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Take Back Your Life

Take Back Your Life

By Shayla Reneé, Ministry Author & Speaker

The TBYL Podcast is a time of refreshing and equipping to help women break free from toxic thoughts, feelings, people, and situations, so that they can thrive as royal daughters of Christ the King!
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Take Back Your LifeDec 01, 2022

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A Woman's TRUE Identity

A Woman's TRUE Identity

Between International Women's Day and Women's History Month, March has brought a lot of attention to womanhood. But what truly makes a woman a woman? Should she be defined by a subjective standard of beauty (like the color of her eyes or the length of her hair) or by how well she performs a role (like bossy CEO or cool soccer mom)? Or did God have something different in mind when He created us?


Enjoy this episode of the 🎙Take Back Your Life podcast 🎙 as we explore the topic "A Woman's TRUE Identity." In this episode you'll learn: 🙎🏽‍♀️ the most important thing to learn on a first date, 🙎🏽‍♀️ how to build a life with the One who never changes, 🙎🏽‍♀️ the difference between your identity and your roles, 🙎🏽‍♀️ living by God the Potter's design, 🙎🏽‍♀️ the blueprint for rock-solid character, 🙎🏽‍♀️ and much more! Please like👍🏽, share🤲🏽, comment🗣, and SUBSCRIBE! 🙋🏽‍♀️ 👉🏽👉🏽👉🏽📕Also, remember to grab your copy of He Almost Stole My Life, Version 2.0, "Take Back Your Life" Edition! ORDER NOW at: https://shaylarenee.square.site * * * #ShaylaInspires #mindset #mindsetshift #toxicbehavior #HeAlmostStoleMyLife #AsAWomanThinketh #relationshipadvice #podcast #YouMatter #relationshiptips #toxicity #emotionalhealth #HealthyLiving #toxicthoughts #toxichabits #PersonalDevelopment #WomensLifeCoach #ChristianLifeCoach #womenspodcast #healing #ChristianPodcast #empoweringwomen #spiritualdevelopment #wisdom #IPV #wisdomforlife #toxicrelationships #intimatepartnerviolence #Womenshealth #selfcare #mentalhealthmatters #TakeBackYourLife #womensissues #spiritualgrowth #healingtrauma #wisdom #Hope #womensmentalhealth #successhabits #rootwork #personalgrowth #successmindset #recovery #TRUEIdentity #WomensHistoryMonth #InternationalWomensDay Learn more at: https://www.ShaylaInspires.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------- Meet Shay Shayla Reneé is a Christ-follower, wife, mother, women's wellness advocate, speaker, coach, Amazon #1 bestselling authorpreneur...and overcomer. Between a rare cancerous genetic disorder, a childhood in the dangerous streets of Coatesville, PA, the tragic early loss of both parents, substance abuse, depression, domestic violence, legal trouble, and worse, Shayla's journey was far from easy. But the pain never defined her. It just fueled her drive to help other women understand that they aren't defined by their painful past either. By sharing spiritual and practical wisdom through the grid of her incredible life story, Shayla equips and empowers women to stop settling for a false identity so they can thrive as the precious royal daughters of Christ they were created to be. Contact: Web: https://www.ShaylaInspires.com Speaker Booking: https://www.ShaylaInspires.com/booking Spotify: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ShaylaInspires LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ShaylaInspires Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ShaylaInspires Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ShaylaInspires YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ShaylaInspires Email: shaylainspires@gmail.com Phone: (267) 225-1515

Mar 30, 202333:34
A New Look at Loss (When God Does the Stripping)

A New Look at Loss (When God Does the Stripping)

When a housefire or natural disaster strikes your home, the first thing you probably notice is the loss of heirlooms and keepsakes, or the fact that you won't have your own bed to sleep in. But do you also notice God giving you the opportunity to bond with your family, or to learn Christ-like humility? Loss is hard — but it's even harder when you don't recognize the difference between God pruning you and the devil destroying you.


Enjoy this episode of the 🎙Take Back Your Life podcast 🎙 as we explore the topic "A New Look at Loss (When God Does the Stripping)." In this episode you'll learn:


📉 lessons from surviving a housefire,

📉 how Job overcame the worst day of his life,

📉 the power of letting go,

📉 the power of clinging tight,

📉 how to tell the difference between God's pruning and the devil's destroying,

📉 and much more!


Please like👍🏽, share🤲🏽, comment🗣, and SUBSCRIBE! 🙋🏽‍♀️


👉🏽👉🏽👉🏽📕Also, remember to grab your copy of He Almost Stole My Life, Version 2.0, "Take Back Your Life" Edition! ORDER NOW at: https://shaylarenee.square.site


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Learn more at: https://www.ShaylaInspires.com


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Meet Shay


Shayla Reneé is a Christ-follower, wife, mother, women's wellness advocate, speaker, coach, Amazon #1 bestselling authorpreneur...and overcomer.


Between a rare cancerous genetic disorder, a childhood in the dangerous streets of Coatesville, PA, the tragic early loss of both parents, substance abuse, depression, domestic violence, legal trouble, and worse, Shayla's journey was far from easy. But the pain never defined her. It just fueled her drive to help other women understand that they aren't defined by their painful past either. By sharing spiritual and practical wisdom through the grid of her incredible life story, Shayla equips and empowers women to stop settling for a false identity so they can thrive as the precious royal daughters of Christ they were created to be.


Contact:


Web: https://www.ShaylaInspires.com


Speaker Booking: https://www.ShaylaInspires.com/booking


Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/01n9O2wBMV8x83Htqyhd3v


LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ShaylaInspires


Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ShaylaInspires


Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ShaylaInspires


YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ShaylaInspires


Email: shaylainspires@gmail.com


Phone: (267) 225-1515

Mar 24, 202331:08
How to Handle Emotional Triggers

How to Handle Emotional Triggers

As you're hanging out at the crib with your best friend, she turns on the TV to watch her favorite show — which also happens to be your abusive ex-boyfriend's favorite show. Suddenly you're emotionally triggered and you have a mental flashback of all the times you endured a black eye and a kick to the ribs. So you blurt out, "Turn that mess off! Don't nobody need to see that!" Is your friend's tv show really the problem? Or does the trigger just remind you that you haven't truly healed from past trauma?

What do you do about it?

Enjoy this episode of the 🎙Take Back Your Life podcast 🎙 as we explore the topic "How to Handle Emotional Triggers." In this episode you'll learn:

🔫 the gold at the end of the trigger rainbow,

🔫 definition of a trigger,

🔫 what to do (and what NOT to do) when you're triggered,

🔫 embracing scripture, the Holy Spirit, and the power of choice,  

🔫 your 5-part biblical battle plan for overcoming triggers,

🔫 and much more!

