The Beauty of Conflict

Are you a superstar, an accommodator, or a separator?

In today's episode, CrisMarie Campbell and Susan Clarke, drawing from their 20 years of experience, share transformative strategies that can guide us through uncertainty and tension with grace and productivity. From the importance of storytelling for human connection to embracing behavioral changes that shift us from reactive to responsive, CrisMarie and Susan cover the multifaceted process of handling change proactively. 

Get ready to empower yourself and your teams to face change head-on, understand the negative consequences of stagnation, and dive into the Beauty of Conflict journey.

Conflict resolution is crucial for both schools and businesses, impacting productivity and morale.

In this episode, Dr. Lloyd Kilmer, COO and Founder of Performance Learning, shares insights from his decades-long career in education, highlighting the importance of addressing unresolved conflicts in schools and businesses. Dr. Kilmer discusses how restorative justice, rooted in indigenous traditions, offers a more holistic approach to resolving conflicts compared to traditional punitive measures. 

Tune in and learn how restorative justice can revolutionize conflict resolution in your school or business!

Transcending conflict and fostering understanding can be done with the help of emotional intelligence and a few practical tips.

In this episode of the Beauty of Conflict, Susan and CrisMarie have a conversation with Fred Golder about conflict resolution and the understanding of the dynamics of conflict in various contexts. In this conversation, Fred explores resolution through various factors, emphasizing acknowledging differences, advocating for emotional intelligence, and offering practical communication tips.

Listen to this episode and learn some insights and strategies for navigating conflicts constructively from Fred Golder!

Adverse Childhood Experiences are not only more common than perceived but also scientifically correlated with a range of serious health issues.

In this episode of the Beauty of Conflict, Brian Alman talks about the development of treatment solutions aligned with the ACE study, emphasizing the importance of addressing underlying issues resulting from adverse childhood experiences. He discusses how the ACE study links childhood traumas to later health issues, stressing the crucial role of integrating positive childhood experiences, promoting self-acceptance, inner work, and resolving underlying issues for comprehensive well-being.

Listen to this episode and learn from Brian Alman’s profound experiences and strategies for resolving adverse childhood experiences!

Discover the keys to navigating conflict, fostering better relationships, and achieving your goals in 2024!

In this episode of the Beauty of Conflict, Susan and CrisMarie welcome 2024 by talking about the New Year, personal development, and goal-setting. They discuss the negative impact of overdoing various aspects of life, explore the difference between empathy and compassion, share effective goal-setting strategies, and offer insights into their program, the Beauty of Conflict Journey, while underscoring the significance of addressing fears for personal growth.

Listen to this episode for a discussion on self-improvement and mindfulness with a focus on starting the new year with intention and positive change!

Discover a new perspective on stress and well-being as the world faces a crisis on this front.

In this episode of the Beauty of Conflict, Susan and CrisMarie welcome Dr. Romie Mushtaq to talk about the brainSHIFT protocol, which addresses five key areas: Sleep, Hormones, Inflammation, Food, and Technology. She addresses thyroid health, vitamin D3 for inflammation, and challenges with diets, offering practical solutions for chronic stress while emphasizing community and a message of hope.

Listen to this episode to learn about the groundbreaking brainSHIFT protocol designed to bring balance to busy brains!

Embark on a transformative journey to conflict resolution with the Beauty of Conflict on Rali!

In this episode of The Beauty of Conflict, Susan and CrisMarie talk about the launch of the journey they’ve developed in partnership with Rali. The "Beauty of Conflict" journey, with gamified content and interactive elements, aims to drive organizational change, and CrisMarie and Susan anticipate its launch in 2024 with excitement.

Tune in as CrisMarie Campbell and Susan Clarke reveal the secrets behind their gamified 'Beauty of Conflict' journey!

Change is never easy and requires personal growth and conscious living from the person seeking it.

