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Red Flags with Lily

Red Flags with Lily

By Red Flags Make Cute Scarves Po

A podcast about whatever we want. Usually I have a cocktail and am talking with reality tv stars or my friends. We talk a lot of Bravo, Housewives, Love After Lockup, 90 Day Fiancé, and sometimes real life red flag stories. Take a break and fling some flags with us, after all red flags make cute scarves!
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Johnna-of Johnna and Garrett- from Love After Lockup Season One

Red Flags with LilyMar 19, 2020

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"Had George Floyd Been a Dog, Lisa (Vanderpump) Would Have Marched" An Interview with Faith Stowers

"Had George Floyd Been a Dog, Lisa (Vanderpump) Would Have Marched" An Interview with Faith Stowers

The title of this episode is a direct quote from Faith Stowers, regarding Lisa Vanderpump. Faith Stowers, a former Vanderpump Rules cast member and former Sur employee, discusses her experience on this show- as the only black cast member. She talks racism and gives specific examples. We discuss the lack of diversity in the cast members of the show and the employees of the Vanderpump establishments that we do not see on television. We discuss how passionate and supportive Lisa Vanderpump is when it comes to LGBTQ and animal rights, but her seemingly lack of involvement when it comes to the Black Lives Matter movement.
Faith accuses Kristin Doute and Stassi Schroeder of being guilty of using their white privilege to ruin her reputation, her career, and even her life.
If you do not care about Vanderpump Rules, fast forward 30 minutes and listen to the rest of what she has to say. This speaks volumes about what is going on in our world now and in Hollywood today. We invite anyone that was mentioned in this podcast to respond to anything that was said. Please be part of the conversation.
Jul 13, 202101:29:37
Talking All Things Real Housewives of Potomac with The Real Reality Homo

Talking All Things Real Housewives of Potomac with The Real Reality Homo

The Real Housewives of Potomac is back!!  We are sooo excited.  Paul, aka, The Real Reality Homo, and I dive right into this premiere episode.  He gives knowledgable insight while I defend Gizelle based only on the fact that I like pretty things.  We agree that she deserves better than a Mini Cooper.  We are both excited to see The Grand Dame and disappointed to see a cash bar.  If you are not excited about this episode, then you are a "Hamster Faced Ho."  Enjoy!

Aug 04, 202048:60
Love After Lockup's Season Three Cast Member John Miller- of John and Kristianna

Love After Lockup's Season Three Cast Member John Miller- of John and Kristianna

We are here with another new Love After Lockup cast member from season three,  John Miller.  John tells us some behind the scenes scoop on how filming is going and answers my questions about that impressive chapel on wheels.  We also discuss why he did not carry Kristianna's box to the limo.  We talk about how his background and why he thinks that it is a good idea for convicts to date other convicts.  Enjoy meeting John Miller everybody!

Jul 30, 202031:50
A Very Fun Conversation About All Things Housewives and Bravo with One of My Favorites- The Real Reality Homo

A Very Fun Conversation About All Things Housewives and Bravo with One of My Favorites- The Real Reality Homo

The Real Reality Homo aka Paul and I have a delightful conversation about all Real Housewives franchises, his Twitter, ummm feud, with Camille Meyer, formerly Camille Gramer, and of course we speculate wildly on the Brand Glandville and Denise Richards situation. We talk about much more- including his predictions for the Real Housewives of Dallas this season and how if you are not watching Dallas and Potomac you should be. We recap RHONY and Ramona’s birthday party too....wow Leah wow. Thanks Paul!
Jul 27, 202001:04:15
Welcome Our Special Guest and Friend to All Real Housewives and Other Bravolebrities- David Yontef, Host of the Podcast "Behind the Velvet Rope"

Welcome Our Special Guest and Friend to All Real Housewives and Other Bravolebrities- David Yontef, Host of the Podcast "Behind the Velvet Rope"

We are so excited to welcome David Yontef. David has an all access pass to our favorite Real Housewives and all other Bravolebrities. He is the host of the podcast "Behind the Velvet Rope" and he took time to talk to us and give us a glimpse of what it is like to travel in the same circles as the ladies we are fascinated by on Bravo. This is an exciting interview, David names names and tells us about some of his favorite and not so favorite encounters over the years. He tells us how he got behind that velvet rope and what he found once he got there.
Disclaimer* There is an audio issue on my end, but it gets better, you can hear David perfectly.
Thank you to David and thank you to everyone who listens! Enjoy and stay safe!
Jul 21, 202001:11:09
Love After Lockup Season 3- First Interview with Jessica, Love After Lockup's Brand New Star

