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Spiritual Grit

Spiritual Grit

By Leslieann Hobayan

Welcome to Spiritual Grit, the podcast where we talk real-talk about spirituality through the lens of activism and social justice. What happens when activism and spiritual practices collide? What sparks of change call for the grit we need to create meaningful strides in social justice. I'm your host, Leslieann Hobayan, poet, priestess, activist, professor, hip hop dancer, and bad-ass mama. Join me as we dive in to learn more about our deepest selves so that we can be better ancestors to create a stellar world for our descendants. Grab your dancing shoes and let's get groovy with the grit!
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Ep 216 - Caring for yourself as an activist
Apr 24, 202426:58
Ep 215 - Expressing yourself opens a valve
Apr 17, 202433:11
Ep 214 - Working with shadows and eclipses

Ep 214 - Working with shadows and eclipses

In case y'all didn't know, eclipses are portals of transformation. Everything you hide in your shadows comes to the surface. So for those of you who watched the solar eclipse, how do you feel?

In this week's episode, I'm posing some questions for deep inquiry. From looking at what stories we are addicted to about ourselves to examining the relationships of our lives, asking if they are worth nurturing or if they are draining us. Break out your journals when you listen to this one! It's time for a deep dive. 



Apr 10, 202431:41
Ep 213 - Honesty Rooted in Love

Ep 213 - Honesty Rooted in Love

We're living in a time where our masks can no longer hold. Curtains are being pulled back. Veils are being torn down. There's no more hiding from yourself or from the truth of yourself. Everyone is showing themselves, whether they intended that or not. Pales-tine is helping us see that. So how do we deal with the loss and ensuing grief of the lives we used to know? The ones in which we had so many friends who understood us and now are no longer aligned because they continue to insist on holding on to how things used to be when really, that's not possible. Not in the face of gen0cide. Tune in to this week's episode to find out how to move on in life without the people you thought would always be there.


Apr 03, 202431:09
Ep 212 - Your life's purpose is not about you
Mar 27, 202425:26
Ep 211 - When two diasporic women have a conversation... with Sofia Ali-Khan

Ep 211 - When two diasporic women have a conversation... with Sofia Ali-Khan

In this week's episode, I'm in conversation with Sophia Ali Khan, activist, public interest lawyer, and Canadian-based author of *A Good Country: My Life in Twelve Town and the Devastating Battle for a White America*.


We talked about a wide range of things, playing with the intersection of activism and spiritualit: from the current genocide (do we take the first flight out to Rafah?) to resonance with our ancestral homeland (what is embedded in our DNA that signals we are home?); from balancing being a mom with activism (how does one guide one’s children through the practices of fasting during Ramadan?) to what true spirituality and faith look like. (Hint: It's not all white flowing robes and kumbaya).


Come along with us on this meandering road of understanding what our role might be in this life as a human during this particular moment in time.


Listen in today!


About Sofia Ali-Khan:

Sofia Ali-Khan is an anti-racist storyteller, author, and public interest lawyer. Her book, A Good Country: My Life in Twelve Towns and the Devastating Battle for a White America was published by Random House in 2022 and won the 2023 Nautilus Gold Book Award for Social Justice. Writing at the intersection of politics, race, history, and Muslim America, her essays have appeared in the Los Angeles Times, TIME Magazine, the Chicago Tribune, and other publications, earning her a Pushcart Prize nomination in 2022. She has appeared as a featured storyteller on The Moth's Mainstage in Boston and Philadelphia and at the Manhattan Public Theater. Sofia lives in Ontario, Canada with her husband, kids and cat, and is presently at work on her first novel with the generous support of the Canada Council for the Arts.


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Today’s poems/ Books mentioned:

  • Oracle card: The Queen of Swords

  • Poem: “Please Stop” by Sophia Ali Khan

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 Courses / Exclusive Content / Book Mentioned:

Sophia Ali Khan


Mar 20, 202401:01:17
Ep 210 - Best of Spiritual Grit - 4 Stages to Strengthen Resilience and to Speak your Truth
Mar 13, 202427:43
Ep 209 - Duality and Non-duality in Activism

Ep 209 - Duality and Non-duality in Activism

Uh, say what? What the heck is duality and non-duality? It’s a spiritual philosophy and teaching, one of which I’m still trying to unpack (and will likely be doing for the rest of my life!). But I wanted to pose this question of duality vs non-duality in activism: how do we understand these concepts and how do we apply them to real world situations like gen0-side? Is it useful to do so? Or is it akin to spiritual bypassing? Depends on who you are and how you use it.


