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She Blows it

She Blows it

By Carla

I'm Carla Coley, host of The She Blows it Podcast and;

I'm a phenomenal woman, blowing smoke on the impact that events in modern culture, art, and virtues have on our evolution as people. I find it interesting, how we're conditioned to believe falsities and/or principles in society simply because that's what the masses believe.

The objective here, is to motivate you to purposefully activate your perspective and challenge everything you know, as reconciliation with your truth.

Sit back, relax, and enjoy the show!
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What is the meaning of Life? PT 1

She Blows it Jul 25, 2022

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What is the meaning of Life? PT 1

What is the meaning of Life? PT 1

Join your host Carla Coley and Big T; host of the Ikantmakethisshitup podcast, as we chop it up about our abstract meanings of life. Stay tuned for part 2 next week. 

Guest- Big T, host of Ikantmakethisshituppodcast: IG @landoverlegendsstudios

Jul 25, 202220:22
If I can't have it, then you can't either...

If I can't have it, then you can't either...

I thought to myself long and hard about what we, as people, can do to erase these crabs in a bucket of mindsets, which get us nowhere and adopt a more flexible mindset in understanding that when you help others, you help yourself. We don’t just sit back and expect for others to believe in us, if we don’t believe in them or take any genuine interest to understand the message they’re trying to convey.There are solutions to this, but everyone would have to work together and the likelihood of that happening is slim to none, hate to be a pessimist, but like Tupac said, that’s just the way it is.

Jul 15, 202220:29
Fighting for Identity

Fighting for Identity

You’re in for a treat on this week's show, as we examine “woke” crossing  the spectrum of fighting for an identity and how although so many people want to cancel woke, this is for everyone. As people we face pressure to “make something of ourselves” from family; we face the challenges of conforming to the construct of our careers, we conform to standards in relationships, to remain up to par to standards of said goals and objectives and the now conforming to standards of social media.

Be sure to like, rate, comment and subscribe to this podcast. This podcast is available where all podcasts are available Also, if you’d like to see a visual of  this podcast, head over to the She Blows it Youtube page on youtube, leave me a comment and let me know your thoughts on this episode. This is a safe place where I encourage everyone to provide a perspective without judgment. Be sure to subscribe to this Channel EVERYWHERE. For the day to day, follow the She Blows It podcast on Instagram @Sheblowsit_pod. Catch you next week.

Jul 04, 202224:45
The war on Guns and Vaginas
Jun 27, 202216:59
Hiding Hands

Hiding Hands

Join your host, Carla Coley, on Episode #41 of the She Blows it Podcast, as she examines the saying “hiding the right hand from the left hand”, and is now used in this modern era to represent how we hide things from one another for personal gain, and how the meaning was reframed to represent the idea of, "getting it by any means necessary".


Like, comment, subscribe, rate this podcast and leave a review! For the daily, follow this podcast on instagram @sheblowsit_pod to see behind the scenes footage of this episode and more. Enjoy the show!

Jun 19, 202226:58
All Things Strawberry Moon Energy
Jun 14, 202208:31
If you knew then, what you know now.

If you knew then, what you know now.

As teens and young adults, we thought we had life all figured out (If this doesn’t apply to you, then just hear me out, ok?). Most of us,  thought we really understood life between the ages of 15 and 24; Screw, what anyone had to say, or wanted to prove. Why? It didn’t matter because, we be knowin’. 

All of that, to now decades later, realizing we didn’t know spit! And I don’t know about you, but I still don’t know shit! Still a pupil in this thing called life!

Join your host Carla Coley, in an in depth conversation about what our thought process would be like if we knew then what we know know. Comment, subscribe, and Share this podcast and catch up on the day to day on @sheblowsit_pod. 