Please like👍🏽, share🤲🏽, comment🗣, and SUBSCRIBE! 🙋🏽‍♀️

👉🏽👉🏽👉🏽📕Also, remember to grab your copy of He Almost Stole My Life, Version 2.0, "Take Back Your Life" Edition! ORDER NOW at: https://shaylarenee.square.site

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#ShaylaInspires #mindset #mindsetshift #toxicbehavior #HeAlmostStoleMyLife #AsAWomanThinketh #relationshipadvice #podcast #YouMatter #relationshiptips #toxicity #emotionalhealth #HealthyLiving #toxicthoughts #toxichabits #PersonalDevelopment #WomensLifeCoach #ChristianLifeCoach #womenspodcast #healing #ChristianPodcast #empoweringwomen #spiritualdevelopment #wisdom #IPV #wisdomforlife #toxicrelationships #intimatepartnerviolence #Womenshealth #selfcare #mentalhealthmatters #TakeBackYourLife #womensissues #spiritualgrowth #healingtrauma #wisdom #Hope #womensmentalhealth #successhabits #rootwork #personalgrowth #successmindset #pain #recovery #triggers #triggered

Learn more at: https://www.ShaylaInspires.com

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Meet Shay

Shayla Reneé is a Christ-follower, wife, mother, women's wellness advocate, speaker, coach, Amazon #1 bestselling authorpreneur...and overcomer.

Between a rare cancerous genetic disorder, a childhood in the dangerous streets of Coatesville, PA, the tragic early loss of both parents, substance abuse, depression, domestic violence, legal trouble, and worse, Shayla's journey was far from easy. But the pain never defined her. It just fueled her drive to help other women understand that they aren't defined by their painful past either. By sharing spiritual and practical wisdom through the grid of her incredible life story, Shayla equips and empowers women to stop settling for a false identity so they can thrive as the precious royal daughters of Christ they were created to be.

Contact:

Web: https://www.ShaylaInspires.com

Speaker Booking: https://www.ShaylaInspires.com/booking

Spotify: https://anchor.fm/ShaylaInspires

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ShaylaInspires

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ShaylaInspires

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ShaylaInspires

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ShaylaInspires

Email: shaylainspires@gmail.com

Phone: (267) 225-1515

Mar 17, 202330:43
What if I Feel Lonely?

What if I Feel Lonely?

Loneliness can make you do foolish things when you're all in your feelings — like running back to your abusive ex, or jumping into a new relationship with a guy who's even more abusive before you've even had a chance to heal from the old relationship. All because you're so desperate for an intimate connection that you'll do almost anything to get it. But there's a difference between loneliness and singleness. Loneliness can be a grave, but singleness can be a gift. So what should you do with those lonely feelings after a break-up? And how do you find true intimacy when you're single?

Enjoy this episode of the 🎙Take Back Your Life podcast 🎙 as we explore the topic "What if I Feel Lonely?" In this episode you'll learn:

🙎🏽‍♀️ how to spend "alone time" when you're single,

🙎🏽‍♀️ how the universe's design proves God loves you,

🙎🏽‍♀️ the problem with "soul ties,"

🙎🏽‍♀️ testing to see how well you know yourself, 

🙎🏽‍♀️ simple 4-part process to kick loneliness to the curb and find true intimacy,

🙎🏽‍♀️ and much more!

Please like👍🏽, share🤲🏽, comment🗣, and SUBSCRIBE! 🙋🏽‍♀️

👉🏽👉🏽👉🏽📕Also, remember to grab your copy of He Almost Stole My Life, Version 2.0, "Take Back Your Life" Edition! ORDER NOW at: https://shaylarenee.square.site

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#ShaylaInspires #mindset #mindsetshift #toxicbehavior #HeAlmostStoleMyLife #AsAWomanThinketh #relationshipadvice #podcast #YouMatter #relationshiptips #toxicity #emotionalhealth #HealthyLiving #toxicthoughts #toxichabits #PersonalDevelopment #WomensLifeCoach #ChristianLifeCoach #womenspodcast #healing #ChristianPodcast #empoweringwomen #spiritualdevelopment #wisdom #IPV #wisdomforlife #toxicrelationships #intimatepartnerviolence #Womenshealth #selfcare #mentalhealthmatters #TakeBackYourLife #womensissues #spiritualgrowth #healingtrauma #wisdom #Hope #womensmentalhealth #successhabits #rootwork #personalgrowth #successmindset #pain #recovery #RockBottom #Loneliness

Learn more at: https://www.ShaylaInspires.com

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Meet Shay

Shayla Reneé is a Christ-follower, wife, mother, women's wellness advocate, speaker, coach, Amazon #1 bestselling authorpreneur...and overcomer.

Between a rare cancerous genetic disorder, a childhood in the dangerous streets of Coatesville, PA, the tragic early loss of both parents, substance abuse, depression, domestic violence, legal trouble, and worse, Shayla's journey was far from easy. But the pain never defined her. It just fueled her drive to help other women understand that they aren't defined by their painful past either. By sharing spiritual and practical wisdom through the grid of her incredible life story, Shayla equips and empowers women to stop settling for a false identity so they can thrive as the precious royal daughters of Christ they were created to be.

Contact:

Web: https://www.ShaylaInspires.com

Speaker Booking: https://www.ShaylaInspires.com/booking

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/01n9O2wBMV8x83Htqyhd3v

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ShaylaInspires

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ShaylaInspires

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ShaylaInspires

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ShaylaInspires

Email: shaylainspires@gmail.com

Phone: (267) 225-1515

Mar 09, 202337:33
How to Handle Rock Bottoms

How to Handle Rock Bottoms

Ever been so low that you had to jump up to touch the bottom of the rock? How do you typically respond to a "rock bottom" situation in your life? Do you run away from Jesus and hide in shame? Or do you try to bargain with God by making vain, empty promises that you'll turn over a new leaf if He'll just bail you out one...more...time? What if there was a better, healthier way to deal with the rock bottoms in your life?

Enjoy this episode of the 🎙Take Back Your Life podcast 🎙 as we explore the topic "How to Handle Rock Bottoms." In this episode you'll learn:

🪨 the real danger of trauma-based relationships,

🪨 why hitting rock bottom won't make you change,

🪨 Apostle Paul's "rock bottom blueprint"

🪨 how to avoid being a "trauma addict",

🪨 how to tell real love from fake love,

🪨 and much more!

Please like👍🏽, share🤲🏽, comment🗣, and SUBSCRIBE! 🙋🏽‍♀️

👉🏽👉🏽👉🏽📕Also, remember to grab your copy of He Almost Stole My Life, Version 2.0, "Take Back Your Life" Edition! ORDER NOW at: https://shaylarenee.square.site

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#ShaylaInspires #mindset #mindsetshift #toxicbehavior #HeAlmostStoleMyLife #AsAWomanThinketh #relationshipadvice #podcast #YouMatter #relationshiptips #toxicity #emotionalhealth #HealthyLiving #toxicthoughts #toxichabits #PersonalDevelopment #WomensLifeCoach #ChristianLifeCoach #womenspodcast #healing #ChristianPodcast #empoweringwomen #spiritualdevelopment #wisdom #IPV #wisdomforlife #toxicrelationships #intimatepartnerviolence #Womenshealth #selfcare #mentalhealthmatters #TakeBackYourLife #womensissues #spiritualgrowth #healingtrauma #wisdom #Hope #womensmentalhealth #successhabits #rootwork #personalgrowth #successmindset #pain #recovery #RockBottom

Learn more at: https://www.ShaylaInspires.com

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Meet Shay

Shayla Reneé is a Christ-follower, wife, mother, women's wellness advocate, speaker, coach, Amazon #1 bestselling authorpreneur...and overcomer.

