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Savage Self-Care | At Peace With ADHD, TBI, And Interstitial Cystitis

Savage Self-Care | At Peace With ADHD, TBI, And Interstitial Cystitis

By Ray Graber

Welcome to Savage Self-Care. In 1999 I lost the memories of my childhood in a car accident and in June 2023 they started coming back. For as long as I can remember I've been at war with myself and my conditions. Savage self care is both a cautionary tale and an exploration into the unknown as I unravel the why and find true peace with ADHD and a severe brain injury.
Cover art photo provided by Kai Dahms on Unsplash: unsplash.com/@dilucidus
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