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Henry westons old mate the podcast

Henry westons old mate the podcast

By Stuart Butler

Sobriety and mental health with some green keeping thrown in. The podcast will include some personal stories of friends and some local Kentish people.
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HWOM with PETER McCORMICK. DEPRESSION AND SOBRIETY.

Henry westons old mate the podcast Feb 19, 2022

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HWOM with Matt Ford. Man Utd woes cont......

HWOM with Matt Ford. Man Utd woes cont......

Stu is joined by one part of the gang for a catch up on all things Man Utd.
Apr 21, 202401:11:03
HWOM with Daryl Dittmer. Giving back in sobriety.

HWOM with Daryl Dittmer. Giving back in sobriety.

Stuart is joined by Daryl Dittmer. Daryl has been sober from drink and drugs for many decades and recently published his first book "When I stop fighting".

In this episode we meet Daryl and hear his story. From the lows of alcohol and drug dependence in his late teens to the inspiring ways he has been able to give back since "getting his head out of his ass".

Apr 17, 202448:52
HWOM with Paul MacCormack. Where it all began.

HWOM with Paul MacCormack. Where it all began.

Stu is joined by the mindful super himself Paul MacCormack. Over the last decade and more Paul has become a significant figure within the turf industry and the mental health aspect of the job. Paul regularly talks and lectures on the subject of mindfulness and has gained numerous qualifications within the field BUT before this there was a young Superintendent setting out on his turf journey. Long days, long years a big projects eventually led Paul to near burnout standing atop a sand dune. What happened then brings us to where we are today.
Apr 10, 202456:48
HWOM with Sam Killip. Masters week!!

HWOM with Sam Killip. Masters week!!

Stu and Sam look forward to this years first major.
Apr 08, 202443:56
HWOM with Dr John Dempsey. Stats. Can we trust them?

HWOM with Dr John Dempsey. Stats. Can we trust them?

Stu is again joined by Dr John to discuss field trials and the statistical data they provide. What is needed to produce reliable and accurate data?
The way this data is displayed and described can sometimes be misleading to the average turfie sou what should we be looking out for when presented with this information?
All this plus some chat about how the industry is managing with this prolonged winter/spring of wet weather.
Apr 03, 202441:28
HWOM with Phil Knott. What's cooking?

HWOM with Phil Knott. What's cooking?

Stu is joined by all round good bloke and Twitter (X) legend Phil Knott. The boys catch up since their last chat and learn a bit more about some of Phil's other passion including horse racing and pheasant fancying!!
Apr 02, 202453:56
HWOM with Tom Bissett. Running challenges.

HWOM with Tom Bissett. Running challenges.

Stu is joined by Tom to chat about Stu's unofficial 100 day 5k a day challenge and a few goals Tom set for himself.
Mar 27, 202454:23
HWOM with Bradley Tennant. Wages crisis?
Mar 20, 202401:08:51
HWOM with Mark Jones. Renovations now.....Really?

HWOM with Mark Jones. Renovations now.....Really?

Stu is once again joined by Mark. Stuart interviews Mark for a magazine article he is considering writing and then they get into the nitty gritty or silly season renovations!!
Mar 13, 202455:09
HWOM with Adam Garr. Living with OCD.
Mar 06, 202401:12:52
HWOM. All time Premier league XI with a twist.

HWOM. All time Premier league XI with a twist.

Stu, Dean and Phil select all time XI's with a difference. With a restriction of only 2 players per club the boys come up with some very interesting choices.
Feb 28, 202401:20:40
HWOM with Sam Killip. 1up LIV?

HWOM with Sam Killip. 1up LIV?

Sam joins Stu for more golf chat. Are LIV gaining the upper hand? Also all change at the top of the DP world tour and the R&A.
Feb 25, 202451:17
HWOM with Sam Greenhalgh. Making the most of Ohio State.

HWOM with Sam Greenhalgh. Making the most of Ohio State.

Stu is joined by Sam to talk turf and how Sam followed many UK greenskeepers into the Ohio State programme. Sam has since returned to the USA and worked at one of the countries premier venues.

Listen to hear Sams thoughts on living and working abroad and how he made it work to his advantage.
Feb 20, 202447:36
HWOM with Dave Wilber. A life in turf.

HWOM with Dave Wilber. A life in turf.

