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How To Rewrite Your Stars

How To Rewrite Your Stars

By Benjamin Fincher

The stories, mindset, and tools needed to be able to create your own life, to rewrite your stars.

Season 3 means more upgrades still! Now there's an intro, and things have gotten more streamlined! Share your ideas and insights with the show.

Season 2, now I'm bringing guests on to share their stories of how they've "Rewritten their Stars" and asking them about *how* they were able to do it. Tools, ideas, and more! I share my own experiences too!

Season 1, I share tools to be able to change the results you're getting out of life.

Join me in learning the simple steps to rewrite *your* stars.
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How To Rewrite Your StarsMar 04, 2020

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Going On Hiatus/Season 3 About to End

Going On Hiatus/Season 3 About to End

EP35 Going On Hiatus/Season 3 About to End


Hey everyone, just a quick update about my absence the past couple of weeks.

Basically things have gotten kinda crazy and I've been feeling like it's time for another hiatus, AKA, another season-ending to welcome in a new season in a few months.

At least one more episode to come next week, and maybe 2. AKA Season 3 finale inbound!


Podcast Facebook group and page:

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Apr 14, 202303:03
Video Games and Self-Actualization w/ Guest Mason Maxfield

Video Games and Self-Actualization w/ Guest Mason Maxfield

3.34 Video Games and Self-Actualization w/ Guest Mason Maxfield


I asked Mason to be on the podcast to talk about the journey that he took when he essentially swore off video games and decided to get his life back as he puts it. So we dive into that to start this episode out, and then we go on to talk about the effects that have happened in his life and how anyone else can do similar cost-benefit analyses to determine what it is that you may want to remove from your life. What is keeping you from achieving what you truly want out of life?

We also talk a little bit about the benefits of having some form of leisure and/or activities to relax for a little bit in life, and a couple of tips on how to keep from going too far into any one thing. We also give some numbers to help drive home how precious the time we do have on Earth is, as well as how much you can do in your life if you remove time wastes. What activities do you use to relax healthily and unwind?
Remember, you can rewrite your stars and live the life that you actually want, you can remove or add the things that you need to be happy in your life!

Today's Sponsor:
Fincher Enterprises, https://www.benjaminfincherenterprises.com/

Guest's Bio:
Mason is a 25-year-old male. Born and raised in the small town of Kanosh Utah. Loves the outdoors. Currently, a college student at BYU studying Structural Engineering. In his free time, he likes to design and 3d-print. Married to a wonderful young lady from Spanish Fork. Currently learning Russian and loves getting to understand and explore what makes people tick. Firmly believes that one cannot help to love a people once they have truly come to truly and deeply understand them. Late in high school, he recognized his concerning addiction to video games as a form of entertainment and escapism. Knowing full well that he couldn't sufficiently moderate himself, he chose to cut it off entirely.

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Mar 31, 202358:59
From Trauma to Peace and Abundance w/ Guest Airiel Abel

From Trauma to Peace and Abundance w/ Guest Airiel Abel

3.33 From Trauma to Peace and Abundance w/ Guest Airiel Abel

*TRIGGER WARNING, BRIEF BIT ABOUT RAPE*

Airiel starts out this episode by sharing a little bit about her childhood and how that affected her beliefs that led to some trauma in her teenage years, including losing a dear friend, getting raped, and having her boyfriend of many years dump her. She then goes on to talk about the darker paths that took her towards, including dropping out of college, doing drugs, and shoplifting. She then shares how a compassionate judge gave her a second chance and how she took it and changed her life around! When has someone given you a second chance?

We then go on to talk about how she was able to be introduced to the Law of Attraction and how we've both used that in our lives and how it's helped both of us and many around us as well. We also talk about how we can take the crap that happens to us in life and either pile it up and make our lives all stinky, or use it to fertilize the garden of our lives. What crappy experience have you used to fuel your growth? How have you been able to bring good things into your life?

Be sure to listen to today's episode and check out Airiel's website and podcast to be able to learn more about real estate and if you're looking, to find a place for you.

Remember, you can rewrite your stars and completely change the trajectory of your life, use the crappy experiences as fertilizer, and grow!


Today's Sponsor:
Fincher Enterprises, https://www.benjaminfincherenterprises.com/


Guest's Bio: Airiel is a Realtor, Mentor, and host of a Podcast called Real Estate Recharge. Airiel is a mom of 5 with two sets of twins. She has built several businesses and has a strong background in Sales with a knack for strategy. Airiel's passion is helping others realize their potential, recognize the patterns of thought that have been holding them back, and healing through connection.


Episode Resources:
Airiel's Website, http://www.mermaidmanors.com/
Airiel's Podcast, https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/Realestaterecharge
Airiel's Facebook, https://www.facebook.com/MermaidManors/

Airiel's LinkedIn, https://www.linkedin.com/in/airiel-abel/

Airiel's Instagram, https://www.instagram.com/Mermaidmanors/


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Mar 22, 202302:02:16
Episode 100.7 What a Journey So Far! w/ Guest Benjamin Fincher

Episode 100.7 What a Journey So Far! w/ Guest Benjamin Fincher

3.32.7 Episode 100.7 What a Journey So Far! w/ Guest Benjamin Fincher

Benjamin and I (Rick) talk about his journey with hosting his podcast "How to Rewrite Your Stars" and how he's grown throughout the years he's been doing it. We cover a brief bit about his journey into being a freelancer from having worked many different jobs. In large part, this episode is a recap of the podcast as a whole. I ask him what some of the key episodes have been and we talk about some of the themes and topics from them.
We go on to talk about some other topics that come up and have some great conversations and back and forth with it.
Be sure to listen to today's episode and check out Benjamin's website to learn more about what he is doing and the various things he can help you with.
Remember, you can rewrite your stars and do big things, take it one step and a time and keep moving forward!

Today's Sponsor:
Fincher Enterprises, https://www.benjaminfincherenterprises.com/

Guest's Bio:
Benjamin Fincher has worked many jobs and taken many classes in order to get to where he is today. Benjamin spent a lot of years searching for ways that he could make an impact on others and reach his highest potential in life. After doing a variety of jobs and taking many mentor-oriented classes, including his mission in Peru, Benjamin finally decided to start his mentoring business which he hoped would fulfill all his hopes and dreams. Well, he closed that business down about a month ago and is now going headstrong into a couple of pursuits that he's wanted to do for a while now and here we are today.

Episode Resources:
Benjamin's Website, https://www.benjaminfincherenterprises.com/
Benjamin's Facebook, https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100005142318312
Benjamin's YouTube, https://www.youtube.com/@starlightmentoring1834
Benjamin's Instagram, https://www.instagram.com/benjaminfincher42/
Benjamin's Podcast, https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/starlightmentoring
Benjamin's LinkedIn, https://www.linkedin.com/in/benjamin-fincher-424a38179/

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Mar 15, 202301:14:15
Episode 100.6 Strengths

Episode 100.6 Strengths

3.32.6 Episode 100.6 Strengths

I talk about a couple of my strengths, then share how context matters when it comes to strengths and how because of that, some things you think are weaknesses might be strengths in a different context. What strengths do you have that you previously thought were weaknesses?

Today's Sponsor:
Fincher Enterprises, https://www.benjaminfincherenterprises.com/

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Mar 14, 202326:44
Episode 100.5 Doing

Episode 100.5 Doing

3.32.5 Episode 100.5 Doing

Simply Achieve The Thing! Stop drowning in information and make use of your knowledge, go do your next step! #ShortestEpisode

Today's Sponsor:
Fincher Enterprises, https://www.benjaminfincherenterprises.com/

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Mar 13, 202303:42
Episode 100.4 Integrity

Episode 100.4 Integrity

3.32.4 Episode 100.4 Integrity

I share a story about a friend and I and how integrity, grace, and forgiveness play into our lives constantly. Then I talk about how to have those three in our lives and share some applicable examples. Then I deep dive into how I've been working recently to apply integrity to my belief systems, specifically regarding religion.

Today's Sponsor:
Fincher Enterprises, https://www.benjaminfincherenterprises.com/

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Mar 12, 202341:27
Episode 100.3 Gratitude

Episode 100.3 Gratitude

3.32.3 Episode 100.3 Gratitude

I begin this segment talking about instant gratification, then lead into gratitude by first talking about quantum mechanics and quantum physics. How alternate realities, future time stamps, and possible futures all affect us now and how gratitude can help us to choose into the results that we want in life now and in the future.

Today's Sponsor:
Fincher Enterprises, https://www.benjaminfincherenterprises.com/

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Mar 11, 202346:22
Episode 100.2 Pioneering

Episode 100.2 Pioneering

3.32.2 Episode 100.2 Pioneering

I just go for it today and pioneer this episode like a true pioneer who has not seen the path ahead. I talk about what being a pioneer means, how I have been a pioneer in my life, and how you can be a pioneer in your life.

Today's Sponsor:
Fincher Enterprises, https://www.benjaminfincherenterprises.com/

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Mar 10, 202317:44
Episode 100.1 Responsibility

Episode 100.1 Responsibility

3.32.1 Episode 100.1 Responsibility

How does a video game relate to personal responsibility? I describe the similarities that I see as this segment begins and then relate them to our lives. Then I mention a little bit about Viktor Frankl's experience in a Nazi concentration camp and talk more about personal responsibility. More tomorrow!

Today's Sponsor:
Fincher Enterprises, https://www.benjaminfincherenterprises.com/

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Mar 09, 202324:16
Episode 99 Upgrade your Life!

Episode 99 Upgrade your Life!

3.31 Episode 99 Upgrade your Life!

Today I give a little bit of an update on how things have been going for me recently. As well as some snippets of what episode 100 is going to look like. I talk about some upgrades I've done and reflect on some stuff as well. I try to interview myself, and that doesn't go great, but not terrible either. And I just share some thoughts on things. Enjoy!