In this episode of The Beauty of Conflict, Susan and CrisMarie discuss the challenging nature of change as a continuous process and the need for a conscious relationship with oneself throughout it. We discuss the profound influence of unconscious habits on relationships and well-being, exploring themes such as the known versus the unknown, neural maps, and the roles of the brain, emotions, and heart while highlighting the importance of play and self-compassion in facilitating change.

Listen to this episode for a thought-provoking exploration of the neuroscience of change, unveiling the power of play, self-compassion, and cultivating choice in the pursuit of personal transformation!

Are you ready to challenge your perceptions of power, privilege, and responsibility?

In this episode of the Beauty of Conflict, Susan and CrisMarie sit down with Jason Patent to talk about leadership, power dynamics, and inclusivity, subjects he dives into in his book, "Humanly Possible: A New Model of Leadership for a More Inclusive World." He discusses the nuanced dimensions of power, emphasizing the responsibility of privilege, addressing societal complexities, and highlighting the crucial role of top leadership for successful inclusivity.

Listen to this episode on the nuances of privilege, intentionality, and creating inclusive workplaces with Jason Patent!

Discover the transformative power of positive communication in reshaping workplace dynamics, one interaction at a time.

In this episode of The Beauty of Conflict, Susan and CrisMarie sit down to talk with Julien Mirivel about the concept of positive communication and his model of six key communication behaviors, which have a positive impact when adopted by leaders. He explores the positive impact of leaders adopting a model comprising six key communication behaviors while addressing challenges in feedback, emphasizing a positive ratio in relationships and strategies for cohesive team creation.

Listen to this episode and learn the roadmap for leaders to transform workplace cultures through positive communication practices!

It is possible to break free from the trauma and the patterns established in one’s past.

In this episode of The Beauty of Conflict, Susan gets to interview CrisMarie about her transformative journey with the Adult Children of Alcoholics. CrisMarie explores her challenging upbringing with an alcoholic father, delving into the enduring impact of childhood experiences on adult behavior, and emphasizing tools, meetings, and promises within her ACA journey, such as surrendering control and cultivating a loving inner parent.

Listen to this episode and listen to what CrisMarie has to share on personal growth, healing from trauma, and finding healthier ways to navigate the complexities of life with the ACA!

Ever wondered how laughter could be the key to unlocking a more mindful and emotionally balanced life?

In this episode of the Beauty of Conflict, Susan and CrisMarie have a thorough conversation with Stephanie Nash about her exploration of the relationship between body language and emotions. She underscores laughter's transformative role in mindfulness and stress reduction, alongside discussions on finding beauty, balancing solidity and fluidity, and processing emotions effectively.

Listen to this episode and join Stephanie Nash on an exploration of the fascinating connection between body language, emotions, and the transformative power of laughter!

Dive into a journey from battling a severe health crisis to mastering the art of emotional alchemy.

In this episode of the Beauty of Conflict, Susan and CrisMarie are glad to interview Carla Cohen, who discusses her stressful career in the entertainment industry, leading to a health crisis and her subsequent exploration of alternative healing and emotional intelligence. She emphasizes recognizing emotional imprints, offering virtual sessions, sharing clairsentient abilities, and highlighting the power of self-awareness and meditation in healing.

Listen to this episode to learn about the impact of stress, emotional baggage, and the transformative journey toward resilience and self-awareness!

What does it truly mean to prioritize employee well-being in today's fast-paced corporate world?

In this episode of the Beauty of Conflict, Susan and CrisMarie welcome Allessandria Polizzi to talk about the importance of prioritizing mental well-being and fostering a psychologically safe work environment. She discusses the importance of prioritizing mental well-being, emphasizing key elements of psychological health and safety, and promoting a healthy and productive work environment.

Listen to this episode to learn about the key components of creating a psychologically safe workplace!

One can learn tools for everyday life from effective athlete-coach communication and stress management.

