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Spilling the Behavior Tea

Spilling the Behavior Tea

By S&J Behavioral Bliss

Getting real about ALL aspects of behavior - in the home, in schools, in the field, & in the world!
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A Wild Ride

Spilling the Behavior TeaFeb 29, 2024

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A Wild Ride

A Wild Ride

Don't miss out on this week's episode of "Spilling the Tea on Behavior" with Sam & Janeth! They're about to spill some major news that will shape their futures. Join them as they embark on new journeys & invite you along for the ride!


Feb 29, 202421:50
New Symptoms Unlocked

New Symptoms Unlocked

In the latest episode of "Spilling the Behavioral Tea," Sam & Janeth dive deep into the topic of navigating anxiety & discovering strategies to reclaim control over one's life. The girls explore the challenges of living with anxiety & share personal anecdotes to connect with their audience. From discussing the fascination of how anxiety seems to develop over time to finding effective coping mechanisms, they offer practical advice & valuable tools to help listeners lead fulfilling lives despite anxiety's presence.

Feb 22, 202447:10
More Safety Trainings, Please

More Safety Trainings, Please

TW: This episode contains discussions of seizures among other potentially triggering topics. Listener discretion is advised.


If you or someone you know has experience with seizures of a loved one, you won't want to miss this episode. The girls discuss the importance of thorough on-field training for individuals who work closely with children affected by seizures. Their insights shed light on crucial information that parents & caregivers should be aware of when dealing with such cases. It’s bound to help someone get the proper help they need for their loved ones. 


Feb 15, 202449:15
Unique Journeys

Unique Journeys

In this week's new podcast episode of, "Spilling the Behavior Tea," Sam & Janeth delve into an insightful discussion about behavioral symptoms & conditions in Autism. Highlighting the varying levels & challenges individuals may face, including managing aggressive behaviors. Whether you're tuning in during your commute or enjoying a snack at home, Sam & Janeth's engaging dialogue is sure to captivate listeners with its thought-provoking topics.

Feb 08, 202447:35
STBT Turns 1!

STBT Turns 1!

Join us for the latest episode this week, particularly if you possess insights into the various levels of autism. We'll explore whether one specific level is more prominently represented than others. Tune in as the hosts delve into this topic & others that are sure to have you passionately reacting to your phone as you're listening along.


Feb 01, 202442:25
Less Can Be More

Less Can Be More

In the latest episode of "Spilling the Behavior Tea" podcast, Sam & Janeth delve into relevant topics related to all things behavior. From trending ideologies to exploring the latest season of “Love on the Spectrum”. They even share insights into night-time skincare routines, adding a touch of self-care to the mix. Tune in for a delightful blend of humor & insightful discussions on the behavioral landscape.

Jan 25, 202447:17
This Is Why We Can't Have Nice Things

This Is Why We Can't Have Nice Things

Are we now in a world where instilling manners in our children is considered outdated? Join us this week for a fresh episode of "Spilling the Behavior Tea," where the ladies delve into this thought-provoking topic. Listen in to catch their perspectives on the matter & take a moment to reflect on your own stance. This episode will undoubtedly prompt you to ponder which side of the fence you find yourself on.

Jan 18, 202447:49
Learning Lessons

Learning Lessons

In the latest installment of Spilling The Behavior Tea, the ladies engage in a profound conversation that deserves a global audience. While relocating can be a nerve-wracking experience for families, the episode delves into the diverse considerations specific to families with unique needs that often go unnoticed. Tune in for this eye-opening discussion. They kick off the new year with vigor, diving straight into thought-provoking subjects that challenge conventional thinking.

Jan 11, 202442:11
New Years Things

New Years Things

Join us this week for the first episode of 2024 for Spilling the Behavior Tea podcast, as the girls dive into the new year. Sam & Janeth discuss their aspirations for the year ahead. Embracing a more gradual approach to the start of the year, they are sharing their experiences from the initial days of 2024. Tune in for a chilled & relaxed conversation about manifesting positive changes & setting the tone for a great year.

