Design Your Life
By Samuel Egharevba
The DYL conversations help provide clarity on regular life issues.
I and my partners share experiences and analogies to build a web of wisdom - for you. This enables you to develop a thorough understanding, and consequently to chart a unique path for your own genius.
Particularly, I build solid and life-applicable principles from my insights through the lenses of the bible.
Remember, life is already complicated. We all need simplified strategies to navigate.
I and my partners share experiences and analogies to build a web of wisdom - for you. This enables you to develop a thorough understanding, and consequently to chart a unique path for your own genius.
Particularly, I build solid and life-applicable principles from my insights through the lenses of the bible.
Remember, life is already complicated. We all need simplified strategies to navigate.
Design Your LifeMar 26, 2023
00:00
22:19
Fast and Slow | How To Make Right Decisions
Summary
Fast and slow is a concept that looks at how we analyze and engage with the world around us. It is based on the idea of simplifying our lives in order to make decisions more quickly and efficiently. We use the concept of fast and slow to help us make decisions without having to remember every single detail. We can automate our processes to save time for other things. Depending on the decision, it should be given the appropriate amount of thought and consideration. Mental models are thought processes used to examine a problem or make decisions.
Timestamps
0:00:00-Intro
0:00:38-Introduction
0:03:36-What is a Mental Model
0:04:16-How Mental Models are Applied
0:09:26-Advantage of Time
0:09:56-Why Mental Models
0:13:28-Mental Model in Nature
0:16:38-Mental Models in the Bible
0:21:12-Conclusion
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Mar 26, 202322:19
Scarcity is Unreal | Everything Is Either Enough or Surplus
Highlights
There are two types of mindset; the abundance and scarcity mindset. The scarcity mindset says there are limited resources and we have to compete to beat each other to it. This mindset is as old as the human race and it takes superior wisdom to damn it. This thinking seems to help motivate people instantly, but in the long run, it affects our family, career, finance, health, and faith life. It reduces human capacity and compromises our genius. You'd find all you need to evade and damn this mindset. When you start the journey, you'd realize it's not as hard as you imagined it to be. Honestly, scarcity is unreal. It does not exist, yet it exists. Still, it is unreal.
Timestamps
0:00:00 - Exploring the Scarcity Mindset: Understanding Why Scarcity is Unreal
0:01:05 - Discussion on the Mindsets of Scarcity and Abundance
0:03:59 - Exploring the History of Scarcity Mindset: Examining the Story of Cain and Abel and the Sperm Cell Race
0:07:11 - Exploring the Impact of Competition and Scarcity on Society
0:09:07 - Exploring the Scarcity Mindset: Understanding the Origins and Implications
0:09:08 - Exploring Solutions to the Scarcity Mindset: Examining the Concept of Toiling
0:10:53 - Exploring the Bible's Message on Opportunities and Scarcity
0:15:14 - Exploring the Economics of Scarcity: Examining the Supply and Demand of Fuel, Food, and Jobs
0:23:06 - Exploring the Capacity Within Why Jobs Are Not Enough
0:24:31 - Exploring the Concept of Scarcity: A Reflection on Jesus Christ's Message of Abundance
0:25:00 - Exploring Your Inner Resources: Achieving the Flow State
Summary
The conversation discussed the issue of a scarcity mindset and how it can be found in all aspects of life, from family to career to finance. It was explained that toiling, or the idea that things are not easy to come by, is something that has been around since Adam and Eve. This suggests limitation and competition, as people struggle to acquire what is available. The scarcity mindset is the idea that there is a limited number of resources, opportunities, and positions, and that some people will not be able to get them. The abundance mindset is the opposite, believing that there is enough for everyone. The scarcity mindset is an ineffective way of looking at the world and the abundance mindset is an effective cure for it. The conversation delves deeper into the concept of scarcity and the abundance mindset so that people can understand that scarcity is actually an unreal concept.
Links to other relevant content on the DYL Show
1. Discover Your Scarcity Mindset And Delete It here
2. Post-covid 19 | Dealing With The Scarcity Mindset here
Mar 11, 202324:45
How To Choose A Good Career Path
On this episode, we explored the vital step in launching any career. Then, we moved up to explain how we can align our career to give us better expression. Why even bother? It's simple! Humans are limitless and cannot be constrained otherwise, they start to resist it. We've seen examples of this as midlife career crisis, job dissatisfaction, declining workers engagement and more. People can always put in their best if they can express their ingenuity. In this conversation, we explored a simple technique in finding your ultimate career and how you can begin to realign yourself to it because that's the only thing you should do in this season.