In this episode of the Beauty of Conflict, CrisMarie welcomes Nikola Milinkovic to talk about effective communication between coaches and athletes, utilizing behavioral assessments to strengthen relationships and foster inclusive conversations. Nikola emphasizes effective communication timing, stress recognition, and coping strategies like breathing exercises and journaling for self-reflection, advocating self-acceptance and growth through embracing both inner challenges and joys.

Listen to this episode to explore the intriguing blend of sports and psychology and learn valuable tips for managing stress and fostering strong coach-player relationships!

Is a good night’s sleep the secret to a stronger relationship?

In this episode of the Beauty of Conflict, Susan and CrisMarie welcome Wendy Troxel to talk about the importance of healthy sleep in maintaining strong relationships, particularly within couples. She stresses open communication about sleep preferences, debunking the one-size-fits-all approach, and notes societal norms and gender differences' impact on relationships.

Listen to this episode to learn from Dr. Wendy Troxel about the connection between healthy sleep and healthy couples’ relationships!

Are you in search of meaning and purpose in your career?

In this episode of the Beauty of Conflict, Susan and CrisMarie interview Lori Wallace on personal growth, self-discovery, and the challenges individuals face in their lives, particularly concerning their careers and self-identities. Lori's journey from self-abandonment to embracing authenticity informs her nature-based career coaching approach, emphasizing vulnerability, adaptation to change, and the pursuit of meaning. 

Tune in and learn more about resilience and openness as crucial factors in personal growth and self-discovery!

Is There a Better Way to Divorce?

In this episode of The Beauty of Conflict, Susan and CrisMarie have an intriguing conversation with Nanci Smith about collaborative divorce and its advantages. She explains how collaborative divorce can be a positive alternative that promotes personal growth and healthy co-parenting with trust and respectful communication.

Listen to this episode to learn how collaborative practices can transform a divorce journey for the better!

It’s time to talk about the behavioral science behind psychological safety and effective leadership.

In this episode of The Beauty of Conflict, Susan and CrisMarie have a wonderful interview with Allison Manzi about the importance of creating psychological safety in corporate workplaces by balancing compassion and accountability in leadership. Her unique career path, her expertise in behavioral science, her focus on psychological safety in the workplace, and her mention of matriarchal leadership values all contribute to a conversation covering personal development, psychology, leadership, and effective communication.

Listen to this episode to learn about the significance of understanding and addressing human behavior for personal development and the corporate environment!

One can enhance overall well-being and productivity through practical tools and mindful practices.

In this episode of the Beauty of Conflict, Marcey Rader shares some of her insights and tips on productivity, health, and personal development. She introduces the Powered Path Playbook, a powerful tool to emphasize intentional scheduling, optimize meetings with breaks, and advocate a flexible and compassionate approach to habit change.

Listen to this episode and discover the keys to peak productivity and a healthier lifestyle from Marcey Rader!

There is an overlooked diversity segment in the corporate landscape, and it’s pretty big.

In this episode of The Beauty of Conflict, Susan and CrisMarie interview Meg O’Connell, discussing disability inclusion in workplaces and society. She highlights the evolving disability definition, emphasizes universal design, discusses asking for support needs, notes the benefits of remote work for disabilities, and stresses representation's significance.

Tune in and learn more about improving workplaces with disability awareness!

Storytelling can bring some helpful insights for communication and connection.

In this episode of the Beauty of Conflict, Susan and CrisMarie talk with Julienne Ryan about her experiences and insights concerning communication, storytelling, and interpersonal dynamics.

Listen to this episode to learn communication strategies to apply in our day and age from Julienne Ryan!

Let’s lead from love and embrace energetic dimensions in personal growth and business.

In this episode of the Beauty of Conflict, Susan and CrisMarie thoroughly converse with Chris Parker about their engagement with Dr. Joe Dispenza's work and integrating energetic and human dimensions into personal growth and business contexts. They share how Dr. Dispenza's teachings led to transformation, discussing energetic wholeness, its role in business, and its potential impact on teamwork in corporate environments. 

