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Radical Stepmoms

Radical Stepmoms

By Radical Stepmoms with Christina

Radical Stepmoms is a podcast about the good, bad and really ugly moments about raising a child that you didn’t create. Here I’ll discuss the realities of co-parenting, the ways stepmother hood affects a marriage, the relationship with our step kids and most of all... navigating the relationship with ourselves. I want each episode to leave you feeling validated, empowered and oh-so radical, so pour yourself a la croix, a glass of red...or whatever, and listen in on Radical Stepmoms.

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Season 5: Episode 6: Learning to step back and a whole bunch of WTF?! with guest, Madison

Radical Stepmoms Sep 07, 2022

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Season 7: Episode 13: How to create a safe place for yourself while going through IVF and being a stepmom with guest, Amber
Apr 10, 202447:16
Season 7: Episode 12: The invisible load of running a home and how to empower your family to make a shift with guest, Lori

Season 7: Episode 12: The invisible load of running a home and how to empower your family to make a shift with guest, Lori

Christina welcomes Lori, a coach, speaker and author to discuss the unpaid labor of women, mothers and stepmoms. Lori is an advocate for amplifying the value of unpaid labor and influencing how families share the workloads in their homes. Through her children's book, " Our Home: The Love, Work, and Heart of Family" Lori breaks down the invisible labor that occurs in our homes and encourages children to take notice, appreciation and action into contributing to their family flow. Christina shares the stepmom perspective of how hard it is to carry the family load, especially when you don't always know "your role". How can the tasks and duties in the home be shifted? How can the kids become more involved? To the stepmoms who carry the invisible load and need some validation and conversation starters... listen in!

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Season 4: Episode 21: When stepmoms carry the mental and emotional load of the home with guest, Laura Danger


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About My Guest: Lori Sugarman-Li believes deeply in the power of families and is a passionate voice in the cultural shift aiming to articulate the value and visibility of unpaid work. Her career as a Communications Strategist, combined with a decade devoted to full-time care of her family, community, and children's charities worldwide, served as the inspirational backdrop for her professional relaunch as a Coach, Speaker, and Author. She is dedicated to fostering meaningful conversations within families, encouraging them to contemplate how they care for one another and their shared space. Lori, her husband, and two sons are Canadian-born and live steps from Lake Michigan in Chicago.

https://ourhomeourpride.com/

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Mar 27, 202456:33
Season 7: Episode 11: High Conflict Exes? What about high conflict stepkids? With guest, Ava
Mar 13, 202459:45
Season 7: Episode 10: Waking up and becoming a fulltime stepmom to teens, with guest, Emily
Feb 28, 202456:57
Season 7: Episode 9: When a mom becomes a stepmom and what we all have to learn, with guest Chanda
Feb 14, 202401:06:16
Season 7: Episode 8: Self Care vs. Soul Care and why Stepmoms need both with Guest, Coach Michelle

Season 7: Episode 8: Self Care vs. Soul Care and why Stepmoms need both with Guest, Coach Michelle

Christina welcomes back Coach Michelle to talk about how we are caring for ourselves this year. We've all heard of Self Care, but what is Soul Care? In the world of stepmotherhood, we need to advocate for our own happiness...but how? Michelle also answers your questions...like how to reduce the amount of messages you get from the ex. Listen In!

Mentioned in this Episode:
Connecting with Michelle
Other Episodes with Michelle
Our Family Wizard Episode
Why We Only Email Blog Post

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Jan 31, 202453:28
Season 7: Episode 7: No "ours babe" and what that means for a stepmom with guest, Nicole
Jan 17, 202452:57
Season 7: Episode 6: The Ours Baby that Broke the Camels Back with guest, Sara
Jan 03, 202401:09:27
Season 7: Episode 5: Creating your own unique family as a stepmom with guest, Brent Crandal, children's book author and family psychologist

Season 7: Episode 5: Creating your own unique family as a stepmom with guest, Brent Crandal, children's book author and family psychologist

Christina welcomes Brent Crandal, an author and family psychologist to discuss how the feeling of "family" is formed. As stepmoms, we can often feel like outsiders as we step into an "already established family", but we have to change the belief that there's only one way to "family". Not only does Brent speak from his professional knowledge, but he speaks as a partner to a stepmom. How has he helped facilitate the relationship between her and his kids? What have they done to form their own unique family unit? Listen in!

