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Sip & Spill

By Sip & Spill

Your bi-weekly dose of dating and relationship insights served with a side of humor. Join us as we sip on drinks while spilling the tea on dating and relationship stories with our special guests, and navigate your dilemmas on Two-Cent Tuesdays. Get advice and share your own stories at sipandspills.com!

We upload new episodes every other Thursday and Tuesday!

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Sip & SpillJun 11, 2018

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Ending the Toxic Relationship Cycle

Ending the Toxic Relationship Cycle

Join Vee and special guest Marchena as they spill the tea on dating and relationships. Learn how their friendship evolved from Clubhouse to real life and gain insights on personal growth and healthy communication in relationships. Listen as Vee and Marchena discuss their personal journeys in dating and relationships, reflecting on past toxic experiences and the importance of self-awareness. Gain valuable insights on conflict resolution and maintaining a healthy, loving relationship If you need advice on your love life, submit your letters to at this link below: www.sipandspills.com Follow Sip & Spill: www.instagram.com/sipandspills www.tiktok.com/@sipandspills www.facebook.com/sipandspills www. twitter.com/sipandspills Follow Veniece Veniece's IG: www.instagram.com/iam.veniece Veniece's TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@iam.veniece


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Nov 02, 202329:40
New Wig, No Future #TwoCentTuesday

New Wig, No Future #TwoCentTuesday

It's #TwoCentTuesday and we're back with our special guest, LaGayle, to get into these messy letters this week from Six Brown Chicks and Reddit Advice! If you need advice on your love life, submit your letters to at this link below: www.sipandspills.com Follow Sip & Spill: www.instagram.com/sipandspills www.tiktok.com/@sipandspills www.facebook.com/sipandspills www. twitter.com/sipandspills Follow Veniece Veniece's IG: www.instagram.com/iam.veniece Veniece's TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@iam.veniece

Oct 24, 202320:41
Be Authentic To You, Unapologetically

Be Authentic To You, Unapologetically

Welcome back to Sip and Spill, the podcast where real conversations happen over a good drink. In this episode, Vee and her remarkable guest, LaGayle, revisit the age-old debate of social media's highlight reels versus the hidden realities. Listen in as they share personal anecdotes, reflecting on how the pressure to maintain an ideal online image can lead to insecurities and unrealistic expectations. Together, they discuss the nuances of social media and relationships, offering valuable insights on finding strength to leave toxic situations. Join us on this journey of self-discovery and learn the importance of staying true to your authentic self. Don't forget to follow and share this episode with friends and family who could use a dose of reality and laughter in their lives.


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Oct 19, 202322:18
Mother of 4 Kids Wants to Start Dating Ft. Forget Them Kids Podcast | #TwoCentTuesday
Oct 10, 202326:12
Pregnant? I ain't een know it Feat. Forget Them Kids Podcast

Pregnant? I ain't een know it Feat. Forget Them Kids Podcast

She aint even know she was pregnant! Enjoy this episode as Alexis from the Forget Them Kids Podcast, talks through her journey as a young parent. If you need advice on your love life, submit your letters to at this link below: www.sipandspills.com Check out the Forget Them Kids Podcast:IG: https://www.instagram.com/forgetthemkidspodcast/ Follow Sip & Spill: www.instagram.com/sipandspills www.tiktok.com/@sipandspills www.facebook.com/sipandspills www. twitter.com/sipandspills Follow Veniece Veniece's IG: www.instagram.com/iam.veniece Veniece's TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@iam.veniece
Oct 05, 202349:04
He Got His Side Chick Pregnant #TwoCentTuesday

He Got His Side Chick Pregnant #TwoCentTuesday

It's Two-Cent Tuesday! If you need advice on your love life, submit your letters to at this link below: www.sipandspills.com Follow Sip & Spill: www.instagram.com/sipandspills www.tiktok.com/@sipandspills www.facebook.com/sipandspills www. twitter.com/sipandspills Follow Veniece Veniece's IG: www.instagram.com/iam.veniece Veniece's TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@iam.veniece
Sep 26, 202309:60
Hoes Have More Fun?!