I’m going to tell you now: this is like pre-school level, super-basic knowledge I have of these concepts, so I don’t know what I’m doing or what I’m talking about, BUT I am curious enough to ask the questions and explore. Listen in to find out possibilities to this question of duality and non-duality in activism. (I mean, that’s the point of this show, right? The intersection of spirituality and activism. That’s what I say in the intro, right? So let’s dive in!)


Uh, say what? What the heck is duality and non-duality? It’s a spiritual philosophy and teaching, one of which I’m still trying to unpack (and will likely be doing for the rest of my life!). But I wanted to pose this question of duality vs non-duality in activism: how do we understand these concepts and how do we apply them to real world situations like gen0-side? Is it useful to do so? Or is it akin to spiritual bypassing? Depends on who you are and how you use it.

I’m going to tell you now: this is like pre-school level, super-basic knowledge I have of these concepts, so I really don’t know what I’m doing or what I’m talking about, BUT I am curious enough to ask the questions and explore. Listen in to find out possibilities to this question of duality and non-duality in activism. (I mean, that’s the point of this show, right? The intersection of spirituality and activism. That’s what I say in the intro, right? So let’s dive in!)


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Today’s poems/ Books mentioned:

  • Oracle card: Five of Pentacles

  • Poem: “The Fish and I will Chat” by Hafiz

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 Courses / Exclusive Content / Book Mentioned:

Mar 06, 202433:12
Ep 208 - “Both/And”: You Can Be An Activist in Your Everyday Life
Feb 28, 202438:07
Ep 206 - External activist work = internal spiritual healing work

Ep 206 - External activist work = internal spiritual healing work

We've been living in divisive times for a while now. But now it's all coming to a head. 

How do we balance our activist work with our inner spiritual work? We've gotten to a point where they are no longer separate. They are inextricable. One feeds and nourishes the other. And vice versa. In order for us to be effective in our activist work, we need to be right within ourselves. We need to feel aligned within. In order for us to heal and release the limiting beliefs that are obscuring are deep inner truth, our Sat Nam, we need to take action to liberate the oppressed.

Palestine is showing us who we really are. All the veils are being torn down. All of the masks have dropped. If we fail to take action, we are not doing the necessary work for our spiritual evolution. Change is inevitable whether we like it or not, whether we're ready for it or not.

And this week's episode, I talk about why it's crucial for us to stand with Palestine.


Feb 14, 202424:17
Ep 205 - Holding the Vision and Birthing a New Earth

Ep 205 - Holding the Vision and Birthing a New Earth

When it feels like the world is on fire and structures are crumbling down (which is, like, all the time!), we must find it within ourselves to keep going. We must dig down to find the resolve within us to keep working towards our vision, whether that is your own personal dreams or a vision for a better world, full of peace and justice.


In this episode, I talk about how we can view challenges as invitations and opportunities for growth rather than roadblocks to give up. Hold fast to your vision! A new earth is being born.



Feb 07, 202431:52
Ep 204 - Let Love Lead Your Voice
Jan 31, 202425:21
Ep 203 - Calling in your community
Jan 24, 202433:03
Ep 202 - The Great Shedding: A Consequence of Standing In Your Truth
Jan 17, 202432:26
Ep 201 - Rest and Reset: Letting Go of Limiting Beliefs

Ep 201 - Rest and Reset: Letting Go of Limiting Beliefs

This year is about spiritual and material abundance! But if you’ve got limiting beliefs that keep you small, it’s kinda hard to receive that abundance. In this week’s episode, I talk about how the subconscious can hold us back and how you can shift those beliefs. Relatedly, this year is also about rest, about creating more space for dreaming and intuitive guidance. Tune in to find out how rest can help you shift your perspective and release limiting beliefs.

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My first effort at building community for 2024 is offering online yoga nidra classes.

 

Now, you might be thinking: What's yoga nidra?

Or: That's nice.

Or: Oh, that sounds so amazing and totally what I need right now, but I can't because [insert excuse here].

 

Let me answer the first question: what is yoga nidra? Without getting too technical or esoteric, it's pretty much you lying down all comfy while listening to me guide you through a meditation journey. What's not to love about that?