If you're looking for a book to help your stepkid's understand how a stepmom can bring positivity to the family, check out Brent's debut children’s book, ⁠Opposititis: A Ridiculous Family Love Story ⁠is a silly heartwarming story for 4- to 9-year-olds and their families.

About My Guest: Brent Crandal, PhD, is an author, child and family psychologist, and researcher. He also provides psychotherapy in San Diego and co-authored a widely adopted guide for therapists, Modular CBT for Children and Adolescents with Depression. He enjoys training professionals and teaching in higher education (e.g., UCSD, SDSU, and USD). His research has been published in several peer-review journals on mental health topics for children, youth and families. He created the Advancing California’s Trauma-Informed Systems project, funded by California Department of Social Services, and in partnership with the Ministry of Education, strengthened the supportive services available to children in El Salvador. He often geeks out at Comic-Con, including presenting several times on the intersection of behavioral health and Pop Culture.

Learn more or connect with Brent through his website or Instagram

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Dec 20, 202344:44
Season 7: Episode 4: Let's Answer Your Holiday Questions!
Dec 06, 202356:05
Season 7: Episode 3: Tools for managing HC and words of wisdom from a seasoned stepmom with guest, Megan from the High Conflict Institute

Season 7: Episode 3: Tools for managing HC and words of wisdom from a seasoned stepmom with guest, Megan from the High Conflict Institute

Christina welcomes Megan from the High Conflict Institute to chat about co-parenting with someone who operates with a repetitive pattern of high conflict. In order to be effective, we have to understand how a high conflict person thinks - so how do they? How do you flip the script to start interacting with them differently? Megan shares some great tools on how to change the way you communicate in your dynamic. Oh and a bonus... she's a stepmom! What would she have done differently? What has helped her stay grounded in who she is? If you're managing high conflict, grab your partner and listen in!


About My Guest: Megan Hunter, MBA, is co-founder and CEO of the High Conflict Institute along with author and speaker, Bill Eddy, LCSW, Esq. who developed the high-conflict personality theory. Megan developed the concept of the Institute after eight years in policy, legislation and judicial training with the Arizona Supreme Court, Administrative Office of the Courts and five years with the Dawes County Attorney’s Office in Nebraska. She is the author and/or co-author of several books on high conflict interactions and co-host of the podcast It’s All Your Fault!

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Nov 22, 202352:57
Season 7: Episode 2: The Stepmom & Ex Relationship...an episode for for both women trying to make it out alive, with guest Sarah
Nov 08, 202301:02:21
Season 7: Episode 1: Bringing Stepmoms together and a little Pep-Talk
Oct 25, 202331:45
Season 6: Episode 25: How Our Partners Can Step-Up & Support the Stepmom with guest, Carl Knickerbocker
Aug 02, 202350:33
Season 6: Episode 24: Supporting Our Partners through High Conflict and Fighting for our Peace with guest, KC
Jul 12, 202352:28
Season 6: Episode 23: The Benefits of Co-Parenting Apps with guest Matt from Our Family Wizard

Season 6: Episode 23: The Benefits of Co-Parenting Apps with guest Matt from Our Family Wizard

Christina welcomes Matt from Our Family Wizard to discuss how Co-parenting apps can help organize and lessen the conflict in blended family life. There are more options out there now so what do you look for in an app? What tools are the most helpful? How do you get the use of the app court ordered and how do you get the other house to use it? If you're curious about getting started with a co-parenting app, listen in!


About My Guest: Matt Havrevold attended the University of Minnesota where he graduated in 2008 with degrees in Journalism and Business. After graduating he worked in the legal software industry as both a manager and business liaison before joining the OurFamilyWizard team in February 2014. As a professional liaison with OurFamilyWizard, Matt works with family law courts and practitioners to address the issues impacting divorced and separated parents and how communication technology can assist with reducing conflict and improving outcomes for families. Matt works to educate family law professionals on the specific features of OurFamilyWizard and its best usage for improving co-parent communication in moderate to high conflict parenting scenarios. He is a member of the Family Law Executive Committee for the Los Angeles County Bar Association, as well as a member of the Association of Family and Conciliation Courts (AFCC). www.ourfamilywizard.com So much more than a podcast!!! Find me on the Gram @radicalstepmomspodcast Want a little more support? Schedule a 1:1 session or become a Radical Member? ⁠⁠⁠⁠Head to my website!

