being fearless is easier said than done, but it is apart of my truth. Trish Atelier is My love letter to the women who exemplify fearlessness; I hope you feel fearless & sexy, just as you are, in these pieces. As an advocate for self love, I have created pieces that will encourage you to highlight all the things you once wanted to cover. Trish has been featured in XONecole, BET, and her designs have been spotted on Black China, Meg Thee Stallion, and on stages like Miami Fashion Week. 
Oct 05, 201955:38