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The Intimacy Podcast

The Intimacy Podcast

By Rhonda Farr
Connecting men to the women they love.

Want to create amazing intimacy both inside and outside the bedroom?

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Get Your Marriage On, the Messy Truth with Dan Purcell
Dan talks to us about some raw and vulnerable dysfunctions that came up as he and his wife were trying to create an intimate connection they both could enjoy. Every listen is sure to relate to this messy truth. Get on my calendar so I can help you create the marriage that makes you happy again
September 9, 2020
Navigating Sexual Trauma and Thriving, a Conversation with the Birdno’s
Is it possible to heal after sexual trauma? What’s it like to be in marriage after sexual abuse? How can I live and support my wife who is a survivor or sexual abuse. Tune in for all these answers and more. Cami , . Merrill
July 2, 2020
Men and Intimacy, with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife
To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife's men's sexuality course, get on her waiting list here To learn more about one on one intimacy coaching with me, head on over to www.rhondafarr.con
June 17, 2020
The Flaws are Coming Out
Has this time of “togetherness” got you noticing all the flaws in your wife? Are you both on edge more often? Today I’ll teach you a new way to handle it all.
May 22, 2020
61 Why Was Her Desire Stronger When We Were Just Dating?
Women ask me all the time why they felt such a physical hunger for a sexual relationship before marriage, but have no desire now. Well, here’s your answer! For more questions or to work with me contact me at
March 13, 2020
How Do You Experience Desire?
Ever wonder why she doesn’t seek out sex, but enjoys it once she gets started? Ever wonder if your desire level is normal? I’ve got answers today!
March 5, 2020
59 Jane’s Story: How Mindfulness Led to the Bedroom
What does mindfulness really look like when trying to improve a relationship. Today I’m sharing a personal and true story of how Jane used mindfulness to allow herself to create more intimacy both emotionally and physically. Want to talk to me?
February 24, 2020
58 Empowering Those Who Struggle: A discussion about pornography with Dr. Cameron Staley
Today's episode is all about empowering those who struggle with patterns of pornography use, to find change and resolution in their lives.  We discuss the controversial topic of the addiction model and talk about the underlying reasons so many are turning to porn these days. To learn more about Life After Pornography online, guided course click here
February 13, 2020
57 Guys: Why You Haven’t Been Able to Solve Sex Issues
Focusing more on sex will not solve your sexual problems, but it might make them worse! Get your free Top 10 Intimacy download here: Email me here:
February 7, 2020
56 The Cost of an Intimate Relationship
What do you really have to pay, to feel more love, connection, happiness and romance? Listen to find out. Want me to speak at your next event? Contact me at
January 22, 2020
55 Love Language Conundrum
Having trouble getting your partner to speak your love language? Listen up. Want to chat with me?
January 8, 2020
54 Intimacy Perspective
Please don’t believe everything you think. Open your mind to other possibilities and you’ll be one step closer to connection and solutions. Get in my calendar by tapping here
December 11, 2019
53 Intimacy Starts Within
The key to having a strong sense of interpersonal intimacy is knowing yourself intimately first. Sound weird? You probably need to listen! I invite you to talk to me in person by signing up here
November 15, 2019
Difficult Spouse?
It’s hard when you have a difficult spouse, right? What if you are a difficult spouse? Today I’m talking about how we are changed just by labeling another person as difficult.
November 6, 2019
Gifts of Gratitude
Want to give a meaningful gift that will transform your marriage? It’s free. Today I’m sharing all the details and stories behind changing your relationship by being grateful. I’ll even tell you how to wrap it up with a bow!
October 30, 2019
Judgement and Shame
Do you ever judge yourself? Are their things about you, you hope no one ever finds out? Today I’m shining the light on how self-judgement leads to shame and effects all our relationships.
October 24, 2019
Mismatched Desire, Bridging the Gap
Wrapping up the series about mismatched desire in marriage, I talk about owning your own wanting to bridge the gap in your relationship. Want to schedule an appointment with me? Do it here
October 15, 2019
Mismatched Desire: Lower Desire Partner
Are you the lower Desire Partner in your marriage? Want to better understand your lower Desire Partner, so you can fin solutions to bridge the gap? Make sure you have a listen to this one. Want to get on my calendar and chat with me in person
October 9, 2019
Mismatched Desire: High Desire Partner
Are you the high desire partner in your marriage? Want to understand your high desire partner better? Today we’re talking about it all and even taking a look at what lies beneath the mismatched Desire.
September 30, 2019
Want an easy way to connect with your spouse when life seems hectic. I’ve got 10 great tips to help you have more fun and connection in your relationship today! Find me on Instagram rhondafarr_the_intimacy_coach
September 3, 2019
It’s About Time
Today I’m talking about one thing all couples can do to capitalize on the resources that is available to us all. Learn why our time outside the bedroom has a direct association with our time inside the bedroom.
