The Healing Factor

How do you know when you're giving your power away? How many times have we invited in judgment and criticism of others? Are they talking about themselves are they talking about the other person? How do we take our power back?

Self-reflection is not always easy but it is always needed in order to heal from the past and step into predestined journey of Life of experience of love and of living

Yes, there is a 12 step to helping from grief, depression and the like for those that really want to heal and learn how to embrace your emotions is a healthy way where it does take over your life.

Are we really paying attention to the signs, warning us to step back, or not go forward? Or...
Are we ignoring them, making excuses just to be a part of something that could possibly make us miserable later on in life? Whose to blame? You or them? Maybe it's not a blame game. Maybe it's just a life lesson and experience to help us remember what we truly are inside.

Some of us can't heal because we are holding in our trauma, pain, etc. We are so afraid of upsetting the apple cart that we neglect our own healing for the sake of others, a family name, or someone else's embarrassment. Then we live the rest of our lives with health issues, mental issues and if it keeps up, it gets passed on to our children. Not to mention the issues that were already passed onto us from our parents and grandparents, etc. It's time to get it out of you. By telling your story, you heal. You keep telling out until one day, it doesn't hurt, and you are on the other side of it and you feel nothing but peace, love and forgiveness. Most of all you let it go so you can live your journey in freedom.

Music by The Stylistics

We are Creators. We have been so programmed to think that someone or something outside of us is in complete control when in essence we are the reason the world is the way it is.

Music by Kierra Sheard

It's so crazy how we get so caught up in the lives of others that we either forget to focus on self or because our lives are so tumultuous that we choose not to look at it.

We are all on a journey back home and every person no matter the connection or relationship, there is always a ending point and season. Some may be a lifetime but it can not and should not be forced and each individual journey needs to be respected.

An impromptu end of the year podcast while out Door Dashing and I didn't want to forget before I got home. So you will be getting directions along the way. Enjoy!!!

Which voice, or what voice are you listening to? Have you found yourself getting caught up in something that looks good, sounds good, but everything in your gut is saying... NOPE, not yet, not this way. Wait just a little while longer. There is a better direction.

Instead of asking who am I or what is my purpose, it's much better to know what you are first. That's where clarity and detachment from things, people and certain entire become easier. THAT is the big ASK question

Sometimes in life, what we choose to do is to please others or to prove to others that were are worthy. When we look back at what is driving us, we can change the course of finding the true happiness we are seeking

After freaking with so many deaths, especially those that rent changed your life, you begin to look at this journey differently. Your perspective as well as desires change.

How to to l look at the loss of a loved one, and still find the courage and strength to keep moving even when the wind has been knocked completely out of you. Your healing, growth and remembering is who you are must continue unless you just want to continue it in the next life. You have the option to quit but who wants to repeat old patterns and traumas?

Soooo I guess I'm on a time limit for my podcasts, lol. This was clearly a long segment so is I'm going to do a long segment again, it will be on my YouTube and I'll post it there. My YouTube is ReBirth Holistic Healing as well. I hope you were enlightened even a little and your feedback is welcome 💖

In life most times, but not all when situations occur, there is always a common denominator. What keeps popping up in each scenario/situation. This is what we need to look at. This is ground Zero. This is where the process of healing begins without bias, prejudice or worrying about what others think. It can also be seen as a mirror moment. It's all a reflection on the thoughts you've been having within that brings certain situations to the surface and in your life. What part do you play in it, and are you the common denominator

This was supposed to be just about emotional abuse, but it ended up being about healing on several levels.

Finding out more about who you are through your parents and grandparents, etc will help you see where your destiny is. You get to see your strengths and what needs to be healed within your lineage so it will not get passed on to the next generation, your children and grands.

This podcast was inspired by Phil Good, who is you haven't listened to him, is a really great inspirational speaker and do much more.

Recognizing the signs that you need to take better care of yourself is crucial, especially the older you get. Also realizing that just because you are young and "seemingly" can do everything and anything with a plethora of energy, without taking into account the affects it will have on your body later on in life is just as crucial. Take care of yourself mind, body and spirit when you are young so you will live a youthful life in your more mature years. Just because you are or wil e 20 older doesn't mean you have to feel like it. Learn from those that are ahead of you. Their lives are stepping stones for you to be better for your and your children. The right of passage doesn't have to be hard or painful.

The titles that you have earned do not necessarily dictate what you can or can't do. You just have to be aware of what company you keep as so not to come upon someone that doesn't understand your journey, and possibly judge you, which in turn truly judges themselves unbeknownst to them. You have positions that you walk in, but you are not those positions and you are allowed to have your life experience on this earth just as much as anyone else. Meet other at their level of understanding, BUT do not become or remain at that level because you you need get back on your own journey of experience.

This episode is too encourage those that feel they have no purpose in life, or that they are not appreciates when in fact they do and they are. We all have a purpose, so don't give up. Sometimes destruction comes before the beauty.

This is a look back at where I was in life, the challenges, the growth, the strength, the courage I gained in finding my own voice to let things go with no apologies. It was all for my good and I'm better because of it.

Everything that happens to us is for a reason, and experience and we are the creator of our own experiences. Everything and everyone is a reflection of you.