Stu is joined by turf legend Dave Wilber to talk about mental health within the turf industry. Dave shares some very honest insights into his own battles over the years along with a look back at his long and distinguished career.

Please note there is talk of suicide in this episode.
Feb 13, 202401:28:31
HWOM. Welcome to Russet Grange.

HWOM. Welcome to Russet Grange.

Stu is joined by author Crispin Aldrin to discuss "Tales from Russet Grange". Set at the fictional golf course Russet Grange the book allows us to meet the many characters that make up golf club life. From members to managers, barmen to pro's we meet them all in the chapters of this wonderfully written book.

Crispin is very honest and explains the angle his writing is coming from.

This book is not a serious reflection of golf or golf clubs.
Feb 06, 202446:03
HWOM with Mark Adamczyk. Things had to change.
Jan 30, 202401:14:36
HWOM with Mick Davie. Mental health matters.

HWOM with Mick Davie. Mental health matters.

Stu is joined by Mick Davie. A full career in turf and having run a green keeping mental health awareness Facebook group in recent years Mick is almost the perfect guest for HWOM. Please enjoy the episode.
Jan 23, 202455:11
HWOM with Mark Jones. Turf in 2024.

HWOM with Mark Jones. Turf in 2024.

Mark joins Stu again to talk about some of the current battles the industry faces. looking back over both their careers the guys discuss how things have changed and how winters are becoming a shorter period for project work based on the longer mowing season.
Jan 08, 202449:08
HWOM with Sam Killip. Jon Rahm and LIV.

HWOM with Sam Killip. Jon Rahm and LIV.

Just as we thought LIV were waining and the golfing world might be coming back together Jon Rahm makes possibly the highest profile switch yet. What could this mean for golf? Stu and Sam discuss.
Dec 28, 202353:13
HWOM. The landlords Christmas message.

HWOM. The landlords Christmas message.

Nearly 20 months after their first chat Stu is once again joined by Craig the Landlord. The boys catch up on all things social media and Craig updates us on this year's Man vs Barrel, what we can expect from the furloughed arms and a few other Christmas crackers.

Merry Christmas everyone
Dec 24, 202324:14
HWOM. 6 years of sobriety.

HWOM. 6 years of sobriety.

As Stu clocks up 6 years of sobriety Phil joins him to host and lead a chat looking back on the journey so far and a few ups and downs from 2023.

Thanks to everyone who has supported me (Stu) on my journey so far. I hope I have helped others along the way by being as honest as I can about my addiction and mental health.
Dec 17, 202359:15
HWOM Xmas Special

HWOM Xmas Special

Something fun for xmas as Stu is joined by the likely lads Phil and Dean. They rate and discuss their individual top 35 films of all time in their honest (and wrong) opinions. Stu thought long and hard and formed a serious list while sadly the other two carried out goggle searches. Enjoy.
Dec 13, 202301:29:52
HWOM with Tom Bissett. What is Health?

HWOM with Tom Bissett. What is Health?

Stu is joined by Tom to chat all things health. What defines health and can we be healthy and happy in todays society? of course we can but at what cost? should we be given more time to exercise and are kids being exposed to a healthy lifestyle enough? lots going on here.

Dec 03, 202350:54
HWOM with Eoin McGrath. What a year!!!

HWOM with Eoin McGrath. What a year!!!

Stu is joined by Eoin to chat through the monumental year 2023 has been from a physical challenge stand point. Eoin has completed a challenge in each quarter of the year and only last week finished his season with a 60km run in under 6 hours. Amazing!!
Nov 15, 202337:02
HWOM with Mark Jones. A race to the bottom.

HWOM with Mark Jones. A race to the bottom.

Stuart is once again joined by former course manager Mark jones. Mark updates us on the Morecambe golf club situation as much as he can and then helps Stu discuss the apparent failings of the current NVQ system within sports turf. The chat is rounded off by looking at why clubs are struggling to retain good staff and asks if BIGGA are doing enough to help the majority of their members working at smaller golf clubs.
Nov 12, 202358:32
HWOM. You are not alone.

HWOM. You are not alone.

Some ramblings on the current weather situation. Its tough in the industry. Some thoughts from Stu.
Nov 10, 202327:06
HWOM with Andrew Ruscoe. Going Viral.

HWOM with Andrew Ruscoe. Going Viral.

