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Seeing Other People

Seeing Other People

By Ilana Dunn
Modern dating sucks, but it shouldn't have to. That's why Ilana Dunn is here to help you feel less alone and more empowered in your dating life. On Tuesdays, Ilana interviews expert guests to answer your biggest questions about dating and relationships. On Thursday’s "Unfiltered" episodes, anonymous guests share what they have been through, how they got through it, and what they wish they knew when going through their experience.

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You’re Not Dating a Mind Reader with The Latke Room Boys
On this episode, I’m joined by Jonny Lazarus and Justin Kapelmaster from The Latke Room. We discuss why your date or partner probably doesn’t know what you’re thinking, what an Instagram story view really means, how to slide into the DMs, why gender roles shouldn’t matter but social cues should, and why some people think they have to prioritize their career over their relationships. We answer listener emails about being ghosted after dating for four months and being unsure whether or not to close the door on a situationship.  Get him the best tools for the job™ this Valentine's day at mandscaped.com code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE for 20% off and free shipping.  Are you ready to choose your mindset? Mindset Wellness CBD allows you to do exactly that. Grab yours today at and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 20% off and free shipping! curology.com/seeingotherpeople to get your one month free trial of Curology's custom skincare today
54:41
January 25, 2022
Unfiltered: Dating on the Spectrum
On today's episode I'm joined by a 25 year old man who recently went through a breakup when his ex-girlfriend's parents found out that he has Aspergers Syndrome. He shares what having Aspergers is like, how it does and doesn’t impact his daily life and relationships, and what common misconceptions are of those with this disability. We hear about what his relationship was like, how the breakup unfolded, and how painful it is to be discriminated against because of a disability. Are you ready to choose your mindset? Mindset Wellness CBD allows you to do exactly that. Grab yours today at and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 20% off and free shipping! curology.com/seeingotherpeople to get your one month free trial of Curology's custom skincare today daily-harvest.com/ code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE for $40 off your first box kettleandfire.com code ILANA20 for 20% off bone broths and soups blaketaylor.com code ILANA15 for 15% off my favorite jewelry brand
55:08
January 20, 2022
Dating is Hard for Him, Too with Dating by Blaine
On today’s episode, I’m joined by Blaine Anderson, aka Dating by Blaine, who is a dating coach for men. We hear about the biggest challenges men face in modern dating, ways men are misunderstood in dating, and how Blaine ended up helping men with their dating lives. Blaine shares tips for dating apps profiles, approaching a woman IRL, sliding into her DMs, and texting etiquette. We answer listener questions about exclusivity, having needs vs. being needy, burnout, and sifting through matches. Are you ready to choose your mindset? Mindset Wellness CBD allows you to do exactly that. Grab yours today at and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 20% off and free shipping! curology.com/seeingotherpeople to get your one month free trial of Curology's custom skincare today daily-harvest.com/ code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE for $40 off your first box kettleandfire.com code ILANA20 for 20% off bone broths and soups blaketaylor.com code ILANA15 for 15% off my favorite jewelry brand
01:01:48
January 18, 2022
Unfiltered: We Aren’t Born Knowing How to Date
On this episode of Unfiltered, I sit down with two individuals who recently took 'Date Smarter' – Logan Ury's six-week interactive bootcamp designed to transform your love life. We discuss the stigma surrounding "learning" how to date, even though dating is a relatively new concept. They share their hesitations about signing up for the class, what they thought the other students would be like vs. what they were actually like, how it felt to learn about dating with a group of strangers, what what surprised them and challenged them throughout the process, what they learned from Logan, what they learned from each other, and how their dating lives are going now that they've completed the course.  Want to be a student in Logan's next cohort? Applications are open now through Thursday, January 20th! Click here to apply.  Logan is the resident Dating Expert on the new hit podcast This Is Dating. Ready to choose your mindset? Mindset Wellness CBD allows you to do exactly that. Grab yours today at and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 20% off and free shipping!
54:57
January 13, 2022
Date Smarter with Logan Ury
On Today’s episode I’m joined by behavioral scientist, dating coach, author, and Hinge’s Director of Relationship Science, Logan Ury. We discuss how Logan helped me change my bad dating habits, how she initially friendzoned her now-husband for years until a dating coach helped her realize he was what she was looking for, why you need accountability partners to achieve your dating goals, the importance of having “Other Significant Others," and why our partner can’t be our go-to person for everything. Logan shares her advice for people who feel like they’ve tried everything, but it’s just not working out for them. Logan’s announcing her next cohort for her course Date Smarter in the next few days. Add your email here to be the first to hear about it. Ready to choose your mindset? Mindset Wellness CBD allows you to do exactly that. Grab yours today at and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 20% off and free shipping! trywinc.com/seeingotherpeople to get 4 custom curated bottles of wine for $29.95 https://www.daily-harvest.com/ code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE for $40 off your first box kettleandfire.com code ILANA20 for 20% off bone broths and soups blaketaylor.com code ILANA15 for 15% off my favorite jewelry brand
51:24
January 11, 2022
Unfiltered: Your Trauma Makes You Stronger with Zoe Scurletis
On this Unfiltered episode, I sit down with Zoe Scurletis, host of the podcast Solace and the City, to talk about how our traumatic experiences impact who we are and how we date. Zoe walks us through what it was like developing an eating disorder, losing a friend to suicide,  and spiraling into depression.  We discuss if, when and how to communicate your past traumas when seeing someone new, if you should date while battling an eating disorder, finding the balance between vulnerability and oversharing, why The Bachelor franchise is wrongfully encouraging trauma bonding, and more. Ready to choose your mindset? Mindset Wellness CBD allows you to do exactly that and their gummies are next level. Grab yours today at and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 20% off and free shipping! trywinc.com/seeingotherpeople to get 4 custom curated bottles of wine for $29.95 https://www.daily-harvest.com/ code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE for $40 off your first box kettleandfire.com code ILANA20 for 20% off bone broths and soups blaketaylor.com code ILANA15 for 15% off my favorite jewelry brand
50:53
January 06, 2022
Being Better Daters & Partners in 2022 with Mia and Carleigh
In this episode, I sit down with Mia and Carleigh, hosts of Mostly Balanced. We discuss healthier dating habits we should develop, our predictions for dating trends this year, red flags you should avoid, and how to prioritize dating. Mia shares the important conversations that she and her fiancé are having to ensure their marriage will have a strong foundation, and Carleigh opens up about is embracing singlehood and navigating dating burnout. Finally, we discuss how we stay mentally and physically healthy so we can be our best selves in our dating life and relationships. Ready to choose your mindset? Mindset Wellness CBD allows you to do exactly that and their gummies are next level. Grab yours today at and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 20% off and free shipping! trywinc.com/seeingotherpeople to get 4 custom curated bottles of wine for $29.95 https://www.daily-harvest.com/ code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE for $40 off your first box kettleandfire.com code ILANA20 for 20% off bone broths and soups blaketaylor.com code ILANA15 for 15% off my favorite jewelry brand
01:04:42
January 04, 2022
Unfiltered (Ilana's Version)
On this year’s final episode, I sit down with my producer, Camila Vola, to celebrate Seeing Other People's 1st birthday by reflecting on everything that happened in 2021. I open up about how this was one of the hardest years of my life, my fears and hesitations around losing my co host and doing the show solo, the biggest accomplishments and the scariest challenges I faced, where I am in my career vs. where I want to be, what the future of Seeing Other People looks like, and the biggest takeaways and dating lessons from all of this year’s expert and Unfiltered guests.  Support and rep your favorite podcast by shopping the Seeing Other People x Nus merch collection! Ready to choose your mindset? Mindset Wellness CBD allows you to do exactly that and their gummies are next level. Grab yours today at and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 10% off and free shipping! trywinc.com/seeingotherpeople to get 4 custom curated bottles of wine for $29.95 https://www.daily-harvest.com/ code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE for $40 off your first box kettleandfire.com code ILANA20 for 20% off bone broths and soups blaketaylor.com code ILANA15 for 15% off my favorite jewelry brand
01:11:33
December 28, 2021
Unfiltered: A Hopeless but Hopeful Romantic
On todays episode I sit down with a 26 year old man from London. We hear about his recent transcontinental whirlwind romance, what it's been like dating during covid, dating while living at home with his parents, the struggles of being a hopeless romantic in today’s dating world, and more.
01:06:26
December 23, 2021
2021: Looking Back and Moving Forward with Katie and Vic
I’m joined by the amazing Katie Dombrowski and Victoria Bruno, hosts of The Moral Hangover Podcast, to break down everything that happened in dating in 2021.   We dive into how the pandemic changed our dating lives for the better, what really happened with #shotgirlsummer, and our biggest red flags and green flags when going on dates. We look back on the many surprising celebrity couples and dating trends that have consumed our year. Finally, we discuss how the pandemic changed our dating lives for the better, and what we think we’ll see in 2022. Support and rep your favorite podcast by shopping the Seeing Other People x Nus merch collection! Ready to choose your mindset? Mindset Wellness CBD allows you to do exactly that and their gummies are next level. Grab yours today at and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 10% off and free shipping!
01:17:56
December 21, 2021
Unfiltered: Breakthroughs from a Breakup
This episode may be triggering for those who sensitive to suicidal thoughts.  On today’s episode, I sit down with a man who shares his story of being blindsided with a breakup six years into a relationship with his girlfriend who he lived with. This happened during covid while he was already going through a challenging time in his life. He shares had a break up impacted his mental health and what his recovery journey has been like, including seeking therapy and psychiatry for the first time, experimenting with different mental health professionals to find the right one, contacting the suicide hotline, creating a routine, discovering new hobbies and passions, and more. Do you wish you could choose your mindset? Mindset Wellness CBD allows you to do exactly that and their gummies are next level. Grab yours today at mindsetwellness.com and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 10% off and free shipping! trywinc.com/seeingotherpeople to get 4 custom curated bottles of wine for $29.95 kettleandfire.com code ILANA20 for 20% off bone broths and soups blaketaylor.com code ILANA15 for 15% off my favorite jewelry brand
52:36
December 16, 2021
What a Healthy Relationship Looks Like with Jamie & Taylor
Therapist Jamie Genatt, and boyfriend, Taylor Adwar, join us to talk about how they built a successful partnership and healthy relationship over the last six years. We hear about how their movie-worthy meet-cute, the challenges they’ve overcome in their relationship, and the pros and cons of dating a therapist. They share how they navigate big life transitions, how they support each other, how they ask for space when they need it, and how they have learned to communicate effectively. Do you wish you could choose your mindset? Mindset Wellness CBD allows you to do exactly that and their gummies are next level. Grab yours today at mindsetwellness.com and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 10% off and free shipping!
