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What happened to you? with Sebastian Scales

What happened to you? with Sebastian Scales

By Sebastian Scales

Welcome to the podcast! 'What happened to you?' is dedicated to normalizing conversations about trauma using humor.
My name is Sebastian and I do stand-up comedy about being molested as a kid. Laughing about my experience allowed me to begin processing and healing from what happened to me. Humor is an amazing gateway into deeper conversations and emotions.
From child molestation to cancer to double parental suicide, talking about difficult topics in a lighthearted way makes them easier to deal with.
Hope you enjoy these conversations as much as we do. Thanks for listening :)
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What happened to you? with Sebastian ScalesNov 21, 2023

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Ben Romney - #45

Ben Romney - #45

Welcome back! Our guest this week is Ben Romney! Ben and I met at a Vipassana meditation retreat in 2022. He is a truly awesome dude, super wise and funny, with a captivating story. Hope you enjoy this conversation as much as we did!


Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/sebastianscales


WHTY Foundation! https://www.whtyfoundation.org/

Oct 06, 202302:13:21
Josie Davis - #44

Josie Davis - #44

Welcome back! Josie Davis joins the pod and shares her story about what happened to her. She is one of the coolest people, incredibly articulate, and absolutely hilarious. Enjoy! ------

Josie is on Instagram @Josonthecoast ------ Check out the Patreon https://www.patreon.com/sebastianscales ------- Check out What Happened To You Foundation - https://www.whtyfoundation.org ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Copyright 2023 What Happened To You Foundation What happened to you?™


Sep 22, 202301:07:20
#43 - Chaz Onator

#43 - Chaz Onator

Welcome back! Chaz shares his story about what happened to him.

Chaz is on TikTok @chazonator - https://www.tiktok.com/@chazonator?lang=en

Patreon - patreon.com/sebastianscales

What Happened To You Foundation - whtyfoundation.org

Sep 07, 202301:33:13
#42 - Me (Sebastian Scales, Part 2)

#42 - Me (Sebastian Scales, Part 2)

Hello there What Happened To You Family! It has been a while. Thank you all for your patience and sticking with me. This episode is about where I’ve been, going back to therapy, EMDR, and more. Regular WHTY interviews will be back soon! Hope you’re doing better than ever :) Love, Sebastian

Patreon: www.patreon.com/sebastianscales What Happened To You Foundation: www.whtyfoundation.org


Aug 23, 202355:55
#41 - Camryn & Madison Wilson

#41 - Camryn & Madison Wilson

Welcome back! Camryn and Madison Wilson join the pod and share what happened to them. Thanks for listening :)
Review links:  
Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/3R3RxXqf8seoka30B8HMEb
Apple Podcasts (For this one, scroll down the page a bit, sometimes to the bottom of the episodes, and you'll find the review section) - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/what-happened-to-you-with-sebastian-scales/id1475596910
Check out the foundation! https://www.whtyfoundation.org

Copyright 2022 What Happened To You Foundation 

Aug 18, 202202:16:51
#40 - Ky Webb

#40 - Ky Webb

Welcome back!  Ky Webb shares what happened to him. Thanks for listening :)  
Ky's socials: @Kyglowebb  
Sebastian's socials: @Sebastianscales
Review links (thank you!!) -   Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/3R3RxXqf8seoka30B8HMEb
Apple Podcasts (For this one, scroll down the page a bit, sometimes to the bottom of the episodes, and you'll find the review section) - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/what-happened-to-you-with-sebastian-scales/id1475596910   

Check out the foundation! www.whtyfoundation.org

Copyright 2022 What Happened To You Foundation



Jul 27, 202201:00:02
#39 - Brooke Rock

#39 - Brooke Rock

Welcome back!


Brooke Rock shares what happened to her.  


Brooke's social media handle: @BrookeRock

Sebastian's social media handle: @SebastianScales

Check out the foundation! Whtyfoundation.org

Thanks for listening!

