Some Random Thoughts
By Ryan Mulkowsky
Some Random ThoughtsApr 02, 2024
The Correlation of Meaning & Melody with Scott Okamoto
In this episode, we discuss Okamoto’s background growing up with a passion for listening to music and how his parents fostered this passion. He talks about his family and how music informed his life before Christianity, while he was a Christian, and now as a post-Christian. Lots of discussions on both mainstream and CCM and our musings on both genres. He discusses the power of music and how evangelical Christianity can manipulate music to make people feel that supernatural happenings are occurring but in reality are not. Okamoto reflects on how earnest he was in his Christian beliefs and becoming a worship pastor but how ultimately those beliefs collapsed and new beliefs formed. We wrap the discussion about his many endeavors, his growing creativity as a musician, writing a book, assisting in podcast production and hosting, and many other fun and engaging topics.
Bio: Scott Okamoto is a former English professor, author of Asian American Apostate: Losing Religion and Finding Myself at an Evangelical University, the creator and host of the Chapel Probation podcast, and the editor and music supervisor for Axis Mundi Media.
-Asian American Apostate: Losing Religion and Finding Myself at an Evangelical University from Lake Drive Books
-Creator of the Chapel Probation Podcast
-rscottokamoto.com
You can connect with Scott @rsokamoto on Instagram, Threads, and X (Twitter).
Where to find Ryan:
@ryanmulkowsky on most social media platforms and at www.ryanmulkowsky.com
Select episodes of the podcast are available in video form on YouTube.com/ryanmulkowsky
Music Courtesy:
AlisiaBeats on Pixabay:
pixabay.com/music/future-bass-titanium-170190/
A Liberation of Sex with Meg Cowan
The Ins & Outs of Hospice with Shelley Henry
In this episode, we discuss the purpose and benefits of hospice care, changes that have occurred in hospice care over the decades, misconceptions, and similarities and differences with other levels of care. Henry continues with discussing the major stressors and barriers hospice nurses face in the field along with her background as a nurse case manager, clinical director, executive management positions, and her successful launch of her nursing staffing company. She ends with sharing her favorite stories of the impact she has made in the life of her patients and how her patients have impacted her life and work as well.
Bio: Shelley Henry, RN, CPHRM, CHPN, is a distinguished figure in the field of hospice nursing, boasting over 22 years of unparalleled expertise spanning various roles from frontline caregiver to Executive Vice President of Corporate Compliance. Renowned for her unwavering commitment to enhancing the quality of end-of-life care, Shelley stands as a beacon of advocacy and innovation within the hospice community.
Throughout her illustrious career, Shelley has demonstrated an exceptional aptitude for hospice staffing and documentation, earning her recognition as a foremost authority in these critical areas. Her profound understanding of the nuances of hospice care is reflected in her role as a keynote speaker, where she shares invaluable insights on a diverse array of hospice-related topics with audiences worldwide.
As the Owner and President of The Amity Group, Shelley leads an innovative staffing firm dedicated exclusively to serving the hospice sector. Under her visionary leadership, The Amity Group has emerged as a trailblazer in providing tailored staffing solutions that meet the unique needs of hospice organizations.
In addition to her entrepreneurial pursuits, Shelley is a prolific author, having penned two seminal works on hospice documentation. Her contributions extend beyond the written word, as she is also recognized as an innovative product developer, spearheading the creation of essential tools and resources designed to optimize hospice care delivery.
As a sought-after hospice development and design consultant, Shelley lends her expertise to organizations seeking to establish or enhance their hospice programs. Her passion for education is evident in her role as a dedicated hospice educator, where she imparts knowledge and best practices to aspiring professionals entering the field.
At the heart of Shelley's endeavors lies a profound commitment to preserving the art of hospice care. This ethos is exemplified in her creation of the groundbreaking Hospice Nurse Your Opinion Matters Survey, a pioneering initiative aimed at amplifying the voices of hospice nurses and driving positive change within the industry.
