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Sucias are my Favorite

Sucias are my Favorite

By Gallo Chingon

General conversations about dating, relationships, the kink community and other adult topics. Plus some basics about kink you ought to know, what it is, what it isn't.

First, CONSENT – Believe it or not, K!nk (should not) happen without it.

TRUST – you have to trust each other.

SAFETY – you have to trust that your partner will be safe.

These three together are the foundation of K!nk and with it one can safely explore their own boundaries with someone else.
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Sex Work
Sex Work
Today I talk with my new friend former sex worker, and highly ranked student in College.  It's been a few months in the making, as our schedules often conflicted. We had to settle on recording in public to be able to accomodate for each others time. You can find me on IG, TT, Snap, Twitter etc as: @CochinoChingon If you have episode ideas, or want to ask me a question, you can email me at: el.gallo@me.com or if you rather text you can hit me up at 210-627-1153.  Do NOT Call. I only answer numbers I have saved.
25:20
July 22, 2021
Healthy Relationships
Healthy Relationships
You can find me on IG, TT, Snap, Twitter etc as: @CochinoChingon If you have episode ideas, or want to ask me a question, you can email me at: el.gallo@me.com or if you rather text you can hit me up at 210-627-1153. Do NOT Call. I only answer numbers I have saved. Today I talk with my friend Bonita about healthy relationships.
39:10
July 19, 2021
Why Stop?
Why Stop?
You can find me on IG, TT, Snap, Twitter etc as: @CochinoChingon   If you have episode ideas, or want to ask me a question, you can email me at:   el.gallo@me.com    or if you rather text you can hit me up at 210-627-1153. Do NOT Call. I only answer numbers I have saved. Today I talk with my friend Bonita again, and this time we talk about kink. Specifically, Why do Doms drop the ball once things get sexual.
33:56
July 15, 2021
Unicorn Lost
Unicorn Lost
Today I talk about how I lost my unicorn. I mean, come on, what red blooded Chicano would willingly give up a Unicorn that can pick up females with ease?    The movie I was talking about, with Jeniffer Anniston, Clive Owen is Derailed     The movie title I mentioned (incorrectly) is Closer but still worth watching
25:34
July 12, 2021
My Christian Friend in Nippon
My Christian Friend in Nippon
Today I chat with my friend Steve in Japan. Sidenote, Japan is called Nippon in Japan. And today we talk a little about Christianity
35:08
July 08, 2021
My Favorite Unicorn
My Favorite Unicorn
today I talk about my favorite unicorn, what is a unicorn and what we did together that made her my favorite
26:55
July 01, 2021
Consent
Consent
Today I talk about consent and how important it is. as well as the importance of not being dismissive when talking about consent and sex
19:18
June 28, 2021
New friend
New friend
Today I talk with my new friend who happens to be friends with my sister, about kink, consent and confidence
01:08:29
June 24, 2021
Impotent Anger
Impotent Anger
This episode is late, I apologize. I was trying to figure out how to talk about my father for Father's Day, but I realized that it is simply impossible to try and quantify him in an hour or less. So this episode is just a random rant. 
11:33
June 22, 2021
Fight Club
Fight Club
Today I'm gonna talk about fights, and why I can't play fight with friends, and a little tidbit about an ability I have.
20:48
June 17, 2021
Are you having the best sex?
Are you having the best sex?
this episode is short but important. with a simple question, are you having the best sex with your current partner? if not, I have a few simple tips to make it better
13:51
June 14, 2021
Cakes Dates
Cakes Dates
a general conversation with a derby fran about dating and some of the criteria that a lot of females look for when a male approaches and interacts with females
49:43
June 10, 2021
Ghosted
Ghosted
Today I chat with yet another derby fran, Valerie Mercury. And today's topic was a mix-up/misread, but I'm glad I reached out to her none the less.
51:40
June 07, 2021
Kevin Samuels and other things
Kevin Samuels and other things
This episode I talk with my friend Bonita about dating and issues
01:29:18
June 03, 2021
Derby Cakes
Derby Cakes
Today I talk with my friend Cakes, about Roller Derby, where it's at, where it's going and can we course correct? mentioned in the Podcast https://WFTDA.org https://MRDA.org https://espn.com https://rollercon.com
41:60
May 31, 2021
Confidence
Confidence
if I could bottle up my confidence I do so in a heartbeat and give out samples. But since I haven't figured out how to do that, I'm gonna talk about how to approach females, or rather go back to basics and talk a little about hygiene
21:24
May 27, 2021
Relationships are Overrated
Relationships are Overrated
