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Conversations With The Fit Priest

Conversations With The Fit Priest

By Selema

Join me as we have conversations about love, faith, relationships, navigating adulthood and everything in-between.
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THE PRODIGAL YEAR

Conversations With The Fit Priest Mar 15, 2022

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ASK SELEMA: GETTING APPROACHED

ASK SELEMA: GETTING APPROACHED

In this episode, I talk about getting approached as a woman who is ready to date but isn’t getting the attention you want or desire.
Oct 30, 202327:42
ASK SELEMA: Dating, vetting and Questions

ASK SELEMA: Dating, vetting and Questions

In this episode, I answer questions asked on Instagram and drop some dating game you didn’t know happens during vetting.
Oct 29, 202301:31:15
WHY I CHOSE HIM (PART 4)

WHY I CHOSE HIM (PART 4)

Join me as I have a conversation with Lydia (my first ever client) about her marriage with her wonderful husband and why she chose him. Lydia is Christian and she’s married to a Muslim. I wanted to know how they navigate and what they did differently that got them to “I do.” Enjoy!
Jul 15, 202301:19:07
WHY I CHOSE HIM (Part 3)

WHY I CHOSE HIM (Part 3)

Come with me on the Journey of why Dr.Vivian chose her husband. As usual this series is to expose why different people make the choice to forever and their thought process behind it. Romantic partnerships aren’t one side fits all and I believe that every situation has one or two things to teach you. ENJOY!
Jul 09, 202301:17:17
WHY I CHOSE HIM (Part 2)

WHY I CHOSE HIM (Part 2)

Come with me on the journey of Mrs Ruth Joseph who is a Christian married to an atheist as she tells her story of how they met, why she chose him and what it feels like to have a spouse who doesn’t share her faith. Enjoy!
Feb 25, 202336:46
DATING ADVICE: MODERN DATING 1

DATING ADVICE: MODERN DATING 1

In this episode I talk about modern dating and my new speed dating spaces on twitter.
Sep 13, 202214:52
ABANDONMENT ISSUES & LIFE UPDATE

ABANDONMENT ISSUES & LIFE UPDATE

In this episode, I talk about abandonment issues and what it births. Then I give a brief update about where I’m at in life. Enjoy!
Jun 29, 202235:03
PROVISION

PROVISION

In this episode we talk about the full meaning of provision in partnerships and what women need to look out for more. We discuss vetting men based on other things other than financial provision and we ask women to raise their standards when it comes to what they accept as bare minimum. It’s my first live recorded episode too. Enjoy!
Jun 01, 202201:22:24
I LOVE YOU

I LOVE YOU

I love you is one of the most used three letter sentences in the world. In this episode, I talk a little about how I’ve come to understand it.
Apr 30, 202228:02
THE PRODIGAL YEAR

THE PRODIGAL YEAR

In this episode I talk about struggling with life, faith, existence and everything in between my struggle. I expose questioning my why for abstinence, God and the path that led me down to wandering off into my prodigal year. Enjoy
Mar 15, 202257:32
BEING HOMELESS

BEING HOMELESS

On this episode, Ada and I talk about living together. We hope you have a few laughs. Happy Valentine’s Day!
Feb 14, 202248:56
WHY I CHOSE HIM (Part 1)

WHY I CHOSE HIM (Part 1)

This is going to be a series with a few episodes in it. In this episode we talk to Enkay Umeh who is a lawyer about marriage, deal breakers, experience and why she chose who she chose.
Jan 14, 202254:15
HAPPY 2ND ANNIVERSARY

HAPPY 2ND ANNIVERSARY

We begin the new Season with contributions from a few of you about what you like about the podcast, why you listen and how it’s helped you.
Nov 30, 202126:14
SINGLENESS: JOURNEYING

SINGLENESS: JOURNEYING

In this episode Eketti, Amarachi and I discuss the highs, lessons, lows and everything in between about being a single Christian that is abstaining.
Aug 01, 202101:49:45
LOVETH AND POETRY

LOVETH AND POETRY

In this episode I sit down with an amazing poet Loveth and talk about her art, she performs a bit of her work and tells us about her journey so far.
Jul 21, 202148:47
27, CELIBATE AND LEARNING (Part 2)

27, CELIBATE AND LEARNING (Part 2)

In this episode Eketti and I talk about celibacy, learning as you grow and everything in between.
Jul 14, 202101:33:42
I USED TO BE MUSLIM

I USED TO BE MUSLIM

In this episode Musty and I talk about conversion. His journey to Christ, being and growing up Muslim, telling his family about his new faith and how difficult but rewarding it’s been to be Christian.
Jun 24, 202101:28:02
DEAR FUTURE HUSBAND 3