Between a rare cancerous genetic disorder, a childhood in the dangerous streets of Coatesville, PA, the tragic early loss of both parents, substance abuse, depression, domestic violence, legal trouble, and worse, Shayla's journey was far from easy. But the pain never defined her. It just fueled her drive to help other women understand that they aren't defined by their painful past either. By sharing spiritual and practical wisdom through the grid of her incredible life story, Shayla equips and empowers women to stop settling for a false identity so they can thrive as the precious royal daughters of Christ they were created to be.

Contact:

Web: https://www.ShaylaInspires.com

Speaker Booking: https://www.ShaylaInspires.com/booking

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/01n9O2wBMV8x83Htqyhd3v

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ShaylaInspires

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ShaylaInspires
   
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ShaylaInspires

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ShaylaInspires

Email: shaylainspires@gmail.com

Phone: (267) 225-1515

Mar 02, 202338:31
The Pain of Change: An Adulteress' Guide to Recovery

The Pain of Change: An Adulteress' Guide to Recovery

In John 8:1-11, we read about Jesus and a woman caught in the act of adultery. In this heartwarming story, Jesus forgives and sets her on the path of recovery from a life of sin. But just because Jesus saved her from the pain of eternal judgment doesn't mean her road to recovery was pain-free. At bare minimum, she likely dealt with temptation, loneliness, and rejection from men as she struggled to embrace purity and new life in Christ. Which teaches us a great lesson: whether you're struggling with sin or suffering at the hands of toxic people, we must all deal with the pain of change or the pain of staying the same.

Enjoy this episode of the Take Back Your Life podcast with powerful perspectives on the topic "The Pain of Change: An Adulteress' Guide to Recovery." In this episode we discuss:

💁🏽‍♀️ the 6 stages of life transformation,

💁🏽‍♀️ the pain choice,

💁🏽‍♀️ how Dr. Jesus cured an adulteress (and how He can heal you),

💁🏽‍♀️ spiritually healthy coping tips,

💁🏽‍♀️ the cure for stinkin' thinkin',

💁🏽‍♀️ and much more!

Please like👍🏽, share🤲🏽, comment🗣, and SUBSCRIBE! 🙋🏽‍♀️

👉🏽👉🏽👉🏽📕Also, remember to grab your copy of He Almost Stole My Life, Version 2.0, "Take Back Your Life" Edition! ORDER NOW at: https://shaylarenee.square.site

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#ShaylaInspires #mindset #mindsetshift #toxicbehavior #HeAlmostStoleMyLife #AsAWomanThinketh #relationshipadvice #podcast #YouMatter #relationshiptips #toxicity #emotionalhealth #HealthyLiving #toxicthoughts #toxichabits #PersonalDevelopment #WomensLifeCoach #ChristianLifeCoach #womenspodcast #healing #ChristianPodcast #empoweringwomen #spiritualdevelopment #wisdom #IPV #wisdomforlife #toxicrelationships #intimatepartnerviolence #Womenshealth #selfcare #mentalhealthmatters #TakeBackYourLife #womensissues #spiritualgrowth #healingtrauma #wisdom #Hope #womensmentalhealth #successhabits #newyeargoals #newyearcleaning #rootwork #personalgrowth #successmindset #pain #recovery

Learn more at: https://www.ShaylaInspires.com

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Meet Shay

Shayla Reneé is a Christ-follower, wife, mother, women's wellness advocate, speaker, coach, Amazon #1 bestselling authorpreneur...and overcomer.

Between a rare cancerous genetic disorder, a childhood in the dangerous streets of Coatesville, PA, the tragic early loss of both parents, substance abuse, depression, domestic violence, legal trouble, and worse, Shayla's journey was far from easy. But the pain never defined her. It just fueled her drive to help other women understand that they aren't defined by their painful past either. By sharing spiritual and practical wisdom through the grid of her incredible life story, Shayla equips and empowers women to stop settling for a false identity so they can thrive as the precious royal daughters of Christ they were created to be.

Contact:

Web: https://www.ShaylaInspires.com

Speaker Booking: https://www.ShaylaInspires.com/booking

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/01n9O2wBMV8x83Htqyhd3v

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ShaylaInspires

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ShaylaInspires

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ShaylaInspires

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ShaylaInspires

Email: shaylainspires@gmail.com

Phone: (267) 225-1515

Feb 09, 202337:58
Change Begins With a Decision

Change Begins With a Decision

Decisions can change everything. Eve decided to listen to a talking snake. Adam decided to let her. We've been paying the price for poor decision-making ever since. Even today we live in a world where some law enforcement officers decide to brutally kill and oppress people based on skin color. But the good news is that decisions can also help you change for the better. In fact, making a decision is one of the most important steps you must take on your journey to recover from the toxic thoughts, feelings, people, and situations that are destroying your life.

Enjoy this episode of the Take Back Your Life podcast with powerful perspectives on the topic "Change Begins with a Decision." Together we'll discuss:

💁🏽‍♀️ the 6 stages of life transformation,

💁🏽‍♀️ decision vs. distraction,

💁🏽‍♀️ the "perfect" time to make decisions,

💁🏽‍♀️ the impact of your external AND internal environment,

💁🏽‍♀️ good decision-making hacks,

💁🏽‍♀️ and much more!

Please like👍🏽, share🤲🏽, comment🗣, and SUBSCRIBE! 🙋🏽‍♀️

👉🏽👉🏽👉🏽📕Also, remember to grab your copy of He Almost Stole My Life, Version 2.0, "Take Back Your Life" Edition! ORDER NOW at: https://shaylarenee.square.site

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#ShaylaInspires #mindset #mindsetshift #toxicbehavior #HeAlmostStoleMyLife #AsAWomanThinketh #relationshipadvice #podcast #YouMatter #relationshiptips #toxicity #emotionalhealth #HealthyLiving #toxicthoughts #toxichabits #PersonalDevelopment #WomensLifeCoach #ChristianLifeCoach #womenspodcast #healing #ChristianPodcast #empoweringwomen #spiritualdevelopment #wisdom #IPV #wisdomforlife #toxicrelationships #intimatepartnerviolence #Womenshealth #selfcare #mentalhealthmatters #TakeBackYourLife #womensissues #spiritualgrowth #healingtrauma #wisdom #Hope #womensmentalhealth #successhabits #newyeargoals #newyearcleaning #rootwork #personalgrowth #successmindset #decisions #decisionsmatter

Learn more at: https://www.ShaylaInspires.com

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Meet Shay

Shayla Reneé is a Christ-follower, wife, mother, women's wellness advocate, speaker, coach, Amazon #1 bestselling authorpreneur...and overcomer.

