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Reflections By #rookielifecoach

By rookielife-coach-1 Avuyile Mngxitama-Diko

Reflections By #rookielifecoach is a podcast by Avuyile Mngxitama-Diko. I'm a journalist who is doing her own thing. This space is where I share my thoughts, engage with friends and discuss life in the Christian community. This is a space of love and peace. I am a believer in Christ, a mom, a blogger and a learner of life in general.
All opinions are mine on this show.
I aim to be an inspiration to rookies out there. Blog @ amngxitama.wixsite.com

This podcast is multilingual, at times I use Isixhosa or English.
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Reflections special: embracing the Sovereignty of God

Reflections By #rookielifecoachApr 02, 2024

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Reflections special: embracing the Sovereignty of God

Reflections special: embracing the Sovereignty of God

In this special episode of Reflections by #rookielifecoach Avuyile Mngxitama-Diko reflects on how the first quarter of 2024 has changed her attitude towards praying for breakthroughs.
Apr 02, 202426:46
Let us hold on!

Let us hold on!

We close season of Reflections by#rookielifecoach as we are going to the new year. We wish every listener a happy and blessed 2024. We will announce the new season in due time. God bless you
Dec 28, 202320:53
Stranger to peacefulness

Stranger to peacefulness

In this episode of Reflections by #rookielifecoach Avuyile Mngxitama-Diko is reflecting on the journey of transitioning to a new spiritual community. This is an update on how the process is going so far. We hope you will enjoy this mini episode.
Nov 11, 202320:11
Looking for a new spiritual home

Looking for a new spiritual home

In this episode of Reflections by #rookielifecoach Avuyile Mngxitama-Diko reflects on the most difficult decision she took recently to part ways with a community she has been with for 8 years. Tune in to hear how it went down.
Oct 20, 202337:18
Depressed by my vision board!

Depressed by my vision board!

In this episode of Reflections by #rookielifecoach Avuyile talks about the vision board that has demotivated her lately. Tune in to hear the listen to the latest episode.
Oct 05, 202339:02
#rookielifecoach is back on Reflections

#rookielifecoach is back on Reflections

Welcome back to Reflections by #rookielifecoachAvuyile Mngxitama-Diko. This is a "hello I'm back" episode. I am filling you in about my whereabouts in the last few months.
Sep 07, 202333:26
Break announcement πŸ“’

Break announcement πŸ“’

Good #rookielifecoach listeners. Thank you for your continued support of Reflections by#rookielifecoach. We will be taking a break from the podcast for a few weeks. We will be in touch with details about when we will be able to come back. God bless you all πŸ™πŸΎπŸ™πŸΎ
Apr 17, 202301:32
Nb: Win a copy of my new book!           Topic: Fighting stigma in the Christian community

Nb: Win a copy of my new book! Topic: Fighting stigma in the Christian community

In the last episode of our mini-series this week #rookielifecoach talks about stigma faced by morden Christian women in the Christian community. We also have a giveaway of my new book. Answer two questions and stand a chance to win yourself a book. The winner will be announced in our next episode. Listen to the podcast on the details of the competition.
Mar 16, 202340:51
Update: I was in a funk lately.           Topic: Stigma after backsliding.        Booster: Naaman

Update: I was in a funk lately. Topic: Stigma after backsliding. Booster: Naaman

This week #rookielifecoach continues to talk about stigmas faced in the Christian community. Also gives a little update on life lately. We get a boost from the 2nd book of Kings 5 where God heals the Aramean commander Naaman from leprosy.
Mar 02, 202339:57
Facing the stigma from your Christian community. Part 1 (sickness)

Facing the stigma from your Christian community. Part 1 (sickness)

This week #rookielifecoach talks about human behavior in Christian communities. She shares her thoughts on how to deal with people projecting their fears on you and also stigmatising your struggles. How the mind of Christ is our way out when we experience church hurt.
Feb 09, 202339:07
Why I socially isolated for 3 years Part 2. Battles of coming back from social isolation.

Why I socially isolated for 3 years Part 2. Battles of coming back from social isolation.

#rookielifecoach. This is a wrap up of my chat about social isolation. I am aslo taking a break for a couple of weeks to enjoy the holidays and will be back next year. Merry Christmas and a happy new year.
Dec 16, 202235:02
Why I socially isolated for 3 years. Part 1

Why I socially isolated for 3 years. Part 1

In this episode of Reflections by #rookielifecoach Avuyile Mngxitama-Diko reflectson the reason why she socially isolated for three years in order to regain her confidence and experience a good mental health. She dwells on the pros and cons of isolating from many things in her life. How regular mental breaks help her to keep her healthy and peaceful.
Dec 01, 202239:56
We need to spread the love of God. People are suffering

We need to spread the love of God. People are suffering

This week on Reflections by#rookielifecoach we are talking about motivation how it can help people who are going through tough times.
Nov 17, 202234:25
The quest for redemption book. Let's talk about what you can look forward to when reading the book.

The quest for redemption book. Let's talk about what you can look forward to when reading the book.

