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Sheepdog Marriage

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The Sheepdog Marriage Podcast is a product of our personal journey as husband and wife, service (Military/First Responder) family, and a desire to share our lessons learned. Now, more than ever before in history, the relationship between sheep and sheepdog has become toxic. It tears at the fabric of our society in general. In our case specifically, and the life of so many other "Sheepdog Marriages," the ripple affect can lead to higher-than-normal rates of divorce. Sadly, this also contributes to the number of service member suicide that is at an all-time high.
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S-2/E-10/Part 3 of 3 EODCS Jerron Clark and Wife Michelle Clark

Sheepdog MarriageSep 27, 2023

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S-2/E-10/Part 3 of 3 EODCS Jerron Clark and Wife Michelle Clark

S-2/E-10/Part 3 of 3 EODCS Jerron Clark and Wife Michelle Clark

Join us for an intriguing conversation as we delve into the fascinating world of work-life balance with Jerron Clark, the esteemed host of the Echo Oscar Delta podcast, and his wife Michelle Clark. In this highly anticipated third installment of the series, we explore a unique aspect of his career, and his marriage.

As a Navy EOD tech, Jerron has undergone rigorous training, numerous deployments, and obtained a plethora of certifications. But amidst the demands of his career, how much attention is given to nurturing his relationship with his wife, Michelle?

Prepare to be captivated as we uncover the secrets to maintaining a strong and thriving marriage while juggling the demands of an intense profession. Discover the strategies, challenges, and triumphs that have shaped their bond as they navigate the delicate balance between dedication to duty and devotion to his marriage and family.

Join us for Part Three of the dynamic interview series with Jerron and Michelle Clark, exclusively on this final episode of season 2 Sheepdog Marriage

Sep 27, 202332:30
S-2/E-9/Part 2 of 3 EODCS Jerron Clark and Wife Michelle Clark

S-2/E-9/Part 2 of 3 EODCS Jerron Clark and Wife Michelle Clark

Join us on the Sheepdog Marriage 159 podcast for an eye-opening conversation “Part-2” with Jerron Clark, host of the Echo Oscar Delta podcast, and his wife Michelle. In part two of our interview, we delve into the challenges faced by dedicated Sheepdogs like Jerron, who often give so much to their country and community that they unintentionally neglect the needs of their own families. Discover their heartfelt insights, practical strategies, and inspiring stories as they navigate the intricacies of balancing duty and family in a demanding lifestyle. Tune in now for an episode filled with wisdom, understanding, and the power of love and resilience. 

Sep 11, 202329:14
S-2/E-8 /Part 1 of 3 EODCS Jerron Clark and Wife Michelle Clark

S-2/E-8 /Part 1 of 3 EODCS Jerron Clark and Wife Michelle Clark

" Join us for this riveting three-part series interview with Navy EODCS Jerron Clark and his wife Michelle. Get ready to dive deep into the intricacies of marriage, military deployments, and the challenges faced by the EOD community. We invite you to join in on the conversation with this dynamic couple and experience firsthand why it was so compelling that we decided to make it a three-part series. Don't miss out on this incredible opportunity to learn from their unique perspective.”

Aug 04, 202354:19
S-2/E-7 Sheepdog Interview with Retired LAPD officer Vonnie Brown and her husband Kenny Brown

S-2/E-7 Sheepdog Interview with Retired LAPD officer Vonnie Brown and her husband Kenny Brown

"Join us for an inspiring episode of Sheepdog Marriage Interviews as we sit down with Vonnie and Kenny Brown. Vonnie's 21-year career with the LAPD as a detective supervisor and vice officer, coupled with Kenny's work in the entertainment industry, makes for an intriguing conversation about their unique life experiences. More importantly, they share how their faith has been the foundation of their marriage. Tune in to learn from their wisdom and gain insights on how to strengthen your own relationship with your spouse and with God."--

Jun 04, 202346:04
S-2/E-6: SPECIAL BONUS EPISODE: "Debriefing Tactical Marriage & Firearms Training Weekend"

S-2/E-6: SPECIAL BONUS EPISODE: "Debriefing Tactical Marriage & Firearms Training Weekend"

