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Shooters Gotta Shoot

Shooters Gotta Shoot

By Erica Spera

Comedian Erica Spera brings on a guest each week to talk about dating and relationships. In 2019, Erica publicly came out about having herpes, and how that has affected her dating life. Since then, no topic is off limits. She takes a sports mentality when it comes to dating, and instead of throwing in the towel she breaks down different relationship books, research, tricks and tips with her guests to see what is real and what is B.S.
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#82 Dating and Body Dysmorphia w/ Maddy Smith

Shooters Gotta ShootApr 15, 2021

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#182 Nicole Aimee Schreiber | Men Want to Rescue You
Apr 20, 202452:19
#181 Short Kings & Romantic Comedy w/ Ian Lara !
Aug 18, 202301:04:11
#180 Survivor & Law Abiding Dating w/ Roark!
Jun 16, 202301:06:02
#179 F Your Diet w/ Chloe Hilliard!

#179 F Your Diet w/ Chloe Hilliard!

Comedian Chloe Hilliard joins Erica Spera to talk about her book "F Your Diet", dating at 40, what she's learned from past relationships, her comedy career, how to avoid men looking for a sugar momma, and much more...

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May 18, 202354:46
#178 As Nasty As Possible w/ Natalie Cuomo!

#178 As Nasty As Possible w/ Natalie Cuomo!

Comedian Natalie Cuomo joins Erica Spera to talk about her f**k yes or f**k no mentality, some sex tips, what really brings intimacy to a new relationship, mistakes she's made in the past, and much more...

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Apr 28, 202337:46
#177 The You're Really Great Speech w/ Elle Orlando!
Apr 07, 202343:04
#176 Business of Love w/ Liz Miele!

#176 Business of Love w/ Liz Miele!

Comedian Liz Miele joins Erica Spera to talk all about the business of comedy, what she's learned from her past long term relationships, why having higher self esteem can make commitment harder, & much more!  

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Mar 24, 202356:19
#175 Honesty Hour w/ Erica Spera

#175 Honesty Hour w/ Erica Spera

We're back with another solo episode of Honesty Hour! The fans submit their questions for advice from host Erica Spera, and she gets brutally honest. Submit your questions or dating TikToks of us to discuss on the show @shootersgottashootpod  

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Mar 10, 202342:34
#174 Short but Bold w/ Ali Kolbert

#174 Short but Bold w/ Ali Kolbert

Comedian Ali Kolbert joins Erica Spera to talk all about coming out, being the pursuer, if lesbians feel the same "attraction can grow" pressure that straight women feel, & much more!  

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Feb 24, 202341:46
#173 Loud about Nothing w/ Sebastian Conelli & Robbie Nunes

#173 Loud about Nothing w/ Sebastian Conelli & Robbie Nunes

Sebastian Conelli & Robbie Nunes from the Loud About Nothing podcast join Erica Spera for a fun crossover episode!   

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Feb 17, 202350:08
#172 This Happy w/ Meghan Hanley

#172 This Happy w/ Meghan Hanley

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Jan 28, 202355:17
#171 Joint Custody w/ Rafi Bastos
Jan 19, 202301:02:52
#170 The Herpes "Cure" w/ Ariel Elias
Jan 13, 202301:05:40
#169 Religious Moves w/ Justin Smith
Jan 05, 202346:17
#168 Honesty Hour w/ Erica Spera
Dec 22, 202248:59
#167 Pickle Jar Theory w/ Kevin Ryan
Dec 15, 202248:53
#166 Best Sex You've Ever Had w/ JC Mendoza
Dec 08, 202243:13
#165 Orlando Leyba | Marriage & Positivity

#165 Orlando Leyba | Marriage & Positivity

Comedian Orlando Leyba joins Erica Spera to talk about what he's learned to make his marriage better, the importance of therapy, and much more.

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Dec 01, 202249:04
#164 Taping James Corden - Erica Spera

#164 Taping James Corden - Erica Spera

Erica Spera gives a recap of her LA trip to tape her James Corden standup set and reveals some more exciting news.  

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Nov 21, 202250:42
#163 Wedding Date Fail w/ Graham Kay
Nov 10, 202251:17
#162 Never Doubt a Man's Taste w/ Jourdain Fisher

#162 Never Doubt a Man's Taste w/ Jourdain Fisher

Comedian Jourdain Fisher comes back on the podcast to join Erica Spera in debating some dating advice from TikTok.

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Nov 03, 202244:34
#161 The Box Theory w/ Mark Normand
Oct 27, 202201:05:22
#160 Lesbian Moves & Rules w/ Ashley Gavin
Oct 20, 202252:24
#159 Religious Trauma w/ Stephanie Andrew
Oct 13, 202248:11
#158 16 Sex Tips For Women w/ Phil Duckett
Oct 06, 202248:31
#157 Sober & Bipolar w/ Andrea Allan
Sep 29, 202201:02:10
#156 How to be a Hoe w/ Christiana Jackson!

