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The healthy dating preservation podcast. If you're looking for relationship advice, we don't have it for you. It's all casual here! Start your week with us biweekly on Mondays for tips, trends, stories and more. To have your dating story included or if you trust us to give you advice, email us at savethedatesos@gmail.com
Follow us on twitter @imaniorwhatever @okaykandice
The healthy dating preservation podcast. If you're looking for relationship advice, we don't have it for you. It's all casual here! Start your week with us biweekly on Mondays for tips, trends, stories and more. To have your dating story included or if you trust us to give you advice, email us at savethedatesos@gmail.com
Follow us on twitter @imaniorwhatever @okaykandice

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Ep. 60 Cookies From Coworkers
THE GIRLS ARE FIGHTING OVER COOKIES! How far is TOO far with holiday gifts from coworkers and are we running down on the office flirts? Let's chat.
1:05:24
December 9, 2019
Ep. 59 Outta Your League
Have you ever wanted to talk to someone but felt like they were out of your league? Has someone ever approached you and you thought “I’m way out of your league” ? Let’s talk leagues. Are they real? Should we stick to the rivers and lakes we’re used to or shoot our shot?
1:06:57
November 19, 2019
Ep. 58 College Romance
We know how it goes, you graduate high school, you go to college, you meet the love of your life, you get married, and live happily ever after? Right? Is college romance expected? Is it realistic? Is it even necessary? Let's talk about it.
1:17:25
November 4, 2019
Ep. 57 Do Me A Favor
Hey! Kandice and Imani are back together this month with a new episode on doing favors and borrowing. How do we feel about being asked for favors from a love interest? Should we wait until it's official? How early is too early? How much is too much? Let's chat!
1:10:13
October 7, 2019
Ep. 56 If Time Stood Still
This episode is brought to you by Studio 17 Creative Podcaster Jam Session. It’s a collaborative episode with Imani, Dally Dal from Open Bar Radio, Diana Oh of The Fox Orlando, and Jay of Ciroc Obama podcast. The topic was “If time stood still for everyone but you, what would you do?” Enjoy!
24:38
September 24, 2019
Ep. 55 Ok Inspector Gadget...
Romance and grand gestures seem to go hand in hand. On this episode, Kandice and Imani explore what the deal is with grand gestures good and bad, and hear from a listener who had some technical difficulties with her grand gesture. Tune in and join the conversation!
1:07:50
September 9, 2019
Ep. 54 The Trauma That Binds
It’s human to seek community with people who share similar experiences. But when does that get dangerous? On this episode Kandice and Imani explore trauma bonds, talk what we want in and bring to a relationship and about how DNA can be used to help find a partner in as short as 20 years from now 😳 join the conversation!
1:04:16
August 26, 2019
Ep. 53 With Siblings Involved
Kandice and Imani have discussed how our families influence our dating styles. Now they’ve learned or siblings play a bigger part than we realize. On this episode we talk siblings, hot girl summer, and an almost ridiculous pick up line 😭
1:14:24
August 12, 2019
Ep. 52 A Summer Fling
What is a summer fling?? Why have so many people had them?? What do you do when the feelings start?? Let’s chat.
47:31
July 29, 2019
Episode 51: Toxic Two Times Too Many
The show has covered toxic relationships but this time it’s about how to leave and how to be a good friend when it’s your friend’s turn to go through it. Let’s chat!
1:12:53
July 16, 2019
Ep. 50 SAY SOMETHING BABY ft. Our friends Donte and Nekos
We finally had some men on again for y’all. This episode we talk to our friend Donte and our new friend Nekos of the Views from a Jerk Podcast about what to do when there’s a communication break down. Is it a women/men issue? Or is it simply that we need better tools? Let’s chat!
1:19:56
July 1, 2019
Ep. 49 Got A Big Ego
How hard is it for you to apologize when you're wrong? Do you think someone you're not in a relationship with just yet is worth an apology or even a second chance when they apologize? Let's talk about it!
1:31:08
June 17, 2019
Ep. 48 Friendly Exes
Hey guys! We hope you enjoyed your Memorial Day break from us because we’re back again to ask the difficult questions. Can you successfully be platonic friends with your ex?? Let’s chat. Also, Kandice has big news! And our 2 year anniversary is right around the corner! Don’t forget to leave us some feedback and follow us on Instagram @savethedateshow!