August 27, 2019
Closer through Conflict
A certain amount of conflict in a relationship is normal and can actually be conducive to an emotionally connected marriage. Today I’m talking about how to make sure your disagreements bring you closer! Talk to me!
August 19, 2019
Part 3 The Intimacy Model, Mirror For Your Mind
This week we are tying everything together. I will teach you how to use the model to create more intimacy in every relationship of your life...if you want it. PDF Scheduler
August 13, 2019
Part 2 of The Intimacy Model, Why You’re Feeling This Way
The way we feel is very important because it fuels all of our actions. Want to take it deeper? Check out this pdf Want to get on my schedule? Click here
August 6, 2019
Part 1 of The Intimacy Model, Fact or Story
Come along with me on this three week journey as we explore the Intimacy Model and take your relationship to the next level. Today I’ll help you figure out the story you are telling and how it influences your whole life.
July 30, 2019
The RIGHT Way to Create Lasting Change in Your Relationship
Today I’m talking about making changes that last, over time. Many of us try to accomplish our goals in a way that usually leads to giving up. Want to learn how to create positive results that last? Listen up!
July 22, 2019
Trauma, a Discussion with Lindsay Poelman
What is trauma? What causes it? Are you experiencing trauma in your relationship? Today we discuss those questions and more with Certified Life Coach, Lindsay Poelman. To find more information from Lindsay check out or search for her on your favorite social media platform.
July 15, 2019
Why does rejection feel so terrible? Is there a way to reject and accept rejection that doesn’t hurt so much? Today we’re talking about both sides of the conversation.
July 8, 2019
I’m Important
It makes my job so much more fun when I focus on the importance of what I do...when I focus on YOU! Why are YOU important? Can’t wait to chat.
July 1, 2019
Asking Powerful Questions in the Bedroom
Do you ever wonder why things have to be so hard? Why you are incompatible with your husband? These questions seem harmless. We all ask things like this from time to time, but are these questions making your marriage harder? Yes! Tune in to find out why!
June 24, 2019
Is Your Body Image Stealing Your Pleasure and Joy?
Today we’re taking a closer look at how body Image issues are effecting ever part of our lives...especially in the bedroom.
June 17, 2019
Women Who Struggle With Patterns of Pornography Use
Do women struggle with pornography too? You bet. Do they often feel even more shame and embarrassment because they have been taught that pornography is a male issue. Very often. Today I want you to know, you are not alone sister!
June 10, 2019
Stress and Intimacy
Could that lack of interest actually be a result of everyday stress? We all know stress can take a toll on our bodies, but what about our sexual desire? Listen to find out.
June 3, 2019
Selfless Sex
Selfless Sex sounds sweet and loving. I know it’s tempting to do it. Today’s episode shines a light on selfless sex and exposes it for the dread and resentment it harbors!
May 27, 2019
How to Create More Desire
Ever think you or your partner are broken or defective? Ever feel like you have no idea how to change the level of desire in your relationship? Today I’m teaching how to take control of your desire!
May 20, 2019
Episode 30 Girls Talk, What Your Wife Wishes You Knew
Real women in real relationships reveal what they wish their husbands knew about their sexual relationship. What would you add to the list?
May 13, 2019
Episode 29 What Your Husband Wishes You Knew About Your Body
Taking a look inside our husbands’ minds today, as we talk about body image. Do you have negative body image and wonder why you struggle with desire? Do you project your insecurities onto your husband. Make sure you grab your partner and listen to this one together.
May 6, 2019
Episode 28 Good Girl Syndrome
What type of messages did you receive about sex as an adolescent? Do those messages effect your belief system today? Contact me at
April 29, 2019
Episode 27 And It Was Very Good
Today I’m talking to the Author of And IT Was Very Good, a book about sex that gives all the sex advice you want to learn about, but are afraid to Google search. For your free download email You won’t be disappointed!
April 22, 2019
Episode 24 Forgiveness in the Bedroom
Forgiveness is not about accepting an apology or telling someone it’s OK. We don’t have to get an apology or an explanation in order to forgive...although I know you think it would help. When we hold onto anger and resentment, it drives a wedge in our physical intimacy.
April 1, 2019
Episode 23 Desire and Desirability
Do you know what you desire in the bedroom? Have you been focusing more on being desirable? When we think more about what makes us desirable than what we really want, it subtly shuts down access to our own wanting.
March 25, 2019
Episode 22 Unconditional Love in Your Bedroom
When you choose to feel love, frustration or compassion only you get to feel it. Choosing unconditional love is for YOU not the other person.