Jan 04, 202449:28
2024 Manifestations

2024 Manifestations

Tune in this week, it's not only the latest episode of the year for Spilling the Behavior Tea, but also a special one where the ladies reflect on the highs & lows of 2023, both in their personal & professional lives. They dive into the mindset & anticipation they're carrying into 2024. One thing is certain, the ladies are envisioning a dynamic & influential year. Don't miss out; tune in to bid farewell to 2023 & welcome in 2024. The ladies are enthusiastic about continuing to bring you episodes filled with relatable & thought-provoking content in the new year.


Dec 28, 202347:48
Count Your Blessings

Count Your Blessings

In this week's installment of "Spilling the Behavior Tea," Sam & Janeth engage in another TikTok video session—one of Janeth's personal favorites. Join us this week to catch Janeth's reactions as Sam selects a curated list of noteworthy moments to share not only with Janeth but also with our attentive listeners.


Dec 21, 202341:39
Anxiety's a B*tch

Anxiety's a B*tch

If you've ever encountered anxiety or panic attacks as an adult, you're familiar with how frightening these experiences can be. Now, envision a child grappling with those same emotions. It's more prevalent than you might realize. In this week's installment of Spilling the Behavior Tea, Sam & Janeth delve into a comprehensive discussion that sheds light on the importance of understanding what our children are facing in these rapidly evolving times.

Dec 14, 202346:29
When Will Enough Be Enough?

When Will Enough Be Enough?

Are you prepared for the latest installment of "Spilling the Behavior Tea"? This episode unveils Truth Bombs shedding light on the evolving culture within schools across the United States. When did the display of respect from students toward teachers and school staff become a thing of the past? The hosts are issuing a call to action that takes center stage, delivering a message crucial for everyone to hear in order to foster positive change for future generations.

Dec 07, 202355:22
Separation Realties

Separation Realties

Join Sam & Janeth in the latest episode of Spilling the Behavior Tea as they dive into the sensitive topic of the rising number of divorces amongst parents of kids with special needs. The duo opens up about their personal experiences working with such cases, offering valuable insights & practical tips to navigate the challenges during these difficult times. Get ready for a candid conversation filled with empathy & guidance on supporting families through the unique dynamics of divorce within the special needs community.   


Nov 30, 202349:32
Sam Goes Solo

Sam Goes Solo

Join Sam in this week's solo episode as she dives into her fascinating journey within the behavior field and her experiences working with children. With Janeth taking a break, Sam candidly discusses the impact of Thanksgiving and explores how vacations affect the lives of teachers and staff. Tune in for insightful reflections and personal anecdotes that shed light on these important aspects of the education sector.

Nov 23, 202343:51
Kids Know

Kids Know

Sam & Janeth go into detail about an extremely
underrated yet important message for parents,
paraprofessionals & anyone who works with kids.
Today's world is vastly different from the one we
inhabited years ago. Does this shift imply that
embracing a teaching role in the contemporary
landscape requires awareness & acceptance of
potential harm? Join us this week on "Spilling the
Behavior Tea" for a new episode where Sam & Janeth
delve into various topics, with a particular focus on
safety within school campuses.

Nov 16, 202338:22
S&J Turns 2!

S&J Turns 2!

Join us for this week's episode of Spilling the Behavior Tea as we celebrate the second anniversary of S&J Behavioral Bliss. In this special episode, the girls take a trip down memory lane, reflecting on their journey of establishing a cherished & secure haven for a community that holds a special place in their hearts. Additionally, they have an exciting announcement to share, as a gesture of gratitude to the community that has been their support since day one.

Nov 09, 202342:06
Keeping Up With S&J

Keeping Up With S&J

Did you catch the latest episode of "Spilling the Behavior Tea"? The girls dive into a sensitive subject that's sure to evoke a wide range of emotions. They're tackling the question of whether certain actions warrant a second chance. Sam & Janeth dive deep into these contentious issues, so make sure to tune in, share the episode & keep the conversation going with your friends.