Stu is joined by Andrew Ruscoe to chat about how he recently lost his job and took to twitter in the hope of finding new employment. The positive side of people reaching out to help mixed with the trolling that comes with modern day social media.
Nov 07, 202328:41
HWOM. The impact of VAR on the modern game.

HWOM. The impact of VAR on the modern game.

Stu is joined by Phil and Dean to discuss the negative impact VAR technology appears to be having on football. Looking at how other sports use tech and seem to have a good success rate the boys look into why it seems to all be going wrong at the moment in football.
Nov 02, 202301:09:45
HWOM with Pat Jones. The ever evolving turf industry.

HWOM with Pat Jones. The ever evolving turf industry.

Stu is joined by Pat Jones to talk turf and sobriety. Pat has worked within the media side of the turf industry for thirty years and has long been a passionate advocate for superintendents and the stresses and strains of their profession. He chats with Stu about how the industry has evolved and they discuss the possible reasons why along with the positives and negatives of things such as social media.

As Pat approaches fourteen years of sobriety and Stu six they discuss the disease that is alcoholism and how's its affected both their lives.
Oct 29, 202301:11:04
HWOM with Spike and Tom. Charity run 2023. Are we ultra runners now?

HWOM with Spike and Tom. Charity run 2023. Are we ultra runners now?

Stu is joined by the two other participants who completed the whole of Kingdowns tiny little backyard ultra. Listen in to hear the boys reflections on the event.

Huge thanks to all who supported.
Oct 23, 202345:17
HWOM. I didn't get sober I got lucky. Episode 3.

HWOM. I didn't get sober I got lucky. Episode 3.

Stu continues discussing his story of sobriety and looks into how communicating better when he realised he was struggling might have helped. Topics for conversation include honesty, consistency and isolation.
Oct 12, 202359:14
HWOM with the boys. Talking shit on the ultra.

HWOM with the boys. Talking shit on the ultra.

We out the mic live!

Oct 06, 202308:16
HWOM with Tom Bissett. Back home and happy.

HWOM with Tom Bissett. Back home and happy.

Stu is once again joined by Tom to follow up on their previous chat and see what Tom's up to now he's back in the UK.
Sep 27, 202346:42
HWOM with Sam Killip. Ryder cup preview.

HWOM with Sam Killip. Ryder cup preview.

Stu, Sam and the odd technical difficulty. What more could you want?
Sep 26, 202330:30
HWOM with Phil and Dean. Bonus football chat ⚽️

HWOM with Phil and Dean. Bonus football chat ⚽️

Some serious bollocks here!
Sep 20, 202337:48
HWOM with Phil and Dean. Am I mad?

HWOM with Phil and Dean. Am I mad?

Stu is joined by long time co host Phil and friend of the Pod Dean to chat about the latest upcoming charity run. Both completed the "28 miles for cancer" with Stu last year and offer their thoughts on Stu's latest idea.

Bonus football content as the boys stayed on the line to talk all things Everton, Forest and England under Southgate.
Sep 20, 202338:56
HWOM with Mark Jones. When committees go bad. Episode 2.

HWOM with Mark Jones. When committees go bad. Episode 2.

Stu in joined by Mark Jones once again and the guys get into the meat of Mark's story. We hear all about the court case and the Judges findings.
Sep 17, 202350:59
HWOM with Mark Jones. When committees go bad.

HWOM with Mark Jones. When committees go bad.

Stu is joined by former course manager Mark Jones. Mark's career in green keeping was turned on its head when he felt he must resign from his position as course manager at Morecambe golf club. The manner in which Mark was escorted off the premises left him feeling like a criminal and he took the brave decision to pursue a case for constructive dismissal against the golf club. In episode 1 Mark explains his career in turf, how he ended up at Morecambe after a long and distinguished career in the Manchester area and the events that lead up to his day in court.
Sep 10, 202356:44
HWOM with Zach Hall-Newman. On the rise in Holland.

HWOM with Zach Hall-Newman. On the rise in Holland.

Stu is joined by a former work colleague, Zach, to discuss his career to date and how his life has progressed since making a pre Brexit move to holland. Initially making the move as a seasonal staff member Zach has moved through the ranks and is currently working as an acting head greenkeeper. Later in the episode the guys chat about mental health as ask the question "is enough actually being done" within the industry?
Sep 03, 202354:36
HWOM with Sam Killip. Sports talk. Doping and wagers.

