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By Rich Heller

Communication is a vital part of marriage, but doing it well is not as easy as some may think.
Join Rich Heller, a relationship coach, and content creator, as he weekly explores how we can better improve the way we relate with our partners.
If you want to improve the way you relate to your partner and help your relationship grow and thrive, this is the show for you.
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Rich in RelationshipJul 12, 2020

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Risks and Rewards of Asset Division with Jenny Bradley

Risks and Rewards of Asset Division with Jenny Bradley

In this enlightening episode of Rich in Relationship, we delve into the complex world of asset division during divorce with our guest, Jenny Bradley of Triangle Smart Divorce. Through a detailed discussion, we uncover the emotional and financial hurdles that individuals face when dividing assets, emphasizing the importance of not acting from a place of fear.


Jenny shares her insights on the impact of emotional attachments to assets like the family home or personal heirlooms, and how these can complicate the divorce process, making it more costly and emotionally draining. We explore the pitfalls of not fully understanding the value of shared assets and the legal implications of asset division, with Jenny providing practical advice on how to navigate these challenges. By highlighting real-world examples, Jenny demonstrates how she helps clients move past their emotional states to make rational decisions that align with their future goals.


This episode is a must-listen for anyone going through a divorce, offering valuable strategies to approach asset division with clarity and a focus on long-term well-being. Join us as we learn how to navigate the division of assets with wisdom and compassion, ensuring a fair and equitable outcome for all parties involved. Follow us on social media for more divorce advice:

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Mar 27, 202433:58
Risks and Rewards of Asset Division with Jenny Bradley

Risks and Rewards of Asset Division with Jenny Bradley

In this enlightening episode of Rich in Relationship, we delve into the complex world of asset division during divorce with our guest, Jenny Bradley of Triangle Smart Divorce. Through a detailed discussion, we uncover the emotional and financial hurdles that individuals face when dividing assets, emphasizing the importance of not acting from a place of fear.


Jenny shares her insights on the impact of emotional attachments to assets like the family home or personal heirlooms, and how these can complicate the divorce process, making it more costly and emotionally draining. We explore the pitfalls of not fully understanding the value of shared assets and the legal implications of asset division, with Jenny providing practical advice on how to navigate these challenges. By highlighting real-world examples, Jenny demonstrates how she helps clients move past their emotional states to make rational decisions that align with their future goals.


This episode is a must-listen for anyone going through a divorce, offering valuable strategies to approach asset division with clarity and a focus on long-term well-being. Join us as we learn how to navigate the division of assets with wisdom and compassion, ensuring a fair and equitable outcome for all parties involved.

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Mar 27, 202433:58
Transformation in the Face of a Narcissist

Transformation in the Face of a Narcissist

In this enlightening episode of the "Rich in Relationship" podcast, host Rich Heller continues the series focused on the complexities of asset division, child support, and alimony, especially when dealing with a narcissist. Rich delves deep into the personal transformation journey that many face when navigating these negotiations, offering hope and actionable advice for those feeling overwhelmed by the process. Key Points: Understanding Narcissism: Rich begins by shedding light on the nature of narcissism, emphasizing that narcissistic behavior stems from deep-seated damage rather than a desire to belittle others. He discusses the spectrum of narcissism and how recognizing one's own position on this spectrum can lead to personal empowerment and growth. The Opportunity for Transformation: Rich discusses the transformative journey from feeling diminished and uncertain to achieving clarity and completeness within oneself. He highlights the importance of recognizing the emotional and psychological patterns that lead to unhealthy relationships with narcissists. Illustrating Transformation through Jane's Story: The episode features the compelling story of "Jane," a composite character based on Rich's clients, who navigates her way out of a manipulative relationship with "Tarzan," her narcissistic partner. Jane's journey from feeling powerless to becoming a beacon of hope and empowerment for herself and her children serves as a powerful example of personal transformation. Practical Strategies and Resources: Rich offers practical advice for those dealing with similar challenges, including how to collect evidence against a narcissist's manipulations and the importance of working on oneself to break free from destructive patterns. He introduces resources such as the "divorce detox program" and mental and emotional release techniques to aid in healing and moving forward. Encouragement to Seek Help: The episode emphasizes the importance of seeking support and guidance when facing the daunting task of negotiating with a narcissist. Rich invites listeners to reach out to him for a free consultation, underscoring his commitment to helping others navigate their journey to recovery and empowerment. Rich concludes the episode with a message of hope and a call to action for listeners to embrace their personal transformation journey. He teases the next episode in the series, promising more insights into owning one's transformation and interviews with legal experts on handling the legal side of separation from a narcissist. If you find yourself in a similar situation or know someone who is, this episode is a must-listen, offering not only understanding and compassion but also practical steps towards healing and empowerment.

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Mar 20, 202425:59
Transformation in the Face of a Narcissist

Transformation in the Face of a Narcissist

In this enlightening episode of the "Rich in Relationship" podcast, host Rich Heller continues the series focused on the complexities of asset division, child support, and alimony, especially when dealing with a narcissist. Rich delves deep into the personal transformation journey that many face when navigating these negotiations, offering hope and actionable advice for those feeling overwhelmed by the process. Key Points: Understanding Narcissism: Rich begins by shedding light on the nature of narcissism, emphasizing that narcissistic behavior stems from deep-seated damage rather than a desire to belittle others. He discusses the spectrum of narcissism and how recognizing one's own position on this spectrum can lead to personal empowerment and growth. The Opportunity for Transformation: Rich discusses the transformative journey from feeling diminished and uncertain to achieving clarity and completeness within oneself. He highlights the importance of recognizing the emotional and psychological patterns that lead to unhealthy relationships with narcissists. Illustrating Transformation through Jane's Story: The episode features the compelling story of "Jane," a composite character based on Rich's clients, who navigates her way out of a manipulative relationship with "Tarzan," her narcissistic partner. Jane's journey from feeling powerless to becoming a beacon of hope and empowerment for herself and her children serves as a powerful example of personal transformation. Practical Strategies and Resources: Rich offers practical advice for those dealing with similar challenges, including how to collect evidence against a narcissist's manipulations and the importance of working on oneself to break free from destructive patterns. He introduces resources such as the "divorce detox program" and mental and emotional release techniques to aid in healing and moving forward. Encouragement to Seek Help: The episode emphasizes the importance of seeking support and guidance when facing the daunting task of negotiating with a narcissist. Rich invites listeners to reach out to him for a free consultation, underscoring his commitment to helping others navigate their journey to recovery and empowerment. Rich concludes the episode with a message of hope and a call to action for listeners to embrace their personal transformation journey. He teases the next episode in the series, promising more insights into owning one's transformation and interviews with legal experts on handling the legal side of separation from a narcissist. If you find yourself in a similar situation or know someone who is, this episode is a must-listen, offering not only understanding and compassion but also practical steps towards healing and empowerment.

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Mar 20, 202425:59
Myths and Opportunities When Divorcing a Narcissist

Myths and Opportunities When Divorcing a Narcissist

In this captivating episode of Rich in Relationship, host Rich Heller embarks on a deep dive into the complexities of negotiating alimony and child support with a narcissist. Rich illuminates the common myths surrounding this challenging process and highlights the opportunities for personal growth and effective conflict resolution.


The episode begins with debunking three pervasive myths: the belief that one can change or reform a narcissist, the expectation that the legal system will automatically recognize and counteract the narcissist's tactics, and the hope that post-divorce life will be free from the narcissist's influence. Rich emphasizes the intrinsic challenge in changing someone's core behaviors, especially in the context of narcissism, and provides a realistic perspective on how the legal system interacts with individuals displaying narcissistic tendencies. Furthermore, he candidly discusses the ongoing implications of sharing children with a narcissist and the necessity of continuing to manage this relationship post-divorce. The episode shines when exploring the opportunities available to those facing this ordeal. Rich encourages listeners to engage in self-reflection, embrace accountability, and adopt strategic approaches to co-parenting that prioritize the well-being of the children involved. Through enlightening discussions and practical advice, this episode serves as a beacon of hope and guidance for individuals navigating the turbulent waters of divorce with a narcissist.


Rich's expertise and compassionate approach offer invaluable insights into transforming a challenging situation into a journey of self-discovery and empowerment.


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Mar 13, 202426:52
Myths and Opportunities When Divorcing a Narcissist

Myths and Opportunities When Divorcing a Narcissist

In this captivating episode of Rich in Relationship, host Rich Heller embarks on a deep dive into the complexities of negotiating alimony and child support with a narcissist. Rich illuminates the common myths surrounding this challenging process and highlights the opportunities for personal growth and effective conflict resolution.


The episode begins with debunking three pervasive myths: the belief that one can change or reform a narcissist, the expectation that the legal system will automatically recognize and counteract the narcissist's tactics, and the hope that post-divorce life will be free from the narcissist's influence. Rich emphasizes the intrinsic challenge in changing someone's core behaviors, especially in the context of narcissism, and provides a realistic perspective on how the legal system interacts with individuals displaying narcissistic tendencies. Furthermore, he candidly discusses the ongoing implications of sharing children with a narcissist and the necessity of continuing to manage this relationship post-divorce. The episode shines when exploring the opportunities available to those facing this ordeal. Rich encourages listeners to engage in self-reflection, embrace accountability, and adopt strategic approaches to co-parenting that prioritize the well-being of the children involved. Through enlightening discussions and practical advice, this episode serves as a beacon of hope and guidance for individuals navigating the turbulent waters of divorce with a narcissist.


Rich's expertise and compassionate approach offer invaluable insights into transforming a challenging situation into a journey of self-discovery and empowerment.


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Mar 13, 202426:52
Overcoming Jealousy: A Journey to Trust and Intimacy with Shannen Bryant

Overcoming Jealousy: A Journey to Trust and Intimacy with Shannen Bryant

In this enlightening episode of "Rich in Relationship," we sit down with Shannen Bryant, a renowned Relationship Confidence Coach, to unravel the complex web of jealousy that affects many relationships.


Shannen shares her personal journey from battling decades of jealousy in her own relationships to helping others overcome this challenging emotion. Through her story, we explore the subtle ways jealousy manifests, from questioning partners' intentions to the anxiety-inducing habit of constantly checking on them.


