Sex on Sundays

Thinking about using psychedelics to heal your marriage?   Want to microdose w your partner to feel more connected? Before you dive down the rabbit hole together, make sure you are ready for what is waiting when you come out on the other side.  The Mushrooms help you realize your truth. And the truth always surfaces. This weeks shout-out goes to  Luib Health Center in Clairemont. LuibHealthCenter.com Want to dive deeper into a conversation on something you disagree with? Hit me up sexonsundays6@gmail.com

A look at a few behaviors that may be signs that your partner is less than faithful to your relationship.  This list is not exhaustive but if your partner checks any of these boxes it might be time to sit down and ask if they are happy in the relationship you have established with them.  Members of Sex on Sundays as well as Love Alkemy do not condone any acts of drama towards property or ppl. 

This reading is to guide the Sunday listener. 

This session dives into a couple letters to the love alkemist that look at some very tricky situations and Pt. 2 - the rest of the hit list on why you and your partner may not be having sex.... consider some of these dynamics may be the cause.

This session shares a 2nd couples activity as well as activities you can do no matter your relationship status.  I finally pull up the letters from listeners and share a note on Asexuality and why it might be the reason your partner is not having or even wanting sex. Next week I'll go thru the rest of the hit list on other reasons why and share some thoughts / advice on a few of them.  Want to share an opinion? Talk about an experience with a partner? Air some one night stand dirty laundry?  Hit me up at sexonsundays6@gmail.com or Text me @ 415.692.1029

Chapter 15-The Men of 2016: An open letter to JS. I learned a lot.  Unsent words. Inspired by Jeff Buckley.

A quick run down of the topics I have scheduled for the 2nd season and a quick love shout out to Bridget.  Oh, also, a mic test to see the quality difference. 

Kick off your 2023 with this (first of many) couples activity, cast a little love spell and sit back and listen to a piece of a letter from Henry to Anais that may or may not deliver a personal message to you.  Hit me up with your questions or opinions on love, sex and relationship topics or letters and questions to the Love Alkemist - sexonsundays6@gmail.com  #getnakedaskquestions

I am inviting all feedback, opinions and points of view to share an opposite view and help me understand why you would stay if you are unhappy?  Let's connect sexonsundays6@gmail.com or text 415.692.1029

This week I voice a few opinions around a couple of topics that most of us feel some way about: Marriage is not a guarantee and the real contract should be between you and your partner, not the government.  I also have a few things to say and offer a check in point around the 'Friend Therapist' to see if you need to establish some boundaries. And I close out with an important IG post from Centered Self Therapy w a suggestion on how to connect in deeper with your partner(s). This week's Local Owned Business is EARTHEN HAND CERAMICS by MADELINE SANDLER.  Check out her amazing work and if you're feeling inspired, sign up and take a class with her. You can find all the info on her website:  https://www.earthenhandsceramics.com/  Got opinions? Are you an expert in something that relationships might benefit from? Come join me for a chat.  Hit me up at sexonsundays6@gmail.com or text me direct on THE LOVE LINE 415.692.1029.

I'm shifting my formatting a bit and will be trying out a new dynamic for the podcast this season.  Today's episode lets me share my thoughts on using psilocybin in healing therapy and the importance of connecting with healers who are properly trained. If you have any questions or would like to inquire about how it may help you (and your partner) in your relationship(s), please feel free to email me @ sdpsilsociety@gmail.com or text direct @ 415.692.1029 19:30-The difference in dating and a look at balance.  40:32-The bedroom energy.  Do you have thoughts on anything I shared today?  Maybe you have a topic you'd love to discuss or something you feel you're an expert in.  Hit me up at sexonsundays6@gmail.com and let's set up some discourse. 

