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Sapphire's Earplay

By Mehgan Sapphire

“It’s foreplay for your ears...just press play.”
In a world where sexuality and Black Identity isn’t always accepted, meet Sapphire, radio personality, queer icon, and sexuality connoisseur. Unfiltered and unapologetic, speaking the truth even when it’s uncomfortable.
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Forging Alliances with The Blacksmith (Visual)

Sapphire's EarplayApr 07, 2024

Forging Alliances with The Blacksmith (Visual)

Forging Alliances with The Blacksmith (Visual)

An unlikely ally upon first glance, the Blacksmith (@⁠Black_Cat_Metalworks-⁠IG, ⁠the_saltycaptain⁠-Twitch) has been organizing everything from presentations on consent & scene-building to leading workshop labs on impact & psychological play, as well serving as an accomplice to the LGBTQIA+ and BIPOC communities for over 15 years. In this episode, Sapphire and the Blacksmith go over risk managment in BDSM and what it truly means to be an ally to those who find themselves fetishized in the world of kink.


Want more of the Blacksmith?

Fetlife   TheBlacksmith_

Twitter | the_saltyCPT

Stay connected⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/msradiosapphire




Apr 07, 202401:09:00
Forging Alliances with The Blacksmith

Forging Alliances with The Blacksmith

An unlikely ally upon first glance, the Blacksmith (@Black_Cat_Metalworks-IG, the_saltycaptain-Twitch) has been organizing everything from presentations on consent & scene-building to leading workshop labs on impact & psychological play, as well serving as an accomplice to the LGBTQIA+ and BIPOC communities for over 15 years. In this episode, Sapphire and the Blacksmith go over risk managment in BDSM and what it truly means to be an ally to those who find themselves fetishized in the world of kink.


Want more of the Blacksmith?

Fetlife   TheBlacksmith_

Twitter | the_saltyCPT

Stay connected⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/msradiosapphire



Apr 07, 202401:08:58
Gettin' Intimate With Herpes featuring Cassie Black(VISUAL)

Gettin' Intimate With Herpes featuring Cassie Black(VISUAL)

What happens when two women who are horny for horror, have herpes and share a love for adult entertainment get together?! Listen as Tricia Wise aka The Safe Slut and newbie to p*rn as Cassie Black comes back for an intimate discussion on maintaining her herpes status while breaking down the barriers in the adult industry.

Want more Cassie Black and Safe Slut?:

⁠https://linktr.ee/Safe.slut⁠

⁠https://thecassieblack.com/⁠

Stay connected⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/msradiosapphire


Mar 03, 202457:03
Gettin' Intimate With Herpes featuring Cassie Black
Mar 03, 202457:00
F*ck Yo' Valentine's Day: Polyamory Edition
Feb 15, 202401:14:48
Bring Da Mayhem with Mandy Mayhem (Visual)

Bring Da Mayhem with Mandy Mayhem (Visual)

A new year and a new era is coming to Sapphire's Earplay! What better way to kick off the show's new vibe than with special guest Mandy Mayhem (@MandyMayhem-IG, @MsMandyMayCheetham-TikTok) LEGENDARY in her own right and paving a new wave of p*$$y power for the rap game. The ladies discuss their bedroom habits, why LA dating apps are TRASH, and find out what kind of "cakez" Mandy serves Sapphire.


Want more of Mandy Mayhem?:⁠ https://linktr.ee/mandamurhead⁠

⁠https://artsyfartsypr.com/store⁠


Stay connected: ⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/msradiosapphire⁠








Jan 21, 202401:03:33
Bring Da Mayhem with Mandy Mayhem
Jan 21, 202401:03:32
The Filthy MFer: Vic Lagina

The Filthy MFer: Vic Lagina

If porn needed a "What to Expect" book, Filthy: The Rise and (Pending) Death of Vic Lagina would be it. Legendary (and former) Brazzers/Mindgeek director, producer, and camera operator Vic Lagina(@viclagina-IG, Twitter) gets naughty with Sapphire about his wild experiences in the porn industry. Aside from the wild tales, they discuss the importance of mental health and hygiene for sex workers and civilians.


Want more Vic Lagina? : https://linktr.ee/viclagina

Stay connected: ⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/msradiosapphire⁠





Jan 07, 202401:11:47
Polyamory Is NOT A TREND

Polyamory Is NOT A TREND

Sapphire hosts an impromptu on the MŌN App after a recent episode of MTV's Catfish has someone say they're "Poly because it's trending". She had to call upon Niyyah, (@heauxonthegeaux-IG) to discuss the toxicity of influencers using alternative lifestyles as a trend.