Shannen offers a fresh perspective on the common advice regarding technology use in relationships, questioning if constant monitoring truly breeds trust or if it serves as a band-aid over deeper issues of insecurity. The conversation delves into the impact of jealousy on intimacy, illustrating how accusations and mistrust erode the foundation of a relationship. Shannen's approach to healing involves self-awareness and small, actionable steps towards building trust and self-worth. She emphasizes the importance of distinguishing between fear-driven reactions and genuine intuition, providing insights into navigating these feelings without letting them dominate your life. Listeners will learn practical strategies for addressing jealousy, including the "Think, Do, Say" method, aimed at fostering communication, trust, and intimacy in relationships. Shannen also touches on the broader implications of self-worth and trust, encouraging individuals to focus inward to find value and confidence within themselves. For those seeking to break free from the cycle of jealousy and build healthier, more fulfilling relationships, Shannen's expertise and compassionate guidance offer a beacon of hope.


Tune in for an episode that not only sheds light on overcoming jealousy but also celebrates the journey towards self-discovery and love. Find Shannen Bryant and her invaluable resources at topself.com, and don't miss her insights on her podcast "Top Self," where Rich has been a guest.


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Mar 05, 202418:54
Overcoming Jealousy: A Journey to Trust and Intimacy with Shannen Bryant

Overcoming Jealousy: A Journey to Trust and Intimacy with Shannen Bryant

In this enlightening episode of "Rich in Relationship," we sit down with Shannen Bryant, a renowned Relationship Confidence Coach, to unravel the complex web of jealousy that affects many relationships.


Shannen shares her personal journey from battling decades of jealousy in her own relationships to helping others overcome this challenging emotion. Through her story, we explore the subtle ways jealousy manifests, from questioning partners' intentions to the anxiety-inducing habit of constantly checking on them.


Shannen offers a fresh perspective on the common advice regarding technology use in relationships, questioning if constant monitoring truly breeds trust or if it serves as a band-aid over deeper issues of insecurity. The conversation delves into the impact of jealousy on intimacy, illustrating how accusations and mistrust erode the foundation of a relationship. Shannen's approach to healing involves self-awareness and small, actionable steps towards building trust and self-worth. She emphasizes the importance of distinguishing between fear-driven reactions and genuine intuition, providing insights into navigating these feelings without letting them dominate your life. Listeners will learn practical strategies for addressing jealousy, including the "Think, Do, Say" method, aimed at fostering communication, trust, and intimacy in relationships. Shannen also touches on the broader implications of self-worth and trust, encouraging individuals to focus inward to find value and confidence within themselves. For those seeking to break free from the cycle of jealousy and build healthier, more fulfilling relationships, Shannen's expertise and compassionate guidance offer a beacon of hope.


Tune in for an episode that not only sheds light on overcoming jealousy but also celebrates the journey towards self-discovery and love. Find Shannen Bryant and her invaluable resources at topself.com, and don't miss her insights on her podcast "Top Self," where Rich has been a guest.


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Mar 05, 202418:54
Guiding Lights: Navigating Divorce with Professional Support

Guiding Lights: Navigating Divorce with Professional Support

In the insightful eighth episode of "Rich in Relationship," "Guiding Lights: Navigating Divorce with Professional Support," host Rich Heller delves into the pivotal role of coaching, therapy, and counseling in the context of divorce. Rich begins by distinguishing between these forms of professional support, clarifying how each can provide unique assistance during and after the divorce process. He discusses the practical guidance offered by divorce coaches, from navigating the logistical aspects of divorce to setting and achieving personal goals. The episode then shifts to the emotional realm, highlighting the crucial role of therapy in providing emotional support and healing. Rich explores different types of therapy and offers guidance on selecting the right therapist to meet individual needs. Rich also covers the importance of counseling, particularly its role in enhancing communication skills and developing effective coping strategies, both for individuals and couples undergoing the strain of divorce. A significant part of the episode is dedicated to addressing when and how to seek professional help, including overcoming any associated stigma and embracing the support available. Rich shares inspiring success stories from individuals who have benefitted from these services, offering listeners real-life examples of the positive impact of professional support. "Guiding Lights: Navigating Divorce with Professional Support" is an invaluable resource for anyone going through a divorce. It underscores the importance of seeking professional help and provides practical steps and resources for getting started. Rich's empathetic guidance makes this episode a beacon of hope and a tool for empowerment for listeners navigating the complex journey of divorce. Listeners are encouraged to engage with the podcast, sharing their own experiences and learning from a community that understands the value of professional support in these challenging times.


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Feb 27, 202415:27
Guiding Lights: Navigating Divorce with Professional Support

Guiding Lights: Navigating Divorce with Professional Support

In the insightful episode of "Rich in Relationship," "Guiding Lights: Navigating Divorce with Professional Support," host Rich Heller delves into the pivotal role of coaching, therapy, and counseling in the context of divorce. Rich begins by distinguishing between these forms of professional support, clarifying how each can provide unique assistance during and after the divorce process. He discusses the practical guidance offered by divorce coaches, from navigating the logistical aspects of divorce to setting and achieving personal goals. The episode then shifts to the emotional realm, highlighting the crucial role of therapy in providing emotional support and healing. Rich explores different types of therapy and offers guidance on selecting the right therapist to meet individual needs. Rich also covers the importance of counseling, particularly its role in enhancing communication skills and developing effective coping strategies, both for individuals and couples undergoing the strain of divorce. A significant part of the episode is dedicated to addressing when and how to seek professional help, including overcoming any associated stigma and embracing the support available. Rich shares inspiring success stories from individuals who have benefitted from these services, offering listeners real-life examples of the positive impact of professional support. "Guiding Lights: Navigating Divorce with Professional Support" is an invaluable resource for anyone going through a divorce. It underscores the importance of seeking professional help and provides practical steps and resources for getting started. Rich's empathetic guidance makes this episode a beacon of hope and a tool for empowerment for listeners navigating the complex journey of divorce. Listeners are encouraged to engage with the podcast, sharing their own experiences and learning from a community that understands the value of professional support in these challenging times. Follow us on social media for more divorce advice: Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/richinrelationship/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/richinrelationship/ Pinterest -https://www.pinterest.com/richinrelationship/_created Visit our website: www.richinrelationship.com

Feb 27, 202415:27
Finding Your Purpose with Rebecca Babcock

Finding Your Purpose with Rebecca Babcock

In this poignant episode of the "Rich in Relationship" podcast, our host delves deep into the intricate dynamics of personal and professional relationships with the insightful Rebecca Babcock. Throughout the conversation, Rebecca shares her transformative journey of self-discovery and the critical realization of how neglecting her own marriage mirrored the issues faced by those she aimed to help. With vulnerability and wisdom, she unpacks the lesson that improving any relationship starts with self-reflection and a commitment to personal growth. Rebecca highlights the interconnectedness of our work and personal lives, sharing personal anecdotes of overcoming inappropriate boundaries in professional settings and the impact of unresolved childhood experiences. She emphasizes the importance of understanding our own needs, expectations, and the role of self-sufficiency in cultivating healthy relationships. Whether discussing romantic partnerships, workplace dynamics, or familial bonds, the core message is clear: fulfillment and change begin within. A particularly resonant point is the idea that relationships, much like individuals, have a distinct purpose. This concept paves the way for a deeper exploration of how combining individual purposes can enrich and strengthen relational bonds. Rebecca also touches on the broader implications of seeking fulfillment externally, whether through careers, partners, or other means, cautioning against the pitfalls of such pursuits. Listeners are treated to Rebecca's pragmatic and heartfelt advice on navigating relationship challenges with integrity, truthfulness, and consistency. The episode concludes with an invitation to connect with Rebecca through her coaching services, offering a generous opportunity for a free consultation to explore potential paths forward. This episode is a treasure trove of insights for anyone looking to enrich their relationships and lead a more fulfilled life. Rebecca's message is a powerful reminder of the importance of self-awareness, personal growth, and the courage to speak up for oneself to achieve true happiness and connection. Find rebecka at : https://www.rebeccababcockcoaching.com/


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Feb 20, 202428:43
Finding Your Purpose with Rebecca Babcock

Finding Your Purpose with Rebecca Babcock

In this poignant episode of the "Rich in Relationship" podcast, our host delves deep into the intricate dynamics of personal and professional relationships with the insightful Rebecca Babcock. Throughout the conversation, Rebecca shares her transformative journey of self-discovery and the critical realization of how neglecting her own marriage mirrored the issues faced by those she aimed to help. With vulnerability and wisdom, she unpacks the lesson that improving any relationship starts with self-reflection and a commitment to personal growth. Rebecca highlights the interconnectedness of our work and personal lives, sharing personal anecdotes of overcoming inappropriate boundaries in professional settings and the impact of unresolved childhood experiences. She emphasizes the importance of understanding our own needs, expectations, and the role of self-sufficiency in cultivating healthy relationships. Whether discussing romantic partnerships, workplace dynamics, or familial bonds, the core message is clear: fulfillment and change begin within. A particularly resonant point is the idea that relationships, much like individuals, have a distinct purpose. This concept paves the way for a deeper exploration of how combining individual purposes can enrich and strengthen relational bonds. Rebecca also touches on the broader implications of seeking fulfillment externally, whether through careers, partners, or other means, cautioning against the pitfalls of such pursuits. Listeners are treated to Rebecca's pragmatic and heartfelt advice on navigating relationship challenges with integrity, truthfulness, and consistency. The episode concludes with an invitation to connect with Rebecca through her coaching services, offering a generous opportunity for a free consultation to explore potential paths forward. This episode is a treasure trove of insights for anyone looking to enrich their relationships and lead a more fulfilled life. Rebecca's message is a powerful reminder of the importance of self-awareness, personal growth, and the courage to speak up for oneself to achieve true happiness and connection. Find rebecka at : https://www.rebeccababcockcoaching.com/


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Feb 20, 202428:43
The Key to Amicable Asset Division & Life EQ

The Key to Amicable Asset Division & Life EQ

In this insightful episode of the "Rich in Relationship" podcast, host Rich Heller explores the pivotal role of emotional intelligence (EI) in the process of asset division during divorce. Titled "Emotional Intelligence in Asset Division: A Key to Amicable Resolutions," this episode delves into how EI can transform what is often a contentious aspect of divorce into a more cooperative and empathetic experience. Understanding Emotional Intelligence: The episode begins with a clear definition of EI and its significance in the context of divorce, setting the stage for a deeper exploration of its impact. EI in Practice: Rich discusses the practical applications of EI in divorce negotiations, emphasizing how empathy and self-awareness contribute to fairer and more considerate asset division. Role of Relationship Coaching: The episode highlights how relationship coaching can enhance EI, sharing a narrative that illustrates the positive effects of coaching on the asset division process. Overcoming Challenges: Recognizing that EI might not be a universal solution, Rich provides strategies for enhancing EI and approaching situations where emotional intelligence faces limitations. Episode Takeaway: This episode is an essential listen for anyone undergoing divorce or involved in asset division. Rich Heller's expert insights offer a fresh perspective on how emotional intelligence can pave the way for amicable resolutions, benefiting everyone involved. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own emotional skills and consider how enhancing these could positively impact their divorce experience. Follow us on social media for more divorce advice: Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/richinrelationship/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/richinrelationship/ Pinterest -https://www.pinterest.com/richinrelationship/_created Visit our website: www.richinrelationship.com

Feb 13, 202429:36
The Key to Amicable Asset Division & Life EQ

The Key to Amicable Asset Division & Life EQ

In this insightful episode of the "Rich in Relationship" podcast, host Rich Heller explores the pivotal role of emotional intelligence (EI) in the process of asset division during divorce. Titled "Emotional Intelligence in Asset Division: A Key to Amicable Resolutions," this episode delves into how EI can transform what is often a contentious aspect of divorce into a more cooperative and empathetic experience. Understanding Emotional Intelligence: The episode begins with a clear definition of EI and its significance in the context of divorce, setting the stage for a deeper exploration of its impact.