In every facet of her multifaceted career, Shelley Henry embodies the epitome of excellence, dedication, and compassion, leaving an indelible mark on the field of hospice nursing and inspiring countless individuals to uphold the highest standards of care for those nearing life's end.
You can connect with Shelley on her LinkedIn (https://www.linkedin.com/in/shelley-henry-amity-staffing) and her work at amitystaffing.com
Where to find Ryan:
@ryanmulkowsky on most social media platforms and at www.ryanmulkowsky.com
Select episodes of the podcast are available in video form on YouTube.com/ryanmulkowsky
Music Courtesy:
AlisiaBeats on Pixabay:
pixabay.com/music/future-bass-titanium-170190/
The Narratives of Grief with James Prescott
Intersectionality in Filmmaking with Chance Calloway
In this episode, we discuss Calloway’s background growing up as a preacher’s kid in a small town in Coastal Georgia while also learning to embrace his identity as a black, gay man amongst a mostly white, straight population. He then discusses his service in the military and coming out during “Don’t Ask Don’t Tell,” moving to the other side of the country, his struggles with mental health, and discovering his passion for the arts: namely musicals, plays, screenwriting, producing, and filmmaking. We end the discussion with a deep dive into Calloway’s creative process, his inspirations, what he wants to highlight in his creative work, and how all of these moments have shaped him into the person he is today.
Bio: In the face of personal, global and systemic challenges, Calloway continues to focus his efforts on advocacy and change through art. Calloway founded CSRC Storytelling for printed media in 2012 with a passion for creating and promoting stories that change how people see themselves and the world around them. A few years later he premiered Pretty Dudes, the digital series about Zario, a single man with friends all up in his romantic life.
Calloway is a firm believer not only in quality inclusion and the importance of representation in media, but also in creating quality entertainment across all platforms. As a filmmaker, Calloway focuses on telling wide-reaching visual stories that can change the way people see themselves and the world around them.
You can connect with Chance @csrcalloway on Tik Tok and Threads and his work at chancecalloway.com
Where to find Ryan:
@ryanmulkowsky on most social media platforms and at www.ryanmulkowsky.com
Select episodes of the podcast are available in video form on YouTube.com/ryanmulkowsky
Music Courtesy:
AlisiaBeats on Pixabay:
pixabay.com/music/future-bass-titanium-170190/
That One Random Episode Where I Forgot I Had A Podcast
Welcome to a long overdue episode of Some Random Thoughts. I am your host, Ryan Mulkowsky.
On this episode, I share what has been going on with me in 2023, including vocational/career shifts, personal accomplishments, the future of this podcast in 2024, and other random details.
Where to find me:
www.ryanmulkowsky.com
Social Media: @ryanmulkowsky
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Music: "Where the Light is" by lemonmusicstudio on Pixabay
Goodbye, For Now…
On Mindfulness & Meaning
Welcome to another episode of Some Random Thoughts. I am your host, Ryan Mulkowsky.
On this episode, I discuss my journey to rediscover meaning and purpose in life from leaving my faith, the importance and benefits of mindfulness, and some best practices on discovering deep-rooted meaning and purpose that sustains and thrives in the long-term.
References:
What is Mindfulness?: https://www.healthline.com/health/mind-body/what-is-mindfulness
How to Find Purpose in Life: https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/how_to_find_your_purpose_in_life
Where to find me:
www.ryanmulkowsky.com
Twitter & Instagram: @ryanmulkowsky
You can also find seasons 2 & 3 in video form at youtube.com/ryanmulkowsky
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Music: "Best Time" by FAS Sounds on Pixabay
On Sexuality & Autonomy
Welcome to another episode of Some Random Thoughts. I am your host, Ryan Mulkowsky.
On this episode, I discuss my upbringing in IFB and SBC churches and their views on sex and relationships, including the destructive philosophy of "purity culture". I also discuss the fundamental right of bodily autonomy, the importance of having a comprehensive sex education, and the need to be allies for the LGBTQ+ community, no matter what your personal beliefs are.
