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Shut the Should Up with Candace Payne + Jenny Randle

Shut the Should Up with Candace Payne + Jenny Randle

By Candace Payne + Jenny Randle

Ever feel like you gotta get your should together?​ ​Is your should about to hit the fan?​ ​Have you been sitting in your shoulds for most of your life wondering if you could be more, see more, do more?

​Podcast hosts, authors and speakers Candace Payne​ + ​Jenny Randle want to stomp out your flaming bag of should.

With a whole lot of faith​ ​together, ​we'll sort through the pain,​ ​purpose​ ​and promise​ ​to find freedom​ ​in the things we​ all​ tell ourselves we should
and should not do.​ Because there’s so much more in you.

​Listen on in and​ Shut the Should Up!
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Shut the Should Up with Candace Payne + Jenny RandleNov 04, 2019

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S5E40 It's So Hard To Say It, But...

S5E40 It's So Hard To Say It, But...

Hey everyone! Candace and Jenny here, and we can hardly believe that we are already wrapping up Season 5. It's been a wild ride, but we couldn't be more grateful for all of our amazing listeners who have been with us every step of the way. As we take a look back at some of our favorite moments from seasons past, we can't help but feel a little nostalgic. From hilarious guest interviews to heartfelt conversations about motherhood and ministry, we've had so many amazing memories over the years. But as we wrap up this final episode of Season 5, we're also looking ahead to the future and what's to come for both of us in our personal and professional lives. It's an exciting time, but also a little bittersweet as we say goodbye to this season. So get ready for all the laughs, all the nostalgia, and all the feels as we close out Season 5. And to all of our listeners out there, we want to remind you to always lean in and listen, even when it's hard. We're forever rooting for you to shut your shoulds up and embrace all of the amazing opportunities that life has to offer. Thanks for tuning in!

Jul 03, 202324:54
S5E39 Clear the Mom Fog with Hannah Keeley

S5E39 Clear the Mom Fog with Hannah Keeley

Continuing a Summer Heat Series with friends of the show, Candace and Jenny welcome to the show, Hannah Keeley.

Hannah Keeley is America's #1 Mom Coach, an Ordained Christian Minister, a Master Board-Certified Life Coach, and a mom of seven whose work is founded in God’s Word and combines faith and psychology to help moms create radical transformation in their lives!


Hannah’s theme verse behind her coaching techniques is Romans 12:2:

"Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is - his good, pleasing, and perfect will."

Listen in, join the conversation, and discover how to connect with Hannah on her Instagram: @hannahkeeley.


Jun 26, 202337:04
S5E38 Raised to Stay With Natalie Runion

S5E38 Raised to Stay With Natalie Runion

Should I stay or should I go?

Many people with faith backgrounds are asking themselves these questions the older they get, and the more the world around them changes and challenges their faith. Today, a friend of the show and outstanding human, Natalie Runion offers a much-needed conversation.


Pastor’s kid turned pastor, Natalie, her husband Tony and their two daughters live in Colorado Springs, Colorado where she served as a pastor of women and a worship pastor.  In her twenty years of ministry as a worship leader, songwriter, and pastor, Natalie has served various organizations and ministries across the country.


 In 2019 after watching many of her peers walk away from the church and their faith, Natalie began Raised to Stay, a ministry for those who have wandered, wondered, and wrestled with the Church and the challenges of full-time ministry. Known for her black boxes of hard truth on social media for the Church and church leaders, her heart is to see a generation finish their race as they partner with a good Father who is faithful to complete the work He began in each of us.


Natalie is a sought-after speaker and writer in the local and global Church, writing for She Reads Truth and other Christian publications.  Her debut book, Raised to Stay, published with David C Cook will be available in Summer 2023! You can learn more about Raised to Stay on Instagram at @raisedtostay and preorder her book on Amazon and other major retailers.


Jun 19, 202333:48
S5E37 Her Calling with Dr. Jamie Morgan

S5E37 Her Calling with Dr. Jamie Morgan

Candace and Jenny invite friends of the show for this special series to learn and lean into some incredible conversations with powerful women. In today's episode, Dr. Jamie Morgan is no exception.