 

As for the other two thoughts, let's consider this: capitalist society doesn't want you to rest. It banks (literally) on you to keep going, to keep working, to keep producing. Capitalism treats us like machines, not humans whose bodies operate in cycles of active states and rest.

 

So if you're saying “I'd love to rest but I have this giant to-do list to tackle”, then ask yourself what are you prioritizing and why? No judgement. Just an invitation to get curious about the choices you make, the patterns you find yourself in, and why they happen.

 

It's time to rest, friends. And not just the “I'm gonna take a nap" kind of rest. This is a “reset, a restoration, a softening and a letting go kind” of rest. It's an effective way to release all of the old energy of last week and get a clean slate for this coming week. Plus you'll feel ready for bed! Doesn't that sound heavenly?

 



Here's the 411:

Sundays, January 14, 21, 28, 2024

8-8:45pm ET on zoom

$20 / class


And here's where you can sign up:

https://suryagian.com/yoga-nidra




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Today’s poems/ Books mentioned:

  • Rest is Resistance by Tricia Hersey

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Jan 10, 202433:23
Ep 200 - The Vibe of 2023 and The Flavor of 2024: Our 200th Episode!

Ep 200 - The Vibe of 2023 and The Flavor of 2024: Our 200th Episode!

Can you believe it? It’s our 200th episode! What an amazing feat! One that I did not anticipate for sure! To celebrate, I pulled two tarot cards for us: one as a reflection of the 2023 vibe and one for the flavor of what 2024 will be like. I think you’ll LOVE what came forward. I know I did! Listen in as I go IN-DEPTH about how we can learn from the fire that was 2023 and take it as fuel to keep going in 2024, which has so much promise according to the cards!

And as part of the celebration, folks on my mailing list will get a free guided meditation for easeful sleep! Hooray! Not on the mailing list? Subscribe now and you’ll get the free gift too! (Valid until Jan 10th. Sign up here: https://suryagian.com/subscribe or email us at love@suryagian.com Just note that you might not get the recording until after the new year as we are closing the office 12/25/23-1/1/24 for the holidays.)



Dec 28, 202347:08
Ep 199 - When Your Truth Hurts Others
Dec 21, 202332:23
Ep 198 - Speaking Your Truth Can Be Scary
Dec 13, 202340:21
Ep 197 - 4 Stages to Strengthen Resilience and to Speak your Truth
Dec 06, 202327:43
Ep 196 - Speak Your Truth Even If Your Voice Shakes
Nov 29, 202328:07
Ep 195 - Best of Spiritual Grit - Set your boundaries, bbs!

Ep 195 - Best of Spiritual Grit - Set your boundaries, bbs!

Here's a "Best of" episode!


A lot of people talk about boundaries and having the need to set them. But what does that actually mean? And what are boundaries anyway? What do they look like and why does it feel so hard to set them and hold them?


In this episode, I get into the details of the different kinds of boundaries we can set in our lives,  the reasons why some boundaries are more porous than others, and why it is important for us to have clear and defined boundaries, particularly for us empaths and women of color. People-pleasing behavior is no accident.


Listen in to learn how the mind, body, and spirit connection is essential to boundary setting and how a resilient nervous system is the bridge to it all.

Nov 22, 202341:54
Ep 194 - Keep Going
Nov 15, 202332:41
Ep 193 - On Being Human During Times of Collective Grief with JS Park

Ep 193 - On Being Human During Times of Collective Grief with JS Park

Nov 08, 202355:47
Ep 192 - The Power of Poetry During Times of Crisis with Diamond Forde

Ep 192 - The Power of Poetry During Times of Crisis with Diamond Forde

In this week's episode, I am speaking with poet, extraordinaire, Diamond Forde.


Our conversation centers around how poetry saves us. And that is not hyperbole. How poetry brings us back to our humanness. We also talk about this now moment as we bear witness to the atrocities against P@lestin!ans. How we are being pulled to publicly grieve, something that is unfamiliar to us. How do we remember to be human to each other again? How can we provide care?


Listen in as Diamond reminds us: You don't have to hold grief on your own. Listen to be in community with us. Let us steep ourselves in poetry and hold each other in grief.


I'm inviting you to join me in Create Against Destruction, a 6-week container for women / femmes / nonbinary writers of color to come together in community and process and integrate and move through the complexities of our human experience.