54:33
December 14, 2021
Unfiltered: The Psychological Impact of Getting Ghosted
On today's episode, I sat down with a woman who recently experienced being ghosted for the first time by a man who lived a few doors down from her. We hear how she processed being ghosted, how she didn’t feel the way social media and people in her life were telling her she should feel and how she used this experience to go down a path of self healing and self discovery. Later we find out what happened when they reconnected, and where they are now, and how the way she handled this experience changed her for the better. Are you ready to treat yourself or your friend to the best cookies ever? Batter That Matters is my absolute obsession and everyone who tries their cookies falls in love with them. Head to ourbattermatters.com and use code "seeingotherpeople" for 10% off your purchase! Do you wish you could choose your mindset? Mindset Wellness CBD allows you to do exactly that and their gummies are next level. Grab yours today at mindsetwellness.com and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 10% off and free shipping!
51:57
December 09, 2021
Anatomy of a Gentleman with Levon The Gent
This episode is for the boys who want to be gentlemen, and for the girls who want to get inside a gentleman’s brain. I chat with James (Levon The Gent) Nichols II, founder of The Gent Code, who helps men become the best version of themselves in life, in dating, and in relationships. We discuss what it means to be a gentleman, the biggest dating pain points that men face (and how to overcome them), why genders react to breakups differently, why men seem to be afraid of commitment, and more. Are you ready to treat yourself or your friend to the best cookies ever? Batter That Matters is my absolute obsession and everyone who tries their cookies falls in love with them. Head to ourbattermatters.com and use code "seeingotherpeople" for 10% off your purchase! Do you wish you could choose your mindset? Mindset Wellness CBD allows you to do exactly that and their gummies are next level. Grab yours today at mindsetwellness.com and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 10% off and free shipping!
01:05:07
December 07, 2021
Unfiltered: Don't Blame The Other Woman
On today’s episode I sit down with a woman who shares her experiences being cheated on, later meeting the other women, and realizing they were not the ones to blame. We discuss how she found out she was cheated on, what it was like learning to trust again, and how she and these women helped support each other. We discuss why being cheated on has nothing to do with you, whether or not you should let someone know if you know they’re being cheated on, and more. Tis the season and Batter That Matters's cookies tis the perfect holiday gift. Head to www.ourbattermatters.com and use code "seeingotherpeople" for 10% off your purchase! Support and rep your favorite podcast by shopping the Seeing Other People x Nus merch collection! Need sleep? I got you covered. Mindset Wellness CBD's Rest Gummies contain a perfect mix of CBD & melatonin that help you get the rest that you need. Grab yours today at and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 10% off and free shipping!
51:31
December 02, 2021
Does "The One" Exist? Closure, Dealbreakers, and more with Erica & Molly
I’m joined by the hilarious Erica Spera and Molly DeMellier, hosts of Shooters Gotta Shoot. We’re diving into the results of the Instagram polls you’ve voted on, debating the winners, and sharing our own opinions on each. We break down what happens at the end of a date, being a guest or bringing a guest to the holidays, first date deal breakers, how much someone’s relationship history matters, if you need closure to move on, if "the one" is out there, and more. Erica runs a private virtual Herpes Support Group. Sign up here or email herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com for more information or if you’re interested in joining! Are you ready to treat yourself or your friend to the best cookies ever? Batter That Matters is my absolute obsession and everyone who tries their cookies falls in love with them. Head to www.ourbattermatters.com and use code "seeingotherpeople" for 10% off your purchase! Support and rep your favorite podcast by shopping the Seeing Other People x Nus merch collection! Ready to choose your mindset? Mindset Wellness CBD allows you to do exactly that and their gummies are next level. Grab yours today at and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 10% off and free shipping!
53:42
November 30, 2021
Bonus: An Emotional Last Episode From My Childhood Home
Subscribe here to access this bonus episode and all previous and future bonus episodes. My parents sold my childhood home and we move out in three weeks. I'm feeling emotional and nostalgic, so I'm reflecting on growing up, adulting, moving on, friendships, past relationships and heartbreaks.  I also share an exciting relationship milestone that happened this week! 
22:15
November 26, 2021
Dating While Grieving with Krista St. Germain
Krista St-Germain is a mom, grief expert and life coach for widowed moms and host of the Widowed Moms Podcast. She joins the show today to discuss sex, dating, and love after experiencing the traumatic loss of a partner or any individual in your life. We discuss the grieving process and why it isn’t linear, knowing when to start dating again, navigating the guilt around searching for a new partner, keeping their memory alive while moving on, rediscovering yourself, learning your triggers, and more. I'm so excited to be partnering with Batter That Matters! Shop the Fall Collection and treat someone in your life (or yourself) to a box of the best cookies out there. Head to www.ourbattermatters.com and use code "seeingotherpeople" for 10% off your purchase! Support and rep your favorite podcast by shopping the Seeing Other People x Nus merch collection! We're prioritizing feeling mentally and physically healthy so we can be our best selves in our dating lives and our daily lives. Mindset Wellness CBD's Health Gummies are filled with Vitamin D and ingredients that help you stay healthy and feel balanced. Grab yours today at and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 10% off and free shipping!
48:05
November 23, 2021
OCDating with Lindsay and Emily Stetzer
Lindsay and Emily Stetzer are sisters living with obsessive-compulsive disorder and anxiety, which led them to create Presently, a mindfulness jewelry company that helps you redirect your thoughts and return to the beauty of the present moment, wherever you are. Lindsay and Emily walk us through the different types of OCD, how their diagnoses impacted them, and how their OCD does and doesn’t affect their daily lives. They open up about how their OCD has impacted their past relationships and their current dating lives, as well as the tools they have learned to not let their mental health hold them back. Follow @thinkpresently and treat yourself or a friend to an anxiety-soothing bracelet from Presently this holiday season at thinkpresently.com. Use code "seeingotherpeople" for 20% off your purchase.  Tis the season for Friendsgiving and Batter That Matters's Fall Collection of cookies is the perfect thing to bring. Head to www.ourbattermatters.com and use code "seeingotherpeople" for 10% off your purchase! Support and rep your favorite podcast by shopping the Seeing Other People x Nus merch collection! We're prioritizing feeling mentally and physically healthy so we can be our best selves in our dating lives and our daily lives. Mindset Wellness CBD's Health Gummies are filled with Vitamin D and ingredients that help you stay healthy and feel balanced. Grab yours today at and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 10% off and free shipping!
01:00:30
November 18, 2021
Learn About Divorce Before Getting Married with Kate Anthony
Kate Anthony, certified divorce coach and host of The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast, joins the show. We discuss how to decide if you should stay or leave your relationship, what factors lead to a divorce being amicable vs messy, and how to actually go about getting a divorce. We chat about prenups, couples therapy, the US litigation system, children of divorce, co-parenting, dating after divorce and more. Nobody goes into a relationship or marriage planning on getting divorced, which is why this episode is a must-listen even if you’re single or in the beginning stages of a relationship. I'm so excited to be partnering with Batter That Matters! Shop the Fall Collection and treat someone in your life (or yourself) to a box of the best cookies out there. Head to www.ourbattermatters.com and use code "seeingotherpeople" for 10% off your purchase! Support and rep your favorite podcast by shopping the Seeing Other People x Nus merch collection! We're prioritizing feeling mentally and physically healthy so we can be our best selves in our dating lives and our daily lives. Mindset Wellness CBD's Health Gummies are filled with Vitamin D and ingredients that help you stay healthy and feel balanced. Grab yours today at and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 10% off and free shipping!
54:18
November 16, 2021
Bonus: Behind the Scenes of Seeing Other People
Subscribe here to access this episode and all previous and future bonus episodes for $4.99 per month! Each subscription helps keep Seeing Other People going.  On this bonus episode, I'm joined by Camila Vola, my Associate Producer, to discuss her experience working for Seeing Other People over the last six months. We talk about how she got her job, the highlights and challenges she's faced in her role, what has surprised her about her job, her biggest work-related learnings, and what knowledge she's gained about dating and relationships. We share our favorite episodes and guests, embarrassing dating moments, and more!  PS Camila hosts her own podcast! Check out My Point of View!! 
40:13
November 12, 2021
Unfiltered: Even Therapists Get Their Hearts Broken
On Unfiltered, I sit down with a 26 year old social worker and therapist who practices in New York City. We hear about her dating experience in her late teens and early twenties that led to the heartbreak that shaped who she is today. She shares what it’s like to date as a therapist, what she learns from her patients, what it’s like to hear her patients be vulnerable all day long while she struggles being vulnerable and more. Im so excited to be partnering with Batter That Matters! Shop the Fall Collection and treat someone in your life (or yourself) to a box of the best cookies out there. Head to www.ourbattermatters.com and use code "seeingotherpeople" for 10% off your purchase! Support and rep your favorite podcast by shopping the Seeing Other People x Nus merch collection! We're prioritizing feeling mentally and physically healthy so we can be our best selves in our dating lives and our daily lives. Mindset Wellness CBD's Health Gummies are filled with Vitamin D and ingredients that help you stay healthy and feel balanced. Grab yours today at and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 10% off and free shipping!