Jul 05, 202340:09
Season 6: Episode 22: The unique experiences of a Pandemic Stepmom with guest, Marci

Season 6: Episode 22: The unique experiences of a Pandemic Stepmom with guest, Marci

Christina welcomes Marci, a "pandemic stepmom" whose introduction into the role was deeply impacted by a quick move-in with her partner and staying home with the kids for remote learning. Even being a teacher could not have prepared her! The two discuss being childless by choice and how circumstances change what we thought our families would look like. Marci also shares about her tricky relationship with the ex and how she manages the feelings of having an opinion, but not always a voice. Can you relate? Listen in!

About My Guest:
I am a high school teacher. Only child (so getting 3 step kiddos was a shock to the system). Wife as of October 2022. Step mom to 3 awesome kiddos. Lover of ALL true crime podcasts. Large fan of Friends, The Amazing Race, any sport and country music.

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Jun 28, 202351:30
Season 6: Episode 21: Child-Centered Parenting Tips During Divorce or in Remarriage with guest, Dr. Ann

Season 6: Episode 21: Child-Centered Parenting Tips During Divorce or in Remarriage with guest, Dr. Ann

Christina welcomes Dr. Ann, a psychologist, author and stepmom of 30+ years. Ann shares about her book "The Parent's Guide to Birdnesting" the decision some divorced couples choose to share a home so the kids don't have to transition, What?! Dr. Ann and Christina also chat topics like when is the best time to introduce a new partner and how it impacts the kids, and how biology plays into your attachment to your stepkids. How can all parents make the divorce and blending transition child-centered? Ann also shares her wisdom of being a stepmom and now grand-stepmom, how did she define her role then and how does she see it now? Listen In!


About My Guest: Ann Gold Buscho, Ph.D., is a clinical psychologist and the author of The Parent's Guide to Birdnesting: A Child-Centered Solution to Co-Parenting During Separation and Divorce. She specializes in all issues related to divorce, writes regularly for Psychology Today, and has recently reduced her practice to brief consultations only. www.drannbuscho.com and https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/better-divorce?eml

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Jun 21, 202350:46
Season 6: Episode 20: Identifying our patterns and improving our relationships with guest, Dr. Tracy Dalgleish

Season 6: Episode 20: Identifying our patterns and improving our relationships with guest, Dr. Tracy Dalgleish

Christina welcomes Dr. Tracy Dalgleish to discuss how we can unravel our difficult patterns and how we can change the way we communicate with our partners. Dr. Tracy shares her insights on shifting from a focus of wanting control to relationship and intimacy, prioritizing "we" over the need to be right and how to move through our feelings of resentment and find acceptance. It's not always easy making our relationships a priority, but as stepmoms (and statistics not in our favor) what can we do to insure more closeness and understanding? Listen in!

About My Guest:
Dr. Tracy Dalgleish helps empower women and couples to improve their communication and build strong and healthy connections with themselves and their partner through therapy, wellness seminars, and her work outside of the therapy room. She contributes to popular media sites, including Motherly, Huffington Post, and Bustle. In addition to hosting the podcast, “I’m not your shrink” where she dives deeper into clinical knowledge and research in a relatable and informal way, her book “I Didn’t Sign Up For This: Stories of Unlocking Old Patterns and Finding Joy in Your Relationship” will be available in September 2023. A mom of two young children and owner of Ottawa’s mental health clinic, Integrated Wellness, she knows what it means to balance the full load.

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Jun 14, 202348:25
Season 6: Episode 19: It's possible, You can be friends with the Ex with guest, Felisa

Season 6: Episode 19: It's possible, You can be friends with the Ex with guest, Felisa

Yes, a stepmom and the ex CAN be friends. Christina welcomes Felisa, a stepmom who shares her story of stepmotherhood and how she navigates her friendship with her stepkids' mom. Who extended the olive branch? Are there any weird feelings? Felisa and Christina chat about what helps make a relationship like this to happen, and what boundaries might need to be present. It's not always possible, so when it does happen - bravo! Listen in!

About My Guest:
Hi I’m Felisa, I’m 30 years old. Born and raised in upstate New York. I am a nurse in a primary care clinic. I love plants and cats. I started my step mom journey in 2017.
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Jun 07, 202342:01
Season 6: Episode 18: Tips and a Q&A with High Conflict Diversion Coach Michelle
May 31, 202340:15
Season 6: Episode 17: A military wife and long-distance stepmom with guest, Charlotte

Season 6: Episode 17: A military wife and long-distance stepmom with guest, Charlotte

Christina chats with Charlotte, a long-distance stepmom and military wife. After moving from the UK to the US to be with her person, she knows the trial and errors of being a stepmom. Charlotte shares how she maintains a relationship with the kids when she doesn't see them often, what it was like to get the full-time for a year and then back to long-distance and how she prioritizes her relationship when her partner is deployed. For all those wondering about long-distance stepmomming - listen in!