References:

https://www.creditcards.com/education/credit-card-act-of-2009-what-you-need-to-know/

Jun 12, 202228:16
Too Little, Too Late
Jun 05, 202230:40
A Fabulous Isolation
May 30, 202225:30
Season Re-Cap

Season Re-Cap

Join your one and only host, Carla Coley in a recap of episodes number one through nine and what to expect on the next half of this season on the she blows it podcast.
Jun 09, 202120:26
Your network is your net worth w/ Kendra

Your network is your net worth w/ Kendra

Join your host Carla Coley and roomie Kendra from @coffeewithkendra on Episode 9(I know I said 8 in the intro #sheblowsit) in a conversation about the value of networking and remaining true to yourself in the elevation of your success. I was supposed to edit some stuff, but oh well. This authentically published, by yours truly.
May 17, 202101:10:15
Keeping it real with Char

Keeping it real with Char

Join host Carla Coley and special gust Char, the host of The Get it Girl Vision Podcast and a Toronto educator, in a candid discussion on speaking the truth, what that feels like, funny stories around truths and lies, education, and so much more. Be sure to subscribe, like, and follow this podcast on all platforms. If you'd like to keep up with the She Blows it podcast on the day to day, check out the instagram page @sheblowsit_pod.
To learn more about our guest Char, check her out on instagram @get_it_girl_xo_vision and tune in to her podcast.
And as always, special shout out to our music producer, Esau Blue! Check out his music on instagram @boomtapradio.
Enjoy the show!
May 08, 202101:11:20
Suffering in silence

Suffering in silence

Join your host, the one and only Carla Coley, in a discussion paying homage to Mental Health Awareness. In this episode, we explore the following:

Want some therapization without hitting the couch? Then head on over to the accessgrnted solutions podcast to give yourself some grace and go on your own personal journey of healing. To tap in on social media for resources and to listen to the accessgrnted solutions podcast, you can search up @accessgrntd_solutions on instagram, follow, and tap the link in the bio for the latest episode. 

Special thanks to our music producer, Esau Blue @boomtapradio on instagram for the latest melodic vibes. 

It is my wish, that ONE person, if no one else, took something away from this podcast. 

Enjoy the show!

May 04, 202130:29
To love thyself

To love thyself

Join your host, Carla Coley on episode #6: in a discussion centered around the following ideas:

  • Explore the differences between self care and self love
  • Just because we take care of ourselves doesn't mean we love ourselves. Sources of reference, are extracted from the experiences of people like DMX, Kid Cudi, Dwayne Johnson, and Jennifer Lewis.
  • How Self love and self care is different for everyone; different strokes for different folks.
  • How loving yourself doesn't mean you don't experience insecurities, negative thoughts, or negative energy. Every day is not peaches and cream ya'll!

Subscribe to this podcast and check out the latest content on instagram @sheblowsit_pod.

Enjoy the show!

May 02, 202121:45
Assets VS. Liabilities

Assets VS. Liabilities

Join host Carla Coley in a solo discussion, on how reading between the lines isn't something we learned in school in terms of socialization and building relationships. 

On this episode we will:

  • View assets and liabilities; not based on real estate, property, or financial investments, but on how the people in our lives are also assets and liabilities when it comes to our goals, peace, and success. 
  • Define Assets 
  • Define Liabilities 
  • Explore philosophies around how people can be assets based on their core beliefs and principles. Especially, when their belief system aligns with yours and the goals you're striving to achieve. What's also important are the vibes, and when the vibes are good, the tribe is good. Remember, your network is your net worth!
  • Explore philosophies around how people can be liabilities based on their negative core beliefs being projected onto you and how that creates a clashing of energy. It makes you wonder if that person is supporting you, clout chasing, or simply hating?
  • Tie them both in and differentiate how to choose accordingly

Be sure to subscribe to this podcast. It is my deepest hope that you took something away from this show and evaluated yourself and your tribe. To check out the latest content, head on over to the she blows it instagram page @sheblowsit_pod. Questions and/or suggestions are welcomed, send email to sheblowsit@gmail.com. 

To clear yourself of negative energy and manifest abundance daily, check out my metaphysical shop and let liberated, here.

To read the full blog, "In my mind I be like", here ya go!