52:16
November 11, 2021
Bridesmaid for Hire & Surviving Weddings Single with Jen Glantz
On today’s episode I’m joined by Jen Glantz, founder of Bridesmaid For Hire, 3x author, and host of You’re Not Getting Younger. Jen and I discuss how to cope with being the only one of your friends who isn’t engaged, going to weddings solo while feeling depressed about your own love life, and what you should expect if you have never been a bridesmaid before. We learn how we can best support our bride and groom friends, if/when we should offer our opinions on their wedding planning, common mistakes people make when it comes to wedding planning, and more. She shares her own love story and gives us an inside look at wedding horror stories, love stories, and everything in between that she has witnessed since she founded Bridesmaid For Hire. I'm so excited to be partnering with Batter That Matters! Shop the Fall Collection and treat someone in your life (or yourself) to a box of the best cookies out there. Head to www.ourbattermatters.com and use code "seeingotherpeople" for 10% off your purchase!  Support and rep your favorite podcast by shopping the Seeing Other People x Nus merch collection!  We're prioritizing feeling mentally and physically healthy so we can be our best selves in our dating lives and our daily lives. Mindset Wellness CBD's Health Gummies are filled with Vitamin D and ingredients that help you stay healthy and feel balanced. Grab yours today at and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 10% off and free shipping! 
48:57
November 09, 2021
Bonus: Reflecting on Highs, Lows, Growth and Funny Moments with a BFF
Subscribe here to access this bonus episode and all previous and future bonus episodes. My best friend Sara and I reflect on everything that's happened in our love lives since we met the first day of freshman year at Syracuse University. We spill some secrets, embarrass each other a lot, look back our highest highs and our lowest lows, discuss how our romantic relationships impacted our friendship over the years, and more.
37:60
November 05, 2021
Unfiltered: Stop Lying to Yourself
On today's episode of Unfiltered, I sit down with a woman who shares what she went through when she caught her boyfriend hooking up with a stripper. She tells us what it was like finding this out, how she reacted to it, and how it impacted her dating life for years to come. We discuss wanting to change people, not having our needs met in situationships, and lying to ourselves about what kind of relationships we’re really ready for. This month we're prioritizing feeling mentally and physically healthy so we can still be our best selves in our dating lives and our daily lives. Mindset Wellness CBD's Health Gummies are filled with Vitamin D and ingredients that help you stay feeling healthy and balanced. Grab yours today at www.mindsetwellness.com and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 10% off and free shipping!
49:11
November 04, 2021
Owning Your Timeline with Laura Behnke
Laura Behnke joins the Seeing Other People family today to explain why you need to throw out your timeline. After 16 years of success as an award-winning television journalist, Laura still couldn’t help but feel like she was “behind” as she was in her 30s and had never been in a relationship. We discuss how to stop worrying about where you “should” be in your life, how to not feel like there’s something wrong with you for being single for a long period of time, what to say when someone asks why you’ve never been in a relationship, how friendships change as people’s lives go down different paths at different times, what to say to your friend who has never been in a relationship or feels left behind, and more. The holidays are right around the corner, the sun is setting earlier, and it's getting cold out, so we're prioritizing feeling mentally and physically healthy so we can still be our best selves in our dating lives and our daily lives. Mindset Wellness CBD's Health Gummies are filled with Vitamin D and ingredients that help you stay healthy and feel balanced. Grab yours today at www.mindsetwellness.com and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 10% off and free shipping! 
01:04:44
November 02, 2021
Bonus: How We Cope With Dating Anxiety
Subscribe here to access this bonus episode and all previous and future bonus episodes. In honor of this week's Tuesday ep about overcoming anxiety, I'm breaking down all of the dating anxiety poll results and question box responses from the Seeing Other People IG Story. 
17:11
October 29, 2021
Unfiltered: On Again, Off Again
On today’s episode of Unfiltered, I sit down with Romeo, who shares the story about his on again, off again relationship that began in college. We hear about the highs and lows of the relationship, the pressure he faced from his peers as a college athlete to have a get girls mentality, the breakups, the makeups, cheating, anxiety and more. Romeo explains how he overcame his heartbreak and worked through all of these things in order to end up in the healthy relationship that he is now in. Want help overcoming your anxiety and getting what you want out of this year's cuffing season? Mindset Wellness CBD's Focus Gummies are here to help you do both. Grab yours today and use code SeeingOtherPeople at checkout for 10% off and free shipping!
59:31
October 28, 2021
Overcoming Dating Anxiety with Kevin Nahai
On today's episode, I sit down with Kevin Nahai, a personal coach who focuses on helping people with anxiety, low self esteem, and finding a healthy relationship. We dive into the ins and outs of dating anxiety including: how to know if your anxiety is coming from you or from them, how to stop attracting unhealthy partners, how to not get anxious when someone doesn’t text back, why you should focus on whether or not you like them, why you should make sure your values align, when and how to share your anxieties with a new potential partner, and more. Want help overcoming your anxiety and getting what you want out of this year's cuffing season? Mindset Wellness CBD's Focus Gummies are here to help you do both. Grab yours today and use code SeeingOtherPeople at checkout for 10% off and free shipping! 
55:29
October 26, 2021
BONUS: How nice is too nice, date fails, exclusivity, texting advice & more
Subscribe here to access this bonus episode and all previous and future bonus episodes.  An unfiltered anonymous guest is here to dish out more of her dating stories. We discuss our awkward run-ins, what it means if you're asking the group chat for texting advice, why you can't strategize in dating, if there's really such thing as "too nice" or if it means you just don't like them, and more. 
32:56
October 22, 2021
Unfiltered: I Flew to NY for a First Date
On this episode of unfiltered I sit down with a woman from Canada who shares her story of booking a flight to New York City to meet somebody who she matched with on bumble a few months earlier. We hear what their conversations were like leading up to the trip, what happened when she finally got there, and how everything was not at all what she thought it was going to be like. Cuffing season is here and it's time to focus on finding who and what you're looking for. My favorite way to focus is with the help of Mindset Wellness CBD's Focus Gummies. Try them today and thank me later. (And use code SeeingOtherPeople at checkout for 10% off and free shipping!) 
59:17
October 21, 2021
Work Hard, Sleep Hard, Date Hard with Zac and Jordan Stenmark
On this episode I’m joined by Jordan and Zac Stenmark, twins, international models and entrepreneurs. We discuss their dating and relationship experiences as twins, world travelers, and businessmen. We hear about Dreamers, the company they founded to help people sleep better and stay mentally healthy so we can be our best selves in work, dating, and daily life. They share their personal dating struggles and hilarious date fails, and we discuss how looks, success and fame don’t actually lead to an easier dating life.   We're focusing on making the most of cuffing season with the help of Mindset Wellness CBD"s Focus Gummies! Get yours today at mindsetwellness.com and use code SeeingOtherPeople at checkout for 10% off and free shipping!  
01:00:28
October 19, 2021
BONUS: 100 Dates Recap with Ilana & Jake
Subscribe here to support the show and listen to this bonus episode and all previous & future episodes. In this episode Ilana and her boyfriend Jake break down their first 99 dates before heading to date #100. They discuss hits and misses, their all time favorite dates, why they started keeping track of their dates, and more. 
24:25
October 16, 2021
Unfiltered: Little People Big Hearts
On today’s episode of Unfiltered, I talk to Jillian about dating as a little person. She shares what it’s like to live and date in a world that’s not designed for you. We discuss dating apps, common misconceptions, what she wishes people knew, and more. Jillian hosts a podcast called Always Looking Up – check it out if you want to hear honest and real stories about being a little person in an average-sized world. We’re focusing on communicating about our feelings and finding love this cuffing season, and we’re turning to Mindset Wellness CBD’s focus gummies to keep us on track. Get yours today www.mindsetwellness.com and use code SeeingOtherPeople at checkout for a discount!
46:52
October 14, 2021
Healthy Communication 101 with David Sauvage
David Sauvage is an empath, an expert on empathy, and a teacher of empathy and emotional intelligence. He joins us today to help us learn how to communicate more honestly, openly, and empathetically. We discuss healthy vs. unhealthy communication, how to learn healthy communication if you did not grow up witnessing it, how to encourage your partner to communicate in a healthier way, the process of shifting the way you communicate, how to be more open and honest in an empathetic way, why men are more reserved with their feelings, and more. Learn more about David and his work at empath.nyc. We’re focusing on communicating about our feelings and finding love this cuffing season, and we’re turning to Mindset Wellness CBD’s focus gummies to keep us on track. Get yours today www.mindsetwellness.com and use code SeeingOtherPeople at checkout for a discount!
57:13
October 12, 2021
BONUS: Getting Back with Exes and Dating After Breakups
Subscribe here to support the show and listen to this bonus episode and all previous & future episodes.  In this bonus episode, I get super raw and real about my previous breakups and what happened when I tried to get back with my exes. In the second half, I discuss how to navigate getting back out there after a breakup and how to know if you're ready to date again. Plus, I share updates about my new apartment, sleeping on an air mattress for the last three years, and moving to the Upper East Side!  PS I reveal my upcoming major Seeing Other People announcement!!! 
32:00
October 08, 2021
This is Seeing Other People
Seeing Other People and host Ilana Dunn are here to help you feel less alone in your dating struggles.   Real people, real stories, real life.
02:28
October 07, 2021
Unfiltered: Dating with an Eating Disorder
TW: Eating disorder thoughts and behaviors.  On today’s episode I sit down with Sam, a woman who is in recovery from her eating disorder. She shares how her eating disorder impacted her dating life prior to seeking treatment and how she’s been navigating it while in recovery. We’re focusing on finding love this cuffing season, and we’re turning to Mindset Wellness CBD’s focus gummies to keep us on track. Get yours today www.mindsetwellness.com and use code SeeingOtherPeople at checkout for a discount!
45:43
October 07, 2021
Career & Love: You Can Have Both with Sami Wunder
Sami Wunder is a leading international relationship and dating expert who specializes in working with ambitious, high-achieving women, helping them attract lasting romantic love. Sami joins us to discuss breaking toxic relationship patterns, how to identify why you’re still single, why rotational dating might be the key to finding love, making time for dating, having both career and relationship success, and more. Exclusively for Seeing Other People listeners, Sami has offered: 1) Training on feminine energy practices for high-achieving women who want to have romantic success with men. 2) Plus - a pdf with our top 10 scripts to get men to meet your needs. Click here to sign up: https://www.samiwunder.com/ilana/ We’re focusing on finding love this cuffing season, and we’re turning to Mindset Wellness CBD’s focus gummies to keep us on track. Get yours today www.mindsetwellness.com and use code SeeingOtherPeople at checkout for a discount!