Today I have a conversation with my high school friend JB about dating and the dynamics between males and females
01:01:50
May 24, 2021
Love and Death
Love and Death
This episode is about love and death. particularly finding true love before you die and the joy of having a cheerleader
31:35
May 20, 2021
Judeo Catholic Christian Stuff
Judeo Catholic Christian Stuff
a discussion with a new friend about Judeo-Christian/Catholic relations
54:33
May 17, 2021
Being selfish is selfless
Being selfish is selfless
how to make your life easier by being selfish
11:35
May 13, 2021
I Bleed Green
I Bleed Green
This episode is about my time in the military, specifically basic training. and a few other ramblings regarding life and racism
32:15
May 10, 2021
My ♥️ and Frustration with Roller Derby
My ♥️ and Frustration with Roller Derby
Today I talk about my love and frustration with roller derby and how it could fix itself… if they can get their head out of their ass. By they I mean the Governing body of Roller Derby WFTDA as well as the derby teams and in most cases the players… I guess it kinda does sound like I have something against Roller Derby. But trust me, it is something that I love and care for deeply.
38:31
May 06, 2021
Reddit Friend
Reddit Friend
Today I talk with my friend in Japan (Nippon) for the first time over Video! Nothing to crazy, just chatting about how we met and why I remain friends with him.  You can find him on Instagram @kairu2019, you might get lucky and get a digital self-portrait like me! I would highly recommend you reach out to him for a commission, he does great fountain pen sketches.
46:27
May 03, 2021
16 Free Dinners
16 Free Dinners
This episode I talk about the time… times? that I got 16 free dinners. Now you might think less of me because I in a way defrauded someone, but if you listen closely you might hear how they were intent on defrauding me.
32:17
April 28, 2021
Herbal Medicine
Herbal Medicine
this episode I talk about my experience with legal and illegal drugs and my preference for eastern and or herbal medicine. Hopefully this will let you know that you have options besides taking a pill for problem A, and another pill to offsets problems caused by the pills for problem A.
33:56
April 26, 2021
Perceptions
Perceptions
Today I chat with a friend from high school and we discuss dating and how to navigate that in todays world.  Plus an excerpt from my time in the Army which could have been disastrous to my life.
39:51
April 22, 2021
Red Pill vs Machismo
Red Pill vs Machismo
Is there a difference between Red Pill and Machismo? well today you gon lurn. as mentioned in this episode, here are two of the thesis I mentioned. Machismo research paper by Erik Morales A Theory for the Development of Machismo by Bron B. Ingoldsby Now I know I that this episode could have been done better, and I shall.
35:06
April 19, 2021
whoami
whoami
if you're new here, the original version of this episode can be found here at the internet archive. The archived version was mostly me just rambling, backtracking and digressions. I had a difficult time keeping up, and it's my life that I'm talking about. So I re-recorded this episode so you don't get a headache trying to keep track of what I'm talking about. Today I talk about who I am and how I got to be a sex addict. I could give a little more detail here, but do you really read this? Well for the three people that do, this gets as in-depth as I objectively can about who I am and what led me to firmly believe in what I thought was "the measure of a man"
24:25
April 14, 2021
Latinx Animosity pt deux, 1st & 2nd generation Latinos
Latinx Animosity pt deux, 1st & 2nd generation Latinos
word words wordy, do you even read this? any who I'm gonna talk about 1st and 2nd gen stuff and how they deal with life
31:05
April 12, 2021
Latinx Animosity, or how I merged two different episodes into one
Latinx Animosity, or how I merged two different episodes into one
Another episode, this time I'm talking about animosity I've noticed over the years that I hadn't paid attention to, until I spoke on a friends podcast.  I recorded on my end, so you'll hear what sounds like two episodes… or not, if I did the job right. And of course who is even bothering to read this? Anywho, enjoy
29:04
April 09, 2021
3 days in LA
3 days in LA
I was in LA and managed to get together with a friend that has worked on popular shows like Rick & Morty and now with the ShadowMachine (the production company behind BoJack Horseman). But this isn't about those shows, there's a controversial question but only because others ask this to weaponize against the person (read males) being asked. In any who, I'll stop rambling here and just let you listen in.
33:12
April 05, 2021
Child Support, Paternal Rights and Paternity, Or how Family law is not concerned with family
Child Support, Paternal Rights and Paternity, Or how Family law is not concerned with family
