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Spreadsheets and Spreadeagle

Spreadsheets and Spreadeagle

By Shay Au Lait
Of what use is the Erotic? Hosted by Intellectual Sensual Shaman, Performance Artist and Kinky Siren Switchress Shay Au Lait, Spreadsheets and Spreadeagle is an occasional and moody podcast exploring the powerful intersection of sensuality, sexuality, and eroticism through the lens of cosmic spirituality and pleasure. If you enjoy provocative stories, subversive conversations, and transformative thoughts, tune into this bliss. Learn more about the host at ShayAuLait.com. Find out why she's called the Typhoon of Temptation, The BadonkaMONK and the Vulnerability Doula.
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8. How Should White People Celebrate Juneteenth?
Should white burlesque producers give up their shows on Juneteenth and simply sit in the audience tipping all the black people? Should nonblack performers sit this one out? Should the whole world pause and only let black people make money on that day? Is it better to be white and have a "black" show theme? Maybe play all black people's music? Maybe I can be a white producer and hire all black performers? How should black and nonblack people approach entertainment and the nightlife industry as it relates to Juneteenth? You're invited to walk Shay Au Lait through a day in the life of a white producer in America on Juneteenth? She's looking for suggestions. Visit Shay Au Lait.com - http://shayaulait.com/learn-more  SlutChurch - https://www.shayaulait.com/slutchurch/ Numinous Magazine - https://www.instagram.com/numinous_mag/ Kinky Siren Switchress - https://www.shayaulait.com/kinky-siren-switchress/  Are you new here? Welcome to Spreadsheets & Spreadeagle, a podcast for intensely sensuous and deeply curious souls. We started with asking ourselves, "Of what use is the Erotic?" as it's the undercurrent of everything we do. Hosted by Intellectual Sensual Shaman, Kinky Siren Switchress & Performance Artist Shay Au Lait, Spreadsheets & Spreadeagle is an occasional & moody podcast exploring topics such as sensuality, sexuality, eroticism, cosmic spirituality, and pleasure. If you enjoy provocative stories, subversive conversations, and transformative thoughts, ENJOY!
30:34
May 12, 2022
7. What is a Switchress? A New Honorific and Title for Select BDSM Practitioners
What is a Switchress? Have you ever heard of that word? In today's episode of Spreadsheets & Spreadeagle, Shay Au Lait shares about BDSM roles and the evolution of this Honorific and Title. How should you be addressed? Kinky Siren Switchress - https://www.shayaulait.com/kinky-siren-switchress/ Visit Shay Au Lait.com - http://shayaulait.com/learn-more Sara Without An H -  Head Switchress of Camp KinkyTown, Producer of decaDANCE & Safeword - https://www.instagram.com/withoutanhsara/ Stephxecutioner - Rock and Roll Dominatrix and Mother Superior Rear of SlutChurch  - https://stephanieanders.wordpress.com/ SlutChurch - https://www.shayaulait.com/slutchurch/ Numinous Magazine - https://www.instagram.com/numinous_mag/ Are you new here? Welcome to Spreadsheets & Spreadeagle, a podcast for intensely sensuous and deeply curious souls. We started with asking ourselves, "Of what use is the Erotic?" as it's the undercurrent of everything we do. Hosted by Intellectual Sensual Shaman, Kinky Siren Switchress & Performance Artist Shay Au Lait, Spreadsheets & Spreadeagle is an occasional & moody podcast exploring topics such as sensuality, sexuality, eroticism, cosmic spirituality, and pleasure. If you enjoy provocative stories, subversive conversations, and transformative thoughts, ENJOY!
30:23
May 05, 2022
6. There's Something Quite Spectacular In Being His Latex Rubber Sex Doll. It Appeased Me.
In today's episode, Shay Au Lait recounts a BDSM experience in becoming a "Latex Rubber Doll." In this deliberate and measured ritual of adornment, as part of agreed fetish protocols, Shay surrenders into a deep "Submissive Head Space," aka Subspace. In the practice of chronicling her experience in Subspaces, Shay also discovered Domspace too. Perhaps for you, it might be Topspace and Bottomspace. Is there such a thing as Switchspace? In either case, listen in to this core memory moment that ultimately led to the emergence of Kinky Siren Switchress. Shay didn't plan for it but discovered there was something quite spectacular in being a latex rubber doll. Are you new here? Welcome to Spreadsheets & Spreadeagle, a podcast for intensely sensuous and deeply curious souls. Of what use is the Erotic? Hosted by Intellectual Sensual Shaman & Performance Artist Shay Au Lait, Spreadsheets & Spreadeagle is an occasional & moody podcast exploring the powerful intersection of sensuality, sexuality, and eroticism through the lens of spirituality and pleasure.  If you enjoy provocative stories, subversive conversations, and transformative thoughts, ENJOY!  Learn more: https://ShayAuLait.com/learn-more