57:36
October 05, 2021
BONUS: Timing, Profiles, and The Spark with Ilana & Jake
SUBSCRIBE HERE: https://anchor.fm/seeingotherpeople/subscribe Ilana's boyfriend Jake joins us to answer listener questions about how long to wait in between dates at the beginning, if instant connections real, meeting the parents, moving to a new city and how to start dating, what to add or not to your dating profile and more. Subscribe for $4.99 to gain access to bonus episodes and support Seeing Other People & your favorite podcast host, Ilana.
26:48
October 01, 2021
Unfiltered: Right Person, Wrong Time
On today's Unfiltered episode, I sit down with a 28 year old guy from New York City named Sam. Sam walks us through his complicated relationship with Taylor that began right before covid started, resulting in an unexpected Long distance relationship. Sam shares the struggles that he and Taylor faced including lack of communication, internal mental health issues, external pressures, family members adding their opinions in, and breaking up and getting back together multiple times. Support the show and gain access to bonus episodes here. After trying so many different kinds of prescription medications for his anxiety and depression, Sam ended up finding that CBD was the best solution in calming his mind and keeping his head on straight. CBD might be exactly what you need too. Try @mindsetwellnesscbd’s Calm gummies...I promise you won’t regret it. www.mindsetwellness.com and use code “SeeingOtherPeople” at checkout for 10% off and free shipping.
01:16:40
September 30, 2021
Chronically Single with Gigi Robinson
Gigi Robinson, Gen Z thought leader, chronic illness and mental health advocate, and the host of Spotify Greenroom's "Everything You Need Is Within" joins the show today. We discuss how social media makes us feel more single and isolated than we are, what it feels to not have gone on a date since 2019, dating during covid when you are immune compromised, how quarantine impacted friendships, navigating dating when you are chronically ill, and why you shouldn’t making snap judgments about potential dates based on their social media. Support the show and gain access to bonus episodes here.  Follow Gigi on TikTok and Instagram.  This episode talks about all of the things that have us anxious AF in dating, but we're staying CALM this month with the help of Mindset Wellness CBD's Calm gummies. They are a game changer in helping relieve the constant stress and anxiety that comes with modern dating. Get yours today and use code SeeingOtherPeople at checkout for 10% off and free shipping. 
01:08:02
September 28, 2021
BONUS: Ilana and Jake Talk Dating Anxiety & More
SUBSCRIBE HERE: https://anchor.fm/seeingotherpeople/episodes/Ilana-and-Jake-Talk-Dating-Anxiety--More-e17q6r7 Ilana's boyfriend Jake joins us to answer listener questions about age differences, pre-date anxiety, how to know when you're sharing too much too soon, why your dating app filters are wrong (and how to fix them) and more.  Subscribe for $4.99 to gain access to bonus episodes and support Seeing Other People & your favorite podcast host, Ilana.
35:16
September 24, 2021
What The F*ck’s Up With Cheating? with Caitlin Kelley
Caitlin Kelley, host of What The Fuck’s Up podcast, joins us for a deep dive into all things cheating. We analyze your responses to a series of cheating-focused IG story question boxes and polls, and discuss why people cheat, if they get caught if they come clean, the long term impacts of cheating and being cheated on, and how cheaters feel in the moment.  Caitlin shares her own story of being cheated on, why she initially chose to give him the benefit of the doubt, and what finally pushed her over the edge and caused her to end it for good. Finally, we debate the age old question, “Once a cheater, always a cheater?” We’re staying calm this month so we can be our best selves. Whether you’re dealing with dating burnout, debating getting back out there after a break over the summer, or fresh out of a toxic situationship, there’s nothing that Mindset Wellness CBD’s Calm Gummies can’t help you get through. What are you waiting for? Try them today at www.mindsetwellness.com
01:19:15
September 21, 2021
Unfiltered: My Vagina Says, "Do Not Enter"
On this episode I sit down with the woman who shares a story about being diagnosed with vaginismus. Vaginismus is a condition in which the vaginal muscles contract involuntarily during any form of vaginal penetration. Depending on the woman, the effects of vaginismus can vary from mild discomfort to severe pain. She shares what it was like to receive her diagnosis and how it’s impacted her dating life and daily life ever since. We’re staying calm this month so we can be our best selves. Whether you’re dealing with dating burnout, debating getting back out there after a break over the summer, or fresh out of a toxic situationship, there’s nothing that Mindset Wellness CBD’s Calm Gummies can’t help you get through. What are you waiting for? Try them today at www.mindsetwellness.com
55:18
September 16, 2021
From Heartbreak To Lyrics with GAYLE
Artist and songwriter GAYLE joins the show today to talk about what it’s like transforming her dating experiences into music and lyrics. We talk about the breakup that led to her new single "abcdefu," what it’s like putting her raw emotions out there for the world to hear, turning heartbreak into music, dating within the industry, writing revenge songs, the fear of never being good enough, and more. Check out the song "abcdefu" here and follow GAYLE on Instagram. We're keeping calm this September by listening to music, taking walks while we listen to Seeing Other People, and taking Mindset Wellness CBD's Calm Gummies. Try them today at www.mindsetwellness.com and use code "seeingotherpeople" at checkout for 10% off and free shipping!  Support the show! 
52:37
September 14, 2021
Unfiltered: My Nonconsensual Sexual Experience
TW: the following content may be sensitive for those who have experienced any form of sexual assault. On today’s episode, I’m joined by a woman who had a nonconsensual sexual experience when she was a college student. We hear about the events leading up to this, what actually happened in the moment, and how it’s impacted her long term. We discuss guilt, trust, consent, communication, safe dating and more. We’re focusing on staying calm this month so we can be our best selves in our daily lives and our dating lives. Whether you’re dealing with dating burnout, debating getting back out there after a break over the summer, or fresh out of a toxic situationship, there’s nothing that Mindset Wellness CBD’s Calm Gummies can’t help you get through. What are you waiting for? Try them today at www.mindsetwellness.com
50:38
September 09, 2021
See Them vs. See Other People with Tinah Ogalo
Tinah (with an H) Ogalo, host of the In Your Twentys podcast, joins us today for a deep dive into the most controversial and shocking poll results from the @seeingotherpeople Instagram Story that you’ve all been voting on. Get ready to hear about politics, cheating, family involvement, social media stalking, commitment issues, exclusivity and more. We’re focusing on staying calm this month so we can be our best selves in our daily lives and our dating lives. Whether you’re dealing with dating burnout, debating getting back out there after a break over the summer, or fresh out of a toxic situationship, there’s nothing that Mindset Wellness CBD’s Calm Gummies can’t help you get through. What are you waiting for? Try them today at www.mindsetwellness.com Support the show https://anchor.fm/seeingotherpeople/support
55:01
September 07, 2021
Unfiltered: How Body Image Insecurities Impact His Dating Life
TW: the following content may be sensitive for those with an eating disorder. On today’s episode, we hear from a 25 year old male who has struggled with body image issues and an eating disorder. He shares what it’s been like to date and use dating apps when you aren’t comfortable in your own skin. Presented by Mindset Wellness CBD. Not sure which mindset you want to choose? Now you don’t have to. Now with their new Total Mindset Gummy Assortment, you can get all your favorite mindsets in one. Head to www.mindsetwellness.com and use code SeeingOtherPeople off at checkout for 10% off and free shipping! Support the show https://anchor.fm/seeingotherpeople/support
42:58
September 02, 2021
Don’t Let Past Relationships Impact Future Ones with Dr. Abby Medcalf
Today we’re joined by Dr. Abby Medcalf, psychologist, best-selling author of "Be Happily Married: Even If Your Partner Won't Do a Thing Kindle" and host of the "Relationships Made Easy" podcast. We’re sitting down to discuss everything that you need to know about moving on, leaving the past in the past and not letting previous dating and relationship experiences impact present and future ones. Abby walks us through getting closure with yourself, learning how to live in the moment and not in the past, having high standards and low expectations, learning to trust yourself, setting boundaries, and more. Stressing about the past? Try Mindset Wellness's Calm CBD Gummies. Grab yours at www.mindsetwellness.com and use code "Seeingotherpeople" for 10% off and free shipping! Support the show,  hear bonus episodes, and sign up for your dating app profile revamp here. (https://www.patreon.com/seeingotherpeople)
01:03:58
August 31, 2021
Unfiltered: His Parents Didn't Accept Me
On today’s episode, Ilana sits down with Daniela, a 27 year old female living in Toronto, Canada. Daniela shares the story of the breakup she went through due to her partner's parents not supporting their relationship because of factors including her ethnicity, immigration status, age, career, and appearance. We discuss how this impacted her relationship, her self worth, and her values when it comes to dating and searching for a life partner. Presented by Mindset Wellness CBD. Not sure which mindset you want to choose? Now you don’t have to. Now with their new Total Mindset Gummy Assortment, you can get all your favorite mindsets in one. Head to www.mindsetwellness.com and use code SeeingOtherPeople off at checkout for 10% off and free shipping! Support the show https://anchor.fm/seeingotherpeople/support
01:00:18
August 26, 2021
Long Distance Survival Guide with Jamie and Max
LDR (Long Distance Relationship) survivors Jamie and Max walk us through the highs and lows of the four year long distance span of their relationship. We discuss their decision to pursue a long distance relationship during college, how they involved each other in their lives from afar, what visiting each other was like, how important it was to trust one another and practice straightforward communication, the shift that occurred when Max graduated and was starting his career in NYC during Jamie’s senior year of college, what aspects of their LDR made their now in person relationship stronger, how their LDR helped shape them into the independent and self sufficient people that they are today, and more.  Is your LDR stressing you out?  Mindset Wellness's Calm CBD Gummies are here to help.  Grab yours at www.mindsetwellness.com and use code "Seeingotherpeople" for 10% off and free shipping! Hear bonus episodes, and sign up for your dating app profile revamp here. (https://www.patreon.com/seeingotherpeople) Support the show https://anchor.fm/seeingotherpeople/support
48:60
August 24, 2021
Unfiltered: Get Knocked Down 2 Times, Get Back Up 3
