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Shoulda! Coulda! Woulda!

Shoulda! Coulda! Woulda!

By Dwight Allen ONeal
Have you ever wondered "What SHOULD have?" "What COULD have?" or "What WOULD have happened?" if you knew certain things before attempting or actually doing something? Well you can learn from me and my guests as we walk down memory lane on some of our biggest accomplishments and major life mistakes. Send your own "SCW Moment" or a comment to: YouShouldaCouldaWoulda@gmail.com Support Me: Become a Patron!
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Summer Vacay with Covid-19
In the SEASON FINALE of Shoulda! Coulda! Woulda! I talk about going on vacay during Covid:19!! I also offer suggestions on ways to get some R&R during the pandemic. Order my book "Shoulda! Coulda! Woulda on Amazon.com and Visit my website www.OnealAppeal.com for more info.
37:21
June 24, 2020
Choose Between the Two
In this EPISODE of Shoulda! Coulda! Woulda! I talk about choosing between two dates. We have all been seeing two men (or women) and you have to make a choice. How do you decide? Find out in this episode.
37:40
June 18, 2020
Me As A Child
In this EPISODE of Shoulda! Coulda! Woulda! I talk about my childhood and coming to terms with being gay. I discuss playing college vs house, my first love, and my imaginary friend Sheila. Warning I do get a bit emotional.
37:00
June 10, 2020
Black Lives Matter
In this short EPISODE of Shoulda! Coulda! Woulda! I get real about Black Lives Matter! Why does everyone care now? What more could I have done? What about black queer lives? Do companies really care? Let's get real with each other... WE ALL NEED TO STAND!
10:59
June 3, 2020
Kept My Keys
In this EPISODE of Shoulda! Coulda! Woulda! I talk about letting a partner/friend move in vs keeping your keys. I also share some helpful tips if you do decide to take that leap of sharing an address. Preorder my book "Shoulda! Coulda! Woulda on Amazon.com and Visit my website www.OnealAppeal.com for more info.
44:18
May 27, 2020
Cut Off Fake Friends
In this EPISODE of Shoulda! Coulda! Woulda! I talk about cutting off FAKE, TOXIC friends or let's just say people because they aren't your friends!! I also share a tip on how to breakup with them. Preorder my book "Shoulda! Coulda! Woulda on Amazon.com and Visit my website www.OnealAppeal.com for more info.
42:06
May 20, 2020
Barbershop vs Locker Room
In this EPISODE of Shoulda! Coulda! Woulda! I talk about the barbershop experience: relationship with barber, where to get the best cut, and what it's like as a gay man of color going into this locker room--- I mean Barber Shop. Visit my website www.OnealAppeal.com for more info. And to purchase my new book: Shoulda! Coulda! Woulda!
37:06
May 13, 2020
Wrote a Book
In this EPISODE of Shoulda! Coulda! Woulda! I talk about my BRAND NEW BOOK... "Shoulda! Coulda! Woulda!- Inspirational Mistakes that Made Me... ME! " (sound familiar???).  I am over the moon as I walk you through the experience.  I also share a chapter or maybe TWO... and I spill the beans on a hidden secret.  You can pre-order the book on Amazon:   https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0877BLVL5 and other details at www.ONealAppeal.com 
29:05
May 6, 2020
Been a Celebrity
In this EPISODE of Shoulda! Coulda! Woulda! I talk about my celebrity encounters- if they were nice, how I interacted with them, or embarrassed myself. Also I let you know which famous person calls me his nephew... I will give you a hint... HE IS A NBA BASKETBALL STAR!! Remember to visit my online shop to support- A Million Masks: Coronavirus Support Fund. Visit my website www.OnealAppeal.com for more info.
38:20
April 29, 2020
Umm... Netflix and Chillax
In this EPISODE of Shoulda! Coulda! Woulda! I talk about binge-watching some new favorite Ummm... Netflix shows. I also give my opinion on some pretty crappy ones too. Can you also help me break my bad habit of saying "ummm?" Remember to visit my online shop to support- A Million Masks: Coronavirus Support Fund. Visit my website www.OnealAppeal.com for more info.