HWOM with Sam Killip. Sports talk. Doping and wagers.

Stu is joined by Sam to talk all things sports. In light of Dylian Whites recent offence in the world of boxing the boys discuss just how clean sport really can be. Phil Mickelson loves a bet but did he bring golf into disrepute with some of his high stakes carry on?

All this and more.
Aug 20, 202356:32
HWOM with Ricky Jakes. Follow your passion.

HWOM with Ricky Jakes. Follow your passion.

Stu is joined by Ricky Jakes. An 18 year career Greenkeeper who has recently left the industry. Ricky shares his career in turf and discusses the current state of the profession/industry with Stu. Towards the end of the episode the guys discuss Ricky's new passion and profession of online nutrition coaching. Please find and follow Ricky via the links below and if you follow him on Instagram he will send you a free diet book if you mention you have listened to the episode.

Insta: @onlinephysiquecoaching
twitter: @RickyWgcgc
Aug 13, 202353:04
HWOM. Greenkeepers mental health.

HWOM. Greenkeepers mental health.

An introduction to myself and the podcast for the Facebook group offering support for the mental health of those within the green keeping industry.
Aug 05, 202338:57
HWOM with Sam Killip. The Open preview.

HWOM with Sam Killip. The Open preview.

Stu is joined by Sam ton talk all things Open golf. Why is links golf so different and who will win at Royal Liverpool?
Random boxing chat to finish.
Jul 16, 202349:06
HWOM with James Bass. Back in the hot seat!

HWOM with James Bass. Back in the hot seat!

Stu is joined by returning guest James Bass to talk about his new role as HGK at Worley Park GC in Essex.
Jul 13, 202347:51
HWOM. I didn't get sober I got lucky. Episode 2. Finding happiness in recovery.

HWOM. I didn't get sober I got lucky. Episode 2. Finding happiness in recovery.

Stu is once again joined by himself to look into how he's developed his mental strength and health in sobriety and recovery. This episode he looks into and talks about how he went about finding happiness in everyday life and the importance of that. Being content has a lot going for it. We should strive for greater things in life but take time to have a look at your current situation and surroundings as much as you can. Appreciate the now.
Jun 26, 202349:57
HWOM with Eddie Campbell. Making positive changes.

HWOM with Eddie Campbell. Making positive changes.

Stu is joined by Eddie Campbell, head Greenkeeper at Ogbourne Downs, to discuss his well travelled career to date and also some of the positive changes he has implemented into the day to day routine of work to try and maximise staff well being. A wonderful chat with a forward thinking professional.
Jun 18, 202301:06:40
HWOM with Mike Chappell. Recruitment and staff retention within the turf industry.

HWOM with Mike Chappell. Recruitment and staff retention within the turf industry.

Stu is joined by Mike Chappell, specialist recruiter, to discuss how we can best go about recruiting staff within the turf industry. Who are we competing against to attract young people? what should we look to be paying them and how do we keep them interested? Listen and find out.
Jun 12, 202356:46
HWOM with Sam Killip. The BIG LIV/PGA news. What next for world golf? What is a PIF?

HWOM with Sam Killip. The BIG LIV/PGA news. What next for world golf? What is a PIF?

Stu is Joined by Sam to discuss the biggest news to hit world golf since LIV 12 months ago. Has it really been that long?
Jun 08, 202301:05:23
HWOM with Dr John Dempsey and Lee Purvis. Fungicide use and what could the future hold without them?

HWOM with Dr John Dempsey and Lee Purvis. Fungicide use and what could the future hold without them?

Stu is joined for a turf chat by Dr John Dempsey and Lee Purvis. Both returning guests offer their thoughts on fungicide use and why we shouldn't really be wishing them away. What does the future hold without so many chemicals? listen here and find out.
Jun 04, 202348:54
HWOM. I didn't get sober, I got lucky. Episode 1.

HWOM. I didn't get sober, I got lucky. Episode 1.

Stu introduces a new mini series as he hopes to explain how he's tried to improve his mental health in sobriety. In this series Stu will attempt to discuss some of the techniques he has adopted and how they work for him. This is not a sales pitch. What has worked for one person won't necessarily
work for others.
May 28, 202356:31