Hoes Have More Fun?!

In this lively podcast episode, a single woman and a married man, best friends at heart, take you on a rollercoaster of laughter. From pet peeves to memorable dating stories, their candid conversations paint a vivid picture of friendship, love, and life's quirks. Join in on the fun and subscribe today for an unforgettable ride!


If you need advice on your love life, submit your letters to at this link below: www.sipandspills.com Follow Sip & Spill: www.instagram.com/sipandspills www.tiktok.com/@sipandspills www.facebook.com/sipandspills www. twitter.com/sipandspills Follow Veniece Veniece's IG: www.instagram.com/iam.veniece Veniece's TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@iam.veniece

Sep 21, 202301:02:39
We're Back...

We're Back...

Sip, spill, and laugh your way through the ups and downs of dating and relationships in Season 7 of Sip & Spill! Get ready for hilarious stories, valuable life lessons, and some 'Am I Trippin?' moments. Join us on September 21st for the most relatable and entertaining ride of your romantic life! If you need advice on your love life, submit your letters to at this link below: www.sipandspills.com Follow Sip & Spill: www.instagram.com/sipandspills www.tiktok.com/@sipandspills www.facebook.com/sipandspills www. twitter.com/sipandspills Follow Veniece Veniece's IG: www.instagram.com/iam.veniece Veniece's TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@iam.veniece


Sep 12, 202301:52
How to Know When Its Time to End a Friendship

How to Know When Its Time to End a Friendship

Today's episode is all about ending friendships, but that are not toxic. So stay tuned because I'll be breaking down some realizations that I've had, as well as sharing some of the reasons you guys sent to me about why you can, you should end the friendship.   I was listening to this podcast called the Mindset Mentor, great podcast, by the way. And the podcast hosts,  had an episode called "Fake Friends". In that episode, he was basically talking about how sometimes we keep people around longer than they need to be, or we're around people who are not the best for us because of our history.   So during the episode, he said, pay attention to how your body reacts to different friends that you have. As much as our mind and our brain might tell us.   "Hey, you know, this person has been around for a while. This is your friend"   and you feel a sense of loyalty to them. Your body naturally has a reaction based off of sometimes the things that your mind does not want to express. So as he was like describing this.   Ironically, someone had reached out to me who I would consider a friend of mine. When he was talking about paying attention to how your body reacts, everything he described is exactly how I felt.   When that friend reaching out, I would immediately feel anxious. I would immediately feel annoyed. I would immediately feel drained and I never realized that until I listened to that podcast, that our bodies really do speak to us based off of how they react to certain situations. That we don't even acknowledge ourselves is how we truly feel about something.   And I think it's very important to acknowledge how your body reacts to different people or reacts to different scenarios. Because you yourself might not realize that you're completely ignoring what your body's trying to tell you and your body doesn't always have to tell you something based off of like, oh, I'm hot, I'm cold. Oh, that hurts. Or that feels good.   Like no. Say somebody's name and see how your body reacts. I'm telling you have somebody call you unexpectedly and see how your body reacts when it's, when, when that person's name pops up on your phone. Like. That was a very eyeopening experience for me. And I'm realizing that it's much more important for me to feel.   Comfortable and safe in my friendships. Than it is for me to try to please. Somebody who. I don't feel made me a priority the way that I made them  New Episodes Every Tuesday & Thursday!  If you need advice on your love life, submit your letters to at this link below: sipandspills.com  Join our FB Group "Spill the Tea with Sip & Spill" where every month we are giving away wine to our most engaged member!  https://www.facebook.com/groups/664407411172780/about  Sip & Spill is offering this 6 Mediterranean Wines package for $45, free shipping, and a free corkscrew in partnership with wine insiders! Click the link below to order yours today: https://wineinsiders.eqwh.net/c/2219295/662306/9974 Follow us: instagram.com/sipandspills facebook.com/sipandspills twitter.com/sipandspills  Contact us: sipandspills@gmail.com

Dec 15, 202227:08
Attractive Men Awkward Around Women...