Sit back, relax, and enjoy the show!



Apr 27, 202124:39
Private school vs. Public School
Apr 23, 202101:33:38
Build a bag
Apr 19, 202101:15:26
My Teacher Doesn't look like me

My Teacher Doesn't look like me

Welcome to the She Blows it Podcast and; oh, boy was this episode a ride!
Join your host me, your host, Carla in a discussion on Episode #2- My Teacher doesn't look like me, where I reference teacher and student relationships and how that impacts quality of education based on supporting research from the following sources:
1.
www.gse.harvard.edu/news/ed/16/05/where-are-all-teachers-color
2. https://www.chalkbeat.org/2019/5/15/21121045/i-was-a-white-teacher-who-couldn-t-talk-about-race-a-journey-through-successful-u-s-high-schools-cha'
I not only touch base on teachers who can't identify with their students, but I get to the bottom of the why and how. Peep out my narrative at the end where I'm serving metaphors and giving you a perspective of emotional intelligence through the lens of a #misfit. Tell me what you think about that one!
Subscribe, relax, and enjoy the show!
Apr 16, 202133:36
What we didn’t learn in school

What we didn’t learn in school

Join me, as I kick off my Season Premiere of Season 6 on the She Blows It Podcast: Made in ignorance, what they didn't teach us in school. It was only befitting that this first episode highlights what the education system failed to teach us and is failing to teach our children. I used various sources for this conversation including: http://www.fldoe.org/accountability/assessments/ https://www.nj.gov/education/cccs/ https://www.lifehack.org/articles/lifestyle/8-essential-skills-they-didnt-teach-you-in-school.html We learned math for testing, but not how to write a check; we spent time in Government and Civics class, but didn't even realize that very important pieces of history were excluded, as though they never occurred; and if we didn't attend a school in certain zip code, then the school most likely lacked resources. This particular source: https://nces.ed.gov/ccd/schoolsearch/ drives home the point of zip code and how zone/area play and important role in quality of education. Tune in, enjoy, and let's talk about what really matters.  Subscribe, Like, and Follow this podcast on all platforms. For the latest content be sure to follow the She Blows It Podcast instagram page @ sheblowsit_pod. I'll catch you when you #pressplay.

Music Production by- Esau Blue @boomtapradio on instagram 


Apr 12, 202127:13
Season 5-Recap

Season 5-Recap

Join me as I recap Season 5 of the She Blows it podcast.

First- special shout out to @boomtapradio for the hard work and dedication put into the show and music production!

Episode #1- Next stop, ground level- with co host Vanessa, find her on Instagram @VanessaCristina

Episode #2- Gritty Imitate Conversations- find our guest Yasmin on Instagram @_yasmin_a_pires

Episode #3- We're cool, but from a distance

Episode #4- Woke habits 

Episode #5- The Glow up- find our guest and podcast host of coffee with Kendra on Instagram @Coffeewithkendra and Eric from the Uncomfortable conversations podcast @uknowthat1guy on Instagram.

Episode #6- Gritty Intimate Conversations w/LA- find LA on Instagram @cocktaleswithLA

Episode #7- A fathers love matters- follow guest Dejuan O'neal on instagram @dejuanoneal1

Episode #8- Woke Habits Minisode

Episode #9- Lost files of las tres putas- follow guest and podcast host Brittany @brittanynicoleasg and follow Edna on Instagram @theandegarcia

Episode #10- Season Recap


It's been such a great season, I can wait to share season 6 with you all! Thank you for tuning in.