Nov 02, 202338:56
Bullying

Bullying

In this week's episode, the girls go deep into the highly sensitive issue of bullying & its profound impact. They explore whether there might be more effective methods to address this persistent problem in school settings, or if the current strategies are proving successful. Tune in to hear their insights & discover whether you share their perspective.



This episode contains discussions about bullying and issues that it can lead to. Listener discretion is advised.

Oct 26, 202346:56
Tea Time

Tea Time

In this weeks episode, Sam & Janeth share life experiences, provide personal updates, discuss current unique topics & much more. These two always deliver captivating topics that will encourage you to think outside the box. You do not want to miss out!


Oct 19, 202353:34
Memory Lane

Memory Lane

Tune in to this week's podcast episode with Sam & Janeth, as they kick things off by delving into nostalgic reflections about past clients & their current whereabouts. They'll also dive into a discussion about the essential qualities of leadership & you won't want to miss their engaging musings. As always, the duo presents a rollercoaster of emotions in one exciting episode.

Oct 12, 202342:07
Teamwork Makes A Dream Work

Teamwork Makes A Dream Work

In this episode, Sam & Janeth engage in a heartfelt conversation about the crucial role parents play in nurturing positive ethics in their children from a young age. They explore how a child's behavior in the wider world is a direct reflection of the values & teachings instilled at home. It's a call to action for parents to recognize that their partnership with teachers is essential & the groundwork for fostering ethical behavior begins right in their own homes.


Oct 05, 202354:30
Professionally Developing

Professionally Developing

In this week’s episode, Sam & Janeth delve deep into an inspiring conversation about the genesis of their remarkable professional development workshop. Tune in to discover the driving force behind their mission to empower paraprofessionals in finding their voices & reaching their fullest potential. The girls share their motivations for crafting personalized workshops that enable paraprofessionals to step into their roles with unwavering confidence. Get ready to be inspired, informed & empowered to transform the lives of those you serve.

Sep 28, 202345:03
Fighting For Our Teachers

Fighting For Our Teachers

Join Sam & Janeth in their latest podcast episode, where they dive headfirst into a scorching hot topic that's been making waves - teachers' right to fair pay in education. With a fiery passion for this issue, the girls fearlessly dissect the injustice of pay scales within the education system, shedding light on the incredible dedication & hard work teachers pour into their profession.

Sep 21, 202343:16
Embracing Your Inner Lion (pt.2)

Embracing Your Inner Lion (pt.2)

Tune in and join us over at Spilling the Behavior Tea’s podcast, as the girls spill the tea on championing for the special needs community & ensuring their voices are heard. We're all in this together as a community, being the voices they need! Plus, they open up about personal moments when they had to be their own advocates. Advocating is not for the weak, but together we can be the strength we all need.

Sep 14, 202341:33
Giving Up

Giving Up

Join us as we dive deep into the journey of special needs parenting. We share personal tales of pushing through, never giving up & reaching those 'impossible' milestones. Remember, even when it feels tough, you're not alone. We're here to learn & grow with you. Tune in to Spilling the Behavior Tea now & sip on some motivation! 


Sep 07, 202348:08
Overstimulation

Overstimulation

Sam & Janeth dive into important subjects including the struggles that are faced when trying to integrate children with special needs into communities, shedding light on the hurdles that parents confront when doing this & the challenges that both children & adults face in an increasingly fast-paced & sensory-rich world. As always, "Spilling the Behavior Tea" combines personal anecdotes and a sprinkle of humor to create an engaging & enlightening listening experience. So grab your favorite beverage, settle in & get ready to sip on the wisdom & insights served up in this captivating episode.

Aug 31, 202337:58
What Would You Tell Your Younger Self?

What Would You Tell Your Younger Self?

In this week's episode, Sam & Janeth have brewed a delightful blend of conversation that touches on a little bit of everything. From the latest TV show craze, to heartfelt messages they would send to their younger selves, there's something for everyone to relate to & reflect upon. But that's not all – be prepared for an empowering discussion as they explore the remarkable strength & camaraderie among special-needs moms. So, grab your favorite beverage, get comfortable & tune in to "Spilling the Behavior Tea" as Sam & Janeth take you on a journey through laughter, reflection & the joy of shared experiences. It's an episode you won't want to miss!

