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The Bex Show

The Bex Show

By Rebekka Lien
Things They Don’t Talk About At Church. Sex, masturbation, marriage, dating and all things in between. Hosted by Rebekka Lien.
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Emotionally Available MEN
I went from growing up with an absent dad to learning what it means to spend time with an emotionally open male. Fashion designs- Art-
July 14, 2021
The Toxic Church Culture of Perfectionism In Dating
Subscribe and give - I was taught that I needed to court right away, that I was not even allowed to be interested in people in general. So I felt that there was no point in even hanging out with someone if they were not going to be my husband. This toxic culture caused me to beat myself up if I liked someone who did not end up being "the one". I saw many perfectionistic men grow old with no wife, no girlfriend, because they were SO broken over ONE FAILED relationship or even one date. 
April 17, 2021
Prophetic Word- Open Your Heart To Love
Why is it only the men's job to be vulnerable? To be honest? I started to learn that I needed to express how I felt to a men even if it seemed "desperate". Ladies, when is the last time you actually told a guy you liked him? God wants to open your heart to love in this season!  SOW- Venmo –​​​​ PayPal-​​​​ Zelle- CASHAPP-GUGIBABU Subscribe-​​​​​​​​ SHOP-​​​​ STORES-…​ Podcast-​​​
April 16, 2021
Dating RANTS!
These are dating rants I did not publish, but enjoy :) They are snippets of my dating life that I made in 2020. To Give-  Venmo – PayPal- Zelle- CASHAPP-GUGIBABU Subscribe- Thank you for partnering with me to reach people for Christ!… SHOP- STORES-…
April 16, 2021
Addict, Psych ward, Sex & Finding God Armen Kazorian is a divine appointment I met on the bus one day. The Lord told me to go to Pasadena and He told me to rent a car, which means I had to go a certain direction on the bus. Here’s his story of sleeping with more than 3 figures of women, becoming an addict, then finding God.
January 14, 2021
The Lazy Taco Bell Life With Omar Suarez My first podcast with Lyft driver/musician guest Omar Suarez! We met on my ride from Pasadena to Arcadia. God told me to go to Arcadia so I took a Lyft. I asked him if he wanted to hang out and he said sure for 10 minutes. Then we went to Whittier Leg Lake to eat my lamb soup. Now we chilling at PCH.
December 22, 2020
Recovering From Abuse are you recovering from verbal or domestic abuse? God loves you and he will never leave nor for sake you.
September 15, 2020
Dating and Why It Sucks Sometimes sometimes I hate the process God is putting me through. I hate how I have to confront the men I meet and correct them, tell them not to mislead women, tell them to respect women.
February 28, 2020
Real Conversation With God About Pain This is a super real conversation with God about pain, if you are going through pain in your heart God wants to speak to you. Consider sponsoring this podcast or giving to the ministry on my website! I love you all and am praying for you. I'd love to hear from you too! 
December 26, 2019
It’s Not Your Fault, Deleting Guilt & False Responsibility From Your Life As a kid of divorced parents I had a nagging belief that it was my fault. Growing up I started becoming a people pleaser and God broke it off me. It’s not your fault, get set free from false responsibility!
December 09, 2019
I Had A Ghosting & Controlling Ex Boyfriend more dating stories about my ex and how to deal with a controlling mother or people in your life.
December 03, 2019
Prophetic Word- God Is Love & You Don’t Lack Love support this podcast by sponsoring monthly! Be the first one! This is a spoken word from God as I hear Him speak.
November 30, 2019
My Juicy Dating Story -Is He My Husband? No one likes heartache or heart break but what God taught me is that He never promised a life without pain. Just because that guy isn’t your husband doesn’t mean you need to shut your heart down. Listen to my dating stories.
November 08, 2019
You Are Enough, You Are Not Lacking  Do you feel like you are never enough? That you are always lacking? Do you feel accused of and condemned? Are you going through a breakup or have codependency issues with your partner? Today I pray this grace message will set you free from the ever nagging feeling that you either don't have enough or aren't enough. 
November 04, 2019
Relationship 101- How To Deal With Emotionally Unsafe People (Mother) & How To Heal From It
Subscribe- How to communicate your needs and your emotions with people, how to set emotional boundaries, and how to have loving relationships. Thanks for listening and consider financially supporting this podcast! Thank you!
October 11, 2019
God Will Redeem Lost Time In Your Life When you get older you look back and think, what the hell just happened. You feel depleted and you feel hopeless but God wants to let you know it’s not too late, He will do what He promised you!
October 06, 2019
How To Let Go of False Guilt & Responsibility In Relationships
As a international minister I find it hard to leave every time as I feel responsible for my mother’s happiness. But I am not responsible for her. Do you have problems trying to fix or save people and does it stress you out? Listen to this podcast for the answers.
September 25, 2019
Dating Stories, Masturbation, Sex Talks - Everything Not Talked About At Church
Today I met a very sarcastic man that God introduced me to. He asked some really personal questions as we started to talk about waiting to have sex until marriage. We got to talk about whether masturbation is a sin, and I told him that God only sees Jesus in us, not sin.
September 23, 2019
Are You Single & Looking For The One?
God gave me dreams about marriage a year and a half ago. Then He started to bring men into my life. In the last month I have been met a lot of men by divine appointment and I want to share 4 steps to preparing yourself for marriage.
September 21, 2019
Choose Your Own Happiness- How To Love People & Not Neglect Yourself
Hey do you ever feel neglected in a relationship? Do you feel like you give more of yourself than you receive? Listen to this episode today!
September 18, 2019
Uber Dates, Sex, Marriage & Dealing With Controlling Parents
My first episode talking about marriage, dating, how I went on a date with another Uber rider, why I’m waiting to have sex until marriage and dealing with parents who are controlling.
September 18, 2019