Love After Lockup Season 3- First Interview with Jessica, Love After Lockup's Brand New Star

Love After Lockup is back for season 3!  We talked to one of the new stars, Jessica, 30 minutes after her television debut.  She gives us some inside scoop on what it was like to be married to her husband, Maurice, while he was incarcerated at San Quentin and tells us the two things he immediately wanted when he was released.  We also know all four places where Maurice's name is tattooed on her body and a little bit about the mother of his child.  We get some inside scoop on her relationship with her sister and what we might see coming up this season.  She tells us what she does to relax before the interview portions of the show and more.  Enjoy this first glimpse of the new cast and new season!

Jul 18, 202034:18
Sex, Secrets, Sabotage, and Suicide- Cedric Martinez, Former BFF of Lisa Vanderpump- Takes Us Behind the Scenes of The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills

Sex, Secrets, Sabotage, and Suicide- Cedric Martinez, Former BFF of Lisa Vanderpump- Takes Us Behind the Scenes of The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills

Lisa Vanderpump's former best friend and house guest, Cedric Martinez, tells us all about his very personal relationship with the Vanderpumps. The former boyfriend of Lance Bass tells us what Lisa and Ken are like when the cameras are not rolling and the lies and manipulation he experienced behind the scenes of Season 1 of The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills. He answers questions about Lisa Vanderpump's character, personality, marriage, and weighs in on whether or not Lisa Vanderpump is really the "puppet master." He shares with us what Russell Armstrong told him in a confidential conversation prior to taking his life and why watching the women discuss Russell's suicide makes him sick to this day. He even weighs in on the recent accusations of racism in the Vanderpump empire. Was Cedric cancelled because he knew too much? Was how Cedric was treated by Lisa Vanderpump and Bravo a foreshadowing of what has recently come to light?
Jul 15, 202001:20:22
"He's Homophobic, He's Racist, He Degrades Women- He Needs to Stop." 90 Day Fiance's Ashley Martson and Jay Smith Speak Out about Jax Taylor

"He's Homophobic, He's Racist, He Degrades Women- He Needs to Stop." 90 Day Fiance's Ashley Martson and Jay Smith Speak Out about Jax Taylor

Ashley and Jay tell us about racist and degrading comments that Jax from Vanderpump Rules made to them directly. They discuss why some of his fellow cast mates were fired from Bravo for racist behavior, yet Jax Taylor was spared. We invite Jax to come on this podcast and respond to anything that was said and we thank Ashley and Jay for talking to us. We apologize for a brief audio issue at the beginning. Enjoy!
Jun 17, 202037:42
Deep Dive into this Season of "Before the 90 Days"- with Samantha- I Have Heard Your Feedback- Give me More

Deep Dive into this Season of "Before the 90 Days"- with Samantha- I Have Heard Your Feedback- Give me More

Y'all I have heard your feedback. I have received that when I try to record anything except an interview, I drive you crazy with my disorganization and my random thoughts. I wrote an outline this time and y'all are right, I needed to do that. I think you will enjoy this episode (that turned out to be a deep dive into this season of "Before the 90 Days") with Samantha. Sam has produced most of my interviews with the cast of Love After Lockup, but this is the first time she is out from behind the scenes. Stay safe and enjoy.
Jun 03, 202001:39:53
D'Boom and I talk RHOBH and RHONY

D'Boom and I talk RHOBH and RHONY

Y'all we are just talking some Real Housewives.  New York and Beverly Hills- current Wives and those who have left us, in other words we ramble.  D'Boom drops his bottle of Fireball at some point.  Stay Safe!

Jun 02, 202048:48
Our OPINION- and that's all it is- of the Couples on This Season's Before the 90 Days

Our OPINION- and that's all it is- of the Couples on This Season's Before the 90 Days

This episode is a quick recap of what my friend Julia and I think about the couples that are on this season's Before the 90 Days. That being said, who cares what the hell we think, we are just two girls talking- like you do with your friends. We do share what I think might be an unpopular or controversial opinion about David and Lana. Enjoy and stay safe.
May 26, 202048:30
A Chat with Love After Lockup's Brittany Santiago

A Chat with Love After Lockup's Brittany Santiago

Thank you Brittany for being such a great guest!  She tells us all about everything and answers some questions I had after reading her new book, "One Woman's Journey:  Surviving the Streets."  This was a great interview- stay safe and enjoy!