Aug 24, 202351:15
Thirty(ish), Hurty & Thriving

Thirty(ish), Hurty & Thriving

In this episode the girls delve into a topic that touches every one in one way or another: overcoming traumatic events. The girls stir up a powerful conversation & explore the complexities behind why some individuals seem to bounce back from adversity while others face a more challenging road. It's a topic that demands empathy, understanding & a deep exploration of human behavior. Throughout this episode, we'll be sipping on some thought-provoking insights, examining the trials & tribulations faced by those who've experienced trauma, while also sharing personal stories that resonate with the heart. So, grab your cups of empathy & curiosity as the girls embark on this powerful episode of "Spilling the Behavioral Tea."

Aug 17, 202353:03
Blind Reactions - TikTok Edition

Blind Reactions - TikTok Edition

Get ready for an eye-opening segment as Sam surprises Janeth. Sam curates a collection of videos that revolve around different cases & experiences within the special needs community. From heartwarming success stories to important discussion topics, the videos touch on a range of emotions & insights. Along the way, the duo reflects on the significance of these videos, shedding light on various perspectives & experiences within the special needs community. So, grab your favorite beverage, tune in, and get ready to Spill the Behavior Tea like never before!


Aug 10, 202351:05
Habit Hangovers

Habit Hangovers

This week Sam & Janeth dive into the transformative power of slowly adopting positive habits for achieving overall wellness. With the frenetic pace of modern life, it's easy to feel overwhelmed when trying to incorporate new changes into our routines. The girls share their insights on the art of gradual progress & how they hope it can lead to lasting, sustainable results. They discuss the significance of giving yourself grace every step of the way & celebrating small victories. Whether you're looking to cultivate a healthier diet, establish a consistent exercise routine, or foster mindfulness practices, this episode will equip you with the realities & tools needed to embrace change at a manageable pace. Tune in & learn how small steps can lead to giant leaps in your own personal journey.


Aug 03, 202348:50
Balancing Unique Sibs

Balancing Unique Sibs

Unveil the world of sibling dynamics in our latest episode of "Spilling the Behavior Tea." Join us as we discuss the highs & lows of being a sibling to a child with special needs, shedding light on their unique experiences, challenges & triumphs. Amidst the heartwarming tales, we deliver an essential reminder that these extraordinary siblings also deserve their needs to be understood & met. Tune in for an enlightening & compassionate conversation that celebrates the resilience & love within these remarkable families.


Jul 27, 202342:41
Embracing Your Inner Lion

Embracing Your Inner Lion

Discover the power of asserting your voice in this inspiring episode about advocating for both yourself & your loved ones. The girls share their thoughts on how they believe that finding your voice is a transformative journey that empowers parents & caregivers to be strong advocates for their kids & the significance of speaking up in order to break barriers. Whether you're a parent, guardian, or caregiver, this episode is packed with essential advice on building confidence, overcoming obstacles & ensuring you & your child receive the support you deserve.

Get ready to unleash your advocacy potential for a brighter future for you & your littles. Let's raise our voices together & make a difference!

Jul 20, 202355:57
Unlearning is Just as Important as Learning

Unlearning is Just as Important as Learning

In this thought-provoking episode, the girls delve into the crucial topic of unlearning the pervasive societal tendency to treat individuals with special needs as if they were babies.

Stereotypes & misconceptions often result in the infantilization of people with disabilities, denying them their autonomy, dignity & rightful place in society. The girls focus on bringing light to this matter & explore why it is essential to break free from this mindset. They shed light on the harmful effects of treating people with special needs as if they were incapable of independent thought, which could lead to exclusion, restricts opportunities for growth & hinders the development of self-advocacy skills. 

A food for thought is shared as they speak of the importance of empowering individuals with special needs, fostering their independence & promoting inclusive environments that respect their unique abilities & contributions. Tune in for this enlightening conversation that aims to challenge societal norms, dismantle stereotypes & create a world where individuals with special needs are treated with the respect, dignity & the equality they deserve.


