Save The Date Show

It’s the last episode of the year! We've learned so much this year, so we decided to mash up our Lessons Learned segments from 2020 for your listening pleasure. Enjoy! See you next year!

So there's a clip of a popular couple's content going viral in which the husband has a very interesting question for his wife about their sex life... or lack thereof... and monogamy. So this episode explores ultimatums. What are they? What are they used for? Who benefits? Let's chat! 

Hey family! We're back! Thanks for hanging in there with us! Sorry for the late episode but it's still lit! Why do we loooooove bad boys? Do nice guys ACTUALLY finish last?? Let's talk it out!

DISCLAIMER: This episode is more explicit than our normal episodes. If you have littles you may want to rethink this episode Lol

Hey guys! We linked up with our friends over at The Chef the Angry & the Adam Podcast for this fun Quarantine episode where they asked us a lot about dating and shared some of their views as well. This episode originally dropped on their platform but we wanted to share too because it's HILARIOUS. Thanks to the guys for having us on their show! 

We're talking about Plural dating so we have plural guests on the show and they're both men Lol. In the wake of August Alsina telling his truth about his relationship with the Smith family, specifically Jada, we talk Plural dating and open relationships with Brother Nova, a poly dating enthusiast, and Just GQ from the Travel Guydes Podcast. It gets... interesting. Lets chat!

Welcome listeners! We're back and there's quite a bit to discuss here lately. How do we introduce these discussions into our vetting processes for dating? Are these even conversations we need to worry about having while casually dating? Let's chat!

**disclaimer** this episode has just a bit more profanity than normal so keep in mind if there are children nearby. 

What's like to be millennial, married, divorced, and back on the dating scene? Kandice and Imani have no idea. Which is why they've called on their friends CJ and Shona for their perspective. Dating after ending a marriage can be a lot so let's chat about it!

What does it mean to Ride or Die? How can you tell if someone will ride for you before you even get serious? What's the difference between Ride or Die and blind loyalty? Let's chat!

2 is a couple, a 3rd wheel is a crowd but a wingman is a party! On this episode Kandice and Imani talk 3rd wheels, the issues and how to navigate them and how to be a really good or REALLY bad wingman. Let's chat!

Who or what exactly is a Lame Lance? or Lame Linda? What do we do when we simply cannot bear someone's personality? Let's unpack.

When dating, you're usually looking for someone with whom you share at least a few things in common right? Is that even necessary though? Let's chat about it. 

**Disclaimer** somehow the audio mixed incorrectly and there are places where it sounds like we're talking over one another. We apologize! We couldn't fix all the spots but we hope it doesn't completely ruin the episode for you! This decade has been an interesting one to say the least. Listen as Kandice and Imani recap some dating trends, some of the celebrity relationship gossip from the decade and our biggest lessons.

THE GIRLS ARE FIGHTING OVER COOKIES! How far is TOO far with holiday gifts from coworkers and are we running down on the office flirts? Let's chat.

We know how it goes, you graduate high school, you go to college, you meet the love of your life, you get married, and live happily ever after? Right? Is college romance expected? Is it realistic? Is it even necessary? Let's talk about it.

Hey! Kandice and Imani are back together this month with a new episode on doing favors and borrowing. How do we feel about being asked for favors from a love interest? Should we wait until it's official? How early is too early? How much is too much? Let's chat!

We continue the conversation from last week with a little insight from our friends Ashley and Justin. What's it really like to have mixed relationship statuses within the friend group? What's so tough about having single friends? What's tough about being the single friend? Is it ok to be jealous of one or the other? Let's chat!

When your close friends get close to a new love interest, if you're not careful, it has the potential to totally alter the preexisting friendship dynamic. How do you handle losing a friend to their new lover? How do you support your friend while not necessarily supporting their relationship? Lots of questions and we attempt to answer them. There's a bunch of nostalgia in this episode so buckle up! 

On this episode Kandice and Imani explore how the concept of 6 Degrees of Separation is really evident in our dating lives. How many mutuals is too many? Where do you draw the line at the kind of relationship to the person you two have in common? 

Do we really NEED titles on our relationships? Does what's understood really need to be explained. This episode Kandice and Imani explore (or re visit) the issue of placing titles on relationships, what titles are appropriate and important, and discuss a new dating trend that involves one of our favorite social media platforms. 

On this episode Imani and Kandice discuss parental expectations when dating. How much does what your parents think about your significant other matter? What if your parents don't approve of your partner? Is it possible to give parents a healthy level of involvement in your dating life? All being discussed on this episode. Imani's dog Tino was also very fed up that he couldn't be included in the conversation so he decided to let his voice be heard to. 

Valentine's Day is on the way! Kandice shares a variety of pickup lines (All of them inappropriate) Kandice & Imani share some date and gifting tips, a listener shares a near fatal Valentine's Day experience and everyone shares lots and lots of laughs. Imani got a little fancy with the edits this episode so let us know what you think! Follow the show on Instagram @savethedatepodcast for a special Valentine's Day Match Making game! Rules for participation are on the post. 

HEY! Happy 2019! In the first show of the new year, Kandice and Imani explore the difference between chasing/being chased and pursuing/being pursued. Make sure to sound off and let us know your thoughts!

On this episode, Imani and Kandice share some things they learned in 2018 and things they want to manifest for themselves in 2019. They also share 11 favorite lessons from 2018's episodes. There were a bunch of episodes this year so of course there were many more moments not included in this episode. What 2018 Save the Date Show moments were your favorite?

Dating takes a lot of time. What do you do when you don't have much of that to spare? How about when your love interest isn't very available? On this episode we explore the busy world of the dating, working, millennial with our friends Rachel Jackson of the RJackson Agency and Dante Jenkins, a professional in the automotive industry.

Dating comes with a lot of disappointment, in many different forms. If we're not careful, we can let it overshadow our dating experience. On this Episode, Kandice and Imani discuss dating disappointments and how to handle them as they come.