Between a rare cancerous genetic disorder, a childhood in the dangerous streets of Coatesville, PA, the tragic early loss of both parents, substance abuse, depression, domestic violence, legal trouble, and worse, Shayla's journey was far from easy. But the pain never defined her. It just fueled her drive to help other women understand that they aren't defined by their painful past either. By sharing spiritual and practical wisdom through the grid of her incredible life story, Shayla equips and empowers women to stop settling for a false identity so they can thrive as the precious royal daughters of Christ they were created to be.

Contact:

Web: https://www.ShaylaInspires.com

Speaker Booking: https://www.ShaylaInspires.com/booking

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/01n9O2wBMV8x83Htqyhd3v

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ShaylaInspires

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ShaylaInspires

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ShaylaInspires

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ShaylaInspires

Email: shaylainspires@gmail.com

Phone: (267) 225-1515

Feb 03, 202333:08
Recognizing Your Need for Recovery

Recognizing Your Need for Recovery

Happy 2023! Many people spend the new year trying to identify different solutions like weight loss diets, new side hustles, attending church, or exercise programs. But come February or March, they're right back to the same old toxic habits and situations — like emotional eating, debt, spiritual isolation, or idleness — that have taken over their life. So instead of recognizing solutions, perhaps the real issue is that we haven't yet learned how to recognize problems. As the saying goes, "The way we see the problem...is the problem."

Enjoy this episode of the Take Back Your Life podcast with powerful perspectives on the topic "Recognizing Your Need for Recovery." Together we'll discuss:

🕵🏽 the 6 stages of life transformation,
🕵🏽 the power of commitment,
🕵🏽 recognition mindset and habits,
🕵🏽 spiritual inventory techniques,
🕵🏽 simple and effective strategy for honing your self-awareness,
🕵🏽 and much more!

Please like👍🏽, share🤲🏽, comment🗣, and SUBSCRIBE!🙋🏽‍♀️

👉🏽👉🏽👉🏽📕Also, remember to grab your copy of He Almost Stole My Life, Version 2.0, "Take Back Your Life" Edition! ORDER NOW at: https://shaylarenee.square.site

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#ShaylaInspires #mindset #mindsetshift #toxicbehavior #HeAlmostStoleMyLife #AsAWomanThinketh #relationshipadvice #podcast #YouMatter #relationshiptips #toxicity #emotionalhealth #HealthyLiving #toxicthoughts #toxichabits #PersonalDevelopment #WomensLifeCoach #ChristianLifeCoach #womenspodcast #healing #ChristianPodcast #empoweringwomen #spiritualdevelopment #wisdom #IPV #wisdomforlife #toxicrelationships #intimatepartnerviolence #Womenshealth #selfcare #mentalhealthmatters #TakeBackYourLife #womensissues #spiritualgrowth #healingtrauma #wisdom #Hope #womensmentalhealth #successhabits #newyeargoals #newyearcleaning #rootwork #personalgrowth #successmindset #recognition #problemsolving

Learn more at: https://www.ShaylaInspires.com

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Meet Shay

Shayla Reneé is a Christ-follower, wife, mother, women's wellness advocate, speaker, coach, Amazon #1 bestselling authorpreneur...and overcomer.

Between a rare cancerous genetic disorder, a childhood in the dangerous streets of Coatesville, PA, the tragic early loss of both parents, substance abuse, depression, domestic violence, legal trouble, and worse, Shayla's journey was far from easy. But the pain never defined her. It just fueled her drive to help other women understand that they aren't defined by their painful past either. By sharing spiritual and practical wisdom through the grid of her incredible life story, Shayla equips and empowers women to stop settling for a false identity so they can thrive as the precious royal daughters of Christ they were created to be.

Contact:

Web: https://www.ShaylaInspires.com

Speaker Booking: https://www.ShaylaInspires.com/booking

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/01n9O2wBMV8x83Htqyhd3v

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ShaylaInspires

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ShaylaInspires

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ShaylaInspires

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ShaylaInspires

Email: shaylainspires@gmail.com

Phone: (267) 225-1515

Jan 26, 202331:30
Shooting for Forgiveness

Shooting for Forgiveness

Often, we can hold a grudge for the pettiest reasons. A girl looked at you funny in the store. Your cousin was a no-show at your Christmas party. Your best friend slept with your no-good boyfriend who you knew was a no-good cheat before you dated him. But did you know that in October 2006, a group of parents from the Amish community of West Nickel Mines in PA visited and forgave the family of the dead gunman who murdered their five precious children just a few hours earlier?

That's the power of forgiveness that is only found through Jesus Christ.

Enjoy this episode of the Take Back Your Life podcast with powerful perspectives on the topic "Shooting for Forgiveness." Together we'll discuss how not to be enslaved by toxic negative feelings, 3 keys to forgiving yourself and others, my 5-step blueprint for forgiveness, the power of the cross to change hearts, and much more!

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Article reference:  Clinton, T., Hinson, E., Ohlschlager, G., & Worthington, E., Jr. (2001). The Care and Counsel Bible. Thomas Nelson Publishers.

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Shayla Reneé is a Christ-follower, wife, mother, women's wellness advocate, speaker, coach, Amazon #1 bestselling authorpreneur...and overcomer.

Between a rare cancerous genetic disorder, a childhood in the dangerous streets of Coatesville, PA, the tragic early loss of both parents, substance abuse, depression, domestic violence, legal trouble, and worse, Shayla's journey was far from easy. But the pain never defined her. It just fueled her drive to help other women understand that they aren't defined by their painful past either. By sharing spiritual and practical wisdom through the grid of her incredible life story, Shayla equips and empowers women to stop settling for a false identity so they can thrive as the precious royal daughters of Christ they were created to be.

Contact:

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Dec 22, 202252:50
How to Build a Financially Responsible Marriage

How to Build a Financially Responsible Marriage

When did you first learn about the value of money? The thoughts, feelings, and views we have about money are often formed by the family we grew up in that has unhealthy money habits. As a result, most children just become adults who bring these same toxic thoughts, feelings, and behaviors into their marriages and continue the cycles of destruction in their family life through bad debt, lack of savings, overspending, hoarding, you name it.

Enjoy this episode of the Take Back Your Life podcast as my husband John and I get really personal on the topic "How to Build a Financially Responsible Marriage." Together we'll discuss marriage-and-money mindset, planning our storybook wedding, recovering from back-stabbing job losses, blueprint for achieving 700+ credit scores in just 6 months, the only Christmas spending tip you'll ever need, and much more!

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Shayla Reneé is a Christ-follower, wife, mother, women's wellness advocate, speaker, coach, Amazon #1 bestselling authorpreneur...and overcomer.

Between a rare cancerous genetic disorder, a childhood in the dangerous streets of Coatesville, PA, the tragic early loss of both parents, substance abuse, depression, domestic violence, legal trouble, and worse, Shayla's journey was far from easy. But the pain never defined her. It just fueled her drive to help other women understand that they aren't defined by their painful past either. By sharing spiritual and practical wisdom through the grid of her incredible life story, Shayla equips and empowers women to stop settling for a false identity so they can thrive as the precious royal daughters of Christ they were created to be.