"Get ready for an explosive bonus episode of Tactical Marriage - featuring an exclusive interview with Raymond and Leslie Funk of Three Chord Marriage! We'll be diving into the nitty gritty of their groundbreaking tactical marriage retreat, exploring the cutting-edge tactics they use to build the strongest, most resilient marriages possible. Plus, we'll be talking firearms training, sharing how your will learn insider tips and tricks for staying safe and secure as a couple. Don't miss this must-listen episode - tune in now!"--
May 26, 202346:31
S-2/E-5 Sheepdog Interview with Firefighter/Paramedic Michael Guercio and wife Michelle Guercio

S-2/E-5 Sheepdog Interview with Firefighter/Paramedic Michael Guercio and wife Michelle Guercio

Join Sheepdog Marriage 159 as we have the pleasure of sitting down with Firefighter/Paramedic Michael Guercio and wife, Michelle Guercio. This dynamic couple who have been married for many years and are now using their life as first responder couple to help other couples navigate the challenges of this career field and marriage. 
Michael and Michelle are dedicating themselves to becoming marriage coaches and offering guidance to those who may be struggling in their sometimes complicated relationships. In this episode, we'll be diving into their story, discussing their journey as a couple, and learning more about what they are doing to help couples get "Through the Fire" of their marriage. So sit back, relax, and join us as we dive into this fascinating conversation.

Apr 11, 202340:15
S-2/E-4 Sheepdog Interview with Retired LAPD Officer Brian Seitz and his wife Linda Seitz

S-2/E-4 Sheepdog Interview with Retired LAPD Officer Brian Seitz and his wife Linda Seitz

Brian and Linda Seitz are authors, speakers, and coaches specializing in helping law enforcement couples navigate the unique challenges of their relationships. In our interview, they share their insights and practical tips for creating a successful law enforcement marriage, as well as their vision for building a stronger, more supportive community for couples within this unique career field.

Apr 07, 202352:40
S-2/E-3 Sheepdog Interview with Police Officer Ken and his wife

S-2/E-3 Sheepdog Interview with Police Officer Ken and his wife

In this exciting episode of Sheepdog Interviews, police officer "Ken" and his wife Meredith open up about their life as a "Sheepdog Couple” and how they navigate the challenges of Ken's career and schedule. 

Ken and Meredith share how they make their marriage work despite Ken's shift schedule. One key factor is communication - It is very clear that they make a conscious effort to keep each other informed about their schedules and or any changes that might impact their time together.

Above all, Ken and Meredith emphasized the importance of supporting each other and working together as a team. They recognize that the demands of Ken's job can be challenging, but they approach them with such a great mindset and attitude. Both Ken and Meredith are committed to making their marriage and family a priority.

Mar 30, 202351:19
S-2/E-2 Sheepdog Interview with Retired Navy Corpsman Chief Colwyn Wiltshire

S-2/E-2 Sheepdog Interview with Retired Navy Corpsman Chief Colwyn Wiltshire

Join us for episode 2 as Retired Navy Chief Colwyn Wiltshire shares candidly about the challenges he and his wife faced as they navigated the emotional toll of their dual military service and their daughter's health struggles. He talks about the importance of communication, patience, and empathy while sustaining a strong relationship even in the face of adversity.

Despite facing significant obstacles, Wiltshire and his wife have found ways to overcome their challenges and build a resilient and supportive partnership. From seeking out counseling to finding joy in small moments, the couple has learned to prioritize their relationship and their family in order to thrive.

Overall, this episode of the Sheepdog Marriage podcast interview offers valuable insights for anyone facing difficult times in their relationship, and serves as a powerful reminder that with dedication, determination, and a foundation of Gods principles , even the toughest challenges can be overcome.

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Mar 15, 202301:04:05
S-2/E-1 Sheepdog Interview with John & Tiffany

S-2/E-1 Sheepdog Interview with John & Tiffany

This episode of Sheepdog Marriage Podcast features Army veteran and current Law Enforcement Officer, along with his wife Tiffany. Both have dedicated their lives to serving our country and our community. They discuss how their experience as a Sheepdog Family has impacted their lives, both positively and with some challenges. They will also share their unique story about finding strength in the face of adversity, trying to maintain a healthy rhythm between Sheepdog life, and family, while fostering communication within their marriage. Listeners will be inspired by this dynamic couple's journey and will gain valuable insight on the importance of having a supportive marriage in order to succeed in all aspects of the Sheepdog life. 

