About My Journey

What is an Alternative Lifestyle Coach?

I will make no judgments on your lifestyle, and I am someone you can feel comfortable discussing sensitive subjects with. I will help you see your worth and the value in your relationship with yourself and life. I have an alternative lifestyle mindset about my life journey and over 30 years of experience living, learning and working with masters and clients in the field of personal transformation. 

Who are you in the relationship with yourself?

My courses and private hours are descriptive, not prescriptive. 

Descriptive courses refers to giving information about how something or someone looks, sounds, etc.

Prescriptive courses refers to something that is relating to the imposition or enforcement of a rule or method.

Doctor Robert James Goodman was born in the back seat of a 1957 Cadillac in 1957, in segregated rural Arkansas into an impoverished extended family of fourteen children.

This book and website is about Doctor James journey as a black man, with dyslexia, from the cotton fields of Arkansas to San Francisco, California.

Doctor James refused to accept society’s idea of his potential and learned to succeed despite what many would consider impossible odds.

Service at https://aboutgratification.me

Doctor of Philosophy (1990) Thesis: The Pursuit Of Wisdom,
Reality And Understanding Your Values.
Bachelor of Humanities (1987) Thesis: Hey People – Life.
Certification Course: Participated in writing and development of the Expansion of Sexual Potential course at More University. Studied the nature of female orgasm and trained for 15 years in a hands-on lab setting. ​This course provides information on how to experience maximum pleasure in your own body and how to produce maximum pleasure in your partner. It describes and explores the functioning of the human nervous system and addresses societal attitudes and self-imposed limitations around pleasure in all areas of life.

Viewpoints are our thoughts, they are the lenses and tools by which we relate and interpret our world, things, and people.
By necessity, we are able to non-confront most incoming sensations. We create order in our lives with non-confrontation. We are also able to deliberately choose which sensations to confront and which to ignore. For example, your goal is to learn from the teacher and become unconscious of the student next to you joking around.

A relationship isn’t all about two people being together. It is also about being an individual and strengthening a relationship with yourself. In fact, having a good relationship with yourself is the primary ingredient to have a successful relationship with others. When you are at peace with yourself, you do not look for love, gratification, appreciation or care from your partner. You do not demand for your needs from someone else. This kind of personal relationship with yourself lifts a ton of stress, burden, and frustration from you and your partner’s shoulders.

communicating about who you are

KNOWING WHO YOU ARE IN THE  RELATIONSHIP

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