References:
Bodily Autonomy: https://www.unfpa.org/press/bodily-autonomy-fundamental-right
Terms That Describe Sexual Attraction, Behavior, and Orientation: https://www.healthline.com/health/different-types-of-sexuality
Improving the Lives and Rights of LGBTQ People in America: https://www.americanprogress.org/article/improving-lives-rights-lgbtq-people-america/
Where to find me:
www.ryanmulkowsky.com
Twitter & Instagram: @ryanmulkowsky
You can also find seasons 2 & 3 in video form at youtube.com/ryanmulkowsky
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On Politics & Government
Welcome to another episode of Some Random Thoughts. I am your host, Ryan Mulkowsky.
On this episode, I discuss the myth of the apolitical person, the whitewashing of history, the corruption found in modern politics, and what we can do about it to affect significant change.
Where to find me:
www.ryanmulkowsky.com
Twitter & Instagram: @ryanmulkowsky
You can also find seasons 2 & 3 in video form at youtube.com/ryanmulkowsky
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Music: "Best Time" by FAS Sounds on Pixabay
On Social Justice & Human Rights
Welcome to another episode of Some Random Thoughts. I am your host, Ryan Mulkowsky.
On this episode, I discuss the social worker movement and profession and its core values and ethical standards and principles including social justice. I also investigate the importance of social justice and look at the work of political philosopher John Rawls and his theory of justice, especially his famous thought experiment: the 'Veil of Ignorance'. Lastly, I talk about the UN Universal Declaration of Human Rights and the hope for a more equitable, just world.
References:
https://www.socialworkers.org/About/Ethics/Code-of-Ethics/Code-of-Ethics-English
https://plato.stanford.edu/entries/rawls/#OriPos
https://www.un.org/en/about-us/universal-declaration-of-human-rights
Thanks to Mandy Capehart (linktr.ee/Mandycapehart) for her comments on my last episode "On Death & Dying" and my engagement with her critique.
Where to find me:
www.ryanmulkowsky.com
Twitter & Instagram: @ryanmulkowsky
You can also find seasons 2 & 3 in video form at youtube.com/ryanmulkowsky
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Music: "Best Time" by FAS Sounds on Pixabay
On Death & Dying
Welcome to another episode of Some Random Thoughts. I am your host, Ryan Mulkowsky.
On this episode, I divert from my normal format and share from experiences in both my personal and professional life about the reality of death and the dying process and the myriad of emotions and complexities intertwined with this subject.
Where to find me:
www.ryanmulkowsky.com
Twitter & Instagram: @ryanmulkowsky
You can also find seasons 2 & 3 in video form at youtube.com/ryanmulkowsky
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On Community & Belonging
Welcome to another episode of Some Random Thoughts. I am your host, Ryan Mulkowsky.
On this episode, I talk about how the idea of community allows one to experience several benefits that affect the entirety of the human condition. I also look into the concept of belonging and how this concept can help one achieve growth and success in all areas of life. I also get somewhat vulnerable and share my experience with community, belonging, and the leaving and searching in different times of my life so far.
References:
https://www.happiness.com/magazine/relationships/the-importance-of-community/
https://www.cnn.com/2012/06/01/health/enayati-importance-of-belonging
Where to find me:
www.ryanmulkowsky.com
Twitter & Instagram: @ryanmulkowsky
You can also find seasons 2 & 3 in video form at youtube.com/ryanmulkowsky
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On Relationships & Vulnerability
Welcome to another episode of Some Random Thoughts. I am your host, Ryan Mulkowsky.
On this episode, I talk about the importance of building and maintaining relationships: whether that's relationships with friends, romantic partners, or others in our lives. I also talk about the awkwardness of finding friends as adults along with the key contributor to greater emotional depth which can transform our lives and the relationships around us: vulnerability.