Feb 26, 202354:32
S-2/Intro Episode "Interviews With a Sheepdog"

S-2/Intro Episode "Interviews With a Sheepdog"

Sheepdog Interviews is a firsthand and intimate knowledge of the lives of sheepdogs and their families. We will bring you stories of the sacrifices they make to maintain a successful marriage and family under pressure. Through conversations with these brave men and women, you will gain an understanding of their struggles and triumphs. Join us each week for real life narratives, resources, and advice to help reinforce the sheepdog marriage. 

Feb 21, 202351:34
S-1/E-13/LEGACY: We're moving "BACK" to Virginia Beach

S-1/E-13/LEGACY: We're moving "BACK" to Virginia Beach

Join us for this final episode in "Season 1: The Making of a Sheepdog," as a bitter/sweet end to the first season. We debrief on the previous episodes, and share Purpose/Vision for our marriage and family. We also invite you to think about, and live into your own Purpose/Vision. 

Dec 28, 202240:43
S-1/E-12/Part 2/Operation Healing

S-1/E-12/Part 2/Operation Healing

Join us again as we continue to share the top 12 tools we use to "Make Our Marriage Great Again!" With only two more episodes left in "The Making of a Sheepdog" series, we start with #7 tool and end with a surprise announcement!  Get your pen and paper ready and stay tuned as we share our exciting news!

Nov 12, 202235:09
S-1/E-12/Part 1/ Operation Healing

S-1/E-12/Part 1/ Operation Healing

Join us as we begin to share the top 12 tools that we use to "work" on our marriage daily! God is a healing God, and he wants you to have unity in your marriage, but the healing is just the beginning of the process. There is a lot of  "work" that is required for sustainable change and to maintain a healthy marriage. We are thankful for the journey, as it has brought us to where we are today. You don't want to miss this one, have your note taking skills ready....

Nov 07, 202244:38
S-1/E-11/Part 3: Time for a "Marriage Reboot!"

S-1/E-11/Part 3: Time for a "Marriage Reboot!"

In this final part or a three part series, we finish up Episode 11 with a look into where we find resolution and clarity for our marriage. Just like many marriages, we have been through a lot together over the years. We have built a life worthy of salvaging. We know we love each other and want more, but we don't know where to start. Knowing that we both want resolution is perfect common ground to build from. Counseling over the years sustained our marriage, but we were never fully thriving, only surviving. In an act obedience, we found ourselves at a marriage small group offered through our church, which ultimately lead us to "Married for a Purpose," and the marriage "Reboot" process. The Reboot process is what drove our mental shift from problem to purpose focus and gave us vision for our future. 

Oct 26, 202239:22
S-1/E-11/Part 2: The Blow Up

S-1/E-11/Part 2: The Blow Up

The years of unresolved anger have led us to a place of hurt, and disconnection. We are in a deep fog of war and both of us are unequivocally standing our ground, even if it means we give up on the life, the marriage, and the family we have worked so hard to build together. We both recognize that we have to fight for one another, but not sure where to begin. Reaching for a lifeline, we turn to the church for help! The help we receive is not exactly what we had in mind, but God calls us to obedience, not success! 

Oct 16, 202248:05
S-1/E-11/Part 1: Build Up to the Blow Up!

S-1/E-11/Part 1: Build Up to the Blow Up!

Join us for this well anticipated episode. The life lessons, the clarity, and the vision are just on the horizon but first the march through the valley with the ugly, the darkness and fog of war. Chris and Tina share the raw truth about their relationship and circumstances leading up and into the events that almost dashed their marriage onto the rocks of life. Their prayer is that the telling of their story will bring pause, hope and direction to others who find themselves in the throes of a neglected marriage and at the mercy of unaddressed sacrifices.

Oct 09, 202247:29
S-1/E-10 Senior Chief to Officer Ruediger

S-1/E-10 Senior Chief to Officer Ruediger

Join us as we venture into the civilian world after 26 years of military service. Chris spends his first year as a "Civilian" trying to find that inner Sheepdog and his purpose during this season of transition. Returning to uniformed service was necessary and vital to his calling but came without a definitive purpose or vision, which was recipe for disaster. 

Sep 16, 202254:09
S-1/E-9 Retirement

S-1/E-9 Retirement

Join us as we celebrate a well deserved honor to our country connected as a couple and as a family! 