Attractive Men Awkward Around Women...

It's Two-Cent Tuesday! Where we read your letters and give our two cents on your dating life!

New Episodes Every Tuesday & Thursday!  If you need advice on your love life, submit your letters to at this link below: sipandspills.com  Join our FB Group "Spill the Tea with Sip & Spill" where every month we are giving away wine to our most engaged member!  https://www.facebook.com/groups/664407411172780/about   Sip & Spill is offering this 6 Mediterranean Wines package for $45, free shipping, and a free corkscrew in partnership with wine insiders! Click the link below to order yours today: https://wineinsiders.eqwh.net/c/2219295/662306/9974  Follow us: instagram.com/sipandspills facebook.com/sipandspills twitter.com/sipandspills  Contact us: sipandspills@gmail.com

Nov 30, 202221:25
Why Was I a "Pick Me Girl?"

Why Was I a "Pick Me Girl?"

This week we are diving deep into why was I a Pick Me Girl?   

According to the Urban Dictionary, a "pick me girl" is a girl who seeks male validation by indirectly or directly insinuating that she's not like the other girls. For example, she may have or present herself to have more guy friends because they're less problematic and catty than women are.  

 And I have to be honest, I definitely was that girl that convinced myself that it was okay to have more guy friends because they were less problematic and less dramatic.  In this episode, I break down why I believe I was seeking this male validation and share some of my most embarrassing "pick me" moments.    

Make sure you stay until the end where I'll be reading some of you guys most embarrassing "pick me" moments as well! 

 If you need advice on your love life, submit your letters to at this link below: sipandspills.com  

Join our FB Group "Spill the Tea with Sip & Spill" where every month we are giving away wine to our most engaged member!  https://www.facebook.com/groups/664407411172780/about  Sip & Spill is offering this 6 Mediterranean Wines package for $45, free shipping, and a free corkscrew in partnership with wine insiders! Click the link below to order yours today: https://wineinsiders.eqwh.net/c/2219295/662306/9974 

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Nov 25, 202239:17
I Didn't Sleep with Him and He Stopped Texting #TwoCentTuesday

I Didn't Sleep with Him and He Stopped Texting #TwoCentTuesday

It's Two-Cent Tuesday! Where we read your letters and give our two cents on your dating life! 

New Episodes Every Tuesday & Thursday!  If you need advice on your love life, submit your letters to at this link below: sipandspills.com  Join our FB Group "Spill the Tea with Sip & Spill" where every month we are giving away wine to our most engaged member!  https://www.facebook.com/groups/664407411172780/about   Sip & Spill is offering this 6 Mediterranean Wines package for $45, free shipping, and a free corkscrew in partnership with wine insiders! Click the link below to order yours today: https://wineinsiders.eqwh.net/c/2219295/662306/9974  Follow us: instagram.com/sipandspills facebook.com/sipandspills twitter.com/sipandspills  Contact us: sipandspills@gmail.com


Nov 22, 202234:22
Sir, Please Wash Your Hands! feat. My Mom #TwoCentTuesday
Nov 15, 202227:33
Stop Chasing After These Men...

Stop Chasing After These Men...

Sometimes we find ourselves chasing after what we can't have. We hold on to hope that the uncertainty in our relationship with someone will eventually become clear. NO! Run for cover ladies! If his energy isn't matching yours then its time to keep it pushing!
Nov 11, 202232:44
N*ggas in Memphis!
Aug 03, 202223:10
Grown Woman Weight

Grown Woman Weight

WE'RE BACKKKKK!!!! This week's episode is all about Grown Woman Weight! 

