Refined Reality

The Narcissist. Who is it for you? We all know someone more or less at least a bit "self-centered" and hear that word thrown about often on our social medias. Join the crew as they delve into the differences between the attitude and disorder from a professional and personal POV. This episode serves as an intro into the mind and generalized behaviours of narcissistic personality disorder, discussed and simplified.

Join the Refined Reality Crew as we share our opinions on the thought-provoking documentary -drama. This hybrid film, from the perspective of people who created all major social networking apps, explores the dangers surrounding social networking and the impact it has had on people in general. They are fearful that our attention has shifted to screen time and it has us worried. But do not worry, we have some funny commentary included as well.

Join Helen Golod, PHD candidate, as she shares her professional opinions and thoughts relating to social media and how it has increased solitude and depression in this new age of technology. The Refined Reality crew are always willing to have uncomfortable discussions and have thought-provoking opinions on the subject in order to shine a light on mental health issues by breaking down barriers one episode at a time.

Join the crew as they share their personal journeys with self expression through their own artistic therapy sessions. Can you guess who loves mixed media or grayscale artwork, or who has a knack and patience for diamond art? In this episode, you will discover that art has multiple benefits for your own personal mental health and well-being. Tune in as we rekindle our passion for the finer things in life - aka Art. 

The crew sit down to plug in their new, "let's talk mental health in popular movies and media" segment! We kick off with one of our favourite Disney Pixar films called Inside Out. This film is a wonderful teachable tool for children and adults on topics of mental health and their respective affinities regarding a person's emotions. Please join us in discussing the "wonderful word of mental health".

Curious what happens when an atheist, a jew and a self-proclaimed grinch try to throw a successful virtual holiday staff party? Tune in to find out!

Wishing all our listeners a Very Merry Holidays 2020! 

This time on the RR Podcast... Tracy is away and it's time to play (Only kidding, we love her to the moon!). Join Bobbi-Jo and PHD candidate Helen Golod as they discuss gaming and the various impacts video games can have on mental health. The duo debate its influence in regards to child development, industry elitism and the sexualization of woman gamers.

***TRIGGER WARNING*** THIS EPISODE CONTAINS DISCUSSIONS OF PHYSICAL AND SEXUAL ABUSE THAT MAY BE UPSETTING FOR SOME LISTNERS. Another sitdown with a clinical psychology PHD student, Helen Golod (current M.A. in counseling psychology). Helen brings her expertise and background to the table and explains how trauma touches all lives in many different ways. The trio reveals their different traumas and the various ways in which one can overcome, conquer and support their friends and loved ones in their times of need.

It's time to pack shit up and get out! It's finally time for a big move! Tune in as Bobbi-Jo and Tracy talk "KonMari Method" and laying down the emotional groundwork necessary, in order to pursue new adventures.

Join us in our discussion to find out if absence actually makes the heart grow stronger! Bobbi-Jo and Tracy share their experiences with long “distance marriages”. Featuring very special guest, Captain Excitement!

After a long awaited reunion, the Refined Reality Crew finally meet in person! Eeeek, it was so exciting and long overdue with everything that has been going on in our lives! We reveal our origin story about how we became Refined Reality! Join Bobbi-Jo and Tracy aka Mrs Money Queen, as we uncover our roots and discuss with you, our listeners how this all came to exist. Tune in to hear about our inception and futur plans! We also recorded a live video to share with everyone... you know, for proof! Check out our social media pages for our impromptu introduction that very night we met (we were thirsty, ok)!

The seasons are changing and the days are getting colder up here in northern Canada. Join Tracy and Bobbi-Jo as they talk seasonal depression and how to beat the winter blues...just in time for the holidays!

Happy Halloween ghouls and goblins! Join us as we expose our personal experiences with the dead. Can you guess which one of us believes in ghosts? Is it Bobbi-Jo or is it Tracy aka Mrs Money Queen.... tune in to a spooktacular special in order to find out! Just maybe you will find us lurking in the darkness... watch your thoughts and your backs.

