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Sexy Minds Podcast

Sexy Minds Podcast

By DJ Tony Toni, Doc Rica Cruz, and Podcast Network Asia

What do you get when you put together the Philippines' all time bachelor, DJ Tony Toni, and the country's sex therapist, Dr. Rica Cruz, in one show? A whole lot of sexy. Join Tony and Doc Rica as they talk about sex, love, relationships, and mental health. This is The Sexy Minds Podcast.
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Episode 57: Dealing with personal space, bondage, and learning how to squirt with Malaya

Sexy Minds PodcastSep 22, 2021

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Episode 91: No Boyfriend Since Birth - What could have been a 3some ends up being a huge disappointment

Episode 91: No Boyfriend Since Birth - What could have been a 3some ends up being a huge disappointment

Emma is in her late 20's NBSB and shares with us her dating and sexual epxeriences which are not plenty but of quality.

Apr 25, 202301:19:09
Episode 90: Communication can be a form of foreplay!

Episode 90: Communication can be a form of foreplay!

Are you good with words? In this episode, we delve deep into how communication makes sex safer yet more pleasurable. Dr. Rica shares some tips and pointers on how we can openly talk about what we want and how we want it.

Feb 22, 202333:15
Episode 89: Faking orgasms - why are so many Filipinas unsatisfied with their partners?

Episode 89: Faking orgasms - why are so many Filipinas unsatisfied with their partners?

As we continue the talk about why Filipina women are not satisfied with their partner, in this episode, we're about to get real...on faking orgasms. That's just not how you do sex. Find out why here.

Dec 27, 202248:27
Episode 88: FOREPLAY - why are Filipina women unsatisfied with their partner when it comes to foreplay?

Episode 88: FOREPLAY - why are Filipina women unsatisfied with their partner when it comes to foreplay?

Is foreplay a love language? In this episode, we discuss the impact of foreplay on Filipina women and why they are unsatisfied with their partner when it comes to foreplay because, apparently, it could be...? Find out here.

Dec 20, 202233:54
Episode 87: Beware: Manila Online Romance MODUS operandi

Episode 87: Beware: Manila Online Romance MODUS operandi

Tony interviews Elle,  who shares her experience with a guy that forced her to have intimacy even if it is just their first time to meet with one another. In this kind of situation, how does an empowered women can protect themselves? What should everyone know about consent and how to avoid holding back in saying "NO"?

Dec 13, 202202:09:01
Episode 86: Never would I have imagined to date someone 20+ years older

Episode 86: Never would I have imagined to date someone 20+ years older

TRISH is a 24yrs old Fil-American who is dating an American man, what are the pros and cons of dating with a 20-year gap?

Is sex on the first date a no-no? Let’s find out in this latest episode.

Oct 04, 202251:18
Episode 85: IT'S TIME WE PUT OUR SEXUAL HEALTH AS A PRIORITY

Episode 85: IT'S TIME WE PUT OUR SEXUAL HEALTH AS A PRIORITY

THE PULSE CLINIC in Makati is a state of the art facility which was supposed to be a safe space for the LGBTQ+ but has also seen a spike in heterosexuals wanting to get tested for HIV/AIDS and other sexual transmitted diseases. 


The ultimate goal of Pulse clinic is to make more people aware of their infection status faster by promoting the benefits of testing, prevention, treatment, and continuous care.

The clinic was first established in 2015, in the gay district of Silom/Sathorn, in Bangkok, Thailand. It was founded by Dr. Deyn and his brother Tony, with the intention of serving the community by providing individualized and discreet medical and non-medical assistance. We have played a major role in helping Thailand and the world decrease HIV transmission by providing information and access to care for all.

Aug 24, 202254:45
Episode 84: How Hentai got me sexually curious at the age of 12!

Episode 84: How Hentai got me sexually curious at the age of 12!

At 18 yrs old Jade was into role playing and experimented with a woman but to only to get her first orgasm with her male partner….


Aug 17, 202248:14
Episode 83: Why sex with my foreign boyfriend is the best Vs my pinoy husband and ex!