Ilana sits down with a 28 heterosexual woman who currently lives in New York. She opens up about her first dating app experiences in 2019, which included somebody who ghosted her out of nowhere followed by a situation that had a tremendous negative impact on her mental and physical health.  We discuss how she overcame these traumatizing experiences in order to get back out there and end up in a healthy relationship. Presented by Mindset Wellness CBD. Not sure which mindset you want to choose? Now you don’t have to. Now with their new Total Mindset Gummy Assortment, you can get all your favorite mindsets in one. Head to www.mindsetwellness.com and use code SeeingOtherPeople off at checkout for 10% off and free shipping!Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/seeingotherpeople)
55:38
August 19, 2021
Everything You’re Doing Wrong In Dating with Damona Hoffman
Damona Hoffman is the Host of the podcast Dates & Mates, the official Dating Coach for OkCupid, a Love Expert on The Drew Barrymore Show, an Advice Columnist and more. Damona joins us to discuss the way dating has changed overtime, how we give dating apps too much power, why having a phone call before a date can be a game changer, what exclusivity really means and how to know if you’re exclusive with someone, and what happens if you actually express what you want. Presented by Mindset Wellness CBD! Head to www.mindsetwellness.com and check out the Calm and Happy gummies to help with your dating anxiety. Code "Seeingotherpeople" at checkout gets you 10% off and free shipping.Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/seeingotherpeople)
56:53
August 17, 2021
Unfiltered: I Called Off My Engagement
Ilana sits down with a 32 year old who called off her marriage just two months before the wedding. We hear what led to this decision, how she went about ending the engagement, what she’s learned from this experience, and what advice she has for anyone who is going through something similar or questioning whether or not their relationship is built to last.Presented by Mindset Wellness CBD. Not sure which mindset you want to choose? Now you don’t have to. Now with their new Total Mindset Gummy Assortment, you can get all your favorite mindsets in one. Head to www.mindsetwellness.com and use code SeeingOtherPeople off at checkout for 10% off and free shipping!Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/seeingotherpeople)
59:51
August 12, 2021
Let’s Get Confident with Serena Kerrigan
Serena Kerrigan, the Queen of Confidence and the creator of the show and card game Let’s F*cking Date and the new card game Let’s F*cking F*ck, joins us today to give us the scoop on how we can be more confident in our dating lives. We chat about how to portray yourself on dating apps, why texting isn’t real and you should get to the date before stalking and talking too much, whether or not they always come back, how it’s tough to see an ex move on, prioritizing work and relationships at the same time, getting back out there after heartbreak, and why you need to talk to yourself the way you would talk to your best friend. My favorite way to be more confident before going on a date is by taking Mindset Wellness CBD's calm gummies. Get yours today at www.mindsetwellness.com and use code "SeeingOtherPeople" at checkout for 10% off and free shipping!
55:02
August 10, 2021
Unfiltered: Am I Into Women, Too?
A 27-year-old woman takes over the Unfiltered mic to share her experience exploring her sexuality and coming out as bisexual.She explains what led to this exploration,  what her first dating experience with a woman was like, and how she came out to the people in her life.Anonymous opens up about the ups and downs of dating each gender, why dating apps don’t make bisexual dating easy, common misconceptions of bisexuality, and advice she has for anyone else who is considering exploring their sexuality. Presented by Mindset Wellness CBD. Use code "SeeingOtherPeople" to get 10% off and free shipping at MindsetWellness.com. PS…try the calm gummies to cure your dating anxiety :)
54:36
August 05, 2021
Seeing Each Other with Ilana & Jake
Backed by popular demand, Ilana’s boyfriend Jake is joining the show for a tell all about their relationship.  Ilana and Jake open up about how everything unfolded, starting with their Hinge meet-cute where Ilana didn’t respond, and followed by a “just fine” first date where the sparks were MIA.They share how things progressed, why Ilana wasn’t anxious for the first time, and when and how they became official. We also hear their first fight go down as they debate some of these details. Ilana and Jake answer listener questions about pre-date nerves, timing, communication, what it’s like dating a "dating expert," how long it took to feel comfortable with each other, what Jake likes and doesn’t like about Ilana and more. Jake closes out the episode by begging you to please support his girlfriend by following @seeingotherpeople on IG, signing up for the Patreon, leaving 5 star reviews, and sending the podcast to your friends. Ilana and Jake LOVE Seeing Other People’s sponsor Mindset Wellness CBD. They religiously take the Rest gummies because Jake steals the blankets and without the Rest dummies they wouldn’t be able to sleep. Get yours today at mindsetwellnesscbd.com and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 10% off and free shipping! 
01:00:44
August 03, 2021
Unfiltered: It’s Not Your Fault You’re Single
On this episode of Unfiltered I sit down with Austin (30M) who lives in Australia. When Austin was 15, he met someone who he ended up dating and marrying when he was 21. By the time he was 25, they got divorced, leaving him to enter the dating world for the first time as a single divorcee. He shares why his childhood experiences made him value love and relationships, and how his journey to really finding his person has been very difficult. We discuss what it was like for him to tell people that he was divorced, and we hear about the similarities and differences between dating in the US and dating in Australia.Presented by Mindset Wellness CBD. Use code "SeeingOtherPeople" to get 10% off and free shipping at www.mindsetwellnesscbd.com. PS…try the calm gummies to cure your dating anxiety :)
50:29
July 29, 2021
DTR, Communication and Commitment with Shaun Galanos @TheLoveDrive
Love, Communication and Intimacy Coach Shaun Galanos aka @thelovedrive joins us on Seeing Other People to share his expertise on how to be a better communicator, and all things DTR (defining the relationship). We discuss how to practice vulnerability and learn how to openly communicate, why you should explore the edges of your comfort zone, what to disclose and what not to disclose prior to meeting someone, how to navigate you or your date having a fear of commitment, what to do when someone says they’re not looking for something serious, when and how to have the DTR convo, what to do if they’re not on the same page, and more.  We close out the episode by answering listener questions.Presented by Mindset Wellness CBD. Use code "SeeingOtherPeople" to get 10% off and free shipping at www.mindsetwellnesscbd.com. PS…try the calm gummies to cure your dating anxiety :)
01:07:51
July 27, 2021
Unfiltered: Surprise! It’s an STI
On this Unfiltered episode we’re joined by a 26 year old female who was diagnosed with herpes. She shares what it was like receiving her diagnosis, communicating it to the person who transmitted it to her and what it’s been like to date with herpes. We hear how her diagnosis impacted her mental health and self worth and she walks us through the steps she took to get herself back to a good place. We learn about the common misconceptions about herpes, the resources that are available for those who find out they have herpes and how we can better communicate about sexually transmitted infections in order to reduce the stigma. Presented by Mindset Wellness CBD. Use code "SeeingOtherPeople" to get 10% off and free shipping at www.mindsetwellnesscbd.com. PS…try the calm gummies to cure your dating anxiety :)
56:45
July 22, 2021
Confessions of an Ex Fckboy with Andrew Dunn
Ilana’s older brother Andrew (31) is joining us on the podcast today to reassure us that once a fckboy, not always a fckboy. After years of immersing himself in a fuckboy bro-y culture (including being his fraternity’s social chair, promoting parties, and working for a nightlife startup), he turned a corner and began to learn that human connection and vulnerability was more valuable and fulfilling than partying and sex. Andrew walks us through what sparked his transformation, including taking a break from alcohol and dating while spending time in India, his move to the San Francisco Bay Area which allowed him to explore the spectrums of sex, gender, identity, etc., studying attachment styles, spirituality, and researching how childhood and ancestral trauma prevent us from showing up fully in life, and are often present major challenges in relationships of all types.Check out a piece by Andrew on his womanizing past: https://link.medium.com/65gcweVc2hbPresented by Mindset Wellness CBD. Use code "SeeingOtherPeople" to get 10% off and free shipping at www.mindsetwellnesscbd.com. Andrew loves their Rest gummies! 
01:13:49
July 20, 2021
Unfiltered: Guys Get Anxiety Too
On this Unfiltered episode, we’re joined by a 26 year old straight male in the New York City area to hear about his recent relationship that led him to experience anxiety the first time in his life. He shares what caused the anxiety – including the red flags that he ignored, what it felt like, and how he seeks out help by communicating to friends and family and starting therapy. Presented by Mindset Wellness CBD. Use code "SeeingOtherPeople" to get 10% off and free shipping at www.mindsetwellnesscbd.com. PS…try the calm gummies to cure your dating anxiety :) 
46:26
July 15, 2021
What Grandma Thinks We're Doing Wrong with Excuse My Grandma
Kim Murstein and Grandma Gail from the Excuse My Grandma podcast join the show this week to discuss the generational differences of what dating is like now vs when Grandma Gail was searching for love. We talk about how dating has changed over time, when and how “dating” began, social media’s role in dating, the ability to stalk a potential date or an ex, having too many options, the most surprising things about dating in the 50s and dating now, and more. Follow along at @excusemygrandma, @seeingotherpeople and @ilana.dunn.Presented by Mindset Wellness CBD. Use code "SeeingOtherPeople" to get 10% off and free shipping at www.mindsetwellnesscbd.com. PS…try the calm gummies to cure your dating anxiety :) 
01:02:32
July 13, 2021
Unfiltered: Finding Love After Loss
On this episode of Unfiltered, I’m joined by Caroline, a 27 year old living in New York City who is navigating dating after losing her older brother. She shares what it’s like to communicate her loss to a date, what people’s reactions have been, and how each individual has their own personal preference on the grieving process and on how and when to have these conversations with a potential partner. Caroline and I discuss how people can have more thoughtful and empathetic conversations surrounding loss and grief in order to destigmatize and reduce the overall awkwardness.Follow along on Instagram @seeingotherpeople and @ilana.dunn. Presented by Mindset Wellness CBD.  Head to to www.mindsetwellnesscbd.com and use code "SeeingOtherPeople" at checkout for 10% off and free shipping on all of my favorite CBD products. 