Jul 07, 202201:34:49
#38 - Chinhee and Sunhee Park

#38 - Chinhee and Sunhee Park

Welcome back! Chinhee and Sunhee Park share what happened to them.

Chinhee's social handle: @Chinheepark 

Sunhee's social handle: @SunheePark1111  

Thanks for listening!

Jun 16, 202201:01:25
#37 - Shaun T

#37 - Shaun T

Welcome back!​  
@Shaun T shares the wild story of what happened to him as a kid, fatherhood, and how he's healing now.
Shaun's handle on all social media platforms is: @ShaunT  
Here's the link to my episode on Shaun's podcast: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vcgBTyRUAAo
Shaun's podcast is @trustandbelievepod 

Thanks for Listening!


#trauma #humor #whathappenedtoyoupodcast

Jun 02, 202256:22
#36 - Maddy Delaro

#36 - Maddy Delaro

Welcome back!   

Maddy shares her experience with abuse, depression, suicidal ideations, and Borderline Personality Disorder.   
Maddy's recommended links for BPD:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=to5qRLRSS7g
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7JygQx1TTDE 

The 'Seb Show' podcast is called 'The Sebastian Scales Show' - Check it out :)

Thanks for listening!

May 26, 202201:32:09
#35 - Denis Volk

#35 - Denis Volk

Welcome back!! In this episode, Denis Volk shares his experience growing up in Russia, being adopted, moving to America, abuse, taking his adoptive parents to court, healing, and much more.  

Links to review the podcast:   

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3R3RxXqf8seoka30B8HMEb?si=ttxXLva_S52_VN-C64DA8Q 

Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/what-happened-to-you-with-sebastian-scales/id1475596910 

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Thank you for reviewing and listening :)

May 19, 202202:00:38
#34 - Josh Coley (Season 2 Finale)

#34 - Josh Coley (Season 2 Finale)

Comedian Josh Coley shares his experience being sexually and physically abused as a kid, having his stomach blown up in the marines, and how lsd and comedy have helped him heal.
Josh is on Instagram @Comedian_joshy

Thanks for listening!

Check out our website: WHTYFoundation.org

Nov 03, 202101:02:29
#33 - Anna Stoddard

#33 - Anna Stoddard

Anna Stoddard shares her experience of being kidnapped, becoming pregnant from rape, writing a book about her experience to pay for legal fees, and how she's healing now. 

She is the author of 'In Plain Sight' which is available on Amazon!

Thanks for listening :)

Check out our website! Whtyfoundation.org

Oct 14, 202156:18
#32 - Alex Schrock

#32 - Alex Schrock

Alex Schrock shares his experience being abused by his adoptive mother, attempting suicide, and how he's healing now. 

Alex is on Instagram @Alexschrockoffical

Thanks for listening!

Check out our website! Whtyfoundation.org

Oct 06, 202150:32
#31 - Victoria Lee

#31 - Victoria Lee

Victoria Lee shares experience being sexually assaulted in college, and how spirituality has helped her heal. 

Tori is on TikTok @Victoria.therese 

Thanks for listening! 

Check out our website! Whtyfoundation.org

Sep 29, 202101:04:39
#30 - Mario Adrion

#30 - Mario Adrion

Mario Adrion joins the pod to share his experience with sexual harassment and assault in the modeling industry, and how he's healing now. Thanks for listening!  

Mario is on social media everywhere @MarioAdrion

Check out our website! Whtyfoundation.org


Sep 22, 202153:18
#29 - Kayla Esmond

#29 - Kayla Esmond

Welcome back! Stand-up comedian Kayla Esmond shares her experiences with sexual and physical abuse, going to court, mushrooms, and how she's healing now. 