EI in Practice: Rich discusses the practical applications of EI in divorce negotiations, emphasizing how empathy and self-awareness contribute to fairer and more considerate asset division.

Role of Relationship Coaching: The episode highlights how relationship coaching can enhance EI, sharing a narrative that illustrates the positive effects of coaching on the asset division process.

Overcoming Challenges: Recognizing that EI might not be a universal solution, Rich provides strategies for enhancing EI and approaching situations where emotional intelligence faces limitations.

Episode Takeaway: This episode is an essential listen for anyone undergoing divorce or involved in asset division. Rich Heller's expert insights offer a fresh perspective on how emotional intelligence can pave the way for amicable resolutions, benefiting everyone involved.

Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own emotional skills and consider how enhancing these could positively impact their divorce experience.

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Feb 13, 202429:36
Navigating Divorce with Grace: The Rise of Amicable Asset Division

Navigating Divorce with Grace: The Rise of Amicable Asset Division

In this enlightening episode of the "Rich in Relationship" podcast, host Rich Heller delves into the evolving landscape of divorce, focusing on the rising trend of amicable asset division. This episode, titled "Navigating Divorce with Grace: The Rise of Amicable Asset Division," offers a comprehensive look at how changing societal attitudes and legal reforms are reshaping the way couples approach the division of assets during divorce. Understanding Amicable Asset Division: Rich Heller begins by explaining what amicable asset division entails, contrasting it with traditional, more contentious divorce scenarios.

The Emotional Benefits: The episode explores the significant emotional advantages of this approach, highlighting reduced stress, improved outcomes for children, and the preservation of respectful post-divorce relationships.

Listeners will learn about practical strategies, including mediation and collaborative law, and how effective communication can foster a cooperative asset division process.

The podcast addresses potential challenges in amicable asset division and offers advice on balancing fairness with emotional well-being.

Rich Heller concludes with insights into the future of divorce proceedings, emphasizing the role of legal and psychological professionals in supporting this positive trend. This episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating the complexities of divorce or interested in how modern divorce dynamics are evolving. Rich Heller’s thoughtful exploration into the world of amicable asset division provides not only valuable insights but also practical advice for those seeking a respectful and cooperative resolution to their marital dissolution. Listeners are encouraged to share their thoughts and experiences on this topic and to stay tuned for more insightful discussions on fostering healthy relationships in all stages of life. Follow us on social media for more divorce advice: Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/richinrelationship/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/richinrelationship/ Pinterest -https://www.pinterest.com/richinrelationship/_created

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Feb 06, 202428:47
Navigating Divorce with Grace: The Rise of Amicable Asset Division

Navigating Divorce with Grace: The Rise of Amicable Asset Division

In this enlightening episode of the "Rich in Relationship" podcast, host Rich Heller delves into the evolving landscape of divorce, focusing on the rising trend of amicable asset division. This episode, titled "Navigating Divorce with Grace: The Rise of Amicable Asset Division," offers a comprehensive look at how changing societal attitudes and legal reforms are reshaping the way couples approach the division of assets during divorce. Understanding Amicable Asset Division: Rich Heller begins by explaining what amicable asset division entails, contrasting it with traditional, more contentious divorce scenarios. The Emotional Benefits: The episode explores the significant emotional advantages of this approach, highlighting reduced stress, improved outcomes for children, and the preservation of respectful post-divorce relationships. Listeners will learn about practical strategies, including mediation and collaborative law, and how effective communication can foster a cooperative asset division process. The podcast addresses potential challenges in amicable asset division and offers advice on balancing fairness with emotional well-being. Rich Heller concludes with insights into the future of divorce proceedings, emphasizing the role of legal and psychological professionals in supporting this positive trend. This episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating the complexities of divorce or interested in how modern divorce dynamics are evolving. Rich Heller’s thoughtful exploration into the world of amicable asset division provides not only valuable insights but also practical advice for those seeking a respectful and cooperative resolution to their marital dissolution. Listeners are encouraged to share their thoughts and experiences on this topic and to stay tuned for more insightful discussions on fostering healthy relationships in all stages of life. Follow us on social media for more divorce advice: Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/richinrelationship/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/richinrelationship/ Pinterest -https://www.pinterest.com/richinrelationship/_created Visit our website: www.richinrelationship.com

Feb 06, 202428:47
Redefining Solitude: Embracing New Social Horizons After Divorce

Redefining Solitude: Embracing New Social Horizons After Divorce

"Redefining Solitude: Embracing New Social Horizons After Divorce," the tenth episode of "Rich in Relationship," sees host Rich Heller addressing the often challenging yet crucial topic of loneliness and social changes post-divorce. Rich begins by exploring the nature of post-divorce loneliness, distinguishing between the state of being alone and the feelings of loneliness. He delves into the impact that changes in social circles can have, offering advice on how to maintain, reshape, or even gracefully let go of certain relationships. A significant focus of the episode is on building new social connections. Rich provides practical tips for expanding one's social network, suggesting involvement in community activities and exploring new interests as pathways to meeting new people. The episode also highlights how solitude can be an opportunity for self-discovery and personal growth. Rich encourages embracing alone time, suggesting activities that foster enjoyment and self-appreciation during these moments. Recognizing the challenges this transition can bring, Rich discusses the importance of seeking professional support when needed. He also navigates the complexities of re-entering the dating world, providing insights into the challenges and exciting possibilities of new relationships. Incorporating listener experiences, the episode offers a variety of perspectives on coping with and thriving amidst the social changes that divorce brings. "Redefining Solitude: Embracing New Social Horizons After Divorce" is an episode filled with empathy, practical advice, and encouragement for anyone navigating the solitary waters of post-divorce life. Rich's thoughtful guidance makes this a valuable resource for listeners seeking to embrace new social beginnings and find joy in their newfound independence.


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Jan 30, 202414:43
Redefining Solitude: Embracing New Social Horizons After Divorce

Redefining Solitude: Embracing New Social Horizons After Divorce

"Redefining Solitude: Embracing New Social Horizons After Divorce," the tenth episode of "Rich in Relationship," sees host Rich Heller addressing the often challenging yet crucial topic of loneliness and social changes post-divorce. Rich begins by exploring the nature of post-divorce loneliness, distinguishing between the state of being alone and the feelings of loneliness. He delves into the impact that changes in social circles can have, offering advice on how to maintain, reshape, or even gracefully let go of certain relationships. A significant focus of the episode is on building new social connections. Rich provides practical tips for expanding one's social network, suggesting involvement in community activities and exploring new interests as pathways to meeting new people. The episode also highlights how solitude can be an opportunity for self-discovery and personal growth. Rich encourages embracing alone time, suggesting activities that foster enjoyment and self-appreciation during these moments. Recognizing the challenges this transition can bring, Rich discusses the importance of seeking professional support when needed. He also navigates the complexities of re-entering the dating world, providing insights into the challenges and exciting possibilities of new relationships. Incorporating listener experiences, the episode offers a variety of perspectives on coping with and thriving amidst the social changes that divorce brings. "Redefining Solitude: Embracing New Social Horizons After Divorce" is an episode filled with empathy, practical advice, and encouragement for anyone navigating the solitary waters of post-divorce life. Rich's thoughtful guidance makes this a valuable resource for listeners seeking to embrace new social beginnings and find joy in their newfound independence.

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Jan 30, 202414:43
Stepping Out of the Crises Cycle

Stepping Out of the Crises Cycle

In this insightful episode of "Rich in Relationship," host Rich Heller delves into the intriguing concept of 'Firefighting' in relationships. Discover the hidden dynamics of the Crisis Cycle, where couples unconsciously ignite and then extinguish conflicts, mistaking this pattern for genuine connection.


Rich explores how this cycle starts, why it persists, and importantly, how to break free from it. Whether you're in a relationship that feels constantly in 'crisis mode' or you're simply curious about healthier relationship dynamics, this episode offers valuable insights and practical strategies for fostering deeper, more authentic connections.


Join us as we navigate the complexities of love and learn how to move beyond 'Firefighting' to build a relationship that's truly rich in understanding and fulfillment.


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Jan 20, 202414:51
Harmony in Transition: Crafting a Positive Co-parenting Partnership

Harmony in Transition: Crafting a Positive Co-parenting Partnership

In "Harmony in Transition: Crafting a Positive Co-parenting Partnership," the ninth episode of "Rich in Relationship," host Rich Heller provides invaluable advice on establishing a healthy and cooperative co-parenting arrangement post-divorce. Rich outlines what healthy co-parenting entails and why it's crucial for children's well-being. He offers practical advice on laying the foundation for a positive relationship, including setting shared goals and managing expectations. The episode emphasizes the importance of communication, offering strategies for respectful and effective dialogue. Rich discusses how to handle conflicts constructively, ensuring that children are shielded from parental disagreements. A key focus is on maintaining consistency across both parents' homes, discussing how to negotiate and agree on common practices regarding rules, discipline, and routines. Rich also delves into the importance of supporting children's relationships with both parents and avoiding negative discourse about the other parent. As circumstances change and children grow, Rich guides listeners on how to adapt and stay flexible. He also highlights when and how to seek professional help, such as from family therapists or co-parenting counselors, and provides resources for additional support. Incorporating success stories and tips from those who have navigated co-parenting successfully, this episode is a treasure trove of insights and guidance. "Harmony in Transition: Crafting a Positive Co-parenting Partnership" is more than just a podcast episode; it's a roadmap for parents striving to build a harmonious and supportive environment for their children post-divorce. Rich's empathetic and expert advice makes this a must-listen for anyone embarking on or navigating the co-parenting journey.