Today's Sponsor:
Fincher Enterprises, https://www.benjaminfincherenterprises.com/

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Mar 08, 202334:47
Therapy and Radiology w/ Guest McKenna Pineda

Therapy and Radiology w/ Guest McKenna Pineda

3.30 Therapy and Radiology w/ Guest McKenna Pineda

McKenna starts us out in this episode by sharing a story that ultimately made her decide to start going to therapy, it ended up with a happy ending, but it was very intense and emotional in the middle of it. After she finishes that story we talk about therapy and why it's important in our lives nowadays and how it helps people. We also talk a little bit about radiology and some interesting facts about X-Rays. Have you ever gone to therapy? Do you treat your mind with the same level of care as your body?
We also end up talking about grace similar to last week, and how we can be ok with ourselves and be nice to others. I share an embarrassing story and we talk about the human condition a little bit as well. When have you extended grace to yourself? When have you extended grace to others?
Remember, you can rewrite your stars and be nice to others and to yourself as well! Genshai, swagat, and namaste.

Today's Sponsor:
Fincher Enterprises, https://www.benjaminfincherenterprises.com/

Guest's Bio:
McKenna is a 26-year-old Oregonian living in Utah. Mom of a three-year-old boy and a black lab. Student at Salt Lake Community College for Radiologic Technology. Fluent in English, and Spanish and currently learning Portuguese

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Mar 01, 202301:38:24
Don't Take a Shrimp Coupon to JCPenny's w/ Guest Alison Fabricius

Don't Take a Shrimp Coupon to JCPenny's w/ Guest Alison Fabricius

3.29 Don't Take a Shrimp Coupon to JCPenny's w/ Guest Alison Fabricius

Alison and I begin by talking about her book that came out recently, "Unapologetically Alison" and how we can live our lives without having to feel guilty or judged about everything we do. We wander over from that topic onto the meaning of some words, including "redeemed" and I bring up coupons, and we talk about how we can turn our potential into permanence and how you shouldn't take a shrimp coupon to JCPenny's. When have you been unapologetically you? Have you ever taken a shrimp coupon to JCPenny's?
We also talk about how a vision board is basically just coupon cutting what you want in your life and using it as a focal point to turn the potential to achieve the thing into the permanence of having it or accomplishing it. We also go on a couple of tangents, but have a really fun time with it and actually bring them around to make good points. What was the best coupon you ever used? What random wisdom do you enjoy bestowing on others?
Be sure to listen to today's episode and check out Alison's website to be able to learn more about how to be unapologetically you and how she can help you with that and more.
Remember, you can rewrite your stars and live your life exactly how YOU want to, and create things in it that you can enjoy and share with others.

Today's Sponsor:
Fincher Enterprises, https://www.benjaminfincherenterprises.com/

Guest's Bio:
Alison assists over-performing post-millennials to gather and own their scattered souls by helping them to understand that another’s story of them is not theirs. As a trusted guide from the trenches, she helps them to face institutions, authority figures and power dynamics in order to realize that what they have to offer is just what the world needs. She does this through her books, speaking and corporate consulting. When she’s not teaching, she can be found crocheting, reading, or randomly dying her hair (a subtle sign of a war well-fought).

Episode Resources:
Alison's Website, https://alisonfabricius.com/
Alison's Facebook, https://www.facebook.com/alison.fabricius/
Alison's YouTube, https://youtube.com/@empoweringlowerlights2258

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Feb 22, 202301:25:58
Positive Headlines in Your Mind w/ Guest Simon Rinne

Positive Headlines in Your Mind w/ Guest Simon Rinne

3.28 Positive Headlines in Your Mind w/ Guest Simon Rinne

Disclaimer: We do mention a little bit about suicide in this episode.

Simon and I talk about how being creative can help us to process our emotions and relate more to the people around us. How we can create positivity in our minds by reframing our thoughts and the things happening in our lives into positive headlines instead of the negativity so prevalent. What things have happened in your life recently that you can turn into positive headlines? Who can you share some of your positive headlines with?
We also talk about his journey with his mental health, being a parent, and how having healthy conversations that are also emotional can be such a boon for us and all those around us. We also talk about other healthy ways to process emotions so that we are nicer to be around and have happier lives all around. What healthy ways do you have to process your emotions? Who can you have more healthy, emotional conversations with in your life?
Be sure to listen to today's episode and check out Simon's website to be able to learn more about how he helps people with their mental health.
Remember, you can rewrite your stars and you can create positive headlines in your mind and have healthy conversations in your life!

Today's Sponsor:
Fincher Enterprises, https://www.benjaminfincherenterprises.com/

Guest's Bio:
Simon is a husband, dad, podcaster, social worker and therapist aiming to inspire men to open up about mental health. He knows it's hard, so he shares his story of living with OCD, depression, anxiety and even burnout over the past 30 years. His story involves working 15 years in a career he didn't like, to rediscover himself through social work before stepping away from that career to open his own private practice.

Episode Resources:
Simon's Website, http://www.mindful-men.com.au/
Simon's Facebook, https://www.facebook.com/mindful.men.aus
Simon's Instagram, https://www.instagram.com/mindful.men.aus/
Simon's Podcast, https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/the-mindful-men-podcast/id1604992311
Simon's YouTube, https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbXBNQmbj4ZQj3rzFAZALTA

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Feb 15, 202301:21:03
Who Are You to Not Be Great? w/ Guest Andrew Anderson

Who Are You to Not Be Great? w/ Guest Andrew Anderson

3.27 Who Are You to Not Be Great? w/ Guest Andrew Anderson

I actually met Andrew a couple of years ago at Genshai, (think Jason Hewlett and the Ogdens) and I'm super happy to have had him on the podcast!

Andrew and I talk all about life missions, daring and living greatly, and being the greatest that we can be. Who are you to not be great? Andrew shares his story and how he discovered what his life mission is, he also shared how anyone can discover what their life mission is. What is your life mission?
Andrew also shares some of the lessons that are featured in his book, "Strength of the Oak, Strength of the Willow" which came out last week. We talk about the different strengths of the oak and the willow and how we can emulate them in our own lives. How can you use the strength of the oak in your life? How can you use the strength of the willow in your life?
Be sure to listen to today's episode and check out Andrew's book and his website to be able to learn more and find out how to work with him.
Remember, you can rewrite your stars and you have greatness within you already, go and dare, be great, and share your light with the world!

Today's Sponsor:
Fincher Enterprises, https://www.benjaminfincherenterprises.com/

Guest's Bio:
Everybody yearns to have at least one person in their life who believes in them; that they can do what they say they can do, who believes they can be the person they want to be. Andrew is that person. Andrew grew up in Boise, ID. He served a two-year service mission for his church to Belgium and France. He went on to receive a master’s degree in Education and loved teaching high school students for six years. Since 2015, Andrew has cultivated this teaching passion as a best-selling author, speaker and coach, helping individuals break through limiting beliefs, transform their lives and businesses and find lasting freedom. When away from work, you can find Andrew with his family on the soccer field, basketball court, recital halls, or the mountains of Idaho. His wife and six kids drive his Life Mission. At the end of the day, know this: Andrew will take a stand for your greatness more than you will stand for your own limitations. He will fight harder for your possibilities than you do.

Episode Resources:
Andrew's Website, https://www.andrewlanderson.com
Andrew's LinkedIn, https://www.linkedin.com/in/andrewlanderson85/
Andrew's Instagram, https://www.instagram.com/andrewlanderson85/
Andrew's Facebook, https://www.facebook.com/andrewLanderson85
Andrew's YouTube, https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fO0aO0vnwrr3daipaoSCw
Andrew's Ebook, https://www.amazon.com/Strength-Oak-Willow-Compassion-Turbulent-ebook/dp/B0BTC9DQJN

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Feb 08, 202351:43
Money Catalysts w/ Guest Alejandra Rojas

Money Catalysts w/ Guest Alejandra Rojas

3.26 Money Catalysts w/ Guest Alejandra Rojas

Alejandra and I talk about some of the differences in the mindset that rich people have compared to those who stay stuck in money problems. We also talk about some ideas that lead to a breakthrough for me when it comes to money and we point out how you can have similar breakthroughs! What would you do differently if money wasn't tight? Would you eat questionable food if you weren't worried about how much it cost as you decide to throw it away or eat it?
What money catalysts are you willing to invite into your mind? Listen to this episode and find some that will help you with your money story!
Be sure to listen to today's episode and check out Alejandra's website to connect with her, learn more about money mindset, and reach your goals.
Remember, you can rewrite your stars and you can have the money you want in life, you just need to change your mindset in the right ways.

Today's Sponsor:
Starlight Mentoring, https://www.starlightmentoring.com/

Guest's Bio:
Alejandra is a Finance Professional & Money Mindset expert helping new entrepreneurs to become the most profitable version of themselves using her highly effective M.E.S.S. method. After reaching rock bottom, when money burnout re-activated an old life-threatening sickness again, she knew she had to design a method to prevent this from happening again. Ever since, Alejandra and her clients have been crushing goal after goal in life and in business – from traveling and dream weddings to more income and ease with money! Alejandra is always on the move, soaking in the beauties of the world. She shares tons of golden nuggets on her podcast – The Happy & Wealthy Podcast.

Episode Resources:
Alejandra's Website, www.alejandrar.com
Alejandra's Instagram, https://www.instagram.com/moneymindsetexpert/
Alejandra's Podcast, https://alejandrar.com/happywealthypodcast/

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Feb 01, 202301:08:45
What is Our Culture Stack? w/ Guest Gary Arnell

What is Our Culture Stack? w/ Guest Gary Arnell

3.25 What is Our Culture Stack? w/ Guest Gary Arnell

I have known Gary for a number of years, and when I heard him on Greg Denning's podcast (who was in episode 14 this season) I knew that I had to have Gary on the show. Because Gary shares something that I haven't heard anyone else ever talk about, not as he did at least. In that episode on Greg's show and in this episode right here Gary talks about the foundations of our culture, of our group psychology, of our attitudes and morals. He calls it our Culture Stack, drawing on a technology stack, the order, and components necessary to yield the desired result. Gary explains all of that beautifully in this episode and gives pointers on what we can do to positively influence our Culture Stack in order for it to give us the results we actually want.
Remember, you can rewrite your stars, and when you understand your influences on a societal level, it gives you more power to be who you were meant to be.