Contact:

Web: https://www.ShaylaInspires.com
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Phone: (267) 225-1515

Dec 15, 202256:52
"A Star Rises: Overcoming a Toxic Work Environment" f/ Margaret Graham, Star Capital Properties

"A Star Rises: Overcoming a Toxic Work Environment" f/ Margaret Graham, Star Capital Properties

Jealousy. Favoritism. Backstabbing. Withholding critical information. Spreading gossip to clients. Bosses and co-workers who go out of their way to make your life miserable — even though you give 150% of yourself to the job! If this describes your workplace, then you're in a toxic work environment and you've probably had many days on the job when you felt like pulling your hair out. As a star employee (and a star person) you must rise above the fray, like the star rising in the east for the magi to find the Messiah in the Christmas story.

Check out this episode of the Take Back Your Life podcast featuring special guest Margaret Graham, Owner/Managing Director of Star Capital Properties, for inspiring stories and insight on the topic "A Star Rises: Overcoming a Toxic Work Environment." Together we'll explore 5 key indicators of a toxic workplace, the importance of faith at work, top tips for self-care, how to successfully transition out of your nightmare and into to your dream job, and much more. This episode will help give you the wisdom, encouragement, and inspiration you need to overcome workplace toxicity and become a rising star!

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Shayla Reneé is a Christ-follower, wife, mother, women's wellness advocate, speaker, coach, Amazon #1 bestselling authorpreneur...and overcomer.

Between a rare cancerous genetic disorder, a childhood in the dangerous streets of Coatesville, PA, the tragic early loss of both parents, substance abuse, depression, domestic violence, legal trouble, and worse, Shayla's journey was far from easy. But the pain never defined her. It just fueled her drive to help other women understand that they aren't defined by their painful past either. By sharing spiritual and practical wisdom through the grid of her incredible life story, Shayla equips and empowers women to stop settling for a false identity so they can thrive as the precious royal daughters of Christ they were created to be.

Contact:

Web: https://www.ShaylaInspires.com
Speaker Booking: https://www.ShaylaInspires.com/booking
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/01n9O2wBMV8x83Htqyhd3v
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Email: shaylainspires@gmail.com
Phone: (267) 225-1515

Dec 08, 202253:16
Overcoming Insecurities: "You're Cute Now, But..."

Overcoming Insecurities: "You're Cute Now, But..."

"You're cute now, but..." If one of your closest friends randomly began to say that sentence to you, how do you think it would end? Would you even care? How would those words affect you? Your answer to these questions will reveal a lot about your level of security in your own self-worth. Which is important because, as Shayla learned personally, words can be like the hurricane winds that test whether you are a powerful palm tree firmly rooted in truth or a weak willow that gets carried away in the breeze.

Check out this episode of the Take Back Your Life podcast for soul-piercing insight on the topic "Overcoming Insecurities." Together we'll explore what insecurities are, where our insecurities stem from, and how to use God's powerful Word to overcome them!

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Meet Shay

Shayla Reneé is a Christ-follower, wife, mother, women's wellness advocate, speaker, coach, Amazon #1 bestselling authorpreneur...and overcomer.

Between a rare cancerous genetic disorder, a childhood in the dangerous streets of Coatesville, PA, the tragic early loss of both parents, substance abuse, depression, domestic violence, legal trouble, and worse, Shayla's journey was far from easy. But the pain never defined her. It just fueled her drive to help other women understand that they aren't defined by their painful past either. By sharing spiritual and practical wisdom through the grid of her incredible life story, Shayla equips and empowers women to stop settling for a false identity so they can thrive as the precious royal daughters of Christ they were created to be.

Contact:

Web: https://www.ShaylaInspires.com
Speaker Booking: https://www.ShaylaInspires.com/booking
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/01n9O2wBMV8x83Htqyhd3v
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Email: shaylainspires@gmail.com
Phone: (267) 225-1515

Dec 01, 202231:43
Toxic Thoughts About Our Feelings

Toxic Thoughts About Our Feelings

Are you the woman who thinks it's okay to be impulsive and cuss out anyone who disagrees with you? Or are you the type who shuts everyone out and stews in her own bitter juices because you believe "emotions are for the weak?" Have you ever paused to think about why you handle emotions this way? Sometimes, it's not just your emotions that destroy you — it's the toxic way you THINK about your emotions that destroys you.

If you don't develop good healthy thoughts about emotions, you'll be a danger to yourself and everyone around you. You'll either be a walking explosion or a walking implosion.

Check out this episode of the Take Back Your Life podcast for deep, powerful insight on the topic "Toxic Thoughts About Our Feelings." We'll explore how early childhood trauma impacts our thoughts and emotions as grown folk, be empowered to own our feelings, and learn to process them in a healthy way!

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Meet Shay

Shayla Reneé is a Christ-follower, wife, mother, women's wellness advocate, speaker, coach, Amazon #1 bestselling authorpreneur...and overcomer.

Between a rare cancerous genetic disorder, a childhood in the dangerous streets of Coatesville, PA, the tragic early loss of both parents, substance abuse, depression, domestic violence, legal trouble, and worse, Shayla's journey was far from easy. But the pain never defined her. It just fueled her drive to help other women understand that they aren't defined by their painful past either. By sharing spiritual and practical wisdom through the grid of her incredible life story, Shayla equips and empowers women to stop settling for a false identity so they can thrive as the precious royal daughters of Christ they were created to be.

Contact:

Web: https://www.ShaylaInspires.com
Speaker Booking: https://www.ShaylaInspires.com/booking
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/01n9O2wBMV8x83Htqyhd3v
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ShaylaInspires
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Email: shaylainspires@gmail.com
Phone: (267) 225-1515

Nov 17, 202230:16
The Toxic Enabler, Part 2 of 2

The Toxic Enabler, Part 2 of 2

People love getting together with family during the holiday season for bonding, nostalgia, warm meals, and joyous celebrations — even if it means being in the same room with cousin Mabel who always lies about her "homemade" bread pudding from Walmart, or Uncle Bob whose bearhugs are the only thing more offensive than his halitosis, or Nana who cussed you out for not wiping your feet on the welcome mat.

But what about the family member who defends their relative's abusive behavior by blaming it on you, or who pretends Pookie is "just asleep" when she's really passed out from an alcohol coma, or who always comes dressed in a long-sleeve turtleneck and a plastic smile to hide the bruises she received that morning from her husband?

There's a term for people like that: toxic enablers.

Check out PART TWO of this episode of the Take Back Your Life podcast for real talk on the topic "The Toxic Enabler" as we continue to break down the profile of people who condone evil behavior and how to steer clear of their destructive path!