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Jan 16, 202425:40
Harmony in Transition: Crafting a Positive Co parenting Partnership

Harmony in Transition: Crafting a Positive Co parenting Partnership

In "Harmony in Transition: Crafting a Positive Co-parenting Partnership," the ninth episode of "Rich in Relationship," host Rich Heller provides invaluable advice on establishing a healthy and cooperative co-parenting arrangement post-divorce. Rich outlines what healthy co-parenting entails and why it's crucial for children's well-being. He offers practical advice on laying the foundation for a positive relationship, including setting shared goals and managing expectations. The episode emphasizes the importance of communication, offering strategies for respectful and effective dialogue. Rich discusses how to handle conflicts constructively, ensuring that children are shielded from parental disagreements. A key focus is on maintaining consistency across both parents' homes, discussing how to negotiate and agree on common practices regarding rules, discipline, and routines. Rich also delves into the importance of supporting children's relationships with both parents and avoiding negative discourse about the other parent. As circumstances change and children grow, Rich guides listeners on how to adapt and stay flexible. He also highlights when and how to seek professional help, such as from family therapists or co-parenting counselors, and provides resources for additional support. Incorporating success stories and tips from those who have navigated co-parenting successfully, this episode is a treasure trove of insights and guidance. "Harmony in Transition: Crafting a Positive Co-parenting Partnership" is more than just a podcast episode; it's a roadmap for parents striving to build a harmonious and supportive environment for their children post-divorce. Rich's empathetic and expert advice makes this a must-listen for anyone embarking on or navigating the co-parenting journey.

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Jan 16, 202425:40
Guiding Lights: Navigating Divorce with Professional Support

Guiding Lights: Navigating Divorce with Professional Support

In the insightful eighth episode of "Rich in Relationship," "Guiding Lights: Navigating Divorce with Professional Support," host Rich Heller delves into the pivotal role of coaching, therapy, and counseling in the context of divorce. Rich begins by distinguishing between these forms of professional support, clarifying how each can provide unique assistance during and after the divorce process. He discusses the practical guidance offered by divorce coaches, from navigating the logistical aspects of divorce to setting and achieving personal goals. The episode then shifts to the emotional realm, highlighting the crucial role of therapy in providing emotional support and healing. Rich explores different types of therapy and offers guidance on selecting the right therapist to meet individual needs. Rich also covers the importance of counseling, particularly its role in enhancing communication skills and developing effective coping strategies, both for individuals and couples undergoing the strain of divorce. A significant part of the episode is dedicated to addressing when and how to seek professional help, including overcoming any associated stigma and embracing the support available. Rich shares inspiring success stories from individuals who have benefitted from these services, offering listeners real-life examples of the positive impact of professional support. "Guiding Lights: Navigating Divorce with Professional Support" is an invaluable resource for anyone going through a divorce. It underscores the importance of seeking professional help and provides practical steps and resources for getting started. Rich's empathetic guidance makes this episode a beacon of hope and a tool for empowerment for listeners navigating the complex journey of divorce. Listeners are encouraged to engage with the podcast, sharing their own experiences and learning from a community that understands the value of professional support in these challenging times.

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Jan 09, 202415:27
Guiding Lights: Navigating Divorce with Professional Support

Guiding Lights: Navigating Divorce with Professional Support

In the insightful eighth episode of "Rich in Relationship," "Guiding Lights: Navigating Divorce with Professional Support," host Rich Heller delves into the pivotal role of coaching, therapy, and counseling in the context of divorce. Rich begins by distinguishing between these forms of professional support, clarifying how each can provide unique assistance during and after the divorce process. He discusses the practical guidance offered by divorce coaches, from navigating the logistical aspects of divorce to setting and achieving personal goals. The episode then shifts to the emotional realm, highlighting the crucial role of therapy in providing emotional support and healing. Rich explores different types of therapy and offers guidance on selecting the right therapist to meet individual needs. Rich also covers the importance of counseling, particularly its role in enhancing communication skills and developing effective coping strategies, both for individuals and couples undergoing the strain of divorce. A significant part of the episode is dedicated to addressing when and how to seek professional help, including overcoming any associated stigma and embracing the support available. Rich shares inspiring success stories from individuals who have benefitted from these services, offering listeners real-life examples of the positive impact of professional support. "Guiding Lights: Navigating Divorce with Professional Support" is an invaluable resource for anyone going through a divorce. It underscores the importance of seeking professional help and provides practical steps and resources for getting started. Rich's empathetic guidance makes this episode a beacon of hope and a tool for empowerment for listeners navigating the complex journey of divorce. Listeners are encouraged to engage with the podcast, sharing their own experiences and learning from a community that understands the value of professional support in these challenging times.

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Jan 09, 202415:27
The Phoenix Rises: Rediscovering Yourself After Divorce

The Phoenix Rises: Rediscovering Yourself After Divorce

In "The Phoenix Rises: Rediscovering Yourself After Divorce," the seventh episode of "Rich in Relationship," host Rich Heller invites listeners on a transformative journey of self-reinvention post-divorce.


Rich begins by discussing the impact of divorce on self-identity, recognizing the common feelings of uncertainty and self-doubt that arise. He emphasizes the importance of seeing this transitional phase as an opportunity for personal growth and self-discovery.


Throughout the episode, Rich guides listeners on how to explore new interests and passions, offering suggestions on identifying activities that resonate with their true selves. He provides practical advice on building confidence and self-esteem, underscoring the role of self-compassion in the healing process.


Rich also discusses the significance of cultivating supportive relationships and environments that encourage personal growth. He delves into the importance of setting personal goals, explaining how these can provide direction and a renewed sense of purpose.


A crucial part of the episode is dedicated to embracing change and learning to let go of the past. Rich shares techniques for moving forward and embracing a new chapter in life.


The episode is enriched with inspiring personal stories of individuals who have successfully reinvented themselves after divorce, offering listeners real-life examples of resilience and transformation.


"The Phoenix Rises: Rediscovering Yourself After Divorce" is not just an episode; it's a call to action for anyone seeking to rediscover and redefine themselves after the life-altering experience of divorce. Rich's compassionate guidance and practical advice make this episode a beacon of hope and inspiration for listeners on their journey to self-renewal.


Listeners are encouraged to engage with the podcast by sharing their own experiences and stories of post-divorce reinvention, creating a community of support and empowerment.


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Jan 06, 202420:02
The Phoenix Rises: Rediscovering Yourself After Divorce

The Phoenix Rises: Rediscovering Yourself After Divorce

In "The Phoenix Rises: Rediscovering Yourself After Divorce," the seventh episode of "Rich in Relationship," host Rich Heller invites listeners on a transformative journey of self-reinvention post-divorce.


Rich begins by discussing the impact of divorce on self-identity, recognizing the common feelings of uncertainty and self-doubt that arise. He emphasizes the importance of seeing this transitional phase as an opportunity for personal growth and self-discovery.


Throughout the episode, Rich guides listeners on how to explore new interests and passions, offering suggestions on identifying activities that resonate with their true selves. He provides practical advice on building confidence and self-esteem, underscoring the role of self-compassion in the healing process.


Rich also discusses the significance of cultivating supportive relationships and environments that encourage personal growth. He delves into the importance of setting personal goals, explaining how these can provide direction and a renewed sense of purpose.


A crucial part of the episode is dedicated to embracing change and learning to let go of the past. Rich shares techniques for moving forward and embracing a new chapter in life.


The episode is enriched with inspiring personal stories of individuals who have successfully reinvented themselves after divorce, offering listeners real-life examples of resilience and transformation.


"The Phoenix Rises: Rediscovering Yourself After Divorce" is not just an episode; it's a call to action for anyone seeking to rediscover and redefine themselves after the life-altering experience of divorce. Rich's compassionate guidance and practical advice make this episode a beacon of hope and inspiration for listeners on their journey to self-renewal.


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Jan 06, 202420:02
Divorce Dollars: Charting Your Financial Course Through Choppy Waters

Divorce Dollars: Charting Your Financial Course Through Choppy Waters

In "Divorce Dollars: Charting Your Financial Course Through Choppy Waters," the sixth episode of "Rich in Relationship," host Rich Heller tackles a critical and often daunting aspect of divorce: the financial implications. Rich opens the episode by setting the stage for understanding the wide array of financial challenges that accompany divorce. He emphasizes the necessity of gaining a clear grasp of shared assets, debts, and individual financial obligations, laying the groundwork for effective financial navigation post-divorce. The episode guides listeners through the essential steps of assessing their financial situation, including gathering and documenting all relevant financial information. Rich delves into the legal considerations of divorce finances, such as alimony, child support, and asset division, providing a comprehensive overview of one's rights and responsibilities. A significant portion of the episode is devoted to practical advice on creating a post-divorce budget. Rich offers strategies for adjusting to a new financial reality, balancing needs and resources. He also highlights the importance of seeking professional advice from financial advisors, accountants, and lawyers, and delineates when and why their expertise is crucial. Rich tackles the complex issue of managing and dividing shared assets and debts, giving listeners insights into making informed decisions about property like family homes. He then shifts focus to long-term financial planning, discussing retirement, savings, and investment strategies, and emphasizes setting realistic financial goals. An important aspect of the episode is protecting and rebuilding one's credit score during and after divorce. Rich provides valuable tips to safeguard this vital aspect of financial health. The episode includes listener stories and questions, adding real-life perspectives to the discussion of divorce finances. In conclusion, "Divorce Dollars: Charting Your Financial Course Through Choppy Waters" offers a lifeline to listeners navigating the turbulent financial waters of divorce. Rich Heller's expert guidance empowers listeners to take control of their financial future, fostering independence and resilience in the face of life's transitions. Listeners are invited to share their own experiences or seek further advice, making this episode an interactive and supportive resource for anyone facing financial challenges in divorce. Follow us on social media for more divorce advice:

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Jan 02, 202416:22
Divorce Dollars: Charting Your Financial Course Through Choppy Waters