In her decades in ministry, Dr. Jamie Morgan has witnessed a troubling trend - countless numbers of Christian women almost answer their callings, almost use their gifts and talents to build the kingdom, and almost fulfill their destinies.

author of the book, Her Calling: A Woman's Guide to Fulfilling Her God-Given Destiny?


Dr. Morgan is available for interviews answering questions such as:

  • What steps should women take to discover God’s calling for them?
  • Don't let your past limit you
  • Passion sign posts
  • Talents and giftings
  • Dust off dreams
  1. What are the limiting mindsets hindering women from walking in their calling?

  2. What does life look like when we're walking out our destiny?

  3. Why is this a message that women need to hear today?

Connect with Dr. Jamie at https://trailblazermentoring.com.


As you listen to this episode, challenge the shoulds that rise in your own thoughts that limit and destroy the dreams you are called to live out.


Jun 12, 202333:17
S5E36 Brave Enough to Believe with Angela Donadio

S5E36 Brave Enough to Believe with Angela Donadio

“Disappointment bruises the bravest of souls. The nagging ache of uncertainty causes us to grow weary and afraid to hope. Doubt entices us to wonder if God is good when life is not. Yet, our hard questions can become opportunities for Jesus to show us who He is.”


On this powerful episode of Shut the Should Up, Candace and Jenny invite Angela Donadio for an incredible discussion on being brave in every moment that matters.

  

In Angela's book, Brave Enough To Believe, she speaks of her two near-death experiences and what God did through them.

  • “What do I need to learn from this?”How can I use this for your glory?”

  • Your purpose is attached to the presence of God

  • Don’t ask why questions

  • Thomas - doubt and disappointment

About the Authors:

Angela Donadio is an author, speaker, and host of the Make Life Matter Podcast.

A seasoned Bible teacher and ordained minister, she empowers women in Africa

and serves alongside her husband, Dale, to lead a multiethnic church. She is a

survivor of two near-death health crises, a grateful mom, and an adventure junkie.

Angeladonadio.com

Hubert Morris, an ordained minister for more than 50 years, has served as a

pastor, presbyter, and university vice-president. He has taken the gospel to Africa,

China, Haiti, and Sri Lanka, and is currently the president of Assist Ministries, Inc.

Married to Glenda for 59 years, they are blessed with three daughters and ten

grandchildren.

About the Book:

Discover Jesus’ invitation to come closer when doubt drives us away.

Disappointment bruises the bravest of souls. The nagging ache of uncertainty

causes us to grow weary and afraid to hope. Doubt entices us to wonder if God is

good when life is not. Yet, our hard questions can become opportunities for Jesus

to show us who He is.

Perhaps you know Thomas for his bouts with doubt. But Jesus knew Thomas for

the courage to question and the bravery to believe. When a crisis of faith revealed

his deepest doubts, Jesus met Thomas’s deepest longings.

The authors bring two unique perspectives to flip the script on the story of

Thomas. Whether you are a seeker, skeptic, or seasoned leader, you will learn

to live untangled from uncertainty, leverage adversity, and lead with confidence

through challenging circumstances.

Thomas exchanged his uncertainty for a life of tenacious faith. When we encounter

Jesus, we can too.

Get the book at : Angeladonadio.com


Jun 05, 202335:52
S5E35 When the Going Gets HOT

S5E35 When the Going Gets HOT

In this episode of Shut the Should Up, find and question what really matters most.

Candace and Jenny offer some insight on what to experience and live when moments get difficult.

  1. Ask yourself what you are talking about most (past or future? Talk about present - reflective / remembering, goals and go… JUST BE) - See PEOPLE.

  2. There is vanity in humanity. Rest in the intentionality of knowing God.

  3. Do you feel shame or freedom at the moment you are living? You are free to be.

  4. Enjoy the gifts of God.


For more info on booking Candace Payne or Jenny Randle for a speaking or live event, visit www.shuttheshouldup.com.

May 29, 202336:44
S5E34 When Things Matter

S5E34 When Things Matter

In this episode of Shut the Should Up, find and question what really matters most.

Candace and Jenny ask all the important questions to help isolate the important priorities of the heart.


For more info on booking Candace Payne or Jenny Randle for a speaking or live event, visit www.shuttheshouldup.com.