Ladies, are you struggling to figure out where this extra weight came from? You are NOT alone! In this episode, Vee opens up about her experience with grown woman weight and possibly dealing with a minor case of body dysmorphia. 

We also asked our audience their experience with Grown Woman Weight, so tune in to hear what you guys had to say!

Make sure you are following us so you don't miss out on future opportunities to have your answers included! Find us at sipandspills.com

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Jul 22, 202220:15
I'm 23 and I Never Had a Girlfriend Before! | r/askreddit How to Get a Girlfriend

I'm 23 and I Never Had a Girlfriend Before! | r/askreddit How to Get a Girlfriend

Never had a girlfriend before! We are 2 Black Women giving dating advice every Tuesday for our segment #TwoCentTuesday where we give our two-cents on your dating life every Tuesday! We discuss all things dating and relationship advice during our girl talk while sipping on our favorite wines! This week we are reading more r/askreddit letters and giving out Two-Cents Let us know your opinions! If you need advice on your love life, submit your letters to at this link below: linktr.ee/sipandspills Join our FB Group "Spill the Tea with Sip & Spill" where every month we are giving away wine to our most engaged member! https://www.facebook.com/groups/664407411172780/about Sip & Spill is offering this 6 Mediterranean Wines package for $45, free shipping, and a free corkscrew in partnership with wine insiders! Click the link below to order yours today: https://wineinsiders.eqwh.net/c/2219295/662306/9974 Follow us: instagram.com/sipandspills facebook.com/sipandspills twitter.com/sipandspills
May 11, 202122:13
My Crush Has No Idea I Like Him | Two Cents Tuesday

My Crush Has No Idea I Like Him | Two Cents Tuesday

OMG! My Crush Has No Idea I Like Him! Soooo...it's time to read some letters from Reddit! Do you have a crush that has no idea you like them? How about a boyfriend that works with his ex?!?!? or going on a first date with your crush on his birthday and having no idea what to get him!!! Let us know your opinions! If you need advice on dating and relationship topics, submit your letters to at this link below: linktr.ee/sipandspills Join our FB Group "Spill the Tea with Sip & Spill" where every month we are giving away wine to our most engaged member! https://www.facebook.com/groups/664407411172780/about Sip & Spill is offering this 6 Mediterranean Wines package for $45, free shipping, and a free corkscrew in partnership with wine insiders! Click the link below to order yours today: https://wineinsiders.eqwh.net/c/2219295/662306/9974 Follow us: instagram.com/sipandspills facebook.com/sipandspills twitter.com/sipandspills
May 04, 202139:38
Are These Red Flags??  Bad With Money and Bad Sex
Apr 27, 202117:01
Date Night During Covid 2021 #TwoCentTuesday
Apr 20, 202118:51
He Called Me His Girl...But Doesn't Want a Relationship? #TwoCentTuesday
Apr 13, 202121:15
Pet Peeves with @ChuhChea
Aug 13, 202001:15:15
Can Your Sig. Other Make You a Better Person By Cheating???
Aug 06, 202056:30
Issa Vs Lawrence..& advice letters with Wyld Young!
Jul 30, 202001:20:14
Is Love Truly Blind?!?!
Jul 16, 202001:09:34
Why Men Don't Forgive Cheating? with Tom Flies
Jul 09, 202001:09:36
Insecurities In Relationships (Inspired By Marriage Boot Camp)

Insecurities In Relationships (Inspired By Marriage Boot Camp)

Hey Everybody! This week, we were inspired by #MarriageBootCamp Love & Hip Hop Edition to talk about Insecurities in Relationships. Specifically, R&B singer Michel'le, and Stew served as our example. We discuss how to move past insecurities, how to help your partner deal with them, as well as when insecurities become too much for a healthy relationship. At 29:03 we start our segment #AskSipandSpill where you send us letters and we give advice. If you need advice on your dating life, send your letters and questions to sipandspills.com/contact and your letter might get read on the show! Follow Us: sipandspills.com Veniece - Instagram.com/iam.veniece Amber Monique - Instagram.com/stylesof_amomo Music By: Alonda Rich https://youtu.be/BnqKvUAwVxc We do NOT own the rights to this music
Jul 02, 202001:07:26
Living Together During the Quarantine!!! with @RightonQueLive
Jun 25, 202002:14:16
Virtual Dating During the Quarantine...?