If we were to do a list for both of those words, I can guarantee that a lot of our needs would really fall into the want column. A lot of the things we seem needs are simply not, because we can and will survive without them, especially when we look at it from the standpoint of it we had no choice in the matter

Your life is meant to be lived, enjoyed and experienced by you. Not anyone else. We should never stop living the way we want for fear of losing or hurting others. We should not let their embarrassment of YOUR life stop you from doing what you want to do. You have your own mindset, you have a right to live your own life on your own terms so live it to the fullest unapologetically.

Just because you may have information to share with others doesn't mean they will always receive it. Just because they don't receive it doesn't mean they are wrong. That doesn't mean you are right. We have to respect the individual journey that each of us are on. Respect means walking in love toward everyone.

Despite what we've been through, some, even a lot of us are still here as we say fighting the good fight. This truly doesn't have to be a fight if we take the time out to go within. Imagine just how much healing can truly happen when we do stop and listen, observe (not to judge or form opinions) but to clearly get downloads that we need for self healing. Imagine how much more happier we will be when we stop to be thankful and grateful for every experience, good or bad, every lesson, every sun up, every bird chirping in the early morning hours, every full moon. There is so much to be thankful for but how much time do we take to do it. We are here for a reason and a purpose. The answers are and have always been within.

Just observation of things past and present

My heart drops when I hear one race fighting just to be accepted in society. My heart hurts even more when I see the same race fighting for inclusion also down each other based on skin color, when that is what in m the intial fight is about with the world. A house (race) that is divided against itself cannot stand. It just makes the intial fight even harder.

It's not easy, nor fun. It's takes time and patience and a lot of soul searching and surrendering to the process in which everyone can actually go through IF they want to. Who doesn't want to heal from hurt. Well one thing is take the word "BUT" out of the equation. That's I'd like a bandage on a scab that doesn't want to go away. It's time to air it all out so you can breathe!!!

Making that decision of letting go, pushing back and finding yourself. There comes a time when you realize that you are just as important a anyone else. Taking a back seat no longer is an option.

Sometimes bad has to happen before the good does. How do you explain it? Not easily because to the human mind it doesn't make sense. This is where we need to trust in something we can't see but we believe exists.... The Creator.

Sometimes you have to make a choice to throw your hands up and call it quits. In anything in life that is not working anymore, chances are it may be time to take a new path. There is a season for everything in life, after the purpose is served. The question is, do we know when?

Interview with Min. Kathryn Grace. This is as segment of how this wonderful woman fought her way back from drugs and abuse to being a voice for other women.

Most people are ready for this virus to be over so they can go back to their lives... the way it was. How many realize that the way it was is what got us in this situation in the first place? We've been warned in so many ways, in so many situations and we still haven't gotten it. Our actions create alternate reactions. When we get better, the world in turn will do the same. It starts first with SELF

Healing is a process and a journey. Before healing can take place, you have to deal with the trauma. It can be short or however long it needs to be. Each person is different. As I help others heal, I also heal. In healing there is forgiveness for everyone involved, which is the true healing. This is to inspire anyone that needs it. You need to know that the past no longer hurt you. Can you release it and LIVE? You deserve it.

There are things in life we hold on to for fear of what others will think, or because we worked hard to obtain those things. Remember, everything serves a purpose for a time and season. It's ok to move on to something else and maintain your happiness. You are only responsible for yourself, not anyone else. (Children are the exception until they become of age. If you've trained them well, they will be just fine. If you did the best you knew to do, then trust that Source will be with them along their journey). No matter what their spirit is always protected.

Just as when you are on an airplane, you need to put on your own facemask before you help anyone else. This same thing goes for everyday life. It's ok to be selfish. Self Preservation is necessary.

In order to find who you truly are and the journey you should be on, there are some layers that need to be addressed, and removed. Then life gets easier.

Healing doesn't come as fast as we would like it, and sometimes we're think we are healed but more doors need to be unlocked as one leads to another.

If you ever go back, at least let it be for a good reason. I've give back over past things I've said and our has truly helped me. I am even blown away at things I've said. How many times have you done that?

In order to move forward in life, the are some situations you have to deal with in order to heal. Face your fears, confess your feelings, push back. By shutting, you affect everything about you negatively, mentally, physically and spiritually no matter how much you try to fake it. It comes out in the worst ways. It's time to dig down into the God-Power energy inside of you which is where all answers come from. Question is.... do you trust the God Power inside of you that you call out to? It's not up in the sky , it's been with and in you the whole time. The answers come but, you've been second guessing out of fear, which in turn stagnates you from learning the lesson, finding the God Power in you and living the life you are destined to live. You have what you SAY and BELIEVE. Change your words and thoughts, and THEN you will change your life. The (GOD) power is within YOU.

It just doesn't start and stop with your immediate family.

Make sure you do whatever you do because it makes you happy not others. Remember that it's your own personal journey to go on. Advise is good, but like my Bishop use to always say, "Chew the meat, spit out the bones. " You are allowed to change your mind along the journey so just enjoy it, and out the paddles back into the boat and float Merrily down the stream. Enjoy Life to the fullest.

When you are going through some challenge in life, the moment you get quiet and become the observer is when you find out the why, and things begin to get easier. The Universe will always show you. So get ready for growth.

Fall usually represents harvest time. It also represents cleaning up what you don't want anymore to prepare for the new season. What will your new season look like?

Understanding the truth behind those words. It has taken on a negative connotation. It's time to address the trigger, heal and move forward.