For everyone who was waiting to hear my version of what went down between the two of us from the book...here come those stories. All names have been changed to protect the sexy, the broken, the innocent and especially the ones who turned out to be the hardest lessons for me.  You ready to share your swipe right dating disasters and shenanigans?  Was your love story written from Bumble? Did the Tinder date turn into a long term relationship?  I want to hear about it all.  Send in your story to sexonsundays6@gmail.com  or hit me up direct @ (415) 692-1029

When was the last time you physically connected with your partner without it evolving into sex?  Maybe it's time to give it a try.  Have thoughts on this?  Let's set up some discourse.  Email me at sexonsundays6@gmail.com

After an unexpected (and long) hiatus, I'm back in my recording studio sharing my opinions, thoughts, suggestions and ideas on love, sex, relationships and exercises you can do with your partner(s) to create deeper connections and more intimate bonds.  As always, I'm looking to advertise for small businesses and local shops - no matter what city you live in. Are you offering a service or product in your area?  Do you or someone you know have an online shop or website I can blast for you?   Do you want to come share your thoughts, opinions or knowledge on any particular topic? Maybe you want to change my mind on something I've shared or said...  EMAIL ME @ sexonsundays6@gmail.com or text me direct at 415.692.1029 #getnakedaskquestions

If you're in a relationship, think about your current situation or what has potential to unfold.  If you're single, consider yourself and how you know you handle things and what, if anything, you'll do different in the future. Have some thoughts and opinions around this?  Got another topic you want to share your experience in?  sexonsundays5@gmail.com

Just a quick thought on being in a relationship that is not determined by any title.  What are your thoughts?    Have some opinions or experience on something you'd love to share?  Hit me up @ sexonsundays6@gmail.com

I sit down with Dennis and get to hear just a few of his sexy adventures and get to find out a little bit about the life of a swinger.  (you know I'll have to get him (and hopefully his wife) back in to update us all on his sexcapades...) Shout Out Cool Creations - A great idea for a first date, an adventure with the kids or a simple creative outlet to express yourself.  https://www.coolcreationspb.com

I sit down with Ada to talk about hook up culture and the dynamics of dating in this day and age.  Shout Out MusiciansClub.com- Open Mics, Community Band, Jam Sessions, Recording Projects...and that's just part of what this amazing organization has for the city's musical creatives!  Check out upcoming events... what a great way to meet people!

I sit down w Danielle to talk about her personal experience with addiction and her journey in her relationships.  Shout Outs to Local Organizations: Tritons in Recovery- If anyone on campus is looking for support with substance abuse and/or harmful behavior, please reach out to  collegiaterecovery@health.ucsd.edu House of Resilience - A phenomenal organization for housing trans people in San Diego. https://www.facebook.com/houseofresiliencesd/ Amazing Stray Dogs Rescue- Helping stray dogs get rescued and adopted around San Diego and Mexico.  https://www.amazingstraysrescue.org/

Here's the 101 - sorta - on whether someone is good for you.  I consider this pt. 1.  I'll work on adding to this list.  Got suggestions?  Or feel like revisiting something you've already heard?  Hit me up @ sexonsundays6@gmail.com

1st order of business.... let's replace Dr. Love.  There are so many out there.  I'm going by "the Love Alkemist" until YOU re-identify me.   Tell me the persona that creates this platform.  The name I decide to go with will ... WIN... something.  Douchebags in training... are you sure he (my fellow podcaster) is a straight shooter?  Do you want to step into your power or be remembered as an asshole?  'Cause she's gonna write about it in her journal. I promise. sexonsundays6@gmail.com

Is it possible to love someone unconditionally, be friends with them and connect soulfully on a level without sex?  I say, "absolutely". Here's a couple thoughts.

Not all relationships are created equal. In this episode, I share a couple thoughts around the idea of a booty call. When's the last time you hooked up just for the sex of it?