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May 24, 202346:53
Season 6: Episode 16: Establishing boundaries and making space for your new shared life with guest, Katie Beth

Season 6: Episode 16: Establishing boundaries and making space for your new shared life with guest, Katie Beth

Christina chats with Katie Beth, a stepmom who shares her story of falling in love, the complexities of dating with kids, managing not only a high conflict ex but her high conflict parents. The two discuss what happens when the stepmom shows up and there's no boundaries in place, raising a special needs stepkid and pregnancy after loss. What helped Katie Beth learn how to identify boundaries? What did she need as she prepared to bring home an ours baby? Listen in!
About My Guest:
Hi, I'm Katie Beth. I am a stepmom (7yo son, 10yo daughter) and recently became a first-time mom to an ours baby (8mo son). I am a social worker and lifestyle/documentary photographer in my free time (which is rare these days!). I have been incredibly fortunate to have a wonderful and accepting relationship with my step kids and a supportive and advocating partner. This has and continues to be an amazing, yet chaotic journey and I hope I have something to contribute for all the listening stepmoms that are out there.

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May 17, 202301:05:16
Season 6: Episode 15: A house full of kids and the need for communication, with guest Elly

Season 6: Episode 15: A house full of kids and the need for communication, with guest Elly

Christina chats with Elly, a bio-mom who remarried and now finds herself rocking the stepmom role. With Elly's background in communication, she shares her dos and don't of co-parenting her SIX kids. The two chat group texts, methods to help lessen the conflict and how to manage when you feel your partner walks on eggshells. How has Elly's role as a bio-mom influenced how she shows up as a stepmom? What's her dynamic like with her kids' stepmom? Listen in!

About My Guest
I am a Bio Mom + Bonus Mom to six kiddos ages 14, 13, 12, 12, 11 and 8, two dogs and four goldfish. I have a Bachelor’s Degree in Communication and believe it makes all the difference in your co-parenting relationships! Follow my journey as a Bonus Mom (with my best friend, Jamie) @bonus_moms on Instagram.

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May 10, 202357:46
Season 6: Episode 14: Let's talk teens, blended family finances and finding your voice with guest, Cameron

Season 6: Episode 14: Let's talk teens, blended family finances and finding your voice with guest, Cameron

Christina welcomes Cameron, a stepmom who found her voice and founded This Custom Life, is host of The Stepmom Diaries podcast, Co-CEO of Stepfamily Magazine, and Co-founder of The Stepmom Summit. Cameron discusses how she stepped into her role and how the ages of our stepkids can impact the way we show up. Christina and Cameron chat how the bond can be different between your different stepkids, the guilt we carry and some mistakes stepmoms make when trying to define their role. Cameron also shares some ideas and suggestions on how to navigate blended family finances. What should you consider? What's the "right" thing to do? Listen in!

Mentioned in the Episode:
www.stepfamilymoney.com

About My Guest:
Cameron Normand is Founder of This Custom Life, Host of The Stepmom Diaries podcast, Co-CEO of Stepfamily Magazine, and Co-founder of The Stepmom Summit. Her mission is to provide tools and advice to help stepmoms and stepfamilies manage their blended family lives. She is a Certified Stepparent Coach, the creator of the BLENDED Family Formula For Stepmom Success, and author of The Stepmom’s Gratitude Journal. She’s been featured in CNET, The Cut, Business Insider, Upjourney, the Today Parenting Team, and StepMom Magazine, among others. Cameron received her BA from the University of South Carolina and her JD from Emory University School of Law. By day, she is a corporate politico in the Washington, D.C. area and serves on several non-profit boards. She was named one of the Washington Business Journal’s, “Women Who Mean Business.”
Find her here:
www.thiscustomlife.com; www.stepfamilymagazine.com; instagram.com/this_custom_life

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May 03, 202341:08
Season 6: Episode 13: A couple chats how they love it all even when it's tough with guests Amanda and Joe

Season 6: Episode 13: A couple chats how they love it all even when it's tough with guests Amanda and Joe

Christina welcomes Amanda and Joe to talk full-time step-parenting, supporting one another through HCBM's antics, how to establish boundaries and MORE. Grab your partner for this one. Hearing from another stepmom is validating, but it's always enlightening to hear from how another couple navigates the good, bad and ugly. Listen in!

