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Queer + Married

Queer + Married

By Queer & Married

Your new favorite Black, queer podcast hosted by lovers and social entrepreneurs: artist, author, and educator Rashida KhanBey Miller (she/her/temptress), and speaker, coach, and strategist Miller (he/them/your excellence).

Together they are bring you raw conversations about navigating marriage, sex and taxes while keeping your edges in tact.

Connect with us!
www.queerandmarried.com
IG: @queerandmarried
Rashi: @rashidakhanbeymiller
Miller: @thankyoumiller
Join the conversation #queerandmarried.

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“Everybody Gonna Shine”

Queer + MarriedFeb 10, 2019

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Why Did We Get Married?

Why Did We Get Married?

As season two comes to a close, Miller and Rashi discuss why getting married was important, growing together as a couple, previous relationship dynamics, and being intentional about prioritizing their family. Be prepared to be in your feelings with this one, fam!
Love this episode? Don’t forget to subscribe, like, comment and review. Thank you for tuning in!!
Follow us on Instagram: @queerandmarried
Rashi: @rashidakhanbeymiller
Miller: @thankyoumiller
Music: Voyage to Atlantis by The Isley Brothers

Dec 30, 201901:03:15

How Do We Work Together?

How Do We Work Together?

During this episode Rashi and Miller talk about what it’s like working together - marriage and entrepreneurship. Navigating uncertainty, self doubt, and growing pains isn’t always pretty. Building our vision collectively, staying true to ourselves as individuals, and making an intentional commitment to work differently
is all in this episode! Get into it, fam.

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Follow us on Instagram: @queerandmarried
Rashi: @rashidakhanbeymiller
Miller: @thankyoumiller

Music: What They Want by Russ

Dec 08, 201901:09:03

Who Does The Laundry?

Who Does The Laundry?

During this episode Rashi and Miller discuss gender roles, societal norms, what examples were on display growing up, and how that has shaped the way they each show up in their relationship.
Love this episode? Don’t forget to subscribe, comment and review. Thank you for tuning in!!
Follow us on Instagram: @queerandmarried
Rashi: @rashidakhanbeymiller
Miller: @thankyoumiller

Music: Foldin Clothes - J. Cole

Sep 16, 201946:33

How Do You Let Go Of Grudges?

How Do You Let Go Of Grudges?

“When we face pain in relationships our first response is often to sever bonds rather than to maintain commitment.” ~ bell hooks

During this episode Rashi and Miller discuss how they are growing as partners in love and business. Each share personal stories from the past, and insights about navigating forgiveness, healing, and reconciliation. So tell us, how do you let go of grudges?

Love this episode? Don’t forget to subscribe, like, comment and review. Thank you for tuning in!!
Follow us on Instagram: @queerandmarried
Rashi: @rashidakhanbeymiller
Miller: @thankyoumiller

Music: He Loves Me - Lianne La Haves

Sep 09, 201953:24

What’s Your Favorite Date?

What’s Your Favorite Date?

Moments that make you melt. During this episode Miller & Rashi share #datenight memories, their favorite dates, and dates that didn’t go as planned. Have you ever had a bad date? What about your favorite date, what did y’all do? Love this episode? Don’t forget to subscribe, like, comment and review. Thank you for tuning in!! Follow us on Instagram: @queerandmarried Rashi: @rashidakhanbeymiller Miller: @thankyoumiller Music: Master Blaster (Jammin’) by Stevie Wonder

Sep 02, 201936:36

How Did We Meet?

How Did We Meet?