 

In those 6 weeks we'll sit with fear, anxiety, grief, joy, hope, and empowerment. Sometimes separately, sometimes together, sometimes all at once. This is an invitation to gather together in support and in witness. This is a place for co-creating, co-writing, and care for each other. To build something in the face of destruction. To insist that we are here, that we exist, that we matter, and what we have to say matters. To witness and to be seen. To be held.

We start next Thursday, Nov 9th because time is of the essence. It might not feel like we're doing anything to make change when we are writing or caring for ourselves, but I contest this belief. Our individual actions, our individual energy adds and influences the collective, even if we can't see it. HOW you are BE-ing matters. It always has.


Link in bio.


About Diamond Forde:


Diamond Forde is a Black poet and the author of Mother Body (Saturnalia Books, 2021), winner of the 2019 Saturnalia Poetry Prize. The recipient of awards and fellowships from the Furious Flower Poetry Center, the College Language Association, Great River Review, Callaloo, and Tin House, she lives in Asheville, North Carolina.


Diamond Forde Website:
https://www.diamondforde.com/published-works

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/PoemsAndCake/

Nov 01, 202347:16
Ep 191 - Writing, Yoga, Activism: a conversation with Tamiko Nimura

Ep 191 - Writing, Yoga, Activism: a conversation with Tamiko Nimura

To help celebrate Filipino American History month, I've got special guest, author, Tamiko Nimura on the show! Yay!


It's easy to forget that we are spirit souls having a human experience. We get wrapped up in what our eyes see and the crazy scrawl our minds make in our heads. In this week's episode, I want to shine a light on things we don't often see or pay attention to. Today I sit down with author Tamiko Nimura to talk about the (invisible) writing process (often, readers think that we poop out perfect books! Haha), how yoga can be the bridge between the physical and emotional/spiritual experience of being a human, and what it means to be an activist (hint: it's not just marching in rallies).


Listen in on this conversation that highlights how times of intense distress can foster the creation of new, surprising things (like a spontaneous course on civil rights!) and how we can reconnect with our inner selves (hint: it's yoga - haha!).



About Tamiko Nimura:


Tamiko Nimura is an Asian American creative nonfiction writer living in Tacoma, Washington. She has degrees in English from UC Berkeley (BA) and the University of Washington, Seattle (MA, PhD). Her poems, essays and interviews have appeared in the San Francisco Chronicle, Off Assignment, Narratively, The Rumpus, Full Grown People, Heron Tree, HYPHEN, Kartika Review, and Blue Cactus Press. She has essays in the anthologies Ghosts of Seattle Past (2018) and New California Writing (Heyday 2012). At UC Berkeley, she studied creative writing with Ishmael Reed and Gary Soto. She has read at the Looseleaf Reading series (Seattle), King’s Books and Blue Cactus Press (Tacoma), and the San Francisco Public Library. She is a 2016 Artists Up grant recipient and a 2019 GAP Award recipient.


She has been awarded a Tacoma Arts Commission Tacoma Artists Initiative Project grant (2021-22) for her memoir-in-progress, A PLACE FOR WHAT WE LOSE. She was also awarded an AMOCAT Community Engagement Award for her artistic and community work in 2022.


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Today’s poems/ Books / Oracle / Tarot Cards mentioned:

  • Oracle Card: Earthed

  • Poem: “A Litany First Revival” by Audrey Allard

 

Courses / Exclusive Content / Book Mentioned:


Oct 25, 202359:44
Ep 190 - Transmuting Pain into Possibility: Releasing Pressure, Nourishing Ourselves, and Creating Connection

Ep 190 - Transmuting Pain into Possibility: Releasing Pressure, Nourishing Ourselves, and Creating Connection

During these times of intense conflict and suffering, what are you doing to release the pressure that is building within you? Our bodies know what is happening before our minds can even register it. Add in all the external messaging that tells us what we should do instead of inviting us to explore options that feel good for us-- and you've got a formula for creating even more pain and conflict.


What are some ways that we can release the pressure that is building within us? How can we understand that nourishing and caring for ourselves creates an energy for others to do the same? How can we express and release the anger, frustration, trauma, and grief that is living within all of us right now? How can we do it in ways that create rather than destroy?


When we can express what is within us in ways that feel safe and allow for us to be seen and heard, we can transmute those heavier, lower frequencies into something that can uplift and carry a promise of life and possibility. Listen in on how you can do this and how you can open your heart even wider.