53:33
July 08, 2021
Double Dating with Fourplay Social
Ilana sits down with Julie and Danielle, the founders of Fourplay Social, a double dating app where friends team up and match with other pairs. We hear about why the duo decided to create a new dating app, the benefits of double dating are, how you can be a good wing-person for your single friends, and how to make dating fun when you feel burnt out. We also discuss why first dates shouldn’t be longer than an hour, how important the little things in dating are.Follow @fourplaysocial, visit Fourplay Social’s website at https://www.fourplaysocial.com/Presented by Mindset Wellness CBD.  Head to to www.mindsetwellnesscbd.com and use code "SeeingOtherPeople" at checkout for 10% off and free shipping on all of my favorite CBD products.
01:03:16
July 06, 2021
Unfiltered: 27 Years Single
Twenty-seven year old NYC resident, listener and friend Helena joins the Unfiltered family today to discuss the challenges of dating when you’ve never been in a relationship before. She opens up about the pressure she feels from her family, society, and herself to find love. Helena shares what she feels like she’s missing out on, how she discusses her “relationship history” with potential partners, and what her fears are for the future.Presented by Mindset Wellness CBD! Head to www.MindsetWellnessCBD.com and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 10% off and free shipping.
47:16
July 01, 2021
The Age of Loneliness with Smiley Poswolsky
Smiley Poswolsky, author of Friendship in the Age of Loneliness, joins Ilana on Seeing Other People to discuss human connection in today’s society and culture. Smiley shares his research and knowledge on opening your world up to new people, digging deeper with the people that you know, using technology to foster more meaningful connections, and more. He gives advice on maintaining friendships when you or a friend gets into a new relationship, what to do when your friend’s new significant other is bringing them down, and how to be a good friend to someone going through heartbreak or a difficult time. Follow Smiley @whatsupsmiley, visit Smiley’s website at https://smileyposwolsky.com/ and head to Amazon to buy the book! Presented by Mindset Wellness CBD.  Head to to www.mindsetwellnesscbd.com and use code "SeeingOtherPeople" at checkout for 10% off and free shipping on all of my favorite CBD products.
01:03:46
June 29, 2021
Unfiltered: I Left the Church to Save Myself
On this episode of unfiltered, I’m joined by a 24 year old female who has been grappling with religious sexual shame while trying to date. From a young age, she was taught that dating and sexual experiences were for marriage only. She has spent years reflecting on her religious upbringing and is now committed to starting over and dictating her own values as she beings to explore how she feels about casual dating, relationships, and the entire world of modern dating. Follow along on Instagram @seeingotherpeople and @ilana.dunn. Presented by Mindset Wellness CBD.  Head to to www.mindsetwellnesscbd.com and use code "SeeingOtherPeople" at checkout for 10% off and free shipping on all of my favorite CBD products. 
59:02
June 24, 2021
50 Dates in 50 States with Matthew Wurnig
Ilana sits down with Matthew Wurnig, the creator and dater behind 50 Dates in 50 States. Matthew shares how he got the idea to do a date in every state during the pandemic, first virtually, and then IRL. We discuss what it’s like meeting and dating people from all different backgrounds, how the place you grow up can impact your dating life, and how dating culture differs from state to state. We also learn what Matthew has learned about himself and about human connection throughout his journey. Check out Matthew’s journey on tiktok @50datesin50states and on IG @matthewwurnig.Presented by Mindset Wellness CBD! Go to www.mindsetwellnesscbd.com and use code "SeeingOtherPeople" at checkout for 10% off and free shipping on all of my favorite CBD products! 
54:57
June 22, 2021
What if you never find your person? PATREON PREVIEW
Head to www.patreon.com/seeingotherpeople to support the podcast and listen to the full episode! I discuss:-My thoughts on the last two episodes,- What if we never find our person?-My experience with medication for my anxiety and depression associated with dating and relationships-Q&APresented by Mindset Wellness CBD! Go to www.mindsetwellnesscbd.com and use code "SeeingOtherPeople" at checkout for 10% off and free shipping on all of my favorite CBD products! Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/seeingotherpeople)
01:20
June 17, 2021
Unfiltered: Feeling Broken After a Breakup
Real people. Real stories. Real life. Anonymous listeners join the show to have vulnerable and open conversations about what they’ve struggled with in their dating lives, what they wish they knew when going through their experience, and how they came out stronger. Topics to expect include dating after experiencing loss, STIs, eating disorders, abortions, mental health, trauma and more. No matter what you’re going through, you’re not alone. This is Seeing Other People UNFILTERED. Presented by Mindset Wellness CBD.On the first episode of UNFILTERED, Ilana is joined by Anonymous who is currently struggling to get over her ex after a difficult breakup. We hear about the events that unfolded leading to the breakup, how she feels addicted to checking his social media, and why we often stay in unhealthy relationships even when we know we deserve more. 7:18 How Ilana and our Anonymous guest met10:36 A letter from Anonymous to her ex20:08 The relationship – what went down?36:30 Walking away isn't easy 38:56 Ilana shares her breakup story44:53 Feeling unworthy of the person you’re with48:02 How Ilana and Anonymous have been working together54:01 What you’re mourning with heartbreak1:00:09 Regrets  1:06:38 Listener questionsHave a story you want to share on UNFILTERED? Email us at seeingotherpeoplepodcast@gmail.com. Head to www.MindsetWellnessCBD.com and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 10% off and free shipping!
01:19:12
June 15, 2021
Learning to Love Your Single Self with Sarah Sasson
On this episode of Seeing Other people, Ilana is joined by Sarah Sasson, her best friend and the co-host of the It’s Fine, I’m Fine podcast. Ilana and Sarah discuss overcoming the loneliness that comes with singlehood, how to make the most of being the only single one in the friend group, and why the more you know yourself the harder (but more rewarding) dating can be. PSA: Father's Day is coming on June 20th! We're hooking you up with 10% off and free shipping on all of Mindset Wellness CBD's products aka the best gifts ever. Use code "SeeingOtherPeople" at checkout! Follow the show www.instagram.com/seeingotherpeopleEmail your questions to SeeingOtherPeoplePodcast@Gmail.comHead to www.Patreon.com/SeeingOtherPeople to support the show, access bonus episodes, and have Ilana revamp your dating app profile. 
01:11:07
June 08, 2021
We're Breaking Up
On this special episode of Seeing Other People, we’re parting ways with one of our beloved hosts. We’re bad at goodbyes, but we did our best. Plus, it’s not goodbye, it’s see you later (worldwide…on a big screen…or a small screen…lots of screens…ok just listen). Tune in to hear the breaking news. Follow along and keep in touch www.instagram.com/jonahfeingold and make sure to check out Jonah’s new film Dating and New York!
12:42
June 03, 2021
Hot Vulnerability Summer
We’re diving into the ins and outs of being vulnerable in your dating life. When do you start opening up and being vulnerable? How can you be vulnerable without putting yourself at risk of over sharing? If someone’s not opening up to you, how can you encourage them to? What do you do if you feel closed off and afraid to be vulnerable after a heartbreak? Later in the episode, we practice vulnerability by playing the We’re Not Really Strangers card game and learn more about each other and ourselves in the process.   Presented by Mindset Wellness CBD. Father’s Day is coming up on June 20th! Head to www.mindsetwellnesscbd.com to grab the perfect Father’s Day gift! Use code “SeeingOtherPeople” at checkout for 10% off and free shipping.
46:29
June 01, 2021
Dating Coworkers, Trying Again With Exes, Physical Attraction & More. Full Q&A Episode!
We’re back with another full Q&A episode! How can you close the door on someone once and for all? How many dates in should you delete your dating apps? How do you tell your ex you want to give it another chance? How should you handle a crush on a coworker? What if you don't feel physically attracted to someone? All of this and more.DM us your questions @seeingotherpeople on IG or email us seeingotherpeoplepodcast@gmail.com. Presented by Mindset Wellness CBD. Father's day is coming up on June 20th and Mindset's CBD products make a perfect Father's day gift for a father or father figure (or dog-dad) in your life! Head to www.mindsetwellnesscbd.com and use code 'Seeing Other People' at checkout for 10% off and free shipping.
38:45
May 25, 2021
Everything You Need to Know About Dates with Jeremy Jacobowitz
Jeremy Jacobowitz aka Brunch Boys chats with Jonah and Ilana about all things going out on dates. Who should pay? Should it be drinks or dinner? What food is okay to order on a first date? How to maintain the same drinking speed as your partner - and more in this hilarious episode that pokes fun and brings awareness to the nuances of modern dating. The episode wraps with some listener questions Presented by Mindset Wellness CBD. Head to www.mindsetwellnesscbd.com and use code ‘SeeingOtherPeople’ at checkout to get 10% off and free shipping on all of your favorite CBD products!p.s. Jonah apologizes his mic was turned off and his sound is a bit reverb-y. 
53:49
May 18, 2021
Me in Search of You with Jenna Langbaum
Jenna Langbaum, author of “Me in Search of You,” joins us on this episode of Seeing Other People. Jenna’s writing beautifully dissects the nuances of modern dating, ghosting, and dating apps and helps to remind us that we’re not alone in what we’re facing, as we’re all connected by shared dating struggles. We discuss how the concept of ghosting is actually insane and how painful and confusing getting ghosted can really be. We explore how dating apps have led us to consider potential partners based on their basic credentials. We debate if dating is really just a numbers game. Finally, Jenna helps us answer listener questions about whether or not to text a guy after meeting at a party and spending the night, what to do when your friend’s SO is toxic, and how to navigate simply not liking your friend’s partner.  “Me in Search of You” is available everywhere books are sold. Follow Jenna @jennalangbaum for more!   Presented by Mindset Wellness CBD. Head to www.mindsetwellnesscbd.com and use code ‘SeeingOtherPeople’ at checkout to get 10% off and free shipping on all ofy0our favorite CBD products!