1:21:40
June 4, 2019
Ep. 47 Bae is Not An Acronym
*** Warning! There is unedited cursing in this episode. We left it in because it's hilarious. If you would like to skip past it, skip the Rescue Me segment.  What's in a petname? Do you like to be called Baby? Babe? Bae? Boo? When is it too early for all of that? What's the rule on petnaming other people if you're not exclusive? Imani and Kandice discuss that and more in this episode. Check it out! Don't forget to leave us a rating and a review in the Apple Podcast App! Thank you for listening!
1:06:41
May 13, 2019
Ep. 46 Mixed Status Friend Groups (Ep. 45 Pt. 2)
We continue the conversation from last week with a little insight from our friends Ashley and Justin. What's it really like to have mixed relationship statuses within the friend group? What's so tough about having single friends? What's tough about being the single friend? Is it ok to be jealous of one or the other? Let's chat!
1:41:07
April 30, 2019
Ep. 45 Old Friend New Bae
When your close friends get close to a new love interest, if you're not careful, it has the potential to totally alter the preexisting friendship dynamic. How do you handle losing a friend to their new lover? How do you support your friend while not necessarily supporting their relationship? Lots of questions and we attempt to answer them. There's a bunch of nostalgia in this episode so buckle up! 
1:19:19
April 8, 2019
Ep. 44 6 Degrees From Kissing Cousins
On this episode Kandice and Imani explore how the concept of 6 Degrees of Separation is really evident in our dating lives. How many mutuals is too many? Where do you draw the line at the kind of relationship to the person you two have in common? 
1:18:55
March 25, 2019
Ep. 43 What Are We??
Do we really NEED titles on our relationships? Does what's understood really need to be explained. This episode Kandice and Imani explore (or re visit) the issue of placing titles on relationships, what titles are appropriate and important, and discuss a new dating trend that involves one of our favorite social media platforms. 
1:33:08
March 13, 2019
Ep 42. My Mama/Daddy Said (Ft. Tino on Background vocals)
On this episode Imani and Kandice discuss parental expectations when dating. How much does what your parents think about your significant other matter? What if your parents don't approve of your partner? Is it possible to give parents a healthy level of involvement in your dating life? All being discussed on this episode. Imani's dog Tino was also very fed up that he couldn't be included in the conversation so he decided to let his voice be heard to. 
1:08:28
February 25, 2019
Ep. 41 My Funny Valentine
Valentine's Day is on the way! Kandice shares a variety of pickup lines (All of them inappropriate) Kandice & Imani share some date and gifting tips, a listener shares a near fatal Valentine's Day experience and everyone shares lots and lots of laughs. Imani got a little fancy with the edits this episode so let us know what you think! Follow the show on Instagram @savethedatepodcast for a special Valentine's Day Match Making game! Rules for participation are on the post. 
1:18:45
February 11, 2019
Ep. 39 The Chase
HEY! Happy 2019! In the first show of the new year, Kandice and Imani explore the difference between chasing/being chased and pursuing/being pursued. Make sure to sound off and let us know your thoughts!
1:10:25
February 6, 2019
Ep. 38 And That's a Wrap 2018
On this episode, Imani and Kandice share some things they learned in 2018 and things they want to manifest for themselves in 2019. They also share 11 favorite lessons from 2018's episodes. There were a bunch of episodes this year so of course there were many more moments not included in this episode. What 2018 Save the Date Show moments were your favorite?
49:47
February 6, 2019
Ep. 37 Booked and Busy
Dating takes a lot of time. What do you do when you don't have much of that to spare? How about when your love interest isn't very available? On this episode we explore the busy world of the dating, working, millennial with our friends Rachel Jackson of the RJackson Agency and Dante Jenkins, a professional in the automotive industry.
1:16:09
February 6, 2019
Ep. 40 So Disappointed
Dating comes with a lot of disappointment, in many different forms. If we're not careful, we can let it overshadow our dating experience. On this Episode, Kandice and Imani discuss dating disappointments and how to handle them as they come. 
1:23:07
January 28, 2019
Ep. 36 Goin up for the rebound
When one thing ends another begins. But when is an appropriate time to begin something new? Are we on the rebound?