Oct 18, 202334:01
Ep 189 - FIlipino Spectacle and Hauntings With Dr. Allan Punzalan Issac
Oct 11, 202351:11
Ep 188 - What immigrant parents can teach us

Ep 188 - What immigrant parents can teach us

As a daughter of immigrants, I am continually learning how to interact with my parents in ways that are healthy, which contributes to my inevitable evolution. A recent conversation with my mom raised this question for me: How can we care for ourselves while we continue to break the toxic patterns of generational trauma? What kinds of practices can we engage in so that we can heal and remain whole while still maintaining a relationship with those who possess old thinking?


We all know that change is inevitable. What we forget is that we have the power of choice. Maybe we can't choose the experience that we find ourselves in, but we can choose how we respond and interact with that experience. Yes, there are struggles and hardships we all experience in this life. The difference is in how we handle them. In this episode, I talk about the importance of practice. Practicing connection with our inner selves. Practicing resilience and self-awareness.  Listen in to learn more!

Oct 04, 202335:13
Ep 187 - Control is an Illusion
Sep 27, 202340:41
Ep 186 - What if your life's purpose isn't to save the world?

Ep 186 - What if your life's purpose isn't to save the world?

What if I told you your life's purpose doesn't have to be the "be all and end all" of your life? What if your life's purpose was as simple as being You? That making cupcakes because you felt like it was your purpose?


That loving and caring for your dog was your purpose? Western culture has emphasized individuality and pushes us to pursue our life's purpose in the name of that individuality, which is seen as separate from the community, from the collective. But it doesn't stop there. It tells you that you need to "go big or go home". That, once you find your life's purpose, you need to make a huge impact and change the world all by yourself.


No wonder people are burned out.


"It takes a village" isn't a phrase for nothing. Listen in on this episode where I challenge the idea of making your life's purpose your career and how that's putting way too much pressure on your nervous system. Can we have a "regular" job AND live our life's purpose? I think we can!


Tarot card: Six of Cups (reversed)

Poem: "Vestige" by Michelle Penaloza

Sep 20, 202333:42
Ep 185 - Honor What Works for You While Also Honoring Others
Sep 13, 202340:04
Ep 184 - What Is Your Body Telling You?
Sep 06, 202332:51
Ep 183 - Best of Spiritual Grit - Creating Connections with Intention

Ep 183 - Best of Spiritual Grit - Creating Connections with Intention

Humans are a communal species. I have said this before, yes. In this episode, I first invite you to take some time to rest and restore, to create mini vacations for yourself in your daily life. But know that there is a difference between a restorative retreat and tipping over into isolation. Balance is key.


I also talk about being intentional with whom we connect. Who drains us? Who nourishes us? Do we spend time with people in meaningful conversations? Or is it just small talk? And what about connections in the digital spaces (in particular, social media)? How are they affecting our energetic fields?


Listen in as I share about being deliberate with the communities that we create.




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Today’s poems/ Books / Oracle / Tarot Cards mentioned:

Oracle Card: You Are Not Alone

Poem: "On Beauty" by Adeeba Shahid Talukder


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Aug 30, 202334:47
Ep 182 - A Mother's Transitions in Life & Grief

Ep 182 - A Mother's Transitions in Life & Grief

Today's modern world has disconnected us from our relationship with the natural cycles and seasons of life and our relationship with the earth. We have forgotten our rites of passage and our rituals for change. As a result, we experience some life changes with unnecessary pain. As a midlife woman, I find that rituals help to ground and contextualize the inevitable changes that happen with growth and evolution as well as aging.


In this episode, I call for an acknowledgment of the mothers who experience grief during that time when their child's childhood officially ends (which often takes the form of the child leaving for college). What does a rite of passage look like for the mother who becomes a different kind of mother? The kind who is only in her child's life part of the time rather than daily? How can we include a space for grief at this time?


Tune in for a consideration of a mother's inner journey as she launches her children's arrows into the world.


Tarot card: Ten of Cups

Poem: "Easter Sunday" by Shin Yu Pai

Aug 23, 202337:56
Ep 181 - How To Pick a Fight
Aug 16, 202345:44
Ep 180 - Best of Spiritual Grit Podcast - Set your boundaries, bbs!

Ep 180 - Best of Spiritual Grit Podcast - Set your boundaries, bbs!