May 23, 202336:35
S5E33 The Season When Things Come Alive

S5E33 The Season When Things Come Alive

In this episode of a five-part miniseries on embracing every season, Candace Payne + Jenny Randle discuss all things Spring.  Whether it's a song request from a third-grade school performance or a short story of a child who misses the one day of sun in Spring, the conversation leads to all things new.

How do you hold and handle a new season?  How do you make the most of it when things spring to life?

Candace + Jenny challenge you to grow and adjust to your season, even when it may feel as though you're floundering in the "new".


May 15, 202335:02
S5E32 The Season When Things Die

S5E32 The Season When Things Die

📣 Everybody chant a little louder: 📣

"UM, UM...sounds so dumb; instead of saying UM, just pause!"

In this episode, Candace Payne + Jenny Randle take on their filler phrases while discussing the hard winter seasons of life.

How do you not just endure but embrace a winter season of life when things naturally must die?

Join the conversation and continue discovering the wisdom from the book of Ecclesiastes.  

May 08, 202332:26
S5E31 Don't Waste Another Season
May 01, 202333:22
S5E30 Revival Stories at Lee University with Rob Fultz

S5E30 Revival Stories at Lee University with Rob Fultz

In the final episode of a five-part miniseries on revival, Rob Fultz joins Candace Payne + Jenny Randle for a unique perspective and revival story at Lee University.  

Rob brings 20+ years of local church and campus ministry experience to every message and event. He is a passionate and purposeful communicator who seeks to connect audiences' hearts and minds through the stories and God encounters that have shaped his life and ministry. 

Specifically, his doctoral research focuses on the redemptive development of Gen Z and the revival happening in their generation on college campuses across America. 

Rob has served in pastoral roles with churches that range from 25,000 to 100 in attendance, which provides a unique capability to help other churches and leaders grow from where they are. 

In this discussion, Rob gives an inside perspective on revival as a campus pastor and his experience with Gen Z, leadership, church health, young adult ministry, faith development, and discipleship.

Be encouraged by this revival story to hope and pray for revival.


Apr 24, 202331:55
S5E29 Revival Stories Through Testimony

S5E29 Revival Stories Through Testimony

In this revival story, Candace Payne + Jenny Randle consider how there is usually a testimony that comes in and through a move of God.  Encouraging us to discover our own testimony, this episode walks through some questions to consider that personally identify areas of a life that may be in desperate need of revival. 

In this raw and vulnerable conversation, Candace shares her personal story of revival.

"When you testify of something that's been brought back to life, you're reminded that it's living." 

- Candace Payne


Apr 17, 202335:33
S5E28 Revival Stories Through Beholding

S5E28 Revival Stories Through Beholding

In this revival story, Candace Payne + Jenny Randle consider how the momentum and movement of a revival begins in the abandon of production and performance to provoke the presence of God.

Apr 10, 202327:60
S5E27 Revival Stories Through Reverence

S5E27 Revival Stories Through Reverence

As Candace + Jenny continue the conversation on revival, the topic of reverence rises to the top.  

What is sacred?

How do we ditch irreverence and know the difference between cynicism and discernment when we see a move of God?

In this revival story, dry out the wet blankets and activate hope for the restoration, renewal, and resurrection of dreams, moments, and opportunities to see God move in powerful ways.

  

Apr 03, 202332:08
S5E26 Revival Stories at Asbury University

S5E26 Revival Stories at Asbury University

Candace Payne and Jenny Randle begin a discussion on a five-part miniseries about revival in this episode.

What is revival, exactly?  What does it look like?  What should we do when we see and encounter it?

You're gonna want to listen in to this unique series as we watch, observe, and champion true revival for us all.


Mar 27, 202340:56
S5E25 Amnesia, Control and the Theology of Freedom
Mar 20, 202333:35
S5E24: If God is So Good, Why is There So Much Suffering?

S5E24: If God is So Good, Why is There So Much Suffering?

In this episode of Shut the Should Up, academic theologian and co-author of Flash Theology, Brayden Brookshier, walks us through his own story of grief and loss. We know it may be hard to trust God's story when you're in a hard session yourself. Listen in to this masterclass with Brayden as he unravels three key theological points surrounding suffering. The question we’re working through is - "If God is so good, why is there so much suffering?".

Dive deeper in this discussion, with Flash Theology  https://amzn.to/3XqbUE3 .

