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First In, First Out with Jackie Coban

First In, First Out with Jackie Coban

By Jackie Coban

First In, First Out is a place where we go INWARD so we can go forward. We discuss passions and dreams, pains and traumas, all things personal growth, and of course, the enneagram. FIFO is hosted by Jackie Coban, a certified neuro-linguistics practitioner, enneagram expert, and life coach. Connect with us on instagram at @tablefor9coaching and www.tablefor9coaching.com
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38. What's REALLY Going on in the Middle East?

38. What's REALLY Going on in the Middle East?

Missionary Tina Sarkian & I sat down over chai lattes and our shared culture in the Middle East. What's REALLY going on there? Can there ever be reconciliation among people groups? Why do I always tell people I'm Turkish? Thanks for tuning in! // GET 10% OFF YOUR FIRST MONTH WITH BETTERHELP! Go to trybetterhelp.com/table / Follow Jackie on Instagram @Fiveftcoach / Follow Table For 9 on Instagram @tablefor9coaching / Visit our website www.tablefor9coaching.com

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37. The Art of Having a Hard Conversation

37. The Art of Having a Hard Conversation

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36. What To Say When You Don't Know What To Say

36. What To Say When You Don't Know What To Say

When tragedy strikes, when someone opens up to us, when someone is hurting -- it's hard to know what the right thing to say is ... and sometimes we settle for saying nothing at all. I'm here to lay out some DO'S and DON'TS so we can show our friends that we are there for them when they need it most. GET 10% OFF YOUR FIRST MONTH AT BETTERHELP - trybetterhelp.com/table. Follow us on instagram @tablefor9coaching. Follow Jackie on Instagram @fiveftcoach. Visit our website at www.tablefor9coaching.com
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35. Three Disciplines By Enneagram Type

35. Three Disciplines By Enneagram Type

Why do we think that eating well, being organized, and being financially literate are the markers of a disciplined person? People are not one size fits all, so neither are disciplines. In this episode I go through three disciplines that each Enneagram type can implement on a consistent basis, totaling 27 altogether. Enjoy! // GET 10% OFF YOUR FIRST MONTH WITH BETTERHELP! Go to trybetterhelp.com/table / Follow Jackie on Instagram @Fiveftcoach / Follow Table For 9 on Instagram @tablefor9coaching / Visit our website www.tablefor9coaching.com

Nov 04, 202040:29
34. Advocacy and Life After Loss

34. Advocacy and Life After Loss

TW: How important is advocacy? On this week's episode I chatted with Sam Tirone on her journey of love, loss, and advocacy after losing her fiancé to his battle with drugs. Her message is one of hope! Can't wait for you to check it out. // Sam's instagram https://www.instagram.com/samantha_tirone26/ // GET 10% OFF YOUR FIRST MONTH WITH BETTERHELP! Go to trybetterhelp.com/table / Follow Jackie on Instagram @Fiveftcoach / Follow Table For 9 on Instagram @tablefor9coaching / Visit our website www.tablefor9coaching.com

Oct 28, 202034:44
33. I Asked a Guy What He Really Wants (Among Other Things)

33. I Asked a Guy What He Really Wants (Among Other Things)

What do guys really want? Can I ever get out of the friendzone? What IS cheating exactly? I sat down with one of my best friends, Bennett, and asked him, "What do guys really want?" among other things. Thanks for tuning in! // GET 10% OFF YOUR FIRST MONTH WITH BETTERHELP! Go to trybetterhelp.com/table / Follow Jackie on Instagram @Fiveftcoach / Follow Table For 9 on Instagram @tablefor9coaching / Visit our website www.tablefor9coaching.com

Oct 21, 202001:07:47
32. Surprise! Rejection Is NOT REAL!