Ep 180 - Best of Spiritual Grit Podcast - Set your boundaries, bbs!


A lot of people talk about boundaries and having the need to set them. But what does that actually mean? And what are boundaries anyway? What do they look like and why does it feel so hard to set them and hold them?


In this episode, I get into the details of the different kinds of boundaries we can set in our lives, the reasons why some boundaries are more porous than others, and why it is important for us to have clear and defined boundaries, particularly for us empaths and women of color. People pleasing behavior is no accident.


Listen in to learn how the mind, body, and spirit connection is essential to boundary setting and how a resilient nervous system is the bridge to it all.



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August is my month of selfless service. I'm offering complimentary 1:1 coaching packages for two people who identify as women/femmes/nonbinary folks of color for the month of August. Application is available at my Instagram bio @leslieannhobayan

Aug 09, 202341:54
Ep 179 - Dream big: What do you envision for your life?

Ep 179 - Dream big: What do you envision for your life?

It's Leo season! And so we've got the energy of confidence and fire to create the life we want to live. In this episode, I invite you to map out the vision for your life. Nobody asks us anymore where we see ourselves in three, five, and ten years. When you hit midlife, you still have 30 to 40 years of living to do. So tell me: What do you envision for the second half of your life? Where are you living? What kind of relationships do you have? Do you feel financially at ease?


Also, the Knight of Wands comes forward to remind us that arrogance can increase our blind spots. So dream big but don't get it twisted that you are in full control of making those dreams come true. Partnering with the universe is the way to go!


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August is my month of selfless service. I'm offering complimentary 1:1 coaching packages for two people who identify as women/femmes/nonbinary folks of color for the month of August. Application is available at my Instagram bio @leslieannhobayan


Tarot card: Knight of Wands (reversed)

Poem: "Cover Me" by Kazim Ali

Aug 02, 202330:08
Ep 178 - Planting Seeds in Service of Others

Ep 178 - Planting Seeds in Service of Others

What are your gifts to the world? And where are you planting them? What do you find easy to do that others find difficult? How can people benefit from you sharing your gifts? And your gifts don't have to magnanimous things. It could be something as simple as "I give the best hugs". Do you know how important that is??


For my part, I am homing in on telling my stories as a daughter of immigrants and planting the seeds of my gift for healing so that other daughters of immigrants know that there is a better way to Be. I'm shifting my focus to help more daughters of immigrants to heal their generational traumas and build nervous system resilience so that they can set and hold clear boundaries with their families. If you want to know more about this, feel free to reach out! leslieann(at)suryagian(dot)com


Here's to planting seeds so that we may garden of this world!

Jul 26, 202339:13
Ep 177 - Being Your Authentic Self in a World Full of Fakes
Jul 19, 202334:32
Ep 176 - Representation matters: "Here Lies Love" and "Joy Ride"

Ep 176 - Representation matters: "Here Lies Love" and "Joy Ride"

And this week's episode, I'm talking about the balance of give and take, of giving and receiving. I'm inviting folks to consider shifting away from the closed-off-ness of individualism ("I'm going to do my own thing and I don't care what anyone else does.") and stepping into collective care. How can we be mindful of how our actions affect others? How can we pay attention to our role in the collective while?


Which then shifts the conversation to representation. For folks who are from marginalized communities, we are used to seeing the varied stories of white folks while only a single story of us is portrayed in the culture. When that changes, when we see ourselves represented in mainstream spotlights, it is profound. It feels like a confirmation that yes, we exist. We are visible and we are seen.


I talk about the new all Filipino Broadway show, "Here Lies Love" and the new Asian-American "girlfriends road trip" movie, "Joy Ride" and what it feels like to be seen in a BIG way.




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Follow me on Instagram for some real talk about midlife living in the diaspora, healing, alchemy, the magic of poetry, AND play: @leslieannhobayan or email me at leslieann@suryagian.com. You can also check my website at www.suryagian.com


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Today’s poems/ Books / Oracle / Tarot Cards mentioned:

  • Oracle Card: Six of Pentacles (Reversed)

  • Poem: "How to Eat Your Love" by Jennifer Kwon Dobbs

 

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Courses / Exclusive Content / Book Mentioned:


Jul 12, 202344:16
Ep 175 - Communities of Care Can Support the Rest We Need
Jul 05, 202337:52
Ep 174 - Being Intentional with Magic and Creativity