Divorce Dollars: Charting Your Financial Course Through Choppy Waters

In "Divorce Dollars: Charting Your Financial Course Through Choppy Waters," the sixth episode of "Rich in Relationship," host Rich Heller tackles a critical and often daunting aspect of divorce: the financial implications. Rich opens the episode by setting the stage for understanding the wide array of financial challenges that accompany divorce. He emphasizes the necessity of gaining a clear grasp of shared assets, debts, and individual financial obligations, laying the groundwork for effective financial navigation post-divorce. The episode guides listeners through the essential steps of assessing their financial situation, including gathering and documenting all relevant financial information. Rich delves into the legal considerations of divorce finances, such as alimony, child support, and asset division, providing a comprehensive overview of one's rights and responsibilities. A significant portion of the episode is devoted to practical advice on creating a post-divorce budget. Rich offers strategies for adjusting to a new financial reality, balancing needs and resources. He also highlights the importance of seeking professional advice from financial advisors, accountants, and lawyers, and delineates when and why their expertise is crucial. Rich tackles the complex issue of managing and dividing shared assets and debts, giving listeners insights into making informed decisions about property like family homes. He then shifts focus to long-term financial planning, discussing retirement, savings, and investment strategies, and emphasizes setting realistic financial goals. An important aspect of the episode is protecting and rebuilding one's credit score during and after divorce. Rich provides valuable tips to safeguard this vital aspect of financial health. The episode includes listener stories and questions, adding real-life perspectives to the discussion of divorce finances. In conclusion, "Divorce Dollars: Charting Your Financial Course Through Choppy Waters" offers a lifeline to listeners navigating the turbulent financial waters of divorce. Rich Heller's expert guidance empowers listeners to take control of their financial future, fostering independence and resilience in the face of life's transitions. Listeners are invited to share their own experiences or seek further advice, making this episode an interactive and supportive resource for anyone facing financial challenges in divorce. Follow us on social media for more divorce advice: Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/richinrelationship/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/richinrelationship/ Pinterest -https://www.pinterest.com/richinrelationship/_created


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Jan 02, 202416:22
Anchor in the Storm: Guiding Children Through the Waves of Divorce

Anchor in the Storm: Guiding Children Through the Waves of Divorce

In the heartfelt fifth episode of "Rich in Relationship," titled "Anchor in the Storm: Guiding Children Through the Waves of Divorce," host Rich Heller addresses one of the most sensitive aspects of divorce: its impact on children. Rich begins by exploring how children of different ages and personalities might react to their parents' divorce. He emphasizes the importance of open and honest communication, providing tips for talking to children about divorce in an age-appropriate and reassuring manner. A major focus of the episode is the significance of maintaining stability and routines. Rich discusses how a consistent environment can help children feel more secure amidst the changes divorce brings. He also delves into strategies for addressing children’s feelings and concerns, highlighting the necessity of validating their emotions and providing them with a safe space to express themselves. The episode also covers the critical aspect of co-parenting. Rich shares insights on how a healthy co-parenting relationship can significantly benefit children, offering practical advice for setting aside personal differences for the children's sake. Recognizing that children may need additional support, Rich discusses when and how to seek professional help, such as counseling. He also touches on the importance of self-care for parents, emphasizing that taking care of one's own emotional needs is vital for effectively supporting children. Rich then addresses the broader implications of divorce on a child’s school and social life and how to navigate these changes. The episode includes listener stories and questions, providing real-life perspectives and further insights into supporting children through divorce. "Anchor in the Storm: Guiding Children Through the Waves of Divorce" is an essential listen for any parent navigating the complex waters of divorce with children. Rich Heller offers a compassionate and practical approach to ensuring children's well-being during this challenging transition. Tune in to this episode for invaluable guidance and support in creating a nurturing and stable environment for children, helping them to adjust and thrive through the process of divorce.

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Jan 02, 202423:34
Anchor in the Storm: Guiding Children Through the Waves of Divorce

Anchor in the Storm: Guiding Children Through the Waves of Divorce

In the heartfelt fifth episode of "Rich in Relationship," titled "Anchor in the Storm: Guiding Children Through the Waves of Divorce," host Rich Heller addresses one of the most sensitive aspects of divorce: its impact on children. Rich begins by exploring how children of different ages and personalities might react to their parents' divorce. He emphasizes the importance of open and honest communication, providing tips for talking to children about divorce in an age-appropriate and reassuring manner. A major focus of the episode is the significance of maintaining stability and routines. Rich discusses how a consistent environment can help children feel more secure amidst the changes divorce brings. He also delves into strategies for addressing children’s feelings and concerns, highlighting the necessity of validating their emotions and providing them with a safe space to express themselves. The episode also covers the critical aspect of co-parenting. Rich shares insights on how a healthy co-parenting relationship can significantly benefit children, offering practical advice for setting aside personal differences for the children's sake. Recognizing that children may need additional support, Rich discusses when and how to seek professional help, such as counseling. He also touches on the importance of self-care for parents, emphasizing that taking care of one's own emotional needs is vital for effectively supporting children. Rich then addresses the broader implications of divorce on a child’s school and social life and how to navigate these changes. The episode includes listener stories and questions, providing real-life perspectives and further insights into supporting children through divorce. "Anchor in the Storm: Guiding Children Through the Waves of Divorce" is an essential listen for any parent navigating the complex waters of divorce with children. Rich Heller offers a compassionate and practical approach to ensuring children's well-being during this challenging transition. Tune in to this episode for invaluable guidance and support in creating a nurturing and stable environment for children, helping them to adjust and thrive through the process of divorce.

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Jan 02, 202423:34
Soothing the Storm: Navigating Divorce with Calm and Clarity

Soothing the Storm: Navigating Divorce with Calm and Clarity

In "Soothing the Storm: Navigating Divorce with Calm and Clarity," the fourth episode of "Rich in Relationship," host Rich Heller turns the spotlight on a crucial yet often overlooked aspect of divorce: managing stress and anxiety. Rich opens the episode by acknowledging the inherent stress and anxiety that come with navigating a divorce. He delves into the common sources of these feelings and discusses the physical and emotional symptoms that individuals may experience. This sets the stage for a deeper understanding of the impact of stress and anxiety during this tumultuous period. The core of the episode is packed with actionable strategies for stress management. Rich offers advice on various techniques, including exercise, meditation, yoga, and deep breathing exercises, tailored to help listeners find relief and regain control. Additionally, he provides insights into coping with anxiety, emphasizing the effectiveness of mindfulness, cognitive-behavioral strategies, and the importance of professional support. Understanding the value of a solid support system, Rich discusses how to build and lean on a network of friends, family, and support groups. He also stresses healthy lifestyle choices, highlighting how diet, sleep, and avoiding negative coping mechanisms play a role in managing stress and anxiety. Moreover, Rich addresses the need for setting realistic expectations for the divorce process to avoid unnecessary stress. He underscores the benefits of seeking professional help and shares personal stories and experiences from listeners, offering relatable and practical insights. "Soothing the Storm: Navigating Divorce with Calm and Clarity" is an essential listen for anyone undergoing the pressures of a divorce. Rich Heller's empathetic and expert guidance provides a beacon of hope, equipping listeners with the tools and understanding necessary to navigate their divorce journey with less stress and more peace of mind. Tune in to this episode for a journey through managing stress and anxiety during divorce, where Rich's insights illuminate the path to a calmer, clearer post-divorce life.


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Dec 27, 202316:56
Soothing the Storm: Navigating Divorce with Calm and Clarity

Soothing the Storm: Navigating Divorce with Calm and Clarity

In "Soothing the Storm: Navigating Divorce with Calm and Clarity," the fourth episode of "Rich in Relationship," host Rich Heller turns the spotlight on a crucial yet often overlooked aspect of divorce: managing stress and anxiety. Rich opens the episode by acknowledging the inherent stress and anxiety that come with navigating a divorce. He delves into the common sources of these feelings and discusses the physical and emotional symptoms that individuals may experience. This sets the stage for a deeper understanding of the impact of stress and anxiety during this tumultuous period. The core of the episode is packed with actionable strategies for stress management. Rich offers advice on various techniques, including exercise, meditation, yoga, and deep breathing exercises, tailored to help listeners find relief and regain control. Additionally, he provides insights into coping with anxiety, emphasizing the effectiveness of mindfulness, cognitive-behavioral strategies, and the importance of professional support. Understanding the value of a solid support system, Rich discusses how to build and lean on a network of friends, family, and support groups. He also stresses healthy lifestyle choices, highlighting how diet, sleep, and avoiding negative coping mechanisms play a role in managing stress and anxiety. Moreover, Rich addresses the need for setting realistic expectations for the divorce process to avoid unnecessary stress. He underscores the benefits of seeking professional help and shares personal stories and experiences from listeners, offering relatable and practical insights. "Soothing the Storm: Navigating Divorce with Calm and Clarity" is an essential listen for anyone undergoing the pressures of a divorce. Rich Heller's empathetic and expert guidance provides a beacon of hope, equipping listeners with the tools and understanding necessary to navigate their divorce journey with less stress and more peace of mind. Tune in to this episode for a journey through managing stress and anxiety during divorce, where Rich's insights illuminate the path to a calmer, clearer post-divorce life.


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Dec 27, 202316:56
Bridging the Divide: Mastering Post Divorce Dialogue

Bridging the Divide: Mastering Post Divorce Dialogue

In the compelling third episode of "Rich in Relationship," titled "Bridging the Divide: Mastering Post-Divorce Dialogue," host Rich Heller addresses a critical aspect of post-divorce life: effective communication with an ex-partner. Rich begins the episode by highlighting the importance of maintaining civil and constructive communication, especially in scenarios involving co-parenting. He delves into the common barriers that hinder effective dialogue and offers strategies to overcome emotional triggers and past conflicts. The episode is rich with practical advice. Rich discusses the significance of setting healthy boundaries and the art of communicating them respectfully. He provides listeners with techniques for clear and constructive communication, including active listening, choosing the appropriate medium for conversations, and staying focused on the issues at hand. Conflict management is a key focus, with Rich offering insights on how to navigate disagreements and the potential role of mediation or counseling in facilitating better communication. For those in co-parenting arrangements, the episode provides specific guidance on prioritizing children's needs and modeling positive communication behaviors for them. Rich also touches on the importance of rebuilding trust and respect post-divorce, underscoring the long-term benefits of maintaining a civil relationship with an ex-partner. Real-life examples and scenarios are shared, offering listeners relatable and practical lessons. "Bridging the Divide: Mastering Post-Divorce Dialogue" is not just an episode; it's a guide for those seeking to navigate the complexities of communication after divorce. Rich Heller's empathetic and expert advice makes this episode a valuable resource for anyone looking to foster better dialogue and understanding in their post-divorce relationships. Tune in for an episode filled with insights and strategies, designed to help you master the art of communication in your post-divorce journey.