DEAR FUTURE HUSBAND 3

In this episode I write another letter to My Future Husband about what turning 27 and healing.
Mar 27, 202109:07
27, Celibate and Growing. (Part 1)

27, Celibate and Growing. (Part 1)

In this episode Adanna and I talk about getting older, being celibate and things we’ve learnt. There’s a Q&A in this podcast about me being celibate. Enjoy!
Mar 04, 202101:21:27
DEAR FUTURE HUSBAND 2

DEAR FUTURE HUSBAND 2

These letters follow my journey of confronting myself, healing, loss and the final admittance of how I really feel. Enjoy!
Dec 09, 202023:26
RAGE

RAGE

In this episode Ada and I talk about Rage, loss and the rage that comes with loss. We are completely broken open in this episode about different points in our lives. We have another special guest answer a few questions about Rage and her journey out of it.
Nov 15, 202001:15:02
THE CONVERSATION

THE CONVERSATION

In this episode I get a couple of people to contribute on a conversation that I think is long overdue.
Aug 04, 202001:26:03
DATING 101

DATING 101

In this episode I get different submissions from a couple of awesome people on what dating is, share real time conversation with a friend and drop some gist of my past dating career lol.
Jul 12, 202001:28:40
FAITH, STYLE AND ‘WHAT’S TYPICAL’.

FAITH, STYLE AND ‘WHAT’S TYPICAL’.

This episode is sponsored by BLESSED AFRIQUE. We talk about having style and being a Christian. What a ‘typical’ Christian needs to look like and if there is even something like a ‘typical’ Christian. Three awesome guests; June, Chibem and Fisayo share their take on the topic. A big thank you to our sponsor @blessedafriqueboutique
Jun 25, 202043:50
DO YOU LIKE YOUR PARTNER?

DO YOU LIKE YOUR PARTNER?

In this episode I talk about liking a person for their individuality and not for how they make you feel. My aim is to help you go on a path of introspection and step out of the bubble of selfishness that we as humans too often like to exist in when it comes to love and relationships in our lives.
Jun 15, 202042:20
DEAR FUTURE HUSBAND

DEAR FUTURE HUSBAND

In this episode I bring season 2 to an end and I share some of the letters in my Dear future husband collection.
May 17, 202010:04
THE LONE WOLF

THE LONE WOLF

In this episode I talk about the importance of community and how the faith walk was never meant to be done alone.
Apr 20, 202028:05
EFFORT IS NOT ROCKET SCIENCE

EFFORT IS NOT ROCKET SCIENCE

In this episode I talk about simple ways you can make an effort the partners you’re with or intending to be with. A lot of times it’s not about the amount of money you spend, it’s about the gesture and the thought behind what you do.
Apr 16, 202033:56
JO DEEP’s SALVATION STORY

JO DEEP’s SALVATION STORY

In this episode I got Jo deep to tell josh and I his salvation story from beginning. When I first heard parts of it I thought it was really interesting and I wanted you guys to hear it too.
Mar 21, 202046:36
SUBMISSION

SUBMISSION

In this episode I talk to Jo deep and Joshua about Submission as described in the Bible. We go further to explain the text in detail and throw more light on why it is important to understand the text, understand why and what it is saying, and to possess proper knowledge. It is our hope that men and women listen and not only break free from situations and connections Abba did not ask them to be in. But that we bring light to the hearts of those that have been affected by the wrong interpretation of this message.
Mar 19, 202048:43
LET’S TALK SEX

LET’S TALK SEX

In this episode I talk about having the important conversations while you’re dating and knowing what the next steps are in a situation where your partner or you have had a colorful past and your idea of sex had been tainted.
Mar 07, 202027:25
WHY DO YOU WANT MARRIAGE? Part 1

WHY DO YOU WANT MARRIAGE? Part 1

In this episode Joshua and I try and explain, break down what the intention for marriage was, what it should be, the primary reason to do it and fully understanding love. I wanted to show the perspective from someone who is already married first. Let this bring light.
Feb 23, 202001:01:19
Marriage, Sex and Love.

Marriage, Sex and Love.