1:11:50
November 26, 2018
Ep. 35 Pillow Talk
On this episode, Imani ain't keepin no cheatin secrets and Kandice advises that you just stay in the pickle. This episode is all about pillow talk. Get in on the conversation!
1:07:59
November 12, 2018
Ep. 34 The Potential Episode
On this episode Kandice and Imani talk dating someone for their Potential and a little bit of cussin.
1:19:02
October 30, 2018
Ep. 33 Material
What are you made of? Is it wifey material? Do we even really care? Let's chat!
1:22:33
October 16, 2018
Ep. 32 Gimme A Break
On this episode Imani & Kandice explore "taking a break" and the terms of the time apart. They also take a look at a new dating trend called "orbiting." Stalker much?? Check it out!
1:09:11
September 24, 2018
Ep. 31 Trust Issues
Trust is the foundation of all our relationships. How early should we be concerned with building it? Kandice and Imani talk early signs of trust and how to overcome trust issues.
1:15:31
September 11, 2018
Ep. 30 Settling for Safe
When it comes to dating what's the why behind choosing someone? Are you trying to build or are you just bored? Do you want passion or do you want stability? Is there a balance or do you wind up compromising? Kandice and Imani talk settling and convenience on this week's episode.
1:30:51
August 27, 2018
Ep. 29 Keep That Same Energy
Imani and Kandice talk what it's like to be bored while dating verses comfortable and how to fix it.
58:08
August 13, 2018
Ep. 28 A Smile and a Tongue Flick?
On this episode, Imani and Kandice explore the ancient ritual known as... flirting. What is it? How do we do it? When is it too much? Let's talk about it!
1:10:20
July 30, 2018
ep. 27 Love, Time & Pressure ft. Stefanie Johnson
We date, then we like, then we love, then what? And when? And How?? Does time or pressure make for a better foundation? Imani, Kandice talk love at first sight and other foundational elements of relationship building with special Guest Stephanie Johnson of Lifetime's series Love at First Sight and CEO of Singles & the City
1:33:11
July 16, 2018
Ep. 26 Birthday Sex Part 2(The Anniversary Show) Ft. Cheryl
We're still celebrating our 1 year anniversary! In part 2 of our anniversary special, we discuss sex, consent, and shame. We're learning how to talk to one another about sex when it's time to go there. Join the convo!
1:11:48
July 2, 2018
Ep. 25 Birthday Sex (The Anniversary Show) Ft. Rob Kowalski
IT'S OUR BIRTHDAY!!! We're officially 1 year old so let's have some birthday sex! At any point during the dating process the topic is bound to come up. So in a special 2 part episode we talk with a few guests about introducing sex, abstinence, boundaries, consent and much more.
1:38:05
June 26, 2018
Ep. 25 Birthday Sex (The Anniversary Episode)ft. Rob Kowalski
IT'S OUR BIRTHDAY!!! We're officially 1 year old so let's have some birthday sex! At any point during the dating process the topic is bound to come up. So in a special 2 part episode we talk with a few guests about introducing sex, abstinence, boundaries, consent and much more.
1:38:05
June 26, 2018
Ep. 24 Single and Choosy
There's a lot of ways to be single. Imani and Kandice talk about which ones they chose and why.
1:33:09
June 18, 2018
Ep. 23 Is it a date? or a DATE date?
So there's this thing apparently called "predating"... Don't worry, Imani and Kandice don't know what it is either. Listen in as they explore a seemingly new concept in the culture of casual dating.
1:03:51
June 4, 2018
Ep. 22 Relationship Goals
What's the deal with idolizing moments in other people's lives? Are relationship goals ruining the dating process? Imani and Kandice explore the trouble with making celebs relationship goals and discuss some more realistic alternatives.
1:17:53
May 14, 2018
Ep. 21 Ain't Nothin But a Number
The popular saying goes, "Age ain't nothin but a number." But is a large age gap in your dating pool really telling you something? On this episode we talk age gaps, and that one time when Kandice was almost kind of like a sugar Mamma. Enjoy!
1:24:07
April 30, 2018
Ep. 20 Hello Barbara? This is Shirley...
Kandice and Imani record on location with the homie Nardy as a guest host. So on this episode we're coming to you as a woman. Well... two women. And a man. Y'all get the point.