All your relationships are priority.  Do you practice relationship anarchy?  Are you just realizing it now?  I'm curious to know how this works for you.  Hit me up sexonsundays6@gmail.com or text direct 619.368.7272

So you think your partner cheated...How do you address it? This episode kicks off my initial thought and a little soul food for thought for you.  Let me know what you think.  I'll be following up with Pt. 2 late next month with a full episode and dive deeper into the realms of emotional, physical and mental infidelity.  Want to join that conversation and discuss pov's? Hit me up or Send your experience or opinions to sexonsundays6@gmail.com

Here's the bridge between a monogamous relationship/marriage and entering into a non-monogamous relationship.   The question we all should be asking ourselves, "Is monogamy really right for me?"  Do you practice this lifestyle?  Have experience to share?  Hit me up sexonsundays6@gmail.com 

So you're thinking about entering a FWB relationship....Have you asked yourself the important questions?  Talked to your FRIEND about what this looks like to them?  You MUST define the boundaries before getting naked.  Here are some vital questions to consider.  Small Local Business Shout Out - Crooks Coffee in Santa Rosa.  Thank you Mrs. Jiggers!  

When's the last time you took a look at the people you involve in your life?  Those who spend time with you and your partner(s)?  Here's the green light to take a few minutes to sit back and give outside relationships some deep inner thought. 

Monogamy and Polyamory are just a couple of options for our intimate relationships these days. Here's what I'm excited to talk about thru this first sexy season of Sex on Sundays. And  Get your stogie on.... I went after a great cigar and found a brand new bean! Did I miss a relationship?  Let me know what I need to add to the list.  Email me at sexonsundays6@gmail.com

Sunday Jan 2, 2022 Polyamorous relationships are quickly becoming recognized, honored, and respected for the loving, trusting, healthy relationships that they are.  And while they are not right for everyone, the permission of having options to choose poly over monogamy is now a lifestyle any one of us can adopt for ourselves.  Before I tackle an episode around the details on the types of relationships, the rules that need to be considered, and all the responsibilities that come with multiple partners, I sat down with Mary, who shared her personal experience on her journey. 

Sex on Sundays is taking a look at ALL kinds of relationships and kicking Season 1 off by jumping right in with the personal experience of one woman who rediscovered herself after years of being married and monogamous. I'll be sharing my opinions on relationships i've been in personally, look at how relationships have changed, get the secret to long distance relationships and find out what it's like to be a swinger; just for starters.  Yes, my lovers,  Season 1 gets emo every way possible.  Got thoughts?  Want to share your experience?  hit me up sexonsundays6@gmail.com

Podcast practice is officially over...now i really need to get my shit together and figure out how to get organized and professional.  Kicking off Season 1-Relationships. (Thank you E$, for the great structure idea!)

Challenge: Very, very slowly, describe your relationship.  I've suggested a couple of aspects to look at but you can take it as deep as you want to dive.   It may be harder than it sounds, but spend some intentional time today and challenge yourself with describing your relationship. Got something you want to say about sex?  Opinions on relationships and all the stuff that comes with them?  Wanna get some opinions or advice on something you're going thru right now?  Hit me up @ sexonsundays6@gmail.com 

Are you happy?  (Did 2020 fuck you up a little?) Step back to bring it into focus.  It's time to get some clarity around who YOU are and the relationship you're in. 

That's all the advice you need. Or is it? This is the first episode of many to come where I share my opinion around all the posts I've saved on my IG. While I'm no longer active on social media, I was able to set aside posts that I found thought worthy over the years.   If you have any opinions here, hit me up @ sexonsundays6@gmail.com

When's the last time you stepped back and recognized you needed to thank all the men in your life?

Just a quick creative idea to boost your love levels and ignite a little passion. Got thoughts?  email me @ sexonsundays6@gmail.com

What are the signs your relationship is in trouble?  More importantly, What are the pillars to a strong healthy relationship?  here's a quick checklist to consider and an exercise you can do with your partner... or at least for yourself, to get some clarity.  