Episode 83: Why sex with my foreign boyfriend is the best Vs my pinoy husband and ex!

In this episode, our guest Ms Bra recently just broke up with her boyfriend and believe LOVE is not enough to keep a healthy relationship going!

Jul 23, 202201:09:11
Episode 82: Gangbang and Swinging in Philippines (Artistas, Politicians & Personalities), One crazy episode

Episode 82: Gangbang and Swinging in Philippines (Artistas, Politicians & Personalities), One crazy episode

Here Tony interviews a couple in an open relationship! Star is 15 years senior to Jarred and they organize swinger events and gangbangs. How does one get invited and what are the rules? Do you know what cuckhold is? Check this wild and educational episode!

Jun 28, 202201:33:36
Episode 81: Gen-Z teaches us how to deal with an OPEN RELATIONSHIP without being a douche

Episode 81: Gen-Z teaches us how to deal with an OPEN RELATIONSHIP without being a douche

This episode our guest shares his experiences with having an open relationship setup, how to avoid power tripping, and different types of alter accounts.

Jun 21, 202256:41
Episode 80: Rimming & what it means to be a FEM-GAY

Episode 80: Rimming & what it means to be a FEM-GAY

EVER CURIOUS IF YOURE LESBIAN ? better yet associate yourself as FEM-GAY ?  Our guest, DK , shares her story about rimming, never being in relationship with a guy, and why being transparent with your partner is important

Jun 07, 202201:12:43
Episode 79: Overcoming Sexual assault , RAPE, LOVE BOMBING and OWNING YOUR SEXUALITY ONCE AGAIN

Episode 79: Overcoming Sexual assault , RAPE, LOVE BOMBING and OWNING YOUR SEXUALITY ONCE AGAIN

In this episode, we have LUNA LEE - hip hop artist in her late 20's Korean raised in Manila. She'll be sharing her first experience with sex, how she got her power back after being molested & raped, and signs on how you might be being love bombed 💣

May 25, 202201:00:00
Episode 78: THE SEXYMINDS Q&A with subscribers

Episode 78: THE SEXYMINDS Q&A with subscribers

We tried for the first time to do a zoom chat with all our telegram and social media followers and see if they have any questions or concerns when it comes to sex, relationships or dating.  We might do this once a month! Listen and Join us next month!

May 19, 202218:18
Episode 77: You should only consider an OPEN RELATIONSHIP (polyamorous) or inviting a 3rd party if …?

Episode 77: You should only consider an OPEN RELATIONSHIP (polyamorous) or inviting a 3rd party if …?

Meet Jason & Gie (sapiosexual & Demisexual Switch)  in a 6 year relationship and are newly trying out testing the waters of being polyamorous and they give tips on how to thrive in a open relationship.

May 03, 202201:07:33
Episode 76: Rules for an open relationship and how it can trigger your insecurities

Episode 76: Rules for an open relationship and how it can trigger your insecurities

In this episode, out guest Wanda ( from the previous episode!) lists down the rules when entering an open relationship, how her partner saw her nude pics, and the importance of open communication. 

Apr 05, 202258:20
Episode 75: Sexual exploration at 13 years of age

Episode 75: Sexual exploration at 13 years of age

From snipping her school uniform to get fingered to experiencing dick for the first time, Wanda (female) in her mid 20's, shares her conservative upbringing and how curious she was with other women at the age of 13.  

Mar 29, 202250:41
Episode 74: Overcoming Rape & Gaining Respect for self again

Episode 74: Overcoming Rape & Gaining Respect for self again

Cleo shares with us her experience of rape culture that is predominate in today's society! How it can really traumatize women and how she gained back her confidence, strength and sexuality. She shares how she's very liberated despite coming from a very religious family.

Mar 15, 202201:20:50
Episode 73: Leia has sort of mastered the skill of casually dating and intimate encounters!

Episode 73: Leia has sort of mastered the skill of casually dating and intimate encounters!