Mar 13, 202330:52
S5E23: Dishes, Dwelling, and Over-Romanticizing Eden
Mar 06, 202329:43
S5E22: Who's The Main Character of Your Story?
Feb 27, 202327:18
S5E21: Theology, Michael Scott, and Paper

S5E21: Theology, Michael Scott, and Paper

Candace asks Jenny and her co-author about their new book Flash Theology… and of course, fun ensues. Join us as we kick off a new miniseries on the subject of theology, the study of God. Learn what it means and why it matters.
You're gonna want to add this to your cart before this episode even ends:
amzn.to/3XqbUE3
Joining Candace and Jenny today and our new friend, Brayden Brookshier!
Brayden Brookshier holds a MA in New Testament Research (Johnson University) and a BA in Biblical Studies (Horizon University), emphasizing Greek biblical exegesis. His passion is to help people feel the wonder and adventure of knowing God by taking people into an exploration of Scripture, like a time-traveling tour guide. He is the author of A Resurrected Cosmos and the March 2023 release, Flash Theology. Brayden is a professor at Horizon University, teaching biblical Greek and various courses on the New Testament. He is a minister on staff with Newbreak Church (San Diego, CA), where he serves on the teaching team. Brayden is a proud husband to Ariana and father to his son, Kairo. Listen to his podcast, Adventures in Theology.
About Flash Theology
This is an invitation to the curious, those who want to know God and interact with their faith in a new way.
Grow in awe of God as you discover his beauty and depth through 31 bite-sized truths of theology. Flash Theology offers you stability in your faith so you can endure whatever life (or wrong thinking) throws at you.
Jenny Randle and Brayden Brookshier believe Christians miss out if they leave theology to pastors and scholars. In this highly accessible book, Jenny and Brayden help you:

Understand theology through compelling visual aids.
See the connection between God’s character and your identity.
Internalize truths about God’s heart for you.
Find encouragement in life’s purpose through a greater understanding of who God is.

God invites every Christian to know and enjoy him forever. Through illustrations, Scripture, and approachable teaching, Flash Theology shares 31 bite-sized truths of Christianity in a way that inspires both gratitude and awe.
Feb 20, 202330:23
S5E20 Restoring Vision
Feb 13, 202321:52
S5E19 [REST]oration
Feb 06, 202330:11
S5E18 5 Invitations to Restoration Through Prayer with Suzie Eller

S5E18 5 Invitations to Restoration Through Prayer with Suzie Eller

In this episode, we hear from Suzie Eller about how to have restoration through prayer. Suzanne (Suzie) Eller is the author of 12 books. Her most recent is Prayer Starters: Talking with God about Hard Times.  Suzie served as a writer and speaker with Proverbs 31 Ministries for 14 years. She’s a co-host, along with Holley Gerth and Jennifer Watson, of More Than Small Talk and host of Prayer Starters, a daily prayer podcast. She’s been featured on Focus on the Family, Aspiring Women, Harvest Show, 100 Huntley Street, KLOVE, DayStar, and others. Suzie is a wife to a guy she still likes a lot, mom to 3 grown children and their spouses, "Gaga" to six littles, and a 2-time breast cancer survivor. If you can describe her in one word, it's this: grateful.


5 KEY ELEMENTS TO RESTORATIVE PRAYER

  1. Take the pressure off of prayer (A point of entry - honesty, vulnerability, authenticity)
  2. You do you (unique expression - walk, painting, workout)
  3. Just show up ( we have uncertainty tangled around our hearts)
  4. Tell God all the things (“I want you to know God I’m mad at you.” “God, I feel lost.” “I don’t know what to do”) when we release those things that are weighty they no longer have room in our heart, God takes resistance. All the things don’t have room in our hearts…
  5. Slow it down (go into the word of God for a two-way conversation, pause when you feel the pull).

You can connect with Suzie by checking out the Prayer Starters podcast. It's a daily 2-3 minute podcast with the KLRC podcast network.

https://pod.link/1624531825


Until next week embrace the freedom to kick your should out the door.