The Fall quarter closes next week with finals and I'm making moves to lock down a schedule and get a little more structured here.  But before I switch gears, I want to send out mad props and big ups to Katia & Greta, plug the Sexual Well-Being Course, & invite you -as always- to bring your thoughts, opinions or subject matter to the platform.  Just a quick note of gratitude to all of you who are listening to me figure this podcast thing out as I take my time growing and learning.  One take, no edits!  But I'm about to up my game.

What's the most romantic thing you've done for someone?  What's the most romantic things that's been done for you?  Should there be a limit on romance?  Share your experiences with me @ sexonsundays6@gmail.com.... send over an email I can include in the collection or set up a time to talk about this.  Have a local business?  Know of a great local spot in your city?  Send the info my way so I can put out a blast on an episode.  sexonsundays6@gmail.com

Is it possible to have a bad orgasm?  And how does that even occur?  What defines a good orgasm? This is a quick thought around having a bad orgasm and leaves a lot of room to revisit later.   Have you experienced a bad orgasm yourself?  Hit me up so we can discuss that experience.  sexonsundays6@gmail.com Local Business Blast: Pans Apothika aka Panpipes 4856 Santa Monica Blvd. Los Angeles, CA 90029

How were you taught to show up for your relationship?  What exactly is the definition of putting in the work? How often do you show up for yourself first? Feel like I got it all wrong?  I'd love to hear your point of view, experience or wisdom around this!  Let's set up some time to connect and discuss - hit me up at sexonsundays6@gmail.com

When's the last time you wrote a love letter?  Received one?   Get inspired. 

Are you in a co-dependent relationship?   Here are a few questions to deep dive into to find out.  Co-Dependency comes in many forms, so while these questions only scratch the surface of understanding what it looks like, they will offer some eye opening thoughts to take into consideration when you are in a relationship.  Be bold, stand in your power and answer HONESTLY. 

When were you taught about pleasure's attachment to sex education?  I'm betting you learned it on your own.  Why? Got thoughts on this topic?  Wanna discuss something else that you have experience around?  Wanna discuss your relationship challenges, brag about your partner(s) and how awesome your relationship is?   Ladies, hit me up to join the Sirens Circle and dish about sex and relationships; Gentlemen, The King's Table has a seat waiting for you! THIS WEEKS LOCAL BUSINESS SHOUT OUT SK8SUPPLY.COM- Go see Dave and tell him Kendie said 'What up' An Old School Skate Shop 5151 Santa Fe Street #C San Diego, CA 92109 (Alva - G&S Warehouse) Phone# (858) 952-9001 Mon - Fri, 10am - 5pm Saturday, Noon - 5pm Sunday, CLOSED ONLINE - 24/7!

When was the last time you looked deeply into each other's eyes?  Why not make it a ritual?

Jenn stops by to share her experience being in a relationship with a partner who desired her feet.  We touch on aspects such as, when and how to share your foot fetish, what to expect in the relationship as well as the bedroom and how it opens doors to explore other fetishes. BONUS:  Follow Jenn's sexy feet on IG @creeponmyfeet12

I want to hear the stories... sexonsundays6@gmail.com

For those of you who don't know me, I am an Oracle.  When I'm called to do readings on the Podcast, I will simply title them ORACLE READING, and make a not of how many of you it is directed at.  Sometimes it will be 3 of you, sometimes 1 specific individual.  And sometimes as a collective, there will be a message posted.  You'll know who you are when you hear it.

Are you in a Co-Dependent Relationship? Grab and pen and paper and see if you recognize or relate to any of these behaviours.

Your 1st YLM~ If you're not w your partner right now while you're listening to this podcast, make it the first thing you do when you see them.

I love a good smelling man; is your bathroom 'chick friendly'?; the cigarettes are fuckin' up your game.

Alicia-A local photographer in San Diego and long time friend of mine stops by to share details of her 1st time experience at Thad's Private Social Club. And don't forget to reach out on Instagram for all your photography needs!  created1photography

Your side of the bed has been filled.  Your seat at the table is now occupied.  YOU are no longer the plus-1.   Of course you should reach out and share your feelings with your ex's new partner....shouldn't you?

why?