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Article References:  Casabianca, S. S. (2022, March 9). How to spot and stop enabling behavior. Psych Central. Retrieved November 3, 2022, from https://psychcentral.com/health/are-you-an-enabler

Knopf, J. A. (2021, October 6). Enablers of abuse: Don't be a flying monkey by Joanna Knopf. ASK Counseling & Consulting. Retrieved November 3, 2022, from https://askccllc.com/enablers-of-abuse-dont-be-a-flying-monkey-by-joanna-knopf

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Meet Shay

Shayla Reneé is a Christ-follower, wife, mother, women's wellness advocate, speaker, coach, Amazon #1 bestselling authorpreneur...and overcomer.

Between a rare cancerous genetic disorder, a childhood in the dangerous streets of Coatesville, PA, the tragic early loss of both parents, substance abuse, depression, domestic violence, legal trouble, and worse, Shayla's journey was far from easy. But the pain never defined her. It just fueled her drive to help other women understand that they aren't defined by their painful past either. By sharing spiritual and practical wisdom through the grid of her incredible life story, Shayla equips and empowers women to stop settling for a false identity so they can thrive as the precious royal daughters of Christ they were created to be.

Contact:

Web: https://www.ShaylaInspires.com
Speaker Booking: https://www.ShaylaInspires.com/booking
Spotify: https://anchor.fm/ShaylaInspires
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ShaylaInspires
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Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ShaylaInspires
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Email: shaylainspires@gmail.com
Phone: (267) 225-1515

Nov 10, 202216:04
The Toxic Enabler, Part 1 of 2

The Toxic Enabler, Part 1 of 2

People love getting together with family during the holiday season for bonding, nostalgia, warm meals, and joyous celebrations — even if it means being in the same room with cousin Mabel who always lies about her "homemade" bread pudding from Walmart, or Uncle Bob whose bearhugs are the only thing more offensive than his halitosis, or Nana who cussed you out for not wiping your feet on the welcome mat.

But what about the family member who defends their relative's abusive behavior by blaming it on you, or who pretends Pookie is "just asleep" when she's really passed out from an alcohol coma, or who always comes dressed in a long-sleeve turtleneck and a plastic smile to hide the bruises she received that morning from her husband?

There's a term for people like that: toxic enablers.

Check out this episode of the Take Back Your Life podcast for real talk on the topic "The Toxic Enabler" as we break down the profile of people who condone evil behavior and how to steer clear of their destructive path!

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Article References:

Casabianca, S. S. (2022, March 9). How to spot and stop enabling behavior. Psych Central. Retrieved November 3, 2022, from https://psychcentral.com/health/are-you-an-enabler

Knopf, J. A. (2021, October 6). Enablers of abuse: Don't be a flying monkey by Joanna Knopf. ASK Counseling & Consulting. Retrieved November 3, 2022, from https://askccllc.com/enablers-of-abuse-dont-be-a-flying-monkey-by-joanna-knopf

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Meet Shay

Shayla Reneé is a Christ-follower, wife, mother, women's wellness advocate, speaker, coach, Amazon #1 bestselling authorpreneur...and overcomer.

Between a rare cancerous genetic disorder, a childhood in the dangerous streets of Coatesville, PA, the tragic early loss of both parents, substance abuse, depression, domestic violence, legal trouble, and worse, Shayla's journey was far from easy. But the pain never defined her. It just fueled her drive to help other women understand that they aren't defined by their painful past either. By sharing spiritual and practical wisdom through the grid of her incredible life story, Shayla equips and empowers women to stop settling for a false identity so they can thrive as the precious royal daughters of Christ they were created to be.

Contact:

Web: https://www.ShaylaInspires.com
Speaker Booking: https://www.ShaylaInspires.com/booking
Spotify: https://anchor.fm/ShaylaInspires
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ShaylaInspires
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ShaylaInspires
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ShaylaInspires
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ShaylaInspires
Email: shaylainspires@gmail.com
Phone: (267) 225-1515

Nov 04, 202223:32
It's NOT Just Physical

It's NOT Just Physical

People who grew up with me know that I made my mark through basketball. My talent made me a star high school point guard with legit chance to turn pro...before someone close to me got in my head with a criticism that made me question everything and lose confidence in my game — and I never quite got it back. After studying my favorite WNBA stars like Sheryl Swoopes and Dawn Staley, I learned that their success came from more than raw talent. What separated us was that these women had a mental toughness that I lacked. It wasn't just physical.

Similarly, when most people think of relationship abuse, the first thing they think about is physical violence. But there are many other forms of abuse — verbal, mental, even financial — that often come prior to the physical abuse which MUST be properly addressed. Otherwise they can tear your life apart.

Check out this episode of the Take Back Your Life podcast for insightful discussion on the topic "It's NOT Just Physical" as we explore the seriousness of all forms of #relationshipabuse and give you sound wisdom about how to avoid, navigate through, and overcome them.

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Article Reference: Günnur Karakurt, Ph.D and Kristin E. Silver, B. A. Emotional abuse in intimate relationships: The role of gender and age. Violence Vict. 2013; 28(5): 804–821.

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Shayla Reneé is a Christ-follower, wife, mother, women's wellness advocate, speaker, coach, Amazon #1 bestselling authorpreneur...and overcomer.

Between a rare cancerous genetic disorder, a childhood in the dangerous streets of Coatesville, PA, the tragic early loss of both parents, substance abuse, depression, domestic violence, legal trouble, and worse, Shayla's journey was far from easy. But the pain never defined her. It just fueled her drive to help other women understand that they aren't defined by their painful past either. By sharing spiritual and practical wisdom through the grid of her incredible life story, Shayla equips and empowers women to stop settling for a false identity so they can thrive as the precious royal daughters of Christ they were created to be.

Contact:

Web: https://www.ShaylaInspires.com
Speaker Booking: https://www.ShaylaInspires.com/booking
Spotify: https://anchor.fm/ShaylaInspires
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ShaylaInspires
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Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ShaylaInspires
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ShaylaInspires
Email: shaylainspires@gmail.com
Phone: (267) 225-1515

Oct 29, 202230:49
How to Get the Right Help From the Right People

How to Get the Right Help From the Right People

Would you ever ask a chicken to teach an eagle how to fly? Sounds ridiculous, doesn't it?! We all know a chicken doesn't have the same makeup as an eagle to fly, and frankly there's nothing credible that a chicken can tell an eagle about soaring where only other eagles have been — even if it means well.

But it's equally ridiculous for us to think that our close friends can teach us how to escape, overcome, and heal from a toxic or abusive relationship when they've never successfully left the coop of their own toxic or abusive relationships themselves — even if they have good intentions for us.

It's kinda like asking a chicken for eagle advice.

Check out this episode of Take Back Your Life for a special THROWBACK edition where we discuss "How to Get the Right Help From the Right People!" Whether you're stuck in a relationship rut, or just tired of listening to life advice from the same old hens, join us for a great discussion that will inspire and help you soar like the eagle that God created you to be!

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Meet Shay

Shayla Reneé is a Christ-follower, wife, mother, women's wellness advocate, speaker, coach, Amazon #1 bestselling authorpreneur...and overcomer.