March 18, 2019
Episode 21 Let’s Talk About IT!
Talking about sex is so important in a marriage, yet so many of us are not doing it. If you feel reluctant to share those intimate conversations, you need to figure out why. If you can talk about sex with your husband, you are missing out on a whole level of intimacy.
March 14, 2019
Episode 20 Have I Got a Story to Tell?!
Want to be more happy? Stop telling that story.I could tell you the same story in so many different ways, and it would totally change how you feel about me and my husband. The story that matters most, is the story you are telling yourself!
March 4, 2019
Episode 19 A Discussion About Pornography with Brian Willoughby
Research shows that 85 percent of young single adult men have some type of history with pornography. There are a lot of myths and misunderstandings about what pornography actually does to us. It’s time to start talking about these things and establishing open dialogues of conversation.
February 25, 2019
Episode 18 Navigating Spiritual Disconnect with Kendra Huffman
Realizing different spiritual beliefs and feeling spiritually disconnected can greatly impact our desire to be physically intimate. Is it possible to navigate a mixed-faith marriage and still feel connected? Absolutely.
February 18, 2019
Episode 17 Talking to Your Child About Sex Without Shame or Embarrassment
Teaching Your Kids About Sex Without Shame or Embarrassment. If you’ve ever wished for help when it comes to talking to you kids about sex, today’s episode is for you! Get your free guide at
February 11, 2019
Episode 16 Allowing Your Emotions
Did you know the worst thing that can ever happen to you is feeling a negative emotion? It’s true. When you figure out how to allow and manage those emotions, you take all your power back!
February 4, 2019
Episode 15 Emotional Intimacy
Many consider emotional intimacy a prerequisite to physical intimacy. It is very difficult to give ourselves fully to another person if we do not feel emotionally safe.
January 28, 2019
Episode 14 The Power of Touch
Do you ever feel “touched out” or depleted by the end of the day? Afraid to hug or kiss your husband because you’re afraid he’ll want more? Tune in today to find out how that effects your relationship in the long term. Connect with me at
January 21, 2019
Episode 13 Do men NEED Sex?
Settling the debate of want vs need.
January 14, 2019
Episode 12 I WANT to want it, but I just don’t.
Have you ever wished you wanted sex more? Do WANT to desire your husband, but you just don’t? On today’s episode I’m diving into why this happens and giving some solutions!
January 7, 2019
Episode 11 The Husband Manual
Ever wish your husband came with a Manual? You have a Manual for him alright, and I’m going to show you how to use it to make your marriage happier.
December 31, 2018
Episode 10 Presence in the Good Ol’ Days
Do you ever miss the good Ol’ Days? Do you ever with things would hurry up and work out as planned? What if today your are living in the good ol’ days?
December 24, 2018
Episode 9 Using the Atonement in Your Marriage
This one is for my sisters who share similar faith. Do you ever have a hard time forgiving, either yourself or your husband? Are past transgressions haunting you?
December 17, 2018
Episode 8 Tired of Trying
Why does everything seem so hard? Do you ever just want to give up and just not even try to change certain things in your relationship? Guess what? It's normal to feel that way and I want to tell you why it's actually good to feel that way!
December 10, 2018
Episode 7 Keeping the Attraction in Your Marriage
Do you ever feel like the attraction is fading in your marriage? Do you wish you knew how to feel that spark again? Tune in to find out how you can maintain your confidence in your marriage through all the highs and lows.
December 3, 2018
Episode 6 AWKWARD
Do you ever feel like your intimate relationship is awkward? Today I’m talking about why that happens and what it’s completely normal! Here’s the study I reference and here are the tips I reference
November 26, 2018
Episode 5 Surviving Infidelity an Interview with Nicole
If you have experienced infidelity in your marriage, you know it can leave you shattered and unsure how to proceed. Perhaps you think you can never recover from something like that. Don't miss this episode with the super open and honest Nicole who shares the journey she walked after finding out her husband had an affair. You can find her at
November 19, 2018
Episode 4 When Your Husband is Struggling With Pornography
This topic is something that comes up repeatedly in the work I do. It comes up repeatedly in the world we live in. I’m talking about how to handle your relationship, when your husband struggles with pornography. Need help to navigate your specific trial with pornography in your marriage? Contact me at
November 12, 2018
Episode 3 Interview with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife
Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife is a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and a licensed psychotherapist who specializes in relationships and sexuality. Tune in for insight from her years of study and practice!
November 5, 2018
Episode 2 Real Confidence vs False Confidence
Is your confidence real and self-loving or false and fleeting? Do you have the higher sex drive in your relationship, that has you questioning your desirability? You can decide what you want to believe about yourself on purpose, no matter what anyone else does or doesn't do.
October 29, 2018