Learn how focusing on energetic unity leads to transformation within personal and professional realms in this episode!

After overcoming mental health challenges and adversity, this man is inspiring others and helping them through their journey.

In this episode of the Beauty of Conflict, Susan and CrisMarie have a fascinating conversation with coach Kevin Kearns about his journey and passion for mental health advocacy and helping people overcome challenges just like he personally did. He discusses his mental health journey, emphasizes therapy's importance, advocates exercise and well-being pillars, and encourages vulnerability and support.

Listen to this episode and learn about Kevin Kearn’s path from darkness to mental wellness advocate!

This communications professional transformed his dance moves into leadership skills.

In this episode of the Beauty of Conflict, Susan and CrisMarie have a chat with John Verrico, founder of Share Your Fire, about the importance of effective leadership, communication, and motivation in various contexts. He emphasizes understanding motivations, adapting leadership, fostering cohesion, addressing remote work, and detailing his Share Your Fire TORCH approach.

Listen to this episode and learn from John Verrico about collaborative efforts, individual empowerment, and creating an environment that motivates people to achieve common goals!

Strategic planning could present a paradigm shift in business thinking.

In this episode of the Beauty of Conflict, Susan and CrisMarie talk with Alan Weiss about strategic planning and the distinction between planning and strategy. He suggests an effective short-term strategy, prioritizing mission, vision, and values for successful decision-making while addressing remote work challenges.

Listen to this episode and learn from Alan Weiss about the key to effective decision-making in business!

Trust is the key to growing, transforming, and accelerating business.

In this episode of the Beauty of Conflict, Susan and CrisMarie interview Zain Raj about trust in business and its significance in igniting transformation and growth. He highlights the importance of this key item as a fundamental element in all businesses, emphasizing clear expectations and consistent follow-through while addressing challenges as they grow bigger. 

Listen to this episode and learn about the crucial role of trust in fostering successful business transformations!

How does one interact with a person who consistently causes chaos and conflict?

In this episode of the Beauty of Conflict, Susan and CrisMarie interview Samantha Drum about high-conflict personalities and how to handle them effectively. She discusses their characteristics and the importance of setting boundaries and managing reactions while maintaining dignity and self-control in challenging situations.

Listen to this episode to understand how to identify and manage high-conflict personalities!

There are various factors to consider when building teams in an organization.

In this Beauty of Conflict episode, Susan and CrisMarie delve into the distinction between cohesive and coherent teams. They discuss Dr. Joe Dispenza's work on stress reduction and underscore the transformative potential of coherence through heart-opening, conscious choices, and fostering innovative thinking for more productive and harmonious states in individuals and teams.

Listen to this episode to learn how well-being plays a role in how teams work within organizations!

Take a dive into deep listening with these tips from an expert! 

In this episode of the Beauty of Conflict, Susan and CrisMarie sit down with Oscar Trimboli to discuss the importance of deep listening and effective communication in the workplace. Oscar highlights storytelling's role in engaging listeners, shares tips for tuning one's listening instrument, and encourages active listening for collaborative problem-solving. 

Listen to this episode to learn how to harness the power of listening from Oscar Trimboli!

Diversity can be more impactful if we approach it with conscious communication and humor.

In this episode of the Beauty of Conflict, Susan and CrisMarie talk to Karith Foster, CEO and founder of INVERSITY Solutions, about the transformative power of conscious communication, diversity, and leadership. She emphasizes the need to expand the notion of diversity using conscious empathy in driving meaningful conversations and fostering inclusivity.

Listen to this episode and learn about Karith’s journey from stand-up to challenging stereotypes with inclusivity and empathy!

It’s time to challenge the happiness paradigm in the workplace for a better work culture.