Kayla is on Instagram: @Kayla_cats_and_comedy

Thanks for listening :)
Check out our website! Whtyfoundation.org



Sep 08, 202101:01:08
#28 - Johnny Morrissey

#28 - Johnny Morrissey

Welcome back! Johnny Morrissey shares his experience being drugged and raped on a tinder date, waking up and escaping, how it affected him, and how he's healing now. 


Johnny is on Instagram: Jmorrissey06
TikTok: JohnnyMorrissey

Thanks for listening :)
And thank you to Esmesphere for tagging me in Johnny's video!  

Check out our website! Whtyfoundation.org  


Merch! Whtyfoundation.org/store-2   

#Whathappenedtoyou #Healing #Humor

Sep 01, 202137:40
#27 - Hannah Cox

#27 - Hannah Cox

Welcome back! Hannah Cox shares her experience being r@ped in college, speaking up and not being believed, and how she's healing now.

Hannah is on Instagram @Hansurs

Check out our website: Whtyfoundation.org for more information, merch, and how you can get involved! 

Thanks for listening :)

Aug 25, 202149:16
#26 - Bileko Wissa - Season 2 premiere!

#26 - Bileko Wissa - Season 2 premiere!

Welcome back!!

Bileko Wissa shares his experience with his dad dying when he was 5, subsequently being molested by his babysitter, and how he's healing now. Thanks for listening :)

Bileko's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bilekoazizawissajr/?hl=en

Check out our new website! Whtyfoundation.org

Link to Merch: https://www.whtyfoundation.org/store-2

Additional Resources: https://www.whtyfoundation.org/resources

Get Involved: https://www.whtyfoundation.org/get-involved


See you next week!

Aug 18, 202101:12:43
Sebastian's Stand-up (Season 2 Trailer)

Sebastian's Stand-up (Season 2 Trailer)

Welcome back!!

Season 2 starts August 18th at 5pm PST. Video of the stand-up is available on YouTube and Instagram.

See you Wednesday :)

Sebastian

Aug 11, 202105:54
#25 - Katarina Hayes - Season 1 Finale!

#25 - Katarina Hayes - Season 1 Finale!

Katarina Hayes shares her experience being raped and abused by her parents for over 10 years, putting them in jail, and how she's healing now. 

She's on TikTok @CommunistKirby and on Instagram @Black_sabbath_babe

Thanks for all of your support on season 1! This is just the beginning :)

Much love,

Sebastian

Mar 25, 202101:15:06
#24 - Jacob Harris

#24 - Jacob Harris

Jacob Harris shares his experience being molested as a kid by a younger female friend, having brain surgery, and dealing with depression. 

Thanks for listening :)

Feel free to share your story on our blog! whtyfoundation.com/forum

Mar 18, 202140:30
#23 - Ashley Vanderlindey

#23 - Ashley Vanderlindey

Ashley Vanderlindey shares her experience being molested by her schizophrenic sperm donor, repressing the memories for many years, and how speaking up has allowed her to heal.

Thanks for listening :)

Share your story on our blog! whtyfoundation.org/forum

Mar 11, 202101:03:46
#22 - Kris Sipe

#22 - Kris Sipe

Kris Sipe shares his experiences with sexual, physical, and substance abuse; depression and suicide. And how he ultimately overcame it all, and is now speaking about his story publicly on TikTok @KrazyKris88

Thanks for listening :)

Share your story on our blog! whtyfoundation.org/forum


Mar 04, 202145:14
#21 - Diana Wakeland

#21 - Diana Wakeland

Diana Wakeland shares her experience being molested by multiple people, and how her speaking up enabled her family members to do the same. She's on TikTok @Dianabananaw

Thanks for listening :)


Feb 25, 202101:00:56
#20 - Hailey Houser

#20 - Hailey Houser

Hailey Houser shares her experiences with molestation, suicide, and more! Thanks for listening :)