Apr 03, 202149:35
The Lost files of las tres putas

The Lost files of las tres putas

Join host Carla narrate content day with her favorite versatile friends, Brittany and Edna after the 85% of the original content files were lost.
Mar 16, 202122:27
The Amino Acids to Networking

The Amino Acids to Networking

This one is a little bit of a teaser, you’ll see why. This is a special episode with Eric, host of uncomfortable conversations podcast where we’ll dissect the nuances of podcasting, our personal experiences with podcasting, how we formulate and organize our discussion pieces, and how a stranger will support you faster than your friends, family, and even other media outlets, brands, or broadcasting platforms. Also an open forum where we can talk our shit! Be sure to follow Eric on instagram @uncomfotableconvo for the latest content and when he’ll be dropping his latest episode with his crew. Enjoy!
Mar 05, 202131:47
A Fathers love
Feb 25, 202101:03:59
Gritty Intimate Conversations- Cocktales Edition- Pt 1

Gritty Intimate Conversations- Cocktales Edition- Pt 1

Tune in to this exclusive interview with LA, executive producer and host of the Cocktales with LA podcast and YouTube channel. Together, we dive straight into nitty gritty, on ways with being intimate and loving towards ourselves, how LA persevered through unique challenges, and through those challenges she shares how she tapped into them and made herself whole and pure through getting to the gritty truth internally- Plus more!
If you haven't followed this podcast on all platforms, do so NOW! And be sure to check out the latest content on the She Blows It podcast instagram page @sheblowsit_pod.
To find more on Cocktales with La on youtube, click here and you can find her on instagram @cocktaleswithLA
Feb 17, 202152:37
The Glow Up

The Glow Up

Welcome to Episode 4- Season 5 on the She Blows it Podcast. I’m your host Carla and today we came to do what we always do- Add a twist of journalism and lead deep thinkers to put the shoe on the other foot and view a story/situation from a different angle.and we have guest Kendra from Coffee with Kendra and Eric, the host of the uncomfortable conversations podcast. There's a range of personalities on here, so get you wine, pop corn, or snack and tune in to the show!
This conversation will highlight the following ideas:

What the glow up consists of.
Examine different types of glow ups
A view of this week in Modern Culture

........and you'll have to tune in for the rest. :)
Follow this podcast on instagram @ sheblowsit_pod for the latest content and highlights of the week.
Feb 10, 202101:24:38
Woke Habits- Minisode 1- The Ritual

Woke Habits- Minisode 1- The Ritual

This brief minisode highlights what it means to be woke, how to tap in to your inner wokeness, and the importance of sharing that vibe with everyone else around you. A further discussion will ensue in the next minisode. Stay Tuned and be sure to follow this podcast on ALL planforms.
Feb 03, 202103:06
We're cool, but from a distance
Jan 30, 202128:52
Gritty, Intimate Conversations

Gritty, Intimate Conversations

Episode 5- Season 2: Gritty Intimate Conversations
DISCLAIMER: This podcast is definitely rated-R, we highly recommend NOT listening to this episode if you have your kids around.
Welcome to the She Blows it Podcast!
Thank you for tuning in to episode #2: Gritty Intimate Conversations with Carla and Vanessa and special guest; mom, dancer, model, MUA, and who's a certified hustler- Yasmin, who's joining us in this low key, pu**y power session. These are they types of conversations that our grandparents would despise us for having with the world, but it's a new era, a new generation, and we are proud to speak and write with our pu**ies, period!
If you haven't already, follow us on Instagram @sheblowsit_pod and subscribe to this podcast page for that action: bloopers, podcast recordings and much more. Happy listening! #sheblowsit_pod.
Jan 27, 202140:58
One Love

One Love

Welcome to the She Blows it Podcast, I’m your host Carla and I’m back with another episode, One Love. Before we dig into the meat and potatoes, if you haven’t already  stop what you’re doing and go follow this podcast @sheblowsit_pod stat! Secondly, this podcast is available on seven different platforms: anchor, blog talk radio, google podcast, radio public, Spotify, breaker, and pocket cast. Subscribe, Subscribe, Subscribe!

We all love a little music right? Aside from the Ganga associated with his repertoire, Marley conveys deep messages that still resonate with most of us today and targets principles that are now floating around the media as being self care, self love, establishing boundaries, loss, love for all, etc. I hope you all enjoy this episode as much as I enjoyed recording it. 