In this episode Josh is back!!! We talk about marriage and sex the right way. From the perspective of how it was created by Abba. The idea of this episode was to help young Christians understand some questions they have but are too afraid to ask about sex, marriage and love.
Feb 21, 202048:44
INTIMACY AND ITS FORMS

INTIMACY AND ITS FORMS

In this episode I discuss the different forms of intimacy and how there are so many bridges to cross before you get to physical intimacy.
Feb 13, 202027:25
“RELATIONSHIPS ARE ONE SIDED”

“RELATIONSHIPS ARE ONE SIDED”

In this episode I talk about how selfish a lot of women are in relationships and how there needs to be alot of unlearning and growth if we’re going to exist in mutually beneficial relationships.
Feb 08, 202018:43
“I AM NOT A CREATIVE”

“I AM NOT A CREATIVE”

In this episode I have a conversation with Fisayo about creativity, struggling to find your voice and what being a creative really means. Enjoy!
Jan 31, 202045:03
A PRAYER

A PRAYER

Happy New Year Guys! In this episode I say a prayer, talk about the 100 questions book, and drop my latest announcement.
Jan 19, 202007:45
AMBITION, FEAR AND FAILURE. PART 2

AMBITION, FEAR AND FAILURE. PART 2

I found my lost files!!! This episode with Mayo was supposed to come out a long time ago but this just might be perfect timing. We are going into a new year and so many people are still crippled by fear, I loved this episode because he was honest and real about overcoming his own fear mentally and so many people need to hear someone actually living through this talk about it. For me it was important that Mayo spoke about this because he’s built a successful business after overcoming his own fear. Enjoy!
Dec 31, 201930:28
December 9, 2019

December 9, 2019

Dec 09, 201900:50
CELIBACY

CELIBACY

In this episode Pauline and I have an honest conversation about celibacy, navigating this Christian journey as a celibate Christian and understanding your why.
Nov 19, 201955:10
RELATIONSHIPS AND STANDARDS

RELATIONSHIPS AND STANDARDS

In this episode i have a conversation with Ruth Dania and Michael osai about standards in relationships. Platonic and romantic. We share a few personal stories and break down what bare minimum needs to start from and how low the bar has been set by both genders.
Nov 14, 201955:10
EVERYDAY JOSHUA AND I

EVERYDAY JOSHUA AND I

Josh and i were having a normal conversation and we literally hit record because so many gems were being dropped. It’s my most random podcast yet.
Nov 14, 201916:33
HOW I GOT SAVED- JOSHUA’S STORY

HOW I GOT SAVED- JOSHUA’S STORY

In this episode i have a sit down with Joshua and he breaks open about his journey to finding Jesus. We have an open conversation about salvation, faith, finding Jesus and love. We had so much fun recording this because Josh and i literally have everyday conversations like these.
Nov 12, 201954:39
CHRISTIANS AND FITNESS: STORY TIME

CHRISTIANS AND FITNESS: STORY TIME

In this episode i talk about Christians being self righteous when it comes to fitness and trying to play ojota holy spirit by condemning me to hell for being a personal trainer.
Nov 11, 201916:17
AMBITION, FEAR AND FAILURE PART 1.

AMBITION, FEAR AND FAILURE PART 1.

In this episode I have a conversation with the CEO Of BodyRox Fitness Studios Abuja, Mayo Okunnu. In a generation that feels they have to rush wealth and have everything figured out immediately it was important to have a conversation with someone who has lived and lives this life. We go through his journey of fear, ambition and him figuring things out as he went. The idea is that you can relate to him and understand that nobody has it ‘the perfect life’.
Oct 26, 201927:12
DATE NIGHT 1

DATE NIGHT 1

I feel like people are forgetting just how much effort needs to be put into dating. More so, they seem to be running out of ideas on what a date needs to be. A lot of times we focus on having fancy dates, when the reality is that it’s not about how fancy a date is.
Oct 22, 201915:09
CHRISTIANS AND MENTAL HEALTH PART 2

CHRISTIANS AND MENTAL HEALTH PART 2

In this episode Pauline takes us deeper into what mental health is and her personal struggle. She breaks open on this episode and snatched some edges.
Oct 18, 201927:29
CHRISTIANS AND MENTAL HEALTH PART 1

CHRISTIANS AND MENTAL HEALTH PART 1

In this episode I have a special guest. My friend and therapist Pauline. She talks about mental health, support systems and she breaks open with her own personal struggle. This episode will be in two parts because we went deepp
Oct 17, 201913:11
THE WOMAN IN THE MIRROR

THE WOMAN IN THE MIRROR

In this episode I share some of my poetry and explain what this piece meant to me and why I wrote it. I believe that at some point a lot of us have been the woman in the mirror.
Oct 11, 201913:22
THE “GOOD” CHRISTIAN

THE “GOOD” CHRISTIAN

There’s a lot of belief among Christians that if they were “Good” enough and performed all their obligations correctly they’ll be on Jesus’ good side and hopefully can go to heaven. Let’s have this conversation.
Oct 10, 201912:07