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By Say What?

On the say what? podcast, we help Christian women overcome toxic purity culture, be confident in their sex lives, heal from painful sex, and feel less alone!

Hanna believes that everyone has a seat on her couch, regardless of who you are, and it will never be too full for you to sit down. She currently lives in North Carolina with her husband, Thomas, her son, and her dog. Let's talk about things people don't want to say... out loud!
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E20 - Acupuncture, Mental Health & Christianity

say what?Sep 07, 2020

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All About Breastfeeding
Apr 17, 202427:09
Your CRAZY Sex Stories!! w/ Caroline Hughes
Apr 10, 202446:59
is marriage hard?
Apr 03, 202429:48
Zoloft saved me/postpartum rage
Mar 27, 202441:09
Body smells, birth control, & my pastor won’t speak to me?
Mar 20, 202445:44
Keeping things FUN & spicy! w/ Thomas

Keeping things FUN & spicy! w/ Thomas

Hanna’s husband Thomas joins her today to talk about their 5 year anniversary!!! They each share 5 things they have learned in 5 years, answer your questions, and play the game “we’re not really strangers”


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Mar 13, 202453:46
Easing into PP sex w/ Dr. Lindsay Massumi
Mar 06, 202401:02:18
i keep saying "no" to sex
Feb 28, 202436:12
How I Overcame Purity Culture
Feb 21, 202442:57
a new era!!!
Feb 14, 202440:35
E135 - How Vaginismus Affected My Birth

E135 - How Vaginismus Affected My Birth

On this episode, Hanna answers a question she has received a lot since giving birth: did vaginismus have an impact on the birth process?

Jul 10, 202325:35
E134 - Postpartum Sex w/ Thomas Ward

E134 - Postpartum Sex w/ Thomas Ward

Hanna’s husband joins her today to talk all about postpartum sex & how fatherhood is going for him so far!
Jun 26, 202353:36
E133 - What if Pelvic Floor Physical Therapy Doesn’t Work?
Jun 12, 202344:01
E132 - Postpartum Sex, OCD, Working Mom Stuff

E132 - Postpartum Sex, OCD, Working Mom Stuff

Hanna is back!!! In this episode she shares general life updates, how postpartum is going, her husband’s OCD diagnosis, and more!
May 29, 202346:23
E131 - Answering Your Birth Questions

E131 - Answering Your Birth Questions

Picking up from last week, Hanna answers listeners questions about her birth.

Feb 06, 202339:57
E130 - My Birth Story!

E130 - My Birth Story!

Hanna had her sweet baby boy on Christmas Day! She shares her birth story that starts with her apartment flooding and ends with a Christmas baby. Stay tuned for part 2 when she answers your questions!

Jan 30, 202344:22
E129 - How I'm Prepping for Birth
Dec 12, 202234:00
E128 - Naturally Increase Sex Drive! - Q&A

E128 - Naturally Increase Sex Drive! - Q&A

Today, Hanna answers your questions about pregnancy, masturbation, sex drive, and more!

Dec 05, 202241:04
E127 - 27 Things I Learned by 27

E127 - 27 Things I Learned by 27

This week is Hanna's birthday! In this episode, she will be sharing 27 things she has learned in her 27 years of life!

Nov 28, 202246:19
E126 - Pregnancy Sex & 3rd Trimester Things!

E126 - Pregnancy Sex & 3rd Trimester Things!

Hanna shared all about pregnancy sex & some unexpected things 3rd trimester has brought her.

Nov 21, 202245:33
E125 - Can We Be Friends?? - How to Maintain Friendships as an Adult w/ Nicole Worm

E125 - Can We Be Friends?? - How to Maintain Friendships as an Adult w/ Nicole Worm

This week, Hanna and her friend Nicole talk about what it's like to keep friendships as adults!

Nov 14, 202257:37
E124 - You Don’t Have to Have Sex on Your Wedding Night

E124 - You Don’t Have to Have Sex on Your Wedding Night

Today Hanna shares YOUR wedding night advice!!

Oct 31, 202234:45
E123 - All About Primary Vaginismus w/ Tessa Crenshaw
Oct 24, 202201:07:29
E122 - When Your Body Changes

E122 - When Your Body Changes

Today Hanna has a nuanced conversation about the feelings you experience when your body starts to change & how being pregnant has affected her view of her body.