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Apr 26, 202301:13:30
Season 6: Episode 12: Walking away from stepmotherhood and the life after with guest, Haley

Season 6: Episode 12: Walking away from stepmotherhood and the life after with guest, Haley

Christina chats with Haley, a former stepmom ready to share her story of love, life, struggles and choosing to walk away. What led to Haley's decision? Is she able to maintain a relationship with her stepkids? How is she protecting her our's baby? Stepmotherhood can be a rough road, what would Haley do differently? Has her perspective on blended life changed now that she's a biomom? Listen in!

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Apr 19, 202345:19
Season 6: Episode 11: Evolving through Co-Parenting & Parallel Parenting with Guest, Tori

Season 6: Episode 11: Evolving through Co-Parenting & Parallel Parenting with Guest, Tori

Christina chats with Tori to share her story of co-parenting, parallel parenting and how her family is gradually finding their way back to co-parenting. What does it take to co-parent effectively? When should you make the move to parallel parenting? How do you build trust and manage your own high conflict tendencies? They also chat about when the ex gets a new partner, the feelings of needing to prove yourself as a stepmom and how our own childhoods impact our views of our blended family. Tori gives a glimmer of hope for how it can get better. Listen In!

Mentioned in this Episode:
Parallel Parenting Guide

About My Guest:
Hi, I’m Tori! I’m a wife of 2.5 years to my amazing husband and mom of 4 girls by bio and step. Outside of motherhood, I love being outside, working out, and binging reality tv.

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Apr 12, 202301:06:44
Season 6: Episode 10: Protecting your relationship from the messy with Jacob - Part Two

Season 6: Episode 10: Protecting your relationship from the messy with Jacob - Part Two

Christina and Jacob continue their conversation in Part 2! If you haven't listened to Part 1 (S6:Episode 8) - you should go back and do that first! They start by sharing how they stay connected when blended life feels all consuming. Do you put the relationship first? How do they see their blended family evolving as their kids get older? What does Jake struggle with most in dealing with his ex and how does it impact his relationship with his son? Listen in!



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Apr 05, 202334:35
Season 6: Episode 9: A story of alienation and protecting your Ours Baby with guest, Mallory

Season 6: Episode 9: A story of alienation and protecting your Ours Baby with guest, Mallory

Christina chats with Mallory to share her story of being the non-preferred house, alienation and how she's protected her ours baby from the harshness of blended life. Mallory speaks to what it's like living in the same home her husband shared with the ex - maybe excessive amounts of paint and redecorating?! Ever reach your limit and stand up the the ex? What happens after alienation? Listen in!
About My Guest:
I’m Mallory! I’m married to a wonderful man and have a SD15 and an ours “baby” who is 4.
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Mar 29, 202301:13:49
Season 6: Episode 8: Christina and husband Jacob get real and candid (Part One)

Season 6: Episode 8: Christina and husband Jacob get real and candid (Part One)

Christina welcomes back her husband Jacob to chat her recent choice to disengage. What led her to stepping back? How does Jacob feel about it and what does he struggle with? What do they bicker about besides blended family life?! Christina and Jacob talk candidly about who’s the preferred parent, when you just can’t stop talking about the ex and the hard feelings about being the partner of a disengaged stepmom. Listen in to Part One of this Two Episode series - enjoy!

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Mar 22, 202359:16
Season 6: Episode 7: Performative Mothers and when a Stepmom Disengages, with guest Kelly

Season 6: Episode 7: Performative Mothers and when a Stepmom Disengages, with guest Kelly

Christina chats with Kelly who shares her journey of being a pandemic stepmom, teens and parenting with a "performative" biomom. Do you feel like you live in a fishbowl? Is it weird to have never met the ex? With all the ups and downs, let's talk our greatest lifeline: Disengaging. Listen in!

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Mar 15, 202341:20
Season 6: Episode 6: Christina's Hot Takes and a little pep talk for the tough-on-herself stepmom

Season 6: Episode 6: Christina's Hot Takes and a little pep talk for the tough-on-herself stepmom

In this solo episode, Christina shares what many stepmoms are asking about and gives her hot take. What if a stepmom doesn't want a relationship with the ex - no matter how nice she is? Is it ever okay to look at the ex's social media? How does a stepmom manage disciplining the stepkids? Christina chats it all! And if you're a stepmom who's super hard on herself...listen in. Christina shares some tips on how you can show more compassion for the amazing stepmom you are! Enjoy!