What do you WANT from your partner sexually?  Romantically?  Have you told them?   How can you tell them what you want without fear of rejection?  

Can a couple break up and still be friends?  How do you maintain the friendship after the love ends?  Is it appropriate?

Is your relationship an alcoholic?  Are you wasting time recovering with your partner?

Who is to blame if your partner is unhappy?

Are you in a sexless relationship?  And how did that evolve?  And why do you stay? I'd love to hear from anyone who is currently in a sexless relationship (excluding asexuality) and how you feel about it. Email sexonsundays6@gmail.com

Casual girl talk around polyamory, situationships, self love and prepping your asshole for anal sex.

Has technology omitted romance and chivalry?  Are we lazier now that we are all so replaceable?

I want to understand that NEED to lock a partner down in holy matrimony...what's the appeal? Why is the contractual agreement so important?  Do you have opinions on why this means so much to you?  Care to have a conversation around our difference of opinions so we can learn from one another?  Have another topic you want to debate or discuss with me?  Email me to set it up sexonsundays6@gmail.com

My experience is showing me just how many women would rather be in a relationship that is less than what they need and want instead of tap into the DIVINE FEMININE ENERGY and walk a fierce single path.  .... WHY?

We're looking at the idea of remaining friends w an ex and sharing opinions on when it's ok to sleep with one....& then we take a left turn for a minute to remind women to Unite & Rise.

I have QUESTIONS & I'd love to hear from you ~ share your thoughts and experiences around polyamory. To schedule a discourse, email SexOnSundays6@gmail.com

Years of documenting my love life, romances, and relationships; every tryst, heartbreak, hook-up and fling.  Names are not used, but details are.  If you coupled up with me, on any level...you're in the book. Watch for Chapters scattered throughout the podcast; everyone of you has one. 

Did you miss me?  I'm still working out the vibe around structure.... I'm learning how to be on a schedule. SLOWLY.

Just a quick reminder....If you ever dated me, broke my heart, slept with me or were involved with me in any fashion at all, YOU'RE IN THE BOOK.

Kickin' off the very opinionated & sometimes judgy segment of Sex on Sundays with questions from "Bo Jackson" and "#2"   We share our thoughts on scheduled blow jobs and porn addiction....naturally getting off topic w/side opinions. Got a question you want us to put on blast and share some raw opinions about?  email sexonsundays6@gmail.com

Being on the receiving end of a break-up is always challenging.  Here's a quick thought on that altogether. What's the worse break-up you have ever been thru?  Got a relationship question for Dr. Love?  Or a topic you want to hear some thoughts on? Send us an email at SexonSundays6@gmail.com

Creating the right time and space to tell our partner what we need is as important as what we need to say.   Here's a quickie from the advice log.   What has worked for you in your communication style with your partner?  Email us @ sexonsundays6@gmail.com & Don't forget the "Dear Dr. Love" segment kicks off next week and I'll be sharing highly opinionated points of view with a guest co-host. 

Let's talk about a few important dynamics that create the foundation of a healthy relationship. Tune in next Sunday for the Dear Dr. Love segment. 

Welcome to Sex on Sundays I am your host and relationship coach, Dr. Love otherwise known as the Love Alkemist This is a podcast about Relationships and Sexual Discourse Join me for some featured one on one interviews, dating discussions and creative ways to  intensify and build your relationships. I’ll be diving into questions from the listeners that address every day situations in love, romance and hooking up. I’ll also be bringing some taboo topics to the King’s table, where I’ll get the male point of view on women, sex and dating and I’ll even share my own dating and sex shenanigans. Tune in and listen for the #giveloveback shout-outs; if your name is featured during my Ur Morning Coffee sessions, you’re getting a free reading or session. Don’t be shy…if you have a story to tell or a topic you’d love to talk about, you can email me at sexonsundays6@gmail.com now, get naked. ask questions.