References:
https://www.npr.org/2019/08/15/751479810/make-new-friends-and-keep-the-old
https://www.achn.net/about-access/whats-new/health-resources/how-to-build-and-maintain-healthy-relationships/
https://www.takingcharge.csh.umn.edu/daring-be-vulnerable-brene-brown
Where to find me:
www.ryanmulkowsky.com
Twitter & Instagram: @ryanmulkowsky
You can also find seasons 2 & 3 in video form at youtube.com/ryanmulkowsky
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On Humanism & Flourishing
Welcome to another episode of Some Random Thoughts. I am your host, Ryan Mulkowsky.
On this episode, I talk about how I came from a religious background; then to land on secular humanism as a philosophical belief system and some introductory values I've learned from humanism. I also discuss the idea of "languishing" and how religion can foster this feeling, and how to move into a life of flourishing and thriving outside of religion.
References:
https://americanhumanist.org/what-is-humanism/definition-of-humanism/
https://americanhumanistcenterforeducation.org/ten-commitments/
https://www.betterup.com/blog/what-is-languish-how-to-flourish
Where to find me:
www.ryanmulkowsky.com
Twitter & Instagram: @ryanmulkowsky
You can also find seasons 2 & 3 in video form at youtube.com/ryanmulkowsky
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Music: "Best Time" by FAS Sounds on Pixabay
On Philosophy & Rule of Life
Welcome to another episode of Some Random Thoughts. I am your host, Ryan Mulkowsky.
On this episode, I talk about the importance of philosophy and how it permeates all things and how it should have our full attention. I also talk about the need for all of us to form a "rule of life" to ground us and give us a foundation from which we live meaningfully and thoughtfully.
Where to find me:
www.ryanmulkowsky.com
Twitter & Instagram: @ryanmulkowsky
You can also find seasons 2 & 3 in video form at youtube.com/ryanmulkowsky
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Music: "Best Time" by FAS Sounds on Pixabay
Hello, It's Me...
Welcome to the Season 4 Premiere of "Some Random Thoughts" with Ryan Mulkowsky. On this episode, I talk about what's been going on with me since the break, why I'm getting back to my "roots" this season, and what topics to expect in season 4.
If you or someone you know is experiencing suicidal thoughts or in a mental health crisis, call or text 988.
Please leave a positive review of this podcast wherever you listen. I would greatly appreciate it!
Where to find me:
www.ryanmulkowsky.com
Twitter & Instagram: @ryanmulkowsky
You can also find Seasons 2 & 3 in video form at youtube.com/ryanmulkowsky
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Music: "Best Time" by FAS Sounds on Pixabay
The Weight of the World - Some Closing Thoughts
On this final episode of Season 3, I thank each of my guests by name and discuss what was most meaningful in my conversations with them, I talk about the continued growth in listenership and support thanks to you, and I give an encouraging word about how hard it's been and how we can cling onto hope.
A Special Thanks To My Season 3 Guests:
- Robbie Hurlocker
- Em Torres
- Janice Selbie
- Erin Green
- Brady Hardin
- Dr. Katie Blake
- Mandy Capehart
- Laura Isabel Perez-Cernuda
- Jazz Robertson
Where to find me:
Website: www.ryanmulkowsky.com
Facebook: /ryanmulkowskyofficial
Twitter & Instagram: @ryanmulkowsky
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The Beneficial Results of Knowing Thyself with Jazz Robertson
Hello, and welcome to another episode of Some Random Thoughts. I am your host Ryan Mulkowsky.
On this episode, I have with me my special guest,
Jazz Robertson
Jazz is an LA-based musician, podcaster, and project manager.
Hailing from various hubs on the east coast, this fan of good weather and Mexican food enjoys contemplating the strange, going on adventures, and spending way too much time on Twitter.
In this episode, we discuss Jazz’s background on how religion formed her life, her passion for drumming and music, her unique insights on society and culture, and how to lean into being fully human.
Thank you for listening and enjoy.
Where to find Jazz:
Sites
https://www.multiplesourcespod.com/
Socials
Twitter: @JazzRobertson
Instagram: @thejazzrobertson
The Pursuit of Happiness with Laura Isabel Perez-Cernuda
Hello, and welcome to another episode of Some Random Thoughts. I am your host Ryan Mulkowsky.