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Mar 08, 202335:03
Season 6: Episode 5: The highs and woes of having stepkids in extracurricular activities with guest, Amanda

Season 6: Episode 5: The highs and woes of having stepkids in extracurricular activities with guest, Amanda

Christina welcomes Amanda who understands the highs and woes of having stepkids in extracurricular activites. What's the big deal? Well, let's chat about it!
Do you show up to the games/practices? If you do - do you sit with the other parent? How do you handle the cost of uniforms? What do you do if the ex signs the kids up without telling you? How do our own values, needs and personality play a part in how we show up - or don't? We chat it all! Listen in!



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Mar 01, 202359:07
Season 6: Episode 4: Loss & Grief - the death of a stepchild with guest, Courtney

Season 6: Episode 4: Loss & Grief - the death of a stepchild with guest, Courtney

Content Warning: This episode discusses the loss of a child. Please check in with your heart and listen in only if you have the time and space.
Christina welcomes Courtney to share her story of stepmotherhood. Like many stepmoms, Courtney struggled with the role she played in her stepdaughter's life. After years of navigating a long distance relationship Courtney and her husband started building a case and filed for custody. Sadly, Courtney's stepdaughter's life was cut way too short. Courtney opens up about her special relationship with her stepdaughter, her complicated journey through grief and her message to share to all stepmoms. With so much love....Listen In.
About My Guest: I’m Courtney, a 32 year old mother of 4. One of those 4 is my stepdaughter who passed away April 22’. I am a chef by trade, own my own business, live on a farm and a fierce lover of my family. I became a stepmom 5 years ago and am passionate about shining a light on the beauty that stepmoms create in the household and also advocating for fathers rights of a child created by two people. @the.bereaved.stepmom on IG
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Feb 22, 202351:48
Season 6: Episode 3: A divorce attorney explains all with guest, Jill

Season 6: Episode 3: A divorce attorney explains all with guest, Jill

Christina chats with Jill, a Divorce Attorney who shares what to look for if you're headed to family court. In her book, "No One Dies From Divorce" Jill discusses what it takes to co-parent well and how to manage an alienating parent. What's the "right" way to divorce and where did our partners go wrong? What's her experience in working with stepmoms? Is the legal system changing how stepmoms are represented? Listen in!
About My Guest:
Jill L. Coil dually licensed in both Texas and Utah where she has focused her practice on Family Law. Jill founded Coil law in December of 2014 with the goal of empathizing, protecting, and advocating for families through legal representation. She has received many awards in Utah for her on-going work in family law cases and her avocation for her clients. Jill also has a tech startup called
Simpleending.com bringing affordable quality online divorce technology to the public without the need to hire an attorney. In addition, she has recently launched a female led Personal Injury firm, Moxie Law Group. She is actively engaged in her community through charitable work through The Coil foundation which she started with her husband. She is a mother of four amazing children and when possible loves to travel the world with her husband and friends. Find her book and more HERE.
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Feb 15, 202344:36
S6: Episode 2: The long game is exhausting with full-time stepmama, Anna

S6: Episode 2: The long game is exhausting with full-time stepmama, Anna

Christina chats with Anna a full-time stepmom who has been through high conflict, custody battles, control issues with communication, self esteem and guilt. Any of this sound familiar? Anna shares her experience with full custody stepmom life, the pros and cons, what helps and doesn't help and what she struggles with most. They chat how to support stepkids who don't see their other parent often and the ever changing "seasons" of stepmotherhood. Grab your beverage of choice and listen in!
About My Guest:
Anna, 29 years old, stepmom for 7 years, full time stepmom for 5 years to a totally awesome 10 year old SS. Just got engaged to my wonderfully supportive fiancé and asked to be an "official" stepmom by my SS. I work as a Recreation Therapist at a psychiatric hospital for youth ages 5-17. I know stepmoms are damn tough, but I know we also need love!
So much more than a podcast!!!
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Feb 08, 202348:37
S6:Episode 1: Thriving as a couple in a blended family with guest, April

