Sorry I Offended You with Brandon Marshall Havener

This is what you need to consider before hiring your husband to work in your coaching business or any online business.

What does the Andrew Tate vs Greta Thunberg beef mean about us?

The coaching industry certainly has it's issues. I would be lying if I said I didn't feel and extremely familiar feeling back when I watched The Tinder Swinder.   Over the years life coaches, influencers, money / business coaches and of course MLMs  have gotten a bad rap.   

 Oh... and I'd also be lying if I said I never witnessed seeing women behind the scenes having the financial boundaries violated. Sometimes making multiple 6 figures a year with nothing to show for it in her bank account... and often the culprit is over- investing in high level masterminds... sometimes multiple masterminds.   

However.. coaching is also a beautiful thing and it has changed my life. I would not be the man I am today if it wasn't for coaching, internet marketing, self help etc. I drastically improved all areas of my life since the age of 19 because of the incredible information and transformation that is available to all of us.   

 Dating, Relationships, Fitness, Mindset and Finances are all skills I've been able to learn to live a better life.   

 But the get rich quick schemes just don't work...  my journey was hard at times.  It required mastery in all these areas... or being on the path of mastery in some of these areas.    

There are plenty of coaches that market and breed entitlement within their clients...  thinking being financially free are a few affirmations away. Like it doesn't take mastery and some massive breakthroughs that can feel extremely uncomfortable.    

As I write this... after years and years of the coaching industry being at odds it seems that frustration and anger has come to an all time high.    Cancel Culture has been prevalent in the new age / coaching space for quite some time now.    

Obviously things must be revealed in order to heal... discussions need to be had.  There certainly are unethical people out there that are hurting people financially and psychologically.    AND there is a ton of unchecked anger with no conscious being thrown at innocent bystanders as well.  

In fact for every coach that there is valid criticism for.. there are like 20 coaches who get bullied for minor infractions or absolutely no reason at all.    So even if there is a valid problem that needs to be addressed.... is cancel culture actually making this situation better or a lot worse?    If there are new age and coach cults...  has anti coaching also become a cult?    

Love And Light Confessionals did not let a tragedy go to waste and saw a great opportunity to boost her personal brand and audience.   Unfortunately a mass shooting happened last week at Club Q in Colorado Springs.  

 Unsurprisingly a member of the anti-coaching HR Department Love and Light Confessionals responded in less than 24 hours putting the blame on life coaches, womb healers, metabolic experts and polarity coaches claiming that they all have homophobic and transphobic rhetoric which caused mass murder.    

This is because blaming coaches for absolutely everything isn't about morality.  It is about envy and projection...  and it has now spiraled so far out of control that horrible events are being blamed on business owners because they will not bend to the will of the anti-coaching HR Department.    

more from Brandon Marshall Havener ...  

Did you know when a woman talks about...  

Being a Goddess  

Being in her divine feminine  energy   

Being a spiritual woman   

Taking bubble baths...   

Letting her husband drive her to date night  

 Getting her nails done  And having children...    

Is actually what Hitler himself wanted?   

Women... what if breast feeding is just alt right propaganda that is leading us into fascism?     

On this episode of Sorry I Offended You we touch on these hard topics that are leading women through the divine feminine to alt right conspiracy theorist pipeline.

Taylor Swift is the latest in the crosshairs of the ultra woke and cancel culture because in her new music video Anti-Hero she stepped on a scale and the scale said fat.    

Of course a small portion of the Swifties had their complaints... well I have something to say about this nonsense too.    I only hope that Taylor Swift DOES NOT APOLOGIZE!    

In this episode of "Sorry I Offended You" I take a look at a video a teacher decided to post because she is having an internal battle with telling her students that's she's poly.

What boyfriend should she tell them about?

If she doesn't tell them about both boyfriends will one feel left out?

What if they think she's "cheating"?

This past week Kanye West went on Tucker Carlson's show and said that if Lizzo lost 10 pounds they would cancel her.  

We have seen this before when people got angry at Adele for losing weight.  

 Is there an agenda behind Lizzo's platform to make us fat, delirious and unhealthy?   

 Her die hard fans are the most annoying one's.. you will go on the internet and they are in complete denial about the ability to control our own health and they have a complete lack of knowledge of what health is.   

They are so delirious that they will even say that the obesity rate today has ALWAYS been this way.. which is simply not true.    Also in this episode:  I cover Greg Doucette's video on Lizzo,  Lizzo's instacart menu and the tragic tail of Nikocado Avocado who went from suffering on the vegan diet to suffering keeping up his mukbang online persona that made him rich.    

Whenever I see a post mentioning "real men" there are people who get upset at the audacity to define what a "real man" is.

But I think this is the foundation of the struggle that women have if they can't find a good man and the issues men have when it comes to having a healthy relationship with their masculinity.

If you get the least bit offended when it comes to "real men" how can you possibly BE or Attract a real man?

No we don't fit in boxes and we don't all act the same

AND..

Masculinity is certain and defined.  If you think that masculinity is fluid and it's absolutely everything then it's also absolutely nothing.

While there are plenty of wounded men in the world...

The mainstream narrative takes actual masculinity and defines it as "toxic masculinity"

Then tries to re-define masculinity by trying to make it fluid and embodying all the traits as feminine energy.

Then they get mad when these "healed men" that are only accepted through either a distorted lens or a feminine lens...

...  can't step up and be protectors.

Why are the self titled trauma informed coaches that apparently have "safe spaces" the most trauma inducing?
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Positioning yourself as the holier than thou wokest leader of them all has it's consequences:

Most people doing this are putting themselves in the rescuer position.

You will either...

1. Attract victims who will hand over the bulk of their personal responsibility and if you do not comply to the victim they will smear you as an abuser.

2. Create an unrealistic standard for yourself which is beyond any regular human. The judgment you have for other experts being "toxic" will one day come back like a boomerang on your ass.  You're a human just like the people you judge and you are not exempt from being dethroned from the high-horse you place yourself on.

Yes there are people doing bad shit.. there always will be.

In this episode of Sorry I Offended You with Brandon Marshall Havener ...

* Air BNB f*ckery… the crazy behavior behind super hosts and white people touching thermostats

* Air BNB superhosts are filled with WHITE RAGE

* Can white people can’t be victims of racism?

* Stop pacifying little b*tches in your online business

* Mushroom Musings... "Put The Gun Down"  how mushrooms have healed my nervous system and the cool experiences I've had so far... 

The truth is that sometimes vulnerability can be a strength but other times it actually weakens your personal brand and the trust people have for you.

In this episode you will learn how to market in a way where your vulnerability is seen as a strength rather than a weakness. It's also great for dating and relationships advice.  

Nobody likes a swindler coach... 

... but there is also a reason why the constant complaining about the coaching industry annoys me... (and is very destructive to all parties that involve themselves in this behavior)  

 I break down the ways that coaches do manipulate their clients and put them in compromising situations.  

 I also bring it full circle and point out the deadly cycle of centering your marketing around raging against the coaching industry.   

 I always get a little bit of push back when I poke fun at the Anti Coaches... and here is exactly why I do it. Even though I also share the pain I went through from past coaching and abandoning my own financial boundaries.    

Today Brandon Marshall Havener rambles about the collapse of society, marriage traditions, oikophobia, xenophobia and man other phobias. What traditions need to go? What traditions are providing us with value even to this day? It's not so simple to throw away all tradition... but it's also important to evolve and progress.  

Join Brandon Marshall Havener ( The Spiritual SmartAss ) on this rant after a long hiatus...  oh and also updates on changes that have been made on this podcast that aren't too big but also worth noting.