On this episode, I have with me my special guest,
Laura Isabel Perez-Cernuda
From loss of loved ones to being almost homeless more than once, Laura Isabel is living proof that you create your own happiness. Always willing to lend an ear and even help pave the way for others to also find that happiness within, she radiates joy to all those that surround her.
A Certified Life and Happiness Coach, Laura Isabel has empowered thousands to continue taking that next step, no matter how small or difficult it may seem, towards that internal sunshine. She has helped many find and change those triggers and patterns that have held them down for so long.
Originally from Miami, Florida, Laura now lives in Cadiz, Spain with her partner and her 10 year old pup Joy. Her favorite things include nature adventures and cooking/eating really yummy meals... Although she leaves the meat barbecuing to her partner.
In this episode, we talk about her background as a former coach and now as a specialist who assists other coaches in building their platforms to reach those in need of support. We talk about her losses, her gains, and how she has maintained a sense of hope and built up resilience and strength along the path towards greater happiness.
Thank you for listening and enjoy.
Where to Find Laura Isabel:
Instagram: @lauraisabelbu
The Path toward Meaning through Grief & Loss with Mandy Capehart
Hello, and welcome to another episode of Some Random Thoughts. I am your host Ryan Mulkowsky.
On this episode, I have with me my special guest,
Mandy Capehart
Mandy is an author, speaker, and certified grief and life coach in the Pacific Northwest. She is the founder of The Restorative Grief Project, an online community of grievers and grief supporters looking for movement while they heal. Her own experience with grief left her searching for resources while offering empathetic, long-term support without minimizing the pain of the moment. When she found nothing, she created it for herself and for you.
Her first book is titled, “Restorative Grief: Embracing our losses without losing ourselves” released in 2021. This is a memoir and 31 day guidebook for managing grief and growth in the aftermath of loss, no matter how long it lasts.
You can hear more about her grief work on her podcast, Restorative Grief with Mandy Capehart. She also co-hosts The Uncomfortable Grace Podcast, where space is held for growth amid the messy middle-parts of life.
Mandy is a storyteller through and through, always in pursuit of adventure, grace, and opportunities to express gratitude. No matter the medium, her work revolves around learning how to honor our process of becoming. She currently lives in Southern Oregon with her husband, daughter, border collie rescue pup, and way too many houseplants.
Together, we discuss grief and loss. We explore Mandy’s background with her own losses and how she moved through those difficult, painful, messy parts of her life and into a space where she was able to find meaning, hope, and peace and to bring those things to others who are grieving. We talk about myths, misconceptions, and problematic platitudes to avoid when providing support to grievers, and we discuss what it’s like to be grief professionals.
Thank you for listening and enjoy.
Where to find Mandy:
Facebook: /mandy.capehart
Twitter: @MandyCapehart
Instagram: @mandycapehart
Website: mandycapehart.com
The Psychology of Deconstruction with Dr. Katie Blake
Hello, and welcome to another episode of Some Random Thoughts. I am your host Ryan Mulkowsky.
On this episode, I have with me my special guest,
Dr. Katie Blake
Dr. Katie is a social psychologist and educator whose primary work is helping women navigate the experience of deconstruction, belief change and spiritual exile.
She earned her PhD in Social Psychology and has 15 years of experience teaching in colleges & universities. She has been teaching online courses and creating online spaces for 12 years. She hosts an online community called The Collective for women who are deconstructing religious & cultural programming.
Dr. Katie is also a 500-hour Masters-level yoga instructor and has taught yoga and meditation for 7 years. She is a novice roller-skater and lives in the Texas desert with her husband.
In this episode, we discuss the psychological affects of deconstruction and aspects found in fundamentalist, toxic forms of religion such as patriarchy, supremacy, and other systems of oppression such as racism, sexism, ableism, classism, ageism and heterosexism. We talk about how to dismantle toxic beliefs and integrate new, healthy beliefs in your life.