On this week's episode, the Refined Reality crew discuss the housing market in Northern Ontario. Tracy, aka Mrs Money Queen, is currently in the position of selling her current home and in the process of purchasing another. She shares her experience of how it has changed since she was in the finance game. We discuss how emotions make an impact on financial decisions, especially during a global pandemic. You won't want to miss their friendly banter and opinions; after all, we all have our own money mistakes.

Learning to let go just might be the true key to happiness. Join us in Uncovering how traumatic experiences has shaped our lives. Moving on isn't easy, but we explore our past hurts and how we move on in order to find our own happinesses, however grand or minuscule they may be! 

Featuring special guests Jonas Ventura and Nathan Urias from the Broken Lightbulb Podcast. Co-habitating with the opposite sex isn't always rainbows and unicorns! Join the gang as they reveal, the good, the bad and the nitty gritty regarding their romantic relationships. Tune in for the, He said vs SHE said, unfiltered realness!

New Podcast Episode... It's all about our guilty pleasures 🖤 Tune in as Bobbi-Jo and Tracy, aka Mrs Money Queen spill their dirty little secrets 😜 warning some mature content and very embarrassing information revealed, listener beware! 

Virus induced cultural shifts or simply a new western societal norm? Tune into the discussion with Bobbi-Jo and Tracy, as we invite you, our listners into our households and new lives...possibly forever changed?

Conflict and confrontation is inevitable, at home, at work and with our close friends. But, it's how we deal with each specific confrontation that is truly important. How can we effectively communicate with others and move past serious issues? Are some conflicts unresolvable? Sometimes picking our battles can alleviate some stresses we face during a disagreement. Tune in as Bobbi-Jo and Tracy, aka Mrs Money Queen, spill the tea on how they arm themselves for interpersonal warfare!

Join your Co-Host Bobbi-Jo and Tracy aka Mrs Money Queen as they are joined with seasoned Financial Planner Angela aka the #walletdoctor as she shares the ins and outs of financial planning. They discuss how Covid-19 has impacted her personal life, her adjustments to working from home and financial facets of her daily life. Tune in and discover Angela's financial tips and tricks during theses uncertain times. 

Join Bobbi-Jo and Tracy as they share their unscripted experiences with their life time relationships, both personal and interpersonal.

Guest appearance featuring cutie pie Willow the dog, as a special guest and most treasured friend! 

Tune in for new changes! Join Bobbi-Jo and Tracy as they reveal their worst habits and talk about creating positive and feasible changes for success. We all have real struggles and it doesn't get any realer than their reveal!

Join Bobbi-Jo and Tracy as they share how confidence building has shaped their realities, along with 10 strategies to build a better you and refine your momentum! 

Tune in for an indepth sitdown with Mentor & Coach Daniel Jebb Finnerty; the creator of ConsciousHustle, Sales for Introverts, and SoulCamp Retreats! Daniel shares some of his powerful logic and spiritual insight into the process regarding mentorship, the relations between a mentor and the mentee as well as how coaching can be so different!

A sitdown with a clinical psychology PHD student, Helen Golod (current M.A. in counseling psychology). She recounts her passion for helping and caring for others as they resolve their darkest problems. Helen shares her story regarding the darkness and distrust that began festering in her marriage while her attention was averted... Join us as tea is spilled and accountability becomes psychoanalyzed.

Touchdown with Boomtown, co-hosted by Tracy DeCaen! Join us in a sitdown with tattoo artist Sammy DeCaen, owner of Boomtown Tattoos. Hear about his journey to becoming a successful tattoo artist and his take on living life to the fullest! Sammy shares his journey (along with his sister) and spills his secret to his success...while revealing a few shenanigans along the way! 

Tune in and join us, as the queen herself teaches us how to make your money work for you! A one on one with Tracy exploring the common misconceptions surrounding personal finances. A financial blogger and seasoned financial advisor, she shares her best tips for saving and acheiving financial accountability. 

Differences are shared and celebrated, technology and times have changed, with that change comes growth, new problems and a new reality! Joined by travel guru Alex and money manifestation queen Tracy in more unscripted realness, as the duo discuss generation barriers.  

Join travel guru Alex and her friend, along with money manifestation queen Tracy as they discuss their journeys of intentional transformation. The trio reveal their inspiration for breaking free of the status quo, in unscripted realness, as they redefined their own realities.