In this episode Leia will share how coffee date is better than having dinner, having car sex at the age of 14, leaving a guy who won't let her go on top, and  If youre a man with substance you'll have 100% chance in sexy time.

Mar 09, 202251:59
Episode 72: WTF?! Happily Married Couple for 20 years still has sex every other day?

Episode 72: WTF?! Happily Married Couple for 20 years still has sex every other day?

We find a Unicorn Couple who are deeply in love and still desire one another and make sure to have sex every other day!  Is it possible to be happily married in your 20's with a baby to your first official partner for 20 years ? 

Mar 01, 202201:16:07
Episode 71: Student becomes Master debater through Zoom #SexyTimeStories

Episode 71: Student becomes Master debater through Zoom #SexyTimeStories

We've got another #SexyTimeStories or you this episode! Tune in as our sender fill in on how she they almost got caught masturbating while having class through zoom. Do you have the same fantasy as them? Listen in and find out 😉

Feb 23, 202204:28
Episode 70: Be cautious when experimenting, Married couple invites friend over for dinner ! #SexyTimeStories

Episode 70: Be cautious when experimenting, Married couple invites friend over for dinner ! #SexyTimeStories

What if your wife has a big dildo and its name is the same as your friend? In another episode of #SexyTimeStories, our sender shares their wife with a friend who has the hots for her in bed.

Feb 15, 202218:15
Episode 69: Pregnant, Horny and rushed to the Emergency Room #SexyTimeStories

Episode 69: Pregnant, Horny and rushed to the Emergency Room #SexyTimeStories

In this #SexyTimeStories episode, Jumper shares how she bleed while pregnant during sex. Did she go to her doctor? What did she say? Did it affect her pregnancy? Tune in to find out.

Feb 08, 202204:38
Episode 68: Sex before the breakup, being Covid + and then kicked out of his condo!

Episode 68: Sex before the breakup, being Covid + and then kicked out of his condo!

Do people use any excuse to break up with their partner? Well, in this episode of the pod, Aileen ( a 41 year old yoga instructor) will share her story on how her boyfriend broke up with her because she had covid. Does dirty talk work for her?, What is her favourite position during sexy time?, and what does one need to enjoy in bed?. Only here on the Sexy Minds Podcast.

Feb 03, 202201:09:06
Episode 67: Sari from Kudazzers and her Deal with Dating Virgins

Episode 67: Sari from Kudazzers and her Deal with Dating Virgins

On our 67th episode of the pod, we've invited 1/6 of the Kudazzers team: Sari-- whose first glimpse with sex is on a late night Japanese show.  Tune in as she shares her experiences with sex, how important it is to know what you want in bed, and how coincidentally she dates virgins.

Jan 25, 202201:03:10
Episode 66: What are the pros and cons of an ethical non-monogamous relationship?

Episode 66: What are the pros and cons of an ethical non-monogamous relationship?

We're having a couple in this episode! We've invited over Alexi and Miko : both Mid 20's ,1 year together, and are in an ethical non-monogamous relationship. Is it working out for them? Do they involve their real life friends when looking for other partners? and how do they keep feelings in check when entering a non monogamous relationship? Tune in and find out 😉

Dec 21, 202101:07:56
Episode 65: An exclusive marriage but with an exception

Episode 65: An exclusive marriage but with an exception

In this episode of the Sexy Minds podcasts, we've invited Gayle: a 38- year old who had a spiritual married with her husband. She'll be sharing how she started exploring sex, the importance of using contraceptives and condoms, and what she did when her husband didn't want to touch her.

Dec 14, 202101:08:50
Episode 64: Manifesting through Orgasms
Nov 30, 202101:11:57
Episode 63: Sex , Love , Betrayal and 3somes

Episode 63: Sex , Love , Betrayal and 3somes

In this episode of the Sexy Minds Podcast, we're interviewing Sheila. Sheila is a 29 yrs old bi-sexual, newly single after an 8 year relationship. She grew up in a not so conservative household, shares how she knew her partner was cheating thru the condo guards, how she prefers foreign partner to local ones, and how she knew the mistress was pregnant with her ex- partner's child.