Between a rare cancerous genetic disorder, a childhood in the dangerous streets of Coatesville, PA, the tragic early loss of both parents, substance abuse, depression, domestic violence, legal trouble, and worse, Shayla's journey was far from easy. But the pain never defined her. It just fueled her drive to help other women understand that they aren't defined by their painful past either. By sharing spiritual and practical wisdom through the grid of her incredible life story, Shayla equips and empowers women to stop settling for a false identity so they can thrive as the precious royal daughters of Christ they were created to be.

Contact:

Web: https://www.ShaylaInspires.com
Speaker Booking: https://www.ShaylaInspires.com/booking
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ShaylaInspires
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ShaylaInspires
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ShaylaInspires
Email: shaylainspires@gmail.com
Phone: (267) 225-1515

Oct 21, 202215:51
Why Women Stay: 5 of the BIGGEST Reasons Women Stay in Abusive Relationships

Why Women Stay: 5 of the BIGGEST Reasons Women Stay in Abusive Relationships

Have you ever wondered what would keep a woman in an abusive relationship even after getting knocked out like Mike Tyson's punching bag or dragged down a flight of stairs by her hair? Be careful about your assumptions, because the answer may be way more complicated than you think. In fact, there are at least 5 major reasons why many women stay.

Check out this episode of Take Back Your Life that unpacks "5 of the Biggest Reasons Women Stay in Abusive Relationships." Listen and learn as we deconstruct ignorant assumptions, understand why many women can't simply "just leave," and promote compassion for those suffering through #domesticabuse and #intimatepartnerviolence!

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Also, remember to grab your copy of He Almost Stole My Life, Version 2.0, "Take Back Your Life" Edition! ORDER NOW at: https://shaylarenee.square.site

#whoyouarematters #HASML #toxicbehavior #TrueIdentity #whoyouare #motivation #knowledge #lackofidentity #survivor #domesticviolence #domesticviolencesurvivor #domesticviolenceadvocate #warrior #fromvictimtovictor #DVAM #DVAM2022 #DomesticViolenceAwarenessMonth #DomesticViolenceAwarenessMonth2022 #strongwomenrock #Compassion #empathy #knowledgeempowers #spiritualgrowth #womenshealth #womensissues #selfcare #empoweringwomen

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Meet Shay

Shayla Reneé is a Christ-follower, wife, mother, women's wellness advocate, speaker, coach, Amazon #1 bestselling authorpreneur...and overcomer.

Between a rare cancerous genetic disorder, a childhood in the dangerous streets of Coatesville, PA, the tragic early loss of both parents, substance abuse, depression, domestic violence, legal trouble, and worse, Shayla's journey was far from easy. But the pain never defined her. It just fueled her drive to help other women understand that they aren't defined by their painful past either. By sharing spiritual and practical wisdom through the grid of her incredible life story, Shayla equips and empowers women to stop settling for a false identity so they can thrive as the precious royal daughters of Christ they were created to be.

Contact:

Web: https://www.ShaylaInspires.com
Speaker Booking: https://www.ShaylaInspires.com/booking
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ShaylaInspires
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ShaylaInspires
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ShaylaInspires
Email: shaylainspires@gmail.com
Phone: (267) 225-1515

Oct 14, 202222:17
How to Spot Red Flags of a Toxic Relationship

How to Spot Red Flags of a Toxic Relationship

Are you turning a blind eye to the clear signs telling you that you might be in a relationship with a toxic or abusive person? Do you know how to spot the red flags letting you know that you are headed for relationship hell?

The crew of the Titanic didn't need an eye exam to help them see the danger facing all their passengers. They just needed to heed the many red flags all around them (and within them) to avoid one of the biggest disasters in history. But their pride, negligence, and lack of preparation ultimately led more than a thousand people to an ice-cold, watery grave.

In this episode of Take Back Your Life, I break down some of the biggest red flags of the sinking of the Titanic and how the lessons from this tragic event can help prevent you from experiencing similar catastrophe in your life and personal relationships.

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Also, remember to grab your copy of He Almost Stole My Life, Version 2.0, "Take Back Your Life" Edition! ORDER NOW: https://shaylarenee.square.site

#whoyouarematters #HASML #DEFINEYOU #toxicrelationships #toxicrelationshiprehab #whoyouareinChrist #TrueIdentity #whoyouare #life #motivation #knowledge #defineyourself #identity #lackofidentity #survivor #domesticviolence #domesticviolencesurvivor #domesticviolenceadvocate #intimatepartnerviolence #Shaylainspires #freedom #truefreedom #mindset #mindsetshift #lifehacks #motivation #toxicbehavior #HeAlmostStoleMyLife #domesticviolenceawareness #domesticviolenceawarenessmonth #knowledgeempowers #spiritualgrowth #womenshealth #womensissues #titanic #titanicship #titanicmovie #redflag #redflags #danger #selfawareness

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Meet Shay

Shayla Reneé is a Christ-follower, wife, mother, women's wellness advocate, speaker, coach, Amazon #1 bestselling authorpreneur...and overcomer.

Between a rare cancerous genetic disorder, a childhood in the dangerous streets of Coatesville, PA, the tragic early loss of both parents, substance abuse, depression, domestic violence, legal trouble, and worse, Shayla's journey was far from easy. But the pain never defined her. It just fueled her drive to help other women understand that they aren't defined by their painful past either. By sharing spiritual and practical wisdom through the grid of her incredible life story, Shayla equips and empowers women to stop settling for a false identity so they can thrive as the precious royal daughters of Christ they were created to be.

Contact:

Web: https://www.ShaylaInspires.com
Speaker Booking: https://www.ShaylaInspires.com/booking
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ShaylaInspires
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ShaylaInspires
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ShaylaInspires
Email: shaylainspires@gmail.com
Phone: (267) 225-1515

Sep 30, 202212:23
"TRUE Identity" f/ Ms. Karen Danzey, Sexual Assault Safe Space (SASS), Part 2 of 2

"TRUE Identity" f/ Ms. Karen Danzey, Sexual Assault Safe Space (SASS), Part 2 of 2

Ever been beaten down by life so low that you have to look up to see the basement? What if #domesticviolence and #sexualassault were not only part of your story, but part of your normal?  When toxic, abusive, and traumatic events happen in your life, they can devastate you to the point that they dictate your sense of self-esteem and personal worth. But by God's grace, when you have the right mindset and tools, you don't have to let them define you as a person. Knowing your TRUE Identity in Christ can help you go from a victim to a victor!

In this episode of Take Back Your Life, I am joined by my good friend Karen Danzey for part two of a great conversation on the topic, "IDENTITY: From Victim, to Survivor, to Warrior!" Karen is an awesome inspirational speaker, author, and Warrior of Sexual Assault, whose powerful story will inspire you.

Please like, share, comment, and subscribe!

