The Sextracurricular Podcast

In this episode, James shares his experience of living with psychological erectile dysfunction including lessons learned, how he deals with it when it comes up, and what his journey has been as he and Mirage have made new partners along the way.

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In this episode, James and Mirage share what they've learned as parents in this lifestyle and offer advice on how they make dating work with their busy schedules. They discuss what kind of parenting styles they were raised in, and what challenges they typically face.

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In this bonus episode, James and Mirage discuss what happened after their first full swap experience.

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In this final episode of a three part series, James and Mirage talk about their first full swap experience with their first couple. You don't want to miss the spicy details!

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In this second episode of a three part series, James and Mirage meet their first couple for a second date. They talk about what it felt like to have drinks, flirt, and play board games with a new set of friends. The anticipation of what would happen next is something you don't want to miss!

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In this three-part series, James and Mirage talk about meeting their first couple four months after their first hotwife experience. As a newly swinging couple, they discuss the nerves of meeting an experienced couple and what it was like to learn about their dynamic.

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In this episode, Mirage shares her upbringing in the Catholic church, her leap into Christianity, and the issues that lead to deconstructing from her faith and the modern Church.

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James wraps up his deconstruction story and talks about where he's at spiritually. **TRIGGER WARNING**: Listener discretion is advised as this episode contains graphic suicidal ideation details. 

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In this two-part series, James describes his beginnings of faith, relationship with Mirage, parenting, and issues with his mental health. He talks about his loss of faith in the modern Church, humanity, and Christianity. **TRIGGER WARNING**: Listener discretion is advised as this episode contains graphic suicidal ideation details.

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James and Mirage share their coming out experiences with trusted colleagues, co-workers, and friends along with the support and judgement that comes along with the territory.

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In this episode, James and Mirage talk about how the lines of swinging and polyamory have been blurred as they continue to foster their new relationships. Mirage discusses how she's exploring her bisexuality and being fulfilled in a whole new way she never imagined.

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In this episode, Mirage talks about how she became comfortable with creating adult content online. Having started with little to no exposure, she talks about how porn and masturbation provided much needed healing to overcome previous sexual trauma. James and Mirage discuss how their relationship with porn has changed over the years, and how enjoying porn together has facilitated growth in their relationship and their new lifestyle.

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In this episode, James and Mirage discuss how their relationship changed from hotwife to swinging. Mirage talks about the mental obstacles and insecurities she overcame with the help of a few recommended resources. She also sheds light into her personal relationship with porn and masturbation. In addition, she talks about how this new lifestyle allowed her to understand more of herself and gain confidence to make adult content.

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In this episode, James and Mirage update their listeners on what's changed since their first sexual encounter described in the previous episode. They both talk about the strengthening of their trust for each other, making adult content online, and briefly touch on what's new in their sex lives. James and Mirage also chat about how much fun they are having as a sexually open, swinging couple and the exciting times ahead!

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This is the episode you have been waiting for where James and Mirage describe their first successful hotwife experience. You don't want to miss this!

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In this episode, James and Mirage describe what it was like to finally meet someone in person along with all the feelings that came with the anticipation of their first successful hotwife experience.

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How do you pursue opening up a relationship? In this episode, James and Mirage describe all the starts and stops that occurred as they embarked on finding another person to fulfill a fantasy. They talk about the first awkward encounter, signing up on dating apps, and the mental gymnastics that were required in order to make this idea into a reality.

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How does a traditional, former Evangelical Christian couple go from a monogamous foundation to branching out into new sexual territory? In this first episode, James and Mirage discuss how it all began and the steps they took towards exploring this new lifestyle together. James talks about how he had brought up the idea, how Mirage reacted, and how it unlocked a brand new set of conversations neither of them would have expected!

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