Oct 07, 202019:55
A legendary, high Key Narcissist

A legendary, high Key Narcissist

We all have issues in life, but follow me on my google journey exploring what a narcissist really is, as I exhale some thoughts and facts relevant to the topic at hand. What I've noticed in my life,  is that mental health diagnosis are just flung around at people because they refuse to conform to certain things others may desire and rightfully so, they have their reasons. We can all deal with our psyches if we understand what the problem is and have the compassion to see that there is a solution for others. Remember, always be kind to others because we are all silently struggling with something.  Peace, love, and light! I hope you all enjoy this random episode. Muah!

Sep 18, 202029:46
The lessons of 2020
Sep 12, 202025:57
Little, Big Choices
Sep 04, 202030:57
Why are you back?

Why are you back?

Welcome Back! We are on episode #11- here's what it entails:

  • Stand for something, or you'll fall for anything 
  • Allowing people into your space is a privilege
  • Make your bottom line 

Hope you enjoy and be sure to follow me on instagram @sheblowsit_pod

Mar 31, 202013:01
The effects of COVID-19- For the love of money

The effects of COVID-19- For the love of money

Join me in a discussion questioning the value of life and it's inferiority to the dollar.
Mar 29, 202013:56
A trail of Vibes

A trail of Vibes

Your vibe determines your tribe.
Feb 17, 202020:30
Sassy yoga sesh

Sassy yoga sesh

On this episode, we explore the connecting forces between yoga and sex.
Feb 07, 202017:35
The Root Chakra

The Root Chakra

Welcome to all things connected to The Root Chakra. If you haven't checked out the latest episode on the She Blows It Podcast, here you go.  For all of my new listeners and even the old ones, you aren't only restricted to Anchor to listen in to the goodness, this podcast is available on seven different platforms: Anchor, Spotify, Pocket cast, Blog talk radio, Breaker, Google Podcast, and Radio public. If you're an instagrammer, then you can catch the latest content and links to the most recent blogs and podcast recordings on Instagram @sheblowsit_pod.

As we all know, everything is connected to each other in on way, or another and we’re exploring are the powers of the Root Chakra, its connection to survival, security, and independence and its connection to a television series that I’ve been watching on HBO called “Room 104”. The best description of this show is that is represents a double entendre of irony and it’s a little dark, but’s the concept is intriguing. Most importantly, we'll explore the connections between The Root Chakra and sex.

I hope that all of you guys enjoyed Season 1 of the She Blows It Podcast. Stay tuned for season 2, where we will be getting into some juicy, interesting things along with some special guest and new content. Well, that’s it for now. I Check me out on Instagram @sheblowsit_pod and check out the latest content there. And also, check out the latest blog action at www.sheblowsit.com and read the latest content on the Root Chakra to see where I do my research and get these facts from because I don’t just make this shit up. Thank you for tuning in and I’ll catch you all next year!

Jan 01, 202016:21
The Sacral Chakra
Dec 06, 201915:43
Intuisdom- The Solar Plexus Chakra

Intuisdom- The Solar Plexus Chakra

Welcome back to She Blows it!!! I’m your host Carla and I’m back at it again with another episode. We are onto here we are at episode number 6 and we are steadily making our way through the chakra. Before we get into the good stuff, I want to let you know that this podcast is available on seven different platforms: anchor, Spotify, pocket cast, blog talk radio, breaker, google podcast, and radio public. You can also catch the latest content on Instagram @sheblowsit_pod. To read the latest blog, Intuisdom, click here

Thank you so much for tuning in to this episode on The Solar Plexus Chakra, which is the 3rd Chakra and it’s Sanskrit name is Manupira- meaning “resplendent gem” or “lustrous gem”. When your solar plexus chakra is aligned, you feel comfortable with you own power and you become empowered. Connecting with a purpose, helps us gain a deeper understanding into how we can contribute to the people collectively and beneficially. It no longer becomes about me, but it becomes about us and how we will put each other on as people and build each other up.