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Dec 22, 202321:10
Bridging the Divide: Mastering Post Divorce Dialogue

Bridging the Divide: Mastering Post Divorce Dialogue

In the compelling third episode of "Rich in Relationship," titled "Bridging the Divide: Mastering Post-Divorce Dialogue," host Rich Heller addresses a critical aspect of post-divorce life: effective communication with an ex-partner. Rich begins the episode by highlighting the importance of maintaining civil and constructive communication, especially in scenarios involving co-parenting. He delves into the common barriers that hinder effective dialogue and offers strategies to overcome emotional triggers and past conflicts. The episode is rich with practical advice. Rich discusses the significance of setting healthy boundaries and the art of communicating them respectfully. He provides listeners with techniques for clear and constructive communication, including active listening, choosing the appropriate medium for conversations, and staying focused on the issues at hand. Conflict management is a key focus, with Rich offering insights on how to navigate disagreements and the potential role of mediation or counseling in facilitating better communication. For those in co-parenting arrangements, the episode provides specific guidance on prioritizing children's needs and modeling positive communication behaviors for them. Rich also touches on the importance of rebuilding trust and respect post-divorce, underscoring the long-term benefits of maintaining a civil relationship with an ex-partner. Real-life examples and scenarios are shared, offering listeners relatable and practical lessons. "Bridging the Divide: Mastering Post-Divorce Dialogue" is not just an episode; it's a guide for those seeking to navigate the complexities of communication after divorce. Rich Heller's empathetic and expert advice makes this episode a valuable resource for anyone looking to foster better dialogue and understanding in their post-divorce relationships. Tune in for an episode filled with insights and strategies, designed to help you master the art of communication in your post-divorce journey.

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Dec 22, 202321:10
Healing Heartstrings: Embracing Grief in Life's New Chapter

Healing Heartstrings: Embracing Grief in Life's New Chapter

In the emotionally resonant second episode of "Rich in Relationship," titled "Healing Heartstrings: Embracing Grief in Life's New Chapter," host Rich Heller delves into the often-overlooked aspect of divorce: the profound sense of grief and loss. Rich opens the episode by framing grief as a natural, yet complex, response to the end of a marriage. He explores the unique dimensions of this grief, acknowledging the intense emotions that accompany the dissolution of a partnership that once held promise. Throughout the episode, Rich provides listeners with insightful strategies for managing and understanding their grief. From practical techniques like journaling and mindfulness to the essential role of self-care, he offers tools to navigate this challenging emotional landscape. Rich also addresses the feelings of loneliness and isolation that can follow a divorce, offering advice on how to rebuild a support system and find solace in connections with others. He emphasizes the importance of finding meaning and personal growth in the experience, encouraging listeners to view this transition as an opportunity for new beginnings. The episode is not only informative but also deeply empathetic, offering a space for listeners to understand and process their feelings of loss. Rich's guidance is a comforting hand to those mourning the end of their marriage, helping them to see the potential for healing and hope in life's next chapter. Tune in to "Healing Heartstrings: Embracing Grief in Life's New Chapter" for a compassionate exploration of grief in divorce, where Rich Heller guides you through embracing and healing from the emotional complexities of this life-altering experience.

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Dec 19, 202316:36
Healing Heartstrings Embracing Grief in Life's New Chapter

Healing Heartstrings Embracing Grief in Life's New Chapter

In the emotionally resonant second episode of "Rich in Relationship," titled "Healing Heartstrings: Embracing Grief in Life's New Chapter," host Rich Heller delves into the often-overlooked aspect of divorce: the profound sense of grief and loss. Rich opens the episode by framing grief as a natural, yet complex, response to the end of a marriage. He explores the unique dimensions of this grief, acknowledging the intense emotions that accompany the dissolution of a partnership that once held promise. Throughout the episode, Rich provides listeners with insightful strategies for managing and understanding their grief. From practical techniques like journaling and mindfulness to the essential role of self-care, he offers tools to navigate this challenging emotional landscape. Rich also addresses the feelings of loneliness and isolation that can follow a divorce, offering advice on how to rebuild a support system and find solace in connections with others. He emphasizes the importance of finding meaning and personal growth in the experience, encouraging listeners to view this transition as an opportunity for new beginnings. The episode is not only informative but also deeply empathetic, offering a space for listeners to understand and process their feelings of loss. Rich's guidance is a comforting hand to those mourning the end of their marriage, helping them to see the potential for healing and hope in life's next chapter. Tune in to "Healing Heartstrings: Embracing Grief in Life's New Chapter" for a compassionate exploration of grief in divorce, where Rich Heller guides you through embracing and healing from the emotional complexities of this life-altering experience.

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Dec 19, 202316:36
Navigating the Waves of Change: The Emotional Odyssey of Divorce

Navigating the Waves of Change: The Emotional Odyssey of Divorce

In this insightful premiere episode of "Rich in Relationship," host Rich Heller takes a deep dive into the emotional complexities of divorce. Titled "Navigating the Waves of Change: The Emotional Odyssey of Divorce," Rich explores the psychological journey individuals often undergo from the initial shock of denial to the eventual acceptance of their new reality. Rich begins by framing the context of these emotional stages, emphasizing why it's crucial to recognize and understand them. He then leads the listener through each stage—Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Depression, and Acceptance—offering a nuanced perspective on how these emotions manifest and affect individuals going through a divorce. Throughout the episode, Rich shares insights on coping strategies, addressing each stage with empathy and practical advice. He stresses the importance of self-care and mental health, providing guidance on how to navigate these challenging times with resilience and hope. Rich's approach is compassionate and grounded, aiming to connect with listeners who are experiencing these emotional stages themselves. His expertise and thoughtful commentary offer a beacon of understanding and support, making this episode a valuable resource for anyone navigating the tumultuous waters of divorce. Tune in to "Navigating the Waves of Change: The Emotional Odyssey of Divorce" for a journey of emotional awareness and self-discovery, where Rich Heller guides you through the transformative process of healing and growth during one of life's most challenging transitions.


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Dec 16, 202326:39
Navigating the Waves of Change: The Emotional Odyssey of Divorce

Navigating the Waves of Change: The Emotional Odyssey of Divorce

In this insightful premiere episode of "Rich in Relationship," host Rich Heller takes a deep dive into the emotional complexities of divorce. Titled "Navigating the Waves of Change: The Emotional Odyssey of Divorce," Rich explores the psychological journey individuals often undergo from the initial shock of denial to the eventual acceptance of their new reality. Rich begins by framing the context of these emotional stages, emphasizing why it's crucial to recognize and understand them. He then leads the listener through each stage—Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Depression, and Acceptance—offering a nuanced perspective on how these emotions manifest and affect individuals going through a divorce. Throughout the episode, Rich shares insights on coping strategies, addressing each stage with empathy and practical advice. He stresses the importance of self-care and mental health, providing guidance on how to navigate these challenging times with resilience and hope. Rich's approach is compassionate and grounded, aiming to connect with listeners who are experiencing these emotional stages themselves. His expertise and thoughtful commentary offer a beacon of understanding and support, making this episode a valuable resource for anyone navigating the tumultuous waters of divorce. Tune in to "Navigating the Waves of Change: The Emotional Odyssey of Divorce" for a journey of emotional awareness and self-discovery, where Rich Heller guides you through the transformative process of healing and growth during one of life's most challenging transitions.


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Dec 16, 202321:36
Seasonal Strength: Safeguarding Our Kids from Divorce Dilemmas During the Holidays

Seasonal Strength: Safeguarding Our Kids from Divorce Dilemmas During the Holidays

In this episode, Ken Jewell of Jewell Law shares his insights on handling the unique challenges that arise during the holiday season for families in the midst of divorce. Ken focuses on strategies to safeguard children from the emotional complexities of divorce, providing practical advice for parents to maintain stability and joy for their kids during this sensitive time.


Ken sees the divorce process as an opportunity for a fresh start. His goal is to develop creative and smart solutions to a client’s concerns. Ken has vast experience in handling some of the most difficult and thorny issues to be encountered in a divorce whether it involves child custody and/or uncovering well-hidden assets. Ken educates his clients about their litigation options and conducts negotiations from a position of strength by drawing heavily on his background in psychology and as a research law librarian to develop strategies that uniquely achieve the client’s desired results.


Ken earned a bachelor’s degree in psychology from Hofstra University and a law degree from St. John’s University School of Law. He is admitted to practice in all New York State courts, the U.S. District Court for the Southern District of New York, the U.S. District Court for the Eastern District of New York and the U.S. Court of Appeals for the 2nd Circuit. Ken was a State Supreme Court Law Librarian from 1986-96, and a legal assistant with a NYS investigative commission from 1996-99 before entering private practice.


He has a deep understanding of New York’s procedural rules which frequently enables him to out maneuver his opponents in court through oral and written advocacy.


Throughout his legal career, Ken has been recognized for his contributions to the profession. He has been named a “Top Attorney” by New York Magazine for 2018-2020, a Top Attorney by the New York Law Journal in 2019 and 2020, one of the “Top Attorneys in Metro New York” by The New York Times Magazine in 2015-19 and one of the “10 Best” in terms of client satisfaction by the American Institute of Family Law Attorneys since 2019. Ken was recognized by Fortune Magazine, Entrepreneur Magazine and Bloomberg Business week as a Top Family Law Attorneys for 2020.


In addition to his law practice, Ken is a member of the New York State Bar Association and belongs to the group’s Family Law Legislative Committee, Family Law Section. Ken was also a member of the Standing Committee on Civil Practice Law and Rules of the State of New York for many years, all of which allowed him to attain a depth of knowledge and expertise held by few matrimonial and family attorneys.

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Dec 13, 202316:12
Seasonal Strength: Safeguarding Our Kids from Divorce Dilemmas During the Holidays

Seasonal Strength: Safeguarding Our Kids from Divorce Dilemmas During the Holidays

In this episode, Ken Jewell of Jewell Law shares his insights on handling the unique challenges that arise during the holiday season for families in the midst of divorce. Ken focuses on strategies to safeguard children from the emotional complexities of divorce, providing practical advice for parents to maintain stability and joy for their kids during this sensitive time.


Ken sees the divorce process as an opportunity for a fresh start. His goal is to develop creative and smart solutions to a client’s concerns. Ken has vast experience in handling some of the most difficult and thorny issues to be encountered in a divorce whether it involves child custody and/or uncovering well-hidden assets. Ken educates his clients about their litigation options and conducts negotiations from a position of strength by drawing heavily on his background in psychology and as a research law librarian to develop strategies that uniquely achieve the client’s desired results.


Ken earned a bachelor’s degree in psychology from Hofstra University and a law degree from St. John’s University School of Law. He is admitted to practice in all New York State courts, the U.S. District Court for the Southern District of New York, the U.S. District Court for the Eastern District of New York and the U.S. Court of Appeals for the 2nd Circuit. Ken was a State Supreme Court Law Librarian from 1986-96, and a legal assistant with a NYS investigative commission from 1996-99 before entering private practice.