Share your story on our blog! https://www.whtyfoundation.org/forum/blog-posts

Feb 18, 202142:11
#19 - Luis Bohorquez

#19 - Luis Bohorquez

Luis Bohorquez shares his experience being molested by his cousin, figuring out his sexuality, EMDR, and why 2020 was the best year of his life. Thanks for listening :) 

Share your story on our blog! https://www.whtyfoundation.org/forum/blog-posts

Feb 11, 202150:17
#18 - Lizzie Bonghi
Feb 04, 202144:55
#17 - Brian Sheppard

#17 - Brian Sheppard

Brian Sheppard shares his experience with physical and emotional abuse as a kid, fatally shooting someone in self-defense as a cop, losing his partner, and more. Check out his website: https://www.thedocbrian.com for all of his socials!

Thanks for listening :)

Share your story on our blog! https://www.whtyfoundation.org/forum/blog-posts

Jan 27, 202101:02:12
#16 - Taylor Cozort

#16 - Taylor Cozort

Welcome back! Taylor Cozort shares her experience being sexually abused as a kid by a girl who was younger than her, handling eating disorders, and how she's coping now. Taylor is an NYC based Actor and Writer who is on Instagram @Taylorcozort. Thanks for listening! :)

Share your story on our blog! https://www.whtyfoundation.org/forum

Jan 20, 202158:31
#15 - Dani Medina

#15 - Dani Medina

Dani Medina shares her experience with a terminal illness,  getting assaulted in high school, and her sister's suicide. She's on TikTok @Daniellescats, where her amazing outlook on life and death have garnered her tens of millions of views. She's incredibly sweet, compassionate,  genuine, and was a joy to talk with.
Thanks for listening!

Intro and Outro song: Chet Porter - Bummed feat. Alison Wonderland

Share your story on our blog! https://www.whtyfoundation.org/forum/blog-posts


Jan 14, 202157:58
#14 - Jody Plauché

#14 - Jody Plauché

Welcome back! Jody Plauché shares his experience being kidnapped by his molester, getting rescued, and his father subsequently fatally shooting his abuser in the head on TV. As always, thanks for listening :)

Get a copy of Jody's book 'Why Gary Why?' here: https://www.amazon.com/Why-Gary-Jody-Plauché-Story/dp/1948903210

Share your story on our blog! https://www.whtyfoundation.org/forum

Jan 08, 202101:20:17
#13 - Shannon Scott

#13 - Shannon Scott

Welcome back! Shannon Scott is a child abuse advocate who was raped in the military, molested multiple times during his childhood, and also made some cash as a child prostitute. He is on TikTok @sgtscott34. 

As always, thanks for listening :)

Share your story on our blog! https://www.whtyfoundation.org/forum/blog-posts

Dec 30, 202001:00:19
#12 - Lory Mitchell

#12 - Lory Mitchell

Welcome back! Lory Mitchell is an author and child abuse advocate on TikTok (SkyBlue7) who was molested when she was 8. She has helped countless people speak up about their experiences, and has a new book coming out called 'Mommas' in the near future.

Thanks for listening :)

Share your story on our blog! https://www.whtyfoundation.org/forum/blog-posts

Dec 16, 202052:15
#11 - Josie Senovia

#11 - Josie Senovia

Welcome back! In this episode, Josie Senovia talks about her experience getting molested by her Grandfather, how she's doing now, and Ed, Edd, and Eddy. 

As always, thanks for listening!

Support the podcast! https://www.whtyfoundation.org/donate  

Share your story on our blog! https://www.whtyfoundation.org/forum

Dec 10, 202001:01:47
#10 Brendan Ryan & Arthur Rezian

#10 Brendan Ryan & Arthur Rezian

Welcome back! Stand up comedians, Brendan Ryan and Arthur Rezian, discuss their experiences each having 2 kidneys replaced.   