Stay connected: ⁠https://linktr.ee/msradiosapphire


Dec 27, 202337:57
Your Partner Doesn’t Define Your Sexuality
Dec 10, 202355:34
"I Know Better Now" Sex Myths
Nov 19, 202358:06
Submit to Safety with Free The Kink
Nov 13, 202352:03
Raiding Granny Panties with Ruby Lynne
Oct 22, 202349:43
F*** Buddy to Fiancé
Oct 15, 202347:21
Wordplay 4 Your Foreplay with Ruan Willow
Jul 30, 202352:10
Pridefully Unapologetic with Gregg Aronica
Jul 09, 202352:39
Sapphic Lovin' With J. Marie
Jul 02, 202301:02:23
Sex Sells...Confidence Costs More with Isabelle Miller
Jun 18, 202352:37
Kinkin' Da Faith with The FlyDuo
Jun 04, 202357:26
Uncensoring Porn, Unlocking A Revolution with Free the Kink
May 28, 202343:36
Cougar N Spice with Mistress K
May 21, 202301:15:35
Kinky Like A Mutha with Aine

Kinky Like A Mutha with Aine

Can mothers be kinky and still represent motherhood? Priestess Áine(@PriestessAine-IG, Twitter) of The Flaming Yoni podcast and SlutSisters Sanctum(@sssanctum_ -IG) joins Sapphire to discuss the double standard society puts for mothers in kink.

Want More Aine? https://linktr.ee/sexualchemy

Stay connected: https://linktr.ee/msradiosapphire


Sources from this Eargasm:

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2021/feb/09/kink-anthology-book-fear-shame

https://nypost.com/2022/06/16/over-20-of-parents-wont-talk-to-their-kids-about-sex-poll/

https://boldpleasures.com/featured/parents-have-to-be-equals/


May 14, 202301:04:15
May the 4th Cum With You
May 05, 202349:06
Respect Our Black Kings with CuckMatchMaker

Respect Our Black Kings with CuckMatchMaker

What makes a Black man a King? Has the word "Hotep" been ruined by the association with toxic masculinity? Meet Pharaoh aka CuckMatchMaker (@cuckmatchmaker-Twitter, @cuckmatchmaker1-IG), a Black King and bull to many in the world of the BNWO, including The MŌN App community. Sapphire and Pharaoh discuss the importance of boundaries and expectations in the cuckold community through a bull's eye.


Want more Pharaoh? Visit: https://linktr.ee/cervixcommander https://thesensualcircus.com/

Stay connected at: https://linktr.ee/msradiosapphire


Apr 23, 202355:29
Psychedelic and Rediscovering Orgasms with Tara Galeano

Psychedelic and Rediscovering Orgasms with Tara Galeano

Did you know the female body releases a natural form of psychedelics during orgasm?!? That's right, cervical orgasms release a form of DMT which puts the body into an altered, relaxed state. Meet Tara Galeano, a certified sex therapist who has worked with women and couples for over two decades to get their sexy back. Sapphire and Tara discuss the spiritual connection of sex and rediscovering yourself through the power of orgasms.


Want more Tara? https://www.boldersextherapy.com/ and buy her book Rediscovering My Body at: https://rediscoveringmybody.com/

Stay connected at: https://linktr.ee/msradiosapphire


Apr 16, 202352:47
Horny 4 Horror: It Follows & Contracted

Horny 4 Horror: It Follows & Contracted

What do these movies have in common when it comes to sex and awareness?! Sapphire shares a retrospective of two of the most controversial horror films of the last decade and their ties to Sexual Assault Awareness and STI Education Month!

Stay connected at: https://linktr.ee/msradiosapphire



Apr 10, 202342:14
Queen Of Spades or Queen of Controversy? With Lady Anaconda

Queen Of Spades or Queen of Controversy? With Lady Anaconda

The term Queen of Spades (QOS) has always been met with controversy surrounding the BNWO and race play. Meet Lady Anaconda(@ladyanacondaelite-IG, @LadyAnacondaHOA), a dominant cuckoldress who thrives on educating privileged men on white fragility and the importance of amplifying Black Kings and Queens. Often met with controversy herself as a white woman, Lady Anaconda joins Sapphire to tell her story and set the record straight on what being a QOS is all about.