Thank you for listening and enjoy.
Where to find Dr. Katie:
Facebook, Twitter, & Instagram: @drkatieblake
Website: drkatieblake.com
The Power of Story in Humanism with Brady Hardin
Hello, and welcome to another episode of Some Random Thoughts. I am your host Ryan Mulkowsky.
On this episode, I have with me my special guest,
Brady Hardin
Brady is the host of The Life After Podcast, which focuses on deconstructing beliefs, discovering who you are, and reimagining the future after Christian Fundamentalism. His focus is on secular humanism after being in the Christian ministry.
Together, we discussed Brady’s background as a former Christian minister who deconverted out of Christianity and into secular humanism. We also talk about their journey of living fully into their queer identity and co-parenting. We talk about issues with progressive Christianity, especially Brady’s experiences with progressive Christian clergy who seek to minimize or dismiss completely queer perspectives of non-Christians. We talk about the power of storytelling and how this tool can be used to help those who are deconstructing and also form meaningful, secular communities.
Thank you for listening and enjoy.
Where to find Brady:
Facebook: /thelifeafterorg
Twitter: @bradyhardin, @thelifeafterorg
Instagram: @bradyhardin, @thelifeafterorg
Websites: www.thelifeafter.org
The Validity of LGBTQ+ Identity in Christianity with Erin Green
Hello, and welcome to another episode of Some Random Thoughts. I am your host Ryan Mulkowsky.
On this episode, I have with me my special guest,
Erin Green
Erin (She/They) is the new Campus and Alumni Organizer for the Religious Exemption Accountability Project (REAP). They are an affirming biblical scholar and LGBTQ+ activist. Erin has a Bachelor of Arts in Biblical Studies from Azusa Pacific University and an M.Div. from San Francisco Theological Seminary. Their specialties are in the entire Christian biblical corpus with an emphasis on the Hebrew Bible, the ancient Near East, exegesis, and how to employ various hermeneutical methods. Erin's passion is helping those excluded by the church to heal from spiritual abuse and trauma by navigating the biblical text in restorative ways.
Erin is best known for their work in supporting LGBTQ+ students on conservative, Christian university campuses and in religious spaces.
Together, we discussed queer identity and Christianity and Erin’s journey into affirming their fullest self and finding meaning and purpose in the Christian tradition. Along with the work they do to advocate for LGBTQ+ rights in the church and on college campuses, especially faith-based campuses with a history of LGBTQ+ discrimination.
Thank you for listening and enjoy.
Where to find Erin:
Twitter: @ErinGreenbean
Instagram: @_runningerins_
Websites: www.eringreen.com
Check out the Religious Exemption Accountability Project (REAP) at www.thereap.org
The Hope for Healing After Religious Trauma with Janice Selbie
Hello, and welcome to another episode of Some Random Thoughts. I am your host Ryan Mulkowsky.
On this episode, I have with me my special guest:
Janice Selbie
Janice is a Registered Professional Counselor and religious recovery consultant. Janice was born and raised in a charismatic Christian home, attending Pentecostal, Vineyard, and other Evangelical churches before eventually marrying a man who would become a pastor. In her 30s she became ultraconservative, donning a head-covering, homeschooling their children, and rejecting any vestiges of secular life. It wasn’t until her 40s that she began experiencing doubts about her deeply held faith. As her marriage unraveled, her questions grew. She found herself wondering about the impact of religion on sexuality, gender roles and equality, social justice, and more. After ending her decades-long marriage, Janice went back to school to attain her Diploma of Applied Psychology and Counseling. She is the founder of Divorcing Religion & creator of the Divorcing Religion workshop, along with creating the annual Conference on Religious Trauma and the Shameless Sexuality conference.
Thank you for listening and enjoy.