#156 How to be a Hoe w/ Christiana Jackson!

Comedian Christian Jackson joins Erica Spera to teach her "How to Hoe". They talk about if kegels really work, how to know if you can "hoe", why having faith makes you a better hoe, and how being married changed Christiana's perspective on dating.

Watch full episodes and clips on our YouTube Channel Here: https://www.youtube.com/c/ShootersGottaShootPodcast

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Sep 22, 202258:27
#155 My Girlfriend has Herpes w/ Raanan Hershberg

#155 My Girlfriend has Herpes w/ Raanan Hershberg

Comedian Raanan Hershberg joins Erica Spera to talk about dating someone with herpes for the first time, what made him feel comfortable with it, why he thinks the stigma should be eliminated, and much more. The end of the episode features an exclusive Patreon preview.

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Checkout Rannan's new stand up special free on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-L5tTb7TCW8 

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Sep 15, 202250:21
#154 The Games We Played w/ Finding Mr. Height (Ali Jackson)
Sep 08, 202252:17
#153 What "Romance" Means to Men w/ Chris Cheney and Rob Haze

#153 What "Romance" Means to Men w/ Chris Cheney and Rob Haze

Comedians Chris Cheney and Rob Haze join Erica Spera to talk about "Fifteen Ways to Keep The Romance Alive in Relationships; According to Men" chapter of the book "Why Men Love Bitches". The end of the episode features an exclusive Patreon Preview.

Join the Patreon to support the show and for extra exclusive episodes: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot

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Sep 01, 202201:12:02
#152 Vaginismus & PCOS w/ Riley Lassin!
Aug 25, 202252:02
#151 Couples Therapy w/ Dan Perlman
Aug 18, 202253:27
#150 Married at 19 w/ Dustin Nickerson

#150 Married at 19 w/ Dustin Nickerson

Comedian Dustin Nickerson joins Erica Spera this week to talk all about getting married to his high school sweetheart, keeping his kids off social media, what made him get a vasectomy, why you shouldn't visit your family during the holidays, the real marriage fights, his book about marriage, and much more. The end of the episode features an exclusive Patreon Preview.

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Aug 12, 202201:02:26
#149 How to slide into the DMs w/ Mike Coscarelli
Aug 05, 202201:04:22
#148 Why Men are Terrified of Weddings w/ Jon Laster
Jul 28, 202201:05:51
#146 Being the Breadwinner w/ Dee Guerreros

#146 Being the Breadwinner w/ Dee Guerreros

Dee Guerreros joins Erica Spera to talk about the pressures of being the breadwinner when her husband lost his job, what the keys are to a happy marriage, why couples tend to stop courting each other, and some photography and self care tips. 

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Jul 14, 202201:03:06
#145 Polyamorous Family w/ Rachel Wright
Jul 07, 202201:00:22
#144 Do Men Ever Like their Girlfriend's Friends? w/ Jeff Wright
Jun 30, 202201:01:31
#143 Patreon Exclusive! with Jourdain Fisher

#143 Patreon Exclusive! with Jourdain Fisher

Comedian Jourdain Fisher joins Erica Spera this week for an exclusive Patreon Preview. The second half of this episode is available on Patreon only, join here for extra episodes, discounts, giveaways and NSFW content. 

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Jun 16, 202256:06
#142 Why Do People Cheat? w/ Emma Willmann
Jun 08, 202251:34
#141 Do Men Compare You To Their Ex? w/ Andrew Licout
Jun 02, 202201:03:27
#140 Should you tell someone they're being cheated on? w/ Anthony DeVito
May 26, 202245:47
#139 What Your Dad Never Told You About Men w/ Yannis Pappas
May 19, 202259:03
#137 The IVF Process and Fertility Struggles w/ Casey Balsham
May 05, 202256:58
#136 Being a Transgender Woman w/ Jaye McBride
Apr 28, 202254:23
#135 Why Nagging Won't Get You Anywhere w/ Jared Freid
Apr 21, 202257:09
#134 Can you really be Friends with an Ex? w/ Lev Fer
Apr 14, 202252:45
#133 Sex Tips for Straight Women from a Gay Man w/ Oscar Aydin
Apr 07, 202245:32
#132 The Science of Rewiring Your Heart 💜 Breakup Bootcamp w/ Amy Chan
Mar 31, 202257:54
#131 Surprise Pregnancy 😲 w/ Jon Fisch
Mar 24, 202252:47