Nov 16, 202101:06:06
Episode 62: How to deal with loads of cum or Hyperspermia

Episode 62: How to deal with loads of cum or Hyperspermia

In this episode of the Sexy Minds Podcast, an anonymous sender asks help with her problem: " What would she do with the huge amount of cum her partner makes?" Listen in as Tony and Doc Rica educate on what Hyperspermia is, the effects on the body, and is that an enough reason to be a dealbreaker? Only here on the Sexy Minds Podcast.

Nov 09, 202109:44
Episode 61: We dive deep into Manila’s once most eligible bachelors, from forever bachelor to being happily married

Episode 61: We dive deep into Manila’s once most eligible bachelors, from forever bachelor to being happily married

In this episode, Our guest is Entrepreneur / Musician / Head of Victoria Court Motels: Atticus King!

He dives deep into his bachelor days and explains in depth the growth of his past relationships led to his current chapter of his life. Now, he is a happily married man with 3 lovely girls!

Oct 26, 202101:23:51
Episode 60: Dealing with Sexual Abuse as a child, to now dealing with her skeletons and picking up the pieces one by one and living life on her terms and no one elses

Episode 60: Dealing with Sexual Abuse as a child, to now dealing with her skeletons and picking up the pieces one by one and living life on her terms and no one elses

In this episode of The Sexy Minds Podcast, TonyToni will be having a one-on-one with his guest--Lia! Lia has recently been separated after 10 years of being in a relationship with his now ex-husband. She'll be sharing how she dealt SA during her childhood and the effects it has on her sexual journey, as well as from dating boys to having the best sex of her life and now happily single spending much of her time healing and discovering herself.

Oct 19, 202101:19:23
Episode 59: Clark - shares his love for travel and sexual encounters how he backed down from a blowjob cause it was DAKS ! His wildest adventure - an orgy!

Episode 59: Clark - shares his love for travel and sexual encounters how he backed down from a blowjob cause it was DAKS ! His wildest adventure - an orgy!

In this episode of the Sexy Minds Podcast, we've invited someone who has tons of experience--Clark! He'll be sharing how he used to to go to the cinema houses for bjs, message rooms for happy endings, and experiencing an orgy with around 15 people! All that steam and more here on this episode of the pod!

Oct 14, 202155:35
Episode 58: Bad sex does exist #SexyTimeStories

Episode 58: Bad sex does exist #SexyTimeStories

We have another #SexyTimeStory episode for you here on The Sexy Minds Podcast. Tony Toni reads a letter from a sender, Toss, on how he used to believe that there is no such thing as bad sex until he experienced it himself. Want to learn all the details? Tune in to find out.

Sep 28, 202112:16
Episode 57: Dealing with personal space, bondage, and learning how to squirt with Malaya

Episode 57: Dealing with personal space, bondage, and learning how to squirt with Malaya

It's another spicy episode here on The Sexy Minds Podcast. In this episode of the pod, Doc Rica and Tony Toni will be interviewing Malaya!

In this episode of the pod, Malaya will be sharing the importance of having her own space, trying out bondage and shibari, why women need to climax, and learn her technique on how to squirt.

Sep 22, 202101:30:26
Episode 56: My Bathroom Confession #SexyTimeStories

Episode 56: My Bathroom Confession #SexyTimeStories

Welcome to a new episode of The Sexy Minds Podcast with DJ Tony Toni and Doc Rica Cruz! No Dr. Rica for tonight but we're bringing a new  episode of # SexyTimeStories. This story comes from our listener called " Maria". She shares her steamy bathroom encounter and how her roommate came to help her 😉 How steamy is it? You gotta tune in to find out. This is The Sexy Minds Podcast!

Sep 14, 202122:57
Episode 55: How being a mother, a nudist, and finding purpose cost me my marriage

Episode 55: How being a mother, a nudist, and finding purpose cost me my marriage

It's another spicy episode here on The Sexy Minds Podcast. In this episode of the pod, Doc Rica and Tony Toni will be interviewing Keiko!