Want more Lady Anaconda? : https://ladyanacondahoa.com/

Stay connected at: https://linktr.ee/msradiosapphire


Mar 26, 202352:54
Sapphire's Spanktacular 34th Birthday

Sapphire's Spanktacular 34th Birthday

Sapphire is officially 34! And what better way to celebrate than to reminisce over the sex ghosts of birthday's past with a special appearance from Mr. Suit & Tie giving birthday floggings! Joined by the MŌN-sters from the MŌN app asking her ANYTHING and EVERYTHING, this is one birthday Eargasm you won't soon forget.

Stay connected at: https://linktr.ee/msradiosapphire

Mar 24, 202356:51
Consensual Affairs With Venus Cuckoldress

Consensual Affairs With Venus Cuckoldress

Venus Cuckoldress(@venuscuckoldresspodcast-IG, @CuckoldressV-Twitter) is a full time producer and host of The Venus Cuckoldress Podcast and founder of Venus Connections, a private matchmaking service for singles who are looking for a loving cuckolding relationship. In this episode, Sapphire and Venus explore the controversial yet progressive world of cuckoldry and the similarities this alternative lifestyle shares with polyamory .


Want more Venus?: https://linktr.ee/venuscuckoldress

Stay connected at: https://linktr.ee/msradiosapphire



Mar 19, 202350:32
Scare-Rousal With Monsters

Scare-Rousal With Monsters

Monster F*ckers Anonymous (@m.f.adesigns-IG, TikTok) isn’t your typical toy company. Meet Brutus, the Silicone Wizard of MFA, joining Sapphire to discuss the hype of monster dildos and other enhancements for anyone who wants take their bedroom skills to the next level!

Want More MFA Designs? : https://www.mfa-designs.com/links 

As mentioned, use promo code "SapphiresEarplay" for 20% off ALL products at: https://www.mfa-designs.com/

 Stay connected at: https://linktr.ee/msradiosapphire

Mar 05, 202358:38
You Don't Know BNWO

You Don't Know BNWO

King Dom is a Black Sex positive, Kink & BDSM promoter and practioner. On the Mon app and other platforms, he has been able to use audio erotica to connect with people over Black Kink as well as controversial topics like The BNWO. In this special, learn about The BLACK New World Order, a safe space for all BLACK Kinksters, Fetish Enthusiasts, Lifestylers, and anyone curious about BDSM and Kink to be themselves without judgment or scrutiny from anyone.

Want more King Dom? : https://t.me/serveYOURGODKingDom

Learn more the BNWO: https://theblacknewworldorder.com/

Stay connected at: https://linktr.ee/msradiosapphire

Feb 26, 202301:11:40
Lust.Life.Love: A Polyamorous Love Story

Lust.Life.Love: A Polyamorous Love Story

Stephanie Sellars (the_stephaniesellars-IG) is the writer, director, and leading lady of Lust Life Love (2021), a semi-autobiographical love story with Polyamory at the front and center. Sapphire and Stephanie explore the true and cautionary aspects of real life polyamory in the film and the upcoming movement for PolyAm representation in popular culture.


Want more Stephanie? https://linktr.ee/stephaniesellars 

Enjoy the movie: https://www.lustlifelove.com/

Stay connected at: https://linktr.ee/msradiosapphire

Feb 19, 202348:13
F*ck Yo' Valentine's Day: A Hookup Horror Stories X Earplay Crossover

F*ck Yo' Valentine's Day: A Hookup Horror Stories X Earplay Crossover

It’s that time of year where love is in the air…and nope, fuck that! Join Demi Wylde (@DemitriWylde-IG,Twitter)  from Hookup Horror Stories(@HookupHorroStories-IG, @HookupHorrorPod-Twitter)  and Sapphire (@MsRadioSapphire-IG) for a crossover episode of Hookup Horror Stories and Sapphire’s Earplay! From dating horror stories to the reasons why V-Day is overrated! So grab a drink, puff a little something, and get ready for one hell of an Eargasm!

Want more Demi? https://linktr.ee/demitriwylde

Stay connected at: https://linktr.ee/msradiosapphire

Feb 13, 202350:24
Becoming A Smart, "Sassi" Heaux

Becoming A Smart, "Sassi" Heaux

Meet Sassi, the "Sassittarius"(@TheSassittarius-IG, Twitter) a phone sex operator who loves spilling the tea about Adult Entertainment! Sassi and Sapphire discuss the pros, cons and benefits of why sex work and the entertainers need to be protected; not mention why with every fun side of business has its dark moments.

Want More Sassi?