32. Surprise! Rejection Is NOT REAL!

Surprise, everything we thought we knew about rejection is not true! In this episode I explore the idea that rejection is an umbrella statement and empower you to expand your emotional vocabulary to communicate what is going on and find sustainable solutions.
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Oct 14, 202023:30
31. Holistic Time Management with Becca Rich

31. Holistic Time Management with Becca Rich

On this week's episode I got to chat with my friend Becca who is giving meaning to the phrase holistic time management. I love her journey of going from an engineer to her transition as a coach, what the difference is between a busy person and a person who doesn't manage their time, and so much more. CONNECT WITH BECCA Website: https://www.theholistictimecoach.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theholistictimecoach/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/theholistictimecoach/
And if you want to add a freebie to it: Want to learn how to be a good steward of your time and make the most of it? Take Becca's quick quiz to find the most impactful step you can make today. // GET 10% OFF YOUR FIRST MONTH WITH BETTERHELP! Go to trybetterhelp.com/table / Follow Jackie on Instagram @Fiveftcoach / Follow Table For 9 on Instagram @tablefor9coaching / Visit our website www.tablefor9coaching.com

Oct 07, 202034:18
30. 2020 Can STILL Be Your Year (With These 7 Tips)

30. 2020 Can STILL Be Your Year (With These 7 Tips)

Here's a secret: you can have DAYS left of a calendar year and still make sh*t happen!!!! In this episode I shared 7 things that I did this year to not feel like it was wasted, and you can use those tips to make the rest of this year incredible and set up 2021 for success! // GET 10% OFF YOUR FIRST MONTH WITH BETTERHELP! Go to trybetterhelp.com/table / Follow Jackie on Instagram @Fiveftcoach / Follow Table For 9 on Instagram @tablefor9coaching / Visit our website www.tablefor9coaching.com

Sep 30, 202033:02
29. 5 WAYS TO OVERCOME SELF-DOUBT

29. 5 WAYS TO OVERCOME SELF-DOUBT

Self-doubt = Self-mistrust! On today's episode we talk about what self-doubt looks like and five tangible, every day ways to overcome it and be your best ally. // GET 10% OFF YOUR FIRST MONTH WITH BETTERHELP! Go to trybetterhelp.com/table / Follow Jackie on Instagram @Fiveftcoach / Follow Table For 9 on Instagram @tablefor9coaching / Visit our website www.tablefor9coaching.com

Sep 23, 202022:52
28. "Friending" - All Things Female Friendships w/ Noelle Rhodes

28. "Friending" - All Things Female Friendships w/ Noelle Rhodes

Sep 16, 202040:40
27. Beta-Males and the Women Who Love Them

27. Beta-Males and the Women Who Love Them

Sep 09, 202045:52
26. Communication to Keep You Married (and Sane!) w/ Cece Heart

26. Communication to Keep You Married (and Sane!) w/ Cece Heart

On this week's episode, Cece Heart and I unpack a world of things: communication, masculine and feminine energies, and staying sane when you are in close quarters with your partner. I hope you enjoy this episode as much as I did! // GET 10% OFF YOUR FIRST MONTH WITH BETTERHELP! Go to trybetterhelp.com/table / Follow Jackie on Instagram @Fiveftcoach / Follow Table For 9 on Instagram @tablefor9coaching / Visit our website www.tablefor9coaching.com // Catch up with Cece www.ceceheart.com

Sep 02, 202044:11
25. The 4 Enneagram Triads, Stances, and Groups

25. The 4 Enneagram Triads, Stances, and Groups

Aug 26, 202022:54
24. Don't Be Afraid To Ask For Exactly What You Want

24. Don't Be Afraid To Ask For Exactly What You Want

I can't be the only one who's been there, where I am so afraid that I won't get or don't deserve what I want that I don't even know what I want anymore, let alone ask for it. Because I'm convinced that I'm not the only one, there's this podcast. Enjoy! // GET 10% OFF YOUR FIRST MONTH WITH BETTERHELP! Go to trybetterhelp.com/table / Follow Jackie on Instagram @Fiveftcoach / Follow Table For 9 on Instagram @tablefor9coaching / Visit our website www.tablefor9coaching.com

Aug 19, 202022:35