The significance of the third chakra allows us the ability to manifest our:

· Willpower and Personal Power- gain the courage to take a risk and speak up for yourself (activate that throat chakra at the same damn time!).

· Intellect- ability to master thoughts, overcome fear, and take appropriate action in any situation.

· Decision making/planning

· Self-assurance

· Personality and personal identity

· Wisdom

The elements that represents the Third Chakra, or the Solar Plexus chakra is fire, which is connected with the sum, heat, energy of light, and all other forms of power. It is represented by the color yellow and is located between the lower chest and the navel area. This chakra is closed connected to the digestive system, it governs metabolism and is associated with the pancreas. The symbol for this chakra is pretty cool. It’s a circle with ten petals and a downward pointing triangle. The triangle in the symbol represents the element of fire and the transformative power of energy. The energy from the solar plexus chakra provides us with momentum to propel forward and get a glimpse at our personal desires and intentions in the world.

Thanks for tuning in and I hope you enjoy the show!

Nov 24, 201914:44
It's all love- The Heart Chakra

It's all love- The Heart Chakra

Welcome back to She Blows it!!! I’m your host Carla and I’m back with another episode. We are onto Episode #5 and this podcast is available on seven different platforms: anchor, Spotify, pocketcast, blog talk radio, breaker, google podcast, and radio public. You can also catch the latest content on Instagram @sheblowsit_pod.

Here we are, revealing the power of the Heart Chakra, characteristics of the Heart Chakra, identifying an imbalanced Heart Chakra, ways to channel the Heart Chakra, and how the Heart Chakra connects to the universe. The energy of The Heart Chakra allows us to recognize that we are part of something larger, that we are interconnected within an intricate web of relationships extending through life and the universe. When  The Heart Chakra is open and energy is flowing freely, you are not only loving to others, you are also loving to your self. You know when you need to say no and when you need care and self-nurturing. Feel free to give me your feedback on the playlist and I hope that you enjoy this episode!

Until next time!

Nov 15, 201917:48
The Voice of The Universe

The Voice of The Universe

Welcome back to another episode on the She Blows It Podcast!

To catch the latest content, find us on instagram @ sheblowsit_pod

Featured item of the week from our friends over at http://www.urbankaozus.com : There is more than one way to peacefully say, "IDFWY"

This podcast is available on seven different platforms: anchor, blog talk radio, spotify, pocket cast, google podcast, radio public, and breaker podcast. 

Here is the gist:

I’m inhaling on this idea:  Our words are ENERGY and the energy that we expel out into the universe comes back to us in different ways. Our words can be used as weapons, or they can be used for good. The question is, how can we use our words for the good of all? How can we say something of value to the next person and inspire them to reach another level of consciousness? We won’t be able to express our truths if we fear expressing our thoughts and feelings, when we are unable to listen to ourselves/ other people, and when we are stubbornly resisting life.

I’m exhaling on how: We live in an era where anything you say can and will be used against you. Not only in the court of law, but anything can be used against you through snapshots, social media, karma, etc. Despite this reality, the individuals in today’s society say whatever comes to mind with no consideration to feelings, or anything-they are just inconsiderate as hell and that’s my perception. There is a time and a place where that is appropriate, but not all of the time. Our words are a manifestation of our realities; past, present, and future. When we give our past too much energy, we tend to co-habitate with it preventing us from propelling towards the future.


I hope you everyone enjoys this episode! Click here, to read the blog that coincides with this episode. The blog is extremely interactive and I promise you, that you won't get bored! 

Thank you for tuning in!

Nov 09, 201915:35
Third Eye
Oct 31, 201916:42
Freestyle Episode-Signs we ignore

Freestyle Episode-Signs we ignore

A random thought on the 3 signs that we ignore.

Oct 28, 201904:08
Crown
Oct 24, 201925:35
Chakrotes

Chakrotes

Can you identify your Chakras? If so good! If not, no worries! You can’t realign something when you don’t understand all of the working parts! Tune in and learn about your Chakras and how they are essential to a better life.
Oct 17, 201918:44