Keiko is a professional nudist! It was not easy following this path to after being married and giving birth to her first child.  Like most women she had post partum depression, she really felt trapped and lost her identity as a woman. She decided to empower herself and do things that made her joyful, liberated and inspired.

Sep 08, 202101:23:14
Episode 54: Experiencing the end of a long term relationship , sex with a younger boy & why tagalog sex talk isn’t for everyone

Episode 54: Experiencing the end of a long term relationship , sex with a younger boy & why tagalog sex talk isn’t for everyone

We have another sexy episode for you tonight in The Sexy Minds Podcast. Dj Tony Toni and Doc Rica will interview their adventurous friend, Irene!

Irene is in her 30's and a single who is  exploring the difficulties of dating & how it is to be newly single during a pandemic . She shares how adventurous she"s been, how was the dating apps before compared to now, her take on anal sex and about finding chismis down there, and her experience with dirty talk in tagalog!

Aug 31, 202101:48:55
Episode 53: Enjoying Hook up culture & the chemical romances , to being known as Mr friend zone and dating someone 12 years your junior !

Episode 53: Enjoying Hook up culture & the chemical romances , to being known as Mr friend zone and dating someone 12 years your junior !

It's another episode here on The Sexy Minds Podcast. Joining TonyToni and Doc Rica is a male guest who will give his point of view when it comes to sex: Al.

AL has been the bachelor type and happy and go with the flow kinda guy for the past 30 years . He once lived the fast life and enjoyed the party scene and the hook up culture especially the chemical romance. He's now in a relationship with a woman 12 years his junior. Can one get out of the friendzone and how does he deal with moving on from the friendzone? Tune in in this episode of The Sexy Minds Podcast.

Aug 24, 202101:35:07
Episode 52: Scarlett's experiences with rimming, elevator escapades, 8-inch dicks, and from being told she’s terrible in bed to mastering blowjob

Episode 52: Scarlett's experiences with rimming, elevator escapades, 8-inch dicks, and from being told she’s terrible in bed to mastering blowjob

It's Episode 52 of The Sexy Minds Podcast! No Doc Rica for this ep, but we have Tony Toni and his guest: Scarlett. Scarlett is in her early 30's and will share about her amazing stories. Tune in as she talks bout her first sexual experience in the shower, covering up for her ex in a 50/50 situation, how she gives her blowjobs, and what were the craziest things she had done during sex ( hint: the elevator). All these and more in this episode of The Sexy Minds Podcast.

Aug 17, 202101:26:12
Episode 51: Check out Tasha’s adventure - almost getting pregnant with her girlfriend, Golden Showers , Fisting and knowing what she wants in bed

Episode 51: Check out Tasha’s adventure - almost getting pregnant with her girlfriend, Golden Showers , Fisting and knowing what she wants in bed

Welcome to our 51st episode of the Sexy Minds! Join TonyToni and Doc Rica with their special guest: Tasha!

Tasha is in her mid 20's single female who has a nack of dating older men and women. She talks about being in a relationship at the age of 14 with a woman in her 20s older . With a strange twist the interview goes really deep and Tash gets emotional and almost breaks down! why ??? You'll have to listen to find out.

Aug 10, 202101:11:06
Episode 50: From introvert to learning how to talk dirty and asking what you want during sex

Episode 50: From introvert to learning how to talk dirty and asking what you want during sex

We're on our 50th episode of The Sexy Minds Podcast! No Doc Rica on this episode, but we will be having a one-on-one with Tony Toni and his guest: Ish!

Ish 30 year old single female half pinay half south american. She talks about FUBU's , Why she likes to be roughed up in bed and loves being submissive,  how important it is for women to speak up in the bedroom and a lengthy discussion of being in a situationship. 

Aug 03, 202101:36:19
Episode 49: Unleash your sexual beast from a Multi-Award Pornstar Erik Everhard

Episode 49: Unleash your sexual beast from a Multi-Award Pornstar Erik Everhard

Welcome to this special episode of The Sexy Minds ! Join Tony Toni and Doc Rica as they talk to Award winning Porn Actor, Director, and Author : Erik Everhard!

