Sorry For Asking with Adam Ramzi and Cole Connor

In the final episode of season 1, Cole and Adam share their wisdom, insights, and experiences with the body dysmorphia that often plagues performers in the gay adult industry, as well as the gay community at large. 

For the penultimate episode of season 1, Adam and Cole welcome actor and comedian Drew Droege to discuss a wide range of Hollywood’s film and television offerings that depict the evolving gay experience, sexual and otherwise. 

Our Thanksgiving Episode!  Adam and Cole discuss a delicious buffet of topics, including queer party culture, double penetration, Adam’s recent travels and Cole’s upcoming directorial enterprise, and link them all back to the spirit of giving (and receiving). 

Adam and Cole welcome porn performer and Falcon Exclusive Andre Donovan, who shares the evolution of his sexual tastes and performer journey over eight years in the industry, and discusses his perspective on the importance of diversity, representation, and visibility for POC performers in gay porn and beyond. 

You know what doesn’t get talked about enough? Gay butt sex! The boys have an in-depth conversation about the ins and outs and the joys and woes of anal intercourse, on and off camera. Sorry in advance, Mom.

This week the boys nab an exclusive interview with James Larusso, formerly known as gay porn star Tommy Defendi, who shares the extreme highs and deep lows of his very unique journey as a ‘heteroflexible’ performer, which started at the age of 18. 

Adam and Cole dive deep into the psychology, anatomy , and occasional help from science that it takes to keep their equipment stiff and ready in order to ensure a smooth day at work. 

This week, the boys welcome the LA nightlife guru, who shares his experience bringing sex positivity and a sense of humor to his very unique parties, which feature vintage porn, sexy gogo boys, and a safe space for LGBTQ folks to get their freak on.

Cole and Adam welcome prolific porn personality, Joel Someone, to share his experiences as the self-proclaimed ‘Maggie Gyllenhaal of gay porn,’ from working with every independent run studio to winning this year’s GayVN award for Best Bisexual performer. 

Cole and Adam catch up on recent events, including their respective travels and breakups, and the traumatic incident that required surgery for Cole.  They also examine what it’s like to date while being part of the adult industry. 

Adam and Cole are joined by Raging Stallion exclusive performer Drew Valentino, who answers questions about performing, his beginnings in the industry, and, of course, his propensity for pits.

Adam and Cole discuss health issues relevant to performers, including the arduous testing processes for monkeypox, Covid, and STIs, that can be prohibitive to a productive filming schedule. They also recount the tricky landscape of porn star Twitter drama, and deconstruct the mono-normative relationship structures that are particularly difficult to function when partaking in the world of adult content.

Adam and Cole welcome podcast extraordinaire, H Alan Scott, as their first guest to discuss and compare notes on the porn that shaped them in their formative years. 

Adam and Cole revisit the monkeypox issue and underline the importance of sexual health as performers.  They also discuss the funny politics of unsolicited nudes and share insight on the ever involving and often frustrating process of setting up content collaborations. 

Our first Podcast!  What are we doing here?  Adam and Cole discuss why we decided to start a podcast and what kind of things you can expect to hear on our forum.