Today's Sponsor:
Starlight Mentoring, https://www.starlightmentoring.com/

Guest's Bio:
Gary Arnell is Chief Administration Officer at Williamsburg Learning, an online secondary school. He is also the founder of Culture Stack, a blog and podcast that explores the relationship between the moral, political, economic, and cultural ideas that comprise every society - and is especially interested in the mixture that created western civilization which has been responsible for more freedom, prosperity, and health than any other in human history. In his spare time, Gary enjoys family, community service, travel, and the outdoors - especially canyoneering.

Episode Resources:
Gary's Website, https://www.culturestack.online/
Gary's Facebook, https://www.facebook.com/CultureStack
Gary's Podcast, https://anchor.fm/culturestack
Gary's Instagram, https://www.instagram.com/culture_stack/
Gary's YouTube, https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCTOr2SApyF3MrYMtNriQr0g

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Jan 25, 202301:31:32
Human Design, A Map for Your Life w/ Guest Carolina Wikstrom

Human Design, A Map for Your Life w/ Guest Carolina Wikstrom

3.24 Human Design, A Map for Your Life w/ Guest Carolina Wikstrom

Carolina starts us out this week detailing out what exactly Human Design is, I ask her a LOT of questions about it and she goes right along with it. We then get into how studying Human Design helped her in her life and how it can help you in yours, with it acting like a map to understanding yourself. What would you do if you had a map that explained your strengths and growth points? What have you found to help guide your decision-making process?
Be sure to listen to today's episode and check out Carolina's website to connect with her, learn more about Human Design, and see about getting your chart read.
Remember, you can rewrite your stars and it tends to be a lot easier when you have tools to guide you in regard to yourself!

Today's Sponsor:
Starlight Mentoring, https://www.starlightmentoring.com/

Guest's Bio:
Carolina is a Human Design and Manifestation guide. A mom of two, she is originally from Colombia, she has lived in Canada and NYC and currently lives in London with her family. Human Design has allowed her to blossom and thrive in this stage of her life. As a mom, wife, business owner, and woman in her power. She is passionate about sharing her expertise with Human Design because she has seen firsthand and through her clients the deep impact this system has on people's lives.

Episode Resources:
Carolina's Instagram, https://www.instagram.com/iamcarolinawikstrom/

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Jan 18, 202301:08:04
Financially Free at Thirty Three w/ Guest Andrew Logan

Financially Free at Thirty Three w/ Guest Andrew Logan

3.23 Financially Free at Thirty Three w/ Guest Andrew Logan

Andrew and I talk about choices, about habits, about financial and life maths, and so much more in today's episode! Andrew shares his story of going from a very "successful" (by most people's standard) career, to choosing into things that weren't easy, but that would pay off in the long run. What have you done that you are glad you did years later? Will what you're doing now pay you in 10 years? Or will you be paying for it in 10 years?
We talk a lot about perceptions of money and how at the end of the day, money is a magnifier, it allows people to do more of what they would be doing if they didn't have money. We go deep on the things I mentioned already, habits, choices, and the maths of life. How have you been able to use money to magnify who you are? What habits are you building now for your future self to enjoy the fruits of?
Be sure to listen to today's episode and check out Andrew's website to connect with him and learn more about how you can become financially free.
Remember, you can rewrite your stars and choose the life you want tomorrow, today; and once you do the work, you'll reap the rewards!

Today's Sponsor:
Starlight Mentoring, https://www.starlightmentoring.com/

Guest's Bio:
After graduating from University as a Physiotherapist in 2004, Andrew Logan was following the traditional path – get a good job, progress into small business, buy some investment properties, retire with a nice nest egg. But the further he was going down the path, the more he started to question its viability. The traditional path was a well-trodden path, but not one that would provide a lifestyle of financial freedom and travel. This began a decade long search for a way out of the rat race, eventually hitting his goal of being Financially Free at 33.

Episode Resources:
Andrew's Website, https://www.andrewlogan.net/
Andrew's Facebook, https://www.facebook.com/andrew.logan.12979/
Andrew's Instagram, https://www.instagram.com/andrewjameslogan/

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Jan 11, 202301:13:46
Overcoming Imposter Syndrome w/ Guest Victor Mosconi

Overcoming Imposter Syndrome w/ Guest Victor Mosconi

3.22 Overcoming Imposter Syndrome  w/ Guest Victor Mosconi

Victor jumps right in with me talking about what imposter syndrome is and how it affects people. We talk about some examples, from what I've experienced myself, to what he's experienced himself, to what others have, and how it's affected each of us. We also talk about how to work through it! Because there are solutions. Have you ever dealt with imposter syndrome? How have you been able to work through those feelings and know that you're good enough?
As we dive deeper we talk about how imposter syndrome is also called "Imposter Phenomenon" because it isn't something permanent. Near the end of the episode, Victor shares his journey with us of how he went through college, worked, became interested in studying this, and how he's helping people now. How has rephrasing something helped you in your life? What has piqued your interest that you now help others with?
Be sure to listen to today's episode and check out Victor's website to connect with him and be sure to take the quiz to find out what level of imposter syndrome you experience.
Remember, you can rewrite your stars and know that you are enough and can contribute in so many ways to everyone around you!

Today's Sponsor:
Starlight Mentoring, https://www.starlightmentoring.com/

Guest's Bio:
Victor Mosconi, is a PhD Candidate in Psychology, with a Master’s in Psychology of Leadership Development and Coaching, a Master’s in Industrial/Organizational Psychology, and founder of Imposter Solution Coach. Through his life-long experience with imposter syndrome, his psychology background, and coaching skills, Victor specializes in supporting up-and-coming women leaders and entrepreneurs in overcoming their self-doubt and imposter thoughts to develop a mindset of self-appreciation and strong self-belief. Take his quiz on his website and discover what level of impostor syndrome you experience.

Episode Resources:
Victor's Website, https://victormos.com
Victor's Instagram, https://instagram.com/impostor.doctor

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Jan 04, 202301:22:26
Being Seen and Poetry w/ Guest Shelby Leigh

Being Seen and Poetry w/ Guest Shelby Leigh

3.21 Being Seen and Poetry w/ Guest Shelby Leigh

Shelby shares her story of how she was a shy person in college who decided to write a poem a day for a year and share them anonymously, to deciding to step into the identity she wanted to embody as an author and claim ownership of her talents. She went from being anonymous to having over 500,000 followers on social media within the past 7 years! What are you shy about sharing with others that they might love? How can you become more visible in your field of expertise or with your talents?
We also talk about the main subject of her poetry, which revolves around mental health and self-love. We talk about those for a little and I actually share a poem that comes to me in the moment as we're recording. How can you trust yourself and your abilities and talents more? How can you share them with others to help make the world a better place?
Be sure to listen to today's episode and check out Shelby's website and socials to connect with her and read all of her beautiful poetry. She has a new book coming out next month in January!
Remember, you can rewrite your stars and be seen and share your talents with others so that everyone is a little bit better. :)

Today's Sponsor:
Starlight Mentoring, https://www.starlightmentoring.com/

Guest's Bio:
Shelby Leigh is a bestselling mental health writer, author of changing with the tides, and host of the small steps to self-love podcast. She shares her poems about self-love, self-doubt, and anxiety to an audience of more than 500,000. Her third poetry book is on the way in January 2023.

Episode Resources:
Shelby's Website, https://shelbyleigh.co/
Shelby's Instagram, https://instagram.com/shelbyleighpoetry
Shelby's TikTok, tiktok.com/@shelbyleighpoetry
Shelby's Podcast, https://smallstepstoselflove.buzzsprout.com/

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Dec 28, 202256:29
How to Get into Nature, and Homeschooling w/ Guest Linda Bear

How to Get into Nature, and Homeschooling w/ Guest Linda Bear

3.20 How to Get into Nature, and Homeschooling w/ Guest Linda Bear

Linda shares her experience of how she and her family stopped trying to live up to other people's expectations and instead started charting their own path. How they decided to get unstuck in the routines of life, stop worrying about what they didn't know, and start following their dreams. They have since been living in the wilderness as most people would consider it, but they've been enjoying life a ton more! How can you stop living your life according to others expectations and do what you enjoy doing?
We also talk a lot about homeschooling because I was homeschooled and that's how they're teaching their children now. We share experiences and ideas on how to learn better and various resources. Where have you found the most joy while learning? How can you bring more joy to your learning so that you can learn more?
Be sure to listen to today's episode and check out Linda's website to connect with her and learn more about how to live your own path and get into nature.
Remember, you can rewrite your stars and live your life as wild as you want to, reconnect to nature and see where it takes you!

Today's Sponsor:
Starlight Mentoring, https://www.starlightmentoring.com/

Guest's Bio:
Linda Beaulieu is a mom to three sons, a wife, and co-founder of Abundant Forest Life. Living in the forest and traveling to see the beauty the world has to offer led their family to live a life of their own making while exploring the natural world.

Episode Resources:
Linda's Website, https://abundantforestlife.com/about
Linda's Facebook, https://www.facebook.com/groups/708709833610717

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Dec 21, 202259:44
Pain, Movement, and Your Body w/ Guest Molly Jaeger

Pain, Movement, and Your Body w/ Guest Molly Jaeger

3.19 Pain, Movement, and Your Body w/ Guest Molly Jaeger

Molly and I being this episode talking about pain, how it is very subjective to our perception of it, and how we can influence that. I share some examples and she shares from some studies. She also talks about how we can become so accustomed to pain or tension that we don't realize it's there until we relax or ease up. When have you noticed that you're in tension and released it from your body? How can you change your perception so that you have less pain? Molly and I discuss those things too.
We also talk about how to use movement as a catalyst to release tension (which causes pain in the first place many times) in the body. We talk about how the mind and the body are connected and how pain is related to both. In what ways have you used your mind to mitigate pain before? Have you ever used your body to help calm your mind?
Be sure to listen to today's episode and check out Molly's website to connect with her and learn more about how she helps people to work through their pain! Finally, remember, you can live pain-free and happy, use the tools mentioned and live awesomely and freely!