S6:Episode 1: Thriving as a couple in a blended family with guest, April

Welcome to Season SIX!!! Christina kicks off the season by discussing the most important topic when it comes to blended family life: your relationship. On this episode you'll meet April, a marriage and family therapist and stepmom. April discusses the common issues she sees blended couples and stepmoms struggling with most and shares the advice and tips she often provides. How do we make an effort to not be another statistic? April also chats about the workbook she designed specifically for our kids. How can we help them transition better into blended family life? Listen in!
I am excited for another amazing season! If you would like to be a guest - apply here!
About My Guest:
I am a licensed marriage counselor and family therapist serving Florida State. My services include individual therapy, pre-marital counseling, Marriage Therapy, divorce counseling or therapy, Depression Therapy, couple and family counseling. I help couples deal with moments of disconnection and create a space of safety where partners can reconnect with one another and provide shelter from heightened conflict, increased hostility and distress.
Learn More About April
April's Workbook: The Blended Family Activity Book
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Feb 01, 202341:32
S5: Episode 20: When the ex burns your olive branch with guest, Elizabeth
Jan 11, 202357:38
E5: E19: What is parental alienation and what can you do about it with guest, Amy
Dec 14, 202246:08
Season 5: Episode 18: Q&A with Christina

Season 5: Episode 18: Q&A with Christina

Christina is answering listener's questions in a rapid fire Q&A. Will she be getting a gift for BM this year? Is it normal to feel protective over your ours baby? Christina chats parallel parenting, when and if you stray from the parenting plan... BANANAS and more! Listen in!  So much more than a podcast!!!  Find me on the Gram @radicalstepmomspodcast  Want a little more support? Schedule a 1:1 session or become a Radical Member? Head to my website!  **This episode is sponsored by Equilibria. Use discount code: Radicalstepmom to save 15% **
Dec 07, 202255:38
Season 5: Episode 17: Being a Wicked Awesome Stepmother with guest, Ashley-Nichole

Season 5: Episode 17: Being a Wicked Awesome Stepmother with guest, Ashley-Nichole

Christina chats with Ashley-Nichole who shares her experience of having multiple stepmoms and how it's shaped her role as a stepmom to her two bonus-daughters. They discuss holding the title of "stepmom" without a marriage certificate, finding her "place" in her home and what led her to writing a children's book, "Wicked Awesome Stepmother". Disney did us dirty, but Ashley-Nichole is confronting that narrative! Listen in!
About My Guest:
Ashley-Nichole was raised by her mother and stepmother in Ft. Myers, Florida, but it wasn't until she became a stepmom, herself, that she drew inspiration for her first children's book, Wicked Awesome Stepmother. She is passionate about creating stories that will give a voice to children and families of non-traditional backgrounds by sharing messages of inclusion, understanding, empathy and kindness. She loves to travel and has been to over 44 countries ''and counting.'' Her childhood passion for travel led her to pursue a career as a Flight Attendant, a position she has held with Delta Air Lines for over fifteen years. She currently resides in Newnan, Georgia with her partner, Eric, and her two bonus-daughters.
Find her on social media: @ wickedawesomestepmother
Find Her Book:
www.wickedawesomestepmother.com/books

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Nov 30, 202244:36
Season 5: Episode 16: Step-Parental Alienation and TTC (Trying to Conceive) with guest, Ryan

Season 5: Episode 16: Step-Parental Alienation and TTC (Trying to Conceive) with guest, Ryan

Christina welcomes Ryan to discuss two topics that impact many stepmoms: step-parent alienation and trying to conceive. When the ex is committed to hating on the stepmom, what can you do? How do you respond when your stepkid says, "my mom doesn't like you?" Ryan also shares her story of trying for an ours baby. As a stepmom navigating fertility, Ryan gives her insights and words of validation and hope to others also waiting for their exciting news.
To all the stepmoms who resonate with this episode - I'm sending you love and light. I hope you find comfort in knowing you're never alone.
About My Guest:
I am 35 years old and have been married to my husband for 3 years (together for 4). My step-daughter is 7 years old, and I have been officially step-momming since my SD was 2.5. Since we got married, my husband and I have been trying to conceive an "ours" baby but have been met with several infertility struggles. I am an elementary school teacher, and I have a variety of obsessions including our family dog Ivy, Taylor Swift music, and Netflix.
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Nov 16, 202245:30
Season 5: Episode 15: Conscious step parenting and building relationships with our stepkids with guest, Anna
Nov 09, 202240:34
S5: Episode 14: Attachment Theory and how to use it with blended families with guest, Julie Menanno

S5: Episode 14: Attachment Theory and how to use it with blended families with guest, Julie Menanno