48:34
May 11, 2021
It's Complicated: Situationships with Finding Mr. Height
Situationships? More like situationshits. We’re diving into the ins and outs of situationships with Ali and Roark of Finding Mr. Height: The Podcast. What exactly is a situationship and how do you know if you’re in one? Can you turn a situationship into a relationship? How do you know when it’s time to leave? We’re discussing all of this, answering listener questions, and so much more. Need a last minute Mother's Day gift? We're hooking you up with 10% off and free shipping for all of Mindset Wellness CBD's products. Head to www.mindsetwellnesscbd.com, stock up on CBD gummies, drops, honey sticks and more, and use code 'seeingotherpeople' at checkout. 
01:02:38
May 04, 2021
How to Date in 2021 with @nycdatenite
We go on a date with Alexis Wolfe AKA @nycdatenite to talk all about post-pandemic dating. From getting back out there and going on that first in-person date in over a year, to determining what the best and worst types of places to go on a first date are, we’re covering all of the bases for you to shoot your shot at love (after getting that #vax shot). -How to choose a first date spot-What not to talk about on your date -Why you shouldn’t have a regular “first date spot” -What to do if you’re not yet comfortable with indoor dining-How to tell someone you don’t want to go to the place they suggested -What to do if you think you’re getting ghosted -Bachelor & Bachelorette of the week Follow Alexis at @nycdatenite and check out her website www.nycdatenite.com. Presented by Mindset Wellness CBD. Use code "SeeingOtherPeople" to get 10% off and free shipping at www.mindsetwellnesscbd.comSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/seeingotherpeople)
48:04
April 28, 2021
Getting To Know Each Other / TWISOP / Patreon Preview
hey fam, here's a sneak preview of TWISOP, our weekly patreon episode where we talk all inner-canon SOP things, personal lives, and overall just a fun convo. In this episode,  when was the last time we cried? Did you know Ilana owned birds growing up? And let's talk about Jonah's summer romance with ____ from Starbucks. have a great week and enjoy!We'd love your support https://www.patreon.com/seeingotherpeoplexoJonah and Ilana
02:26
April 26, 2021
So You Think You Can Date? with Sandro D'Abruzzo
We chat with Sandro D’Abruzzo, author of “So You Think You Can Date?” We hear what led Sandro to write about how to find success in dating and his experiences dating around the world. We discuss the importance of being yourself from the start in any dating situation, and get into the nitty gritty of how to actually practice being yourself.  Sandro shares what the process of writing his book was like, and we dive into topics like spontaneity, self perception, and whether or not guys are complicated or overly simple. Presented by Mindset Wellness CBD. Use code "SeeingOtherPeople" to get 10% off and free shipping at www.mindsetwellnesscbd.com. 
28:58
April 22, 2021
Should We Give Second Chances? Full Q&A Episode
We love when you ask us questions, so we're taking up a whole episode to answer as many of them as we can!  We're answering questions including:  Do people deserve second chances? How soon is too soon to have sex? If we didn't kiss on the first date, is it doomed? How do I ask someone to put effort into planning dates?  Why do people lose interest? Do guys still ask to be official? Plus long distance, pandemicships, DTR, and more!  Have a question that you need answered? Email us seeingotherpeoplepodcast@gmail.com or check out our Instagram Story AMAs every Friday and Sunday @seeingotherpeople.Presented by Mindset Wellness CBD. Use code "SeeingOtherPeople" to get 10% off and free shipping at www.mindsetwellnesscbd.com. PS…try the Calm gummies to cure your dating anxiety :) 
44:17
April 20, 2021
Why You Should Double Message / TWISOP / Patreon Preview
hey fam, here's a sneak preview of TWISOP, our weekly patreon episode where we talk all inner-canon SOP things, personal lives, and overall just a fun convo. in this episode, how a double message on Hinge led to romance, Jonah in need of new things to talk about besides dating, and much more! have a great weekend and enjoy!We'd love your support https://www.patreon.com/seeingotherpeoplexoJonah and Ilana
02:14
April 19, 2021
Dating with Chronic Illness with Noa Porten
Today's guest is Noa Porten who hosts the Spooning with Spoonies podcast where she chats about dating and relationships with experts, singles, and couples from the chronic illness community. We learn how chronic illness can impact someone’s dating life and daily life, and how tools like setting boundaries and practicing open communication are crucial in the search for a lasting romantic partnership. For those who are chronically ill, Noa shares advice on how and when to comfortably communicate information about your chronic illness to someone you’re seeing. For listeners who do not have a chronic illness, we learn more about what it means to have chornic illness and how we can best support someone if and when they inform us of theirs. Check out @spooningwithspoonies and listen to the show on your favorite podcast platform! Presented by Mindset Wellness CBD. Use code "SeeingOtherPeople" to get 10% off and free shipping at www.mindsetwellnesscbd.com 💙Follow us on Instagram and TikTok @seeingotherpeople and @ilana.dunn and @jonahfeingold on IG. Shop our swag store, sign up for our mailing list and more at www.seeingotherpeoplepodcast.com
22:22
April 15, 2021
How To Be a Good Texter
The episode you probably knew you needed is finally here. Are your texting habits holding you back from finding what you’re looking for? Are they not into you if they don’t text you back right away? Can it work if you’re a “bad” texter? Are you rightfully stressing over your crush’s response time or are you expecting too much? Does lack of texting mean the relationship is doomed before it even started? We’re breaking down everything about texting when it comes to dating so you can have the tools to text for success. Towards the end of the episode, we shift gears and answer your questions about paying for dating apps, when is the right time to make things official, and how to ask friends and family to set you up with people without coming off as desperate. Presented by Mindset Wellness CBD. Use code "SeeingOtherPeople" to get 10% off and free shipping at www.mindsetwellnesscbd.com 💙Follow us on Instagram and TikTok @seeingotherpeople and @ilana.dunn and @jonahfeingold on IG. Shop our swag store, sign up for our mailing list and more at www.seeingotherpeoplepodcast.comSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/seeingotherpeople)
51:39
April 13, 2021
One Of Us Basically Has A Boyfriend / TWISOP / Patreon Preview
hey fam, here's a sneak preview of TWISOP, our weekly patreon episode where we talk all inner-canon SOP things, personal lives, and overall just a fun convo. have a great weekend and enjoy!We'd love your support https://www.patreon.com/seeingotherpeoplexoJonah and Ilana
00:35
April 10, 2021
Wedding Szn Survival Guide with Nicole Pellegrino
Nicole Pellegrino, cohost of the Betches Brides podcast joins us to prep you all for this year’s wedding season. Nicole spills the secrets to what has kept her eight year relationship going strong how we can work towards keeping that relationship (once we all find it). She shares the important of enjoying your independence when you’re single and carrying that independence with you into a relationship. Nicole gives us the scoop on what brides and grooms are doing to help their single friends out at weddings, and we discuss how we can all turn weddings into opportunities to spark your own love story by putting yourself out there to meet someone new at a wedding. Finally, we debate how soon is too soon to start planning your wedding. Hear more from Nicole on @betchesbrides and @nicolepellegrin0! Presented by Mindset Wellness CBD. Use code "SeeingOtherPeople" to get 10% off and free shipping at www.mindsetwellnesscbd.com 💙Follow us on Instagram and TikTok @seeingotherpeople and @ilana.dunn and @jonahfeingold on IG. Shop our swag store, sign up for our mailing list and more at www.seeingotherpeoplepodcast.com
20:26
April 08, 2021
Is Every App a Dating App? & Friends with Benefits
Not having the best luck meeting people on dating apps? This episode is all about other ways you can put yourself out there and find love. Whether it be the comment section of a post on any platform, through TikTok (Jonah’s favorite dating app), sliding into the DMs, or finding love on Club Penguin (Ilana’s pick), it’s not all about dating apps. Our listeners chime in to tell us about their experiences meeting people via email, Instagram DM, and from a TikTok video. We discuss the right ways to approach people on all different platforms so you can set yourself up for success. Later, we change gears to meeting someone IRL– in an elevator to be specific, as we sit down with Ilana’s good friend and former FWB, Alex. Ilana and Alex share their story of their transition from friends, to friends with benefits, to a situationship that took them on a European "honeymoon," all the way to a potential relationship, and finally to a friendship-ruining spiral. We dive into the nuances of friends with benefits, whether or not it’s possible to go from FWB to a relationship, and if you can be FWB without ruining the friendship. Presented by Mindset Wellness CBD. Use code "SeeingOtherPeople" to get 10% off and free shipping at www.mindsetwellnesscbd.com 💙Follow us on Instagram and TikTok @seeingotherpeople. Shop our swag store, sign up for our mailing list and more at www.seeingotherpeoplepodcast.com
56:13
April 06, 2021
Can Booty Calls Turn Into Relationships? / TWISOP / Patreon Preview
Welcome to a new segment - This Week In Seeing Other People aka TWISOP - a Patreon only weekly segment where we discuss the episode of the week, what's happening on the internet, our dating lives, and any and all things related to the Seeing Other People universe.In this episode we talk whether booty calls can turn into relationships or friendships, the 48 hour rule on creative decision making, and more!Support us on Patreon to listen, get discounts on merch, a dating profile re-vamp, and more! xoJonah and Ilana
01:53
April 02, 2021
Dating After The Bachelorette with Ed Waisbrot
We’re kicking off our Thursday episode series by catching up with Bachelor Nation’s Ed Weisbrot. We hear about Ed’s dating life since his time on Clare/Tayshia’s season and he shares how being on the show reinforced the importance of authenticity, vulnerability and communication. Ed talks about why he has chosen to stay off of dating apps, how he’s been meeting people IRL, and why Whole Foods is the best spot to find your soulmate. We discuss whether or not all dates should end with a rose ceremony, what the audience saw vs. what really went down throughout, and what really happened on that infamous night when he knocked on Chris Harrison's door. Finally, Ilana shoots her shot with Ed. Pesented by Mindset Wellness CBD. Use code "SeeingOtherPeople" to get 10% off and free shipping at www.mindsetwellnesscbd.com 💙Follow us on Instagram and TikTok @seeingotherpeople. Shop our swag store, sign up for our mailing list and more at www.seeingotherpeoplepodcast.com.