Virtual Dating During the Quarantine...?

Hey Everybody! We are back for Season 4 for Sip & Spill! With everything going on with this global pandemic and no guarantee of when we will end this quarantine, we are starting off this season with discussing Virtual Dating. We dive into how to date while still social distancing, what is considered a "virtual date", and where to find suitors. At 47:00 we start our segment #AskSipandSpill where you send us letters and we give advice. If you need advice on your dating life, send your letters and questions to sipandspills.com/contact and your letter might get read on the show! Follow Us: sipandspills.com Veniece - Instagram.com/iam.veniece Amber Monique - Instagram.com/stylesof_amomo Music By: Alonda Rich https://youtu.be/BnqKvUAwVxc We do NOT own the rights to this music
Jun 18, 202001:16:16
Homie Hopping..Is It Ever Ok?? Feat @Rightonquelive
Nov 07, 201901:51:50
Hot Girls vs City Boys Gearing up for Cuffing Season
Oct 17, 201926:55
My Roommates BF is trying to sleep with me...HELP!! with Talk Hvy Podcast
Oct 15, 201944:46
Empaths & Relationships (@DerrickJaxn Inspired)
Oct 10, 201936:00
My Boyfriend Keeps Asking For Money..HELP!
Oct 08, 201929:45
No More Toxic Relationships....PERIODT!
Oct 03, 201936:15
Girlfriend Photoshopped Boyfriend's Pictures to Look Taller
Oct 01, 201932:18
Financial Stability or Love Conquers (with @BrookeSabre)
Aug 14, 201936:27
Destination..Wedding! feat. Jon & Tanesha | Sip & Spill

Destination..Wedding! feat. Jon & Tanesha | Sip & Spill

Check out this week's episode of Sip & Spill as we are joined by Jon & Tanesha of the Love & Other Drugs Podcast. They tell us everything you need to know about planning a destination wedding, and how to remain stress free during the wedding planning process period! You can find Jon & Tanesha’s Podcast “Love & Other Drugs in the link below: https://www.jonandtanesha.com/ Do you need advice on dating or want to vent about your situation? Email us at sipandspills@gmail.com Follow Us: https://linktr.ee/sipandspills Music By: Alonda Rich https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pxh4YqhuaqQ We do NOT own the rights to this music
Jul 18, 201929:14
Pop Up & Pop Off | Sip & Spill

Pop Up & Pop Off | Sip & Spill

Hi Friends! This episode we talk about a girl popping up and popping off on a guy she was dating while he was on a date with someone else! Then we read a letter from one of fans asking for advice on a guy she is dating with a DANGEROUS past! Do you need advice on dating or want to vent about your situation? Email us at sipandspills@gmail.com We are partnering with XL Live to giveaway 2 tickets to see DJ Envy from the Breakfast Club on Saturday, July 19th at XL Live. Follow @sipandspills on Instagram or Sip & Spill on Facebook to enter! Follow Us: https://linktr.ee/sipandspills Music By: Alonda Rich https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pxh4YqhuaqQ We do NOT own the rights to this music
Jul 10, 201945:47
Wife and Girlfriend?!? with Swoope and Imani | Sip & Spill
Jun 20, 201930:16
Dating Someone Who Adds No Value to Your Life | Sip & Spill

Dating Someone Who Adds No Value to Your Life | Sip & Spill

Dating Someone Who Adds No Value to Your Life | Sip & Spill by Sip & Spill
Sep 22, 201845:36
How Much Is Too Much Of Her Best Friend's Relationship Drama    Sip & Spill