In this episode of The Beauty of Conflict, Susan and CrisMarie chat with Tracy Brower about various aspects of happiness, identify key conditions for achieving it, and debunk commonly associated myths. Throughout this conversation, Dr. Brower breaks down the five key conditions for happiness, emphasizes psychological safety and the value of constructive disagreement, and encourages a positive perspective on work.

Listen to this episode for expert tips and insights for creating a happier work life!

Human behavior has a deep impact on business. 

In this episode of the Beauty of Conflict, Susan and CrisMarie interview Karl Purcell about behavioral science and its application in understanding human decision-making and product design. Conducting structured experiments can identify the real drivers of consumers’ behavior, so Karl discusses why behavioral science can be very valuable for a developmental product and team communication.

Listen to this episode to learn how to leverage behavioral science in product design!

Merging science and meditation helps conflict resolution by increasing mindful communication and decreasing suffering.

In this episode of The Beauty of Conflict, CrisMarie talks with Nicole Tetreault about the benefits of meditation and how it builds new neural pathways. Nicole also talks about her book, “Insight Into A Bright Mind,” which promotes a new dialogue about neurodiversity and advocates for embracing all types of minds.

Listen to this episode and learn from a neuroscientist’s perspective about mindfulness and neurodiversity in conflict!

Communications and leadership can upgrade by balancing digital and human elements.

In this episode of The Beauty of Conflict, Susan sits down with Katrin Zimmermann to talk about digital transformation, communication challenges in the workplace, and technology’s impact on human interactions. 

Listen to this episode and learn some tips to navigate digital transformation and leadership in the post-pandemic era!

How does one create behavioral change to support growth?

In this episode of the Beauty of Conflict, Susan and CrisMarie interview Michelle Handy, senior behavioral scientist and user researcher, about influencing behavior change in teams and product development. In this conversation, Michelle explains the Construal Level Theory to align behavior with long-term goals.

Listen to this episode about the many applications of behavioral science when working with product development and working teams!

Everyone's brain operates differently; what if we consider this in the workplace?

In this episode of the Beauty of Conflict, Susan and CrisMarie interview Jessica Michaels, an award-winning coach, speaker, and management training expert, about neurodiversity in business. She starts from the lessons she has gathered from her experience about the spectrum and how they reflect leadership and inclusion. She also gives some information about her upcoming book “One Size Fits None,” and advises listeners to check their assumptions and consciously break out of patterns to improve workplace settings for everyone.

Listen to this episode to learn how to make the workplace a neuro-inclusive environment!

Climbing up the ladder is about working smarter, not harder.

In this episode of the Beauty of Conflict, Susan and CrisMarie interview Jill Avey about her work supporting women who want to reach higher in the corporate world while navigating gender bias. Jill also breaks down the benefits of healthy conflict and networking for women’s influence, confidence, and assertiveness at work. 

Listen to this episode and learn tips to boost your corporate career as a woman!

Who runs the world? MOMS! 

When they thrive, the world wins; they sometimes need a few breaks. In this episode of the Beauty of Conflict, Susan and CrisMarie chat with Shonda Moralis about how mindfulness practices help busy moms create a life balance. She explains what to check within oneself, how to recognize one’s patterns, and how to practice daily to grow toward a balanced lifestyle.

Listen to this episode and learn how a little bit of daily mindfulness can go a long way!

Accountability is more than just holding somebody up to a task or behavior; it also entails having a conversation and creating a learning opportunity for both parties.

In this episode of The Beauty of Conflict, Susan and CrisMarie dissect what it takes to build an organization's accountability culture. It takes courage and practice, but trust can be built in these hard conversations, and accountability can make a beneficial impact.

Listen to this episode and learn more about how to build a culture of accountability and learning!

Life is a constant reflection exercise, and this time, we are bridging some of our favorite things. 

