Shades of Gay by Keyth David
By Keyth David
Instagram @justkeyth
Throughout the series I will be talking to people from all Shades of life starting with some from the LGBTQ community.
Everyone has a story to tell.
In todays society it is easy to be caught up in the pressures of our own lives, missing out on some truly remarkable people who pass us by. Here are some of their stories.
I also want to hear from you.
Have you a story to tell?
Drop me a voice note on Anchor or a DM on Instagram
E-mail: shadesofpodcast@gmail.com
Shades of Gay by Keyth DavidOct 12, 2019
Phil Rider - Military, PTSD, Bereavement & Sex Working
First of all, thank you so much to Phil, our guest, who re- consented to allow this episode to be broadcast.
This show has been syndicated but is was recorded for the Thirsty Bitch Podcast in 2021 - If you are listening from another podcast you can find Thirsty Bitch Podcast Here or search Thirsty Bitch Podcast from where ever you get your Podcasts.
For legal, personal, and to be sensitive and protective to the guest and others mentioned within the podcast, this episode has been heavily edited from the original.
As you maybe aware, its been many months since the last Thirsty Bitch Podcast.
The one you are about to listen to was shelved. We thought it was inappropriate to bring you the episode, mainly due to the fact that our guest was in a very troubled place at the time and also felt it to be morally wrong in the moment. There was no happy ending in sight for our guest, at the time of recording, and felt it would feel exploitative for 'entertainment purpose' and possibly be more detrimental to Phil.
It's been two years since the episode was recorded and only now, seeing the changes with our Guest, did I, Keyth David @keythdavid, think the story should be told.
In a climate of increasing mental health issues, depression and personal desperations, it's very easy to isolate yourself and end up in a worse place.
If you are going through something right now, I really hope this will help you reach out or take some kind of comfort in the fact that you are not alone.
Whether this is Grief, PTSD, Depression or been apart of the Chemsex world then I have included a list of places that you can find help. This could be via phone, email, webchat or SMS.
If you would like to reach out to Phil then why not drop him a nice DM on Instagram theonlyphilrideruk
Read more about Phil from his interview with the BBC HERE
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/stories-46295439
Helpful Information.
LGBT Foundation - Advice and Information
https://lgbt.foundation/helpline
LGBT+ Switchboard
The Good Grief Trust (Bereavement)
https://www.thegoodgrieftrust.org/
PTSD Campain Against Living Miserably
https://www.thecalmzone.net/guides/ptsd?gad=1
Chemsex Support
https://www.letstalkaboutit.nhs.uk/directory-of-services/chemsex-support/
This is the very last of the Thirsty Bitch content so thank you for listening over the last few years.
Stay Thirsty - Keyth x
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Shades of Lewie Fox
Shades of Kristi Barnett
Kristi produced the worlds first movie over Twitter called Hurst (aka @KarenBarley) KarenBarley.co.uk
Guest website: www.kristibarnett.com
Insta @kristi_screenwriter
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NB: Shades of Gay is now Shades - Keyth David
Shades of Stuart Linden
Stuart Linden was a prominent, northern, 90s, scene photographer .. SLASH Chef and Lecturer, teaching his lessons during the day before heading all over the North with his camera to document the gay 90s club scene.
More recently Stuart has received a lot of attention, after COVID prompted him to scan all these photos and create social media profiles documenting that forgotten era.. from bars to clubs to Prides and becoming best friends with porn Director William Higgins (RIP). This was the party immediately after the AIDS epidemic and before Queer as Folk.
Talking all things Northern, Porn director William Higgins and his very successful Linden Archives showing what life was in the era of Party and the recovery of the decimated gay scene from THE Virus.
Social Media
https://www.instagram.com/linden_archives/
Twitter
https://twitter.com/ArchiveLinden
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Shades - The Mixtape
Teaming up with the your new party event planner Aftr, which you can download from the App Store, Shades Podcast Host & Dj KEYTH DAVID brings you a selection of House tracks under the Podcast brand Shades. Check the seasons out on all good streaming services now.
Rose Royce
Grace Jones
Ertha Kit.
Whitney Houston
A Taste of Honey
Lion Babes
Much more
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Shades of Chris Vanjie
In this episode I got to talk to Chris Vanjie, Insta @Storyofatart Twitter @ChrisVanjie about his life, overcoming obstacles and living boldly in his queer, sex positive life.
Subjects covered here include : Family issues, eating disorder, consent, acceptance, narcissism, suicidal thoughts.
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If you have been affected by any of the issues in this podcast then please consider the following.