Feb 25, 202327:37
Moving From One Universe To Another | Part 2
Explore the potential of parallel universes. This conversation explored the concept of moving between parallel universes, and how each universe has its own reality that defines what is possible and what isn't. The conversation discusses the idea that reality is temporal, meaning that it is always changing and what we see will always give room for something else. Our dreams gives us some understanding to how realities vary. Jesus teaches us an important concept on the existence and how to activate it. It's that simple.
Feb 21, 202324:09
You Are Living A Fake Life | Here's How To Rebel
Have you done a personality, strength, or temperament test? If you're anything like me then, it's yes yes yes. All these online assessments diagnose who you are and prescribe some change pills for your betterment. Sometimes it works and you see yourself improve, sometimes it's hard to tell. The thing is this: while the test is correct, you are wrong. You are wrong because you think you have weaknesses, preferences, and prejudices. You have been influenced almost 99% by all that has been going on since your birth. You are now a product of your environment and not your true self. Where did your true self go? It's locked up somewhere. Now you have a borrowed identity and look like that fake (borrowed) identity. But you must clean up and retrace your steps. Old things are passed away, all things are now new. You don't want to miss this episode.
Feb 09, 202329:29
How To Find Your Motivation And Use It For All Changes
It's the post-covid era and many changes have occurred. More changes ahead. Change in skill, job, work relationship and more. These days, you may have to pivot in one area or another. But how can you easily make changes when evidently some changes are easier than others. And some changes are plain difficult and often slow because we struggle with them. Change is easy when you know what motivates you. You can then connect your motivation to a new change process. Viola!
Jan 30, 202357:03
Parallel Universe | Moving From One Universe To Another | Part 1
What if you don't want much gravity effect?
You want to just walk out of the topmost floor of a
skyscraper and keep moving in the air.
If so, then you have to consider moving to another
universe.
There are way lower gravity in some places and universe than on earth.
Things happen; remember some of your nighttime dreams, where you
moved between two locations unaided by an automobile
or airplane?
How did you do it?
In that world, such transport system didn't limit you. If you experience certain realities and you are fed up, you
can move to another place where your desired
experiences are present.
For example, if you experience doubts and fear because
of the obvious things around you, why not move?
Remember, every universe has its own realities
Choose your realities and move! That, is your new universe.
You want to just walk out of the topmost floor of a
skyscraper and keep moving in the air.
If so, then you have to consider moving to another
universe.
There are way lower gravity in some places and universe than on earth.
Things happen; remember some of your nighttime dreams, where you
moved between two locations unaided by an automobile
or airplane?
How did you do it?
In that world, such transport system didn't limit you. If you experience certain realities and you are fed up, you
can move to another place where your desired
experiences are present.
For example, if you experience doubts and fear because
of the obvious things around you, why not move?
Remember, every universe has its own realities
Choose your realities and move! That, is your new universe.
Jan 20, 202325:49
If You Start From Failure Then, You Will Have To Fail
Ever heard people accept defeat and call themselves all sort of things, but quickly conclude the talk with an assurance of success in the future? If you are not a success now, you can never be a success in the future no mater where you are or the investment you put. Zero will give birth to zero. Negative births negatives. Positives birth positives. Whatever you set out to achieve ensure you start from there while still journeying there. 😁
Jan 16, 202322:02
The Goal Is Not The Goal
Fresh into the new year and you are already setting stringent goals because you failed to achieve a lot in 2022? Relax! On this episode, you'd find how to still stay balanced despite the seeming reality of falling short of your goals. Sometimes, a goal can be achieved without your knowledge. Because if you insist on goals then you're missing out. Listen to this episode and know how to properly evaluate if your goals were and are achieved.
Jan 13, 202320:26
Discover Your Scarcity Mindset and Delete It
We are aware of scarcity as a concept, but we may be unaware of scarcity as a mindset. The scarcity mindset is a lens through which people see the world. Through that lens, all people see is finite resources and a limited supply of things. In that light, there is the possibility of exhaustion, depletion, lack, insufficiency, and unavailability. But if we must thrive as an individual, nation, and race (human) then, we must look beyond being overly cautious, guarded, and risk-averse. We must never allow these factors to define our can-do and be the front-burner of conversations. We must remain true to our ingenuity and see abundance.