19:31
April 01, 2021
Booty Call to Bride with Rishi Mathur
We're joined by comedian Rishi Mather who kicks off the episode by sharing how he’s been navigating his parents’ disapproval of his engagement. We discuss how some couples stay together even while being unhappy because of what society would think of them if they split up, especially in Indian culture. Rishi tells us how he met his now fiancé on Tinder (we love a dating app success story!) and spent four days building up the courage to send that opening message. What started out as a booty call ended up slowly developing into a long-term situation ship, and after months of unpacking each other’s pasts and learning everything about each other, they finally made things official. We close the episode out with a few rounds of ‘Save The Date’ to determine how you can bounce back from date-ruining scenarios including screenshooting their text and accidentally sending it back to them, unexpectedly blurting out “I love you,” and the unfortunate but classic stomach-issues-at-their-place debacle. Presented by Mindset Wellness CBD. Use code "SeeingOtherPeople" to get 10% off and free shipping at www.mindsetwellnesscbd.com
52:30
March 30, 2021
Behind The Scenes Of Ilana’s Bathtub Pic / TWISOP / Patreon Preview
Welcome to a new segment - This Week In Seeing Other People aka TWISOP - a Patreon only weekly segment where we discuss the episode of the week, what's happening on the internet, our dating lives, and any and all things related to the Seeing Other People universe.In this episode we talk about a popular dating trend amongst listeners, how to tell if someone is single from their IG grid, and the behind the scenes look at Ilana's smash hit IG post. Support us on Patreon to listen, get discounts on merch, a dating profile re-vamp, and more! xoJonah and Ilana
04:04
March 25, 2021
Coming Out at Twenty Seven
New Yorker and friend of the show, Derek Lindsey, joins us today to share his experience coming out in his late twenties. Derek opens up about his fears about coming out and shares what finally pushed him to do so. We dive into the differences between straight and gay dating on dating apps as well as specific nuances of gay vs straight relationships. Derek gives his advice for anyone who might be struggling with their sexuality or debating whether or not to come out.  Later, we discuss how Derek’s family and friends reacted to the news, and Derek provides his insight on what he wishes people knew about how to navigate that conversation with a friend or loved one who is coming out. Finally, we answer listener questions about the spark disappearing, how long you should wait for someone to be ready to date after getting out of a relationship, and how to choose between wanting something fun and wanting something longterm.Presented by Mindset Wellness CBD. Use code "SeeingOtherPeople" to get 10% off and free shipping at www.mindsetwellnesscbd.com
52:08
March 23, 2021
Patreon Preview / An Intimate Glance At Ilana And Jonah's Dating Lives
A preview from our monthly Patreon only episode. Jonah tells us about his love at first date moment, and Ilana shares why she’s afraid to develop feelings for someone. The two discuss a few more intimate topics about their personal lives, including the anxiety that comes from finally liking someone. To listen to the full episode, and get a handful of bonus perks, join us on Patreon at the link below!https://www.patreon.com/seeingotherpeoplepodcast
03:22
March 18, 2021
Defining Dating with Jared Freid
We’re hanging (socially distanced…of course) it with Jared Freid on this episode of Seeing Other People! We kick things off with a friendly reminder that social media relationships aren’t what they seem. We chat about how communication is easier said than done, because we all have different definitions of what each step of the modern dating process means to us.  Jared shares what he would do to fix modern dating if he was cupid. Later, we play a game of “Save The Date” where we dissect potential date fail scenarios and come up with game plans to help you save the date in the moment if this ever happens to you. Jared helps us answer listener questions including: what to do if you don’t like your friend’s girlfriend, why guys bring up future plans while on the first date, and how to slide into the DMs. Check out Jared’s comedy special ‘Socially Distanced…Of Course’ on Youtube and take a listen to The Jtrain Podcast and U Up? 
01:15:50
March 16, 2021
Married to the Business with Jon and Rene Shapiro
We’re sitting down (virtually) with Jon and Rene Shapiro, husband and wife and founders Mixology and Mindset Wellness CBD. The Shapiros open up about the highs and lows of building a life, a family and a business together. They share how Rene supported Jon through his battle with anxiety and depression, how they struggled to separate not bringing work home with them, and why they decided to leave the fashion industry behind to build a CBD company together. Finally, we answer listener questions about what to do if you know someone might be cheating, how to navigate being stuck in the penpal zone,  and whether or not you should let your new significant other know which friend(s) you have history with. Presented by Mindset Wellness CBD. Use code "SeeingOtherPeople" to get 10% off and free shipping at www.mindsetwellnesscbd.com
52:10
March 09, 2021
We Have History with Francesca Beauman
We're traveling back in time with Francesca Beauman, writer, historian, and the world’s leading expert in Personal Ads, to learn about how people “dated” throughout history.  We discuss how we got to where we are in dating culture, and how society transitioned from arranged marriages and courting to the casual hookup culture of today’s modern dating world.  We learn how advancements like transportation and technology impacted the way people date, and finally we chat about what dating might look like 100 years from now (and what people then think of how we dated in 2021.) Presented by Mindset Wellness CBD. Use code "SeeingOtherPeople" to get 10% off and free shipping at www.mindsetwellnesscbd.com
01:00:32
March 02, 2021
Unplanned
"Get an abortion" was not on her college bucket list. She never thought she would have to call her parents and say, "I'm pregnant." Our guest opens up about her experience getting an abortion her senior year of college. She shares everything from moment she found out, to the aftermath and trauma she's dealt with as a result. We learn how her friends and family helped her get through it, and we hear about what was going through her mind as she made important decisions including not telling the guy she had been sleeping with that she was pregnant. Whether or not this has or will happen to you or someone you know, we encourage you to listen and learn with an open mind and an open heart. For more information about pregnancy, birth control, women's health, and more, please visit www.plannedparenthood.com. 
30:44
February 23, 2021
How To Get Over Someone feat. Amy Chan of Renew Breakup Bootcamp
We’re joined by Amy Chan, Founder of Renew Breakup Bootcamp and author of Breakup Bootcamp -The Science of Rewiring Your Heart. In this episode, we learn how to navigate what happens in your brain and your body when you go through a breakup. We discuss what steps you should take if you’re struggling to get over someone, how to identify when you’re ready to get back out there, and why you shouldn’t spend your time in bed with chocolate, ice cream, wine and rom-coms. Finally, we chat about the importance of friendship in getting over someone and how you can support a friend who is going through a breakup. 
01:05:07
February 16, 2021
V****tine's Day Survival Guide
Happy almost February 14th! AKA, the day that comes after February 13th and before February 15th. If this day makes you anxious, nervous, or sad,  have no fear. We are here to walk you through being single AND happy on V****tine's Day. We chat about our past Feb 14th experiences, what to do and what not to do on the day, and we treat you to some hilarious listener-submitted date fails.
38:57
February 11, 2021
Disagreeing with We Met at Acme
We’re going head to head with Lindsey Metselaar, host of We Met at Acme, to debate some of the most common "rules" of dating, including  girls shouldn't text first and whether or not you should send a "thank you" text after a date. We discuss what went down when we first met and went on a date back in 2019,  and Lindsey gives us the low down on whether or not we're are astrologically compatible. Finally, Lindsey spills the tea on the time she crafted all of her friend's texts to a guy...for three months...
59:56
February 09, 2021
Thirty, Flirty and Dating with Zahra Sahebzada
Repeat after us: being thirty and single is OKAY. We're joined by Zahra Sahebzada who is here to discuss her experiences dating in New York City as an Afghan Muslim. Zahra breaks down what it's like to be the first in her family to not have an arranged marriage,  how to not feel like there's something wrong with you if you haven't found your person by the age you hoped to, how stalking someone on social media before you get the chance to know them IRL can be misguiding, and more. We close out the episode by answering listener-submitted questions about intentions, communication, and at what point to give up hope on a conversation progressing. Follow @zahrasahebzada and @seeingotherpeople for more! 
47:18
February 02, 2021
The Dating App Episode
Why am I not getting any matches? Why are my conversations not turning into dates? What is the deal with all of the fish photos?  If you've ever asked yourself any of these questions, we promise you're not alone. This episode is the ultimate guide to setting yourself up for success on dating apps starting with choosing the right photos and prompt answers, to having productive conversations, and getting out on dates. 
53:47
January 26, 2021
What Guys Wish Girls Knew & What Girls Wish Guys Knew
On this week's episode, we're sharing our listener's responses to what they wish the people they were dating knew. It's the tell-all that you didn't know you desperately needed to hear. Ladies, buckle up and get ready to find out what the guys out there are begging you to realize. Gentleman, tune in to hear what the ladies are really thinking and what "it's fine" actually means! 
53:50
January 19, 2021
Anatomy of a F***boy with Dylan Farella
We're breaking down what it really means to be a f**kperson  with the help of @dfarella, everyone’s favorite internet boyfriend. What are a f******y's true intentions? What do you do if you start sending f******y behavior from someone you're interested in? Are f******y misunderstood? Is there a little f******y in all of us? We answer all of these questions, and more. Follow us on Instagram @seeingotherpeople Twitter @seeingotherppls, TikTok @seeingotherpeople and email your dating questions to us seeingotherpeoplepodcast@gmail.com. 
48:23
January 12, 2021
We're Getting Back Together
New year, new podcast! Hey guys, it’s Ilana and Jonah and we are back and better than ever! Today is Dating Sunday, the busiest online dating day of the year, and the perfect day to kick off Episode 1 of our brand new podcast, Seeing Other People. We’re catching up the status of our relationship, the current state of dating, what it’s been like to be single during quarantine, and SO MUCH MORE. Episodes will come out weekly on Tuesdays. Follow us on Twitter @seeingotherppls, TikTok @seeingotherpeople,  Ilana's Instagram @ilana.dunn, Jonah's Instagram @jonahfeingold and email your dating questions to us seeingotherpeoplepodcast@gmail.com. TEXT & CALL US (929) 400-7104. Intro and Outro Music By: Grant Fonda
45:35
January 03, 2021