Today's Sponsor:
Starlight Mentoring, https://www.starlightmentoring.com/

Guest's Bio:
Molly Jaeger is a mindbody expert and pain relief specialist. She has been working in the area of mindbody movement, creativity and personal-growth for over a decade. Her mission is to show people that they aren't broken and they don't need fixing by helping them to tap into the power they already have within them. She has developed a unique self-coaching method that helps each person embody the change they want.

Episode Resources:
Molly's Website, https://www.movetonourish.com/
Molly's Facebooks, https://www.facebook.com/groups/frompaintofreedom/, https://www.facebook.com/movetonourish
Molly's Instagram, https://www.instagram.com/move2nourish/

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Dec 14, 202201:17:24
 Emotions, Spirituality and Ayahuasca w/ Guest Yolanda Boyarin

Emotions, Spirituality and Ayahuasca w/ Guest Yolanda Boyarin

3.18 Emotions, Spirituality and Ayahuasca w/ Guest Yolanda Boyarin

Yolanda and I begin this episode talking about her shift from being a hustle, hustle, hustle realtor to slowing down, taking more time with her family, and from there how she got into the coaching space. We then start talking a little bit about human design, and spirituality, we then talk in-depth about Ayahuasca as well as other spiritual ideas and things. How can you go from being in the hustle to slowing down and appreciating life more? What spiritual practices would be good for you to implement?
We talk about branching out of our comfort zone while staying within our safety zone and how that's different for different people. I also rehash a little bit from last week, talking about states of being and how to think differently about our lives. What's something outside of your comfort zone that's still within your safety zone? What parts of your life have you not liked until you saw them in a different light?
Be sure to listen to today's episode and check out Yolanda's website to connect with her and find out how she can help you manifest mad money!
Finally, remember, you can grow your spirit as well as your mind and your heart, there's lots of ways to do all of those!

Today's Sponsor:
Starlight Mentoring, https://www.starlightmentoring.com/

Guest's Bio:
Yolanda is a spiritual business coach for the driven entrepreneur that is looking to combine practical sales and marketing strategies along with energetics.
As a Human Design expert and coach, she has been able to grow her business to a 7 figure brand and she also helps certify other coaches in this modality while significantly increasing their sales and income…. all from a place of alignment without the hustle.

Episode Resources:
Yolanda's Website, https://www.manifestmadmoney.com/
Yolanda's Podcast, https://www.manifestmadmoney.com/podcast
Yolanda's Instagram, https://www.instagram.com/manifest_mad_money/

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Dec 07, 202201:20:22
Coaching and Taking the Crazy Journey w/ Guest Michelle Hill

Coaching and Taking the Crazy Journey w/ Guest Michelle Hill

3.17 Coaching and Taking the Crazy Journey w/ Guest Michelle Hill

Michelle starts us out in this episode by talking about her story of going from 30 years in the corporate scene to deciding to help those small business owners with less experience be able to make their businesses become healthier, sustainable businesses. What have you always wanted to help people with but haven't made the jump yet? Have you already made a significant leap in your life?
We talk about how important mentors are and how there are many different kinds of mentors in our lives and how you can find them and enjoy the ride along the way! Who has been a mentor in your life? How have the mentors in your life helped you to achieve your goals and dreams? Ponder and think more about this in this episode!
Be sure to listen to today's episode and check out Michelle's website to connect with her and find out which business masterclass she is offering soon.
Finally, remember, you can both find and be a mentor, find someone to help today and be open to your next mentor!

Today's Sponsor:
Starlight Mentoring, https://www.starlightmentoring.com/

Guest's Bio:
With well over 30 years of corporate experience in sales management backed by University qualifications, Michelle is now coaching and mentoring small business owners who find their path to success derailed by the stress and overwhelm of running their business. She has a thirst for knowledge, an adventurous spirit, and a proven ability to think outside the box to solve challenging problems. Business owners who work with her will benefit from her wisdom and inspiration plus have a few laughs along the way.

Episode Resources:
Michelle's Website, https://www.michellehill.com.au/
Michelle's Facebook, https://www.facebook.com/michellehealthbizcoach
Michelle's LinkedIn, https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-hill-44b7b027

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Nov 30, 202201:24:36
Travel, Companies and Living Life w/ Guest Sahara Rose De Vore

Travel, Companies and Living Life w/ Guest Sahara Rose De Vore

3.16 Travel, Companies and Living Life w/ Guest Sahara Rose De Vore

Sahara starts us out by sharing her story of deciding to ditch the corporate career lifestyle and head over to Europe for a little bit that turned into a couple of years and a new career as a travel coach! What if you just jumped on your crazy dream and did it? Where have you always wanted to travel that you keep saying you can't visit yet?
We talk about how travel enriches our lives and how to incorporate it into your life in the here and now. We also talk about the benefits that it gives to us and how companies are starting to encourage their employees to travel more. What benefits have you experienced from travels you've been on? How can you implement travel into your life in the next couple of months? Ponder and find out some answers in this episode!
Be sure to listen to today's episode and check out Sahara's website to connect with her and learn all about travel and how she helps people to get out there.
Finally, remember, you can travel now, in some fashion, and you can enrich your life from it!

Today's Sponsor:
Starlight Mentoring, https://www.starlightmentoring.com/

Guest's Bio:
Sahara Rose De Vore is a Wellness Travel Coach and the Founder of The Travel Coach Network, a global community of travel coaches. Sahara went from broke college student to traveling to 84 countries solo to becoming the CEO of her travel businesses. She believes that there is more to a travel career than just blogging and booking trips which led her to creating the world's first and only ICF accredited certification program for travel coaches. Sahara is a published author, global speaker, and has been in over 100 media outlets for her travel and business expertise including Forbes, Travel Weekly, and USA Today. She will be giving her first TEDx talk this October.

Episode Resources:
Sahara's Websites, https://thetravelcoachnetwork.com/ https://sahararosetravels.com/
Sahara's Instagrams, https://www.instagram.com/sahararosethetravelcoach/ https://www.instagram.com/thetravelcoachnetwork/
Sahara's LinkedIn, https://www.linkedin.com/in/sahara-rose-de-vore-4b8bb394/
Sahara's Facebook, https://www.facebook.com/groups/travelcoachnetwork
Sahara's Podcast, https://anchor.fm/thetravelcoachnetwork
Sahara's Guide to Travel, https://thetravelcoachnetwork.mykajabi.com/main-email-series-and-workbook

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Nov 23, 202201:05:40
Utilizing Your Body to Be Successful w/ Guest Manisha Tare

Utilizing Your Body to Be Successful w/ Guest Manisha Tare

3.15 Utilizing Your Body to Be Successful w/ Guest Manisha Tare

Manisha talks about how to get into your body and out of your mind, how to experience what's going on in the whole of you, and the parts that we most commonly ignore. How does feeling the sensations in your body help you to be successful? How can feeling your emotions free your mind from stress? Manisha and I talk about those things in this episode.
Manisha shares some of her story, how she got into working with the body in the way she does, and how it helps people in their lives as well. Why do we need to live in our bodies as well as our minds? Why do we need to have emotions at all? Find out in this episode!
Be sure to listen to today's episode and check out Manisha's website to connect with her and find out all about how she helps people somatically.
Finally, remember, you can live all of life and have your body help you reach your goals!

Today's Sponsor:
Starlight Mentoring, https://www.starlightmentoring.com/

Guest's Bio:
Manisha Tare is Somatic Healing Practitioner and Mentor. She supports highly sensitive women to prioritize their well-being, let go of people pleasing and heal unhealthy relationship dynamics so they can confidently set boundaries and ask for what they need. She has a BS in Occupational Therapy, has taught yoga and meditation for a decade, has trained in multiple trauma-informed modalities such as craniosacral therapy and somatic attachment therapy and helps her clients feel empowered to trust themselves and their intuition.

Episode Resources:
Manisha's Website, http://manishatare.com/
Manisha's Instagram, https://www.instagram.com/manishatare/
Manisha's Podcast, http://manishatare.com/podcast/

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Nov 16, 202201:17:34
Bonus Episode: See You Clearly w/ Guest Orit Kruglanski

Bonus Episode: See You Clearly w/ Guest Orit Kruglanski

B3.1 Bonus Episode: See You Clearly w/ Guest Orit Kruglanski

Orit and I got talking after we'd recorded the episode that aired last week, and we decided to do a class on how to use the tools she mentioned for how to see better.

So here it is folks! I do recommend going and checking out the video we did though, it's a lot easier to follow along and see what we're doing.
If you want to learn the tools that will help you see clearer then check out today's episode!
And remember, you can rewrite your stars, including the way you literally see!

Link to the Episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/DTvzaWJuHpE

Today's Sponsor:
Starlight Mentoring, https://www.starlightmentoring.com/

Guest's Bio:
Orit Kruglanski is a visual educator, she helps people of all ages play their way to better eyesight, reducing eyestrain and the need for glasses.

She got glasses when she was 7, and at 38 started improving her vision from -8.50 diopters to her current no-glasses life. She is the author of "I see clearly", an illustrated Bates Method book for children (and adults who secretly buy it for themselves), which has been translated into 4 languages. She lives in Barcelona.

Episode Resources:
Orit's Website, https://www.iseeclearly.org
Orit's Facebook, https://www.facebook.com/Orit-Kruglanski-visual-educator-105572938923647
Orit's YouTube, https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBsTH7Qso_1hdT5Rrcl7KQA

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Nov 12, 202243:36
The Laws of Success w/ Guest Greg Denning

The Laws of Success w/ Guest Greg Denning

3.14 The Laws of Success w/ Guest Greg Denning

First off this week, I am very grateful that Greg agreed to be on my show. He is honestly the person I think of when people ask who my first mentor was. Even though I'm still getting to where I want to be, it's people like Greg who I find super inspiring to know that it's possible to get there!