Become a supporter of the podcast! https://www.whtyfoundation.org/donate  

Share your story on our website! https://www.whtyfoundation.org/forum 

Thank you for listening :)

Dec 02, 202051:30
#9 - Harper-Rose Drummond

#9 - Harper-Rose Drummond

Welcome back! The very funny Harper-Rose shares her rape experience, doing stand-up comedy about it, and blowing up on TikTok. Thanks for listening :)

Harper's on Instagram, Twitter, and TikTok: @Harperrosed

Support the podcast! https://www.whtyfoundation.org/donate

Share your story on our blog! https://www.whtyfoundation.org/forum

Nov 18, 202001:02:40
#8 - Jentrie Bentley

#8 - Jentrie Bentley

Welcome back! In this episode, Jentrie Bentley shares his story about getting raped by his grandfather at 4, how it affected his life, and how he's coping now.  Thanks for listening :)  

Jentrie's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jentriee/?hl=en  

Become a supporter of the podcast! https://www.whtyfoundation.org/donate  

The What Happened To You Foundation Website: https://www.whtyfoundation.org/forum

Nov 11, 202001:35:51
#7 - Katie Anderson

#7 - Katie Anderson

In this episode, Katie Anderson shares her story of getting molested, not being believed by her parents, living with MS, and her boyfriend committing suicide. Thanks for listening :)

Link to the Zoom event with Reimagine and Grief Dialogues: https://letsreimagine.org/58851/what-happened-to-you-child-sexual-abuse-and-loss

Link to support the podcast: https://www.whtyfoundation.org/donate


Nov 04, 202050:57
#6 - Malcolm Cills

#6 - Malcolm Cills

Welcome back! Malcolm Cills is an Actor and Stand-up Comedian who beat cancer as a kid, twice.

Thanks for listening :)

We would love you to share your story on our blog: https://www.whtyfoundation.org/forum

Become a supporter of the podcast! https://www.whtyfoundation.org/donate


Oct 27, 202001:07:13
Reading DMs, Interview Overload, and Website Launch!

Reading DMs, Interview Overload, and Website Launch!

Heyyy welcome back!

In addition to interviews I'm going to have episodes where I talk about what this experience has been like, and where we're headed. This is the first one!

Here's the link to the website: https://www.whtyfoundation.org/

Here's the link to the donation page on the website: https://www.whtyfoundation.org/donate

As always, thanks for listening, watching, and supporting :)

Sebastian

Oct 22, 202016:37
#5 - Bree Caldwell

#5 - Bree Caldwell

Welcome back! In this episode, Bree Caldwell and I talk about our experiences getting molested, what caused us to speak up, and how we're coping now. Thanks for listening/watching!  

Don't forget to leave a review :)

Share your story on our website! Whtyfoundation.org

If you'd like to do an episode of the podcast, let me know! I'd love to have you on. Here's a link: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfP6XoUPwXgvJEmhxqs8Ni4kICQh59BJg1Eeqvk6__NmGuONg/viewform?usp=sf_link  

There have been a lot of requests (which is awesome!), so just bare with me if it takes a little while. Thanks again.

Sebastian

Oct 12, 202001:11:57
What happened to you? #4 - William Ogden

What happened to you? #4 - William Ogden

Two guys talk and laugh about their experiences getting molested
Sep 30, 202001:22:05
What happened to you? #3 - Annie Jones and Lauren Vino

What happened to you? #3 - Annie Jones and Lauren Vino

Episode 3 is here! Annie Jones and Lauren Vino join the pod to discuss their experiences with abuse, MeToo, and comedy.

Thanks for listening!

Link to our website: https://www.whtyfoundation.org/

Dec 11, 201901:07:30
What happened to you? #2 - Alex Cunningham

What happened to you? #2 - Alex Cunningham

Double parental suicide, child molestation, and more!

Website Link: whtyfoundation.org

Sep 26, 201901:13:49
What happened to you? #1 - Sebastian Scales

What happened to you? #1 - Sebastian Scales

What happened to me
Aug 06, 201901:01:54