How Much Is Too Much Of Her Best Friend's Relationship Drama Sip & Spill

This week we discussed a message we received from someone about her best friend's relationship drama. Tune in1
Aug 02, 201823:07
He Faked Getting Caught Cheating?? | Sip & Spill

He Faked Getting Caught Cheating?? | Sip & Spill

This week we revisited @sixbrownchicks' twitter for some of their weekly advice questions, and gave our input on some of these bizarre dilemmas. Tune in and be sure to share your input in the comments below!
Jul 26, 201819:34
Have You Ever Been Stood Up?

Have You Ever Been Stood Up?

Hi Friends! Have you ever been stood up? Have you ever stood someone up? Enjoy this episode where we discuss our experiences! Follow Us: Sip & Spill @sipandspills
Jul 19, 201825:45
Entertaining, Talking And Dating... What's the Dfference? Sip  Spill | 6. 08. 2018

Entertaining, Talking And Dating... What's the Dfference? Sip Spill | 6. 08. 2018

Check out this week's episode as we are joined by podcast host, youtuber, and comedian, Keith Robinson! This week we are discussing the difference between dating and talking, along with all the other phases of dating.

Be sure to check out Keith's podcast and youtube channel at the link's below!

Talk Hvy Podcast:
https://itunes.apple.com/ie/podcast/t...

Reezy and Rro
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCevy...
Jun 12, 201839:07
Summer Of The Taco Meat | Sip  Spill | 5. 30. 2018

Summer Of The Taco Meat | Sip Spill | 5. 30. 2018

This week's episode was inspired by our male friend's recent decision to let his body hair flourish for the summer of 2018. What are your thoughts? Do you have guidelines on body hair for someone you're dating? Share with us below!
Jun 12, 201837:44
Is There A Double Standard For Interracial Dating |  Sip  Spill | 5. 23. 2018

Is There A Double Standard For Interracial Dating | Sip Spill | 5. 23. 2018

This week, the Royal Wedding, in addition to the news breaking about Childish Gambino dating a white woman has led us to discuss the double standard for men and women dating interracially. Tune in and share your thoughts with us in the comments below!
Jun 12, 201827:27
Dating Someone With An Opposing Religious Belief | Sip  Spill | 5.09.2018

Dating Someone With An Opposing Religious Belief | Sip Spill | 5.09.2018

Hello Friends! In this week's episode, we sit down with Thomas from the Well Connected Podcast to discuss our views on dating someone of a different religious belief than your own. Would you do it? Have you done it? Let us know in the comments down below! Follow Us: Thomas: @t.gato_ Well Connected Podcast https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/w... Sip & Spill: @sipandspills https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/s... Amomo Chanel: @stylesof_amomo Veniece Antoinette:
Jun 12, 201827:54
Apparently Men Want What They Cant Have | Sip  Spill | 4.25. 2018

Apparently Men Want What They Cant Have | Sip Spill | 4.25. 2018

Hi Friends! We were recently asked by a male friend of ours on how to get a girl back....come to find out he only wanted her because he didn't want anyone else to have her... This inspired our episode today about Men wanting what they can't have. Do you agree? Disagree? Let us know in the comments below! Follow Us: Sip & Spill @sipandspills sipandspills@gmail.com Amomo Chanel @stylesof_amomo Veniece Antoinette @iam.veniece
Jun 12, 201825:40
Stealing Her BEST FRIENDS HUSBAND! | Sip  Spill | 4. 18. 2018

Stealing Her BEST FRIENDS HUSBAND! | Sip Spill | 4. 18. 2018

Hello Friends!

This week we decided to do something fun and give some input on crazy scenarios. Six Brown Chicks post situations on their Twitter account from fans who are seeking advice from them and their audience. So we decided why not help some people out!
Jun 12, 201815:48