Ep 174 - Being Intentional with Magic and Creativity

Jun 28, 202333:11
Ep 173 - Remembering the Wisdom Within Ourselves
Jun 21, 202336:18
Ep 172 - Community is Right in Your Face
Jun 14, 202341:08
Ep 171 - Co-creating Communities of Care

Ep 171 - Co-creating Communities of Care

We live in a world that moves so fast that we miss a lot of things, including nuance. We are eager to do-do-do (I can't help but hear BlackPink here. Haha!) and achieve things and solve problems as quickly as possible. This is not sustainable. And while that might be an obvious statement, it needs to be said out loud. Everyone is exhausted and burnt out and overloaded. As a result, we might inadvertently harm other people in the process. Our fuses are short. Our attention spans even shorter.


Which is why it's more crucial now than ever to have communities of care. In this episode, I talk about what that is and how it's different from just being in community. And what exactly is community? I talk about what care looks like and how we can be better humans towards each other.


I want to make a community of care and if this is something that resonates with you, I want you to help me make it. Co-create with me. DM me or email me at leslieann@suryagian.com to find out how you can get involved!


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Follow me on Instagram for some real talk about midlife living in the diaspora, healing, alchemy, the magic of poetry, AND play: @leslieannhobayan or email me at leslieann@suryagian.com. You can also check my website at www.suryagian.com


Today’s poems/ Books / Oracle / Tarot Cards mentioned:

  • Oracle Card: Eight of Cups (Reversed)

  • Poem: “Acolyte_”by Tarfia Faizullah


Courses / Exclusive Content / Book Mentioned:


Jun 07, 202339:57
Ep 170 - Interrogating Spiritual Practices As a Woman of Color
May 31, 202339:20
Ep 169 - Creating Connections with Intention
May 24, 202334:47
Ep 168 - Best of Spiritual Grit: Cultivating a New Way of Being

Ep 168 - Best of Spiritual Grit: Cultivating a New Way of Being

It is crucial for women of color to share their stories, to let others know they are not alone in the experiences that challenge us. In this episode, I talk about how to create new ways of being, how to lean into self-trust as you step into the mystery of not knowing what’s ahead. Everything we know is being dismantled. The rules we used to go by no longer apply. It’s a whole new game that we’re learning how to play as we go. How do we build a new paradigm when we don’t have an example to draw from, when we are truly creating something brand new? And how can we, as women of color, do this in ways that keep our nervous system feel safe from the threats of the p@triarcy and whyte supmcy?


Listen in to learn how to step into the mystery and create a new way of being that allows you to thrive.


Enjoy this episode and let me know what you think in the comments below.


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Today’s poems/ Books / Oracle / Tarot Cards mentioned:

  • Tarot Card: The Fool
  • “All the Hemispheres” by Hafiz
May 17, 202338:47
Ep 167 - Community is key to thriving

Ep 167 - Community is key to thriving

If the past few years have taught us anything, community matters. It matters a lot. During those times of lockdown, how many of us suffered through so much isolation? How many of us experienced relief when we were able to hug our people once again?


Unfortunately, there have been some residual effects from living a life of precarity. Many of us have forgotten how to be in community, how to connect with each other. Many of us have forgotten that all it takes is a simple gesture of outreach.


Listen in to this episode to remember why community is so crucial to our thriving. And what we can do to build communities that feel safe and supportive. And if you're looking for a community that feels aligned with who you are being, you are invited to hop into mine! I'm building a community for midlife women of color (and if I'm being honest, I'm not quite sure what it is yet! But you can get in on the ground floor and co-create with me!) that will have some magic in it, some teachings on nervous system resilience, and some practices for increasing self-awareness.

May 10, 202343:59
Ep 166 - Set your boundaries, bbs!

Ep 166 - Set your boundaries, bbs!

A lot of people talk about boundaries and having the need to set them. But what does that actually mean? And what are boundaries anyway? What do they look like and why does it feel so hard to set them and hold them?


In this episode, I get into the details of the different kinds of boundaries we can set in our lives,  the reasons why some boundaries are more porous than others, and why it is important for us to have clear and defined boundaries, particularly for us empaths and women of color. People pleasing behavior is no accident.


Listen in to learn how the mind, body, and spirit connection is essential to boundary setting and how a resilient nervous system is the bridge to it all.

May 03, 202341:54