In this episode I'm gonna talk about my experience with the Family court system and how they can adversely affect males even when they're well intentioned.
35:56
March 31, 2021
Amar y Querer, Or how a song from the 70s taught me the meaning of love almost 30 years later
Amar y Querer, Or how a song from the 70s taught me the meaning of love almost 30 years later
This episode I talk a little about my childhood and a lot about my late wife and how I learned to value love over lust. Amar y Querer by Jose Jose
44:08
March 24, 2021
I ♥️ tards, Or how the world would be a better place if we were all a little more tardy
I ♥️ tards, Or how the world would be a better place if we were all a little more tardy
This episode is just a  long winded way of explaining my solution to making the world a better place.  I get the title can be off-putting, but take a few minutes and hear me out. It'll make sense or at the very least, make you laugh.
48:43
March 17, 2021
Squid, or how I can be friends with someone from another military branch and random conversations
Squid, or how I can be friends with someone from another military branch and random conversations
So this episode was recorded from a livestream, as they usually are. But this week I have a special guest, or just guest however you wish to look at it. He's a friend and former co-worker who brought along another friend.  We'd talked about recording a Podcast together a few weeks before he moved away and now that he was visiting town we got our act together and stood around chatting for the world to see (but apparently not hear as there was an audio out issue during the livestream)
01:14:46
March 10, 2021
The worse thing you could say to a widow and the worst thing we say, OR how losing your Better Half sucks
The worse thing you could say to a widow and the worst thing we say, OR how losing your Better Half sucks
In this episode I talk about the worst possible thing you can say to a widow/widower AND the worst thing we ourselves might say or possibly think about widowhood. Plus a different perspective on widows in general, see I imagine that most people presume widows are terribly saddened at the loss of their spouse. You'd be surprised what the answer is -- find me everywhere else at https://cochinochingon.com
08:06
March 03, 2021
mom's advice, Or the best advice I got from my mom that's helped me for a few decades
mom's advice, Or the best advice I got from my mom that's helped me for a few decades
This episode was an impromptu livestream where I allowed the viewers to pick a Card labeled A, B and C which I had written a topic on the back of each. The selected card was "best advice I got from my mom" and so I rambled on for about 30 minutes and this is what I ended up with, after dealing with some technical difficulties and removing excessive silence. -- find me everywhere else at https://cochinochingon.com
14:23
February 24, 2021
Breaking up is hard to do, Or how to breakup so your ex never bothers you again unless you two have a kid
Breaking up is hard to do, Or how to breakup so your ex never bothers you again unless you two have a kid
This episode is about how to break up with your ex in a manner that will bring closure to the relationship. Instead of having to deal with a zombie that keeps popping up in your DMs.  It's really simple, essentially you break up in a way that makes it not only clear to your ex-to-be, but it also grants closure.
07:43
February 17, 2021
No Complaints, Or the funny shit females say to try and impress me and how I go about my business
No Complaints, Or the funny shit females say to try and impress me and how I go about my business
Join me for the amateur hour. In this episode I talk about the some of the things that females have said to try and impress me, or perhaps just get my attention. However, comma, I am not easily impressed. Sure, I'm easily amused, but that's something else entirely.
26:03
February 10, 2021
Theory of 100
Theory of 100
Today I talk about my theory of 100 and how to apply it into your life. This is in reference to sex and orgasms. In a future episode I'll explore a research paper on my theory.
15:25
February 01, 2021
MeToo if it's convenient, Or How there's a Darkside of MeToo and how I learned to handle it
MeToo if it's convenient, Or How there's a Darkside of MeToo and how I learned to handle it
In this episode I talk about the issues surrounding MeToo, from being harassed, falsely accused and other things related to MeToo. If you're looking for a way to get in touch with me you can find me here And ideas for episodes and suggestions are always welcome, yes even criticisms. I swear, you can't hurt my feelings.
27:28
January 23, 2021
pretendoms
pretendoms
The original version has been replaced with a video. The audio In this episode is clear and coherent. I discuss the problem with fake doms, or pretendoms
17:31
January 17, 2021