May 21, 202037:30
Love After Lockup's Scott Davey (of Scott and Lizzie)

Love After Lockup's Scott Davey (of Scott and Lizzie)

Scott tells us all about his side of what went down between he and Lizzie, on and off camera. He is also open about the time he spent in prison and clarifies the term "trick" for my very confused producer and myself. We need to warn you that this episode contains racially offensive language that is used when Scott is quoting a specific experience and names that he and Lizzie were called by management of a hotel. Thank you for listening!
May 05, 202049:25
Felicia's Date with a Real Life American Psycho Named Kevin

Felicia's Date with a Real Life American Psycho Named Kevin

Kevin if you read this, you are scary AF. Everyone else stay safe!
Apr 15, 202001:18:31
Welcome Glorietta from Love After Lockup

Welcome Glorietta from Love After Lockup

Glorietta tells us all about Love After Lockup, life after the show, and the new man in her life! We enjoyed having her so much!
Apr 09, 202049:17
David Boom and I Have a Quick Chat About Coronavirus Questions ( We Know he had Some Audio Issues)

David Boom and I Have a Quick Chat About Coronavirus Questions ( We Know he had Some Audio Issues)

David Boom and I talk about some confessions, concerns and questions about what is going on in the world with this virus right now. We apologize for audio issues, he is on an island. Quarantine is making us a little crazy and very honest.
Apr 03, 202029:31
Clint Brady and Not His Goddess- Together?

Clint Brady and Not His Goddess- Together?

Clint and Gen talk to me and give me the inside details about ALL. OF. IT. There aren't many questions left, except..... are you Quarantined enough for episode 4? Be safe everyone!
Mar 30, 202046:40
Clint Brady FINALLY Responds to These Bitches :)

Clint Brady FINALLY Responds to These Bitches :)

I mean bitches in the nicest possible way. Tracie and Gen have both been very nice on this podcast. They both have had a lot to say on this podcast and on social media about each other and about Clint. I never thought he would do it, but Clint tells us his side and what he thinks about both these ladies. Clint addresses production's role in Tracies's rehab and the prostitution rumors that were brought up by Genevieve Bailey in a previous episode. He addresses allegations of having a mistress. He gives us his final answer on his relationship status with these two women, and his mother. Y'all that's just the tip of the iceberg. Where is this Allen I hear so much about? I address why people have given me shit about the audio in my first ever interview, that happened to be with Tracie. Cut me some fucking slack, I'm still learning. This contains explicit language.
Mar 26, 202001:00:07
Genevieve Tells All- The Other Woman in Clint Brady's Life that We did not See on Love After Lockup

Genevieve Tells All- The Other Woman in Clint Brady's Life that We did not See on Love After Lockup

Genevieve Bailey is breaking her silence and telling her story about the nature of her relationship with Clint and Tracie from Love After Lockup.  This woman signed no NDA, so that means NOTHING was off limits.  All I can say is WOW.   This episode is her side of the story.  She extends an open invitation to Clint, Tracie, and anyone else she mentioned in this episode to come on this podcast with her and respond to anything she said.  This is a long episode, because she had a lot to say.  Thanks for listening!

Mar 22, 202001:39:04
Johnna-of Johnna and Garrett- from Love After Lockup Season One

Johnna-of Johnna and Garrett- from Love After Lockup Season One

Johnna shares the (juicy) details of her experience on the show and how her life has been impacted.  Apparently we didn't see the whole story, and WOW.   Take a short break from all the scary stuff in the world and enjoy some gossip!  This is why we can not get enough of Love After Lockup!

Mar 19, 202049:11
Candid Conversation with Tracie from Love After Lock Up and My Bestie DBoom

Candid Conversation with Tracie from Love After Lock Up and My Bestie DBoom

Tracie from Love After Lock Up does not hold back! She has a VERY open conversation with us. Please forgive some minor audio issues- new to this and still working on it! Available on Apple, Spotify, Google Podcasts and Anchor.
Mar 04, 202036:51
Red Flags and Pink Tape Measures

Red Flags and Pink Tape Measures

When a guy picking up a used chair in your driveway confuses your description of a tape measure for a sexual innuendo- that’s a red flag y’all.
Feb 27, 202023:27
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