Sep 07, 202201:04:02
S-1/E-8 "Bahrain"

S-1/E-8 "Bahrain"

Join us as we continue our journey with the Navy in "back to back" deployments! We are dedicated to our marriage and our family, but we are not connected emotionally! Chris is back safely from his tour in Iraq... we're sure to get a shore duty billet...RIGHT?! I mean... what could go wrong?! LOL!


Sep 01, 202259:50
S-1/E-7 "Operational....AGAIN!"

S-1/E-7 "Operational....AGAIN!"

Our expectation of a "Shore Duty" full of family fun and having Chris home to be a husband and father were not exactly what we had in mind. However, we continue to move at mach 3 taking whatever the Navy throws our way! Chris is recovered and fully operational again as we head back to Virginia Beach. He is teamed up and starting deployment work ups for his looming Iraq tour. As the EOD community begins to experience its own casualties of war, Tina sticks her head in the sand and presses forward! 

Aug 11, 202249:30
S-1/E-6 "Speedbump"

S-1/E-6 "Speedbump"

Heading into episode 6, we continue "The Making of a Sheepdog" series as we arrive back in Florida to begin a much needed and well deserved season of life as a "real family." Chris has taken shore duty in the Panhandle of Florida as an Instructor at EOD School. Our expectations are high and we are ready to dive into the reality that we created in our own minds. But as we know, we plan, and God laughs. 

Aug 01, 202256:00
S-1/E-5 "We're Moving to Italy!"

S-1/E-5 "We're Moving to Italy!"

Join us for episode 5 as we move to Europe..... and move with all the left over emotional baggage from past. We unpack the good, and the "what has happened to my life" moments. The build up to "The Great Awakening" of our marriage relationship continues to survive... but under the surface the bitterness and disconnection is brewing... We give you a front row seat to the brokenness and reflect on the hindsight of how we could have prevented a lot of the destruction that was ahead in our marriage down the road. 


Jul 23, 202253:30
S-1/E-4 "Six Fingers!"

S-1/E-4 "Six Fingers!"

Join us as we share our story of the birth of our second son. With deployment work ups looming on the horizon, or so we thought.....reality was waiting just around the corner. As we bring our son home from the hospital and come to terms with his polydactyly the Navy has other plans for Chris. Once again duty calls Chris away as he and Tina struggle for unity and connection.


Jun 19, 202251:12
S-1/E-3 "I am Sheepdog, Hear me Roar!"

S-1/E-3 "I am Sheepdog, Hear me Roar!"

In this episode we share our newlywed marriage journey from the honeymoon phase into the realities of a military combat deployment. Chris and Tina are separated by time and distance as life moves into warp speed. They face the challenge of staying connected while they shape their individual roles as Husband and wife, father and mother, and Sheepdog and spouse.

Jun 07, 202251:41
SPECIAL BONUS EPISODE: "Memorial Day Interview with Gold Star Widow Karie Darga Gilliland"

SPECIAL BONUS EPISODE: "Memorial Day Interview with Gold Star Widow Karie Darga Gilliland"

Gold Star Widow Karie Darga Gilliland speaks to us exclusively on this Memorial Day weekend about her late husband EODC Paul J Darga. Join us as we honor Paul's sacrifice to our country in this bonus episode of the Sheepdog Marriage podcast. Karie takes us on a journey down memory lane from their first awkward meeting in the high school library, to Paul joining the navy, becoming husband and wife, and then his final deployment that ultimately took his life. Karie also shares how God prepared her heart months before Pauls death. Karie is so inspiring! We Remember! 

May 30, 202201:20:13
S-1/E-2 "EOD School"

S-1/E-2 "EOD School"

Making of a Sheepdog series continues with episode 2 as we talk about expectations. Join us as we peel back the onion on the beginnings of our relationship, EOD school, dating only 4 months before marriage, and how it formed our lives as sheepdog husband and wife.

May 22, 202250:50
S-1/Intro Episode

S-1/Intro Episode

Don't miss our intro episode as we introduce ourselves as well as define what we mean by the word "Sheepdog" and what it has to do with "Marriage!"

May 13, 202246:50
S-1/E-1 "Submarine Days"

S-1/E-1 "Submarine Days"

Making of a Sheepdog series begins with our first episode "Submarine Days." Join us as we talk about Chris's first days in the Navy as a cook. The beginnings of the "Sheepdog" mentality that defined the man that he was, and the husband that he became. 

May 11, 202252:01