In this episode of Reflections by #rookielifecoach I will be doing a little bit of reading from my memoir The quest for redemption. Please listen to the episode to learn more about my journey of seeking redemption.
Nov 03, 202234:45
New book alert ⚠ #rookielifecoach talks about her new book "The quest for redemption".

New book alert ⚠ #rookielifecoach talks about her new book "The quest for redemption".

In this new season I am introducing my new book "the quest for redemption" I am talking about the journey to getting published after so many years. Tune in to listen to my story and be blessed.
Oct 20, 202227:09
Being a stay-at-home mom

Being a stay-at-home mom

Today on Reflections by #rookielifecoach we talk about the job of being a stay-at-home mom. It's challenging but it's worth it for you and your family. Raising a familycan be overwhelming at the same time it can be the most fulfilling role.
Nov 12, 202130:40
Are we a loving community?

Are we a loving community?

#rookielifecoach reflects on the behavior of people in the Christian community. How can we change the world without condemning others.
Nov 01, 202144:32
Waiting with a good attitude.

Waiting with a good attitude.

This week on Reflections by #rookielifecoach we talk about how to wait for a breakthrough with a good attitude. Affirming your trust in God.
Oct 20, 202126:05
Part 2 of the journey of Salvation with Johnnie Isaac

Part 2 of the journey of Salvation with Johnnie Isaac

We are wrapping up our conversation about salvation and the challenges faced by believers with guest co-host Johhnie Isaac today. He reflects with #rookielifecoach about his experience as a young believer and why he took a break from the church years ago.
Oct 06, 202139:14
Understanding Salvation. Part 1

Understanding Salvation. Part 1

Today on Reflections by #rookielifecoach we discuss understanding the journey of salvation. With my guest co-host Johhnie Isaac we will each talk about our experiences in walking with God.
Sep 29, 202101:00:16
#Journey2union Makoti Part 2
Sep 16, 202134:30
#Journey2union Part 1. Getting married? Tune in to listen today on Reflections by#rookielifecoach

#Journey2union Part 1. Getting married? Tune in to listen today on Reflections by#rookielifecoach

This week on Reflections #rookielifecoach talks about the journey of marriage to the young women/men who are engaged or planning to be married soon. Stop signs to look out for, things to consider and getting the go ahead from God.
Sep 08, 202137:17
Is it an "Ishmael" that you're dealing with?

Is it an "Ishmael" that you're dealing with?

Sometimes we take decisions without consulting God and end up needing to be rescued by Him. Today on Reflections by #rookielifecoach we discuss how to deal with your "Ishmael".
Sep 02, 202134:46
No to dying! Part 2 of my journey with a lupus diagnosis.

No to dying! Part 2 of my journey with a lupus diagnosis.

Tune in to listen today on Reflections by #rookielifecoach as I conclude my story from the last episode on my journey with a lupus diagnosis.
Aug 25, 202139:16
Are they waiting for my death? Part 1 Journey with Lupus

Are they waiting for my death? Part 1 Journey with Lupus

#rookielifecoach on my birthday today I decided to tell you about my journey with a lupus diagnosis. I'm reflecting on the ups and downs of it all. Mostly grateful to God for carrying me through.
Aug 18, 202138:35
Happy Women's day. #affirmyou

Happy Women's day. #affirmyou

This season #rookielifecoach will be doing more "coaching" on the Reflections podcast. In this episode I discuss my favorite topic on Affirmations and Journaling.
Aug 09, 202123:44
Announcement of season 3

Announcement of season 3

#rookielifecoach will be back for season 3 of Reflections by#rookielifecoach podcast.
Aug 03, 202102:10
Check on your extended family member

Check on your extended family member

We are wrapping up our season 2 of Reflections by #rookielifecoach. Today I'm talking about reaching out to our extended family and friends. To try and break the silence between each other.
Mar 25, 202118:03
Day 4 of the #ForeverSeries on Reflections by #rookielifecoach

Day 4 of the #ForeverSeries on Reflections by #rookielifecoach

This week we sit down with one of my brothers Mr Mzileni talking to us about the #Forever journey and what he has learned through the 19 years of marriage. Do tune in on our last conversation on this series.
Mar 12, 202150:25
Day 3 of the discussion on the journey of marriage on our #ForeverSeries.

Day 3 of the discussion on the journey of marriage on our #ForeverSeries.

Our third guest on the #ForeverSeries is Loyiso Mlobeli. #rookielifecoach chants with him about his experience in marriage as a young man. Hope you will learn from this discussion enjoy.
Mar 08, 202144:07
Day 2 of the #ForeverSeries

Day 2 of the #ForeverSeries

#rookielifecoach continues the discussion of the marriage journey #ForeverSeries with second guest Noncedo Gogotya.
Mar 04, 202147:51
#ForeverSeries kick-starts our marriage dialogue as we welcome our first guest.

#ForeverSeries kick-starts our marriage dialogue as we welcome our first guest.