Christina welcomes Julie Menanno, Marriage and Family Therapist and content creator of Instagram's The Secure Relationship. Our success in stepmotherhood begins with the relationships with our partners. In this episode, Julie discusses attachment styles and how we can notice and overcome our negative cycles. How can we communicate better with our partners? How can advocate for ourselves and hold space for others? Can a stepmom stop being a "fixer"? Listen in!
About My Guest:
Julie Menanno MA is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor and Relationship Coach. Julie is trained in Emotionally Focused Therapy for Couples and specializes in working with attachment issues within relationships. While Julie’s first passion is treating couples, she also provides invaluable relationship insights and advice to nearly 1 million followers on Instagram. She is currently working with Simon and Schuster on a book, Secure Love. Secure Love is scheduled for a December 2023 release date and will be translated into multiple languages. In addition to her work as an author and social media creator, Julie hosts a bi-weekly Patreon discussion group on a variety of relationship and self-help topics. In her spare time Julie enjoys hiking, skiing, Pilates, reading about psychology, and studying Italian. @thesecurerelationship
So much more than a podcast!!!

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Nov 02, 202236:14
S5:Episode 13: Re-Release! Let's chat high conflict w/ Psychologist Stepmom Dr. Michelle Logvinsky
Oct 26, 202201:12:48
S5:Episode 12: Q&A and a Christina Hot Take!

S5:Episode 12: Q&A and a Christina Hot Take!

Christina is back for another Q&A AND offering her insights on a topic we HAVE to discuss as stepmoms. She answers how she introduces herself, are drop offs better at school or in person, how her family manages holidays and more! What's her hot take? Listen in!  So much more than a podcast!!!  Find me on the Gram @radicalstepmomspodcast  Want a little more support? Schedule a 1:1 session or become a Radical Member? Head to my website!  **This episode is sponsored by StepMom Magazine. Use discount code: Radical20 to save 20%  on your subscription!**
Oct 19, 202238:19
Season 5: Episode 11:A power couple who know the ups and downs of alienation, courts and all the corners of a big blended life with guest, Jenny & Sam

Season 5: Episode 11:A power couple who know the ups and downs of alienation, courts and all the corners of a big blended life with guest, Jenny & Sam

Christina welcomes back Jenny and Sam (S3:E33) to get an update on their full house of crazy and love. Jenny chats her many hats of being a mom, stepmom, adoptive mom, foster mom and wife. Sam shares his tips for preparing for court and how to maintain a happy and healthy relationship with your partner (grab your partner for this one!) Jenny and Sam are a power couple who knows the ups and downs of alienation, courts and all corners of a big blended life. How does Jenny balance it all? What's Sam's biggest piece of advice for partners? Listen in!  About My Guests:  We are Sam and Jenny. We've been married over 4 years now. Settled in Northwest Arkansas on our little farm. We are blended to the max. His kids, her kids, Steps, adopted step kids, foster kids, and a new adoption (our 'ours' baby), you can assume life is never dull here. We each have two exes we have children with. We have teens to toddlers and take in foster kids as well. We are so happy to share our experiences with everyone. We are in the works of starting a video podcast of our own together and look forward to continue to share and help others through this really hard stuff. Want more from Jenny & Sam? They have a podcast! Find them on Instagram @familypiecespodcast So much more than a podcast!!!  Find me on the Gram @radicalstepmomspodcast  Want a little more support? Schedule a 1:1 session or become a Radical Member? Head to my website!  **This episode is sponsored by StepMom Magazine. Use discount code: Radical20 to save 20%  on your subscription!**
Oct 12, 202201:11:26
Season 5: Episode 10: How understanding behavior and finding acceptance can make us better parents with guest, Jessica
Oct 05, 202201:01:12
Season 5: Episode 9: Rapid Q&A with just ME and a very special guest....

Season 5: Episode 9: Rapid Q&A with just ME and a very special guest....

Christina answers questions submitted by YOU! In a rapid Q&A Christina give words of advice and a few pep talks. Later in the show she welcomes back her husband to help with a few questions! Get ready to feel validated, laugh and say “hell yea”. Listen in! Topics Discussed:  The difference between setting boundaries and leading with insecurity How she defined her role as a stepmom How to reclaim your identity  What was the ex's big news How to handle the ex doing things differently  Managing insecurities about trying for and having an "Ours Baby" So much more than a podcast!!!  @radicalstepmomspodcast  Want to schedulea 1:1 session or become a Radical Member? Head to my website! www.radicalstepmomspodcast.com  **This episode is sponsored by StepMom Magazine. Use discount code: Radical20 to save 20% **
Sep 28, 202242:10