Jan 30, 202333:48
S5E17 Restoration Through Intentionality
Jan 23, 202331:20
S5E16 You're a Walkin'/Talkin' Fixer Upper
Jan 16, 202329:27
S5E15 Leveraging Your Uniqueness with Raj Nair
Jan 09, 202329:27
S5E14 Passion Prep Talk
Jan 02, 202333:36
S5E13 Let's Talk, For Real
Dec 26, 202233:20
S5E12 5 Reminders for Fearless Confidence with Kellie Haddock
Dec 19, 202232:21
S5E11 Questions You Should Ask Yourself to Discover Your Passions
Dec 12, 202230:16
S5E10 A Leader Reads the Room
Dec 05, 202227:43
S5E09 Leading Offline Vs. Online
Nov 28, 202228:23
S5E08 Great Leaders Have Grateful Hearts
Nov 21, 202230:59
S5E07 5 Ways You Can Be Smarter Today
Nov 14, 202230:18
S5E06 Leaders and Influencers. Do We Need Them?
Nov 07, 202225:39
S5E05 Spooky Boredom and The Boundaries that Follow
Oct 31, 202227:20
S5E04 10 Tips + Tricks to UP Your Productivity
Oct 24, 202229:54
S5E03 Hooray! A Magic Millionaire Just Bought Your Day
Oct 17, 202229:20
S5E02 Uh, This May Take A While
Oct 10, 202227:56
S5E01 How Do You Mark A Moment?
Oct 03, 202228:32
S4E09 I Should Start Over

S4E09 I Should Start Over

In this episode of Shut the Should Up with Candace Panye and Jenny Randle, we are talking about starting over and the future of our show.  Join us and share this episode with your people!


Interested in learning more about Candace Payne, her books and curriculum or have her SPEAK at your church or event? Visit https://candacepayne.me/

Interested in learning more about Jenny Randle, her books, classes, or have her SPEAK at your church or event? Visit https://jennyrandle.com

Until next time shut the should up everybody!

Sep 26, 202227:29
S4E08 I Should Encourage
May 23, 202259:13
S4E07 I Should Talk about Spiritual Abuse with Special Guest Lisa Whittle
May 16, 202258:55
S4E06 I Should Feel All the Things
May 09, 202256:09
S4E05 I Should Really Lighten Up with Jaron Myers

S4E05 I Should Really Lighten Up with Jaron Myers

In this episode of Shut the Should Up with Candace Panye and Jenny Randle, we brought in comedian Jaron Myers to help us all lighten up.

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Check out Jaron on the web at https://www.jaronmyers.com/

Until next time we love you lots and shut the should up.

May 02, 202257:60
S4E04 I Should Be With People
Apr 25, 202254:11
S4E03 I Should Identify the Pain

S4E03 I Should Identify the Pain

In this episode of Shut the Should Up with Candace Panye and Jenny Randle, we’re going unscripted and taking a deep dive into the trauma triggers we may face. This episode may include a discussion around difficult conversations dealing with emotional and mental abuse. We also encourage you to care for your safety and well-being through counseling and support. Another disclaimer, WE ARE NOT PROFESSIONAL COUNSELORS, we’re just two friends discussing a piece of our current journeys and our opinions may shift and change as we continue to grow through healing.

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Until next time we love you lots and shut the should up.


Apr 18, 202201:19:18
S4E02 I Should Block and Bless
Apr 11, 202254:18
S4E01 I Should Pause

S4E01 I Should Pause

In this episode of Shut the Should Up with Candace Payne and Jenny Randle, we’re giving you some insight on why our show went silent for a year and discussing the beauty of a pause. Don’t forget to subscribe so you don't miss an episode of Shut the Should Up.

Leave a review on your favorite podcast platform.

Join us to watch the podcast video recording Monday nights at 7 PM PST/ 10 PM EST at our Facebook account here: https://www.facebook.com/ShutTheShouldUp

Hey, check out our season 4 exclusive merch! https://shut-the-should-up-merch-2.creator-spring.com/

Until next time, shut the should up everybody.

Apr 04, 202253:29
S3E15 Five Fun Moments

S3E15 Five Fun Moments

Join Candace Payne + Jenny Randle at the season 3 afterparty. They hear from listeners, highlight past guests, and celebrate the should out of the season. Visit www.shuttheshouldup.com for merch, past episodes, and to stay up to date. Until next season, Shut the Should Up everybody!

Mar 08, 202153:52