Straight and to the point, Greg shares during today's episode the life lessons and laws of success that he's experienced throughout his very seasoned life. What do you learn when you average a book a week for over 20 years? What do you learn when you grow up on the streets and have to pull yourself out of it for any hope at life? Greg lays it out.
Greg shares his story and various laws of success that he's learned throughout the many years and many experiences he's had while studying to learn these very things. How would your life be different if you had a personal book of philosophy for your own life? How would your life be different if you reviewed your progress and goals on a consistent basis? (like weekly!)
Be sure to listen to today's episode and check out Greg's websites to connect with him and learn more about how to BE THE MAN and the various laws of success.
Finally, remember, you can change your life, even if you're living in the gutter, you can live an extraordinary life!

Today's Sponsor:
Starlight Mentoring, https://www.starlightmentoring.com/

Guest's Bio:
Greg is a husband of 22 years, father of seven, world traveler, executive life and business coach, creator of the BE THE MAN master class and tribe. Cohost of the Extraordinary family life podcast and host of the BE THE MAN podcast, author, and speaker. Out on his own at 16, he searched for the secrets to true success and happiness, averaging a book a week for over two decades. Now he shares what he's learned to help people design and create extraordinary lives.

Episode Resources:
Greg's Website, https://www.gregdenning.com/
Greg's BE THE MAN Website, https://bethemanmasterclass.com/
Greg and his wife's Website, https://www.resources.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/

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Nov 09, 202252:30
Learning to See Clearly Again w/ Guest Orit Kruglanski

Learning to See Clearly Again w/ Guest Orit Kruglanski

3.13 Learning to See Clearly Again w/ Guest Orit Kruglanski

Have you ever done something that most people consider impossible? Today I talk with Orit about her journey doing just that! We talk about her journey from having a super high glasses prescription to not having to wear glasses at all!! What do you think is impossible that may actually be possible?
Orit shares her story and then dives into exercises that you can you to be able to improve your vision. Be on the lookout for another episode coming soon where she details out the steps very thoroughly.
How can you achieve the impossible? Which tool will you use first to improve your vision?
Be sure to listen to today's episode and check out Orit's website to connect with her and find out all about how he helps people, to see clearer.
Finally, remember, you can do what others think is impossible, all it takes is belief and the right tools.

Today's Sponsor:
Starlight Mentoring, https://www.starlightmentoring.com/

Guest's Bio:
Orit Kruglanski is a visual educator, she helps people of all ages play their way to better eyesight, reducing eyestrain and the need for glasses.

She got glasses when she was 7, and at 38 started improving her vision from -8.50 diopters to her current no-glasses life. She is the author of "I see clearly", an illustrated Bates Method book for children (and adults who secretly buy it for themselves), which has been translated into 4 languages. She lives in Barcelona.

Episode Resources:
Orit's Website, https://www.iseeclearly.org
Orit's Facebook, https://www.facebook.com/Orit-Kruglanski-visual-educator-105572938923647
Orit's YouTube, https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBsTH7Qso_1hdT5Rrcl7KQA

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Nov 02, 202201:29:43
Shining a Light with ADHD w/ Guest Shane Thrapp

Shining a Light with ADHD w/ Guest Shane Thrapp

3.12 Shining a Light with ADHD w/ Guest Shane Thrapp

Today's episode as I talk with Shane focuses on ADHD, not understanding that he had it for years, living through various things that were hellish, finding light despite all of that, and finally learning more about himself in such a way that he is able to help others to live the best they can. How can being properly diagnosed with ADHD improve your life? How can you help others go through the hellish experiences you've had? Shane and I discuss those a bit.
Shane shares his story, the good, the bad, the ugly, and the horrendous. And at the end of the day, Shane has chosen to be a good man despite all the abuse he went through, especially because he didn't know he had ADHD. We talk about his experiences and how he's been able to overcome and choose to seek and spread light and gratitude.
How can having someone who understands and accepts you for who you are, help you? How can you find the resources to help you live a better life with ADHD? Find out in this episode!
Be sure to listen to today's episode and check out Shane's website to connect with him and find out all about how he helps people, men especially, with ADHD.
Finally, remember, you can live your best life and be happy, no matter what life has thrown at you!

Today's Sponsor:
Starlight Mentoring, https://www.starlightmentoring.com/

Guest's Bio:
Shane is a father of 4 and is married to an amazing woman who is a special needs teacher. He is an ADHD Life, Relationship, and Career Coach, and he helps people who have gone through hell & back with ADHD get their lives back on track and moving towards finding their purpose in life.

Episode Resources:
Shane's Website, https://www.creatingorderfromchaos.com/
Shane's Facebook, https://www.facebook.com/CreatingOrderFromChaosCoaching
Shane's Instagram, https://www.instagram.com/creatingorderfromchaoscoaching
Shane's TikTok, https://www.tiktok.com/@creatingorderfromchaos
Shane's Twitter, https://twitter.com/Order_From_Ka0s
Shane's LinkedIn, https://www.linkedin.com/company/creatingorderfromchaos, https://www.linkedin.com/in/shanethrapp/
Men's ADHD Support Group, https://www.facebook.com/groups/mensadhdsupportgroup

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Oct 26, 202202:00:42
Betting on Yourself w/ Guest Paige Tonz

Betting on Yourself w/ Guest Paige Tonz

3.11 Betting on Yourself w/ Guest Paige Tonz

Today I talk with Paige Tonz, we jump right in and dive into her story of how she started out playing sports, specifically softball, in high school and then later in college. She shares about how she had a realization about her mindset that radically changed her performance during her senior year of college. What do you need to think about yourself to double your batting average? How do you continue in life once a major season of it is over? Paige and I discuss that and more.
We talk about her experience after her personal softball career was over and how she got into coaching girls, more than just regular sports techniques, but also mindset techniques to help on and off the field.
How can visualization help you improve in your personal life? How can it help you in sports? How can you learn to bet on yourself and choose yourself? Find out in this episode!
Be sure to listen to today's episode and check out Paige's website to connect with her and learn more about the amazing programs she has for girls.
Finally, remember, you can visualize and create awesomeness in your life, both on and off the field!

Today's Sponsor:
Starlight Mentoring, https://www.starlightmentoring.com/

Guest's Bio:
Paige Tonz grew up in Peoria, AZ, and began playing softball at 8 years old. She has competed at many levels; starting with rec ball, moving to club ball, and competing as a D1 athlete at Northwestern University. Her mission and goal is to help transform girls into strong women beyond the playing field or court.

Paige has worked with 1000+ athletes in her programs and workshops. She believes girls have so much opportunity to dream bigger than they ever imagined. Because sports was and still is such a big part of Paige's life, she has had a first-row ticket to see how the experiences from sports can be a vessel to success in life on and off the field.

Episode Resources:
Paige's Website, https://www.paigetonz.com/
Paige's Instagram, https://www.instagram.com/paigetonz/
Paige's Facebook, https://www.facebook.com/paigetonzmentor

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Oct 19, 202234:58
Understanding Your Kids with D.I.S.C. w/ Guest Karen Wagnon

Understanding Your Kids with D.I.S.C. w/ Guest Karen Wagnon

3.10 Understanding Your Kids with D.I.S.C. w/ Guest Karen Wagnon

Today I talk with Karen Wagnon, we start out with Karen's story of how at a business conference she had an epiphany that led to her understanding her children better and allowed her a base upon which to start building a better relationship with them. How does a business tool apply in the home? How can understanding someone's personality help you to build a better relationship with them? Karen and I discuss that and more.
We talk about her experience with her three different kids, and how it had been easy for her to deal with some of them and almost impossible with others. We also talk about how to have a family council where the children feel heard and the parents are still in charge.
How can you collaborate with your children on bedtimes and screen limits? How can listening to your kid get them to listen to you? Find out in this episode!
Be sure to listen to today's episode and check out Karen's website to connect with her and learn more about how she's helping parents connect with their kids.
Finally, remember, you can build great relationships with those around you, including your kids and/or parents!

Today's Sponsor:
Starlight Mentoring, https://www.starlightmentoring.com/

Guest's Bio:
Karen Wagnon is a certified human behavior specialist, master trainer, and parent coach. As a wife, mom, step-mom, and Nina, she discovered that the understanding of personalities is vital to a developing positive parent-child relationship and parenting by design.

Karen’s online parenting program, The Parenting Blueprint, A Plan to Parent by Design, takes parents on a journey to transform their parenting from chaos to confidence. Using the understanding of personalities as the foundation of The Parenting Blueprint, this self-paced 6-week course includes 3 months of coaching to ensure the successful transformation of your parenting style!

Karen’s first book, “My Three and Me, A Journey in Parenting by Design”, clearly defines and explains the four personality types in the DISC Model of Human Behavior. This useful guide for parents and educators that will provide anyone who works with children the necessary tools to identify common traits and apply skills to achieve positive results when working with youth.

Episode Resources:
Karen's Website, https://teachingouryouth.com/
Karen's Facebook, https://www.facebook.com/karen.colleluoriwagnon
Karen's Instagram, https://www.instagram.com/kwagnon/
Karen's LinkedIn, https://www.linkedin.com/in/karen-wagnon-35813732/
Karen's Facebook Group, https://www.facebook.com/groups/pbdwithkaren

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Oct 12, 202201:48:05
Feel + Add Value = Double Your Income w/ Guest Daniel Adams

Feel + Add Value = Double Your Income w/ Guest Daniel Adams

3.9 Feel + Add Value = Double Your Income w/ Guest Daniel Adams

Today I talk with Daniel Adams, where do I even start to describe the conversation I had with Daniel?! Wow! Soft-spoken though he be, listen up! We talk about how to double your income, how to connect with the people around you, and how to add value to people so that everyone benefits! What does feeling have to do with money? Daniel lays it out.
We talk about his experience for the first decade of marriage as he and his wife averaged $26,500 a year between the two of them, and how they were able to break past that to now earning multiple six-figures in their business, while serving people. We take a look at how their son has already started to learn some of those lessons and how anyone else can learn them too.
What does feeling the sensations of your body have to do with adding value? How can you add more value? Find out in this episode!
Be sure to listen to today's episode and check out Daniel's website to connect with him and find out more about what he and his wife do to help people double(+) their incomes.
Finally, remember, you can add value and reconnect with yourself and begin receiving more in every aspect because of it.