Oct 17, 202246:32
E121 - Early Signs of a Pelvic Floor Disorder

E121 - Early Signs of a Pelvic Floor Disorder

Today, Hanna shares some signs & symptoms of a pelvic floor disorder & how to distinguish between pain & discomfort. Grab your dilators here! https://www.intimaterose.com/products/silicone-dilator-4-pack-small-sizes-1-4?ref=SAYWHAT
Oct 10, 202249:40
E120 - Vaginismus and Pregnancy!
Oct 04, 202251:51
E119 - Honeymoon Essentials!
Sep 26, 202230:41
E118 - Orgasms!

E118 - Orgasms!

Today Hanna chats about how purity culture contributes to women struggling with orgasms!
Sep 19, 202243:07
E117 - Who's The Best Kisser? - Newlyweds Game with my Husband

E117 - Who's The Best Kisser? - Newlyweds Game with my Husband

Hanna & her husband Thomas play the Newlywed game! Get to know them a little bit better through these random & sometimes juicy questions!
Sep 12, 202245:21
E116 - Saying “No” Is Not Mean!
Sep 05, 202235:24
E115 - Purity Culture Promises Marriage, But Scripture Doesn’t

E115 - Purity Culture Promises Marriage, But Scripture Doesn’t

Hanna shares a pregnancy update and talks about how purity culture promises marriage, but the Bible does not!

Aug 29, 202238:23
E114 - Making a Baby - 1st & 2nd Trimester Updates

E114 - Making a Baby - 1st & 2nd Trimester Updates

Today I give an overview of first and second trimester of pregnancy and answer your questions!

Aug 15, 202241:59
E113 - Prepping for Pregnancy!

E113 - Prepping for Pregnancy!

Hanna shares how she prepared her body for pregnancy.
Aug 08, 202223:52
E112 - Women’s Safety Tips w Lauren Wester, CEO of Lavngarde
Aug 01, 202201:08:28
E111 - Pregnancy Anxiety

E111 - Pregnancy Anxiety

Today I talk share anxieties I have experienced while being pregnant & what has helped me. I also share your responses & what has helped you!

Jul 25, 202250:08
E110 - When Your Partner Has More Experience Than You

E110 - When Your Partner Has More Experience Than You

On this episode, Hanna talks about ways to block out comparison for people in a relationship where their partner has more sexual experience or exposure than they do.
Jul 18, 202233:38
E109 - Why I Won’t Use Hormonal Birth Control Again

E109 - Why I Won’t Use Hormonal Birth Control Again

Hanna shares an update on her journey with hormonal birth control!
Jul 11, 202231:21
E108 - Sex is for you, too 2.0!
Jul 04, 202238:13
E107 - Purity Culture's Empty Promises
Jun 27, 202247:30
E106 - I'm Pregnant!!!

E106 - I'm Pregnant!!!

Hanna shares her good news!! If you are experiencing infertility, I am so sorry. You are not alone ❤️
Jun 13, 202240:56
E105 - ________ Girl Summer
Jun 06, 202229:03
E104 - Boys Will Be Boys

E104 - Boys Will Be Boys

Hanna chats about the saying “boys will be boys” and how we can change the narrative!

May 30, 202235:14
E103 - It’s Been a Tough Couple Weeks - Ways to Deal w/ Mental Health
May 23, 202246:02
E102 - Your Sweet Stories w/ Caroline Hughes

E102 - Your Sweet Stories w/ Caroline Hughes

Hanna’s bestie Caroline joins her to share YOUR sweet stories!
May 16, 202234:08
E101 - Q&A! Prepping for Summer, Confidence During Sex, Wedding Gifts
May 09, 202236:01
E100 - Happy Two Years!!! + Your Healing Stories
May 02, 202232:39
E99 - Strategies to Deconstruct Purity Culture w/ Dr. Camden Morgante
Apr 25, 202250:16
E98 - All Things Pregnancy w/ PFPT, Laura Meihofer
Apr 18, 202201:08:56
E97 - Is It Wrong to Dilate Before You Are Married?
Apr 11, 202226:34
E96 - Tips for Your First Gynecology Appointment

E96 - Tips for Your First Gynecology Appointment

Hanna shares her tips for going to the gynecologist! 


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Apr 04, 202234:57