In this episode of the Beauty of Conflict, we are diving even deeper into Jill Bolte Taylor’s work relating it to Susan’s Memoir: Crazy, Cracked, Warm, and Deep! In this reflection exercise, Susan relates each of the characters with a part of herself and her memoir. To bring it home, Susan and CrisMarie intertwine their previous conversation with the star-studded and renowned TV show Ted Lasso.

Take a listen and actively do this exercise with your life! 

There are valuable skills to consider when dealing with conflict situations in business teams.

In this episode of The Beauty of Conflict, Susan and CrisMarie give the second part of a presentation at the TERRA Staffing Group. This time, they break down the conflict compass to provide tools for individuals and teams to respond in conflict rather than react. They explain how to use curiosity to look within oneself, one’s relationships, and one’s team when dealing with conflict in a way that brings solutions and moves the collective’s goals forward.

Tune in and learn about tools and skills to address team conflict situations!

Team conflict is inevitable, and learning how to work with it instead of diffusing it is key.

In this episode of the Beauty of Conflict, Susan and CrisMarie give the first part of a presentation about harnessing a team’s competitive advantage at the TERRA Staffing Group. They discuss the benefits of conflict, common issues employees face within teams, and the three opt-out styles they tend to recur to. 

Tune in and learn about the beauty of conflict in teams and how to reap fruits from it!

Our ego is an integral part of who we are.

In this episode of the Beauty of Conflict, Susan and CrisMarie discuss the good and bad aspects of the ego, pulling concepts from Jill Bolte Taylor and Joe Dispenza’s work to support their thoughts on managing it in different situations. They share experiences where they’ve felt these connections produce a result in their lives, including Susan’s recent teaming exercise with horses.

Listen to this episode and learn how your brain might affect your ego and how you can control it!

Our brains like rewards and avoid things that make them feel harmed or in danger.

In this episode of the Beauty of Conflict, CrisMarie has an in-depth interview with Dr. Jud Brewer about his work with anxiety and addiction patients through a mindful reward-based learning method that has awareness and curiosity at its core. Dr. Jud explains how he applies these concepts from mindfulness training to target unhealthy habits, deal with anxiety and craving, and build distress tolerance.

Listen to this episode and learn how to use these mindful skills to break free from many habits!

Opting out of conflict is the easiest way out, but it undermines a team's performance.

In this episode of the Beauty of Conflict, Susan and CrisMarie break down three common opt-out styles for people to draw upon when tension builds up toward conflict. They describe situations where every opt-out style can come out and their experiences with people within teams that go to these places. These examples help identify such behaviors and learn how to step away into more powerful and influential ways to engage with conflict.

Listen to this episode and learn how to recognize your own opt-out styles and get more power and influence by stepping out of those familiar roads!

People tend to avoid talking about feelings in business, but they are essential in decision-making.

In this episode of the Beauty of Conflict, Susan and CrisMarie discuss how locating feelings in the body can help anyone recognize and address any issues that stand in the way of the flow of business and teamwork. They share a location exercise to illustrate how anyone can reclaim their power in a relationship by being more authentic and transparent with their feelings.

Learn more about how mapping out feelings and relationships makes business and teamwork healthier and more efficient!

Let’s dive into the disciplines you can embrace to make your organization healthier.

In this episode of the Beauty of Conflict, Susan and CrisMarie break down Patrick Lencioni’s four disciplines of organizational health for you to practice when leading an organization. They explain how building a cohesive leadership team, creating organizational clarity, overcommunicating, and building effective human systems make any organization a healthier work environment.

Learn more about how to apply these four disciplines by tuning in to this episode!

Everything is connected, we are all unique, and all things matter.

In this episode of the Beauty of Conflict, Susan and CrisMarie interview Andrea Nakayama, founder and CEO of the Functional Nutrition Alliance, who talks about how she helps people understand what’s going on within their bodies with functional nutrition, precision medicine, omics, and epigenetics.

Tune in to learn more about Andrea’s functional nutrition work!