09:23
April 28, 2022
5. Happy World Burlesque Day! Are You Wondering What Is Burlesque?
In today's BONUS episode, Shay Au Lait celebrates World Burlesque Day by sharing burlesque gratitudes, favorite burlesque performers, and burlesque goals and desires to reach for as we head towards World Burlesque Day 2023. What is Burlesque? According to SpeakEasy Noir, it is EMOTIONAL STORYTELLING, EXTREME PARODY AND EXTRAVAGANT REVEALS. Are you new here? Welcome to Spreadsheets & Spreadeagle, a podcast for intensely sensuous and deeply curious souls. Of what use is the Erotic? Hosted by Intellectual Sensual Shaman & Performance Artist Shay Au Lait, Spreadsheets & Spreadeagle is an occasional & moody podcast exploring the powerful intersection of sensuality, sexuality, and eroticism through the lens of spirituality and pleasure.  If you enjoy provocative stories, subversive conversations, and transformative thoughts, ENJOY!  LEARN MORE via ShayAuLait.com What is burlesque? via ShayAuLait.com HoneyTree EvilEye - SlutChurch, Do Both show, Honeygasm, Philadelphia Burlesque Battle Royale Sara Without An H - decaDANCE, Safeword: A Burlesque and BDSM extravaganza Flirt Vonnegut - Do Both, Darkside Burlesque, Fantasy Basement Siren Pack Productions | Revival Hotel & Fox News |  SpeakEasy Noir Burlesque Glen Graham - 9|5 Killers Queen Glow Job - House of Yes resident | RetroFactory & Broadway World Perle Noire - The Noire Pageant, The House of Noire Carmine Black  Evon Michelle - SAD Brunch Queerly Femmetastic LostBoy  Katie Torres MaDda
44:24
April 27, 2022
4. A New Appreciation For The Power of Submissive Men
In today's episode, Shay Au Lait reads an essay that recounts her notions about dating submissive men. After expressing her ignorance to a friend, he offered her a new archetype to consider. It changed her mind immediately! *In this episode Shay Au Lait also begins with an introductory caveat, trigger warning and/or acknowledgment as in the timeframe of the story, she did not know to speak beyond the gender and sex binary. ABOUT: Spreadsheets & Spreadeagle, a Podcast for intensely sensuous and deeply curious souls. Of what use is the Erotic? Hosted by Intellectual Sensual Shaman & Performance Artist Shay Au Lait, Spreadsheets & Spreadeagle is an occasional & moody podcast exploring the powerful intersection of sensuality, sexuality, and eroticism through the lens of spirituality and pleasure.  If you enjoy provocative stories, subversive conversations, and transformative thoughts, Spreadsheets & Spreadeagle is the podcast for you! Learn more: https://ShayAuLait.com/learn-more
09:13
April 21, 2022
3. Capable Of The Most Heinous and the Most Holy
In today's episode, Shay Au Lait explores unfiltered, channeled streams of thought first with a question. Why are we not being present? Beginning with a trigger warning, Shay delves into aspects of cancel culture, rape culture, and more as she explores the notion that we each as individuals are capable of the most heinous and the most holy. Both can be true.  ABOUT US: Spreadsheets & Spreadeagle, a Podcast for intensely sensuous and deeply curious souls. Of what use is the Erotic? Hosted by Intellectual Sensual Shaman & Performance Artist Shay Au Lait, Spreadsheets & Spreadeagle is a biweekly podcast exploring the powerful intersection of sensuality, sexuality, and eroticism through the lens of spirituality and pleasure.  If you enjoy provocative stories, subversive conversations, and transformative thoughts, Spreadsheets & Spreadeagle is the podcast for you! Learn more: https://ShayAuLait.com/learn-more
37:15
May 07, 2021
2. If You Think of Blow Jobs When You Meditate
In today's bonus episode, Shay Au Lait reads a journal entry written during a dervish silent retreat in which she tries to use the pathways of Shambhala teachings to meditate while continuously thinking of oral pleasure. The particular book Shay Au Lait is referencing is Shambhala: The Sacred Path of the Warrior by Chogyam Trungpa. ABOUT US: Spreadsheets & Spreadeagle, a Podcast for intensely sensuous and deeply curious souls. Of what use is the Erotic? Hosted by Intellectual Sensual Shaman & Performance Artist Shay Au Lait, Spreadsheets & Spreadeagle is a biweekly podcast exploring the powerful intersection of sensuality, sexuality, and eroticism through the lens of spirituality and pleasure.  If you enjoy provocative stories, subversive conversations, and transformative thoughts, Spreadsheets & Spreadeagle is the podcast for you! Learn more: HTTP://ShayAuLait.com
02:32
April 15, 2021
1. Welcome to Spreadsheets & Spreadeagle w/ Shay Au Lait
Shay Au Lait introduces us to Spreadsheets & Spreadeagle, a Podcast for intensely sensuous and deeply curious souls.  Of what use is the Erotic? Hosted by Intellectual Sensual Shaman & Performance Artist Shay Au Lait, Spreadsheets & Spreadeagle is a biweekly podcast exploring the powerful intersection of sensuality, sexuality, and eroticism through the lens of spirituality and pleasure.  If you enjoy provocative stories, subversive conversations, and transformative thoughts, Spreadsheets & Spreadeagle is the podcast for you! Learn more: https:://ShayAuLait.com
03:46
April 02, 2021