Today's Sponsor:
Starlight Mentoring, https://www.starlightmentoring.com/

Guest's Bio:
Daniel is the premier relationship coach in the marketplace for connective communication, freeing up emotional capital, and infusing key relationships with purpose. He’s been working with families closely for more than 10 years, and loves exploring what makes people tick.

Episode Resources:
Daniel's Website, www.TheIntimacyBridge.com
Daniel's Facebook, https://www.facebook.com/daniel.adams.923724
Daniel's Instagram, https://www.instagram.com/heydanieladams
C.R.E.A.T.O.R. Community, https://www.createprofitableliving.com/bundles/community

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Oct 05, 202201:17:12
Early Motherhood, Business and Decisions w/ Guest Giana Tralongo

Early Motherhood, Business and Decisions w/ Guest Giana Tralongo

3.8 Early Motherhood, Business and Decisions w/ Guest Giana Tralongo

Today I talk with Giana Tralongo, we talk about how to be the best you there is, why that's important to be a great mother, and various ways that could look for you. We also talk about running a business as a mom and how the decisions we make in life really change everything. What do spinning plates have to do with all of this? Giana and I talk about how those relate to all of the rest of it too!
We talk about her experience as she had just become a mother, how it affected her, and how she decided to still live her best life and be a mother. We take a look at some of the expectations that society has for women and mothers specifically while sharing a few of our thoughts on the matter.
How do you run a business and be a mom at the same time while not neglecting either? How can you get your kids to help fold the socks and make it fun? Find out in this episode!
Be sure to listen to today's episode and check out Giana's social media pages to connect with her and find out more about what she does to help moms manage their time.
Finally, remember, you can make the decisions that will determine your life and you can make it whatever you want, while still filling the roles you have for those around you.

Today's Sponsor:
Starlight Mentoring, https://www.starlightmentoring.com/

Guest's Bio:
Giana Tralongo is a time-saving strategist for busy mom business owners. Her passion is giving women permission to prioritize their business over the mundane of motherhood because when a woman does work she loves, she is a better mother, spouse, and human.

Episode Resources:
Giana's Instagram, https://www.instagram.com/gianatralongo/
Giana's TikTok, https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTdwf5BLA/

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Sep 28, 202201:18:11
The Secrets of Life and Happiness w/ Guest Johanna Godinez

The Secrets of Life and Happiness w/ Guest Johanna Godinez

3.7 The Secrets of Life and Happiness w/ Guest Johanna Godinez

Today I talk with Johanna Godinez, we talk about creation, truth, experiences, happiness and so much more in this episode! How can you have a conversation with someone who you disagree with? What is our relationship with thoughts? Johanna and I talk about that.
We talk about some of her journey and how she was always the wild child that then grew up to be a rebel with a purpose. We talk about some of her goals that she could work her whole life towards and still be excited about, and we go deep into talking about truth and the world and our relationship with everything.
How does yoga apply to your daily life? How can you use your mind to influence the world around you? Find out in this episode!
Be sure to listen to today's episode and check out Johanna's website to find some resources and learn more about the retreats and other fun stuff she's doing.
Finally, remember, you can choose to make your life what you will, what will your contribution to creation and this world be?

Today's Sponsor:
Starlight Mentoring, https://www.starlightmentoring.com/

Guest's Bio:
Considered by many to be their personal assistant for life, Johanna Godinez is a businesswoman with an MBA who has spent the last 10 years as a human success development coach. What exactly is that you may ask? As the Founder of B.A.Y. Lifestyle and Beyond Asana Yoga School, Johanna offers an innovative approach to habit development, personal/professional coaching, and lifestyle transformation; helping get clear and attract your definition of success into your life.

Episode Resources:
Johanna's Website, https://bay-lifestyle.com
Johanna's LinkedIn, https://www.linkedin.com/in/johanna-godinez
Johanna's Instagram, https://www.Instagram.com/bay_lifestylepr
Johanna's Facebook, https://www.facebook.com/johanna.godinez.52

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Sep 25, 202201:49:33
Moms Who Money w/ Guest Eileen Joy

Moms Who Money w/ Guest Eileen Joy

3.6 Moms Who Money w/ Guest Eileen Joy

Today I talk with Eileen Joy, we talk about money and how to begin saving first, using a budget to tell your money what to do and how to be the master of your money. How can you turn your money story around? How can you begin saving money? Eileen and I talk about that.
We talk about her journey, and how she went from bankrupt and broke to having a fully funded emergency fund and on track to retire early. Eileen particularly talks about how she's been able to teach her son to know more than most adults do about money.
What can an allowance teach a child? What tips do you need for money habits? Find out in this episode!
Be sure to listen to today's episode and check out Eileen's website to find some resources and learn more about what she teaches about money.
Finally, remember, you can be financially free, begin your journey now!

Today's Sponsor:
Starlight Mentoring, https://www.starlightmentoring.com/

Guest's Bio:
Eileen Joy is the money coach for moms. She shows moms how to create wealth without the sacrifice and still enjoy their lives, so they can stop living paycheck to paycheck and have a healthy relationship with money. And she shows them how to teach their kids about money so they can be set for life! Her 10-year-old son knows more about money than most adults.

Eileen is a divorced, single mom who hit rock bottom after her divorce. Eileen had to get a new house, a new car, and a new job all at the same time. She went from bankrupt and broke to now totally debt free, a fully funded emergency fund, a paid-off car three years early, and on track to retire early!

She has created an easy system that any busy and overwhelmed mom can follow and specializes in working one on one with self-led, professional moms who are committed to investing in themselves. Eileen has created a safe and comfortable environment to learn about one of the most avoided and taboo subjects, money. No more Shame, No More Guilt, and No More Embarrassment.

Episode Resources:
Eileen's Website, https://www.momswhomoney.com/
Eileen's Podcast, https://www.momswhomoney.com/podcast-1
Eileen's Instagram, https://www.instagram.com/eileenjoymoneycoach/
Eileen's Facebook, https://www.facebook.com/EileenJoyMoneyCoach/
Eileen's LinkedIn, https://www.linkedin.com/in/momswhomoney/

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Sep 14, 202201:19:44
An Idea

An Idea

What is the most powerful thing in the world? Could it be an idea? What ideas are you allowing to run your life? Are you okay with that? What ideas do you want to run your life?
Sep 09, 202208:44
Anxiety and Mental Health w/ Guest Celia Sugg

Anxiety and Mental Health w/ Guest Celia Sugg

3.5 Anxiety and Mental Health w/ Guest Celia Sugg

Today I talk with Celia Sugg, we talk about how to build a healthy relationship between your physical, mental and spiritual habits so that your mental health becomes happy instead of sad like it is for too many of us. What's the difference between experiencing anxiety and struggling with anxiety? How are fear and gratitude related? Celia and I talk about that.
We talk about her journey, how she grew up struggling with anxiety and how she was able to learn tools from the Bible to help her overcome that struggle and manage her anxiety.
How does our spirit relate to our mental health? When is anxiety good? Find out in this episode!
Be sure to listen to today's episode and check out Celia's website to find some resources and learn more about what she does with mental health.
Finally, remember, you can choose to have great mental health and overcome anxiety.

Today's Sponsor:
Starlight Mentoring, https://www.starlightmentoring.com/


Guest's Bio:
Celia is a 20-year mental health professional (LCSW) and Anxiety Coach. She helps Christians struggling with anxiety, in spite of their faith, understand the mind/body/spirit connection and master specific skills from a faith-focused, evidence-based, whole-person health perspective. She has personally overcome anxiety, helped hundreds of clients break free from anxiety, and is passionate about showing people how to stop anxiety in its tracks so that they control their anxiety instead of it controlling them!


Episode Resources:
Celia's Website, https://www.christiananxietycoach.com


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Sep 07, 202201:30:44
Intuitive Eating and Ditching the Diet Culture w/ Guest Leah Hortin

Intuitive Eating and Ditching the Diet Culture w/ Guest Leah Hortin

3.4 Intuitive Eating and Ditching the Diet Culture w/ Guest Leah Hortin

Today I talk with Leah Hortin, we talk about how to have a healthy relationship with food instead of jumping on and off of the diet bandwagon, doing all the carb counting and all that stuff. What's the difference between a "see food" diet and a "me food diet"? What is intuitive eating? Leah and I talk about that.
We talk about her journey, how she grew up learning from her mom how to diet and have an unhealthy relationship with her body, and how that turned around for both of them down the line.
What do boulders and jars have to do with habit building and implementation? How does one begin to "intuitively eat"? Find out in this episode!
Be sure to listen to today's episode and check out Leah's website to find some resources and learn more about what she does with intuitive eating.
Finally, remember, you can choose to have a healthy relationship with food and with your body.

Today's Sponsor:
Starlight Mentoring, https://www.starlightmentoring.com/

Guest's Bio:
Leah Hortin is a Certified Master Health and Life Coach specializing in helping women get off the diet rollercoaster for good. Using the principles of Intuitive Eating, she empowers women to find their food freedom, love their bodies and redefine what health means to them.