Dec 08, 202113:34
How To Close The Gap Between The Life You Live and The Life You So Desire w/ Dawna Campbell
We wish for better. We want better. Sometimes, we know how to get to better, but often, we remain stagnant and continue to fuel our hopes. You don't want to get past this one. On this episode, Dawna will help position your mind to understand the science behind living the best life. Be it health, relationship or wealth, she's got it figured out. And if you still want more clarity then, watch out for the next episode.
Aug 08, 202131:29
Putting Yourself Out There | Interview with Tracy Lamourie—Founder of Lamourie Media
Tracy is a high profile international award winning publicist and author of the upcoming book, GET REPPED! I call her the quintessential queen of PR. This episode detailed her experiences across industries and geographies. She guides seekers on how to effectively put themselves out there for all to see. With the post-covid season, it's way better now. Perfection is only paralysis. When you've done your homework then, you're ready for be on a centre stage. Tune in.
Jun 29, 202129:46
By Design, Not By Default | Interview with Loren Greiff—Founder of Portfoliorocket
Ever heard someone say they are just trying to get by? Or what would be would be? Sadly, these are statements that reflects facts and are correct based on certain happenings. So, it's only easy to conclude that such is life. But hey, wait up! If we all agree to sit still then, we wouldn't have found a vaccine for covid-19, right? So, the whole idea of life is to keep moving despite hurdles. But who wants to move without a map? On this episode, Loren detailed strategies that are essential for young professionals navigating the workplace. It's by an intentional design, not a default state. So, get ready! What's most interesting is that those ideas cut across all life's issues. You want to tune in.
Jun 20, 202128:59
Taking Imperfect Actions Now! | Interview with Angel Ribo-CEO Confidant
Often, we wait for perfect. Guess what? Perfect does not exist on our planet. There's only work in progress. In this episode, Angel detailed on many useful concepts in navigating the entrepreneurial clime, and generally life. Everyone has a target audience and we must not sacrifice our message for unfounded or founded fears. Sit back and enjoy.
Jun 12, 202135:38
Obstacles or Stress | How you can position and make them a piece of cake
7-plus billion people across 7 continents find themselves in similar situations. With no exception, we all experience challenges, face obstacles, and encounter difficulties. It is an accepted occurrence of life. We no longer try to avoid, because therein lies more pain. Rather, we continuously look for ways to deal with it. But for you, what is it like to face obstacles? Do you get anxious, distressed, troubled or depressed? Or perhaps, you've found a way to deal with certain challenges. In this episode, I detailed on an easy path to living a stressless life — the one where you smile to obstacles and she smiles back at you. The key is to keep the broad picture at heart always!
May 30, 202148:25
Creativity | The four easy frameworks you can consider to think-out-of-the-box
You've heard statements like: "think out of the box!", "change the rules!", "create your own thing!". Right? And, many times, you are unsure the exact way to go about a creative process. Or, you may have wished that creativity was as simple as stumbling on a piece of revolutionary idea - maybe while sleeping or working in a laboratory. Look, as random as creativity seem, there is a framework you can install to birth many creative moments. In this episode, I highlighted four structures you can utilize to birth your eureka moments. Sit in on this one.
May 12, 202133:31
Post-covid 19 | How you can co-exist as two persons and get better results and profits
This is strange... "coexisting as two persons? No way!" Relax. Just relax. In this episode, you'd learn about a secret tool no one ever mentions, yet it is the knowledge you need for this post-pandemic season. The tool is "time". When you know how time works then, you can gain on time, and maybe even cheat time to your advantage. The idea is this: in these times, you don't want any form of limitations to hold you back. You want to scale up, move higher, exceed targets or even become a better person. Listen in on this episode, as we unwind a massive strategy that no one mentions.
May 03, 202125:17
Post-covid 19 | How you can produce massive results sustainably in 2021 and down
Do you think you're in control of the media? Of course not. How about your thoughts, are you in control? Maybe... Sometimes, yeah. Many times, not so well. The thing is this: we are constantly on the receiving end of information. We don't necessarily plan to have knowledge of all these information, but somehow they get to us. There are four things I shared in this episode. Things we need to control, coordinate and manage. Our devices, the media, friends, and our thoughts, the vital-four we must structure to ensure maximum productivity. It's all on us to design our lives. In this conversation, I reflected on essential strategies to deploy in becoming our best in this post-pandemic season.