35:35
April 22, 2020
Dated Men!
In this EPISODE of Shoulda! Coulda! Woulda! I talk about dating or being in a relationship with a man! Wonder why men do what they do in the relationship? Are all men dogs? Who is more emotional women or men? What's the difference in men/women dating vs men/men dating? This episode will definitely ruffle some feathers! I also catch you up in my career updates! Remember to visit my online shop to support- A Million Masks: Coronavirus Support Fund. Visit my website www.OnealAppeal.com for more info.
39:49
April 15, 2020
Been on Reality TV
In this EPISODE of Shoulda! Coulda! Woulda! I finally have a guest host! I dish with my little sister Awaka and we discuss our experience on reality tv, favorite reality shows, and reality cast members. Remember to visit my online shop to support- A Million Masks: Coronavirus Support Fund. Visit my website www.OnealAppeal.com for more info.
33:18
April 8, 2020
Yes! My a** Drunk (SMH)
In this EPISODE of Shoulda! Coulda! Woulda! I celebrate coming off of my drinking sabbatical! I talk about my favorite drinks, tips on how to drink healthier, and share my hangover secrets. I also announce my new online shop, debut my new product that will support- A Million Masks: Coronavirus Support Fund. Visit my websites www.OnealAppeal.com to support!
36:56
April 1, 2020
Coronavirus is REAL!
In this EPISODE of Shoulda! Coulda! Woulda! we talk about "Coronavirus is REAL". I REALLY didn't want to discuss this pandemic, however it is the reality of the world. So because I love my listeners I want to empower you... The reality of it is... most likely you have to be home... And there are things you can do to make your situation better... let's explore those opportunities together. Also find out about my new reality show that I'm a cast member on... What better time to watch a new series that delivers drama.
37:08
March 25, 2020
Vacation with Friends!
In this EPISODE of Shoulda! Coulda! Woulda!  we explore taking "Vacations with Friends". Chiillleee, talk about a risk! I love a great vacation and in the spirit of Spring Break what better time to discuss taking a little turn up trip with your crew?! Learn some amazing tips planning, questions you should ask prior to planning, and some other fun stuff to plan the best trip! We all love to travel but vacation planning can make or break up a friendship....
46:05
March 25, 2020
Eat My Groceries
In this EPISODE of Shoulda! Coulda! Woulda!  we explore grocery shopping (or lack of grocery shopping).  Grocery shopping is something my fridge never experiences, however I am trying to do better at the task.  Learn some amazing tips, proper grocery store etiquette, and some other fun stuff to keep your fridge stocked. 
24:20
March 11, 2020
Yes! I left My JOB!
In THE THIRD EPISODE of Shoulda! Coulda! Woulda!  I let the cat out of the bag!  I quit my last job of only 6 months.  I chat about reasons people leave jobs, when do you know it's time, and what to do??? You don't want to miss this!!!  NOTE: This episode in no way bashes any establishment I have worked, however speaks to when it's time to move on.
28:08
March 4, 2020
I LOVE NYC?
In THE SECOND FIRST EPISODE of Shoulda! Coulda! Woulda!  we explore my life in New York City... But most just say NYC! I walk down memory lane as I move to a new city and started a brand new life.  So many SWC moments... but I share my favorite 9 lessons.  Listen, learn, and share yours too! 
28:33
February 26, 2020
My Housekeeper found my "insert eggplant emoji"
In THE FIRST EPISODE of Shoulda! Coulda! Woulda!  we explore having a housekeeper and what to do when she finds your (insert eggplant emoji)... DILDO!!!  Also some great tips for hiring, managing, and maintaining an excellent housekeeper...  Please don't judge me AND I hope my housekeepers comes back--- LOL
21:35
February 19, 2020
SCW Trailer: Ulcer Colitis??
In this pilot episode I introduce you to Shoulda! Coulda! Woulda!  which are basically things I wish I had known before doing "X, Y, or Z!"   Well here is a sneak peek of my pilot episode, where I share things I wish I know about having a healthy tush--- 
06:02
February 12, 2020