Skip to main content
Raising Luminaries

Raising Luminaries

By Raising Luminaries

Igniting the next generation of kind & courageous leaders Visit RaisingLuminaries.com for free resources
Available on
Apple Podcasts Logo
Spotify Logo
Currently playing episode

Embracing Pettiness: How to Parent with Integrity by Determining Your Anti-Values

Raising LuminariesJul 02, 2022

00:00
39:34
Good ideas to avoid: summer hubris edition

Good ideas to avoid: summer hubris edition

We failed! Yay! Let’s discuss what we learned and share what support looks like for you!
Jul 20, 202205:34
Stop Lying To Yourself: How to DIY your own parent activist accountability policy
Jul 09, 202225:04
Embracing Pettiness: How to Parent with Integrity by Determining Your Anti-Values

Embracing Pettiness: How to Parent with Integrity by Determining Your Anti-Values

How to stay responsive to tragedies and current events without losing your shit.

Visit the full post for show notes, resources, transcript & a sneak-peek discovery reflection guidebook from the first exploration in our Summer Parent Activist Accelerator.

https://raisingluminaries.com/determining-your-anti-values/

Jul 02, 202239:34
How to keep your wits amid relentless waves of legislative horror
Jun 26, 202253:58
Kicking Your Own Butt Into Gear: How To Transform Overwhelm Into Action
Jun 19, 202240:52
How to DIY Your Own Summer Parent Activist Accelerator
Jun 12, 202231:50
Unconditional Love & Other Bullshit: Collaboration For Curmudgeonly Hagfishes
May 22, 202201:07:07
Boundaries With Friends: What Do We Owe Each Other?
May 16, 202256:56
Calling Out Bullshit: Raising Kids Who Speak Truth to Power

Calling Out Bullshit: Raising Kids Who Speak Truth to Power

Building brave spaces at home to raise kids who can be honest with us.

May 08, 202201:04:03
A Mexican, A Oriental and a Black Walk Into a Podcast: Decolonizing Our Language

A Mexican, A Oriental and a Black Walk Into a Podcast: Decolonizing Our Language

How to maintain a sense of humor while transforming problematic language with our kids.

Apr 24, 202201:06:57
BACK OFF! 3 Creepy Parenting Habits That Keep Us From Raising Resilient Leaders

BACK OFF! 3 Creepy Parenting Habits That Keep Us From Raising Resilient Leaders

How to mind our own damn business and let our kids grow into the leaders our world needs

Apr 17, 202201:04:51
RUN FOR OUR LIVES! How to get off social media & be a better accomplice

RUN FOR OUR LIVES! How to get off social media & be a better accomplice

Why you don’t need to be on social media to be a good ally - and how following a billion activists is probably doing more harm than help.
Apr 09, 202254:14
How to make minority friends - a collector’s guide with Revolutionary Humans

How to make minority friends - a collector’s guide with Revolutionary Humans

Want to make a Black or brown friend? Disappointed in the lack of disabled talking points at your party? Wish you could say ‘I’m not homophonic, I have a bisexual neighbor’? Join Ashia & Bellamy and learn how to collect a menagerie of minorities to show off to the people you actually care about.
Apr 02, 202201:01:33
Anti-ableism & expanding our cultural perspective: Raising Luminaries with Saunatina Sanchez

Anti-ableism & expanding our cultural perspective: Raising Luminaries with Saunatina Sanchez

Saunatina Sanchez of Crafting Sound Meaning uses her Autistic hyperfocus to connect families across cultural divides.
Mar 26, 202249:22
My kid did a racism - how to take responsibility without making things worse

My kid did a racism - how to take responsibility without making things worse

This week my kid made a racist joke that hurt a classmate. Here is what it looks like to respond when our kids are the bigots.
Mar 19, 202252:29
Anger & The Spectacle: Collaborative Growth with Bellamy of Revolutionary Humans

Anger & The Spectacle: Collaborative Growth with Bellamy of Revolutionary Humans

Balancing giving & making our needs known - how we’re changing the ways we show up heading into the year of the Tiger.
Mar 12, 202238:07
Coming this spring: Season 2 of the Raising Luminaries Podcast

Coming this spring: Season 2 of the Raising Luminaries Podcast

More info dumping n’ shenanigans!
Mar 08, 202201:28
The slow defrosting of a frozen brain

The slow defrosting of a frozen brain

Signing off with our last episode of the autumn winter season.
Feb 05, 202203:02
The problem with ‘having it all’ - how aspiring to work/life balance scaffolds systems of oppression

The problem with ‘having it all’ - how aspiring to work/life balance scaffolds systems of oppression

Underlying assumptions, examples of the ‘happily ever after’ mindset, how we’re complicit, and what we can do to resist.
Jan 17, 202248:30
How our hustle keeps us complicit in the kyriarchy

How our hustle keeps us complicit in the kyriarchy

An outtake of our Parent Activist Incubator Winter session, where we learn how to interrupt and reorient for a sustainable parent activist practice.
Jan 09, 202217:14
Winter work: Retreat, Repair & Restructure

Winter work: Retreat, Repair & Restructure

Why we focus on the deep, slow, quiet work of composting: perspective & foundation-building in the winter.
Jan 02, 202220:03
Social media & advocacy burnout

Social media & advocacy burnout

How we set a season aside to retreat from supremacy culture an social media to build a stronger foundation for the upcoming year.
Dec 19, 202137:56
Sustainability in Year-Round Family Activism

Sustainability in Year-Round Family Activism

Why we resist hustle culture year-round, but most importantly during winter
Dec 12, 202137:07
How the Earthquakes Cancelled Christmas

How the Earthquakes Cancelled Christmas

Do the holidays we grew up with align with our family values today? Talking with our kids about the consumerism and competition of the modern Christmas season led to some interesting family decisions.
Dec 01, 202112:32
Modeling boundaries for the next generation of self-advocates and accomplices

Modeling boundaries for the next generation of self-advocates and accomplices

Why I made the commitment to stop providing free education and emotional labor to white allistics, and the uncomfortable price of that commitment.
Nov 20, 202119:49
Showing up, awkwardly. But showing up nonetheless.

Showing up, awkwardly. But showing up nonetheless.

That painful, awkward stretch of uncertainty when we’ve gotta show up to get better, but are hesitant to show up because we’re so bad at things. If that makes sense?
Nov 13, 202107:36
How we can become just a little less shitty

How we can become just a little less shitty

When we’re out of spoons and at the precipice of unraveling - what can we take with us on the way to do less harm and survive the fall.
Nov 02, 202122:17
The intoxicating supremacy of raising kids ‘right’

The intoxicating supremacy of raising kids ‘right’

How treating our relationship building with kids as right or wrong, superior or inferior, reinforces a culture of supremacy.
Oct 26, 202105:43
Embracing the first pancake - how a shitty start is part of raising courageous kids.

Embracing the first pancake - how a shitty start is part of raising courageous kids.

Babbling incoherently over the soothing soundscape of afternoon suburbia.
Oct 21, 202107:50