May 02, 202125:45
Post-covid 19 | Learning the new rules of the 2020s | Positioning for relevance
Ever heard that we are in the new normal? Of course! And, it's fast becoming a cliche. I mean, many people say it but don't really know what to expect. Do you know what to expect? It's tough. Here and there, many speculations, predictions, and evaluations. Overall, we know things have and will change. But, is it to your good? In this episode, I uncovered some of the things you have to watch out for. Also, how you can position, because, indeed, that's what will govern the successes of the years following.
Apr 28, 202139:30
Post-covid 19 | Dealing with scarcity mindset | The one that create limitations.
From 'searching for opportunities' to 'looking for that big idea', if you are not careful, you'll constantly see things from a scarcity perspective. You would always believe that certain things are in short supply (if not everything). In this episode, I uncovered the patterns of scarcity mindset, how it affects and threatens our collective progress as humans. I posited that we must ditch many narratives like, 'ideas are not new'. It's a terrible way of thinking. As always, it limits possibilities. If you must do and be more in this post-covid era, definitely you must think from a superior plane. That's how to design your life.
Apr 13, 202134:60
Post-covid 19 | The struggles | How your identity can help you win
It's common knowledge that we are pretty much on reset. The world has changed. It's the new normal. And, it has been tough emotionally, financially and otherwise. So much stress on our livelihood. All these are challenges that pose as obstacles. These things certainly would limit you if you don't design for yourself a better world. Yes, you can design your own world. One that can enable you to win in the bigger world. But how can you do that? In this episode, I share on the vital frameworks to set in other to take a giant or small leap. Your identity is the only tool you have left to rely on. Your identity is not what you are defined as, it's who you truly are on the inside. So, let's delve deep in this episode.
Apr 09, 202115:51
Post-covid 19 | Getting it all wrong
Most of us are still waiting patiently for vaccines. It's fine. It would get to us eventually. But, hey, you should only wait for vaccines. Don't wait for others to determine what happens next in the world. Don't wait for just about anyone with an idea to decide what we do next. You too can decide that. Just listen to the conversations everywhere. Policy makers, organizations, governments etc. are seriously trying to decipher what and what not to do. Many people are trying out things. So, why wait up? Begin to share your own ideas. Begin to put your genius out there. Even your products. Put it out there. Don't remain insolvent with your ideas trying to judge if it's good enough or not. In this episode, I revealed what would guide the next level of sustenance for our collective future. It behooves on you to supply your genius to humanity as this point. So, let's do this.
Apr 07, 202113:02
Post-covid 19 | The 1% winners and the 99% masses | I hope you are not losing already
Post-covid 19 is here. At least, everyone agrees on that. For many people, it's time to gradually accept the new normal. And for a handful, they are already living it. But, particularly for you, have you come to accept this change? In this episode, I shared that awareness is never enough. Accepting the new normal is not enough. You must begin to chart a clean course for yourself and whatever you do, in order to thrive in this new world. Yes, it's a new world. Believe it or not, these new changes would affect everyone in some way. But, you want to position yourself to ensure that the changes don't go south on you. To be at an advantage then, beyond the energy of what-is-happening, you must get into deeper conversations like what-is-really-going-on. With that simple strategy, you would know, understand, and apply superior wisdom to position yourself. I shared on strategies you can begin to implement to feature among the 1%. Trust me, the 99% will play catch-up.
Apr 05, 202131:20
Ideas | Turning small ideas to massively profitable ideas
I want a Zuckerberg kinda idea. Yes. I want an Einstein's or Leonardo's kinda. These are laudable feats and noble aspirations. But, do we know how to walk from where we are to where we desire? In this episode, we share on a vital tool of self expression which then allows any user to walk freely and gladly from desire to achievement.
Apr 01, 202110:26
Success | How to become more than you are
Success looks like it is about external metrics. Such as money, likes, followings, awards etc. But for most, through that process, they were able to release their innate potentials. In this episode, we shared on a useful tool to engage that self-same process. Put yourself out there! But wait, what exactly should you put out there? Put yourself. Your true self.
Mar 31, 202110:11
Multi-talented? | Here's how to use it all at once
I like science. I like marketing. But I love photography as well. And I love to paint! Doesn't these sound like confusion? Which one should I pick? Which one should I abandon? Tough call. In this episode, you would understand that it's possible to be many things. However, you must understand the science of breaking down your talents into gifts, then aligning yourself to those cellular framework. From there, you can understand many things and know quickly what to do and what not to do. Also, you can still be many things without suffering from the popular maxim of: jack of all trades, master of none. Be a winner.