Connect with her and her services:

 https://onlyfans.com/sassittarius 

 https://www.niteflirt.com/Sassittarius 

https://sextpanther.com/Sassittarius


Stay connected at: Msradiosapphire.com, https://linktr.ee/msradiosapphire


Feb 06, 202301:00:30
MILF Manor and Reality TV F*ckery

MILF Manor and Reality TV F*ckery

TLC's MILF Manor has the Internet cringing with it's twist take on moms finding love. Sapphire and her MŌN-sters discuss why this show has officially crossed the lines of mother/son relationships, the downfall of reality TV and why parents need not to know EVERYTHING about your sex life. 

Stay connected at: Msradiosapphire.com, Download MŌN on your smart devices and follow Sapphire on IG: @MsRadioSapphire, @SapphiresEarplay


Jan 30, 202352:26
"It's Not Just A Sex Thing" With Miss Nookie

"It's Not Just A Sex Thing" With Miss Nookie

Meet Miss Nookie, a hedonistic dominant cuckoldress-pimptress who is polyamorous and monoromantic but also the creator of Dating Kinky. (@DatingKinkyOfficial-IG, @DatingKinky-Twitter). As non-monogamy, polyamory and open relationships becomes more mainstream, it's time to talk about the realness and differences between these types of relationships. 

Want more of Miss Nookie?

Miss Nookie is hosting The It's Not Cheating (It's Also Not Polyamory) Virtual Event January 27-29 2023 in which is also seeking guest speakers and moderators to join! 

To attend: https://notcheating.com/

 To be a speaker: https://notcheating.com/present

Be sure to check out Dating Kinky and sign up today! https://datingkinky.com/


Stay connected at: Msradiosapphire.com, Download MŌN for your Apple devices and follow Sapphire on IG: @MsRadioSapphire, @SapphiresEarplay Stay connected at: Msradiosapphire.com, Download MŌN for your Apple devices and follow Sapphire on IG: @MsRadioSapphire, @SapphiresEarplay

Jan 09, 202354:11
Get Schooled In the Industry with Marcela Alonso

Get Schooled In the Industry with Marcela Alonso


Marcela Alonso(@marcelasobella-IG) is not your average Adult Digital Creator. With a career that spans over 20 years in sex work, she makes it very clear her business is NOT pornography but pure adult content. Redefining what it means being Latina in a very Blonde haired , blue eyed industry she joins Sapphire in discussing how she's overcome stereotypes, being a mother in this line of work and why its important to give Brown and Black bodies a voice in this industry. 

Stay connected at: Msradiosapphire.com, Download MŌN for your Apple devices and follow Sapphire on IG: @MsRadioSapphire, @SapphiresEarplay Stay connected at: Msradiosapphire.com, Download MŌN for your Apple devices and follow Sapphire on IG: @MsRadioSapphire, @SapphiresEarplay

Nov 02, 202247:32
Makin' Love, Redefining Social Sex

Makin' Love, Redefining Social Sex


MakeLoveNotPorn(@MakeLoveNotPorn) is revolutionizing the Adult Entertainment world by bring realism and representation through REAL WORLD SEX. Joined by Social Sex Curator and Educator, Niyyah(@heauxonthegeaux), Sapphire discusses how MLNP uses social media tools to promote real life eroticism and narratives.
Stay connected at: Msradiosapphire.com, Download MŌN for your Apple devices and follow Sapphire on IG: @MsRadioSapphire, @SapphiresEarplay

Stay connected at: Msradiosapphire.com, Download MŌN for your Apple devices and follow Sapphire on IG: @MsRadioSapphire, @SapphiresEarplay
Oct 12, 202242:48
Horny 4 Horror: F*CK MARRY KILL EDITION

Horny 4 Horror: F*CK MARRY KILL EDITION

Kinktober continues with a spin on a game of FMK, HORROR style! Sapphire shares her thoughts on some of your horror faves, the monsters that turn us on and the killers that make us hear wedding bells.
Stay connected at: Msradiosapphire.com, Download MŌN for your Apple devices and follow Sapphire on IG: @MsRadioSapphire, @SapphiresEarplay
Oct 10, 202235:13
H*rny For Horror: Kinktober Edition

H*rny For Horror: Kinktober Edition

The queen of spooky returns with more tricks 'n' treats with her MŌN-sters just in time for Kinktober!
Tis the season for summoning sexy ghosts and witches in the bedroom, however beware for those kinks that may take it too far. *Content Warning* some of the acts mentioned may trigger some Earbuds, so listen at your own risk.
Stay connected at: Msradiosapphire.com, Download MŌN for your Apple devices and follow Sapphire on IG: @MsRadioSapphire, @SapphiresEarplay
Oct 02, 202201:13:42
Aural Sex with Lala Loves

Aural Sex with Lala Loves

Step into the world of audio erotica with Lala Loves(@lalasbedtimetales-IG), founder of Lala's Bedtime Tales! Lala chats with Sapphire about the importance of Black Erotica in an audio medium, the mental health benefits of audio erotica, and MORE!