He has a deep understanding of New York’s procedural rules which frequently enables him to out maneuver his opponents in court through oral and written advocacy.


Throughout his legal career, Ken has been recognized for his contributions to the profession. He has been named a “Top Attorney” by New York Magazine for 2018-2020, a Top Attorney by the New York Law Journal in 2019 and 2020, one of the “Top Attorneys in Metro New York” by The New York Times Magazine in 2015-19 and one of the “10 Best” in terms of client satisfaction by the American Institute of Family Law Attorneys since 2019. Ken was recognized by Fortune Magazine, Entrepreneur Magazine and Bloomberg Business week as a Top Family Law Attorneys for 2020.


In addition to his law practice, Ken is a member of the New York State Bar Association and belongs to the group’s Family Law Legislative Committee, Family Law Section. Ken was also a member of the Standing Committee on Civil Practice Law and Rules of the State of New York for many years, all of which allowed him to attain a depth of knowledge and expertise held by few matrimonial and family attorneys.

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Dec 12, 202316:12
The Path to Certainty: Moving Beyond Ambivalence to Decision

The Path to Certainty: Moving Beyond Ambivalence to Decision

In the concluding episode of our enlightening series on marital ambivalence, "The Path to Certainty: Moving Beyond Ambivalence to Decision" takes listeners on the final leg of their journey towards resolution and clarity. This episode ties together the profound insights and discussions from the entire series, guiding listeners through the intricate process of moving from a state of indecision to one of clear, decisive action. We start by exploring the roots of ambivalence, diving into the complex interplay between the conscious and unconscious mind and how this inner conflict often manifests in marital relationships. The episode then transitions to practical strategies and tools for gaining clarity and making informed decisions, understanding the emotional and psychological nuances at play. A critical segment of this episode focuses on implementing Mel Robbins' "5 Second Rule" as a technique to break through hesitation and take proactive steps in life post-decision. Whether it's initiating new, healthy routines or engaging in necessary but difficult conversations, this rule serves as a catalyst for positive change. Additionally, we tackle the challenging emotions of regret and second-guessing, offering listeners compassionate guidance on how to recognize and remedy feelings associated with making a 'bad' decision. This discussion is key for anyone grappling with the aftermath of a significant marital choice. "The Path to Certainty" is not just an episode; it’s a culmination of a journey. It brings together every lesson, every insight, and every piece of advice from the series to empower listeners in their quest for a resolution. As we conclude, we encourage our audience to embrace the learnings, to find peace in their decisions, and to step forward into a future that is clear, confident, and true to themselves. Join us in this final episode to discover your path to certainty, and learn how to navigate the complexities of marital ambivalence with courage, wisdom, and hope.


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Dec 08, 202329:26
The Path to Certainty: Moving Beyond Ambivalence to Decision

The Path to Certainty: Moving Beyond Ambivalence to Decision

In the concluding episode of our enlightening series on marital ambivalence, "The Path to Certainty: Moving Beyond Ambivalence to Decision" takes listeners on the final leg of their journey towards resolution and clarity. This episode ties together the profound insights and discussions from the entire series, guiding listeners through the intricate process of moving from a state of indecision to one of clear, decisive action. We start by exploring the roots of ambivalence, diving into the complex interplay between the conscious and unconscious mind and how this inner conflict often manifests in marital relationships. The episode then transitions to practical strategies and tools for gaining clarity and making informed decisions, understanding the emotional and psychological nuances at play. A critical segment of this episode focuses on implementing Mel Robbins' "5 Second Rule" as a technique to break through hesitation and take proactive steps in life post-decision. Whether it's initiating new, healthy routines or engaging in necessary but difficult conversations, this rule serves as a catalyst for positive change. Additionally, we tackle the challenging emotions of regret and second-guessing, offering listeners compassionate guidance on how to recognize and remedy feelings associated with making a 'bad' decision. This discussion is key for anyone grappling with the aftermath of a significant marital choice. "The Path to Certainty" is not just an episode; it’s a culmination of a journey. It brings together every lesson, every insight, and every piece of advice from the series to empower listeners in their quest for a resolution. As we conclude, we encourage our audience to embrace the learnings, to find peace in their decisions, and to step forward into a future that is clear, confident, and true to themselves. Join us in this final episode to discover your path to certainty, and learn how to navigate the complexities of marital ambivalence with courage, wisdom, and hope.



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Dec 08, 202329:26
Sailing the Seasonal Storm: Anticipating and Alleviating Divorce Dilemmas in the Holiday Triangle

Sailing the Seasonal Storm: Anticipating and Alleviating Divorce Dilemmas in the Holiday Triangle

"Sailing the Seasonal Storm: Anticipating and Alleviating Divorce Dilemmas in the Holiday Triangle" – The third episode of our holiday series features Christopher Anderson of New Leaf Family Law. Chris guides listeners through the ‘Holiday Triangle’ – the period spanning Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Year – offering expert advice on anticipating and alleviating the dilemmas commonly faced during the holidays in divorce situations.


Join Chris as he navigates the legal and emotional waters of this challenging season, providing a beacon of support and clarity.


Christopher is a really smart guy (no … he did not write this!) He can analyze and pick apart a dense legal argument like nobody’s business, and then in the next breath explain special relativity or space-time to an 8-year-old.  

And Christopher has a passion for changing the way Family Law is practiced. He founded New Leaf Family with the dual purpose of: 

Working to empower clients to make the best decisions for themselves and their families; 


To make the financial aspect of Family Law more predictable and straightforward for clients. 


By keeping most decisions in the hands of our clients, Christopher believes they will have more satisfaction with the outcomes, and their families will come through to the next chapter in much better shape. 

Christopher received his A.B. from Cornell University a really long time ago, when some men had mullets and still took themselves seriously. After Cornell, Christopher went to Georgia, and achieved his J.D.. from the University of Georgia, around the time when you’d hear songs on the radio about things being “ironic” that really aren’t. 

Christopher started his legal career by prosecuting bad guys accused of horrific sex, crimes for the Bronx District Attorney’s office, and the courtroom became his second home.  


Over the years he has practiced in several different areas, handling matters as diverse as nasty divorces and custody battles to serving as general counsel to tech companies to representing pilots in licensing issues. In addition to being a scary trial lawyer when called upon to whip out those skills, Christopher also has developed a habit of being invited to give talks to other lawyers about legal technology and law practice management at big lawyer conferences, and works to help other lawyers across the country to improve their law firms as well. 


Like Penn, Christopher is admitted to practice law in the state and federal courts of Colorado, New York and Georgia. 


Christopher enjoys snow skiing, oenology, quantum mechanics and astrophysics. He is a frequent, if not always enthusiastic, runner. He is conversational in Dutch and roots for the Netherlands during the World Cup. He makes a mean cappuccino and prefers his martinis stirred, not shaken. 


Check out his website:

www.NewLeaf.Family


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Dec 05, 202334:06
 Sailing the Seasonal Storm: Anticipating and Alleviating Divorce Dilemmas in the Holiday Triangle

Sailing the Seasonal Storm: Anticipating and Alleviating Divorce Dilemmas in the Holiday Triangle

"Sailing the Seasonal Storm: Anticipating and Alleviating Divorce Dilemmas in the Holiday Triangle" – The third episode of our holiday series features Christopher Anderson of New Leaf Family Law. Chris guides listeners through the ‘Holiday Triangle’ – the period spanning Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Year – offering expert advice on anticipating and alleviating the dilemmas commonly faced during the holidays in divorce situations.


Join Chris as he navigates the legal and emotional waters of this challenging season, providing a beacon of support and clarity.


Christopher is a really smart guy (no … he did not write this!) He can analyze and pick apart a dense legal argument like nobody’s business, and then in the next breath explain special relativity or space-time to an 8-year-old.  

And Christopher has a passion for changing the way Family Law is practiced. He founded New Leaf Family with the dual purpose of: 

Working to empower clients to make the best decisions for themselves and their families; 


To make the financial aspect of Family Law more predictable and straightforward for clients. 


By keeping most decisions in the hands of our clients, Christopher believes they will have more satisfaction with the outcomes, and their families will come through to the next chapter in much better shape. 

Christopher received his A.B. from Cornell University a really long time ago, when some men had mullets and still took themselves seriously. After Cornell, Christopher went to Georgia, and achieved his J.D.. from the University of Georgia, around the time when you’d hear songs on the radio about things being “ironic” that really aren’t. 

Christopher started his legal career by prosecuting bad guys accused of horrific sex, crimes for the Bronx District Attorney’s office, and the courtroom became his second home.  


Over the years he has practiced in several different areas, handling matters as diverse as nasty divorces and custody battles to serving as general counsel to tech companies to representing pilots in licensing issues. In addition to being a scary trial lawyer when called upon to whip out those skills, Christopher also has developed a habit of being invited to give talks to other lawyers about legal technology and law practice management at big lawyer conferences, and works to help other lawyers across the country to improve their law firms as well. 


Like Penn, Christopher is admitted to practice law in the state and federal courts of Colorado, New York and Georgia. 


Christopher enjoys snow skiing, oenology, quantum mechanics and astrophysics. He is a frequent, if not always enthusiastic, runner. He is conversational in Dutch and roots for the Netherlands during the World Cup. He makes a mean cappuccino and prefers his martinis stirred, not shaken. 


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www.NewLeaf.Family

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Dec 05, 202334:06
Harmonious Holidays: Navigating Divorce Decisions for Our Children's Sake

Harmonious Holidays: Navigating Divorce Decisions for Our Children's Sake

"Harmonious Holidays: Navigating Divorce Decisions for Our Children's Sake" – Join us in this special holiday podcast series featuring Heather Quick of the Florida Women's Law Group. In this episode, Heather dives into the complexities families face during the holiday season when navigating divorce. She offers invaluable legal advice and compassionate insights on making decisions that prioritize the well-being of children. Tune in to explore strategies for creating a harmonious holiday experience, even amidst the challenges of divorce.


Heather Brooke Quick is the founder and CEO of the only divorce and family law firm for women in Northeast Florida, Florida Women's Law Group, located in Jacksonville, Florida. Her vision for Florida Women's Law Group began with a passion for changing the way women in Florida undergo divorce  

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Dec 03, 202318:27
Harmonious Holidays: Navigating Divorce Decisions for Our Children's Sake

Harmonious Holidays: Navigating Divorce Decisions for Our Children's Sake

"Harmonious Holidays: Navigating Divorce Decisions for Our Children's Sake" – Join us in this special holiday podcast series featuring Heather Quick of the Florida Women's Law Group. In this episode, Heather dives into the complexities families face during the holiday season when navigating divorce. She offers invaluable legal advice and compassionate insights on making decisions that prioritize the well-being of children. Tune in to explore strategies for creating a harmonious holiday experience, even amidst the challenges of divorce.