Where to find Janice:
Facebook: /janice.selbie
Twitter: @Wise_counsellor, @divorcereligion, @ComeToCORT, @ShamelessConf1
Instagram: @wisecounsellor
Websites: www.divorcing-religion.com, www.religioustraumaconference.org, www.shamelesssexuality.org
You can receive $20 off your ticket for the Conference on Religious Trauma (CORT) by using the promo code “Podcast20”.
If you purchase an “All Access” ticket to both the Conference on Religious Trauma (CORT) and the Shameless Sexuality conference you can receive a $50 discount with your combined purchase.
CEUs are available for mental health professionals at both of these conferences along with student discounts and a limited number of scholarships.
For more information and to register, check out www.religioustraumaconference.org & www.shamelesssexuality.org for details.
The Confessions of an Ex-Church Staffer with Em Torres
Hello, and welcome to another episode of Some Random Thoughts. I am your host Ryan Mulkowsky.
On this episode, I have with me my special guest,
Em Torres
Em is a blogger and podcaster talking about faith deconstruction and topics that affect people who left religious spaces. Currently she uses her blog, social media, and podcast called “The Life She Wrote” to speak out about the harm caused by American white evangelical Christianity. Topics she discusses include purity culture, anti-LGBTQIA+ theology, clergy abuse, religious trauma, white supremacy, and Christian Nationalism. Before her deconversion, Em spent 35 years inside Pentecostal and evangelical Christianity in various churches as a member, volunteer, and church staffer.
Together, we discuss what it was like to be ex-church staffers and life outside of ministry. We get ranty at times, but we also discuss the historical and current concerns found in white evangelical Christian expressions of faith including indoctrination, emotional manipulation, exploitation, othering, abuse, racism, and exclusion.
Thank you for listening and enjoy.
Where to find Em:
Facebook: /thelifeshewrote
Twitter: @life_she_wrote
Instagram: @thelifeshewrote
Websites: thelifeshewrote.com
The Beauty of Spirituality Outside of Religion with Robbie Hurlocker
Hello, and welcome to another episode of Some Random Thoughts. I am your host Ryan Mulkowsky.
On this episode, I have with me my special guest, Robbie Hurlocker.
Robbie is a self-professed confused agnostic, anti-capitalism leftist, Christian, mystic, cis man, biromantic gray ace, fantasy fan, edge dancer, enneagram 2w1, INFJ, Ravenclaw, anti-theobro lay theologian, dad, tap dancer, occasional poet, collector of labels.
Together, we discuss the importance of discovering the nuances of spirituality in our personal lives and amongst each other in society and culture. We talk about what spirituality can mean outside of religion and how it does not need to be confined to a supernatural, transcendent framework; though it can for many people. Robbie provides unique and timely insights on how spirituality transforms us and should make us better people, not bitter people.
Thank you for listening and enjoy.
Where to find Robbie:
Twitter: @alphaknight
Instagram: @robhurlocker
Website: simplicitychurchokc.org
Link to Article Used in Discussion:
https://www.abc.net.au/radionational/programs/earshot/the-accidental-atheist/6850798
To Learn More About Sunday Assembly:
sundayassembly.online
Revisiting Grief & Loss w/ Jan Owen
Revisiting Trauma & Resilience w/ Danielle Southwick
Revisiting Soul & Body w/ @ExistentialIzzy
Revisiting Social Media & Well-Being w/ Elisabeth Bojang
Revisiting Racism & Whiteness w/ Brittany Bruton
Revisiting Cancel Culture & Exchange of Ideas w/ Teel Short
Revisiting Self-Reliance & Non-Conformity w/ Cameron Bishop
Revisiting Perception & Reality w/ Cortland Coffey
Revisiting Spirituality & Deconstruction w/ Meghan Crozier
A Re-Introduction
Where to Find Me:
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Twitter: @ryanmulkowsky
Instagram: @ryanmulkowsky
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On Grief & Loss
On Trauma & Resilience
On Soul & Body
On Social Media & Well-Being
On Racism & Whiteness
On Cancel Culture & Exchange of Ideas
On Self-Reliance & Non-Conformity
On Perception & Reality
On Spirituality & Deconstruction