Jul 13, 202350:54
Life Skills for Littles

Life Skills for Littles

Join the girls this week, as they go in-depth to dissect & discuss the importance of the vital role we play as parents, caregivers, teachers, paraprofessionals or anyone that helps raise little minds in fostering self-reliance, resilience & critical thinking in young minds. You do not want to miss this episode, as the girls delve into various aspects of cultivating independence in children, recognizing its long-lasting impact on their personal growth & future success. The girls carry an insightful conversation that offers valuable strategies, practical tips & personal experiences. You will discover the power of teaching children essential life skills, from basic tasks like cooking, cleaning & managing money, to decision-making, problem-solving & effective communication. This episode will also help you understand the significance of allowing children to take on age-appropriate responsibilities & the positive effects it has on their self-esteem, confidence & overall well-being.


Jul 06, 202353:45
#GOALS (pt. 2)

#GOALS (pt. 2)

Are you tired of feeling stuck in a never-ending cycle? Looking for that ray of hope to guide you out of the darkness? Tune in this week, as the girls dive deep into the complexities of setting goals, overcoming obstacles & finding that light at the end of the tunnel. 

Whether you're dealing with setbacks in your career, relationships or personal growth, whatever the case may be, the girls got you covered. In this week's episode they share their personal triumphs & challenges & provide tips that have helped them navigate through life's tough moments. So, grab a cup of tea, sit back & prepare to be inspired! We invite you to listen carefully, as the girls are spilling the behavior tea & revealing strategies that are helping them transform their life one step at a time. They know first hand how difficult it can be to come out of those dark moments, as they get real about the struggles they are working through daily. There's always a light waiting for you at the end of the tunnel & the girls are eager to share with you the secrets to help you get there too.


Jun 29, 202339:34
I'MPASTA

I'MPASTA

Whether you are a parent, caregiver, paraprofessional, teacher, entrepreneur, or simply someone looking to unlock their true potential, this episode is for you. It's time to break free from the chains of imposter syndrome & embrace your worth. Tune into "Spilling the Behavior Tea" this week as the girls continue to embark on this incredible journey of personal growth & share their experience with their listeners! You are bound to take away something that will inspire you to start or continue on your own personal growth & mental & self care journey.   


Jun 22, 202345:02
Let's All Get On The Same Page

Let's All Get On The Same Page

Collaboration between parents, educators & the entire educational team is vital for the overall success of all children, especially for those with special needs. In this week’s episode, the girls share their knowledge & personal experience of working in a team that provides consistent support, shares valuable insights with everyone on the team & how a unified approach to meet a child's unique needs creates a great foundation for a successful school year. Whether you are a parent, caregiver or work in any type of educational setting, you want to make sure to get a pencil & notebook ready when listening to this episode, as the girls share tips & tricks that will help you plan for your very own successful new school year.

Jun 15, 202349:10
Feeling PUMPED

Feeling PUMPED

After last week’s episode “Just One of Them Days” the girls are back this week uplifted & ready to practice what they preach; maintaining consistency & following through. 

This week they share with their listeners what steps they took to help them get out of the funk they found themselves in & how it is that they hold themselves accountable today. If you are seeking the motivation to get you started on setting goals in your life, we invite you to tune in. The girls spill the tea on tricks & tools that can help you stay consistent to be able reach your own personal goals.


Jun 08, 202353:18
Just One of Them Days

Just One of Them Days

Yes, it happens, even to the best of us! We all face days where we feel out of it or disconnected from our usual selves. These days can be characterized by a lack of energy, motivation, focus, or overall well-being. One thing is for sure, it’s okay to feel these emotions, but it's never okay to get stuck in them. Tune in this week as the girls get personal about facing their own emotions of feeling stuck in a rut & what plan they have to help themselves navigate their way out of these gray moments.