Mar 25, 202113:02
What to do in life | The simple logic that can grant clarity
What can I do in life? How do I know what to do? All these questions are sincere. And they deserve a satisfying answer. Many answers previously given is shrouded with many complexities. In fact, we further rely on many other complex structure to help unwind. Hence the confusion. In this episode, we charted a course on how to clearly pick a path that can lead anyone to significance and fulfillment. You should try it out. Knowing what to do in life can be a simple process if you have the understanding.
Mar 23, 202115:43
Endangered species | How to remove yourself from that list
Though an unpopular idea, the concept of being an endangered species calls for reflection. This is not a talk on animals' extinction rather, it focuses on humans. Endangered species refer to categories of people who are hardpressed to function under abnormal human conditions thus, limiting the full expressions and genius of their individuality. Once you cannot fully express your gifts, talents, and potentials, you fall into this class. In this episode, I created a framework that can help you in the design of your life (by you and for you). Really, you can move out of this endangered class and start to make the rest of your life the best.
Mar 21, 202113:06
Clarity | The surprisingly simple way to making decisions and choices.
Of course, you will always have to make decisions. Same here, I make decisions regularly. Some decisions may be more important than others, true. But the pervading question is "how can I make the right decisions... one that I will be happy about even in the future?" Tough question. Yet, that question must be answered. In this episode, I share that clarity is what everyone needs in making decisions. Once you are clear then, you can make the right decision. But then, how do we achieve clarity? Join in the conversation, and learn the effective strategies needed in making decisions. Really, decisions are easy to make when you have clarity.
Mar 12, 202112:50
Obstacles | The normal way to becoming better
If you think challenges, obstacles, problems, difficulties, trauma, and pain should be avoided then, you are missing out on something important. All humans go through this phase at some point. One thing you can be certain about is that: it is not a happy experience. In this episode, I introduce a profound way to approach challenges. Especially, in this decade; the 2020s. Truly, you must advance beyond the common, ordinary and trite and move in to newer experiences. One thing is certain, after you successfully go through a challenge, you are rewarded with growth.
Mar 09, 202112:52
Growth | Selecting the right books to read
All knowledge are not the same. And with many books comes many ideas and knowledge. While every knowledge is valuable, you must recognize that audiences differ. You may not need certain kinds of information. In this episode, learn how to spot contents that are right for you and also, learn to sequence that knowledge in a way that is easy to build upon.
Mar 02, 202111:54
Bookkeping | Unexplored concept for many personal successes
Many times, we desire to untangle or unmask the subject of wisdom. Wondering sometimes, we ask ourselves if we possess wisdom or just knowledge. What exactly is wisdom? Is there a way to get it? What must I do to get it? Is there some wisdom school? Vital questions. In this episode, I shared that knowledge is not wisdom. Knowledge is the pathway to wisdom. But there are certain patterns we must create to journey and reside there. Bookkeeping is a vital step in the direction of wisdom.
Feb 27, 202112:44
Bookkeeping | A path to all-round success
When we hear "bookkeeping", we think finance. Yep! That's right - finance. However, it doesn't only function in such circles. The concept of bookkeeping, when applied to personal life, can be a rewarding experience. A source of personal and applicable wisdom. Wisdom is not a complicated subject when bookkeeping is practiced. In this episode, I explain the essence of keeping books (they could be e-notes of course!) and how it is directly connected to success in many aspects of life. I went on to show the limitation of sticking solely to diaries and journals in our bid to become better. Truly, to be more, we must do more.
Feb 27, 202114:16
Who am I? | How to discover your true self
No matter how bold we are, the question "who am I?" forces on us some degree of soberness and reflection. Very few are able to answer such question. Sadly, even that number is declining. In response to the question however, many have turned to numerous places, activities, and people to seek clarity. In this episode, I revealed a critical determinant to understanding ourselves and knowing how best to navigate. Indeed, knowing who we are is foundational to many successes in life.
Feb 27, 202123:06
Who am I? | Where-to-look in defining yourself
Your Personality is only a tool. Same as your profession, family heritage etc. Tools are resources you deploy. So, who are you on the inside? In this episode, I used the analogy of any market product/service to drive a clear yet, simple call to action.
Feb 24, 202107:46
Who am I? | Who you are on the inside
This episode speaks to a critical question on identity; "who am I". "Who are you on the inside?" On this session, I charted a clean course to enable anyone (with just a desire to) learn. Your Personality is not your identity. Your career & profession isn't. Your skills, talents, family heritage etc. fall short as well.
Feb 24, 202109:06