Want more of Lala's Bedtime Tales?!? Visit: https://www.lalasbedtimetales.com/

Stay connected and listen to all episodes at Msradiosapphire.com and follow Sapphire on IG: @MsRadioSapphire, @SapphiresEarplay, and @msradiosapphire on the MŌN App 

Download MŌN at themonapp.com for all Apple and  NOW Android devices!


Sep 05, 202254:20
The Return of Squirtalicious: A One Night With Sapphire Special
Aug 22, 202201:10:30
Lovin' Your Friends: A One Night With Sapphire Special
Jul 24, 202249:34
Come On Bi: A One Night With Sapphire Special

Come On Bi: A One Night With Sapphire Special

Pride month is here! Sapphire shares her journey of being a bisexual/queer woman of color and how her sexuality has evolved. From having a higher body count in men to now being almost solely attracted to women, find out how this has affected her dating life! It's another LIVE ON MŌN special you won't soon forget!
Stay connected at: Msradiosapphire.com, Download MŌN for your Apple devices and follow Sapphire on IG: @MsRadioSapphire, @SapphiresEarplay


Jun 06, 202244:18
It's Not All Penetration: A One Night With Sapphire Special
Apr 04, 202252:22
You Got No Business : A One Night With Sapphire Special

You Got No Business : A One Night With Sapphire Special

What friends are you “allowed” to have in your relationship(s)? Is there a “guest list” enforced by your partner? Sapphire is back on the MŌN App with some fellow MŌN-sters discussing the red flags surrounding controlling partners and the importance of transparency in relationships, regardless of how intimate or not you become in them.

Stay connected at: Msradiosapphire.com, Download MŌN for your Apple devices and follow Sapphire on IG: @MsRadioSapphire, @SapphiresEarplay
Mar 07, 202201:11:15
H*rny For Horror Part 3: A One Night With Sapphire Special

H*rny For Horror Part 3: A One Night With Sapphire Special


It's the final chapter of the horror eargasm with some of the last horror movies that turned us on, scared us into a sexual tease, or were simply overrated. Sapphire and the MŌN-sters wrap up their discussion of how sometimes your imagination is the most sexual part of your body.

Stay connected at: Msradiosapphire.com, Download MŌN for your Apple devices and follow Sapphire on IG: @MsRadioSapphire, @SapphiresEarplay
Feb 21, 202227:57
H*rny For Horror Part 2: A One Night With Sapphire Special

H*rny For Horror Part 2: A One Night With Sapphire Special

Back for some more gory turn-ons? In this part 2 of 3 special, Sapphire and the rest of the MŌN-sters discuss which horror movies from Black culture you ABSOLUTELY must see, get turned on by, or get freaked out from! Also, find out what twisted fantasy Sapphire wishes to fulfill in the bedroom in what may be her bloodiest reveal yet!

Don't miss the epic conclusion after this episode!
Stay connected at: Msradiosapphire.com, Download MŌN for your Apple devices and follow Sapphire on IG: @MsRadioSapphire, @SapphiresEarplay
Feb 21, 202255:33
H*rny For Horror Part 1: A One Night With Sapphire Special

H*rny For Horror Part 1: A One Night With Sapphire Special

Sapphire's BACK! Taken from a live chat hosted on the new app MŌN, listen to the first part of THREE episodes coming later this month! In this part, you'll hear from some sexy guests in the chat including some Earplay faves: Trish Wise(@safe.slut-IG), Mr. Suit & Tie(@theoldbenriver-IG) and some new Earbuds discussing why scare zones, certain horror experiences beyond the movies make the perfect date to set the mood,  why your body may find itself more turned on by a blood bath on screen than scared, and more! Parts 2 & 3 will be dropping February 20th!  Stay connected at: Msradiosapphire.com, Download MŌN for your Apple devices and follow Sapphire on IG: @MsRadioSapphire, @SapphiresEarplay
Feb 07, 202201:02:09
Being Cocky With Confidence with Emmy Morgan
Dec 13, 202101:08:24