Heather Brooke Quick is the founder and CEO of the only divorce and family law firm for women in Northeast Florida, Florida Women's Law Group, located in Jacksonville, Florida. Her vision for Florida Women's Law Group began with a passion for changing the way women in Florida undergo divorce  

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Dec 03, 202318:27
Price Tag of Parting Calculating the Real Cost of Divorce

Price Tag of Parting Calculating the Real Cost of Divorce

In this eye-opening episode of "Rich in Relationship," we delve into the complex interplay between finances and marital stability. "Price Tag of Parting: Calculating the Real Cost of Divorce" uncovers the fiscal and emotional stakes that money matters bring into a marriage. With the startling revelation that financial stress is the top stressor in relationships, we examine how and why fiscal friction often forecasts a marriage's future. Listeners will gain insight into the distressing statistics behind money as a battleground in marital spats and its direct correlation to divorce probability. We don't just stop at the problem, though—we explore the harrowing costs of divorce that extend far beyond legal fees, dissecting how the division of assets, alimony, and child support can affect long-term financial health. But there's hope on the horizon. The episode compares these costs to the price of investing in solutions like financial therapy and marital counseling, showcasing the potential for reparation and recovery. We highlight how financial transparency and planning can sometimes rescue a relationship from the brink. Join us as we help couples weigh the decision to repair or part ways, providing a comprehensive understanding of the true cost of divorce, both for the wallet and the heart. This episode is a must-listen for any couple grappling with financial disagreements or standing at the crossroads of a significant marital decision.

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Nov 30, 202320:26
Price Tag of Parting Calculating the Real Cost of Divorce

Price Tag of Parting Calculating the Real Cost of Divorce

In this eye-opening episode of "Rich in Relationship," we delve into the complex interplay between finances and marital stability. "Price Tag of Parting: Calculating the Real Cost of Divorce" uncovers the fiscal and emotional stakes that money matters bring into a marriage. With the startling revelation that financial stress is the top stressor in relationships, we examine how and why fiscal friction often forecasts a marriage's future. Listeners will gain insight into the distressing statistics behind money as a battleground in marital spats and its direct correlation to divorce probability. We don't just stop at the problem, though—we explore the harrowing costs of divorce that extend far beyond legal fees, dissecting how the division of assets, alimony, and child support can affect long-term financial health. But there's hope on the horizon. The episode compares these costs to the price of investing in solutions like financial therapy and marital counseling, showcasing the potential for reparation and recovery. We highlight how financial transparency and planning can sometimes rescue a relationship from the brink. Join us as we help couples weigh the decision to repair or part ways, providing a comprehensive understanding of the true cost of divorce, both for the wallet and the heart. This episode is a must-listen for any couple grappling with financial disagreements or standing at the crossroads of a significant marital decision.

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Nov 30, 202320:26
Protecting Their Peace: A Guide to Thriving in the Holidays During Divorce

Protecting Their Peace: A Guide to Thriving in the Holidays During Divorce

This episode features Katherine Miller of Miller Law Group, who brings her wealth of experience in matrimonial law to our holiday series. Katherine discusses how to thrive, not just survive, the holiday season during a divorce. She addresses the emotional and legal aspects of navigating holidays amidst marital changes, offering guidance to protect your peace and create a nurturing environment for yourself and your family.


Katherine Miller is the founding attorney of the Miller Law Group – an established family law practice in Westchester County, NY and New York City.  She has always had a keen interest in people and comes from a family of therapists.  She thought of herself as being too opinionated to become a therapist, so she decided to pursue another passion – justice. Once enrolled in law school, it didn’t take long for her to realize that law school is not about justice, so she returned to her interest in people, and focused her education and career on the intersection where the law meets people in their everyday lives.


Her early career was at a firm where about half of the practice was matrimonial work and the other half was child welfare litigation. As she gained experience in family law, she quickly realized that there had to be a better way to help people settle divorces than what she and her colleagues were doing. When she took her first mediation training in 1990, she was hopeful that this was the solution she was looking for. By integrating mediation ideas and skills into her divorce negotiations, the possibility to find mutual solutions that didn’t create long-term division, was much more likely.


After 10 years of serving divorcing clients, she found herself going through her own divorce. She’d like to say that she applied all the lessons she learned from going through this process so many times as a lawyer, but she did not. She felt a tidal wave of fear for the well-being of her son and daughter. As a litigator, her observation had been that it was impossible to keep children out of the middle, no matter how much everyone said they wanted to protect them. More times than she wanted to admit, she’d seen children used as bargaining chips — viewed without a voice or needs of their own. She was unwilling to take that risk with her children. When she saw the risks to her children, it came home to her how destructive divorce litigation can be for children. So much so, she got out of the field altogether.


She quit her job and began taking an intent focus on investing in the one person she seemed to be ignoring her entire life — herself. She realized she had been going through life doing everything she thought she was supposed to, without being in touch with what she really wanted. She had become a guest in her own skin. By grabbing hold of her own reins, she found freedom and hope in herself. That’s what empowered her to take control of her life and her future. It is that venture that led her to form the Miller Law Group, because she wanted to run a law firm where she thought about the clients as people first and truly protect the interests of their children. This is where true strength and advocacy lay and this is why her firm is able to help clients get the best possible results.


In addition, she is co-author of the #1 Amazon bestseller “A Cup of Coffee with 10 of the Top Divorce Attorneys in the United States” and the author of the “New Yorker’s Guide to Collaborative Divorce.”  Her many media accolades include interviews on CBS New York, NBC New York, as well as features in New York Times, Newsday, Money Magazine, Splitopia, TheStreet.com, Huffpost, to name a few.


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www.miller-law.com

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Nov 25, 202330:11
Protecting Their Peace: A Guide to Thriving in the Holidays During Divorce

Protecting Their Peace: A Guide to Thriving in the Holidays During Divorce

This episode features Katherine Miller of Miller Law Group, who brings her wealth of experience in matrimonial law to our holiday series. Katherine discusses how to thrive, not just survive, the holiday season during a divorce. She addresses the emotional and legal aspects of navigating holidays amidst marital changes, offering guidance to protect your peace and create a nurturing environment for yourself and your family.


Katherine Miller is the founding attorney of the Miller Law Group – an established family law practice in Westchester County, NY and New York City.  She has always had a keen interest in people and comes from a family of therapists.  She thought of herself as being too opinionated to become a therapist, so she decided to pursue another passion – justice. Once enrolled in law school, it didn’t take long for her to realize that law school is not about justice, so she returned to her interest in people, and focused her education and career on the intersection where the law meets people in their everyday lives.


Her early career was at a firm where about half of the practice was matrimonial work and the other half was child welfare litigation. As she gained experience in family law, she quickly realized that there had to be a better way to help people settle divorces than what she and her colleagues were doing. When she took her first mediation training in 1990, she was hopeful that this was the solution she was looking for. By integrating mediation ideas and skills into her divorce negotiations, the possibility to find mutual solutions that didn’t create long-term division, was much more likely.


After 10 years of serving divorcing clients, she found herself going through her own divorce. She’d like to say that she applied all the lessons she learned from going through this process so many times as a lawyer, but she did not. She felt a tidal wave of fear for the well-being of her son and daughter. As a litigator, her observation had been that it was impossible to keep children out of the middle, no matter how much everyone said they wanted to protect them. More times than she wanted to admit, she’d seen children used as bargaining chips — viewed without a voice or needs of their own. She was unwilling to take that risk with her children. When she saw the risks to her children, it came home to her how destructive divorce litigation can be for children. So much so, she got out of the field altogether.


She quit her job and began taking an intent focus on investing in the one person she seemed to be ignoring her entire life — herself. She realized she had been going through life doing everything she thought she was supposed to, without being in touch with what she really wanted. She had become a guest in her own skin. By grabbing hold of her own reins, she found freedom and hope in herself. That’s what empowered her to take control of her life and her future. It is that venture that led her to form the Miller Law Group, because she wanted to run a law firm where she thought about the clients as people first and truly protect the interests of their children. This is where true strength and advocacy lay and this is why her firm is able to help clients get the best possible results.


In addition, she is co-author of the #1 Amazon bestseller “A Cup of Coffee with 10 of the Top Divorce Attorneys in the United States” and the author of the “New Yorker’s Guide to Collaborative Divorce.”  Her many media accolades include interviews on CBS New York, NBC New York, as well as features in New York Times, Newsday, Money Magazine, Splitopia, TheStreet.com, Huffpost, to name a few.


Checkout her website:

www.miller-law.com

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Nov 25, 202330:11
From Shark-Infested Strife to Blue Ocean Bliss: Ending Destructive Conflict for a Happier Family

From Shark-Infested Strife to Blue Ocean Bliss: Ending Destructive Conflict for a Happier Family

In this transformative episode of the "Rich in Relationship" podcast, we navigate the treacherous waters of marital conflict that many couples find themselves drowning in. "From Shark-Infested Strife to Blue Ocean Bliss" is not just a journey—it's a revolution in resolving marital discord that prioritizes the well-being of the entire family. Host Rich Heller invites listeners to embark on an explorative voyage from the tumultuous, shark-infested waters of destructive conflict to the serene, azure horizons of the "Blue Ocean" — a place where conflict ends, and families can thrive in happiness. This episode delves deep into the innovative "Rich in Relationship" (RiR) model, showcasing how it stands apart from traditional therapy by focusing on ending the cycle of toxic arguments and facilitating creative resolutions that honor each partner's needs. As we cast a line into the undercurrents of traditional couples' therapy and counseling, Rich reveals how the RiR approach sails beyond the surface-level fixes, steering couples towards lasting harmony. Discover how the RiR model's unique strategies can effectively cease-fire in the home, leading to a more peaceful and supportive environment for children and partners alike. Rich also discusses the crucial steps couples can take to move beyond the ceaseless battles over who's right and wrong, leading to a greater understanding of the profound emotional currents that run beneath marital disputes. By learning how to navigate these depths with RiR's guidance, couples can achieve a state of Blue Ocean Bliss — a transformative and nurturing space for love and family life to flourish. Tune in to learn how to hoist the sails of your relationship towards a happier and more fulfilling future, ensuring that your marital journey and family life are not just about surviving the squalls but thriving in the calm after the storm. Join us for this pivotal episode and turn the tide on conflict, creating a legacy of love and understanding that will ripple through your family for generations.

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Nov 21, 202318:33