This March #rookielifecoach brings four guests for the #ForeverSeries on Reflections. We have different guests who will be chatting with us about the forever journey of marriage. Today we have Mrs N. Bhebheza from Grahamstown. Be blessed as you tune in. πŸ™πŸΏ
Mar 01, 202145:53
You don't have to

You don't have to

#rookielifecoach talks about creating personal boundaries to avoid being forever performing for people. This depletes your energy and you end up burned out by always pleasing everyone.
Feb 18, 202125:30
On Rebuilding yourself. Starting afresh.

On Rebuilding yourself. Starting afresh.

On Rebuilding yourself. This week #rookielifecoach talks about the journey of growth that she experienced three years ago. Do tune in maybe you could get a thing or two to boost your confidence. Enjoy Reflections by #rookielifecoach.
Jan 30, 202129:22
Navigate through this pandemic

Navigate through this pandemic

We are feeling anxious at times because of how this Covid-19 pandemic has affected us. #rookielifecoach encourages you to be calm and trust that God is in control. Hope you are blessed and encouraged by this episode.
Nov 28, 202025:11
#ThePulpitSeries with Unathi Sili

#ThePulpitSeries with Unathi Sili

Day 5 of the series #ThePulpitSeries we are wrapping up our series on Reflections by #rookielifecoach. We are chatting to Unathi Sili as we continue unpacking the Pulpit topic.
Nov 24, 202033:53
#ThePulpitSeries talking about Women in the Pulpit with Nwabisa Mashicila

#ThePulpitSeries talking about Women in the Pulpit with Nwabisa Mashicila

In this episode my guest Nwabisa and I are discussing how women need to step up when it comes to using the Pulpit. We talk broadly about the evolution of the church in allowing women to stand at the Pulpit, for them to preach or operate in their gifts.
Nov 21, 202039:46
#ThePulpitSeries A child's perspective

#ThePulpitSeries A child's perspective

Day 3 of the discussion on the Pulpit. We are talking to Mrs Naniswa Nyoka as she unpacks this topic from a child's perspective.
Nov 18, 202045:09
We are continuing with our discussion #ThePulpitSeries

We are continuing with our discussion #ThePulpitSeries

Today we have the phenomenal Pastor Polisa Mapitsha speaking to #rookielifecoach about the Pulpit. She talks about being in the Pulpit as a pastor and pastor's wife.
Nov 15, 202044:29
Day 1 #ThePulpitSeries

Day 1 #ThePulpitSeries

#ThePulpitSeries by the #rookielifecoach. We are opening our series on the Pulpit with Asanda Mhlakulo. She talks about how she views the Pulpit as a child of God.
Nov 11, 202045:32
Virtual church etiquette

Virtual church etiquette

#rookielifecoach is in conversation with Ginger the Voice about virtual church etiquette during the Covid-19 pandemic. Join us on Wednesday morning for a fun filled chat.
Nov 04, 202050:43
The #rookielifecoach is back.

The #rookielifecoach is back.

I've been away for a few weeks and I am back with season 2. We have a jam packed program for this season. Tune in to get details of what is coming up on S2 of Reflections by the #rookielifecoach
Nov 01, 202023:48
A Family Affair

A Family Affair

It's season finale on Reflections. This week I am honored to be cohosting with my sisters Andiswa and Ubenathi. We are reflecting on childhood memories.
Sep 09, 202054:37
Mental health in the Christian community. In conversation with Pastor A B Gogotya

Mental health in the Christian community. In conversation with Pastor A B Gogotya

This week we are talking mental health in the Christian community. Are we doing enough to assist those suffering with mental illness as the church? What can be done to educate the Christians community about supporting those who are not coping?
Sep 02, 202052:19
Persevering

Persevering

Encouraging someone who might be going through a tough time in this season. Hold on just for a while God will see you through.
Aug 30, 202010:52
Part 2 of Discovering Minimalism with Mvelie Mzingeli

Part 2 of Discovering Minimalism with Mvelie Mzingeli

We are talking about the minimalist lifestyle we have adopted with our families. How we maintain it, challenges we face and how it has changed our lives.
Aug 26, 202048:29
My versions

My versions

While I take a break from the #elevatingeachother I thought of talking about the versions I have to be as Avuyile. Fun filled thoughts as #rookielifecoach
Aug 23, 202027:01
Reflections: In conversation with opera singer Babongile Manga

Reflections: In conversation with opera singer Babongile Manga

Avuyile Mngxitama-Diko #rookielifecoach chats to Ntabankulu born Babongile Manga about her journey in becoming an opera singer.
Aug 19, 202033:06
Discovering Minimalism

Discovering Minimalism

Avuyile Mngxitama-Diko and Mvelie Mzingeli discuss their journey in discovering Minimalism and how life has changed. #elevatingeachother #rookielifecoach
Aug 12, 202037:19
In conversation with Busi Fundzo

In conversation with Busi Fundzo

#rookielifecoach Avuyile Mngxitama-Diko is in conversation with Busi Fundzo on how to turn your passion into business. This is part of Women's month special on Reflections.
Aug 07, 202015:07