Episode Resources:
Leah's Website, https://www.chirpcoaching.com
Leah's Facebook, https://www.facebook.com/chirpcoaching
Leah's Instagram, https://www.instagram.com/chirpcoaching/

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Aug 31, 202201:13:20
Energy, Frequencies and Levels of Order w/ Guest Meghan Jones

Energy, Frequencies and Levels of Order w/ Guest Meghan Jones

3.3 Energy, Frequencies and Levels of Order w/ Guest Meghan Jones

Today I talk with Meghan Jones, we go straight to the deep end, jump right in and have a great time talking about the deep topics of energy and how it affects us and how we affect it. How is everything connected and what's our part in that? How do you finally get past the things holding you up in life? Meghan talks about that.
We talk about our journeys, how we can become healthier, and how to face the things within us. How to accept yourself for who you are, and a couple of other things in this short, yet awesome episode!
What do salt, water, and dis-ease all have to do with each other? Find out in this episode!
Be sure to listen to today's episode and check out Meghan's website to find some resources (including freebies) and find out more about what she does.
Finally, remember, you can choose to upgrade your level of order, and your energy can help you with that.

Today's Sponsor:
Starlight Mentoring, https://www.starlightmentoring.com/

Guest's Bio:
Meghan Jones is an IIN-certified holistic health coach, AFAA-certified personal trainer, and a published author of the book 30 Little Thoughts. Prior to her career in health and wellness, she has played professionally in a full-time orchestra for over 25 years.

As a health coach, Meghan looks at the relationship between her clients’ lifestyle choices & food choices, and how they both affect their health. She helps people clean up their eating & clean up their life, lower stress, and align with their worth & purpose by exploring attainable little action steps that will lead them to achieving their weight, exercise, & overall health goals.

Simultaneously, she works with her clients to discover and transform their internal mental and emotional limiting beliefs, discomforts, and any areas they seek to feel more grace, ease, & peace.

Meghan believes that every moment of every day, we can live our lives more & more on purpose.

Episode Resources:
Meghan's Website, https://www.wellnessonpurpose.org/
Meghan's Facebook, https://www.facebook.com/meghan.jones.1420/
Meghan's Instagram, https://www.instagram.com/wellness_on_purpose/
Meghan's Private Facebook Group, https://www.facebook.com/groups/eatinghealthyandfindingbalance
Meghan's Freebie she mentioned:
https://meghan-jones.mykajabi.com/free-guide-of-10-things-I-do-to-feel-physically-better-&-balanced

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Salt Frequencies Video we mentioned: https://youtu.be/wvJAgrUBF4w

The Hidden Messages in Water by Dr. Emoto: https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/Hidden-Messages-in-Water/Masaru-Emoto/9780743289801

Aug 24, 202234:42
Confidence, Clarity, Consistency & Choice w/ Guest Taylor Proctor

Confidence, Clarity, Consistency & Choice w/ Guest Taylor Proctor

3.2 Confidence, Clarity, Consistency & Choice w/ Guest Taylor Proctor

Today we get to listen to me talking with Taylor Proctor, who I met at an awesome event we were both helping to run. How can you go from being angry all the time and causing problems because of it, to becoming a happy person? Taylor did, and she talks about how she was able to do it!
We explore questions about happiness, intentionality, and decision-making. From frogs to people rear-ending your car, to how terraforming relates to business we cover a lot of ground on the 5 C's of this episode. (listen to the end to find out what the last one is, [hint, energy])
What is the difference between reacting and responding? We talk about that and how to use it to make great changes in your life.
Be sure to listen to today's episode and check out Taylor's website for her podcast and learn more about her Quantum Power Days.
Finally, remember, you can choose to change your life, and you can take the action to make it a reality!

Today's Sponsor:
Starlight Mentoring, https://www.starlightmentoring.com/

Guest's Bio:
Taylor Proctor is a confidence and content marketing expert who uses her skills as a certified mentor, a social CMO, and a serial entrepreneur to help coaches confidently create the life and business they love.

She's the host of Creating with Confidence — an internationally acclaimed podcast — and has been featured as a guest expert on 50+ podcasts, internet shows, and event stages.

She loves to read personal development books with her book club, teach content marketing strategy through her Content Cure program, and work 1:1 with clients in her premiere 6-month Mastermind program, Quantum Confidence. She believes that with confidence, everyone is capable of creating anything and everything they desire.

Episode Resources:
Taylor's Website, https://taylorproctor.com/
Taylor's Facebook, https://www.facebook.com/taylor.proctor.31
Taylor's Instagram, https://www.instagram.com/creatingwithconfidence/
Creating with Confidence Podcast, https://anchor.fm/creatingwithconfidence

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Aug 17, 202201:34:25
You Got a Story w/ Guest Todd Hansen

You Got a Story w/ Guest Todd Hansen

3.1 You Got a Story w/ Guest Todd Hansen

Welcome to Season 3 of How to Rewrite Your Stars!! I am very excited to be here with you, the faithful listener, as well as the many amazing guests that I have come on the show!


Today we get to listen to me talking with Todd Hansen, who was one of the inspirations for me to focus on the stories of the guests I have on the show. Anybody can do anything, but where did they start out and why did they choose what they're doing? Todd would focus on the stories of complete strangers on his show The Story Trek I saw various episodes of growing up.
Today the tables got flipped on Todd, and I became the one asking him questions! It was quite the experience, maybe a bit surreal even, but how Todd started out was nowhere near being a TV anchor, and wow does he have an amazing story to share! I am extremely grateful that Todd agreed to be on the show, asking him was probably the most intimidating guest I've had so far because I only knew him from TV.
We also talk about the new show that Todd is working on that premiered about a month ago, You Got a Story, which is his effort to revitalize the wonderful experience that The Story Trek was for everyone involved and this time you can be involved!
Be sure to listen to today's episode and check out Todd's website for You Got a Story so that you can watch and become involved as well!
Finally, remember, you have a story and it matters. Be willing to share it and grow it!


Today's Sponsor:
Starlight Mentoring, https://www.starlightmentoring.com/


Guest's Bio:
Todd Hansen is a 16-time Emmy award-winning TV host and executive producer.
Todd created the TV show The Story Trek for BYUTV based on his Emmy Award Winning TV news segment Trippin’ with Todd.
Todd spent 12 years as a TV news anchor and reporter.  He has also produced a nationally syndicated reality TV show, along with numerous commercials, tutorial videos, and documentaries.
Todd has worked as an anchor and reporter in Salt Lake City and Washington state and as a correspondent for the national news show The Race.
Todd and his stories have appeared on CNN, the Fox News Channel, CBS Evening News, and all major network affiliates.
In addition to speaking and coaching Todd runs a video production company and teaches online classes on Camera Confidence and How to Record Your Own Life Stories.
Todd lives in Utah with his wife Koreen. They have four daughters.


Episode Resources:
Todd's Website, http://www.storyempowered.com
You Got a Story, https://www.toddhansenlearn.com/yougotastory
The Story Trek FB, https://www.facebook.com/storytrek
The Story Trek Insta, https://www.instagram.com/thestorytrek/
Trippin' with Todd, https://www.youtube.com/trippinwithtodd


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Aug 08, 202201:12:27
Season 3 Teaser!

Season 3 Teaser!

Season 3...


Today...

Aug 08, 202200:55
Season 2 Finale w/ Guest You, the Listener

Season 2 Finale w/ Guest You, the Listener

Welcome, this week's guest You, the Listener!

Here it is folks! The season finale for season 2 of How to Rewrite Your Stars!

This episode is me talking with you and reminiscing about the great stories that have been shared over the past year and a little bit during season 2. I hope that you enjoy it!

Also, be sure to keep your eye out for season 3 in 2022!

Thanks for listening!

Benjamin Fincher

You'll find more awesome things that I do by checking out my website: Starlightmentoring.com where you can sign up to work with me as your mentor. I've recently updated my mentoring packages so that it's a lot easier to work with me! I've also got videos and links to my Facebook and YouTube pages where you can find some great posts and videos. So head on over and see what's up!!

Dec 22, 202101:02:56
Living Life to the Fullest + Vision Board Successes w/ Guest Ryan McGregor

Living Life to the Fullest + Vision Board Successes w/ Guest Ryan McGregor

Welcome, this week's guest Ryan McGregor!

Ryan is a podcast host, content creator, and performer. His day job is as a Flight Attendant so when he's traveling, he likes to experiment with making IGTV videos and taking photos. Personal qualities that he values include imagination, authenticity, respect, and ambition. He believes that if we have the courage to pursue it, we all have the potential to succeed. His appearance in a cow suit on the Netflix show Ginny & Georgia was one of the highlights of his background work. He's a carefree, laid-back person with a social media feed full of golden retriever puppies.  Links below!

Ryan and I begin by discovering that we are both fans of animals, leading into talking about how growing up was for both of us, and how Ryan decided to become a content creator as a career. He actually asked me a couple of questions throughout the episode, so I answer some questions as well, like about how homeschooling affected my mindset growing up and now. We talk about learning and becoming our own people in life and go deep on those topics. I share my 55th Vision Board success that hasn't been written down yet and we talk about manifestation for a bit. Then as we're discussing the potential that we all have and how there is an opposing force trying to stop us from achieving our potential, the power goes out for half a second and restarts my router. Hmmm... VERY interesting! After I saved off the first recording file we hop back on and finish up some of our thoughts and wrap up the episode. Thankfully the force that is for our good saved the file from the first 2 hours before the router issue!

In this season I'm talking with my guests about their story and how they've been able to "rewrite their stars" in their own life. Then after they've shared their story we transition into talking about vision boards for a little bit and I share one of the successes that I've had. Again, why I'm sharing my successes with you is to show that you can do the same thing, to use a vision board yourself and that you can rewrite your stars in your own life. Also, if you want to be a guest on my podcast, then be sure to fill out this questionnaire so that we can see about making that a reality. Because there are so many stories of people rewriting their stars, and I want to share them! https://forms.gle/obKbT739sukbrWWE6

Thanks for listening!