Every couple has a story about how they met? On this episode we share ours, and tell y’all about our first date. *Spoiler Alert* It was sexy and cute af!!
We love hearing from y’all... So tell us cousins, how did y’all meet? Email us, queerandmarried@gmail.com or find us on IG at @queerandmarried!! Thank you for your continued support. Love this episode? Don’t forget to subscribe, like, comment and review. Thank you for tuning in!!
Follow us on Instagram: @queerandmarried
Rashi: @rashidakhanbeymiller
Miller: @thankyoumiller
Music: Throw It Back by Missy Elliott

Aug 26, 201938:58

“Help Me Feel Yo Presence” (Part 2)

“Help Me Feel Yo Presence” (Part 2)

Welcome back to Queer + Married! Thank you for tuning in!! This is part 2 of our interview featuring Darren Calhoun, a worship leader in Chicago. We started this episode with a little insight into our impromptu marriage counseling session with the Senior Pastor of Rashi’s home church. During this conversation we learned about the “dignity restroom” initiative the church began. We also uncover the meaning of Yahweh and Elohim. The episode picks up with us exploring what does it mean to reclaim our bodies, we talk about the story surrounding the Garden of Eden (Genesis 3:11), and end with how do we embody compassion, acceptance, and understanding within our marriage?

Follow us on Instagram: @queerandmarried.
Darren’s contact info and organizational connections:
DarrenCalhoun.com
@HeyDarren
The Many
Urban Village Church
The Reformation Project
The Q Christian Fellowship

Music: These Bodies by The Many

Peace,
Miller + Rashi

Jul 08, 201950:23

“Help Me Feel Yo Presence” (Part 1)

“Help Me Feel Yo Presence” (Part 1)

Description:
Welcome back to Queer + Married! We are kicking off season 2 with an interview featuring Darren Calhoun, a worship leader in Chicago. During this episode we share about a recent loss our family experienced, talk about inclusive worship spaces, and ask “Are we performing perfect?”
Thank you for tuning in! Let us know what you think, and don’t forget to like, share, and feel free to comment.
Follow us on Instagram: @queerandmarried.
Darren’s contact info and organizational connections:
DarrenCalhoun.com
@HeyDarren
The Many
Urban Village Church
The Reformation Project
The Q Christian Fellowship

Music: High Rises by Chicka

Peace,
Miller + Rashi

Jul 01, 201951:48

“What’s the 411?”

“What’s the 411?”

Queer & Married - The Podcast Love, Life, & Culture: Through A Black Queer Lens Connect with us! www.queerandmarried.com IG: @queerandmarrried Miller: @thankyoumiller Rashi: @rashidakhanbeymiller

Feb 18, 201934:15

“Everybody Gonna Shine”

“Everybody Gonna Shine”

Ep. 3: “Everybody Gonna Shine” Queer & Married - The Podcast You all saw this badass woman, Chanell Grace take the internet by storm this week with her jaw dropping performance to Tank’s new single “Dirty”. Miller and I saw it, and immediately knew we wanted to interview her, and that same night we did. Y’all know I love talking to women who are LIVING in their bodies, taking up space and giving us all a reason to be more uninhibited in our own lives. Chanell’s story is one that YOU NEED TO HEAR. Her confidence, her joy, her Sexy did not come by accident. It’s deliberate and I cannot wait for you to hear about her journey into movement. We hope you all enjoy this episode. Connect with us! www.queerandmarried.com IG: @queerandmarrried Miller: @thankyoumiller Rashi: @rashidakhanbeymiller

Feb 10, 201938:26

“Keep That Same Energy”

“Keep That Same Energy”

Ep. 2: Keep “That Same Energy” Queer & Married - The Podcast Black Queer Love Storytelling with, Miller & Rashi. Connect with us! www.queerandmarried.com IG: @queerandmarried Miller: @thankyoumiller Rashi: @rashidakhanbeymiller #queerandmarried

Feb 03, 201922:60

“Be Careful With Me” (Teaser)

“Be Careful With Me” (Teaser)

Episode 1: “Be Careful With Me” Queer & Married - The Podcast Black Queer Love Storytelling with, Miller & Rashi. Connect with us! www.queerandmarried.com IG: @queerandmarried Miller: @thankyoumiller Rashi: @rashidakhanbeymiller #queerandmarried

Jan 27, 201912:11