Jun 01, 202345:16
Toxic Positivi-TEA

Toxic Positivi-TEA

Toxic positivity is generally considered to be a negative phenomenon. How do you find the balance without denying or invalidating negative emotions or experiences? While positivity & optimism can be beneficial, toxic positivity on the other hand can have harmful effects on individuals. Tune in this week as the girls discuss experiencing & identifying moments of toxic positivity in their personal lives & how they were able to learn & grow from such experiences. Trigger Warning: May contain some discussion of child abuse and sexual assault.
May 25, 202351:50
Scientific-y or relatable?

Scientific-y or relatable?

The levels of Autism Spectrum Disorder are based on the amount of support needed in social communication & restricted/repetitive behaviors. In this week's episode, the girls talk about how language can affect perception, changes in the behavior field, the different levels of autism & their journey in a classroom setting as they’ve learned to navigate in a way that best benefits each child & their specific needs.

May 18, 202355:08
The Incentive Effect

The Incentive Effect

Reward systems can be effective in encouraging kiddos to navigate certain behaviors, as they provide a clear incentive for children to engage in positive actions. However, whether or not they are “good” or “bad” for children solely depends on how they are implemented. You do not want to miss this week's episode as the girls get into the nitty gritty of all things reward systems.

May 11, 202347:05
Work-Play Balance

Work-Play Balance

We all can relate to that overwhelming feeling of having too much on our plate, sometimes we forget that our kiddos may have overwhelming moments as well. This week the girls go into an in depth conversation about kids with different needs working over time & the benefits of having the time to decompress after a long day of trying to fit into a demanding world.  


May 04, 202345:48
Gentle Parenting - Is It For You?

Gentle Parenting - Is It For You?

Do you feel like this gentle parenting thing is just not for you? This episode might just be what changes your mind. This week the girls speak thoroughly about misconceptions regarding gentle & positive parenting & some of the great benefits this parenting style has to offer.

Apr 27, 202344:20
From the Mouths of Moms: Hispanic Parenting (pt. 2)

From the Mouths of Moms: Hispanic Parenting (pt. 2)

In part 2 of Mayra’s story, she shares her journey in finding the strength to become her child’s advocate & fight to get the services he rightfully deserves. If you have been feeling like you just can’t see the light at the end of the tunnel & need inspiration of perseverance, you do not want to miss this episode.    

Trigger warning: This episode contains discussions about child abuse and childhood trauma. Listener discretion is advised.


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Apr 20, 202301:00:48
From the Mouths of Moms: Hispanic Parenting (pt. 1)

From the Mouths of Moms: Hispanic Parenting (pt. 1)

Celebrating our tenth episode with a special guest! Mayra Contreras, a mom of two littles, joins the girls for an in-depth conversation where she shares stories of her childhood & growing up in a Mexican household. Tune in to listen to Mayra's relatable story as she speaks about the trials & tribulations that she’s had to overcome to be the warrior that she is today.


Trigger warning: This episode contains discussions about child abuse and childhood trauma. Listener discretion is advised.

Apr 13, 202353:44
More Money, Less Problems

More Money, Less Problems

A day without Paraprofessionals! Imagine that. In this week's episode the girls get into an in-depth conversation about a much-needed change that needs to happen in the field for Paraprofessionals: respect & a worthy salary. Enough is enough & if you feel the same way, you do not want to miss this episode.

Apr 06, 202355:03
#GOALS

#GOALS

Ever struggle to find the consistency to keep working on goals? This week the girls talk about what’s been helping them stay on track & consistent with goals they set for S&J Behavioral Bliss. The way they look at the bigger picture is a brilliant way to help you reach your goals & keep pushing forward.

Tune in to learn great tips that will help you reach those goals that you have been struggling to accomplish. The girls know the secret of how to help you get there & the best part of it all is that they would love to share the secret with you.


Mar 30, 202349:41
SOME Behaviors Are Just NOT That Deep

SOME Behaviors Are Just NOT That Deep

Self-stimulating behaviors, we all have them! Yup you heard that right. This week the girls go into an in-depth conversation about controversial behaviors & you will be surprised to hear that you may just have your own self-stimulating or self-soothing behaviors as well. Tune into this unique episode; you may just walk away with an aha moment.

Mar 23, 202356:59