In this pod, Erik shares the origins of his name, what he learned in his career as a porn actor,  the secrets on how to pleasure and does being good in bed help connect with people?

Tune in to find out!

Jul 27, 202101:56:39
Episode 48: The biggest she has ever had #SexyTimeStories

Episode 48: The biggest she has ever had #SexyTimeStories

Welcome to another episode of The Sexy Minds Podcast. Tonight, we have Tonytoni read you another #SexyTimeStories from our last sender, Throwaway Female.

She'll be sharing her experience of the biggest 🍆 she has ever had, her workmate Mike. Not only that, she has a surprise adventure with Mike and her bestfriend in a public space inside a Mall 👀

Want to know more? Listen in and enjoy this #SexyTimeStories from The Sexy Minds Podcast!

Jul 20, 202113:06
Episode 47: Exploring BDSM, Gangbangs, Erotica, & Polyamory with Sara

Episode 47: Exploring BDSM, Gangbangs, Erotica, & Polyamory with Sara

It's the 47th episode of The Sexy Minds Podcast!  Join TonyToni, Doc Rica, and their guest-- Sara! Sara is a pansexual who is currently in a polyamorous relationship.

In the pod, Sara will be sharing her experiences with Polyamory, how Erotica helped with her sexual awakening, and tips on how to give your man confidence. Not only that, but how she got into BDSM: from rough sex all the way to having gangbangs! All the while living on a conservative country? How did she do that? 😲

There's a lot to unpack in this episode! Tune in and find out!

Jul 15, 202101:03:18
Episode 46: The first time from the back #SexyTimeStories

Episode 46: The first time from the back #SexyTimeStories

Welcome to the 46th episode of The Sexy Minds Podcast! We're back with Dj TonyToni with another #SexyTimeStories. Our story comes from throwaway female and her first time trying anal 🍑 Been wanting to try anal? Then listen to this #SexyTimeStories and have that courgae to try it as well 😉

Jul 07, 202113:10
Episode 45: The Sexy Minds Pride Special Featuring Niccolo and Matt

Episode 45: The Sexy Minds Pride Special Featuring Niccolo and Matt

Happy Pride! Join Doc Rica Cruz and Tony as they talk to Niccolo and Matt for a funny yet sincere conversation on the community, being polyamorous, single, and so much more! This is The Sexy Minds Podcast! 

Jul 02, 202101:41:26
Episode 44: A Great Place to Have Sex #SexyTimeStories
Jun 22, 202108:34
Episode 43: Mari the Wanderlust on Sexual Exploration and How Shibari (Japanese Rope Bondage) Helped Heal Her Past Traumas

Episode 43: Mari the Wanderlust on Sexual Exploration and How Shibari (Japanese Rope Bondage) Helped Heal Her Past Traumas

We're now on Episode 43 of The Sexy Minds Podcast! Joining TonyToni and Doc Rica Cruz on this episode of the pod is Ms. Mari! Ms. Mari is a former model in her late 20's who was born and raised in Manila but moved to Bali to get away from the hustle and bustle of the city. In the pod, she talks about having a care-free and wanderlust personality, the concept of being polyamorous, and how the art of Shibari (Japanese bondage and suspension) helped her explore her sexuality and heal her past traumas. All that and more on this episode of The Sexy Minds Podcast!

Jun 16, 202101:14:13
Episode 42: From Dating to Marriage Featuring Boy and Tala

Episode 42: From Dating to Marriage Featuring Boy and Tala

We're doing something we've never done before here on The Sexy Minds Podcast - we have a couple on the show! Join DJ TonyToni and Doc Rica Cruz as they talk to Boy and Tala about dating, marriage, and of course, sex. What was it like to be in a 17 year relationship? Who made the first move? How do they communicate their wants (and needs) in bed? All that and more on this episode of the pod! This is Episode 42 of The Sexy Minds Podcast. Come on in!

Jun 10, 202101:02:40