Benjamin Fincher

You'll find more awesome things that I do by checking out my website: Starlightmentoring.com where you can sign up to work with me as your mentor. I've recently updated my mentoring packages so that it's a lot easier to work with me! I've also got videos and links to my Facebook and YouTube pages where you can find some great posts and videos. So head on over and see what's up!!

Links to his: Website, https://www.ryanmcgregor.ca/ Instagram, https://instagram.com/ryan.m.mcgregor https://instagram.com/spillinthesyrup TikTok, https://vm.tiktok.com/ZM8vEdFaU/ Podcast, https://shows.acast.com/spillinthesyrup

Alex Boyé's song, "Bend Not Break" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0o1T_y81_DU

Dec 15, 202102:18:55
Your North Star and The Journey + Vision Board Successes w/ Guest Dan McPherson

Your North Star and The Journey + Vision Board Successes w/ Guest Dan McPherson

Welcome, this week's guest Dan McPherson!

Dan McPherson, Professional Speaker and Podcast Host, World-Class Trainer, and CEO of Leaders Must Lead, is on a mission to help Creatives and Entrepreneurs build profit and believe Dreams ARE Real. With 25+ years in corporate roles responsible for up to 2000 people and more than $150M in revenue, Dan is a recognized expert in leadership, sales, and business strategy. Links below!

Before we hit record, Dan told me that I could ask pretty much any question and he would answer as deep as I wanted to go. That is today's episode. I start out normally by asking where he came from and how he started on his journey, he shares that and I bring in some similar elements from my journey. Then I just start asking him tons of questions related to what he mentioned and his processes and so many other cool things! It goes from one thing to the next so smoothly, and yet there may not seem to be a particular path through what we talk about, but it was so amazing to talk with Dan because of how relatable he is! I share my 54th Vision Board success and Dan mentioned a similar success that he's had and we keep asking questions until we finally wrap up this amazing episode.


In this season I'm talking with my guests about their story and how they've been able to "rewrite their stars" in their own life. Then after they've shared their story we transition into talking about vision boards for a little bit and I share one of the successes that I've had. Again, why I'm sharing my successes with you is to show that you can do the same thing, to use a vision board yourself and that you can rewrite your stars in your own life. Also, if you want to be a guest on my podcast, then be sure to fill out this questionnaire so that we can see about making that a reality. Because there are so many stories of people rewriting their stars, and I want to share them! https://forms.gle/obKbT739sukbrWWE6


Thanks for listening!

Benjamin Fincher


You'll find more awesome things that I do by checking out my website: Starlightmentoring.com where you can sign up to work with me as your mentor. I've recently updated my mentoring packages so that it's a lot easier to work with me! I've also got videos and links to my Facebook and YouTube pages where you can find some great posts and videos. So head on over and see what's up!!

Links to his: Website, https://www.leadersmustlead.com Podcast, https://open.spotify.com/show/73wFmKPjSBYmnhpU2g4SzZ?si=c6d78c867f164fae LinkTree, (where you can find his other pages) https://linktr.ee/LeadersMustLead

Dec 08, 202102:04:20
Skydiving with Multiple Sclerosis + Vision Board Successes w/ Guest Kevin Payne

Skydiving with Multiple Sclerosis + Vision Board Successes w/ Guest Kevin Payne

Welcome, this week's guest Kevin Payne!

Doctor with Multiple Sclerosis loses everything he loves about life, hits bottom, and vows to reclaim his lost childhood dream of becoming a legit skydiver (600 jumps), even with all the extra challenges. Spends a decade researching how to craft a life each of us can love — even with chronic stress, pain & illness —  then writes book, teaches others, builds company (and keeps jumping out of planes for self-care). Links below!

I started this episode still not wanting to skydive just like I've thought for years, and finished it wanting to skydive. I start out by asking Kevin to clarify what exactly Multiple Sclerosis (MS) is, and then we jumped into his story. He talks about when he first wanted to skydive, to when he first actually skydived, and then when he was diagnosed with MS and gave up on skydiving, leading into when he got back into it. We talk about a lot of things in detail along that path, not the least of which, skydiving. Kevin goes into detail with almost every question I asked him, and that kept bringing new questions to mind that just kept things rolling and super engaging. He also shares about deciding to live his dream despite what doctors and those around him told him, and how that has helped to keep him going and in better health as well. Right near the end of the episode, I share my 53rd Vision Board success and Kevin gives me a new point of view on it than what I had, which was great. We wrap this one up by sharing some more details on skydiving and living your dream.

In this season I'm talking with my guests about their story and how they've been able to "rewrite their stars" in their own life. Then after they've shared their story we transition into talking about vision boards for a little bit and I share one of the successes that I've had. Again, why I'm sharing my successes with you is to show that you can do the same thing, to use a vision board yourself and that you can rewrite your stars in your own life. Also, if you want to be a guest on my podcast, then be sure to fill out this questionnaire so that we can see about making that a reality. Because there are so many stories of people rewriting their stars, and I want to share them! https://forms.gle/obKbT739sukbrWWE6

Thanks for listening!

Benjamin Fincher

You'll find more awesome things that I do by checking out my website: Starlightmentoring.com where you can sign up to work with me as your mentor. I've recently updated my mentoring packages so that it's a lot easier to work with me! I've also got videos and links to my Facebook and YouTube pages where you can find some great posts and videos. So head on over and see what's up!!

Links to his: Website, https://www.yourlifelivedwell.co/ Facebook, https://www.facebook.com/drkjpayne Facebook Page, https://www.facebook.com/YourLLWell/ LinkedIn, https://www.linkedin.com/in/drkjpayne/ Podcast, https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/your-life-lived-well/id1451872214

Nov 30, 202101:51:35
Responsibility, Choices and Life + Vision Board Successes w/ Guest Emmitt A. Savannah III

Responsibility, Choices and Life + Vision Board Successes w/ Guest Emmitt A. Savannah III

Welcome, this week's guest Emmitt A. Savannah III!

Emmitt is a husband, father of three, encourager, author, speaker, outgoing introvert, and a leader. He is passionate about empowering people to understand and lead their identities into purpose-filled lives and create true and lasting impact within their spheres of leadership and influence. Links below!

I begin by asking Emmitt what it means to be an "outgoing introvert" and he explains that. Then we dive right into his story, where he shares the struggles that he went through, including nearly committing suicide and how he was able to come back from that dark place. Emmitt goes on to talk about how we take on false beliefs about ourselves and our identities and how that affected him and can affect the rest of us. Then we get talking about life and how we all have choices and what we do with those choices. I share my 52nd Vision Board success and we talk about goals and goal setting for a little bit, including how ideas are spiritual seeds that want to blossom into amazing realities. We finish up by talking about what it means to be a leader and how to be a leader to yourself and to those around you.

In this season I'm talking with my guests about their story and how they've been able to "rewrite their stars" in their own life. Then after they've shared their story we transition into talking about vision boards for a little bit and I share one of the successes that I've had. Again, why I'm sharing my successes with you is to show that you can do the same thing, to use a vision board yourself and that you can rewrite your stars in your own life. Also, if you want to be a guest on my podcast, then be sure to fill out this questionnaire so that we can see about making that a reality. Because there are so many stories of people rewriting their stars, and I want to share them! https://forms.gle/obKbT739sukbrWWE6

Thanks for listening!

Benjamin Fincher

You'll find more awesome things that I do by checking out my website: Starlightmentoring.com where you can sign up to work with me as your mentor. I've recently updated my mentoring packages so that it's a lot easier to work with me! I've also got videos and links to my Facebook and YouTube pages where you can find some great posts and videos. So head on over and see what's up!!

Links to his: Linktree (where his book and all of his social media and other links are easily accessible) https://linktr.ee/Emmitt3

Nov 24, 202101:13:57
Marriage and Betrayal Trauma + Vision Board Successes w/ Guest Coach Jay

Marriage and Betrayal Trauma + Vision Board Successes w/ Guest Coach Jay

Welcome, this week's guest Coach Jay!

We had a very good, very deep, but also very *mature* conversation today. Be appraised.

After years of drugs, alcohol, and special ed. Mr. Jay quit school in sixth grade ultimately living on the streets falling victim to abuse after abuse. After the second gun to his temple, Mr. Jay vowed to fix himself so he could help fix others. Links below!

Coach Jay goes into a little bit of his story growing up and we talk about how your pain can become your purpose, your mess become your message. We go all over the place when it comes to marriage and relationships in our conversation. We talk about how to proactively work on your marriage, a little bit on how to "affair-proof" your marriage, and how your relationship with yourself plays into your relationship with your spouse. We both share some stories and some examples, go deep on a few of the topics, and share many insights. I share my 51st Vision Board success right at the end and we wrap this one up.

In this season I'm talking with my guests about their story and how they've been able to "rewrite their stars" in their own life. Then after they've shared their story we transition into talking about vision boards for a little bit and I share one of the successes that I've had. Again, why I'm sharing my successes with you is to show that you can do the same thing, to use a vision board yourself and that you can rewrite your stars in your own life. Also, if you want to be a guest on my podcast, then be sure to fill out this questionnaire so that we can see about making that a reality. Because there are so many stories of people rewriting their stars, and I want to share them! https://forms.gle/obKbT739sukbrWWE6

Thanks for listening!

Benjamin Fincher

You'll find more awesome things that I do by checking out my website: Starlightmentoring.com where you can sign up to work with me as your mentor. I've recently updated my mentoring packages so that it's a lot easier to work with me! I've also got videos and links to my Facebook and YouTube pages where you can find some great posts and videos. So head on over and see what's up!!

Links to his: Website, https://mrjayrelationshipcoach.com/ Facebook, https://www.facebook.com/MrJayRelationshipCoach Instagram, https://www.instagram.com/mrjayrelationshipcoach/ LinkedIn, https://www.linkedin.com/in/mrjayrelationshipcoach/ Twitter, https://twitter.com/JayRelationship Book, https://tinyurl.com/4yta7s33 YouTube, https://tinyurl.com/xfv8b4vb

Nov 17, 202101:19:34