#whoyouarematters #HASML #DEFINEYOU #toxicbehavior #whoyouareinchrist #TrueIdentity #whoyouare #life #motivation #knowledge #defineyourself #identity #lackofidentity #survivor #domesticviolence #domesticviolencesurvivor #domesticviolenceadvocate #intimatepartnerviolence #warrior #fromvictimtovictor #Shaylainspires #Godsgotit #freedom #truefreedom #mindset #changedheart #mindsetshift #lifehacks #motivation #toxicbehavior #HeAlmostStoleMyLife #domesticviolenceawareness #domesticviolenceawarenessmonth #knowledgeempowers #spiritualgrowth #womenshealth #womensissues #proverbs31woman

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Meet Shay

Shayla Reneé is a Christ-follower, wife, mother, women's wellness advocate, speaker, coach, Amazon #1 bestselling authorpreneur...and overcomer.

Between a rare cancerous genetic disorder, a childhood in the dangerous streets of Coatesville, PA, the tragic early loss of both parents, substance abuse, depression, domestic violence, legal trouble, and worse, Shayla's journey was far from easy. But the pain never defined her. It just fueled her drive to help other women understand that they aren't defined by their painful past either. By sharing spiritual and practical wisdom through the grid of her incredible life story, Shayla equips and empowers women to stop settling for a false identity so they can thrive as the precious royal daughters of Christ they were created to be.

Contact:

Web: https://www.ShaylaInspires.com
Speaker Booking: https://www.ShaylaInspires.com/booking
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ShaylaInspires
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ShaylaInspires
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ShaylaInspires
Email: shaylainspires@gmail.com
Phone: (267) 225-1515

Sep 22, 202221:07
"TRUE Identity" f/ Ms. Karen Danzey, Sexual Assault Safe Space (SASS), Part 1 of 2

"TRUE Identity" f/ Ms. Karen Danzey, Sexual Assault Safe Space (SASS), Part 1 of 2

Ever been beaten down by life so low that you have to look up to see the basement? What if #domesticviolence and #sexualassault were not only part of your story, but part of your normal?  When toxic, abusive, and traumatic events happen in your life, they can devastate you to the point that they dictate your sense of self-esteem and personal worth. But by God's grace, when you have the right mindset and tools, you don't have to let them define you as a person. Knowing your TRUE Identity in Christ can help you go from a victim to a victor!

In this episode of Take Back Your Life, I am joined by my good friend Karen Danzey for a great conversation on the topic, "IDENTITY: From Victim, to Survivor, to Warrior!" Karen is an awesome inspirational speaker, author, and Warrior of Sexual Assault, whose powerful story will inspire you.

Please like, share, comment, and subscribe!

#whoyouarematters #HASML #DEFINEYOU #toxicbehavior #whoyouareinchrist #TrueIdentity #whoyouare #life #motivation #knowledge #defineyourself #identity #lackofidentity #survivor #domesticviolence #domesticviolencesurvivor #domesticviolenceadvocate #intimatepartnerviolence #warrior #fromvictimtovictor #Shaylainspires #Godsgotit #freedom #truefreedom #mindset #changedheart #mindsetshift #lifehacks #motivation #toxicbehavior #HeAlmostStoleMyLife #domesticviolenceawareness #domesticviolenceawarenessmonth #knowledgeempowers #spiritualgrowth #womenshealth #womensissues #proverbs31woman

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Meet Shay

Shayla Reneé is a Christ-follower, wife, mother, women's wellness advocate, speaker, coach, Amazon #1 bestselling authorpreneur...and overcomer.

Between a rare cancerous genetic disorder, a childhood in the dangerous streets of Coatesville, PA, the tragic early loss of both parents, substance abuse, depression, domestic violence, legal trouble, and worse, Shayla's journey was far from easy. But the pain never defined her. It just fueled her drive to help other women understand that they aren't defined by their painful past either. By sharing spiritual and practical wisdom through the grid of her incredible life story, Shayla equips and empowers women to stop settling for a false identity so they can thrive as the precious royal daughters of Christ they were created to be.

Contact:

Web: https://www.ShaylaInspires.com
Speaker Booking: https://www.ShaylaInspires.com/booking
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ShaylaInspires
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ShaylaInspires
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ShaylaInspires
Email: shaylainspires@gmail.com
Phone: (267) 225-1515

Sep 15, 202224:23
Lose Control

Lose Control

"There's power in knowing you have no control over others' actions."  —Shayla Reneé
What can I do to put him in a better mood? If I make his favorite dinner, will he stop saying mean things to me? How can I make him feel guilty, so he'll change?  If you've ever found yourself in a toxic relationship asking yourself these types of questions, then what you may be looking for is CONTROL. But are you going about it the right way? Can you ever truly control another person? Would it be better to just "lose control?"

Check out this episode of Take Back Your Life where we discuss what it means to truly lose control (and why that might not be a bad thing)!

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#losecontrol #Shaylainspires #nocontrol #letgo #Godsgotit #freedom #control #knowledge #truefreedom #handsoff #life #putitinhishands #mindset #changedheart #mindsetshift #heart #HASML #lifehacks #motivation #toxicbehavior #HeAlmostStoleMyLife

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Meet Shay

Shayla Reneé is a Christ-follower, wife, mother, women's wellness advocate, speaker, coach, Amazon #1 bestselling authorpreneur...and overcomer.

Between a rare cancerous genetic disorder, a childhood in the dangerous streets of Coatesville, PA, the tragic early loss of both parents, substance abuse, depression, domestic violence, legal trouble, and worse, Shayla's journey was far from easy. But the pain never defined her. It just fueled her drive to help other women understand that they aren't defined by their painful past either. By sharing spiritual and practical wisdom through the grid of her incredible life story, Shayla equips and empowers women to stop settling for a false identity so they can thrive as the precious royal daughters of Christ they were created to be.

Contact:

Web: https://www.ShaylaInspires.com
Speaker Booking: https://www.ShaylaInspires.com/booking
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ShaylaInspires
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ShaylaInspires
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ShaylaInspires
Email: shaylainspires@gmail.com
Phone: (267) 225-1515

Sep 06, 202214:22
When Life Gives You Lemons...

When Life Gives You Lemons...

What do you do when life throws you a curveball? Is it possible for your bitter situation to turn sweet? Watch this video to find out how my husband and I responded to a devastating curveball we're still dealing with and how God turned our bitter lemons into refreshing lemonade (and how He can do the same for you)!

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Learn more at:
https://www.ShaylaInspires.com

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Meet Shay

Shayla Reneé is a Christ-follower, wife, mother, women's wellness advocate, speaker, coach, Amazon #1 bestselling authorpreneur...and overcomer.

Between a rare cancerous genetic disorder, a childhood in the dangerous streets of Coatesville, PA, the tragic early loss of both parents, substance abuse, depression, domestic violence, legal trouble, and worse, Shayla's journey was far from easy. But the pain never defined her. It just fueled her drive to help other women understand that they aren't defined by their painful past either. By sharing spiritual and practical wisdom through the grid of her incredible life story, Shayla equips and empowers women to stop settling for a false identity so they can thrive as the precious royal daughters of Christ they were created to be.

Contact:

Web: https://www.ShaylaInspires.com
Speaker Booking: https://www.ShaylaInspires.com/booking
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ShaylaInspires
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ShaylaInspires
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ShaylaInspires
Email: shaylainspires@gmail.com
Phone: (267) 225-1515

Aug 27, 202224:26