1:25:43
April 16, 2018
Ep. 19 Give it Up
What are you willing to sacrifice for a partnership? How soon is too soon to be sacrificing? Imani and Kandice discuss sacrifice and compromise on this week's episode.
1:31:15
April 2, 2018
Ep. 18 Wait a Second
What's your next move after you hear "I'm sorry our first date didn't go well... I was high"? First dates are important but on Episode 18 Kandice and Imani explore the importance of second dates... if we even make it there.
1:09:43
March 19, 2018
Ep. 17 Who Said That?
We all hold on to what we consider acceptable ways to date and try to avoid unacceptable dating practices but who taught us that? How did you learn to date? Kandice and Imani explore the road to dating and learning the ropes on this week's episode.
1:23:01
March 5, 2018
Ep. 16 ProBAEte Season
How do you preserve privacy in your dating life? What's the difference between privacy and secrecy? How do you slowly reveal your bae to the public? Imani and Kandice talk preserving privacy on this week's episode.
1:34:02
February 19, 2018
Ep. 15 In the House
Of all the places to date, why not just stay in...? On this episode we talk in home dating, how soon is too soon, weird home dating experiences and in-home dating ideas.
1:04:33
February 6, 2018
ep. 14 Over and Under
Where is the line between intimacy and just plain oversharing? What do you need to immediately put out in the open and what should you hold off on until further notice? We explore first date and early dating over and undersharing and help out a young lady with an unexpectedly intimate dating encounter on episode 14.
1:29:22
January 22, 2018
Ep. 13 What are you Giving?
Holiday season is gift giving time. When is the right time to introduce gift giving into a dating scenario? What kinds of gifts are "good" gifts? How do you tell your boo you don't like the gift? We cover it all on Episode 13.
1:09:29
December 19, 2017
Ep. 12 Family Matters
Holidays bring food, fun, and lots of family. If you're dating you might be meeting your boo's family for the first time! Imani and Kandice discuss family dynamics with help from stories from listeners and a few guests.
1:15:30
November 20, 2017
Ep. 11 Double Dipping
What is there to learn from dating an ex? Are you willing to give it a try? Or have you been there, done that, got a t shirt and can no longer worry? Kandice and Imani explore the possibilities on this week's episode.
1:27:47
November 2, 2017
episode 10!!! Learning Curve: Slumber Party Edition
IT'S THE 10TH EPISODE AND WE'RE IN THE SAME ROOM! In this episode, Kandice and Imani bring in a few friends to talk about rejection as part of the dating process.
1:31:24
October 17, 2017
Ep. 9 Online Dating: Catfish and Anchovies
On this episode we discuss the conveniences and inconveniences of online dating, how much of a role a social media profile should play in the process and unrealistic expectations.
1:37:00
October 2, 2017
ep. 8 Pre (Cuffing) Season Games
The holidays and a hurricane threw us off schedule but we're BACK! "cuffing season" is on the way, what's your roster looking like? On this episode Kandice and Imani explore navigating casual dating with open options and the element of competition.
1:28:11
September 18, 2017
Ep. 7 Don't Eat Where you [redacted]
We spend so much time in places like work, church, school etc. Is it wise to date within these groups? Let's talk about it?
1:17:03
August 21, 2017
Ep 6. Living Single & Nontoxic
What's it like dating fresh out of a relationship? How soon is too soon? How should we proceed after a toxic relationship? Let's talk about it!
1:31:53
August 7, 2017
Ep. 5 Parental Advisory
Dating is already interesting enough. What happens when there are kids involved?
1:30:54
July 24, 2017
Ep. 4 Lovers and Friends
We explore the line between platonic friends and romantic love interests.
1:47:38
July 10, 2017
Save the Date Podcast Ep. 1
An introductory date with the dating preservation podcast! Meet Kandice and Imani and let's talk about dating.
1:19:10
June 26, 2017
Ep. 3 Law of Attraction
Attraction drives most our interactions with our potential partners. What's attractive and what's not?
1:10:16
June 26, 2017
Ep. 2 Catching Flights and Feelings
Dating is already difficult enough, but what if your boo lives miles and miles away? This episode we explore long distance dating!
1:12:19
June 26, 2017
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