LGBTQ Switchboard - 0300 330 0630 - Chris@switchboard.lgbt
https://switchboard.lgbt
Queer Futures - Resources & 24hr helplines
http://www.queerfutures.co.uk/help/
Suicide APP for google play, apple App Store and desktop web app
https://www.prevent-suicide.org.uk/find-help-now/stay-alive-app/
The Stay Alive app is a pocket suicide prevention resource for the UK, packed full of useful information to help you stay safe. You can use it if you are having thoughts of suicide or if you are concerned about someone else who may be considering suicide.
Mind charity LGBTQ+ Mental Health information
https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/tips-for-everyday-living/lgbtiqplus-mental-health/about-lgbtiqplus-mental-health/
Get in touch
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Shades of James Bennett
Delving straight into the nitty gritty, I got to interview London born James Bennett, a mental health advocate, adult entertainer and someone who has been through more than enough rough moments in his life. Coming out the other side a more rounded and experienced person, this interview will relate, educate and fascinate. This episode covers family issues, mental health problems, self harm, escorting and blackmail. Host Keyth David - @justkeyth Guest James Bennett - Instagram - xxjamesbennettxxx Twitter - @IAmJamesBennett
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Ed Dyson - Celebs, Spice Girls and Penalty Points
In this episode of Shades I get to talk to celebrity journalist, author and comedy writer Ed Dyson.
Having worked for most of the major newspapers, interviewed the world's biggest celebrity names and written a book based around the Spice Girls, we know a lot about his public life. Now, it's time to find out about his personal life. If you want to leave a voice note for the podcast go to Anchor.FM/ShadesOfGay and drop me a line. You can buy Ed's book direct from Amazon or via your Kindle.
Search "Friendship Never Ends" on your Kindle or go here:
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Friendship-Never-Ends-Ella-Dyson-ebook/dp/B07FCLM5WF/ref=sr_1_fkmr1_1?keywords=edina+Dyson+friendships&qid=1575653439&sr=8-1-fkmr1
Listen to his Podcasts United Queendom on Apple Podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/united-queendom-podcast/id1482277960 Insta: @UnitedQueendomPodcast
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Bonus Shade - An Update with Johnny
Remember a couple of months ago we interviewed Johnny? Johnny's Irish, bisexual, his dad's gay, and he hadn't spoken to many of his family for years due to a feud he had been drawn into....?
Well, since that episode, remarkable things developed and Johnny's back to update us on what has happened.
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Shades of Paulus
In this episode I had the honour of interviewing all-round showman par excellence - Paulus. Arguably, the most memorable member of 'The 100' in the BBC TV show 'All together Now,' Paulus has been an entertainer since the age of 7. He shares with us some of his stories from his love for modern stained glass cathederals to being flipped by a beef eater! We hear about his life in entertainment including his new musical and Victoria Wood! From the forthcoming queer fairytale musical 'Paulus:beta', Jordan Clarke and Paul L Martin present their new song 'TRIBE'. Exclusive to Shades of Gay, laugh, cry, turn off! Enjoy this episode of Shades of Gay.
You can find Paulus on
Facebook: @PaulusFabulus or
Youtube: @PaulusPaulLMartin
He's also on Inst: @Paulus_looks and on
Twitter: @Paulus_says
http://www.Paullmartin.com
Patreon @Patreon.com/PaulusFabulus
Background noise courtesy of recording live in a venue.
Thanks to Freedom Bar Soho for the recording space.
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Shades of Topher
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James - Foster Care, Rape and Chickens
Starting life in Foster Care, James discovered his sexuality the hard way. Falling for a guy he couldn't have. 30 pills later and some therapy took James on a new road to discovery finding abusive relationships, girls, Asda, Chem sex, rape and chickens!
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Shades of Aamyko
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Alex - Something Witchcraft This Way Comes
A big thank you to my friend and this episode's guest, Alex, who explains exactly what it's like being a witch, the differences between wicca and witchcraft, busts the myths and explains what it's like to be a witch and a gay man.
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Shades of Johnny
Picture this: An 8-year-old boy, growing up in Ireland, and his dad comes out as a gay man. When the boy grows up he comes out as a bisexual man who dates a transexual and later marries a woman. His mum dates a guy while she's still married to another man. Throw into the mix cock-blocking a priest - and you've got Johnny's life (well, so far!)
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The Bona World of Gerry
Starting the journey off on Shades, I speak to Gerry who tells us of his life moving from Ireland in the early 1980's to experiencing being a gay man in London's entertainment industry. From police raids in Ireland, Thatcher's 80's, the party scene of the 90's and how being an older gay man today affects him - this is Gerry's story.
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